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  • @ElizabethMiller-xx1tv
    @ElizabethMiller-xx1tv 4 місяці тому +6

    I love seeing that even you two get into little tiffs with each other. You both seem perfect in your relationship so it is nice to know even the best relationships have their little moments. It shows how real you all are. Especially with all the kids I could only imagine how hard it is to just have you time with each other

    • @foxyplayzgames5210
      @foxyplayzgames5210 4 місяці тому +2

      What's sad is one calls out the other. It's like how dare you make me look bad type of thing. One person on a date is enough extra like ya said so ..... family date it is..and for some reason they are not letting us know how Joe is doing. What are they hiding. Ya learn real fast they hide a bunch of stuff

  • @AudraLeigh01
    @AudraLeigh01 4 місяці тому +8

    I’m loving Aaron’s food/cooking journey and that it’s a family thing!! So cool!!

  • @julieconley4562
    @julieconley4562 4 місяці тому +24

    I love that Max just snuck in the car lol Tristan helped open that place? That’s awesome

    • @lindadriessen9027
      @lindadriessen9027 4 місяці тому +2

      I thought he heard his code line: we need someone to record 😁

    • @julieconley4562
      @julieconley4562 4 місяці тому

      @@lindadriessen9027 I’m sure he did, it was just funny the way he just snuck in there trying to make it so they didn’t notice almost but of course they did, they needed someone to record

    • @lindadriessen9027
      @lindadriessen9027 4 місяці тому

      @julieconley4562 Yes Yes, 😆 obviously trying to be discrete without being obvious.Anyway, we noticed him....and understood.

    • @julieconley4562
      @julieconley4562 4 місяці тому

      @@lindadriessen9027 all I was saying was it was funny

    • @lindadriessen9027
      @lindadriessen9027 4 місяці тому

      @@julieconley4562 and I agree 👍🏽

  • @achopman5949
    @achopman5949 4 місяці тому +16

    I knew Tristan is a part Korean, he looks so familiar. My niece is married with a man who is half Korean. They have beautiful daughters💜 About kids, I lost my baby with 20 weeks. Never got pregnant again. I know how you felt Crystal! Enjoy your kids❤

  • @AudraLeigh01
    @AudraLeigh01 4 місяці тому +14

    Love that you show your kids that you date each other. My dad died when I was 3 and my mom never remarried. It took a long time for me to figure out what a healthy relationship looked like.

  • @joagate3259
    @joagate3259 4 місяці тому +18

    Max has so much confidence since he spends time with Tristan he really is a great family member all family love him. Seems like he always been there.

    • @emmie9102
      @emmie9102 4 місяці тому +1

      i noticed the same thing. he really came out of his shell. i even see him spend time with Aurora on the background this days. it's so cool to see him blossom.

  • @shaylalivingston8913
    @shaylalivingston8913 4 місяці тому +6

    Korean BBQ! 🇰🇷 Love that Tristan is introducing ya’ll to Korean food! Love seeing you all on your dates!

  • @ednanelson1897
    @ednanelson1897 4 місяці тому +14

    That was a fun date. Go-Karts, Korean cuisine and Key Lime pie. Sounds like the perfect date

  • @danielwatkins1982
    @danielwatkins1982 4 місяці тому +4

    Always love hearing how you started foster care love your channel

  • @michelehumann811
    @michelehumann811 4 місяці тому +4

    Such a great video ...... thanks for sharing

  • @conniephair6812
    @conniephair6812 4 місяці тому +3

    I’m going to start abc dating with my hubby. We just celebrated our 11th anniversary yesterday and I think this would put a lot of fun back into our now daily routines. I have a quick question who started fostering/adopting first crazy pieces or crazy middles? I love that your families have grown together this way. I started watching your channel first I just came across it one day it was actually right when you got Lucas and Savannah and I have fallen in love with both you and the middles. Thank you for sharing your lives with us.

  • @luannruffin3844
    @luannruffin3844 4 місяці тому +2

    I enjoyed your story. Thank you both for sharing ❤

  • @yvonnearmstrong469
    @yvonnearmstrong469 4 місяці тому +10

    Crystal and Aaron could you do a podcast going into how you did the foster and adoption properly please if you don't mind as I was into what yous just told us then you stopped the vlog thank you

  • @robynhigginbotham6468
    @robynhigginbotham6468 4 місяці тому +4

    It’s all about love, and that’s all that matters❤️❤️❤️

  • @laurahamm468
    @laurahamm468 4 місяці тому +4

    Aaron you need to get whisks with thicker grips on them. It a game changer!!

  • @natashaw401
    @natashaw401 4 місяці тому +4

    Love hearing the story why started foster care

  • @kristenshadden3004
    @kristenshadden3004 3 місяці тому

    Y’all inspired my husband and I to do ABC dating. We started with our 20th anniversary trip to Atlantis last August. When y’all were on a dating hiatus, we passed y’all with the J date. Now, we have also just completed our Kite flying date, so y’all will keep us accountable to keep going.

  • @daily1796
    @daily1796 4 місяці тому +2

    After this series you guys should do ABC dating with your kids or like and ABC travel/ vacations

  • @missingwilliam2006
    @missingwilliam2006 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm crying having had 2 miscarriages myself after our first daughter was born healthy. I feel your pain.

  • @dalindajarvis4588
    @dalindajarvis4588 4 місяці тому +2

    My daughter had two and it is the most devastating experience 😢

  • @ShellyAnnJamieson-so7fw
    @ShellyAnnJamieson-so7fw 4 місяці тому +7

    It is 18 guys.....9 girls and 9 boys Tristan included. Love from Jamaica.

    • @ASLLover666
      @ASLLover666 4 місяці тому +2

      i hope you stay safe from the hurricane

  • @Drumgirl00
    @Drumgirl00 2 місяці тому

    It is so cool Tristan is part Korean cause I am fully Korean also adopted. Thanks for sharing your story. Your story is what my adopted family went through

  • @leahcravens9615
    @leahcravens9615 4 місяці тому +4

    Love this story. What happened to the story that a kid when you were little was the reason you and Shelly wanted to adopt.

  • @stephaniethompson5256
    @stephaniethompson5256 4 місяці тому +1

    Zagg glass for your screen, always protects. And I've dropped my phone alot.

  • @godislove2313
    @godislove2313 4 місяці тому +4

    I was in foster care. I've had several miscarriages. I can relate in so many different ways. I have taken in a few young kids they aged out of not fostercare,but the biological parents. I ended up 2 biological daughters of my own

  • @pennyferguson9839
    @pennyferguson9839 3 місяці тому

    I have the same case as you crystal…glad it protected your phone. ❤

  • @Christine-B-
    @Christine-B- 4 місяці тому +5

    Miss Joe, hope he is well. Like part of the family is missing.

    • @paulpaislynn3647
      @paulpaislynn3647 3 місяці тому

      Sad how he was just axed from everything

    • @ilovebluebluebabybottlepops
      @ilovebluebluebabybottlepops 3 місяці тому

      @@paulpaislynn3647I saw someone els comment that his UA-cam playlist were exposed and it had a lot of inappropriate stuff involving minors or woman and that’s why he’s gone but idk if that true

  • @heathertemich8428
    @heathertemich8428 4 місяці тому +1

    I knew that Tristan looked of asain just wasn't for sure which authenticity, makes sense thanks for clarifying this

  • @RobinPendleton-q7x
    @RobinPendleton-q7x 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤
    Love your videos ❤

  • @catrionamartin-hp9hz
    @catrionamartin-hp9hz 4 місяці тому

    Love your story on foster care😢 Sometimes God has other planes we dont know until we open our hearts to other options God heals our pain 😢 I can realety You truley are blesed what God gave u Aaron

  • @donnacarter4282
    @donnacarter4282 4 місяці тому

    Love hearing more of your story ! Keep it up .

  • @cinramirez8627
    @cinramirez8627 4 місяці тому +5

    Next VidCon is going to be insane (with Tristan in tow)! The fans are gonna lose it lol Loving the ABC dating, by the way. Great ideas.

  • @StephanieBoncuk
    @StephanieBoncuk 4 місяці тому +2

    I totally understand I’ve lost my first baby which was a girl. And I had a miscarriage. Then I got pregnant again had a baby girl, ( Michelle) then two years later I had a boy but I lost his twin brother.( Daniel, Aaron, lost Aron) then two rears later had a baby girl, I almost lost her was bed ridden for the rest of the 5 months ( had Elizabeth) so I had a lot of grieving going on. Now we have lots of grand babies and great grand babies

  • @marthachapman8607
    @marthachapman8607 3 місяці тому

    I love key lime pie. Me and my sister-in-law before she passed away used to get it all the time at Walmart and it was so good

  • @joannefournier5173
    @joannefournier5173 4 місяці тому +1

    You forgot to cook the pie . I’ve made one before and you have to cook the crust 10 min then once the filling is poured in you cook it at a reduced temp. That may be why it was runny

  • @catrionamartin-hp9hz
    @catrionamartin-hp9hz 4 місяці тому

    You kind see it in his eyes Tristen is koren wonderful young man It dont matter where u come from it just means all your kids loved for who thay are😊

  • @velmazink2119
    @velmazink2119 4 місяці тому

    I loved this video and both of you!❤

  • @dottiegyles1119
    @dottiegyles1119 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @1004juli
    @1004juli 3 місяці тому

    I’m full Korean. I love making Korean foods at home.

  • @kelleybrown840
    @kelleybrown840 4 місяці тому +2

    I have the same phone case, Crystal and I love it!

  • @amywilliams6696
    @amywilliams6696 4 місяці тому +1

    I grew up on big pine key and let me tell you i never seen a prettier key lime pie then that yummy

  • @KellyRiley-e1f
    @KellyRiley-e1f 4 місяці тому +76

    How is Joe doing. We miss joe.

  • @laurencallahan9019
    @laurencallahan9019 4 місяці тому

    Crystal, it's a kate ♠️ spade case . We have the same one ❤

  • @natashaw401
    @natashaw401 4 місяці тому +1

    Fun, neat, cool u both not sure if had Korean bbq

  • @barbarawhite5466
    @barbarawhite5466 4 місяці тому

    Crystal get you a Otter Box for your phone, my 1st cell phone is in a Otter Box and we did that because we had heard about the horror and expensive things that you go through when you break or drop/smash the phone and so I told our family members who we share phone service with about the Otter Box that we heard about and how it protects your phone, tablet etc.and we have found out that it does work, we've been trying not to drop our phone since we got 1st got it and we have accidentally dropped it more than once and thank goodness &thank God that we can say that our phone didn't suffer any problems or damage that so many people have, and we think that you just might like it, thanks for sharing with us all and may you try this suggestion and it help with you'lls phones and not having to replace as often, saving money etc.have a blessed 4th of July and rest of 2024&Beyond, safe travels to and from as well. ♡☆♡

  • @amywilliams6696
    @amywilliams6696 4 місяці тому

    I love Korean food and you will never catch my fridge without kimchi i buy a gallon every other month from the Korean market i would love to see him make homemade kimchi

  • @suongybach
    @suongybach 4 місяці тому +2

    Finally asian food! Please try some vietnamese food!

    • @theawkwardlifeoffish2266
      @theawkwardlifeoffish2266 3 місяці тому

      I second this!!! I’m part Vietnamese so it’ll be cool seeing them try some food from there.

  • @pattyelvsaas7017
    @pattyelvsaas7017 4 місяці тому

    Crystal, I have the same case

  • @michellejessup6618
    @michellejessup6618 4 місяці тому

    Omg I'm listening to you talk about the foster care story.And I thought brody was down below trying to hide from the camera but it wasn't it was a dog😅

  • @robinlipuma7836
    @robinlipuma7836 4 місяці тому

    As a kid i always wanted a big family but sfter losing my 1st baby at 12 weeks I was so upset and ended up pregnant 13 months later had my daughter and she was sick and i got a infection on my C section and both of us in the hospital for 6 days, 18 months later my son was born.. 2 years 3 months ago lost my son due to the covid vaccine but he left behind my grandson who 11 years now... i came from a of 9 kids snd im the 4th to the youngest

  • @shelleymander7294
    @shelleymander7294 4 місяці тому +1

    Logan is yours naturally, he does look like Aaron

    • @aliciabellante6643
      @aliciabellante6643 4 місяці тому

      Yes Logan is their biological child. Halie and Max also.

  • @KimRay-w9x
    @KimRay-w9x 4 місяці тому

    That is good

  • @jonathanfinch15
    @jonathanfinch15 4 місяці тому +1

    You should try castufiy

  • @B_kinda
    @B_kinda 4 місяці тому

    Ktown pride 🤙🏽🇰🇷

  • @emaanhassan_2004
    @emaanhassan_2004 3 місяці тому

    I loved the story I wanted to hear me I wanted to hear how each kids came to the family I think we need a separate video of how each kid came to the family and which ones are siblings would love to see

  • @Nicolearthritis
    @Nicolearthritis 4 місяці тому

    Wait I thought Logan was yours well ya know I thought he wasn't adopted he looks so much like ya!! With my health issues I can't get pregnant but with the world being the way it is I don't think I want a kid I have a dog there just like a kid lol I love that ya let the kids see ya dating like that!!

    • @Nicolearthritis
      @Nicolearthritis 4 місяці тому

      Oh okay nevermind lol I thought Logan look so much like ya he's just like max lol

    • @Nicolearthritis
      @Nicolearthritis 4 місяці тому

      @Sturniolofann I know I'm sorry I just got confused there my learning disability

  • @Boboala03
    @Boboala03 3 місяці тому

    If u decided to not go through with the foster care classes than u wouldn’t have the beautiful family u have now… u wouldn’t have ever met Tristan 😦☺️

  • @AmyMoss-s9w
    @AmyMoss-s9w 4 місяці тому

    Crystal are you now becoming the new MM, taking over when Aaron holds his trophy up 😅😅

  • @DGAF42069
    @DGAF42069 4 місяці тому

    💜❤️

  • @AnnA-jd4xm
    @AnnA-jd4xm 4 місяці тому

    what is the fertility pill you took to regulate things?

  • @kristophercote8245
    @kristophercote8245 3 місяці тому

    Did you ever name the baby that you miscarriaged? I can't imagine going through that but I'm just curious as to who they would have been. Would they have been Logan? Or did you have a different name? Sorry if it's a sensitive question 💙

  • @YellowStar171
    @YellowStar171 4 місяці тому +1

    Tristan is part korean? omg ? that's a first in your familyyy

  • @robertbucher5883
    @robertbucher5883 4 місяці тому

    Yes How is Joe Doing ?

    • @LeahFairfield
      @LeahFairfield 3 місяці тому

      They already answered that question recently.

  • @deannadworshak16
    @deannadworshak16 4 місяці тому

    Love watching your videos but just wondering how Mr Joe is doing

    • @LeahFairfield
      @LeahFairfield 3 місяці тому

      They already answered this question recently.

    • @deannadworshak16
      @deannadworshak16 3 місяці тому

      @@LeahFairfield maybe some of us didn’t see when they said how he was doing

    • @LeahFairfield
      @LeahFairfield 3 місяці тому

      @@deannadworshak16 they’re choosing to respect his privacy, so people need to stop asking. We’re complete strangers, not his best friends.

  • @julieconley4562
    @julieconley4562 4 місяці тому +1

    Isn’t it 19 kids including Tristan?

    • @goodcookandherguineapigand5122
      @goodcookandherguineapigand5122 4 місяці тому

      I think 20

    • @julieconley4562
      @julieconley4562 4 місяці тому

      @@goodcookandherguineapigand5122 yeah.. 19 or 20 I wonder why they aren’t including Tristan

    • @riannalawrence4933
      @riannalawrence4933 4 місяці тому +1

      He may not want to be included(right now at least) for whatever reason which is fine because they just reunited and is still adjusting

    • @riannalawrence4933
      @riannalawrence4933 4 місяці тому

      It’s also 18 all together. I counted ( I could have missed someone lol)

    • @julieconley4562
      @julieconley4562 4 місяці тому

      @@riannalawrence4933 you might have because I’ve heard them say 18 when Tristan wasn’t back in the picture so I think it’s at least 19

  • @robertbucher5883
    @robertbucher5883 4 місяці тому

    It's Important to have a Christ Centered Marriage.

  • @michellejessup6618
    @michellejessup6618 4 місяці тому

    Aww I didn't know Logan was a rainbow baby

  • @karensaurage1120
    @karensaurage1120 4 місяці тому

    I want you guys to finish the story. What child you got next and what happened.

  • @jerry.batongbacal
    @jerry.batongbacal 4 місяці тому

    I’m sorry, WHAT!!!! Tristan is part Korean. I had to do a triple take of Crystal saying that Tristan is part Korean.

  • @marthachapman8607
    @marthachapman8607 3 місяці тому

    Will you still ride bikes with Joe Max and Tristan

    • @bridgwll
      @bridgwll 3 місяці тому

      They may have been doing that. Just not on video.

  • @faraheugene4835
    @faraheugene4835 4 місяці тому

    How Uncle Joe is doing? We missed him

    • @LeahFairfield
      @LeahFairfield 3 місяці тому

      They already answered that question recently.

  • @Cait_Lynn
    @Cait_Lynn 3 місяці тому

    I thought max and hallie were bio kids? They talk about miscarrying and wanting to keep trying for bio kids but are max and hallie not? I'm so confused.

  • @heasai
    @heasai 4 місяці тому +1

    The date is supposed to be with your husband,bothers me. You don’t want to spend time with you. You need to keep bringing your children along. Find a way to film without bringing people along. It’s unfair your husband.

    • @emmie9102
      @emmie9102 4 місяці тому

      they already mentioned why in this video. did we even watch the same thing. 🤦🏻‍♀️ their reasoning is even valid so it's weird that you still have something to cry about.

    • @LeahFairfield
      @LeahFairfield 3 місяці тому

      You don’t get to choose how their dates go. Quit being petty.

  • @Becuzidowhatiwant
    @Becuzidowhatiwant 4 місяці тому

    Bring back Joe! Pay him enough so he doesn't need to work

    • @LeahFairfield
      @LeahFairfield 3 місяці тому

      People like you who choose to create your own narrative of a situation instead of listening and respecting the real true facts, so gross. Joe needed to step away from UA-cam for his own mental health. What part of that do you not understand? Joe leaving has NOTHING to do with not getting paid enough. Joe’s mental health is more important than your need for entertainment. So no, they won’t be bringing him back. He needs to do what’s best for him, not you or anyone else here.

  • @tribet2006
    @tribet2006 4 місяці тому

    Jamie
    Tristan
    Melinda
    Alex
    Arianna
    Halie
    Hannah
    Max
    Luke
    Savannah
    Jake
    Ryland
    Logan
    Liam
    Brody
    Evee
    Aurora
    Did i miss someone