The comments are right. two bunk beds across each other for the four kids and a pull out couch for mom and dad would help a bit. Maybe a room separator as well between living room and kitchen. A lot more spacious and liveable. They need to move while the kids age 😭😭
if they can only afford a one bedroom apartment, how can they FINANCIALLY support their kids? Making sure they get their shots, get fed good food, have their medical bills paid, and their futures taken care of? I doubt all of them are being done
If you’re in a one bedroom it’s much cheaper. My husband and I were in a one bedroom with two kids. We turned the living room/dining room into their room with beds and a t.v , gaming system. We don’t have people over anyway🤷🏻♀️ now we are in a 3 bedroom 3 bath house
Tbf, A LOT of people can barely afford their housing situation right now, even those with fewer kids and 2 working parents. That said, they still need to stop reproducing and get more strategic to improve their financial situation.
Crazy. I'm a single mom of two and my kids have their own bedrooms. Even though I wanted more kids, I decided two was enough because that was the number of kids I could ethically afford to have. This just seems super unfair :(
this mother and people who support her keep saying we are being mean to poor people when we criticize this. The issue isnt being poor. i grew up poor with both parents having to work, at one point multiple jobs each to support us. the difference is they never had us sleeping on the floor in no damn 1 bedroom apt. even when me and siblings had to share a room, we had a bed. then my parents slept on pullouts in the living room so that we all got a room to ourselves when we finally moved to a larger place. Theres no excuses to have your kids out in the main room on the floor while the parents have a big ass bed and gaming set up and their own room. if someone breaks into that apartment, the FIRST thing theyll stumble on is a bunch of young children sprawled out in the open. and when the kids grow up and start being teenagers, that lack of privacy and security will become an issue. TLDR theres a saying, every kid deserves a parent, not all parents deserve kids. to continue having kids and you cant even get yourself out of poverty is crazy. WRAP IT UP.
1 bedroom is much cheaper. My husband and I were in a one bedroom with two kids. We turned the living room /dining room into their room with beds and a t.v , gaming system. We don’t have people over anyway🤷🏻♀️ now we are in a 3 bedroom 3 bath house. These people do NOT need to have anymore kids especially if she’s begging on the internet. They need to forcefully tie her tubes Our parents temporarily had me and my siblings in the same situation and we didn’t care. We moved into a huge 5 bedroom 3 bath home after that lease was up
The nail in the coffin comment for me was about how the parents sleep in the most comfortable and only room. Yet they are the one's who make every decision like the the housing situation, how many kids to have, mom not working ect. It's these poor kids who suffer the consequences of the decisions these adults make. They are the ones having no bedrooms, no place to call their own; while mom and dad have a room just for themselves. This mother then has the nerve to say her kids come first. Make it make sense please.
I will hate my parents if they have this kind of mindset. My parents gave me everything they could. Cant imagine purposefully put your kids in poor environment...
So true! imagine all the trauma and baggage these kids will have down the road (if not already). Also no one mentioned how the mother is showing the kids and their living situation all over socials and how that can cause harm to the kids. The potential for kids at their school to see this and bully them, and the sheer embarrassment of having your parent ask strangers for money on tik tok is perfect set up for childhood trauma.
Totally happy this showed up on my recommendations. I agree with circumstances where kids share rooms or multiple kids share a single room but one thing I find is that most of those families don't post about it on social media. For me is was always a hush topic. I also wonder why the parents don't sleep in the living room with their kids having the closed off bedroom. Where are the kids suppose to go when they need either a) alone time or b) move to a quieter space? I also know this might not be a popular opinion but birth control is always an option. Either pills for the woman or condoms for the man.
I agree with this video 100%, though I have a question, what does not being biologically connected have to do with the situation? what about for adopted kids then? Are you saying that because they aren't blood, they aren't comfortable with eachother? I dunno. However yeah I think she is definitely messed up for doing this and she is an incredibly selfish mother
I think the point of mentioning the blending family is that the adjustment can be a lot harder vs bio siblings who have known each other from birth. Throwing kids together whether a blended family or adoption is a struggle in any situation, each kid has their own routines, personality ect. Forcing them to now live with a whole new set of siblings and parent is a huge adjustment. Now imagine doing that without enough space for the kids to have privacy. They have no where to go to be alone and they literally have to share everything. Even as an adult that would be uncomfortable and hard to manage.
The comments are right. two bunk beds across each other for the four kids and a pull out couch for mom and dad would help a bit. Maybe a room separator as well between living room and kitchen. A lot more spacious and liveable. They need to move while the kids age 😭😭
if they can only afford a one bedroom apartment, how can they FINANCIALLY support their kids? Making sure they get their shots, get fed good food, have their medical bills paid, and their futures taken care of? I doubt all of them are being done
Probably gonna be on Medicaid :( it makes me so sad
If you’re in a one bedroom it’s much cheaper. My husband and I were in a one bedroom with two kids. We turned the living room/dining room into their room with beds and a t.v , gaming system. We don’t have people over anyway🤷🏻♀️ now we are in a 3 bedroom 3 bath house
Tbf, A LOT of people can barely afford their housing situation right now, even those with fewer kids and 2 working parents.
That said, they still need to stop reproducing and get more strategic to improve their financial situation.
The Government does it!
My thing is, no one...NO ONE AT ALL would've known about ANY of this to judge them had THEY not chosen to tell the whole world about it. 🤨
Exactly!!!!
These fools are all over my FYP.
Crazy
Same lmao at least I finally got the full bkdown
Yeah it's so awful
Crazy. I'm a single mom of two and my kids have their own bedrooms. Even though I wanted more kids, I decided two was enough because that was the number of kids I could ethically afford to have. This just seems super unfair :(
Thank you for being the parent all kids deserve to have! You sacrificed your wants for their needs, THAT is what a real mother does! 👏
Agreed! Putting kids in that situation seems super unfair and selfish
this mother and people who support her keep saying we are being mean to poor people when we criticize this. The issue isnt being poor. i grew up poor with both parents having to work, at one point multiple jobs each to support us. the difference is they never had us sleeping on the floor in no damn 1 bedroom apt. even when me and siblings had to share a room, we had a bed. then my parents slept on pullouts in the living room so that we all got a room to ourselves when we finally moved to a larger place. Theres no excuses to have your kids out in the main room on the floor while the parents have a big ass bed and gaming set up and their own room. if someone breaks into that apartment, the FIRST thing theyll stumble on is a bunch of young children sprawled out in the open. and when the kids grow up and start being teenagers, that lack of privacy and security will become an issue.
TLDR theres a saying, every kid deserves a parent, not all parents deserve kids. to continue having kids and you cant even get yourself out of poverty is crazy. WRAP IT UP.
If you’re begging strangers for money YOU DO NOT NEED KIDS
And here I thought my family was crowded.
1 bedroom is much cheaper. My husband and I were in a one bedroom with two kids. We turned the living room /dining room into their room with beds and a t.v , gaming system. We don’t have people over anyway🤷🏻♀️ now we are in a 3 bedroom 3 bath house. These people do NOT need to have anymore kids especially if she’s begging on the internet. They need to forcefully tie her tubes
Our parents temporarily had me and my siblings in the same situation and we didn’t care. We moved into a huge 5 bedroom 3 bath home after that lease was up
Clock that tea sis, ain't tell nothing but the truth. CPs also needs to be called if she continues this nasty-ass behavior.
Just f'ing disgusting.
It is!
The nail in the coffin comment for me was about how the parents sleep in the most comfortable and only room. Yet they are the one's who make every decision like the the housing situation, how many kids to have, mom not working ect. It's these poor kids who suffer the consequences of the decisions these adults make. They are the ones having no bedrooms, no place to call their own; while mom and dad have a room just for themselves. This mother then has the nerve to say her kids come first. Make it make sense please.
It makes no sense at all!
Imagine getting an attitude with your viewers while also begging them for money 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol the very definition of entitlement!
I will hate my parents if they have this kind of mindset. My parents gave me everything they could. Cant imagine purposefully put your kids in poor environment...
So true! imagine all the trauma and baggage these kids will have down the road (if not already). Also no one mentioned how the mother is showing the kids and their living situation all over socials and how that can cause harm to the kids. The potential for kids at their school to see this and bully them, and the sheer embarrassment of having your parent ask strangers for money on tik tok is perfect set up for childhood trauma.
Yeah, that’s going to be tough for them
Totally happy this showed up on my recommendations. I agree with circumstances where kids share rooms or multiple kids share a single room but one thing I find is that most of those families don't post about it on social media. For me is was always a hush topic. I also wonder why the parents don't sleep in the living room with their kids having the closed off bedroom. Where are the kids suppose to go when they need either a) alone time or b) move to a quieter space? I also know this might not be a popular opinion but birth control is always an option. Either pills for the woman or condoms for the man.
This cant be real lol
Craziness
If You are rich, that is fine! Taking other peoples money to raise Your kids is assinine. 🖕
I thought you could only have 2 to a bedroom or is that just adults?
I agree with this video 100%, though I have a question, what does not being biologically connected have to do with the situation? what about for adopted kids then? Are you saying that because they aren't blood, they aren't comfortable with eachother? I dunno. However yeah I think she is definitely messed up for doing this and she is an incredibly selfish mother
I think the point of mentioning the blending family is that the adjustment can be a lot harder vs bio siblings who have known each other from birth. Throwing kids together whether a blended family or adoption is a struggle in any situation, each kid has their own routines, personality ect. Forcing them to now live with a whole new set of siblings and parent is a huge adjustment. Now imagine doing that without enough space for the kids to have privacy. They have no where to go to be alone and they literally have to share everything. Even as an adult that would be uncomfortable and hard to manage.
Exactly!!! I definitely appreciate this comment
@@KS-ev2zu Good response. Thanks so much for the insight, you definitely have a point and now I understand.
💩 multiplies!