You will find that just because you have a big heart doesnt mean people appreciate you and most times people want to be around those who benefit their needs.
This world caters to thieves, cowards, liars, and narcissists. Honest, decent folks who try to be fair and compassionate are always the victims. The biggest takeaway from that to me is 'this world'. I'm going to calmly observe the lies knowing in my heart this is all an illusion.
😍 Yup! manipulators are the ones who mistake kindness for weakness.. I only give of myself according to how I feel others deserve.. I’m selfish with my energy and am much happier! 🤸🏾♀️
In this day and age being selfish isn't being mean. No it's looking out for #1 and yo if you aren't hurting anyone than I see nothing wrong with your thinking.
@@johnq4520 ❤️ thank you for this confirmation.. I have someone putting a guilt trip bc I stopped communicating, but something deep down says don’t engage, so I’m not. Like you said, I’m not hurting anyone or being malicious, I am simply protecting myself, sanity and energy 💅🏾
Being “good” to those who don’t t deserve it (users, manipulators, leeches and soul-suckers) has no benefit. You’ll spend your entire life drained, and the only benefit you’ll get is a packed funereal. Once you’re dead, everyone who used you will talk about how great of a person you were, and how you’d “give your last” for them. But here’s the kicker: 1.) They’re still here to see another day. 2.) You won’t be at the funeral to see any of this. Be good hearted, but ALWAYS put yourself first. Don’t let anyone use you!!!
🗣️5 Rules 1. Always keep it real with yourself first; others second. 2. Stay humble....watch out for fakes because they spot us good hearted people a mile away. 3. Never let others take advantage of you...trust your intuition. 4. Listen to Tyler 💯 5. Be good to one another.
When you go searching for love, they seem nowhere to be found, but when you don't, they come into your life at the perfect time. 💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
You are so right on with this message. I have been feeling like something was not what it seemed to be with a person very close to me, just my intuition that I was being taken for a fool so I went with my discernment and cut them off completely. I just found out I was right, then I see your video as more confirmation. Thank you Tyler I hope to listen to your podcasts on karma as I think I need to hear about it.
@@bryanoconnor6897 I Totally Agree With You You're Gut And intuition Will Alway's Let You Know About a Person God Will Alway's Show You Who You're Dealing With🙌🕊️🤍
Ecclesiastes 7:16-18, Dont be too good or too evil...I've been learning this lately. Edit:I wanted to say from experience, that when the user realizes you're not a fool/pushover, they try to make it seem like you were the problem.
Yea They Half Tell Shit They Will Sit Back and Watch People Talk Bad About You But Won't tell Other's What They Have Done to You , Snakes in The Grass🗣️💯👊
I always tell my kids to be kind, and it's important to at least try to be good; Don't be a people-pleaser, that's mum's job. And I'm quite firm when I am.
I never try to react to a situation. I respond. I do not do things for things (love, favors, stuff, ect). I do good and expect nothing in return. Great video Tyler. Blessings!
Tyler JTI- I have overcome the need to be nice or good over the years, it is no longer an issue. I am only nice and good to people on the job, because I want to make sure I keep getting paid. If I don't make money from it, I am not interested.
Thank you so much for this message Tyler. I'm a no nonsense type of person and it's really validating to know someone else takes life seriously. Again, thank you !!
There is a question I ask myself: If I married a beauty pageant queen today and won the powerball later this week, who would be happy for me? I have found this question weeds out the acquaintances and fake friends.
Bruh I'm literally feel like this. Karma can't be real. And I'm reminded of this everyday! Horrible people are the ones who win in life whereas decent honest people are stepped on.
I consider this man a prophet called to a higher meaning. The timing of his advice is just uncanny. I’ve learned most people don’t want your help because thats a positive sharing of energy backed by Love. They want to use you because that allows their subconscious (or troubled soul) to feel the Power of Control and Manipulation. Some people in this life they have trouble seeing and understanding Love so they pick the closest thing to ot they can comprehend, Power. I had a friend that made as much money as I do. If he could get $20 out of me even though he had the money that was a win in his book. He quite literally gained enjoyment from this.
You are,so right about this sub topic. I had a problem for a timr eith people like that until I realized I was being used for power games, hustles, let me see if I can shake him down for something. The very good thing that happened during the pandemic is the CREATOR blessed me with the spirit of boredom. In the sense that I'm just NOT interested in worldly 💩 anymore. I radiate this now. People approaching or dealing with me see the invisible boundary anf move on. Nothing to be gained here (So they think) Good
This is so true man!! Exactly and I always listen to my gut and how I feel about it myself.This is exactly what happens to me.I’ve had people that put hate on me just because I post my feelings a lot and they don’t care at all.I end up having to block them because it’s useless trying to get them to understand.
Can you do video about how so called friends associates family members try to get close to you to only to try to hurt you or hold you back from your dreams success progress the truth is one who are the closest are the main haters don’t want you to be happy and fulfill your dreams
Those are the ppl I talk to about movies, music, news, weather. Keep it surface level. No mention of my dreams, what Im working on even exercise routines
I believe that one Can only be treated Badly if one Allows it! In retrospect And I don't. if something doesn't please Me then as I see it it has No requirement in a in a sense we Only have one life so I choose too have positive people and perspectives whenever possible around Me as This brings the best out in them and Me too truthfully!
I have both a really good heart & a vicious temper. so I am good to the innocents who cross my path ❤ but anyone who tries to cross me in the wrong way is going to pay.
A few years ago, I knew someone who claimed they were my friend and they just insulted me and their other friends. I dumped this person and they lost me
I never heard it phrased that way and I love it! The irony is that they think they're "cool" for a second..(they don't do it initially but once you see that mask fall off, you'll see one delusional fuck!) Then after all that, once they see that car SPEEDING OFF past them leaving them in the dust (sometimes with their fake ass hoovers after, haha, before they blow it again), it's obvious that they aren't as cool as I thought they were! PS--if it was they who sped off from you, good! You don't need that garbage in your life. What that means is that you asserted too many boundaries for them to tolerate anymore. They did themselves in either way with that sort of behavior
Always watch the face expressions and the body language you can feel the vibration whether it's good or not what I notice any bad feelings or uneasy feeling or bad face expressions you can feel the bad vibes I can see the red flags a mile away I shut them down immediately
Tyler is always great but, this is not binary. Part of the reason why is because we are a society that increasingly feels that good = stupid. For some, it is as clear as black and white and, when they see a nice person, ignorance is assumed. As a result, a very long line of predators can form and you can spend the rest of your existence fending them off. Another is that, when you’re dealing with the narcissistic type, while it is often said that they reveal their true selves and intentions, within weeks or months, some of them are on what’s called the “long con”. People, like my mother, can take decades to reveal who they are and it isn’t entirely because you’re overlooking and dismissing red flags or don’t know how yo recognize patterns. And, speaking of parents, the people who tell you to always be kind and respectful to your parents and the people who ask you why you allowed your abusive parent to abuse you? They’re the same people. They have zero idea about covert abuse and subsequent unmasking. So, it can be quite complicated.
Awesome video Tyler like always 💯👏🏾. I'm going through this on Snapchat with Females either leaving me on delivered for days, delivered for days and they're posting online, or read people that act like this aren't worth it. Fuck them 💯. Karma doesn't miss no one. Just have to keep grinding and strive towards our goals,dreams,missions, and/or visions and leave the energy vampires behind 💯💯.
Your "gut" will always expose disingenuous individuals. Consistently practice *discernment* 🧠 in combination with *intuition* ❤️... They'll become transparent. Never allow them to close off your heart.
Just subscribed, Mr Tyler. Thank you for the content. Can you do a video on how some people (example, me) keep meeting the wrong people, such as users and losers?
Oh yes Karma does work , it may take it’s own good time coming but it will come , I have had it happen to someone who did a very bad thing to me many years ago , I didn’t need to lift a finger but I found out that Karma came to that person and when it did it was swift and very nasty I can confirm
You will find that just because you have a big heart doesnt mean people appreciate you and most times people want to be around those who benefit their needs.
Or are in need badly
Facts on top of facts. An they can see it to
💯 facts!
I listen to my inner voice all the time I watch body language face xpressions every time I walk into a store or room I know when to shut somebody down
This world caters to thieves, cowards, liars, and narcissists. Honest, decent folks who try to be fair and compassionate are always the victims. The biggest takeaway from that to me is 'this world'. I'm going to calmly observe the lies knowing in my heart this is all an illusion.
Yes you are right and that compassionate folks are the target.I want to let you know that I have sent another email to you.
@@TylerJTI Yup. Saw it and replied.
I agree
If you are too nice, they will take advantage of you, it could also send out “sucker” vibes to predators.
What is to nice to you? I only here them say your an a*shole, you don’t give me no time, you barely even call me lol
Yup
😍 Yup! manipulators are the ones who mistake kindness for weakness.. I only give of myself according to how I feel others deserve.. I’m selfish with my energy and am much happier! 🤸🏾♀️
Exactly
Good for you! I have become the same way, myself.
In this day and age being selfish isn't being mean. No it's looking out for #1 and yo if you aren't hurting anyone than I see nothing wrong with your thinking.
@@johnq4520 ❤️ thank you for this confirmation.. I have someone putting a guilt trip bc I stopped communicating, but something deep down says don’t engage, so I’m not. Like you said, I’m not hurting anyone or being malicious, I am simply protecting myself, sanity and energy 💅🏾
@@victoriasegall3404 way to go! It’s time we took our power back! ❤️
A person can smile and shake your hand, but your spiritual dreams will reveal the spirit behind that person.
Sad but true. I’m not nice, but I’m kind. I’ll help you but have become so used and cynical that once I think you’re using me you’re done.
I'm the same way, too. Once I think you're using me, I kick you to the curb.
@Colin Miller Exactly Once I see That You Only Come Around or Fuck with me When I Have Something For you Oh We're Good & Done💯
@Celestial Exactly And When They Get What They Want Out Of You You ain't Gone See Them No More or Until They Want Something Else , Fuck'em🗣️💯👊
Being “good” to those who don’t t deserve it (users, manipulators, leeches and soul-suckers) has no benefit. You’ll spend your entire life drained, and the only benefit you’ll get is a packed funereal.
Once you’re dead, everyone who used you will talk about how great of a person you were, and how you’d “give your last” for them.
But here’s the kicker:
1.) They’re still here to see another day.
2.) You won’t be at the funeral to see any of this.
Be good hearted, but ALWAYS put yourself first. Don’t let anyone use you!!!
🗣️5 Rules
1. Always keep it real with yourself first; others second.
2. Stay humble....watch out for fakes because they spot us good hearted people a mile away.
3. Never let others take advantage of you...trust your intuition.
4. Listen to Tyler 💯
5. Be good to one another.
@Jonny-H Da Don🗣️💯🙌
Its ok to be good as long as you know how not to be a fool Thank You so much for this video
When you go searching for love, they seem nowhere to be found, but when you don't, they come into your life at the perfect time.
💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
You are so right on with this message. I have been feeling like something was not what it seemed to be with a person very close to me, just my intuition that I was being taken for a fool so I went with my discernment and cut them off completely. I just found out I was right, then I see your video as more confirmation. Thank you Tyler I hope to listen to your podcasts on karma as I think I need to hear about it.
Same God Bless u and your journey💯🙏🏾
Just try to set standards & boundaries beforehand. That’s the easiest way to explain to another why you don’t give your energy to them no longer.
@@bryanoconnor6897 I Totally Agree With You You're Gut And intuition Will Alway's Let You Know About a Person God Will Alway's Show You Who You're Dealing With🙌🕊️🤍
Sometimes discernment doesn't even work cause people can be complete liars.
Facts sometimes you just gotta know how to remove yourself from toxic minded people
If one doesn't practice thier craft at discernment you will never catch thier lie.
@@Princetonx2 lmaooo 😂😂😂 the entire point of discernment is seeing through the lie
@@stars8924 you not telling me nothing I don’t know already kid
@@Princetonx2 Obviously not when you just said facts and I’m not a kid 😂😂😂
Ecclesiastes 7:16-18, Dont be too good or too evil...I've been learning this lately.
Edit:I wanted to say from experience, that when the user realizes you're not a fool/pushover, they try to make it seem like you were the problem.
They sure do
Amen
Yea They Half Tell Shit They Will Sit Back and Watch People Talk Bad About You But Won't tell Other's What They Have Done to You , Snakes in The Grass🗣️💯👊
UA-cam must be recommending me this for a reason. I wholeheartedly believe in this message
I always tell my kids to be kind, and it's important to at least try to be good; Don't be a people-pleaser, that's mum's job. And I'm quite firm when I am.
You always speak facts discernment is everything! Take care Tyler and keep up the content we love
I never try to react to a situation. I respond. I do not do things for things (love, favors, stuff, ect). I do good and expect nothing in return. Great video Tyler. Blessings!
Yeah they really are.
I agree 100 percent Tyler....You have to be the master of your own destiny.
Thankyou Brother Tyler for the message...
Sometimes the best Offense is a Great Defense...
Salute to you bro.
Oh yeah totally agree with this
And be ready to attract all the narcissists who might be around you
Lesson learned
Tyler JTI- I have overcome the need to be nice or good over the years, it is no longer an issue. I am only nice and good to people on the job, because I want to make sure I keep getting paid. If I don't make money from it, I am not interested.
Yup. Another good one Tyler. Word for word. Discernment and intuition. 👍
Always the TRUTH. I know from experience.
Likewise
7/12/2022
I want to thank you Tyler for helping me deal with these family members and other people BS and jealousy keep doing what you doing
Thank you so much for this message Tyler.
I'm a no nonsense type of person and it's really validating to know someone else takes life seriously.
Again, thank you !!
There is a question I ask myself:
If I married a beauty pageant queen today and won the powerball later this week, who would be happy for me? I have found this question weeds out the acquaintances and fake friends.
This channel surrounds my fro with a shield of armor.🛡️
👑HalleluYAH
🕊
@@victorianjohn fro sure😎
@@chrissanders3398 🖖🏾💂🏿salutation✊🏿
I got used today... then lied on... Its getting hard to believe in karma... seems like the lying people who use others are winning...
Bruh I'm literally feel like this. Karma can't be real.
And I'm reminded of this everyday! Horrible people are the ones who win in life whereas decent honest people are stepped on.
They may be...for now. Later always comes around
@@KofiCashh because Karma never rush
Im kind and generous to a select people. Only to people that are caring and empathic.
Thank you, Tyler for another truth filled video bless you Tyler
Well said Tyler brother. You have a blessed day my brother. Cheers from down under
Tyler... you are a very wise man. Cold cut truth.
I consider this man a prophet called to a higher meaning. The timing of his advice is just uncanny. I’ve learned most people don’t want your help because thats a positive sharing of energy backed by Love. They want to use you because that allows their subconscious (or troubled soul) to feel the Power of Control and Manipulation. Some people in this life they have trouble seeing and understanding Love so they pick the closest thing to ot they can comprehend, Power.
I had a friend that made as much money as I do. If he could get $20 out of me even though he had the money that was a win in his book. He quite literally gained enjoyment from this.
Well said, and much appreciated! 👍
You are,so right about this sub topic. I had a problem for a timr eith people like that until I realized I was being used for power games, hustles, let me see if I can shake him down for something.
The very good thing that happened during the pandemic is the CREATOR blessed me with the spirit of boredom. In the sense that I'm just NOT interested in worldly 💩 anymore.
I radiate this now. People approaching or dealing with me see the invisible boundary anf move on. Nothing to be gained here (So they think)
Good
Following the advise of the Holy Spirit is 🔑
Its very good point that you should not give up your goodness. Also understanding people will help. Trying to even understate them.
If you're too nice you will be taken advantage of.
I'm a remember Observe, Discern, and Intuition. I always trust my Intuition no matter what 💯. I just need to practice observing and discerning.
Great video, thanks Tyler 💯
This is so true man!! Exactly and I always listen to my gut and how I feel about it myself.This is exactly what happens to me.I’ve had people that put hate on me just because I post my feelings a lot and they don’t care at all.I end up having to block them because it’s useless trying to get them to understand.
Can you do video about how so called friends associates family members try to get close to you to only to try to hurt you or hold you back from your dreams success progress the truth is one who are the closest are the main haters don’t want you to be happy and fulfill your dreams
Those are the ppl I talk to about movies, music, news, weather. Keep it surface level. No mention of my dreams, what Im working on even exercise routines
yes agreed, been there done that, no more, better alone
Love your channel bro
I believe that one Can only be treated Badly if one Allows it! In retrospect And I don't. if something doesn't please Me then as I see it it has No requirement in a in a sense we Only have one life so I choose too have positive people and perspectives whenever possible around Me as This brings the best out in them and Me too truthfully!
Well put. You can be good, but only to the right ppl.
Wonderful!
Good Morning Tyler. I have been going through your Treasure Chest of Wisdom and is always feeling more enlighten. I Thank you!
Amen brother you speak what i always felt inside
Tell the truth brother 🙏 🙌 💯 Now they know so if they want to continue with the insanity...more power to them...
It is easier to Know ThySelf 🥰
🔥🔥🔥🔥Tyler💯
It truly seems like it,Tyler 💝
I used my intuition and discernment and ended up cutting everybody off.
I have both a really good heart & a vicious temper. so I am good to the innocents who cross my path ❤ but anyone who tries to cross me in the wrong way is going to pay.
Thank you
Damn rights it gets you used. Turning the other cheek just enables other's mistreatment and disregard.
you are super wise, sir.
A few years ago, I knew someone who claimed they were my friend and they just insulted me and their other friends. I dumped this person and they lost me
People that attempt to use people are extra corny.
I never heard it phrased that way and I love it! The irony is that they think they're "cool" for a second..(they don't do it initially but once you see that mask fall off, you'll see one delusional fuck!) Then after all that, once they see that car SPEEDING OFF past them leaving them in the dust (sometimes with their fake ass hoovers after, haha, before they blow it again), it's obvious that they aren't as cool as I thought they were!
PS--if it was they who sped off from you, good! You don't need that garbage in your life. What that means is that you asserted too many boundaries for them to tolerate anymore. They did themselves in either way with that sort of behavior
Not even corny, more like poor with low energy.
@@Scott-nr2ji Xactly.
I love u Tyler 😍😍😍
Dis is a GREAT Teaching KING👑🤴🏿
💯%Thx 4 da reaffirm edification🤺
ALL Praises 2 YAH
👑
🕊
I love tyler jti!💗
What’s up Tyler ! 💯🔥 back to back !
You are absolutely right Tyler you speak the truth I must have people don't want to hear that
Thanks alot man
No good deed goes unpunished
Always watch the face expressions and the body language you can feel the vibration whether it's good or not what I notice any bad feelings or uneasy feeling or bad face expressions you can feel the bad vibes I can see the red flags a mile away I shut them down immediately
Facts
Just subbed yesterday and you just happen to put out this title which I had problems understanding my whole life. Thanks!
Tyler is always great but, this is not binary.
Part of the reason why is because we are a society that increasingly feels that good = stupid. For some, it is as clear as black and white and, when they see a nice person, ignorance is assumed. As a result, a very long line of predators can form and you can spend the rest of your existence fending them off.
Another is that, when you’re dealing with the narcissistic type, while it is often said that they reveal their true selves and intentions, within weeks or months, some of them are on what’s called the “long con”. People, like my mother, can take decades to reveal who they are and it isn’t entirely because you’re overlooking and dismissing red flags or don’t know how yo recognize patterns.
And, speaking of parents, the people who tell you to always be kind and respectful to your parents and the people who ask you why you allowed your abusive parent to abuse you? They’re the same people. They have zero idea about covert abuse and subsequent unmasking.
So, it can be quite complicated.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Awesome video Tyler like always 💯👏🏾. I'm going through this on Snapchat with Females either leaving me on delivered for days, delivered for days and they're posting online, or read people that act like this aren't worth it. Fuck them 💯. Karma doesn't miss no one. Just have to keep grinding and strive towards our goals,dreams,missions, and/or visions and leave the energy vampires behind 💯💯.
I don't trust anyone anymore I'm fed up
💪💪💪💪
Thank you Tyler 🙏
Good Message, thank you!!!
And Mr. Tyler bro you know what your talking about. I like your videos because they're short and make sense. Take care.
you’re absolutely right
I totally agree with you
appreciate your words Tyler💞
Your "gut" will always expose disingenuous individuals. Consistently practice *discernment* 🧠 in combination with *intuition* ❤️...
They'll become transparent.
Never allow them to close off your heart.
👍
I'm so sick of HIM 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It goes to everything
😇✔️🙏
Just subscribed, Mr Tyler. Thank you for the content. Can you do a video on how some people (example, me) keep meeting the wrong people, such as users and losers?
If somebody calls me ugly to my face and I haul off and bust their teeth out will karma get me
Dear Tyler, which books would you recommend? And what 3 lessons are you talking about? I havent seen al your videos yet.
Oh yes Karma does work , it may take it’s own good time coming but it will come , I have had it happen to someone who did a very bad thing to me many years ago , I didn’t need to lift a finger but I found out that Karma came to that person and when it did it was swift and very nasty I can confirm
Good Message Tyler 👍
Truth
Yes i had one person ask me if i was jaded... it dont matter I am just not dumb because in a wk after that question Her friend was requested the mula
True
Red ♥️ flags are important
if i dont rule others others will rule over me instead.
Wow... so much time wasted
im not racist ive had black girlfriends and asian girlfriends not just white women and latinas
Just set strong boundaries
I just don't cars about people anyway