Moving into other points without finalising if or if not the non-verbal cues were enough to be interpreted as a consent was a mistake; since each of the other points were constructed on the validity of that statement. Each time both of you were coming back saying :" well, she was cuddling, spooning etc etc etc .." and the other " well, I see that, but that's not enough ..", rendering discussing whatever at hand just a reskinning of the consent initial inquiry
I think it’s an example of what guys take as confirmation vs what girls do. Guys believe that asking when you’re already getting physicals signs of reciprocation will ruin the mood/moment for her, a lot of these moments are spontaneous.
And re: Katie: this was all for attention. She was drinking and spooning with George. She made a big deal out of nothing and ends up looking foolish. He touched her stomach. That was ALL.
@@KimiMar youtube comments is the worst place to elaborate since they tend to delete any word their sponsors don't like. but cliff notes version: real SA victim here - and I'm a 100% man - what you and Caiti are doing is setting real victims back decades. especially women. this year is a repeat of the late MeToo period where 9 out of 10 allegations were 100% bull. where is your kind of zealous support for women who get marginalized and pushed out of jobs and positions in favor of dudes in dresses like Momo Mulvaney and "Lia" Thomas?
@KimiMar How about this: what you are doing is unethical and unprofessional if you actually are a therapist. To evaluate someone based on UA-cam video in this fashion is forever going to be a blemish on your reputation.
@@iBullyTipster It's not unethical to speculate on the situation. I didn't evaluate anyone's mental health, just suggested other possibilities that could be going on
@@KimiMar While providing general information and discussing potential scenarios can be informative, it's essential for therapists to be cautious when discussing specific cases or making suggestions about individuals' mental health without proper assessment. Even speculation can have unintended consequences and may not accurately reflect the complexity of an individual's situation. Therapists have a responsibility to uphold ethical standards and prioritize the well-being and privacy of their clients.
Moving into other points without finalising if or if not the non-verbal cues were enough to be interpreted as a consent was a mistake; since each of the other points were constructed on the validity of that statement. Each time both of you were coming back saying :" well, she was cuddling, spooning etc etc etc .." and the other " well, I see that, but that's not enough ..", rendering discussing whatever at hand just a reskinning of the consent initial inquiry
I think it’s an example of what guys take as confirmation vs what girls do. Guys believe that asking when you’re already getting physicals signs of reciprocation will ruin the mood/moment for her, a lot of these moments are spontaneous.
And re: Katie: this was all for attention. She was drinking and spooning with George. She made a big deal out of nothing and ends up looking foolish. He touched her stomach. That was ALL.
Oh dear, talk about destroying your own credibility without any help at all...if you're a therapist then I'm the next Pope.
I'm sorry you feel this way! Would you like to elaborate at all?
@@KimiMar youtube comments is the worst place to elaborate since they tend to delete any word their sponsors don't like. but cliff notes version: real SA victim here - and I'm a 100% man - what you and Caiti are doing is setting real victims back decades. especially women. this year is a repeat of the late MeToo period where 9 out of 10 allegations were 100% bull. where is your kind of zealous support for women who get marginalized and pushed out of jobs and positions in favor of dudes in dresses like Momo Mulvaney and "Lia" Thomas?
@KimiMar How about this: what you are doing is unethical and unprofessional if you actually are a therapist. To evaluate someone based on UA-cam video in this fashion is forever going to be a blemish on your reputation.
@@iBullyTipster It's not unethical to speculate on the situation. I didn't evaluate anyone's mental health, just suggested other possibilities that could be going on
@@KimiMar While providing general information and discussing potential scenarios can be informative, it's essential for therapists to be cautious when discussing specific cases or making suggestions about individuals' mental health without proper assessment. Even speculation can have unintended consequences and may not accurately reflect the complexity of an individual's situation. Therapists have a responsibility to uphold ethical standards and prioritize the well-being and privacy of their clients.