A few things I want to clarify before the comments come in: 1. Nothing wrong with ANY career choice you choose for yourself (it’s your life and that’s none of my business) when discussing being called a stripper/escort repeatedly by old rich women it felt like it had racist undertones and stereotypical. That’s why I was always stunned to hear that. 2. You can want a provider and still be a strong successful woman as well! If you want to stay at home and not work COOL, if you want to chase the bag COOL. Either way a man in your life should PROVIDE and alleviate burdens.. or else why is he there ? 3. Be passionate and unapologetic not everyone is going to agree with you and that’s OKAY. You need to like and love yourself and nurture the relationships where people do value you ❤ Love you all stay blessed and different
@@ciaramaegreat question, I would love Hailey to do a video on her mental glow up journey. Be it a natural growth that came with time or if it’s more attributed to her life experiences/situations she’s been in, or books she’s read
Whenever people want to bring up "modest dress" and "dressing sexily", it's important to think about racial bias. Categorically, people tend to over-sexualize and fetishize women of color. If you are built a certain way a "modest" item of clothing might still "look sexy" on you, but you should not be confined by or weighed down by people's perceptions and projections. People who want what you have will always look for a way to degrade or discredit!
I got married at 18 years old and then had two kids at 19 & 20. My last child was born when I was 26. Now, I’m 34 and almost done with law school, working in a law firm. My kids are teens or almost teens and I love my life. I’ve been with my man for 16 years. Everyone has different timelines. You do you boo, and everything will fall into place.
Yuppp. That story about your mom is very much true and believable because it happens everyday. I use to work with a RN who only worked one shift a month and is married to a very very respectable Harvard Neuro Vascular Surgeon. Her RN peers hateeeeeee her and she is the kindest person. So sad. Some people can be very rude, envious, jealous, & insecure
Love it! I admire the beautiful RN that got married to the rich baseball player here in my city. I could never be mad at someone proving that it can be done how inspiring!!
I’ll be 18 in march, I’m preparing now to enter into high value women hood. Working out, eating good, dressing better, styling my hair, getting in touch with my spirituality, educating myself, and letting go of everything that doesn’t serve me. And yes there are people who don’t like it, but it doesn’t bother me, my dreams are bigger than my fear of people.💕💕💕 Thank you 🙏
You better have less body count too before you call yourself ‘’high value women’’. High body count doesn’t make you high value woman at all, it downgrades your value, a tip…..High value means: self-respect, loyal, empathetic, supportive, less body counts, no cheating, taking care of yourself. Those things make you high value. Same goes to men….
@@JamFlava1 She doesn't need to have less body count to become a high value woman. It doesn't degrade her worth! A high value woman truly knows her worth and what she does with her body is none of your business, respectfully!
@@_.successdivaSigh…Another delusional woman who doesn’t know what a high value means. Sigh….No point to argue with an delusional person. Have a nice day.
“When you are different, it scares them.” 💯 Being someone that has put myself last so many times & allowed people to penetrate my aura, I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS! Since I turned 27 this past September, I’ve felt this pulling on my heart to truly put myself first & 100% be unapologetic about it. You’re such an inspiration Hailey and your videos are always so on point. ❤️ I can tell it’s genuine! “We are high level, not eye level” I LOVE IT!! 💕🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
“Keep your classy girl hat on” I LOVE THIS ENERGY SO MUCH. “Make the rest of your life, the best of your life”. “Now is the time for my vanity” AMEN SIS.
I regret all the time that it took me THIS long 30 years old to realize how to move without being sorry , having boundaries and love myself and stand in my confidence. I’m learning but I’m loving who I am becoming and where I’m going especially ❤🎉
Love how you mentioned it’s never too late to put yourself first. As a woman in my mid 30s I constantly remind myself that today is a great day to start something new; there is no age limit or time limit to self improvement.
As someone who has always been misunderstood, especially by other women, this video spoke to my soul. Thank you so much Hailey for showing up for yourself and for us. As an ever-evolving woman and one who wants to make content creation a career, you are truly inspiring. ❤️ Also, I would love a video about how you navigate the dating scene as this higher version of yourself and the standards every self respecting woman should have (+ subtle red flags in men to look out for).
Hailey all hail the queeeen. She's back and she's giving. You've been so so so great at sharing your tips. Your voice is uplifting and your speech and confidence has me re evaluating everything at 32. I'm starting and it's never too late so thank youuu and keep thriving. It's so good to see your videos pop up in my notifications. Much Love from Cairo, Egypt formerly living in NYC.
i needed this video cuz i have been dealing with such nasty bitter older women & i can’t lie, it was hurting me. & this message definitely helped me get my groove back
Just found your channel, and the more I listen the more I like your vibe! I often find self improvement content can be too focused on looking the part, being independent and impressing people, but you actually mention healing trauma, treating others with respect, being responsible, and taking time away from social media. I’m about to turn 27 on the 27th, and this is the path for me!🌹
I was working on myself in silence. I rewrite my story, and people could not take it. Jealousy is real but I learned how to deal with it. Great advice.
THANK YOU ❤ I intuitively know that it's finally time for me to stop gaslighting myself. For years, I have wondered why people perceive me differently than others. I've allowed that to cause chronic self-doubt, always blaming myself, thinking I'm being selfish/cocky, self-sabotaging & allowing others' perceptions to keep me smaller. Your videos are such a sweet cherry on top, acting as encouragement to this journey of mine where I finally empower myself & embrace my rarity. I hope every woman watching chooses to do the same, thank you Hailey 😘 so much love 🙏🏻✨️
Great inspiration! I am 36 and just had a baby girl. It wasn't planned. But I feel so blessed. Trying to come to terms I might need to leave the relationship with the baby's daddy because of his drinking problem. Gives me the guidance to be more confident.
Miss Hailey, girl you put this video out at the perfect time! I just turned 27 a few days ago and I was having a mini life crisis about how I’m about to be 30 and I don’t feel like a grown woman. Watching this really helped me so thank you for the tough love!! (You look amazing btw)
Salut 👋👋Hailey! I can relate to your story about living in an affluent neighborhood as a POC and being gossiped about. I too was living in one of the nicest, predominantly Caucasians neighborhoods in Austin, TX. People used to give me the looks every time I would go for a walk. Granted, I am a dark-skinned, bearded black man with strong facial features. To many people, that is "intimidating" or "threatening". I have seen women grabbing their purses when I get into the elevators. Little do they know I am such a softy I couldn't hurt a butterfly let alone a human being lol, unless I have to defend myself. I could tell people where dying to know what I was doing for a living do be able able to afford that lifestyle. Great video as usual!
Friends like Hailey are the only kinda friends I want around me. To be loving but will tell you the truth because you want each other to grow. Love you Hailey
"Sometimes you win when you don't play." that hit so hard because I've been doing this since grade school I used to always carry myself a certain way and when people tried to do stuff to aggravate me I did not engage with them because even though I wasn't confident, I knew a little of what I was worth and made a stand on that and trust I will continue to do so now that I have a better understanding of it thanks again digital aunty ❤❤
Sometimes I feel I have a certain energy that draws people to me naturally. I’ve definitely down played myself and become very shy because I’ve convinced myself I’m not THAT special. You explaining a maven and how to be confident with class & grace.. extremely helpful! Thank You Hailey 💛
That is so true. I am naturally a confident person but i think society definitely made me more timid. I like that reminder to respond to any negativity in a graceful way, we don’t need to justify ourselves to others. This video feels like a hug because sometimes i take negativity so personally and it really weighs me down but I will use some of these tips and I know it will be much easier to handle if I am aware of these things. Thanks Hailey 🙏
This video was so affirming ! I have experienced a lot this year and it’s difficult for me to not internalize the negativity from others when I’m just being myself. I’m on the right track !
I completely agree. Usually people that are jealous take their own insecurities out on the person they are jealous of. So keep being confident and shine on. That means you’re doing something right if you have some haters!
My mom would always say to me that someone could have more than you but still be envious of you because they see how you carry yourself and how others admire you so protect your energy. People will try to lower your standards because they know that's the only way they have a chance.
I think what you said about how people perceive different bodies and how they dress is really important. I often limit myself from some things because of how my curvier body is perceived
I’m so proud of your success! It’s so admiring seeing you elevate. I love how you stand in your truth and you are unapologetic! As an empath I’m currently working on not caring too much of others feelings and caring more about my own. Thank you for always inspiring us !✨
Queen!!! Hailmas is already the gift that keeps on giving because you are giving us back to back content. You didn’t have to come this hard on the first day but I love that you did. This was the basis of my internal glow up in 2023 and what I had to reaffirm to myself through therapy. It’s crazy that people will throw dirt on your name/character and expect you to dim your light to find comfort in their lack, excuses, and shortcomings. Thanks for reminding us to adjust our crowns 👑
I just can’t get enough of your video’s! I’m 23 and slowly trying to adopt more feminine energy and way of living into my daily life. It was difficult to verbalise all of my thoughts and feelings especially when it comes to outgrowing your own friends or habits, until I found these videos so thankyou for being an immense influence and teacher ❤
When you’re chosen, you don’t get to move like everyone else! Thank you Hailey for another amazing video 🫶🏼 I always watch your videos when I’m getting ready for my day lol 🥰
I have always kept my dating standards high, I have seen so many women in my life be the “superhero” who does it all and I decided that generational curse must be broken
Yes, yes, and yes! I really appreciate that you felt comfortable opening up a bit more about your parents experience and how that has affected you. We all deserve the best in both ourselves and in our partners. (I also love the new editing style.)
I truly resonate with your content bc I always felt the odd ball out not necessarily being one to fit in. I'm a creator and Im finally deciding to walk my path and not give in to false narratives. Girl you are my top 5 people I surround myself with. It's feels good to know there are like minded individuals like myself
"We are high level not eye level" -- this is a true gem! 💎 trying to tune out all the noise from people who have something negative to say...especially from family members. Patience is something I'm working on too since I want all my dreams now. Embodying the woman I want to be is definitely helping me get there ✨️
Thank you Hailey for your helpful advice! Yes to no drama/giving haters reactions, yes to putting that energy into our own goals and lives, gracefully and authentically✨
I swear you give the perfect advice. I have absolutely become a new person and I have your videos to thank for the push. I am getting certifications and taking classes, planning a wellness business, taking dance classes, yoga classes, working out, reading more, eating better. The list could go on and on. You are an amazing light for those who don't really know how to see the path they are on.
Looking back at this video and being home for the holidays, I will say being raised by folks with certain standards or ways of being make a WORLD of a difference. The expectations set and the examples made truly affect those around you, those who watch & look up to you, and those who come after you.
Hailey, Your videos have been saving my life lately. My favorite part of the day is going into youtube and finding your videos in my news feed. I mostly do this while I’m cooking, cleaning up, driving, getting ready, etc. it instantly makes the task I’m doing, more enjoyable. Each one I click, aligns with my current self work. You’ve become my internet sister and you don’t even know it 😭 Thank you Thank you Thank you! God bless you
Hailey, your UA-cam videos on self-care and embracing feminine energy is absolutely incredible! The way you effortlessly blend wisdom with practical tips is truly inspiring. Your insights on nurturing oneself and tapping into our inner strength through adapt feminine energy are invaluable. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and empowering us to prioritize self-care. Your channel is a breath of fresh air. Keep shining, Hailey! 🌸✨
Out of all of the content creators in your niche that I follow, the way you speak resonates with me the most. It’s the woman-loving, no-bs, empowering realness ! I feel like you are my longtime friend that I’ve been needing in my life! Ever since I started watching your channel I’ve been leveling up day by day. Miss girl if you ever made a podcast one day I will be TUNED IN !!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us ❤
I think u need to wrap around your head how much your content has saved me. Has made me feel more connected to my higher self and how affirming it is to actually know I deserve all my desires. Thank you for existing and thank u for the free content it’s so appreciated and I adore u so much may god continue to bless u and may god continue protecting you and your gentle gentle heart. I LOVE YOU.
I have been in my season of isolation this last month (which was also my birthday) and ive watched a lot of self development vidoes. Yours Hailey is the first that made me say yes and nod to my screen! Ive taken notes and honestly your videos have been incredible in my journey, thank you, i am ready to step into this new season! ❤
Hailey... I love you. You are literally speaking to me like literally this was meant for me the universe put this video in front of me at the right time is how I'm feeling. what you've said in this video are the conclusions that I've been drawing at this point of my life. I'm 25... how you are only a year older yet so freaking wise is crazy to me. what a special human being you are. you really are one of a kind
This is such valuable advice - I literally took notes! Everything you said is so on point - patience is a virtue, and thick skin is developed through getting burnt and it is crucial for anyone thriving for a life of abundance and success
hailey, you and your channel are one of the biggest blessings that the universe put in my life. every time you post, it’s divine timing for me ❤❤❤ fav creator fr 🤞
I've been a subscriber for a long time and I just love that whenever I come to your channel the vibes are always amazing. In 2024 I'm showing up as the TRUE me unapologetically. I realized I've been shrinking myself in all aspects of life. I'm ready for this new season where I am no longer afraid to be HER and to be different.
You are definitely my tribe! Thank you for this video. Lately I’ve been down because as much as I’m constantly working on myself , it’s difficult to find like-minded individuals. Especially women. Unfortunately my bubble (native Miamian) is full of low vibrational haters and that’s tacky! Anyway this definitely gave me a much needed boost of energy. All the best 💖💖💖
Really needed this today!!! I sometimes come back to your videos to remind myself that my self worth is only determined by me and since I’m younger (19F) I want to surround myself with positivity to create the life I dream of having! Thank you ❤
“Be high level not eye level” babbee.Standing ovation😮💨 👏🏾This resonates so deeply bc not everyone has to meet your gaze for you to feel like your improving in life. Like making moves in silence is so refreshing and demands no attention from anyone but yourself. Period Hailey💅🏾 Merry Hailmas!!
SO encouraging wow. Never really noticed how much people switch up when you are intentional about elevating- excellent point. It really makes other uncomfortable to see people be different than them
Had to come back and re watch this video again. I am so obsessed with leveling up, and you are a huge part of it. I'm not kidding when I say you have changed my life for the better. I was already working on healing, but you helped me get to a place in the journey I hadn't touched before. So grateful for you
Wow! Hailey I just want to thank you so much. You are truly an amazing person and I appreciate every video you make in efforts to help women of all ages. I'm 22 years old, and you have helped guide me an many ways along my journey. Very touching video, I swear idk how I would make it through my twenties without a big sister guidance from you. Much love Hailey! may god continue to bless you.
The beginning is what I needed to hear!!! This year is going to be full of amazing things!! I do feel like I am different, but at times I don't want to stand out and do the most, but my pastor this weekend said " God qualifies the called and equips those who he has chosen". I felt this message has a lot of correlation to this video! You are killing these videos!!💖
Love your content! I turned 50 in 2023 and I love your vibe. It’s a blessing to be able live your life the way you are NOW. It’s taken me so long to feel like this and I’m starting now to create my best life with zero fucks given.
“When you are different it scares them” .. I always thought of it as something negative since my main goal was to be liked by others. Thank you for reminding me that it is good to be different 💛
I keep coming up against so many obstacles in my life in the last few months. Your videos are helping me stay determined to keep trying! My goals are achievable
Love you Hailey, love your insights on these topics.Please keep up your amazing work.The fact that people whom you thought once cared about you just change and gets judgemental when you level up is so true, but instead of getting bothered we need to shine on and not shrink for anyone!
“I’m not gonna get out of character”- some of the best advice I’ve ever heard. No matter how hard you try people will always think and say what they want. So I had to learn the hard way to be the bigger woman
I haven’t had the time to comment on all videos because I listen to your videos while I’m out walking delivering the mail so I’m here doing my due diligence lol But I just have to say Hailey I really appreciate the time, love and dedication you put into your videos girl. You are truly inspiring. ❤ One thing I’m trying to remind myself that it is okay to be myself. It’s ok to be different. That was one thing I loved about myself before having my son, everyone would say it to me. But since then I lost that but I’m getting back to me and it is SCARINGGG ppl
Awh girl you’re so right about kids I used to do dance in the mirror all the time when I was little and when bad stuff was going on at home I’d just go walk for hours, so I just started doing the same stuff again.. the things feeling comfortable with your own body does for you is insane.
Hailey I just wanna say thank you for everything. I’ve never followed and watched someone on UA-cam that’s felt so spot on with EVERYTHING before. When you explain your past experiences, I FEEL THE EXACT SAME WAY! When you give advice I feel like it’s the big sister or woman figure I truly never had. I feel safe when I watch you and I feel immense amount of comfort. I love love love you. ❤️ your aura and who you are is such an amazing person. I’m so happy I got to see your glow up in real time because it gives me the motivation to do the same. All my life I’ve been distracted and didn’t have the confidence to go after my goals in life. Running into your channel has truly been a blessing. You uplift my day and I even start my mornings getting ready listening to your videos. Thanks so much for all you do. Cheers to you and all of us for shining ✨ in 2024
A few things I want to clarify before the comments come in:
1. Nothing wrong with ANY career choice you choose for yourself (it’s your life and that’s none of my business) when discussing being called a stripper/escort repeatedly by old rich women it felt like it had racist undertones and stereotypical. That’s why I was always stunned to hear that.
2. You can want a provider and still be a strong successful woman as well! If you want to stay at home and not work COOL, if you want to chase the bag COOL. Either way a man in your life should PROVIDE and alleviate burdens.. or else why is he there ?
3. Be passionate and unapologetic not everyone is going to agree with you and that’s OKAY. You need to like and love yourself and nurture the relationships where people do value you ❤
Love you all stay blessed and different
I love the way you explained this! New sub here! Thank you for this amazing video!
Off topic but what music do you listen to?/ Playlist
“Be passionate and unapologetic…” This is the reminder I needed to hear Hails
I’m rewatching your videos and I was just wondering how you became so wise? X
@@ciaramaegreat question, I would love Hailey to do a video on her mental glow up journey. Be it a natural growth that came with time or if it’s more attributed to her life experiences/situations she’s been in, or books she’s read
“It is not your job to be liked, it is your job to like yourself.” -Hailey Gamba
I need this on a shirt STAT @Hailey Gamba
Couldn’t have said it better!
YES!!!
Periodt
We need a coffee table book of her quotes!
Whenever people want to bring up "modest dress" and "dressing sexily", it's important to think about racial bias. Categorically, people tend to over-sexualize and fetishize women of color. If you are built a certain way a "modest" item of clothing might still "look sexy" on you, but you should not be confined by or weighed down by people's perceptions and projections. People who want what you have will always look for a way to degrade or discredit!
THANK YOU! couldn’t have said it better myself ❤
Preach!!!!
I always tell everyone this! Thank you! 🙌🏾
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I got married at 18 years old and then had two kids at 19 & 20. My last child was born when I was 26. Now, I’m 34 and almost done with law school, working in a law firm. My kids are teens or almost teens and I love my life. I’ve been with my man for 16 years. Everyone has different timelines. You do you boo, and everything will fall into place.
Being liked is something that has had me in a chokehold for a very long time. Starting to rise up
"High level not eye level" is literally going to be my vibe this year. Love that for me.
“It is not your job to prove your point, it is your job to just keep stunting.” Period Hailey!
Yuppp. That story about your mom is very much true and believable because it happens everyday. I use to work with a RN who only worked one shift a month and is married to a very very respectable Harvard Neuro Vascular Surgeon. Her RN peers hateeeeeee her and she is the kindest person. So sad. Some people can be very rude, envious, jealous, & insecure
It’s truly sad !! But the name of the game ❤
Sounds like we know the same woman . I admired her lol I want to be just like that
Jealousy is so real and so sad
Love it! I admire the beautiful RN that got married to the rich baseball player here in my city. I could never be mad at someone proving that it can be done how inspiring!!
Purrr that’s so good
“wildly misunderstood & strongly disliked by some ppl” is so on point 🎯
I’ll be 18 in march, I’m preparing now to enter into high value women hood. Working out, eating good, dressing better, styling my hair, getting in touch with my spirituality, educating myself, and letting go of everything that doesn’t serve me. And yes there are people who don’t like it, but it doesn’t bother me, my dreams are bigger than my fear of people.💕💕💕 Thank you 🙏
This is me rn i turned 18 two days ago so I really have to get in my grown women bag
You better have less body count too before you call yourself ‘’high value women’’. High body count doesn’t make you high value woman at all, it downgrades your value, a tip…..High value means: self-respect, loyal, empathetic, supportive, less body counts, no cheating, taking care of yourself. Those things make you high value. Same goes to men….
You go girl!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 So proud of you for being this conscious at such a young age ❤
@@JamFlava1 She doesn't need to have less body count to become a high value woman. It doesn't degrade her worth! A high value woman truly knows her worth and what she does with her body is none of your business, respectfully!
@@_.successdivaSigh…Another delusional woman who doesn’t know what a high value means. Sigh….No point to argue with an delusional person. Have a nice day.
“When you are different, it scares them.” 💯 Being someone that has put myself last so many times & allowed people to penetrate my aura, I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS! Since I turned 27 this past September, I’ve felt this pulling on my heart to truly put myself first & 100% be unapologetic about it. You’re such an inspiration Hailey and your videos are always so on point. ❤️ I can tell it’s genuine!
“We are high level, not eye level” I LOVE IT!! 💕🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Obsessed with: “We are high level, not eye level” Thank you Hailey ♥
“Keep your classy girl hat on” I LOVE THIS ENERGY SO MUCH. “Make the rest of your life, the best of your life”. “Now is the time for my vanity” AMEN SIS.
Becoming the best version of myself by 2024 and I know it. Thanks to Hailey
I regret all the time that it took me THIS long 30 years old to realize how to move without being sorry , having boundaries and love myself and stand in my confidence. I’m learning but I’m loving who I am becoming and where I’m going especially ❤🎉
Yasssss same here
@@ibstayfly In it together we got it 😘💕
@@KaySparza periodt 💯
“ God will prepare a table next to your enemies one day and it’s going to be a way more fruitful table” I CRIED
‘Having friends who desire different things doesn’t have to be bad, as long as you respect one another’
Love that
I have been saying this for years but I guess people finally starting to catch on❤
Love how you mentioned it’s never too late to put yourself first. As a woman in my mid 30s I constantly remind myself that today is a great day to start something new; there is no age limit or time limit to self improvement.
As someone who has always been misunderstood, especially by other women, this video spoke to my soul. Thank you so much Hailey for showing up for yourself and for us. As an ever-evolving woman and one who wants to make content creation a career, you are truly inspiring. ❤️
Also, I would love a video about how you navigate the dating scene as this higher version of yourself and the standards every self respecting woman should have (+ subtle red flags in men to look out for).
Thank you so much! And of course I might do one like it in hailmas ❤
Same! I watch her and feel like let me stop playing and just go for it. This is def my girl right here.
Hailey all hail the queeeen. She's back and she's giving. You've been so so so great at sharing your tips. Your voice is uplifting and your speech and confidence has me re evaluating everything at 32. I'm starting and it's never too late so thank youuu and keep thriving. It's so good to see your videos pop up in my notifications. Much Love from Cairo, Egypt formerly living in NYC.
Means a lot to me ! It’s never too late and the level up is continuous ❤
i needed this video cuz i have been dealing with such nasty bitter older women & i can’t lie, it was hurting me. & this message definitely helped me get my groove back
They’re bitter because your beautiful and strong, expect it to happen and be happy that your not them ❤
Remember that what other people think about you is not important but what is important is what you think about yourself
Just found your channel, and the more I listen the more I like your vibe! I often find self improvement content can be too focused on looking the part, being independent and impressing people, but you actually mention healing trauma, treating others with respect, being responsible, and taking time away from social media. I’m about to turn 27 on the 27th, and this is the path for me!🌹
Thank you for noticing babes ! Happy to have you here ❤❤
I was working on myself in silence. I rewrite my story, and people could not take it. Jealousy is real but I learned how to deal with it. Great advice.
THANK YOU ❤ I intuitively know that it's finally time for me to stop gaslighting myself. For years, I have wondered why people perceive me differently than others. I've allowed that to cause chronic self-doubt, always blaming myself, thinking I'm being selfish/cocky, self-sabotaging & allowing others' perceptions to keep me smaller. Your videos are such a sweet cherry on top, acting as encouragement to this journey of mine where I finally empower myself & embrace my rarity. I hope every woman watching chooses to do the same, thank you Hailey 😘 so much love 🙏🏻✨️
It’s important us different girlies stick together! Never shrink yourself babe ❤❤
👏🏽👏🏽 preach
Great inspiration! I am 36 and just had a baby girl. It wasn't planned. But I feel so blessed. Trying to come to terms I might need to leave the relationship with the baby's daddy because of his drinking problem. Gives me the guidance to be more confident.
Miss Hailey, girl you put this video out at the perfect time! I just turned 27 a few days ago and I was having a mini life crisis about how I’m about to be 30 and I don’t feel like a grown woman. Watching this really helped me so thank you for the tough love!! (You look amazing btw)
Thank you so much babe ! And I’m so happy the video resonated ❤
Salut 👋👋Hailey! I can relate to your story about living in an affluent neighborhood as a POC and being gossiped about. I too was living in one of the nicest, predominantly Caucasians neighborhoods in Austin, TX. People used to give me the looks every time I would go for a walk. Granted, I am a dark-skinned, bearded black man with strong facial features. To many people, that is "intimidating" or "threatening". I have seen women grabbing their purses when I get into the elevators. Little do they know I am such a softy I couldn't hurt a butterfly let alone a human being lol, unless I have to defend myself. I could tell people where dying to know what I was doing for a living do be able able to afford that lifestyle. Great video as usual!
Friends like Hailey are the only kinda friends I want around me. To be loving but will tell you the truth because you want each other to grow. Love you Hailey
"Sometimes you win when you don't play." that hit so hard because I've been doing this since grade school I used to always carry myself a certain way and when people tried to do stuff to aggravate me I did not engage with them because even though I wasn't confident, I knew a little of what I was worth and made a stand on that and trust I will continue to do so now that I have a better understanding of it thanks again digital aunty ❤❤
Sometimes I feel I have a certain energy that draws people to me naturally. I’ve definitely down played myself and become very shy because I’ve convinced myself I’m not THAT special. You explaining a maven and how to be confident with class & grace.. extremely helpful! Thank You Hailey 💛
This made me cry, thank you for uplifting the community. Love you down girl, needed this
That is so true. I am naturally a confident person but i think society definitely made me more timid. I like that reminder to respond to any negativity in a graceful way, we don’t need to justify ourselves to others. This video feels like a hug because sometimes i take negativity so personally and it really weighs me down but I will use some of these tips and I know it will be much easier to handle if I am aware of these things. Thanks Hailey 🙏
Yesss my momma always told me to kill the jealousy with kindness & class😌
Oh I turn 30 in a couple weeks and let me tell you, I needed to hear a lot of this. I'm ready for some big changes
This video was so affirming ! I have experienced a lot this year and it’s difficult for me to not internalize the negativity from others when I’m just being myself. I’m on the right track !
I completely agree. Usually people that are jealous take their own insecurities out on the person they are jealous of. So keep being confident and shine on. That means you’re doing something right if you have some haters!
My mom would always say to me that someone could have more than you but still be envious of you because they see how you carry yourself and how others admire you so protect your energy. People will try to lower your standards because they know that's the only way they have a chance.
I think what you said about how people perceive different bodies and how they dress is really important. I often limit myself from some things because of how my curvier body is perceived
Entering my unapologetic era. It does take isolation to work on the mindset that allows us to be unapologetic.
Other people's opinion of you should never matter but your own opinion of self should.🌟
Obsessed with you!!! “We are high level not eye level” Thank you Hailey for inspiring me to never get too comfortable!!
I’m so proud of your success! It’s so admiring seeing you elevate. I love how you stand in your truth and you are unapologetic! As an empath I’m currently working on not caring too much of others feelings and caring more about my own. Thank you for always inspiring us !✨
Thank you so so much! It takes a minute to get her but so grateful for it ❤
You are absolutely incredible. This energy is saving me from devolving into the bad examples I have around me.
Queen!!! Hailmas is already the gift that keeps on giving because you are giving us back to back content. You didn’t have to come this hard on the first day but I love that you did. This was the basis of my internal glow up in 2023 and what I had to reaffirm to myself through therapy. It’s crazy that people will throw dirt on your name/character and expect you to dim your light to find comfort in their lack, excuses, and shortcomings. Thanks for reminding us to adjust our crowns 👑
I just can’t get enough of your video’s! I’m 23 and slowly trying to adopt more feminine energy and way of living into my daily life. It was difficult to verbalise all of my thoughts and feelings especially when it comes to outgrowing your own friends or habits, until I found these videos so thankyou for being an immense influence and teacher ❤
i don’t ever comment on videos, but i’ve been so obsessed with all your videos and you! ❤
Thank you babe ❤❤
I think it is so beautiful that young ladies can find guidance like this these days. Especially with entering the work place. Thank you Hailey!
Love listening to Hailey when I’m working out!!!! Game changer
When you’re chosen, you don’t get to move like everyone else! Thank you Hailey for another amazing video 🫶🏼 I always watch your videos when I’m getting ready for my day lol 🥰
I have always kept my dating standards high, I have seen so many women in my life be the “superhero” who does it all and I decided that generational curse must be broken
I swear Hailey is like the big sister and bestie that you never had. Thank you so much for all of your knowledge and tips babe! 💖
Yes, yes, and yes! I really appreciate that you felt comfortable opening up a bit more about your parents experience and how that has affected you. We all deserve the best in both ourselves and in our partners. (I also love the new editing style.)
I truly resonate with your content bc I always felt the odd ball out not necessarily being one to fit in. I'm a creator and Im finally deciding to walk my path and not give in to false narratives. Girl you are my top 5 people I surround myself with. It's feels good to know there are like minded individuals like myself
"We are high level not eye level" -- this is a true gem! 💎 trying to tune out all the noise from people who have something negative to say...especially from family members. Patience is something I'm working on too since I want all my dreams now. Embodying the woman I want to be is definitely helping me get there ✨️
Thank you Hailey for your helpful advice! Yes to no drama/giving haters reactions, yes to putting that energy into our own goals and lives, gracefully and authentically✨
I swear you give the perfect advice. I have absolutely become a new person and I have your videos to thank for the push. I am getting certifications and taking classes, planning a wellness business, taking dance classes, yoga classes, working out, reading more, eating better. The list could go on and on. You are an amazing light for those who don't really know how to see the path they are on.
Looking back at this video and being home for the holidays, I will say being raised by folks with certain standards or ways of being make a WORLD of a difference. The expectations set and the examples made truly affect those around you, those who watch & look up to you, and those who come after you.
Hailey,
Your videos have been saving my life lately. My favorite part of the day is going into youtube and finding your videos in my news feed. I mostly do this while I’m cooking, cleaning up, driving, getting ready, etc. it instantly makes the task I’m doing, more enjoyable. Each one I click, aligns with my current self work. You’ve become my internet sister and you don’t even know it 😭 Thank you Thank you Thank you! God bless you
Hailey, your UA-cam videos on self-care and embracing feminine energy is absolutely incredible! The way you effortlessly blend wisdom with practical tips is truly inspiring. Your insights on nurturing oneself and tapping into our inner strength through adapt feminine energy are invaluable. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and empowering us to prioritize self-care. Your channel is a breath of fresh air. Keep shining, Hailey! 🌸✨
I just turned 20 and I’m glad I came across your channel a few weeks ago because it’s definitely changed my thinking❤️
Hands down my favorite video this year!!!! Thank you sis
“there is an art to responding to negativity.” period! 💕
As someone who just started their life, I needed this video. Thank you!!
Out of all of the content creators in your niche that I follow, the way you speak resonates with me the most. It’s the woman-loving, no-bs, empowering realness ! I feel like you are my longtime friend that I’ve been needing in my life! Ever since I started watching your channel I’ve been leveling up day by day. Miss girl if you ever made a podcast one day I will be TUNED IN !!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us ❤
I think u need to wrap around your head how much your content has saved me. Has made me feel more connected to my higher self and how affirming it is to actually know I deserve all my desires. Thank you for existing and thank u for the free content it’s so appreciated and I adore u so much may god continue to bless u and may god continue protecting you and your gentle gentle heart. I LOVE YOU.
Keep spreading love and positivity ❤❤❤❤
I have been in my season of isolation this last month (which was also my birthday) and ive watched a lot of self development vidoes. Yours Hailey is the first that made me say yes and nod to my screen! Ive taken notes and honestly your videos have been incredible in my journey, thank you, i am ready to step into this new season! ❤
Genuinely proud of you Hailey, you have no idea how much you’re helping everyone who watches you.
Hailey... I love you. You are literally speaking to me like literally this was meant for me the universe put this video in front of me at the right time is how I'm feeling. what you've said in this video are the conclusions that I've been drawing at this point of my life. I'm 25... how you are only a year older yet so freaking wise is crazy to me. what a special human being you are. you really are one of a kind
This is such valuable advice - I literally took notes! Everything you said is so on point - patience is a virtue, and thick skin is developed through getting burnt and it is crucial for anyone thriving for a life of abundance and success
hailey, you and your channel are one of the biggest blessings that the universe put in my life. every time you post, it’s divine timing for me ❤❤❤ fav creator fr 🤞
I appreciate you so much 🥹🫶🏽
You didn’t have to go this hard! Hailmas was really full of love, inspiration and facts. This was the perfect intro into 2024.
I've been a subscriber for a long time and I just love that whenever I come to your channel the vibes are always amazing. In 2024 I'm showing up as the TRUE me unapologetically. I realized I've been shrinking myself in all aspects of life. I'm ready for this new season where I am no longer afraid to be HER and to be different.
You are definitely my tribe! Thank you for this video. Lately I’ve been down because as much as I’m constantly working on myself , it’s difficult to find like-minded individuals. Especially women. Unfortunately my bubble (native Miamian) is full of low vibrational haters and that’s tacky! Anyway this definitely gave me a much needed boost of energy. All the best 💖💖💖
Really needed this today!!! I sometimes come back to your videos to remind myself that my self worth is only determined by me and since I’m younger (19F) I want to surround myself with positivity to create the life I dream of having! Thank you ❤
I love the fact that ppl being mean to others for no reason is something we have in common, makes me feel less crazy and alone.
“Be high level not eye level” babbee.Standing ovation😮💨 👏🏾This resonates so deeply bc not everyone has to meet your gaze for you to feel like your improving in life. Like making moves in silence is so refreshing and demands no attention from anyone but yourself. Period Hailey💅🏾
Merry Hailmas!!
I honestly can’t wait to see what 2024 brings with all these foundation building videos you’ve been putting out for all of us ❤
This video has so many bars! No BS! The realest video I have watch in years! Girl! I’m in my late 40’s. I appreciate this so much! This is my vibe!
SO encouraging wow. Never really noticed how much people switch up when you are intentional about elevating- excellent point. It really makes other uncomfortable to see people be different than them
Are you reading my mind babe? Everything you have been posting has been everything I’ve needed. I appreciate you, for you being YOU❤
Had to come back and re watch this video again. I am so obsessed with leveling up, and you are a huge part of it. I'm not kidding when I say you have changed my life for the better. I was already working on healing, but you helped me get to a place in the journey I hadn't touched before. So grateful for you
I’ve been working on myself all year but this Hailmess just gave me the biggest upgrade 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
literally Haley, we are throwing out our TVs girl. We are listening to you all 2024 so much love for your bold personality. Love it!🤍🤍🤍
OMG GIRL. VANITY!! So important. Thank you for addressing that. Being vain and proud is great. I support that. ❤
Wow! Hailey I just want to thank you so much. You are truly an amazing person and I appreciate every video you make in efforts to help women of all ages.
I'm 22 years old, and you have helped guide me an many ways along my journey. Very touching video, I swear idk how I would make it through my twenties without a big sister guidance from you. Much love Hailey! may god continue to bless you.
The beginning is what I needed to hear!!! This year is going to be full of amazing things!! I do feel like I am different, but at times I don't want to stand out and do the most, but my pastor this weekend said " God qualifies the called and equips those who he has chosen". I felt this message has a lot of correlation to this video! You are killing these videos!!💖
Love your content! I turned 50 in 2023 and I love your vibe. It’s a blessing to be able live your life the way you are NOW. It’s taken me so long to feel like this and I’m starting now to create my best life with zero fucks given.
“When you are different it scares them” .. I always thought of it as something negative since my main goal was to be liked by others. Thank you for reminding me that it is good to be different 💛
I keep coming up against so many obstacles in my life in the last few months. Your videos are helping me stay determined to keep trying! My goals are achievable
Jesus lord... hailey is on fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥these days... the content is pure gold, girllll you got it all ❤
Hailey I adore you. I left jersey at 19 and you make me a proud Jersey girl. Love the honesty, sas, and effortlessness that is YOU. ❤
Love you Hailey, love your insights on these topics.Please keep up your amazing work.The fact that people whom you thought once cared about you just change and gets judgemental when you level up is so true, but instead of getting bothered we need to shine on and not shrink for anyone!
“With Great success comes great responsibility.” Heavy is the crown. It’s been said a million times but it hits every time.
“I’m not gonna get out of character”- some of the best advice I’ve ever heard. No matter how hard you try people will always think and say what they want. So I had to learn the hard way to be the bigger woman
I haven’t had the time to comment on all videos because I listen to your videos while I’m out walking delivering the mail so I’m here doing my due diligence lol
But I just have to say Hailey I really appreciate the time, love and dedication you put into your videos girl. You are truly inspiring. ❤
One thing I’m trying to remind myself that it is okay to be myself. It’s ok to be different. That was one thing I loved about myself before having my son, everyone would say it to me. But since then I lost that but I’m getting back to me and it is SCARINGGG ppl
Awh girl you’re so right about kids
I used to do dance in the mirror all the time when I was little and when bad stuff was going on at home I’d just go walk for hours, so I just started doing the same stuff again.. the things feeling comfortable with your own body does for you is insane.
Hailey I just wanna say thank you for everything. I’ve never followed and watched someone on UA-cam that’s felt so spot on with EVERYTHING before. When you explain your past experiences, I FEEL THE EXACT SAME WAY! When you give advice I feel like it’s the big sister or woman figure I truly never had. I feel safe when I watch you and I feel immense amount of comfort. I love love love you. ❤️ your aura and who you are is such an amazing person. I’m so happy I got to see your glow up in real time because it gives me the motivation to do the same. All my life I’ve been distracted and didn’t have the confidence to go after my goals in life. Running into your channel has truly been a blessing. You uplift my day and I even start my mornings getting ready listening to your videos. Thanks so much for all you do. Cheers to you and all of us for shining ✨ in 2024
Love the honesty as always ❤