Marriage Real Talk: Fighting Fair || STEVE HARVEY
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
- To find out how to have a happy marriage, Steve invited several couples to talk about their experiences. First up? How to fight fair.
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49years married said communication
32years married said not calling each other by names ie respect nomatter what it is.
13years married said never bringing back past arguments, best thing about arguments is making up.and finally
20years married said no going to bed mad at each other,thanks guys i just a premarital counseling.
1:36 "When I forgive you, it's done." That's exactly how it should be, this woman is doing it right.
My heart dropped when she said her husband was heading towards the trade center. 😱
This was a wonderful segment. I’m not married but I learned from this.
Please keep these segments coming. Hearing advice from successful married couples (more than ten years) is really helpful.
Not sure why they are canceling this show
*Understanding each other is the key to a successful relationship.*
Marriage isn't for the selfish. ❤️
Soooooo! True
So true sister!! Wow waiting on the Lady! God has for me..
Rachel Vincent
AMENNNNNN
Eliminates most men then
Facts
Yes I 100% agree! Not to go to bed angry at each other. Work everything out. You don't know if you will wake up to see the next day because tomorrow is not promised.
Real Talk!
Friend of mine from grade school had his mother have a seizure one night and never woke up. After several months they had to take her off life support and she died. That always stuck with me to where I told myself if I ever got married I'd make sure the last thing I said at night before I went to sleep, was tell my wife I loved her so it was the last thing she heard if either one of us never woke up. Even if you say it kind of grudgingly, at least if something happened, the other person will not have the guilt for the rest of their life that there were harsh words instead of I love you.
LOVE. RESPECT , FORGIVENESS AND UNDERSTANDING MUST ALWAYS BE PRESENT.
" NEVER GO TO BED ANGRY..."100%
Thank you Steve Harvey for this premarital counseling. Really great segment!
Caprice deserves another and bigger and better wedding ring because 99% of women bring up the old arguments to the new argument aka compounding sins is what I like to call it.
That's straight from the Bible. don't go to bed angry with you spouse. Lots of things that we do and say is right out of God's word to us. Most people don't know that. Some don't believe in The Bible or God. If we do read the Bible and put into practice in the right way we will be very happy people living in harmony.
“When I forgive you, it’s done.” Lord that’s very rare.
Another one i have learned from my family and all of them have passed the 20 years of marriage and divorce isn't even an option here! My dad told me that the golden rule is it's not you against your partner it's you and your partner against the problem! 🤗
Some friends of mine would joke the word divorce was not in our vocabulary. But murder is. 😂
I like this segment!! Because it's about Understanding, perspective and learning how grow an adapt while not being selfish because everyone has an Vantage point.
The lady is red is gorgeous and your advice is gold ma'am-don't bring up past argument!
My advice ...from someone who's never been in a relationship lol don't give each other the silent treatment because it's manipulative. I know people go days without talking and I think that's pointless. Some time to cool off is understandable however.
yep, i recommend giving women a 24 hour time limit for the silent treatment. after that she can either clearly communicate her feelings (since women are such great communicators) or else be done with her.
Any kids watching the show? What that lady meant by making up is you shake hands, hug real tight and kiss each other on the cheeks.
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🤣😂🤣😂🤣 in that order chirren!!! and go home 😁
Love This!!! Post more like this!
Very good topic very good indeed yes if you forgive you forget you will erase it from your mind and if you have problems with forgetting it you don't speak it you concentrate you ask God to clear it from your heart thank you for sharing God bless you have a good evening
This is beautiful,God bless me and mine please like these.
Thank you sooo much 💞
Learned a lot, real talk ✔️✔️✔️
keep up with this segment. It's amazing
I agree with that lady - the idea is:
when you FORGET - there is nothing left to forgive
but if you FORGIVE - you necessarily don't forget.
More conversations, less clapping. Great segment.
At 3:34, considering her story... Bag choice of words
Valuable points 👏needed this
I'm single and this session was really empowering
Really good insights. Im getting married in Oct.
Knowing your boundaries how far to go watch what you’re saying to each other
It’s I forgive you period, not I forgive you but you.......
I'm envious of the 10 years at 1:40
1:31*
There is no such thing as a happy wife happy life. Work together as a team. A man will leave his mother and father and, stick to his wife as one flesh, that means marriage is team work. 😇
It's a vicious cycle really I think...he makes her happy, she makes him happy. She makes him happy, he makes her happy... Pingpong
I guess these marriages are really healthy because these people look YOUNG.
True. I don’t bring up the past😬
I approve this video 😊
First like and first comment.
You can be right or be happy? That's garbage. In other words treat her like a child to let her think she's always right. B.S. I never have and never will live in a relationship like that. And yes, I am in a relationship but we are two adults and treat each other as such.
You are correct. Women have NO RESPECT for men who believe and adhere to this philosophy. You will be viewed as a weak man with no balls or backbone.
That doesn’t just apply to his marriage though. He lives by that in general. I agree with it plus it works for him. What’s the endgame if both of you are “arguing” for the sake of being right or the other person being wrong? You’d just be going in circles like that. Being right or being happy only means to pick your battles. Some arguments are necessary, others are completely pointless. That’s all.
Jonathan Collins
Exactly!
Because choosing the “HAPPY” road can bite you in the butt if you’re not careful.
I can be right or be happy
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Steve my marrige is in so much trouble because my mother will not move out . iv been married for 12 years . My husband and i let my mother move in because she fell on hard times ,well those hard times been over with for 3 years now and this woman will not move out . every time itz time for her to move she throws attitudes and makes me feel guilty about her moving she claims im putting her out . She acts as thow because i ask her to move out that that means i dont want to have nothing to do with her anymore and all types of stuff omg do she pull up all types of suff. my husband complains constantly that im not acting as his wife any more . So of course things happened. On both our parts that almost brought us to a divorce we decicided we still truly love each other and want to wrk it out and grow old togeyher but itz hard when my mother is still walking around the house monitoring my marrige. Monitoring My kids monitoring my dogs monitoring my life . please do a segment on how to get mothers out there daughters house. Or just give me some tips . Please help
Tough situation you just have to be strong and tell her to leave
"im well trained" i can never respect a man for saying some stuff like that. no matter how long he been married
its emasculating and dehumanizing.
zero
Thank you for saying this.........I absolutely hate the intent behind that phrase.
I’m not an animal to be tamed or trained to do what you want when you want.
Now, I bet if you say a woman can be “trained” all unheavenly things will happen.
etf42 Exactly
Zero, are you a mgtow?
Dont dude talk like kirk franklin 😂😂
Vadia jii how r all
Agree with most of the couples advises, but the one with the break up and make up no thanks. Personally I think as a couple you might not make it to the make up part. Its toxic.
Great couples ⚠️💣💣💣💯🤘
All I learnt was for the husband to surrender. Is that right? Doesn't seem right, crocodile tears don't count. Most argument seem spot on!! Don't go to bed mad.
steve will never get strong men on the show
That's all you learned??
Yup, people get offended too easily.
These men are strong.
I keep bringing up the past because he keeps acting the same as he has the past 5 years. How can you not bring up the past when you don't see the progress?
It doesn't help, though. Maybe try a different tactic, and you'll see different results. There have been times where it's been really difficult for me to change, but I try anyway; but how I used to be isn't easily forgotten, so I'm EXPECTED, by this other person or people, to fail, so they can tell me about myself & bring up how I've always done this & that. What you may not see is the struggle; and the reason behind why it is a struggle for them. Have you ever asked this person, sincerely, "What can I do to help you?" If you REALLY want to help them, and you love them, you'll do whatever you can, including throwing your pride away.
7saany then y r u with him. Stop wasting your time
what if i am right and i know am right should i still apologise?
Me and my bf made a pact that whenever we have a fight, no matter who is more right or wrong ... We both still find our point where we might have said something we should not or even just that we fought we still apologize to each other for our part in the fight and it has been the best thing we did
@@sqoishicasette i get but all the men look so beaten down and have no will inside them. that guy literally said that he has to choose btn being happy and right. how are those options
The key to a happy marriage is a masculine dominant man and a submissive feminine woman
Happy marriage for a man but not for both
no, effeminate men make women miserable
Submissive woman is for a weak man.A strong man can handle a strong woman
@@Carousel5883 why would a dominant man pick a dominant woman?
My favorite couple is the Burrells, which one is yours?
You disagree with out being disagreeable.
. We weren’t called to forgive and forget, we’re not God. He’s the only one who forgives and forgets. We are humans.
Steve can I come on your show and beatbox
Men are not stupid robots to be trained, a real relationship unlike those old idiots, is 50/50 respect for each other
No! Stache! Again!
Smh…
Why do husbands/men like alot of sex?
😐
Mgtow
Don't get married OK
*consider it* .
Ok.. Don’t get married. . .I got it:)
Women just want a man they can own.
If that's your opinion...you're entitled to it but this is about getting along wih your spouse. NOBODY gets along great all the time. Even with those in the same household but you learn to respect them and agree to disagree...and still maintain the peace of the household. You know...people skills. Treating others as you'd want to be treated.
Some real losers hang out in the comments section. I'm really not sure what incels get from watching them. It's not like they have a hope of being married anyway - that requires being able to actually have an adult relationship (instead of watching porn and looking at mgtow videos).
@@silvershadow7655 lol dang, that was too funny.
@@silvershadow7655 bitter ?
@@boitumelomonare8647 Yeah they are. They probably do this 'in real life' too - gatecrash weddings only to snort and shake their fist about how much they plan not to get married (when there isn't a hope in hell of that happening anyway lol).
The woman in the red dress talks too much and seems to be a lot about keeping up appearances
That lady with the red dress talks too much
Marriage is pointless. A huge huge waste of time
You routinely go to Steve Harvey videos to make this exact same comment, stating how anti-marriage you are - even in a positive video like this. You are pathetic. Get a life.
A Jackson The truth hurts and you can’t handle it
@@shawna8134 That's your opinion.
@@shawna8134 Don't flatter yourself. Nobody cares that you will never be married. Sad lonely troll.
Moral of the story,Dont get married!!