VAN LIFE | finding happiness in the South

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  • Heading back south after some time off trail, in an aim to get into a better head space after returning to the van.

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  • @JakesJourneyMate
    @JakesJourneyMate  Рік тому

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  • @2planks
    @2planks Рік тому +21

    keep your head up lad. one day at a time! just a reminder that you’ve brought plenty of joy to people over the past however long. you’ve certainly sparked plenty of howling laughs in this house. keep going! you’re smashing it

  • @anydroid
    @anydroid Рік тому +6

    Get a dog, Jake. Something like a border collie : they’re athletic and smart, and very good friends.

    • @JakesJourneyMate
      @JakesJourneyMate  Рік тому +2

      Would love one! But worry about restrictions on hikes & other bits haha!

    • @Darenbranch
      @Darenbranch Рік тому +5

      @@JakesJourneyMatemate as an avid motorhomer mostly on my own I have 2 dogs and they don’t stop me hiking wherever ,they are great companions and when your in a funk you only have to slip your trainers on and ‘go walkies’ with them , there’s 100 % more benefit with them than cons . From one ex squaddie to another .
      Had plenty of bad times but none in the van with the dogs in the middle of nowhere

  • @jcjc7783
    @jcjc7783 Рік тому +5

    Not everyone understands how you can live the best life out of a van, and travel the world, yet still you get lonely and still have problems to deal with. The constant rush of dopamine of always moving around and always on the go becomes exhausting to the brain. I felt that really hard after a few months in my van. Being home and being around those that you know and make you feel comfortable, that goes a really long way. The reset is needed to keep the passion into the road.
    Enjoy the journey.

  • @jasongroom4591
    @jasongroom4591 Рік тому +4

    Wow Jakey, that was deep… Keep your head up mate. Just think that there’s always a tomorrow, so it’s ok to put a pin in today. 😊🤙🏻

  • @jamesst1809
    @jamesst1809 Рік тому +3

    Hi mate am signing off soon and need some ideas for jobs to do when I leave as I'm not sure what I want to do but I've got me camper van so Ik I'll be travelling in that 😂

  • @alainfranken7081
    @alainfranken7081 Рік тому +2

    Too deep, dont care 🤣 I like the real stuff. I like your channel because you are so autentic/real. Deep is real wisdom. Even depressing is real wisdom. I mean all that on the surface happy stuff is not real. Experiencing and ubderstanding reality is somewhat depressing. But also beautifull and fulfilling if we grow trough it. But first we have to get real. Pretty painful. I hope more people will share there deep understandings and become more real.

  • @russellbennett9270
    @russellbennett9270 Рік тому +3

    Hi mate just to let we are all here for you .give becky a call she do you good .❤

  • @ALsoutNabout
    @ALsoutNabout Рік тому +4

    Wise words on young shoulders, really enjoy your content JJM . Look forward to the next one.

  • @AnthonyHitmanDarts
    @AnthonyHitmanDarts Рік тому +1

    Chin up marra, but yea, we all need to recharge ourselves from time to time.
    Out of interest, where did you get your steering wheel cover, need one that's grippy in the 3 and 9 position for my X-Trail and that looks ideal.

  • @beverleyfielding4551
    @beverleyfielding4551 Рік тому +3

    We all need a recharge Jakey boy …humble and reflective…. you are inspirational 🙌
    Great vid big hugs 🤗

  • @xanthefarrell6558
    @xanthefarrell6558 Рік тому +3

    Always a pleasure to watch ...we all have these moments Jake...good on you for talking about it all. Your vlogs are just the best from start to finish ..a good walk and food feeds the soul. Take care😊

  • @lewismundy8230
    @lewismundy8230 Рік тому +2

    Chin up lad. Little tip that'll reduce the need for sifting that rice and washing it up... Put twice as much water in as rice and cook on a really low heat for like 12 mins. All the water will disappear and you're left with fluffy rice!

    • @lewismundy8230
      @lewismundy8230 Рік тому

      Oh, and make sure you put a lid on it whilst cooking!

  • @kevandrewsoutdoors
    @kevandrewsoutdoors Рік тому +1

    Chin up bud we all go though slumps
    Life has a habit of getting us down. I know how u feel iv been going through loads atm in my personal life just take each day as it comes

  • @asaandthemarchharepart2903
    @asaandthemarchharepart2903 Рік тому +2

    Brilliant to catch up again Jake. Have a fabulous canoe trip. Its awesome where you're going. Safe Travels Bud 🙏 👊

  • @jacksg1809
    @jacksg1809 Рік тому +1

    ❤ hey Jake sorry to see ur in a slump , bet ur missing the lovely Becs and who could blame u . Getting out in nature is great but ur right u need to take time out off youtube i think its burn out seen so many say that on YT. I live in a shepherds hut at the mo and for the last 8 months and longing to get it in my field i need help to move it and a 20' container also so difficult no one seems to want to help me that is sad . I will pay them of course but still no closer 😔 i love my life style just need to move everything next door for my utopia . I don't let it get me down for long I'm just frustrated 🥴 keep ur chin up things will get better for both of us 🙏❤️ Craig is a tonic for u mate he suffers too bless him ❤️

  • @andyhyde7801
    @andyhyde7801 9 місяців тому

    7:20 Bit of down time? Not feeling yourself? Balls deep in boredom? Crack out a bit of self love..... Once a squaddie always a squaddie ;)

  • @venturabushcraft5916
    @venturabushcraft5916 Рік тому

    Re-invent yourself mate. You'll find more happiness and find yourself on the way. Take care of yourself brother Jake. 👍

  • @Road__Viking
    @Road__Viking Рік тому +2

    Love ya brother ✌

  • @wjm1676
    @wjm1676 Рік тому

    Subscriber from Andover where you went to pure gym, wickes, and Lidl. Shame I didn’t see you mate could have had a chat. Keep the videos coming 👍🏻

  • @ryandale2634
    @ryandale2634 Рік тому +1

    I don't like how you said a little 6inch...6inch is above average 😂

  • @covenantersoldier9165
    @covenantersoldier9165 Рік тому +1

    just like a static house is not for everyone, you always need money to fix the house up, and so a van will always need the same love.

  • @lovesomeone7285
    @lovesomeone7285 Рік тому

    My pet companions 🐶🐱 are my balance when not w/fam.❤they bring peace & purpose when the rest of the world is fucked up.

  • @grantauty4551
    @grantauty4551 Рік тому +1

    Your videos are only getting better mate 👌🏽 you thought about getting a dog to keep you company on your travels? The company’s always good!

  • @_the_wessex_nomad_
    @_the_wessex_nomad_ Рік тому +1

    Really enjoyed that mate. I'm sure your honesty really resonated with many.

  • @jlr1182
    @jlr1182 Рік тому

    If you have not already …. Give yourself to Jesus brother …. I felt very lost like what your describing couple years back…. No I am resting in HIS peace and have that empty void filled …… go speak to a military pastor if you still able to contact one or speak to a local one. Just a thought for you …. Take it easy bro peace and love 🙏

  • @jdealing8749
    @jdealing8749 Рік тому +2

    Van is looking sweet dude. Looking forward to a jake and Craig collab again always make for a good watch

  • @discjockeyjo
    @discjockeyjo Рік тому

    Hi Jake,
    Keep your chin up mate!
    Rest up and stay well.

  • @stuartconnor4490
    @stuartconnor4490 Рік тому +1

    Safe travels lad, glad ur feeling it again. keep sharing ur thoughts, pretty inspiring and may help others in a similar mind set 👌

  • @davewatts2032
    @davewatts2032 Рік тому +2

    Good to see you getting back on track mate 👍

  • @greggtilghman6349
    @greggtilghman6349 Рік тому +2

    Billie Can? You’re bushcraft is showing through brother! Great video! Love the van setup! If I had the years to do it all over again, I would follow your lead. But the mortgage and family prevents all that so I’ll just live vicariously through you! Thanks for sharing mate, across the big pond! Melancholy on the trail, melancholy in the van, I think you need a Rebecca back in your life mate. 😊

    • @JakesJourneyMate
      @JakesJourneyMate  Рік тому

      Thank you mate! The billy van is a god send! 🙏 appreciate the support as always man! Big love! 🫡

  • @glyngutteridge4269
    @glyngutteridge4269 Рік тому +1

    Power on Jakey boiiiii 😜👌 Top stuff as ever. #KeepiItReal 🤙💪

  • @deniselewis3108
    @deniselewis3108 Рік тому +1

    Good to see you out and about again,love the bits and bobs for the van,take care x

  • @diannemarshall7473
    @diannemarshall7473 Рік тому +1

    Sorry to see you down in the dumps again 😞. Don’t forget,there is help out there. Look after yourself buddy. Sending big hugs 🤗 x

  • @andiwatson3050
    @andiwatson3050 Рік тому +1

    I don’t know you just came across this channel and love it . From an ex soldiers who’s struggled daily since leaving keep ya chin up fella . You’ve done in 18 months what I’ve tried and now achieved in 15 years . Be proud and keep the van life up and the awesome vids coming . ❤

  • @louisdubignon9284
    @louisdubignon9284 Рік тому

    bro where did you get those shoes. pls give me xD

  • @JackRidler-r1o
    @JackRidler-r1o Рік тому +1

    Keep chipping away lad

  • @Daydreameruk
    @Daydreameruk Рік тому +1

    Loved this, thé ‘non particular’ blogs are great. Thanks for sharing.

  • @jordanmitchell5993
    @jordanmitchell5993 Рік тому +1

    Hope you and bexs are ok bro love brother xx

  • @wildwoodways5812
    @wildwoodways5812 Рік тому

    Check what the CC captions say at 4:42 😂😂 the word "happiness" dost quite come out right 😂😂😂

  • @trailrunningphil
    @trailrunningphil Рік тому +1

    Big respect for this video Jake. Watching your videos feels like being on this life journey with you and so the occasional wobble or reset is all part of it. I’ve had a very recent challenge mentally too and yep, getting out in the wilderness sorted me out again! I’m REALLY looking forward to the great glen way footage and of course the SWCP 😊

    • @JakesJourneyMate
      @JakesJourneyMate  Рік тому +2

      Thank you mate! There’s always ups & downs in life, just like to keep it real!
      Hope ya well now mate, big love 🫡

  • @ChurchiII
    @ChurchiII Рік тому +1

    I’ll be honest mate, this hit home big time. I feel like since leaving the army I’ve had those exact mood swings , never know why , never know how to get myself out of them and never know how long it’ll last but it’s flipping real.
    You are essence at getting your point across , you should be proud of what you’re doing it’s unbelievable
    Stay safe , enjoy and let the good times roll

    • @highvibe4839
      @highvibe4839 Рік тому +1

      This happens to many good men who served, you have lived a certain way for so long, routines, camaraderie, established bonds of trust, serving your Country comes with responsibilities, awareness civilian don’t have. Then one day you leave all you know behind, including those people you respected and vice versa, you must forge ahead. Try to return to your boyhoods, and the things that gave you laughs, feel goods, it’s all about finding yourselves again, you must have a purpose and the irony is giving to others is receiving, it takes away the loneliness, the self absorbency of thoughts that may bring too much solitude. Jake is giving to others in his way, his nature walks, his cooking, his sharing of thoughts and saucepans😅. I’m in Australia, our govt bureaucrats and old foggie ex military personnel created huge problems for ex soldiers, many committed suicide as a result of PTSD, and no financial assistance to transit into a civil society after many years of service. It has been extremely hard to watch good men break down along with families by their side. Keep busy, keep laughing, and please leave The grey skies of England regularly, grey skies can set moods for depression. Best wishes to all you good men who feel the blues, our world has been tipped upside down, so find your terra firma ❤

  • @hugopassmore7563
    @hugopassmore7563 10 місяців тому

    fluff your rice

  • @greggtilghman6349
    @greggtilghman6349 Рік тому +1

    Would love the recipe for that goulash you splashed on your riche at 5:50 in the timeline.

    • @JakesJourneyMate
      @JakesJourneyMate  Рік тому

      Just a chilli mate :) usually cook it along the lines of the bbc recipe 🫡

  • @paddyo3841
    @paddyo3841 Рік тому

    We are never alone

  • @jellyb1945
    @jellyb1945 Рік тому +1

    Great video as always ❤

  • @Y24JAW
    @Y24JAW Рік тому

    👍🏼🚐🛶🛠

  • @shaunmccaw2911
    @shaunmccaw2911 Рік тому

    Van's looking good mate chin up👍🏻🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @vivnutter2156
    @vivnutter2156 Рік тому +1

    Take care xx

  • @billyharden9316
    @billyharden9316 Рік тому

    Doin nothing is better than doing something wrong 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇬🇧⛺️💯

  • @SchussinBoots
    @SchussinBoots Рік тому

    I’m watching your videos on catch up Jake as I’ve been out of the loop for a while. Followed your journey from the beginning and have loved every moment of it. Actually, it doesn’t feel like watching a journey, it feels like you take us along with you.. through all of it, ups and downs. Hopefully you’re feeling better now and keep doing what you’re doing. ❤️

  • @JamesWilliam70
    @JamesWilliam70 Рік тому

    Good people are watching you and I bet a good few watching over you too. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you... Take it in your stride fella!

  • @techbloke5970
    @techbloke5970 Рік тому

    Great video keep it all going. You could of come into Salisbury I would’ve waved if I saw you

  • @benmorris460
    @benmorris460 Рік тому

    When are we going to see you on your bike? Keen to see a motorcycle adventure x.

  • @DavidHilton1991
    @DavidHilton1991 Рік тому +1

    🥧

  • @IansAnglesey
    @IansAnglesey Рік тому

    Stay safe fella.... really enjoyed your voyage through life, with the van build and the hikes... heads pace is sooo important.. hope you feel.more sorted soon... take it easy and have a beer on me... ATB Ian

    • @JakesJourneyMate
      @JakesJourneyMate  Рік тому +1

      Hey! Thanks so much! Really appreciate the support! Means a lot! So mint you like all bits of the vids! 💪
      Cheers Very much mate! 🍺

  • @lewismundy8230
    @lewismundy8230 Рік тому

    "Anyway, Tortellini" sent me 😂

  • @davidbarber9892
    @davidbarber9892 Рік тому

    Good to see you back in your van buddy, it’s a mean machine. p.s. where can I get a cool realtree steering wheel cover like yours from in the U.K.

    • @JakesJourneyMate
      @JakesJourneyMate  Рік тому

      Thank you mate! Found one on the net but they seem to have up! About £60 now 👀

    • @davidbarber9892
      @davidbarber9892 Рік тому

      @@JakesJourneyMate 😬 ouch that is a lot

  • @michaelgarry1
    @michaelgarry1 Рік тому

    Thanks!

    • @JakesJourneyMate
      @JakesJourneyMate  Рік тому

      Thank you so much mate! Big love! Goes a long way! 🤝💚

  • @grahamtaylpr3806
    @grahamtaylpr3806 Рік тому

    Dont leave God out of the equation

  • @jonnyteeee
    @jonnyteeee Рік тому +1

    And all because Becky is in Canada!! Wow depressed as fooook now watching this. Man up Jake there’s lots more people far worse off than you out there.

    • @JakesJourneyMate
      @JakesJourneyMate  Рік тому +8

      Not quite sure what captivated you to write this mate, but I hope you’re kinder to the other people you come by today 🤙

  • @smallnuts2
    @smallnuts2 10 місяців тому

    I got out of the military 13 years ago. I had all these goals I wanted to accomplish. The first month I got out, I've been having energy and sleeping issues.
    Found out I have central sleep apnea. Low testosterone and iron.
    One thing I would love to do is get a van and travel with my dog in nature. Just wish I had the energy.

  • @dels_outside
    @dels_outside Рік тому

    I’ve just moved into mine last 4 months and feel you here, slightly worried about winter months but otherwise if fuels the soul just need me a reset now and then.
    been enjoying seeing your adventures with Craigey EAB - keep it uppp 🚐