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Baby Noah being cute as always and Mayra and Bryan being the best parents to their beautiful children ❤
Cuarentena for me was just about taking it easy on myself and giving my body time to heal, nothing as strict as our mothers did back in the day, but I definitely tried to keep baby healthy and germ free and fed.
Nobody is more deserving of this mommy title than you!! I’m so happy for you and Bryan 🥺🥺 watching your videos and showing your journey is always a bittersweet moment seeing you with your baby 🩵🩵
I am African American and we stay home for 6 weeks after the baby is born...the only time we go out is for the doctors appointments 😊
Yes, this is what I’ve always known growing up lol
nobody cares and lies this girl i know was out partying 3 days after birthing her child
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@@kaylapinkerton1108 rude….
It just makes sense? Idk to me or does
Bryan being so happy telling us Noah is 1 week 🥹💙 father of the year 🙏🏼. Mayra breathe ! I feel like after Bryancito is understandable that with this pregnancy/labor/birth/postpartum you were gonna expect the worst but just be positive and everything will be ok. I’m sure you’re seeing how great and amazing things are getting now.
I’m pretty strict with my cuarentena, I don’t go out y me pongo faja the whole time because it helps everything inside and out go back to normal. And let me tell you my stomach is flat and nice. Also, I breast fed both my kids for over a year both of them so the cuarentena I feel like it helps with milk supply 😅! I think you should listen to your mom lol
My mom gave my sister chocolate con ruda and it helps for lactation 💖 The intro is sooooo adorable 🥹💙💙
My mom gave me the same thing for a week but also oatmeal and just drinking water
Yes so good this also helped me when I was contracting and helped speed up my labor and dilation. I had a VBAC I was so happy!
I don't do Mexican traditions..however taking time to heal rest, and really just bonding with you baby is always recommended. You and your very supportive husband have been through a lot the last 2 years..you both really need this. Most people have to work in jobs where there's no maternity leave for mom and dad so can't afford to lose work. Others may not have a supportive family to help so that may be why not many do this tradition. You two are blessed with the support of each other and your families and that's all that matters. Take your time..enjoy the moments with your new baby and best of all make lots of new memories....
My biggest tip from bein a mum of three , don’t wake a sleeping baby to feed , if ther hungry they’ll let u know. But let em sleep when ther sleeping girl.
Definitely schedule a lactation appointment at your hospital. Breastfeeding is hard! And can be painful if he's not latching properly. I combo fed my daughter for over a year. But my #1 tip for combo feeding is to mimic the flow of your breast when bottle feeding. The nipple on the bottle must be the slowest flow the brand makes, and feed him in an upright position, not laying down. It will get better!
None of the women in my family(both sides- dads and moms) have done a cuarentena. And I’m sure I got out in the wind and my milk supply was great. 🤷🏻♀️ It’s all about what you feel is right. I love that we can all be Mexicanas and still be unique in how we do motherhood. Respect! ❤ So happy for you!
Same. No one I know ever did the cuarentena. I needed to feel fresh air especially after giving birth and just feeling exhausted.
I had 3 kids with c- section and no cuarantena
To be fair, cuarentena is less about the air touching you and more about getting 40 days of rest and help after you give birth.
I never did a cuarentena either I feel like it’s very anciano but I respect those who do it. My friend did it and ate tortilla and cheese for 40 days straight. I couldn’t lol
It catches up to you, it’s super important to rest.
The mommy milk last 4-6 hrs sitting out after pumped 6-7 days in the fridge and 6 months in the freezer!!!! I just had my baby girl 21 days ago via C-section!!! Baby Noah is adorable!!!!
Wrong freshly expressed breast milk is only good sitting out for up to 4 hrs , within the 4 hrs it needs to be either fed to the baby or put in the fridge/ freezer . Once it’s in the fridge it’s good for 4 days, within those 4 days it needs to either be fed to baby or put in freezer , once milk is in the freezer it’s good for 6 months (normal freezer) or 12 month in a deep freezer. This is going off cdc guidelines , hope this helps (:
@@Ella_Salinas yes correct, always good to double check cdc guidelines in case of any doubt.
Congratulations ❤
Hey girl breastfeeding gets better and easier! I have a 2 month old and at first he would latch and stay on me for about an hour and a half now he eats and he’ll be done also I recommend the Dr. Browns bottle super good for anti colic!! 😊
Mayra I’m glad your taking cared yourself unlike all of these women I’ve seen on UA-cam I’m not going to say who they are but didn’t respect the cuarentena y todo por seguirle el fundio Al marido just saying
I believe on the cuarentena because my mom use to say that right now we might not feel anything because we are young but when we get old that’s when we will feel everything, but sometimes it’s hard to follow it when we have our babies in the niccu and we have to go to the hospital every day. I would put jackets and cover my ears or use beanies but it was hard in so many ways. You guys are doing great Mayra congratulations again 🥰
A home cooked meal after recovery is the best but sometimes gets tiring. I didn't follow my 40 days after giving birth to my daughter because I was busy going to appointments and I had COVID after a month. It was the worst and on top of that I had the baby blues. Everyone is different, but you are doing great and enjoy the newborn stage with your baby boy and husband it goes by fast 🥺
Myra have you checked to see if has a tongue tie
I don't do none of that the moment I got out the hospital i started cleaning the whole house and picked up my daughter from school and i had a C-section...no help and I'm a single mother
I’m so glad your doctor made you get checked out. My stepdaughter’s sister ended up getting a blood clot 2 days after giving birth. It’s nothing to play with. Glad your doing good! It’s awesome that you have some help from your parents cooking for y’all. 💙
They wouldn’t be a good doctor if they advised otherwise. That’s why they always check your legs after birth to make sure you don’t get a clot.
Check if he has tongue tide
Quarentena for mi is basically no sex and taking it easy in not doing anything heavy cause of recovery c-section or vaginal, but i never put on any hats, ear plugs, or any of that. I feel like its just what ppl back in the days believed but not scientifically confirmed. You do have to watch it on what you eat after birth cause you will gain weight rapidly, some women would say they dont but its just their good genes 😂
Mayra don’t feed baby laying down…he can get ear infection please
To produce more milk 🥛(•)(•)
Do this no joke(unless you’re allergic to it)
Toast on a non stick pan with nothing other that sesame seeds until brownish color or they start jumping… then put it in the blender with the amount of sugar desired until powdered, then add the milk of your preference. One bag of sesame seeds makes a gallon of this mixture with milk, lasts in the fridge 7days and you can drink it as often as you like…. You’ll be supplying milk like crazy!!! And it tastes amazing kinda like peanutty like. Anyone can drink it also but this helps lactating mommas alooooootttt No Joke!
Read all the benefits of the sesame seeds you’ll love it even more!
Honesty cuarentena is just not doing heavy things around the house. I live in south Texas so covering up is not what we do lol. You’re doing very old traditions and there’s nothing wrong with that, BUT there’s also nothing wrong if you don’t follow it.
Congratulations on baby he is the cutest baby saludos dedes Monterey California mayra sock you feet in agua de arnica con mansanilla
Omggg! I LOVE THE NEW INTROOO!!🥹🥹😭😭😭 Legit made me tear up🥹🥹🥹 I had to stop and write this comment! So happy for you guys!!💙💙💙💙
I love how it looks posting it to my Ig now ❤
How tough is the first month! I cried
My baby hated changing his diaper too. That went away pretty fast. He doesn’t mind now lol
I feel you on all the caldo
A girl needs a pizza break ❤
I missed you guys! But I understand you are new parents and need your time off I can’t wait until you get more consistent again and we get family vlogs. ❤
Baby noah looks just like you Mayra ❤
Baby Noah is beautiful ❤ I've been told after giving birth to always cover up even if it's warm outside.
I was the most lenient with my “cuarentena.” I still drank cold thing and ate cold things and ate chile! I was eating hot Cheetos the next day and the nurse/lactation consultant said I was fine that I can eat anything i wanted! And I and baby indeed were fine! She is 1 year old now and I still breast feed 🤷🏻♀️😊 truly every body is different ❤️🩹 congratulations again on baby Noah ❤️
Also some socks in your feet beacuase then your going to walk cruket that's what my mom told me
Girl why you uploading so late mama😭😭
If you or anyone ever needs help with breastfeeding, there is a resource called La Leche League that helps women with nursing their babies. I had help from the hospital with our first baby....oooo girl it was rough. I had to give him formula because he had latching issues. I was engorged and became infected it was awful. Anyway we got through it and he is a healthy teen now. You're doing great both of you.
I'm greek and we do 40days at home to help with healing.❤ lil Noah is gorgeous xx
Hey gurl stay away from salty foods
Ohh girl I know how u feel what help my breast milk to come in like a whole lot was oatmeal my mother in law used to make me but it wasn’t a regular oatmeal we’re all used to she would actually make it watery but with a great flavor she was on good good to me & helped me soo much with my first born may god rest her beautiful soul she was the definition of the best mother in law anyone can ask for & im soo happy ur & Brian’s mom are there for u guys out as well but here’s to many blessings ur guys wayy…♥️
Noah is perfection 🫶🏼 he has the Best guardian Angel watching over him keeping him safe 👼
❤❤ I feel so happy for you mama ur doing a great job I know Bryancito it's so proud of you 🥰
I didn’t really do the 40 days my mom does believe in it but didn’t really enforce it lol I went to take a walk in our backyard with the baby like 5 days after he was born? It was a warm sunny day and being outside actually gives me life. 🤷🏻♀️ I do think it’s very important to take care of our bodies postpartum. I did eat caldos for a long time and hot chocolate and tons of oatmeal for my milk supply which I can confirm did help me!
Hey girl! Just a tip that helped me while I was adjusting to breastfeeding. Pace feed the baby with the bottle so that when he goes on the breast he doesn’t get frustrated with having to put it the work 🥰
Me thinking damn she’s posting late , as I click to watch 😂❤️
The way you say pizza lol love.
I'm living for these vlogs, I just patiently wait for Mayra to upload.. I was pregnant with my first son after 3 girls with Mayra when she was pregnant with bryancito🙏🤍 just to see Finally see her being a mother to baby Noah is just so heartwarming to see 🥹 I've been watching the whole family for years now and I feel like I know them, love this! 🥰❤️ please post ALL the vlogs! We want to see them! Love ya ms gorg
Yessssss love this kind of videos with baby boy want too see more ♥️♥️♥️♥️🧸🧸🧸🧸👶🏻👶🏻👶🏻👶🏻👶🏻 XOXOX morning routines with baby ♥️
Everyone has there own way of trying to produce more breast milk and myth that say if you do this or don’t wear this your will milk dry out but my mom had all her kids and didn’t do anything out of the ordinary or anything that your doing or that your mom is saying to do and she never dried out her milk supply she actually had more living her regular life doing her normal things obviously she would pump when she needed to eat laction cookies and stuff pero that was it no iso mas nada but to each is own and we’re are of Hispanic culture as well she is from Spain im half Cuban half Spanish so it can’t be a Latin thing it must be like what you said culture
Yeah I was the same and the more u feed the more u produce , I fed for 12 years of my life so I had plenty n did nothing but feed my babies lol.
i’m hispanic and i’ve never heard of “cuarentena” and tbh it sounds a little extreme & silly lol. is there any proof that it actually works/makes a difference? just curious 😅
I’m the first one finally!!🎉😂 Love you girl!😊❤
Congrats!!!!
I feel like Cuarentena is more of a myth.. my mom made my 3 sisters follow it (not as strict as before)
But I personally did not follow it at all and nothing that my mom said was gonna happen, happened lol
So I guess if you really believe in it then it happens but if you don’t, it doesn’t ? Haha
But everyone has their own belief after birth
My mom and sister would tell me stuff too. Most I had heard before. EXCEPT the one of cooking! I didn't believe them until I did my research. I was paranoid after that and listened to some 🤣
I feel like with my second csection it was a lot easier I healed quicker wasnt as swollen, granted with my first I was in the ICU after I had gotten super sick while in labor and then I found out I had a really rare form of anemia and it had pretty much destroyed my blood count so I was dying from blood loss and pneumonia it was just thrilling first time mom experience my 2nd birth was super easy
I always look forward to new blogs from you guys 💗💗
The air thing is very true girlie! You’ll start feeling it later on the pain in your back si no Te cuidas!! Bless your mommy for looking out for her baby❤
Am Arabian from north Sudan Abd we stay at home for 40 days after delivery 😊😊
Am Arabian from north Sudan And we stay at home for 40 days after delivery 😊😊
See you thrive through your journey. Brings me so much motivation and inspires me. Just the fact you went through that c section and are blessed with baby Noah. Let's me know I will be OK to as I am approaching my c section .
I did not follow through with the cuarentena customs . My mom, hubby and his aunt kept bugging... like, "tápate la cabeza los oídos, la cola blah blah blah" 😅😅 I became hella annoyed🤣. Since my daughter was in the nicu, i would go visit her daily and I remember seeing this lady who i think was also recién aliviada but she looked como una homeless😅😅..! I was like nope, not me😂😂
My family is Haitian and we do the same cuarentena, it is a thing in we do from keeping the wind from beating us if that makes sense idk how to translate that in english. Lol. It helps you heal faster too.
I’m so glad you’re ok but ,blood clots are not to be played around with. I had 3 blood clots in my lungs and one in my leg a foot long . I’m a miracle that I’m still alive and celebrating 13 years of God saving my life . I was told to take one baby aspirin a day and I still do to this day .
I clicked so fast when I saw a new update!! Omg Noah is so freaking adorable! Congrats!!❤
I come from a very Mexican family and my grandma was a midwife. Therefore my mom was strict with her cuarentena for all 5 of her births.
When I had my babe in Sept 2021 she kept telling me to cover up and to cover my baby but I could not in this Texas heat for fear that she or I would overheat.
If we’re hot, baby is hot.
I am not traditional at all so I did not do cuarentena. I am still successfully breastfeeding 20 months later.
I do like learning about those traditions but I do not personally believe them to be true.
I feel that as long as it’s something that’s worth doing for yourself, then no harm in following those traditions 🫶🏼
Also, I had a lot of trouble with latching at first too. We did away with pacifier and nipple shields and she was able to latch after a few feeds.
My friend swears that putting formula on her nipple saved her breastfeeding journey , might be worth the shot for you!!
Anyways, congratulations to both of you and thank you for sharing so much with us♥️
I know you'll be busy ☺️ But show US your bebito 🍼🐥☺️💝 Love you'll please just sending love 🥰❤️
As a nurse best thing for feet swelling is keep them elevated, avoid anything with sodium, and definitely avoid ALL soda. Also try soaking your legs in Epson salt . I was a walking dead woman from fluid building up during covid. Thanks to my old pcp ignoring my demands for an ultrasound on my legs it damaged my right main heart valve and it also made the right side of my heart enlarge. So please sweetie if you continue to swell go to the ER or urgent care. You and Bryan have been through hell and back, I hate to see something to happen to you. Our youngest was borderline jaundice I would put her in the bassinet and let the sun hit her, of course with the blinds closed. Be safe and have a wonderful week love you guys God Bless 💜 💙 💙💙
Omg on the cuarentena,, I think it should be followed Toma certain extent as a form of respect and appreciation for your body and your baby. It should be a time of nourishment and bonding. I see women with c sections (aka full big surgeries) strap on high hills and go out party literally not even 2 weeks after giving birth,, sometimes WITH the baby and I just can't. Recently i saw an old friend that went on an actual trip, kids and all, to the beach like 10 days after her c section. I mean to each their own but I could never
I’m Korean! While in Korea and china it’s way more strict. They won’t even let you shower unless they already warmed up the water and they wrap you up right away after. But I’m not too strict. I do have myself covered up and warm. I wear long sleeves after all my babies and sweats or long pants. Stock up on socks. I do feel like if I keep myself cold my bones ache more and that’s one of the things they say.
The new intro picture is beautiful guys 😊❤
Love your momma’s way of taking care of you 💜
I don’t think not taking a shower is healthy. You need to clean yourself down there but the six weeks without being around people just to protect your baby I do believe in and your body needs to heal completely especially with a C-section. Take care of yourself mama.
Girrlll you giving me anxiety just watching you clean and do all these movements 😂
Our cuarentena is so different ours is so strict
Once u leaving the hospital you have to cover up head to toe and be wheeled out no walking out or carrying anything with you! Once we arrive to the house you lay on the couch fajada and drink all warm stuff and eat Caldos you can’t carry baby standing only sitting and laying down you have to lay down all day only sit for a little bit don’t ask why disen Que it’s bad for you 😂 Mexicans I tell tou 😅
Anyways you can’t get baby out the bassinet or change baby standing bending over bcz it’s bad so u have to sit and change baby no bending no walking around no doing chores no cooking no getting close to the stove no going out unless u going to appts you can’t go outside no walking anywhere unless ur going to the bathroom 😂😂
Cover ears keep socks on at all times
No cold drinks and putting pomadas on ur back and stomach every night for the first 3 weeks at the 4 week u can walk around and stuff but not too much
It’s crazy how different everyone’s cuarentena is you doing good girl congrats again on baby Noah ❤❤❤❤❤
I was on my own, had my baby at 19 and he was in NICU so definitely no cuarentena but it makes me so happy to see you getting so much love and support.
Honestly as a mexican myself I think the cuarentena is BS. My mom had to do everything after I was born because my dad had to work and she was alone with her first born and she was ok and she breastfed me no pumping, no bottle feed, no formula. My aunt had a c-section and was literally driving 2 days out of the hospital everywhere. My uncles baby momma had 3 c-sections, and my grandma was a b to her and she was fine too The only one who did the cuarentena and got everything done for her was my dad's youngest sister and that's only because she gets babied because she is obviously her favorite.
My 2nd C-section i definitely felt more than my 1st. I was suprised because my 1st was twins so i thought that would have been worse. But my 2nd was 7 years apart so maybe thats why?
Quarentera sounds like Quarantine lol. Seems like it's almost the same lol
Mama if he is peeing during his diaper change, rub a wipe under his belly button with his diaper covering his pp before you do the diaper change !! It works miracles!!!
20:34 i went as Normal, nmas tanto no “limpiar” según yo 😂 but i was just taking advantage of it and making my Boyfriend do it for me , that’s It, y nmas Ponerme Una Faja , but that’s It, y ni me pasó nada 😂 so, es pura mentira For me
I wish all moms were like mexican mom y’all be having the types of mom that will come over and cook. Meanwhile us Puerto Ricans gotta feed our moms when they come visit 😂they ain’t as loving as y’all’s 😂
All my family does cuarentena, you don't go outside, put cotton balls in your ears, te fajas the whole time during cuarentena. Your not supposed to let air hit you because later on when you get older you will have back sharp pain. Te fajas so your bones go back to how they used to be if not you will have major low back pain. You watch what you eat no carne nor eggs usually just caldos and sopa de fideos. Its super sticked i have 3 kids myself and did the cuarentena. Time flies by i dont know why people say its so hard. Its just taking care of yourself since it went through a drastic change because you may not feel it right now or five years from now but when you get old all your body will hurt and you will have all the enfermedades in the world.
We’re Mexican but no one in my family does a quarentena. Honestly I run hot so I wouldn’t be able to always be fully covered 😅 but I wish I had help the way you do with your mom and suegra.
I’m Hmong. In my culture the mother and baby stays home for a whole month, the mother is on a boiled chicken and rice diet the whole time, we cannot enter anyone’s home until the month is over,if we go out to the grocery store or walks etc we have to be covered up especially our head and face area. Nowadays the “chicken diet” has been substituted by pork or beef as well. As long as it’s cooked clean with no grease. Some mothers don’t follow the diet period lol. The list goes on but those are just a few important things. 😁
I did everything didn’t follow no rules and have 6 kids 😂my oldest is 24 and youngest is 16 months
Nobody’s gonna mention, I’m assuming Mia, just crashed out on the couch? 🥰🥹
Keep trying with the nipple shield. I used mine for 13 months but we DID THAT! Lol
Cuarentena to me was more resting and not being out similar to you unless it’s important mostly because there is a pan size wound inside even if you feel fine you are still healing ❤️🩹 oh and wearing a faja!!!
8:32 awwwww 🥹
Why didn’t you latch him the whole time at the hospital? If you want to continue breastfeeding concentrate on strictly breastfeeding. He will reject your boob if you continue this way so early on.
Breast feeding can be challenging. Make an appointment with a lactation specialist as soon as possible. It was so painful to pump and hard to get my son to latch. Turned out he was tongue tied and the nipple cup on my pump was the wrong size for me and way to small and leaving my skin raw, irritated and not allowing the pump to get out all of my milk. The specialist helped me get the right nipple cup size for me, to pump every 2 hours, how to massage your breast while pumping to release all the milk and some exercises to do with my son to fix his tongue tied issues.
Girl OMG same. Don’t even worry about the pumping/BF my baby is 2 months and we struggled so much getting him to latch and take the boob! Now that he is bigger & stronger he is doing so much better! Now he won’t take the bottles 🥲 haha don’t get discouraged, don’t give up. Just be patient on yourself you guys are both learning💕
With the first I let a lot slide but with my decond i didnt go outbat all. my mom did tell me that with the second labor you body is more open and takes longer to back to normal. I just covered up good and drank chocolate and other teas. Caldos and avena too.
I was a over supplier because body armor drinks and pink drink from Starbucks and oat meal and loads of snacking! Good luck! 🎉
Some Asian cultures do something similar. They don't go outside, they eat soups, and only bathe with certain water
Girl that’s not the right way to buckle the baby. You want to make sure that it’s snug on the baby if you can pinch the belt it’s still loose. Try and consult with a pediatrician and they can show you how. If the baby is to loose he can get hurt during an accident. But keep up the good work he is adorable ❤
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I think your heart was hurting more on the first C-section that maybe you didn’t realize the c-section pains as much
Oh mam, I went trick or treating on a 60 degree night at two weeks post Partum 7 years ago with my second baby lol
Cuarentena went out the windowww 🤣
When you said you get a bajón when you start to pump it’s an actual thing and there’s an actual term for it.. I had to stop because it was effecting me a lot crying every time and I was just sad for no reason
Omg maybe that is why I dried up fast because after my son was born I was driving myself to see him in the hospital everyday and going to school just 5 days off after a c section
I went out as usual a week after giving birth. Didn't effect my milk at all, i think its just an old wives tale type of thing.
Yes girl swollen ness and u just had a baby, immediately need to go to an er even if the wait long girl your health is more important fellow nursing healthcare worker 😊😊
With my first child my son I had at 20 years old n he was in the nicu for almost 2 1/2 months I had to be induced I was not aloud to go pass 37 weeks cause it could be dangerous, my son was born with Gastroschisis which means he was born with his intestines on the outside of his stomach he went through 2 surgeries first one was as soon as he was born I wasn't even able to hold him they had to take him straight into surgery fast
My baby girl is 2 years old now but when she was a newborn she didn’t want to latch I couldn’t breast feed I had to pump and she was getting only 8 ounces then I dried out after 2 weeks