How to beat biphobic arguments every time | Bisexual Self Confidence Coach explains!

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  • Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
  • Biphobia is sadly all around us. Many of us deal with biphobic comments all the time and it can be incredibly difficult to deal with.
    This video gives expert advice on how to destroy biphobic arguments every single time. Learn to confront biphobia confidently and assertively with this method.
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  • @notdefining
    @notdefining  10 місяців тому +6

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  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 10 місяців тому +12

    WELCOME BACK! Let’s get our boxing gloves ready against Biphobia. Let’s be ‘bash’ full.

  • @Ephebvs
    @Ephebvs 10 місяців тому +8

    My hubby who's bi, told me about the fact that dolphins only reproduce in bisexual orgies hahaha!

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  10 місяців тому +8

      Very true. All animal species that have ever been studied show a very common incidence of bisexuality. In fact it’s completely commonplace in nature.

    • @Ephebvs
      @Ephebvs 10 місяців тому

      @@notdefining I believe bisexuality is more common in nature than homosexuality, although some gay penguins pair forever. Apes, primates fight for territory and sometimes the winner tops the one who lost the fight as a symbol of status, power, similarly to human prisons.

  • @SakanaDrawing
    @SakanaDrawing 10 місяців тому +10

    Im just starting to fully accept that im bisexual, but have been mostly been met with biphobia online and it has really been difficult. I had hoped i would feel welcomed into the lgbtq community but now i have been left with a sad feeling in my stomach... i never realised how big of a problem this is.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  10 місяців тому +5

      Hey there. Thank you for sharing what you’ve been going through. We are so proud of you and you are so warmly welcome and loved here in this community. 🩷🩷🩷

    • @kalimadasa9378
      @kalimadasa9378 10 місяців тому

      * SO they can Waltz off to Tartarus

  • @panthersworld5587
    @panthersworld5587 10 місяців тому +7

    No matter what happens some people still don't understand some are still unaware some people still don't want to accept it some knew but just don't want to deal with it can never control what the world would do to us

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  10 місяців тому +3

      Very true. It is up to us to own our own happiness and confidence in that world. They will catch up eventually when they realise they can’t bring us down.

    • @panthersworld5587
      @panthersworld5587 10 місяців тому

      @@notdefining yep

    • @Biggest_Luisa_Fan
      @Biggest_Luisa_Fan 10 місяців тому +1

      @@notdefining Love this!!! ^^

  • @dkgaming1842
    @dkgaming1842 10 місяців тому +3

    I feel so left out as a bi person, especially at PRIDE events they always skip over bi when shouting out the different LGBTQ 😅🥹

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  10 місяців тому +3

      I know it’s wild. Well you’re not left out here.

    • @kalimadasa9378
      @kalimadasa9378 10 місяців тому +1

      Agreed . Absolutely immediately. I am me 100% of the time. I am very forward about the fact that I'm bisexual. I have every reaction under the sun. From "Yay!". To " oh... You're just greedy.". 🤣. If someone reacts badly, that has nothing to do with me, and everything to do with them.

    • @rhythmoflove2
      @rhythmoflove2 9 місяців тому +1

      As a bi queer woman, I do NOT support pride! Why should I support a group of people who h.te or question my reality?
      🩷💜💙

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 10 місяців тому +11

    5:56 THANK YOU FOR ARTICULATING THIS! Not everything is negotiable and has a middle ground. A lot of bigots (and centrists) use that as an excuse to be ‘contrary’ which is dangerous.

  • @Public.Enemy.Number1
    @Public.Enemy.Number1 10 місяців тому +3

    I don't care what others think because why should I, what do I gain from people being blatantly hatful.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  10 місяців тому +1

      Exactly. Love this energy.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 10 місяців тому +5

    7:00 Where were you a few days ago when I was fighting with a troll? Although I did feel I gave it back to them. Sorry but I am petty.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  10 місяців тому +2

      Hey that’s okay. We all get drawn in sometimes. As long as we are conscious of it. The question to ask is; am I in control of this or am I being controlled? We want the former. Then you can’t get hurt.

  • @Biggest_Luisa_Fan
    @Biggest_Luisa_Fan 10 місяців тому +3

    I keep trying to post a longer comment I wanted to say but UA-cam keeps deleting it.😭 Oh well...in short, what I wanted to say is that I absolutely love the points you made here and they are all something we should live by!!

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  10 місяців тому +3

      Hey omg thank you for saying. I’m so glad you liked the video. Thank you for being here and for your lovely comment. It made my day.

  • @elicordero4019
    @elicordero4019 6 місяців тому +1

    As a bisexual man the lifestyle is hard because of the somewhat double standard.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  6 місяців тому

      Hey thanks for saying. I totally feel you.

  • @immortalsirens4644
    @immortalsirens4644 2 місяці тому

    Love the bis, reminds me of alec gunter, bi bulletproof confidence😍😍😍😘🐻👑🧜‍♂️👑

  • @essaeldridgeYoBro
    @essaeldridgeYoBro 6 місяців тому +1

    Please help me.
    I was watching another UA-cam channel and someone bi said they played both sides.
    As a femme non binary person I kinda saw that as erasure of anyone who’s not on the binary.
    I know lots of bi people are actually inclusive and not transphobic, but in my opinion this was.
    Whether it’s erasure or ignorance I found it offensive and when I challenged it, nothing was said.
    So bi is meant to mean two or more?

  • @immortalsirens4644
    @immortalsirens4644 2 місяці тому +1

    Love ur channel and handsome face slay❤🧡💛💚💙💗💖💕, biggots r badically deniel of wats infront of them good allies will realise ur not just being a biggot ur sayn different ppl dojt exhist etc thats disrespectful humans r humans r more complex then biggotry fanrasy a grey boring world of no color😂😅🤣 fight the good fight arm urself with authentic self u exhist unless they can jump into ur brain and feelings then they get it etc. Good difference🦄👑🏡💤

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  2 місяці тому

      Hey thanks so much for your lovely comments. So glad you’re here with us.