Defeated by infertility / What I wish I'd known when struggling to conceive

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  • Опубліковано 6 бер 2023
  • When you're struggling to conceive you might start to feel like it's never going to happen for you. Maybe you're still going along with the motions but in your heart you've given up hope.
    If you're feeling defeated and stressed out by infertility I want you to know these things. I WISH I'd known this sooner.
    Above all I want you to know. It's safe to take a break and look after you. You're going to be okay.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 17

  • @orchidfiber6331
    @orchidfiber6331 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for this video. My boyfriend and I took a break from IVF and we are planning fun things for ourselves and friends. It's hard to let go but I'm seeing it's so important I focus on my joy and happiness.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Рік тому

      I’m so glad you are able to take a break to find joy again 🙏🏻💜

  • @michelleloadsman1679
    @michelleloadsman1679 Рік тому +1

    Bloody needed this so much 🙏 Thank you!!!! 😍

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Рік тому

      You’re welcome Michelle 🙏🏻💜

  • @claudiaaegsidone
    @claudiaaegsidone 11 місяців тому +1

    You'd think that stopping drinking and getting the exact amount of sleep you should get and taking your temperature everyday and LH tests everyday would not be much of an inconvenience. But it is! Thanks for the pep talk. I'm used to having 2 or 3 beers a week and I miss it.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  11 місяців тому

      I get it. If life stops feeling fun then it makes the waiting even harder to bear. Find ways to still enjoy life even in this difficult season. x

  • @reginagordon4246
    @reginagordon4246 Рік тому

    Thank you💕💕💕

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Рік тому +1

      You’re welcome Regina 💜

  • @oppsendless3814
    @oppsendless3814 Рік тому +3

    Currently pregnant with a high probability of miscarriage after 8 embryo losses. Thank you. My heart is broken. Both my hcg and ultrasound were not appropriate for 7 weeks yesterday. We have another ultrasound on Friday.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Рік тому

      I’m so sorry for your losses. Holding you and your baby in my thoughts today. Hoping for a positive outcome 🙏🏻💜

    • @oppsendless3814
      @oppsendless3814 Рік тому

      @@BettinaRae Thanks so much. If something is wrong, I just pray for closure Friday. I appreciate your videos so much.

  • @katyadashiakchef
    @katyadashiakchef Рік тому

    Thank yourself you lots helping healing yourself self Oh my God I have a conversation partner

    • @HolyPsalms103
      @HolyPsalms103 3 місяці тому

      God bless you hun God the farther is the only one who can give children for we are his creation. Come to Jesus. may this message be your hope that he has sent me to you to tell you this message, come to church this Sunday with us we will pray for you to receive deliverance. God bless you. You’re so fortunate. Come and receive the goodness the Lord has for you🤍 .

  • @EliJustofly
    @EliJustofly 6 місяців тому

    I already know that I can't have any biological children. I was 27 when my period just stopped (no eggs left). Im 30 now, but I still struggle so much, doctors said they found no reason why, it just happens sometimes I was told..you shoud've gotten pregnant very early in your life. It just so hard sometimes.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  6 місяців тому

      I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this. Have you explored whether donor eggs is an option?

    • @Alyss840
      @Alyss840 Місяць тому

      The doctors that told you that you should have gotten pregnant very early were just ...such lack of empathy and compassion.