I fully understand her were was her help....so don't come in like you have been there...God bless this mother heal deliver and set her free in Jesus name 🙏.
Glory to God on behalf of this pastor who is not dismissing her grief but, decided to give God the praise, and invited the spirit of God to flow through the room.
Only God Can Have His Way God Will Take Away The Feeling Of Hurt From The Mother Only God ✝️ God Holds The Keys To Life & Death He's The Alpha & Omega Hallelujah Amen 🌹✝️🎩
@@mattw4496They had a program to follow which she authorized. He wanted to move things along so they could move on with the grieving process. Were they supposed to be in church all day?
Id be so fucking proud of my momma for calling everyone out on their bs. This world full of fake ass people doing fake ass shit. This woman kept it real for her son and i commend her for it of all is true.
And I want my mom to have the front row empty. If you didn’t buy me any flowers, bring a casserole, hire a second line performer, get me a parade permit for my second line then please sit in the back row. The front row is only for those that have contributed
No she did not. If someone prostitutes to support themselves, it’s for themselves. Food stamps, and section 8 along with vouchers for cars and free medical so why is she on the street prostituting? That usually means drugs. She’s not standing up for her son. And we need to stop living our feelings and start living on reason. Starting up cussing and attractive and acting like that it’s not Help her son or Support her son. Only her feelings. I’ve done black holes and I’m done white and I rather do a white girl any day. There is some dignity and they are quiet and they don’t even cry. They do that at home. And I don’t get into anybody’s face. There is a way to act even and sadness or pain. But we choose to yell screen cues, and do anything that we feel like doing without reasoning a thing out. It makes us look terrible. And why you would support I do not know. This is not the way to honor her son, but she really cared. Look like she care more about what people were thinking about her than her son. The church members are not saying anything to her because they know exactly what’s up. They know her.
There is a right place and a wrong place to do and say things. This was a complete disgrace, regardless of what may had occurred prior in her son's life, when he was alive. Has the mother ever thought that she is part of the reason why her son is laying in a casket, instead of putting the blame on someone else? It really doesn't matter now because he's gone, and all of that chaos, and profane disruptions of the service is not going to bring him back. Instead of grieving the loss of her loved one, she's there raising hell, disrespecting her own son's funeral and making herself look bad. If that service was held inside of a church, not only she was disrespecting herself, but she was also disrespecting the house of God. Her concerns should have been whether if her son was saved and made it to heaven, instead of her raising hell at his funeral.
@@slimdude2011the way she is acting at this funeral, shows what type of life she has lead and what is in her heart. It's obvious she's not caring about the resting place of her son's soul nor her's. This is an example of a day in the life of an infadele.
@@slimdude2011how she acts at his funeral doesn’t determine whether he gets into heaven that’s only between him and god. Was it a lot? Sure, but she spoke her truth and to say “instead of mourning” like what she’s doing up there isn’t a form of mourning is ridiculous. I’m sure you haven’t lost a child, nor have experienced the pain of losing someone so close they are literally apart/an extension of you- that you will never understand that human emotion is only capable of so much political correctness. This is what makes us human and sometimes it’s ugly and confrontational. There is a road of healing ahead and she will deal with it mostly alone. I can only imagine being in her shoes and I kinda do because I recently lost my father. I was way too numb to have this kind of reaction, but I understood everything. Especially after living the kind of life she had to live to make sure they both ate everyday. R.I.P to that young man.
@@monicachuidian-riveracalderonIF he had a relationship with Christ and lived his life for Christ in obedience to GOD'S HOLY WORD with the help of the holy Spirit..then he will ! Because you can't live like hell and expect to go to heaven when you die🤞🏽 I'm Not saying he did I'm just stating what God's requirements are to live with him forever . " But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it." ( Matt 7:13-14 for full verse) ❤️🙏🏽🕊️✌🏽✌🏽
@@blacknloud4002that fake granny and daddy was NEVER there then show up at his funeral!!! Heck you mean??? THEY DIDN'T GIVE A DARN ABOUT HIM WHILE HE LIVED!!! YOU HUSH
As a funeral Director, you just would be absolutely amazed at all of the funerals that turn into this! Families are under one roof jammed together for the first time in years! Issues come out and just like what you saw happen here open wounds, fester! i’ve had it so bad that I have had to drape myself over the closed casket to keep people from mistreating the deceased! I’ve had to call the police to separate families. I have had to call the police because one family will accuse the other family of contributing to the death of the deceased but the more liquor that is consumed in the parking lot the more help that’s going to be broken loose in the sanctuary oh, at the cemetery? People grabbing flowers and throwing them around at each other! Take a $500 massive floral arrangement and go up beside somebody’s head with it! You’ve never seen so many flower petals! It’s our job not to get involved with the family first of all, we do what the person who pays the bills says! I don’t care how close you are by relation or friendship to the deceased, if you didn’t pay, you will not get your way! There is such a thing called psychogenic shock. It’s when something suddenly happens to you and your body cannot handle it most people faint. three people died! They were all mothers, and when they came to the funeral home for the first viewing when they walked up to the open casket, and saw their child, regardless of how old they were from a toddler to a 60 year-old, when mothers see their children in caskets, wearing a tuxedo or a gown, they fall out.
God Bless your wisdom and candor. People are hurting and the pain screams, cuss, fight and kill. It has to go somewhere. Earth has so sorrow that heaven can't heal.
Thank you for sharing. You are so right and your wisdom is on point. I remember when my brother was murdered in 1994 and my mom almost passed out. It was painful to see my mom hurt so much. When she died 15 years later, the death certificate may say one thing but she really died of a broken heart.
So true it is not a laughing matter when someone you love passes away. Folks being disrespectful laughing, carrying on with no respect. I have even seen folks taking photos with cell phones of themselves with your deceased loved one…NOT right! It is a celebration of life not a party! My condolences to you beautiful mother suffering this great, very painful loss…protecting her child to the end…my respect
I don't understand how there could be any laughter in that place. I felt sick to my stomach when I heard laughter. I'm praying for healing to this mother. I feel for her.
No... Is she there for everybody else kids, No... it's because she has her own life... families have their own lives, too, and sometimes weeks and months go by before checking in especially large families... It doesn't mean they don't love and care, there is so much going on in their lives. Her attitude shows she has issues and is probably the reason they keep their distance.
@sheridanoutlaw1214 yes this is a mother in pain. She loss her child and fake people are all around her that wasn’t there when he was alive. When you loose a child then speak until then you know the rest.
So make a *SPECTACLE* of yourself at your child's funeral???? Girl bye. This is unacceptable & unnecessary. This woman clearly wanted a show. No one in their right mind does this to take the spotlight at their own child's funeral, and the fact that you and anyone else agrees with this behavior lets me know that you act exactly the same way. And no. I'm not reading replies
Loosing a child is the worst pain anyone could ever experience. Her pain and grief is hers. She can grieve however she wants, pray for her not ridicule her. This is an emptiness that will never go away for this mother. It hurst. GOD keep her.
I just believe this is the case. There are no tears in her eyes and she seem to be caring more about herself or about what people were thinking and took the opportunity to yell at them, but there were no mother’s tears in her eyes. I have done maybe 200 funerals and I know the difference. It was just a chance for her to yell at people she didn’t like. You know no one said anything to her and that’s because they know her.
If this is keeping it real then I don’t ever want to be real! It’s disrespectful as fuck and we black people are always talking about real rather telling the truth, ignorance
She didnt want no fake ppl and fake condolences im glad she called them out.if you kmow you wasn't there,ridicule this woman and here baby why even come
I don't care. We all grieve when love ones dies. This was disrespectful. The wrong place to do this. Take it to the lot at home but not in front of guests. Don't hold up disrespect, because of a loved one's death. She shut up when the word of God was poured over her. That was the devil. He's a liar
Cuz monitoring spirits want to have a front row seat to see you at your worst but that's how you'll fxck around and find out real fast....call them out
She shouldn't have a funeral if she didn't want fake people. Because fake people come to all funerals. It's not her right to confront those people that way in the lords house... because she could have done this anywhere...
Protected and stood with HER child thru life and death!! Her heart is broken. Let her get it out! Cuz family AIN'T shit sometimes. God bless you mama. 🕊💜
Yes! She's clearing the air...I did the same thing at my brother's funeral. I made a fool of myself, but I said things that needed said for a LONG time! Lord, forgive me, but that's what pain and love does, it divides. She's hurting. That's her baby, she's in pain. Bless her heart.
You didn’t make a fool of yourself. You were grieving baby. That’s all. That’s forever your brother and only a good sister would be emotional like that.
You just never know how you will respond in this type of situation, people better hope they never lose a child. This mom is in pain, love on her, and pray for her instead of criticizing her
After almost 6yrs as of August 24th I still can't get over losing my son😢😢 I completely understand this mother's pain, so many HYPOCRITES came from everywhere but more so in the "FAMILY" God bless u sister 🙏🏼 ❤️ sending u hugs nd lots of love in Jesus name This is a pain I wish on NO MOTHER/PARENT it freaking HURTS!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭 God is the one who gives me strength but still it's so hard...
That poor woman is grieving, and in so much pain to lose a child is a pain you can't imagine unless you have walked in her shoes. Let's just lift her up in prayer 🙏
Prayers for her, I understand, I lost my son 36 years ago, though it's still just like yesterday. If it weren't for God, who brought me through all the pain and suffering, I'd be gone by now, possibly dead, or in a mental state. Father, touch this mother with your divine healing powers, in that she can come to know you and allow you to save and deliver her from all that's hurting her and all that has her bound, in your blessed name, I pray. Cover her with your shed blood. 🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾
Decency and order is needed! SHE seems high on something. Grieving is not crazy' just difficult for each person. She is angry and needs help. Cussing and fussing is rude and out of control. There is a controlling spirit on her. There is a right way and a wrong way.😢
Her anger was so great she could have physically hurt someone but, her emotions needed to vent. No matter what she did in the past, she is alright in my book. God bless her for her pain and being real. 🙏🏽❤️
What are you talking about we all stop messing with people everyday... but those people at least got up this morning to prepare for his home going..look how she was slamming the flowers and gifts...... she didn't respect anyone including the pastor and more importantly how she disrespected the church......she is the devil in my belief..... from what I saw of her.
@@Gerald-om5xt yeah, it’s gets weird when she’s trying to yell over the prayer and exaltation. Then walking back and forth across the pulpit. Yelling about what she did for her son. For what??
I'm 27, and I have specific instructions just in case I go too soon for my funeral. NONE of my family is invited besides my mother, grandmother, kids, and maybe one aunt. My friends know exactly what to do in case someone tries to come and "pay their respects". You didn't love me when I was breathing, so you definitely don't get to grieve me now. Keep it the same
@@shay5839 love you assume I'm the toxic and hateful one without knowing anything about me or my family lol, I assume you're also the type to say someone "wanted it" because of what they were wearing 😅 odd flex sis
I almost did this at my mother's funeral the amount of disrespect she went through in life and those same people spoke at her funeral as if they were best friends with my mom made me sick to my stomach they judged my mother harmed my mother and didn't even apologize to her for nothing they did and my mommy was such a forgiving woman. They even disrespected me and my siblings just because of how they felt about my mom. Most of the people that showed up stole from her and didn't visit her when she was living her last days I promised my mother I would behave and stay silent and honor her and make sure to send her off beautifully without drama and I did it without reacting. Those people, those so called family members were pissed and angry at the amount of grace and class I displayed. I talk to none of those people today and ignore them all. Its been 6 months and I miss her dearly. I know this woman's pain all too well God give her love, strength, and mercy forever you know what's she's been through and why she's hurting show her grace in the mighty name of Jesus.
So sorry for your loss, Sister. I know that pain of losing a Mother. I am so happy that you chose to honor your Mother at her home going and not perform like you were in Harlem NY at the Apollo Theater. Let Karma and GOD handle those wicked souls. You gave Moms class, dignity, and honor. AMEN and GOD BLESS YOU, ALWAYS , SISTER 👑
She’s been holding that in for a long time. You can tell she’s hurting and angry. She needs a hug and prayer! Praying for her strength, peace and healing in the mighty name of Jesus! 🙏 🫂
She wasn’t lying on nobody that’s why they didn’t have a word to say!! Including the grandmother (the son’s father’s mother) She sat there and turned her head to the side and went to acting dumb like she didn’t know what this mother was talking about! Yeah you knew sis!!!!! You knew!!!! And like this mom said… when she had her son at 16 no one brought her gifts. Many women during pregnancy are accustomed to being showered with gifts… it’s a happy occasion for many. They join together and celebrate at what’s known a “baby shower”. But there are some who never experience this moment! This mother was in an invisible Time Machine as she stood beside her sons casket. She was able to experience and communicate all of these past traumas. It may seemed disrespectful but God knows her heart. I celebrate her for giving her son flowers and honoring him as she saw fit. Condolences to her… and anyone judging… consider these things I just stated before you decide to throw a stone! Pain is pain, period!
Nobody said anything because it's her son's funeral out of respect to the son and with great respect for the church.... a lot of people don't even see that she's the problem.... who gave the Mic to the devil.....how much worst could this have been if the devil had the mic....and since so many except the way she treated the lord's house the devil may have been present truly she may have been the devil. I don't care how many kids you lose....she or any one else has the right to misuse or disrespect a church the lords house because you're grieving.... i This is the first things they teach us is to respect the church... because the pastor has read from the bible unlike most and his job is teach us his word. So how can we say it's right to trample on his temple? No body for no reason
That pastor is anointed!!! He did the right thing!! Just pray and let GOD!!!! And the musicians fell right in. Wasting no time getting that house in order!!! ❤❤❤❤❤ Amen 🙏🏽
I disagree. Anointed to do what? If he was anointed, her spirit wouldn't have still been in unrest. Sorry. I feel for him, however, because he was in a hard spot.
I don't think so he was suppose to embrace that mother not shout her up with prayer and singing the word of God commands us to bind the broken hearted yet he ignored her and sang her out to go away , BUT the serious thing that ppl don't realize is she was praying and non helped her
I'm sure she's having a difficult time letting her so go but that's jot why she's shaping like that. Why would anybody, a family member ( dead beat daddy's and his supportive mama and family) whoever, show up at a funeral to a child you never chose to be apart of his life. The nerve of his dad and his family to show up at the funeral but never when he was alive. I would be mad too. Somebody should've been at the door turning folks away and she wouldn't have said all.of that.
Please stop trying to normalize rude, vulgar, selfish and respectful behavior. She could have had a private meeting with his family. She totally disrespected everyone who was there; at least the people who don't resolve conflicts by fussing, cussing and fighting. Stop the madness ....
@@Van-c4w - It ain't normal for a grandmother to tell her son not to financially support his child. Yet, grandmother is sitting in the funeral service showing support to a dead grandson. Make it make sense. Also, I don't agree with the vulgarity. The mother was angry and couldn't be controlled.
It sounded like to me the one in the chair is the man in the casket’s mother, not grandmother. The filthy mouthed lady screaming said “I’m his baby mama.” and since the one in the casket didn’t help financially, because (supposedly), the woman in the chair told her son in the casket to not help her (the vile lady screaming), she had to do crimes to feed and clothe the baby.
@@holylandfan3275 - Read the title. It's accurate. She was the mother of the deceased. This is why no one could stop her from speaking. Black people need to realize that there is nothing they can do for the dead. They need to stop showing up for funerals, especially when they did nothing for the person while they were living.
@@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 I read the title. If she’s the mother of the dead man, why did she say “I’m his baby mama”? Also, she insinuated by touching the casket that basically, if you don’t raise your child right, this is what happens (dead).
She loves her son ..protective of him even in death ..she held on to some deep rooted anger . Lord she needs help for wisdom ...not the time or place ...Heal her Lord in Jesus name ..Her grieve is palpable ..
You can’t tell god when the time or place for someone to tell the truth she may NEVER see all of them again so yeah she did what she needed to do as MOTHER to protect the life of her child from peoples fake love some people go to funerals just to be sure of one’s demise you never know who was praying on their downfall and she let them know what time it was as a mother and I applaud her and feel they should have let her get it off her chest she wasn’t volatile or overly angry just disappointed in the way people act like they care but never showed it didn’t even bring flowers just judgment ❤
That's so true may she get peace they no who they are always being messy and family members some of them in certain clicks break there neck for certain ones but the ones who really care and do everything to show love for there get treated the worst..
My heart goes out to this lady. Hurt, pain, grief, abandonment and disappointment are very real and what comes out as rage and pain are rooted in deep pain.
I truly understand her pain and when I loss my son (Soldier) his father pretending to be father of the year and was still paying back child support when and after my son passed and he was 21!!! If I wasn’t active military myself I would have cut up the same way !!!! Praying for your healing.
@chasityross2340, 😢 I lost my son/ 1st born in 2015... Never a word from his dad til this day, the unimaginable disregard for my babys life.......I understand your pain completely ❤️🙏🏽💪🏽❣️
I love this mother. God bless her for speaking her truth. Im' so sorry she lost her beautiful son who touched so many people. I thank the Preacher and Psalmists who brought the spirit of God in the room in such a powerful and loving way.
I hope her son didn't die as a result of her life style 😢😢😢 My mother raised 11 of us on her own little to no help from dad, not a dime of welfare, she refused to ask for government money meant for ppl who truly could not help themselves. She worked her butt of, we went without and ate what ever we could stretch out of very little. No one sold drugs or booty. I had nothing i WANTED but had all i needed ❤💪🏻♀️
This is when everyone wants to act like they have been there, or had a close relationship with a person!! Just went through the same thing losing my oldest son on 10/31/21. This is the way you tell who the true devils are in your family and friends and the ppl around you!!!
Facts!!! Same fakeness from my family at my son's funeral in 2022. But God... God is the only one who can heal. Nobody, I mean, nobody, will understand the pain and grief of a mother who's lost her child unless they have experienced it, too. I'm sorry for your loss, as well. Keep holding on... ❤❤❤
No one should judge the mother because we don't know what she's been going through the Pastor did what God told him to do to calm the situation may her son RIP Praying for the mother 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I read all the comments to this post talking about don't judge the mother, but not one comment about the father. Where is he, did he support this son??? Until we have godly black fathers in the black community this is what you will see, a yound man prematurely in a coffin, a young mother cussing folk out in the church. Strong godly black fathers with backbone and integrity is the only thing that turn our black community around. Not black civil rights leaders, not black churches, not the Black causus on Capital Hill, only strong black men that Love God, love their wives and love their children. You all are looking a the aftermath, but no one wants to deal with the problem. When the men failed to be men and the women accepted anything other a true man of God to lead her and the family, black family began to suffer and now the inner city black youth are now suffering. You may ask, How do we turn it around around? The women must refuse to allow a man into her life that is less than a godly, honest, dependable, and honorable man. One raise in a godly home with a father that loved and respected his wife who was a godly example for his children. If this happens there will be a paradigm shift in the black community! You may ask if I can't find a man like this? The answer: Keep your legs closed and lock your door when they leave! Debate me if you want, but this is the truth!
No matter how low she might be she is still a grieving mother. If you dont like a person dont play in they face. Some people will call you out and hurt your feelings.
It has always been my understanding that a person’s funeral is supposed to be about them. She is making it about her. All these people supporting this mess. She didn’t honor her loved one acting a fool.
She came there to express her hurt and pain and she knew that was the only place they all would gather to listen to her. They had no choice but to listen then.
I’m a nurse, but no judgement here. I will do anything to make sure that my kids are not without. Bless this young lady’s heart. She just wasn’t fortunate enough to have someone to guide her in the right direction ❤
I thank GOD that she had her say, and tell them to their faces. This mother is in PAIN. She had to do what she did so her son could eat and be taken care of. She said his mom told him not to help her. My church friend did the same thing to survive, because her baby father's drugs was more important than food, pampers, milk, etc. I helped buy things to keep her from having to beg him for help. Too many "coddling mammies" upholding these no good sons in their calamities. (Now they want to "silence" her at the funeral, and cover up the truth)
God rebuked Satan so that the youngmans mother could be heard. I heard you younglady , and I pray for your comfort I pray for your strength. God give her the strength continue to wrap your angels arms around her my God. Calm her mind give her strength give her happiness give her peace in the name of our father his son and the almighty Holy Spirit these things I pray in Jesus name❤😢❤❤
the mother was not satan or being driven by satan , that's why its very important for pastors to hear exactly what God is saying at that moment in time , the devils are the ones trying to hush her he should rebuke them and himself
This situation is deeper than the mother’s grief she was a young single mother and had to do way to much to survive and take care of her son. So very much anger, Lord have mercy, Lord have mercy on her.❤
this is my friend and she is not lying she did alot for her kids iv knew her since i was 17 and she is and was a go mf getter and rest in peace for her son i have never seen her in this much pain🙏
I didnt attend my last uncles funeral...family be fake as hell and never there and be living 5 mins away and always talking shit but will dress up just to show off for everybody else. God bless that woman speak your heart!
They were not laughing at her grief they were laughing at her acting a fool and cussing in the church. Then on part 2, she said that he was not the boy's father anyway, the DNA said so, so how can she get mad b/c his mother told him the same thing?
I don't blame the mom. If you weren't there for her son while he was alive. What are you doing at his funeral. God pls give this mom strength. May this young man rest in peace!🙏💕🕊⚘️
Single momma of five. And what I've learned is that no one owes any one any thing. This was uncalled for, IMO. If you raised your kid on your own, then so be it. No one owes her anything with the exception of the kids dad.
So much hurt; so much built up disappointments; so much pain; and suffering. Such a beautiful girl; needed prayer and more prayers. AMEN! Pastor did a beautiful job of staying calm and bringing forth the anointing.
The way she stood guard over her sons casket lets me know she really lived and rode for her kids. Ppl try to ignore her but they know she spoke truth. Sending love and prayers her way❤❤❤❤❤
She was a drug dealer. I hope she didn't sell drugs to kids in the neighborhood. I'm sure she loved her children the only way she knew how, but her behavior at the funeral was rude, selfish and vulgar. Stop normalizing bad behavior, it makes black women look bad.
I can truly understand this mother's pain. Since my daughter's passing this past November, I yet have to see or hear from all of the young ladies and gentlemen that hung around her when she took them into my home to shield them from the streets...sometimes hiding them (not knowing that her voice carried, and I overheard her sneaking them in) in her room to allow them to stay the night. A few of the young ladies stayed the entire Summer (some, several Summers) at my house. They hung out with her doing only God knows what. NONE of them was at her service. It hurt to see her go, it hurt even worse to have all of them just throw her away when she turned her life around for the better and STOPPED doing for them.
She was doing what God wanted her to do. Not for glory or praise. We don't know those young people or their pain. You can love someone dearly and can't see them in a casket. Give them grace. But most of all your daughter left a beautiful legacy that those who never knew or met her just learned in your pain. God bless you and give you peace and understanding. She finished her journey early. It hurts but obviously, her time was not wasted in this place. Glory Be To God may this be received in love. Amen
My heart goes out to the mother that lost her son, this was her only chance to catch them all together and have her say(was it the right way? Probably not, but when you're hurting Right or wrong goes out the window when an opportunity presents itself For you to share your true feelings. I think and praise the pastor for his compassion and godly leadership He did an awesome job because he labored with this hurting mother and her family... I pray God's blessing upon him his church his family from this day forward because God knew his heart.
It's been said there's no greater pain than when a parent buries their child. So I guess I can understand her grief. She loved her son. She carried him for 9 months, successfully raised him to adulthood just to watch him die in the prime of his young life. Yes, I understand her rage, hurt and pain. May bless her and the family - RIP.
My mother buried 2 of my siblings ages 4 in 88 and 21 in 08. Both gun violence that they were innocent victims in. I also ALMOST lost my eldest 2 children. That pain is real. It never leaves. I've seen it up close and personal. Sending long lasting love and healing to the Mother. She was passionate in expressing her hurt and anger. Glad she said how she felt. I too wish someone would've held her and reassured her of all the greatness she did for her son. And now he (her son) watches over her now. He has his wings. It's not for ppl to judge our lives. Only God has thee authority. 🙏🏾
I'm so sorry for her loss. She is in mourning and on top of that is very angry because she had no help from her alleged family and friends when he was alive and struggling. She's particularly outraged at her son's father and his mother. For always having an opinion on how she should raise and support her son, she had at 16 years old when she got pregnant. And furious for not helping them out financially all those years. She mentioned the things she had to do to make ends meet. IE: Selling drugs and her body. And for them to then have the unmitigated gall to show up at his home going. Im so glad she got all of that pain off her chest and mind.
If they did not show up, then she would have been upset. Giving her a pass to act like that is the problem blacks are having. Many women have had children at an early age, but she can not blame others for not helping, others did not make a child with her.
@@WhySoFlyMoore4 where was she supposed to sit? This is why young people do not live out their days, disrespecting elderly people is not of GOD. The grandmother was NOT obligated to take care of that child, she raised her children, that is the problem now. We justify this tactless behavior and in the LORD'S house at that. Pitiful
Bless her heart. I haven't experienced that pain but I'm a mother of two grown men. I can relate to being a single parent with no help and a lot of hate and judgement bc I had to provide however bc it was a must. Tears flowing from my eyes for her. Prayers for protection and strength for this beautiful sista.
Thanking God the Pastor used wisdom.Obviously there's much pain from the mother. I can't judge don't know except what I've viewed from this video. Praying for his Mom and his entire village of people who loved him.
That momma was hurt and sick and feed up with the foolishness her and her baby went through. She is hurt and it is coming out as anger. I love how the pastor knew to call on the name of Jesus, and not talk bad about the mother. RIP young one bless her lord to be able to forgive them, so she can have peace. Look how the Holy Ghost changed the vibe in the Lord's house.
I told my mama, which of us passes first, I don’t want anyone who does not deal with us while we are still living. Why in the HELL would they come when we are dead. Must be to come and see to make sure we are dead or to be nosey.
Pastors and officiants have to be prepared for anything at funerals these days. Better come girded up and able to call upon the name of the Lord with power and sincerity. So much going on in families and the circumstances leading up to the funerals. Prayers for peace upon the family. 🙏🏽
People don't respect the Name of God's or Jesus anymore 🙏🏼 this world is changing fast and l do believe, God is getting ready to tell Jesus go get my Children out of this world🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Ignorance!!! SMH @ people in the comments condoning this behavior blaming grief. This was a lack of couth and disrespecting the House of God. Disgusting.
I agree, don't wait until a funeral, tell people How you feel, call them or go by there house or see them wear they hang out at. This was hurting people who did nothing wrong just so she can get to the people she Hate. That's not fair to the House Of God, or The people who came to show real respect that did nothing wrong to her or her son. Don't make everybody SUFFER FOR WHAT SOMEBODY ELSE DONE WRONG TOO YOU. I understand she needed everybody in the same place at one time but not the House Of God, do it at a family reunion, Birthday party, or some other event. This was not pleasing to God or the Pastor or the people that press their way that did nothing wrong. The family members who is FAKE they already know who they are they been this way since the 16 year old was born, all I am saying you don't hap to wait until a funeral! Tell people how you feel right NOW
When you deal in hypocrisy, MANY TIMES, what it takes is the enemy to expose you for your hypocrisy.... Don't judge her... pray that the Only God would grace her with wisdom and healing.
who is judging her? She acted a fool in GOD's house, even if she wanted express her self, it should have done in an articulate manner, why use all of that profanity? This is not right.
When people die and this is coming from a mother who loss her only son to a senseless, brutal murder. I chose to let my son body stay at the funeral home, because it was suppose to be private but so many came out and I made it very clear, no disrespect because if I could hold my anger as his mother we will respect his two children and nieces and nephews. I pray for this mother even now
JESUS IN YOUR HOLY NAME COMFORT THIS MOTHER THIS SOMETHING NO PARENT SHOULD N HAVE TO GO THRU....THANK YOU FOR ANNOTATED WORDS COMING FROM THIS PASTOR THANK YOU FATHER GOD MY PRAYERS GO UP TO HER ❤
There is no pain that our Father cannot heal. I pray this woman's emptiness is filled with The Holy Spirit and she feels the joy that comes from our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
This woman was in the right place, among the right people, and demonstrating how she lives. She put on a show in GOD'S house and among GOD'S people. God's people saw her need for a new spirit. Her son brought her to GOD'S house where she would get mercy, where she would get love, where she would learn of God's forgiveness. She was brought to where the power of prayer would begin a new work in her. Mothers our children are watching how we live. We are their first example. When you're selling drugs you are killing another mother's child. A mother is crying and in pain for her child. Whatever you show your children can come back to bring you joy or it may come back to bring you tears. Then who will you blame?
The pastor is smart. Pain is real. God will forgive her. Her pain is real
I fully understand her were was her help....so don't come in like you have been there...God bless this mother heal deliver and set her free in Jesus name 🙏.
God will forgive her for what? She did nothing but speak her peace and kept it real!
What’s to be forgiven?
She doesn't need forgiveness for being real
@@tanielejohnson6794 exactly!👍 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
Glory to God on behalf of this pastor who is not dismissing her grief but, decided to give God the praise, and invited the spirit of God to flow through the room.
Yes Lord
Amen
When there’s a praise in the house. You can usher the devil out.
The "Pastor" should have stopped this mess.
Only God Can Have His Way God Will Take Away
The Feeling Of Hurt From
The Mother Only God ✝️
God Holds The Keys To Life & Death He's The Alpha & Omega Hallelujah Amen 🌹✝️🎩
When the pastor started preaching she calmed down. God is real and always in control 😊
Amen
Yes Lord. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
He literally disrespected her by trying to drown her out
Her heart was so heavy, I don't believe he was trying to do anything to hurt her.
@@mattw4496They had a program to follow which she authorized. He wanted to move things along so they could move on with the grieving process. Were they supposed to be in church all day?
Id be so fucking proud of my momma for calling everyone out on their bs. This world full of fake ass people doing fake ass shit. This woman kept it real for her son and i commend her for it of all is true.
Me too
And I want my mom to have the front row empty. If you didn’t buy me any flowers, bring a casserole, hire a second line performer, get me a parade permit for my second line then please sit in the back row. The front row is only for those that have contributed
No she did not. If someone prostitutes to support themselves, it’s for themselves. Food stamps, and section 8 along with vouchers for cars and free medical so why is she on the street prostituting? That usually means drugs. She’s not standing up for her son. And we need to stop living our feelings and start living on reason. Starting up cussing and attractive and acting like that it’s not Help her son or Support her son. Only her feelings. I’ve done black holes and I’m done white and I rather do a white girl any day. There is some dignity and they are quiet and they don’t even cry. They do that at home. And I don’t get into anybody’s face. There is a way to act even and sadness or pain. But we choose to yell screen cues, and do anything that we feel like doing without reasoning a thing out. It makes us look terrible. And why you would support I do not know. This is not the way to honor her son, but she really cared. Look like she care more about what people were thinking about her than her son. The church members are not saying anything to her because they know exactly what’s up. They know her.
Someone should have embraced this grieving woman and made her feel she was being heard and loved.
Exactly
100% agree
The lady in the blacc dress embarrassed her
Um it doesn’t really look like anybody … wanted to.
It wasn’t looking too bright
I recognize that anger because I had it. Today is marks 10 years that my daughter passed away. Empathy and compassion is always needed.
I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing.
There is a right place and a wrong place to do and say things. This was a complete disgrace, regardless of what may had occurred prior in her son's life, when he was alive. Has the mother ever thought that she is part of the reason why her son is laying in a casket, instead of putting the blame on someone else? It really doesn't matter now because he's gone, and all of that chaos, and profane disruptions of the service is not going to bring him back. Instead of grieving the loss of her loved one, she's there raising hell, disrespecting her own son's funeral and making herself look bad. If that service was held inside of a church, not only she was disrespecting herself, but she was also disrespecting the house of God. Her concerns should have been whether if her son was saved and made it to heaven, instead of her raising hell at his funeral.
@@slimdude2011the way she is acting at this funeral, shows what type of life she has lead and what is in her heart. It's obvious she's not caring about the resting place of her son's soul nor her's. This is an example of a day in the life of an infadele.
@@slimdude2011how she acts at his funeral doesn’t determine whether he gets into heaven that’s only between him and god. Was it a lot? Sure, but she spoke her truth and to say “instead of mourning” like what she’s doing up there isn’t a form of mourning is ridiculous. I’m sure you haven’t lost a child, nor have experienced the pain of losing someone so close they are literally apart/an extension of you- that you will never understand that human emotion is only capable of so much political correctness. This is what makes us human and sometimes it’s ugly and confrontational. There is a road of healing ahead and she will deal with it mostly alone. I can only imagine being in her shoes and I kinda do because I recently lost my father. I was way too numb to have this kind of reaction, but I understood everything. Especially after living the kind of life she had to live to make sure they both ate everyday. R.I.P to that young man.
6 for my son I understand her..family didn't help me at all
I was moved to tears by the Pastor’s strength, leadership and anointing. Sorry for her loss💔
AMEN 🙏🏽 🙏🏽
So 💓 sad for the lady 😢 may her son rest in heavenly peace
@@monicachuidian-riveracalderonIF he had a relationship with Christ and lived his life for Christ in obedience to GOD'S HOLY WORD with the help of the holy Spirit..then he will ! Because you can't live like hell and expect to go to heaven when you die🤞🏽 I'm Not saying he did I'm just stating what God's requirements are to live with him forever . " But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it." ( Matt 7:13-14 for full verse) ❤️🙏🏽🕊️✌🏽✌🏽
Great job pastor 😢 she have to get over her guilt of herself so she can heal. Repent and Keep Praying
Sad she had come in Church in God house cuss them out 😢😢😢😢. I FEELPAIN I LOST MY DAUGHTER
The pastor handled this with grace. The mother really needed a loving hug. The family should have surrounded her and embraced her with love
So true
Prayers for the mother...Stop going to funerals pretending to care and start loving our families while they're alive. ❤
WHO'S PRETENDING TO CARE? AND HOW WOULD YOU KNOW THAT?
@@blacknloud4002that fake granny and daddy was NEVER there then show up at his funeral!!! Heck you mean??? THEY DIDN'T GIVE A DARN ABOUT HIM WHILE HE LIVED!!! YOU HUSH
Yessss
@@blacknloud4002you're who she's talking about playa. You won't catch me going to anybody funeral that I didn't care for.
Right
As a funeral Director, you just would be absolutely amazed at all of the funerals that turn into this! Families are under one roof jammed together for the first time in years! Issues come out and just like what you saw happen here open wounds, fester! i’ve had it so bad that I have had to drape myself over the closed casket to keep people from mistreating the deceased! I’ve had to call the police to separate families. I have had to call the police because one family will accuse the other family of contributing to the death of the deceased but the more liquor that is consumed in the parking lot the more help that’s going to be broken loose in the sanctuary oh, at the cemetery? People grabbing flowers and throwing them around at each other! Take a $500 massive floral arrangement and go up beside somebody’s head with it! You’ve never seen so many flower petals! It’s our job not to get involved with the family first of all, we do what the person who pays the bills says! I don’t care how close you are by relation or friendship to the deceased, if you didn’t pay, you will not get your way! There is such a thing called psychogenic shock. It’s when something suddenly happens to you and your body cannot handle it most people faint. three people died! They were all mothers, and when they came to the funeral home for the first viewing when they walked up to the open casket, and saw their child, regardless of how old they were from a toddler to a 60 year-old, when mothers see their children in caskets, wearing a tuxedo or a gown, they fall out.
Thank you so much for sharing. I truly appreciate you.
God Bless your wisdom and candor. People are hurting and the pain screams, cuss, fight and kill. It has to go somewhere. Earth has so sorrow that heaven can't heal.
Thank you for sharing. You are so right and your wisdom is on point. I remember when my brother was murdered in 1994 and my mom almost passed out. It was painful to see my mom hurt so much. When she died 15 years later, the death certificate may say one thing but she really died of a broken heart.
@sharonhead3393 no sorry that heaven cannot heal
So true it is not a laughing matter when someone you love passes away. Folks being disrespectful laughing, carrying on with no respect. I have even seen folks taking photos with cell phones of themselves with your deceased loved one…NOT right! It is a celebration of life not a party! My condolences to you beautiful mother suffering this great, very painful loss…protecting her child to the end…my respect
There's no moratorium on grief. I pray God gives her peace and she accepts it one day. 🙌🏾
This pastor is an epitome of a mature and full of the Holy Ghost pastor. This man has the wisdom of God
He sure does. This is a truly anointed Man of God. You see how prayer works right here.
Uh, no one has the wisdom of God. No one!!
I don't understand how there could be any laughter in that place. I felt sick to my stomach when I heard laughter. I'm praying for healing to this mother. I feel for her.
That is just the ignorance of some people! I'll pray for her too!🙏🏾Take care!
Sometimes people laugh due to their own and the perception of pain... I believe that THE most important understanding is Respect and Nonjudgement...
You right
Laughter in tense and traumatic situations isn’t always what it appears to be on the surface. I am speaking from experience.
Those are the ones who were TAUGHT to laugh at her at their lives by their own ELDERS. The same ones she's addressing!
The pastor did a awesome job deflecting given it to god
He’s silencing her.
Gloria in Excelsis Deo
Yes Lord
A church does not like the truth.
So you should be a hypocrite and smell with the people that do not like you
You capitalize your name dont’chu? Alright then do the same for the God that created you and everything else.
This mother spoke her truth to ppl who disrespected her. Family can be something else. An I respect her for letting them know .she was fedup.
Amen!!!
I agree. People know how to "test-a-lie" at funeral, knowing they didn't do a darn thing to help her.
That was not the time or place. All the cursing in the house of the Lord was unacceptable. I hope she repent of her sin.
No... Is she there for everybody else kids, No... it's because she has her own life... families have their own lives, too, and sometimes weeks and months go by before checking in especially large families... It doesn't mean they don't love and care, there is so much going on in their lives. Her attitude shows she has issues and is probably the reason they keep their distance.
Great Pastor!!!!! Prayer changes things. He de-escalated the situation.
Thank you pastor.....he did his best to calm the situation
Yep he didn't try and talk to the grieving mother, but talked directly to God.
Amen 🙏🏽
This Pastor is anointed praise God for his calming presence
He should pray with that grieving mother❤....she is tired of the Deceits.
He talked over to her. She needs love and compassion.
People are ignorant. Laughing at this lady. She is truly in deep pain. My heart goes out to her. She is crying out and clearly tired of the fakeness.
You honestly think this is crying out? You fucking serious
Poor lady pain is all over her
She in pain pain don't have no way it come out she is hurting
@sheridanoutlaw1214 yes this is a mother in pain. She loss her child and fake people are all around her that wasn’t there when he was alive. When you loose a child then speak until then you know the rest.
So make a *SPECTACLE* of yourself at your child's funeral???? Girl bye. This is unacceptable & unnecessary. This woman clearly wanted a show. No one in their right mind does this to take the spotlight at their own child's funeral, and the fact that you and anyone else agrees with this behavior lets me know that you act exactly the same way.
And no. I'm not reading replies
I really like how that preacher interceded and help calm things down through prayer.
Loosing a child is the worst pain anyone could ever experience. Her pain and grief is hers. She can grieve however she wants, pray for her not ridicule her. This is an emptiness that will never go away for this mother. It hurst. GOD keep her.
Amen the worst pain in the world 😢
true😭
I just believe this is the case. There are no tears in her eyes and she seem to be caring more about herself or about what people were thinking and took the opportunity to yell at them, but there were no mother’s tears in her eyes. I have done maybe 200 funerals and I know the difference. It was just a chance for her to yell at people she didn’t like. You know no one said anything to her and that’s because they know her.
She said what she said & folks can't handle the truth.......She is keeping it 💯 ❤
She went through a lot with them she was not wrong 💯
Amen 🙏 I totally agree and she has that right ❤❤😢
I wish his big ass would have let her finish saying what was on her heart❤️it’s time for her to make a movie👀she said what she said😂😂😂so be it👀😎😎😎🌹
Facts
If this is keeping it real then I don’t ever want to be real! It’s disrespectful as fuck and we black people are always talking about real rather telling the truth, ignorance
She didnt want no fake ppl and fake condolences im glad she called them out.if you kmow you wasn't there,ridicule this woman and here baby why even come
True, why come
I don't care. We all grieve when love ones dies. This was disrespectful. The wrong place to do this. Take it to the lot at home but not in front of guests.
Don't hold up disrespect, because of a loved one's death. She shut up when the word of God was poured over her. That was the devil. He's a liar
@@jade-jw6fg if anybody who wasn't there may as well kick rocks if I got anything to do with it. they gonna tell you that you're are not invited in..
Cuz monitoring spirits want to have a front row seat to see you at your worst but that's how you'll fxck around and find out real fast....call them out
She shouldn't have a funeral if she didn't want fake people. Because fake people come to all funerals. It's not her right to confront those people that way in the lords house... because she could have done this anywhere...
Pastor did great and let God take control...bless the mother.Heal her heart
Amen
He did. I felt the spirit of God through this phone.
Amen 🙏🙏🙌🙌
Protected and stood with HER child thru life and death!! Her heart is broken. Let her get it out! Cuz family AIN'T shit sometimes.
God bless you mama. 🕊💜
Family is everything but relatives ain’t shit and that’s a fact
@@ElevatingEnergy ABSOLUTELY. Love how you worded that. 💪🏾
@@ElevatingEnergyboy do I completely agree...I learned that a few years ago
Yes! She's clearing the air...I did the same thing at my brother's funeral. I made a fool of myself, but I said things that needed said for a LONG time! Lord, forgive me, but that's what pain and love does, it divides. She's hurting. That's her baby, she's in pain. Bless her heart.
You don’t need forgiveness. You needed peace love. Hugging you from Ohio. Always speak the truth.
You didn’t make a fool of yourself. You were grieving baby. That’s all. That’s forever your brother and only a good sister would be emotional like that.
She got support help her
Amen yes indeed 🙏
Sometimes u gotta do what u gotta do holding all that in will just leave u sad sick n miserable let it out! The truth hurts!
You just never know how you will respond in this type of situation, people better hope they never lose a child. This mom is in pain, love on her, and pray for her instead of criticizing her
I understand her grief I Lost my Son My Only Child 9 Years Ago A I'm Still Grieving. It's hard when you lose a child 😢😢
Exactly what they should do. Pray for this mother. We don't know her pain
After almost 6yrs as of August 24th I still can't get over losing my son😢😢 I completely understand this mother's pain, so many HYPOCRITES came from everywhere but more so in the "FAMILY"
God bless u sister 🙏🏼 ❤️ sending u hugs nd lots of love in Jesus name
This is a pain I wish on NO MOTHER/PARENT it freaking HURTS!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭 God is the one who gives me strength but still it's so hard...
@user-bv4lv8kv3f im so very sorry my deepest condolences 🙏🏼 ik ur pain 😢 😢😢
That poor woman is grieving, and in so much pain to lose a child is a pain you can't imagine unless you have walked in her shoes. Let's just lift her up in prayer 🙏
Prayers prayers
Praying
Prayers for her, I understand, I lost my son 36 years ago, though it's still just like yesterday. If it weren't for God, who brought me through all the pain and suffering, I'd be gone by now, possibly dead, or in a mental state. Father, touch this mother with your divine healing powers, in that she can come to know you and allow you to save and deliver her from all that's hurting her and all that has her bound, in your blessed name, I pray. Cover her with your shed blood. 🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾
Decency and order is needed! SHE seems high on something. Grieving is not crazy' just difficult for each person. She is angry and needs help. Cussing and fussing is rude and out of control. There is a controlling spirit on her. There is a right way and a wrong way.😢
Disrespectful to the highest omg that's y men look skip these type of women
Her anger was so great she could have physically hurt someone but, her emotions needed to vent. No matter what she did in the past, she is alright in my book. God bless her for her pain and being real. 🙏🏽❤️
Nobody’s ever there when you are alive but the whole city will show up when you gone!! Smh praying for her and them too!!❤
Preach
What are you talking about we all stop messing with people everyday... but those people at least got up this morning to prepare for his home going..look how she was slamming the flowers and gifts...... she didn't respect anyone including the pastor and more importantly how she disrespected the church......she is the devil in my belief..... from what I saw of her.
Truth!!!!
How it always is
@@Gerald-om5xt yeah, it’s gets weird when she’s trying to yell over the prayer and exaltation. Then walking back and forth across the pulpit. Yelling about what she did for her son. For what??
I just see a grieving mother. My heart breaks for her. I love how the pastor calls on God to show up. You can see the tension just disappear
This pastor is incredible and knows The power of Praise and Glorifying GOD in every situation will bring peace!.. JESUS IS STILL THE ANSWER!!!!
Keep his commandments, all 613!
How is he incredible
@professionalpookie God's not incredible
There is no Jesus
I'm 27, and I have specific instructions just in case I go too soon for my funeral. NONE of my family is invited besides my mother, grandmother, kids, and maybe one aunt. My friends know exactly what to do in case someone tries to come and "pay their respects". You didn't love me when I was breathing, so you definitely don't get to grieve me now. Keep it the same
I like this. Very wise!
Same
❤❤❤
So toxic and hateful to the very end is your plan. I can’t even imagine discussing such things with my family about my funeral! But whatever
@@shay5839 love you assume I'm the toxic and hateful one without knowing anything about me or my family lol, I assume you're also the type to say someone "wanted it" because of what they were wearing 😅 odd flex sis
I may not have handled the situation as she did, but I do empathize with this mother. Her heart is broken.
Yes indeedy
Yes, it is…
She was a fucked mother that's way he may be dead
She have the right to express herself she is grieving.
Yes sir! I get it.
I almost did this at my mother's funeral the amount of disrespect she went through in life and those same people spoke at her funeral as if they were best friends with my mom made me sick to my stomach they judged my mother harmed my mother and didn't even apologize to her for nothing they did and my mommy was such a forgiving woman. They even disrespected me and my siblings just because of how they felt about my mom. Most of the people that showed up stole from her and didn't visit her when she was living her last days I promised my mother I would behave and stay silent and honor her and make sure to send her off beautifully without drama and I did it without reacting. Those people, those so called family members were pissed and angry at the amount of grace and class I displayed. I talk to none of those people today and ignore them all. Its been 6 months and I miss her dearly. I know this woman's pain all too well God give her love, strength, and mercy forever you know what's she's been through and why she's hurting show her grace in the mighty name of Jesus.
🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
So sorry for your loss, Sister. I know that pain of losing a Mother. I am so happy that you chose to honor your Mother at her home going and not perform like you were in Harlem NY at the Apollo Theater. Let Karma and GOD handle those wicked souls. You gave Moms class, dignity, and honor. AMEN and GOD BLESS YOU, ALWAYS , SISTER 👑
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine the pain. I just prayed for you.
@@Mememememe_k I’m praying too 🙏🏽
Prayers to you. I totally understand. So sorry for your lost. People can be so fake
I would honestly want my mom to do the same if it was me. I only want people who loved me at my funeral. Period!!!! Praise to that mother.
Then why invite them to the funeral? She took all the attention off of her child and made it about her. Did those people make her prostitute herself?
@@waleed3103 EXACTLY! This mindset is pure ghetto ignorance.
Amen to that
Amen
Exactly
She’s speaking from a place of deep pain.
And that wasn’t the place for it.
She’s been holding that in for a long time. You can tell she’s hurting and angry. She needs a hug and prayer! Praying for her strength, peace and healing in the mighty name of Jesus! 🙏 🫂
They should have allowed her to finish addressing the speculators, especially if she paid for the service
I doubt it! She probably acts like this all of the time. Totally disrespected her own son’s service and made it all about her!
She wasn’t lying on nobody that’s why they didn’t have a word to say!! Including the grandmother (the son’s father’s mother) She sat there and turned her head to the side and went to acting dumb like she didn’t know what this mother was talking about! Yeah you knew sis!!!!! You knew!!!! And like this mom said… when she had her son at 16 no one brought her gifts. Many women during pregnancy are accustomed to being showered with gifts… it’s a happy occasion for many. They join together and celebrate at what’s known a “baby shower”. But there are some who never experience this moment! This mother was in an invisible Time Machine as she stood beside her sons casket. She was able to experience and communicate all of these past traumas. It may seemed disrespectful but God knows her heart. I celebrate her for giving her son flowers and honoring him as she saw fit. Condolences to her… and anyone judging… consider these things I just stated before you decide to throw a stone! Pain is pain, period!
EXACTLY Nekoles❤
I like what you said!!! 😢I took the time to read your whole comment!!!!!!
💕
I started out judging her but baby when you said God knows her heart, I couldn't!!
Nobody said anything because it's her son's funeral out of respect to the son and with great respect for the church.... a lot of people don't even see that she's the problem.... who gave the Mic to the devil.....how much worst could this have been if the devil had the mic....and since so many except the way she treated the lord's house the devil may have been present truly she may have been the devil. I don't care how many kids you lose....she or any one else has the right to misuse or disrespect a church the lords house because you're grieving.... i
This is the first things they teach us is to respect the church... because the pastor has read from the bible unlike most and his job is teach us his word. So how can we say it's right to trample on his temple? No body for no reason
The pastor changed that atmosphere quick 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Dats his job to do so
Amen!
God changed the atmosphere. He was just a vessel sent by God. All glory and honor and power belongs to God!
Demons tremble at the name of Jesus 🙌🙌🙌
That's a real man of God!
It’s a little more than grieving going on here!!! Bless her heart!
GUILT!!!
That pastor is anointed!!! He did the right thing!! Just pray and let GOD!!!! And the musicians fell right in. Wasting no time getting that house in order!!! ❤❤❤❤❤ Amen 🙏🏽
The pastor wanted all eyes on him, perhaps
I disagree. Anointed to do what? If he was anointed, her spirit wouldn't have still been in unrest. Sorry. I feel for him, however, because he was in a hard spot.
I don't think so he was suppose to embrace that mother not shout her up with prayer and singing the word of God commands us to bind the broken hearted yet he ignored her and sang her out to go away , BUT the serious thing that ppl don't realize is she was praying and non helped her
@@yazim2855 well we all have our own opinions. And that’s mines. Like you have yours.
@@mattw4496 probably so. Maybe perhaps
She's having a real difficult time letting him go. She needs help. A mother's love for her child is powerful.
A father love for his child is even stronger 💪🏽
@@cmack3795 In some rare cases
I'm sure she's having a difficult time letting her so go but that's jot why she's shaping like that. Why would anybody, a family member ( dead beat daddy's and his supportive mama and family) whoever, show up at a funeral to a child you never chose to be apart of his life. The nerve of his dad and his family to show up at the funeral but never when he was alive. I would be mad too. Somebody should've been at the door turning folks away and she wouldn't have said all.of that.
@@VelvetSowell I feel you.
Amen!like no other love! Amen!🙏🏾
😢 Lord, I feel this mother's pain. She said everything I wanted to say when my daughter was killed. That pain is real.
I’m so sorry for your loss 😢
Sorry for your loss my only sibling was killed Dec 1993 in front of my mom's house over child custody despute
@@rhondariggins7630 😞😞I’m so sorry to here this- 30 years later and I bet that kind of pain doesn’t go away. What’s wrong with people ??
Her anger his real. They should have allowed her to release it instead of trying to be deep.
Omg im so sorry for your lost
That pastor was praising everything he could think of😂.. father praise this keyboard, farther praise brother Phillip, and the remote controlll😳
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She is a grieving Mother, let her yell scream cry whatever she needed to get through that day. Sending this Mom love and peace and Prayers ❤
Please stop trying to normalize rude, vulgar, selfish and respectful behavior. She could have had a private meeting with his family. She totally disrespected everyone who was there; at least the people who don't resolve conflicts by fussing, cussing and fighting. Stop the madness ....
@@Van-c4w - It ain't normal for a grandmother to tell her son not to financially support his child. Yet, grandmother is sitting in the funeral service showing support to a dead grandson. Make it make sense. Also, I don't agree with the vulgarity. The mother was angry and couldn't be controlled.
It sounded like to me the one in the chair is the man in the casket’s mother, not grandmother. The filthy mouthed lady screaming said “I’m his baby mama.” and since the one in the casket didn’t help financially, because (supposedly), the woman in the chair told her son in the casket to not help her (the vile lady screaming), she had to do crimes to feed and clothe the baby.
@@holylandfan3275 - Read the title. It's accurate. She was the mother of the deceased. This is why no one could stop her from speaking. Black people need to realize that there is nothing they can do for the dead. They need to stop showing up for funerals, especially when they did nothing for the person while they were living.
@@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 I read the title. If she’s the mother of the dead man, why did she say “I’m his baby mama”? Also, she insinuated by touching the casket that basically, if you don’t raise your child right, this is what happens (dead).
I love the way this pastor was able to move the service forward. God brought calmness when he started praying. I pray this mother is comfort.
She loves her son ..protective of him even in death ..she held on to some deep rooted anger . Lord she needs help for wisdom ...not the time or place ...Heal her Lord in Jesus name ..Her grieve is palpable ..
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I feel her and they made it hard for her since he was born and now they want to have church and grieve!!!
You can’t tell god when the time or place for someone to tell the truth she may NEVER see all of them again so yeah she did what she needed to do as MOTHER to protect the life of her child from peoples fake love some people go to funerals just to be sure of one’s demise you never know who was praying on their downfall and she let them know what time it was as a mother and I applaud her and feel they should have let her get it off her chest she wasn’t volatile or overly angry just disappointed in the way people act like they care but never showed it didn’t even bring flowers just judgment ❤
That's so true may she get peace they no who they are always being messy and family members some of them in certain clicks break there neck for certain ones but the ones who really care and do everything to show love for there get treated the worst..
My heart goes out to this lady. Hurt, pain, grief, abandonment and disappointment are very real and what comes out as rage and pain are rooted in deep pain.
I truly understand her pain and when I loss my son (Soldier) his father pretending to be father of the year and was still paying back child support when and after my son passed and he was 21!!! If I wasn’t active military myself I would have cut up the same way !!!! Praying for your healing.
@chasityross2340, 😢 I lost my son/ 1st born in 2015... Never a word from his dad til this day, the unimaginable disregard for my babys life.......I understand your pain completely ❤️🙏🏽💪🏽❣️
I'm sorry for your loss ❤
Shout out to the pastor. He did his holy work for The Most High. Prayers for the mother, I understand her pain🙏🏾
I love this mother. God bless her for speaking her truth. Im' so sorry she lost her beautiful son who touched so many people. I thank the Preacher and Psalmists who brought the spirit of God in the room in such a powerful and loving way.
I hope her son didn't die as a result of her life style 😢😢😢
My mother raised 11 of us on her own little to no help from dad, not a dime of welfare, she refused to ask for government money meant for ppl who truly could not help themselves. She worked her butt of, we went without and ate what ever we could stretch out of very little. No one sold drugs or booty. I had nothing i WANTED but had all i needed ❤💪🏻♀️
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Well put!!!❤
Is that her mom up there with her? Prayers to this family. You can see the pain
This is when everyone wants to act like they have been there, or had a close relationship with a person!! Just went through the same thing losing my oldest son on 10/31/21. This is the way you tell who the true devils are in your family and friends and the ppl around you!!!
That’s sad I’m sorry for your lost for the lord be with you that’s my birthday
Condolences & bless you.
Facts!!! Same fakeness from my family at my son's funeral in 2022. But God... God is the only one who can heal. Nobody, I mean, nobody, will understand the pain and grief of a mother who's lost her child unless they have experienced it, too. I'm sorry for your loss, as well. Keep holding on... ❤❤❤
No one should judge the mother because we don't know what she's been going through the Pastor did what God told him to do to calm the situation may her son RIP Praying for the mother 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
🙏🙏🙏 for this mother..
Amen
I feel that mother's pain 😭. Because I lost my mom on October 17,2023 of this year
You're so right
I read all the comments to this post talking about don't judge the mother, but not one comment about the father. Where is he, did he support this son??? Until we have godly black fathers in the black community this is what you will see, a yound man prematurely in a coffin, a young mother cussing folk out in the church. Strong godly black fathers with backbone and integrity is the only thing that turn our black community around. Not black civil rights leaders, not black churches, not the Black causus on Capital Hill, only strong black men that Love God, love their wives and love their children. You all are looking a the aftermath, but no one wants to deal with the problem. When the men failed to be men and the women accepted anything other a true man of God to lead her and the family, black family began to suffer and now the inner city black youth are now suffering. You may ask, How do we turn it around around? The women must refuse to allow a man into her life that is less than a godly, honest, dependable, and honorable man. One raise in a godly home with a father that loved and respected his wife who was a godly example for his children. If this happens there will be a paradigm shift in the black community! You may ask if I can't find a man like this? The answer: Keep your legs closed and lock your door when they leave! Debate me if you want, but this is the truth!
No matter how low she might be she is still a grieving mother. If you dont like a person dont play in they face. Some people will call you out and hurt your feelings.
I totally agree
Exactly
THE CHURCH IS LOW HER CHILDS GRANDMOTHER IS LOW...SHE IS A REAL WOMAN 💯
It has always been my understanding that a person’s funeral is supposed to be about them. She is making it about her. All these people supporting this mess. She didn’t honor her loved one acting a fool.
💯💯💯 rightfully so people need to cut they bullshit out
She came there to express her hurt and pain and she knew that was the only place they all would gather to listen to her. They had no choice but to listen then.
Not prostitute and sell drugs!!! 😢 Bless that mothers heart
I’m a nurse, but no judgement here. I will do anything to make sure that my kids are not without. Bless this young lady’s heart. She just wasn’t fortunate enough to have someone to guide her in the right direction ❤
@@mygodisawesome6121 My spouse would do anything withing their Christian values.
She kept it real, bless her heart 🙏🏾💚😘
I thank GOD that she had her say, and tell them to their faces. This mother is in PAIN. She had to do what she did so her son could eat and be taken care of. She said his mom told him not to help her.
My church friend did the same thing to survive, because her baby father's drugs was more important than food, pampers, milk, etc. I helped buy things to keep her from having to beg him for help. Too many "coddling mammies" upholding these no good sons in their calamities. (Now they want to "silence" her at the funeral, and cover up the truth)
Mothers do what needs to be done, no matter what it does to our bodies, minds & hearts.
This pastor is doing what he should do,
he is rebuking Satan💒📖🙏🏾
God rebuked Satan so that the youngmans mother could be heard. I heard you younglady , and I pray for your comfort I pray for your strength. God give her the strength continue to wrap your angels arms around her my God. Calm her mind give her strength give her happiness give her peace in the name of our father his son and the almighty Holy Spirit these things I pray in Jesus name❤😢❤❤
the mother was not satan or being driven by satan , that's why its very important for pastors to hear exactly what God is saying at that moment in time , the devils are the ones trying to hush her he should rebuke them and himself
@@yazim2855I agree. This mother was rebuking those devils that were there for show but they weren’t her village for her son.
In Jesus name
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This situation is deeper than the mother’s grief she was a young single mother and had to do way to much to survive and take care of her son. So very much anger, Lord have mercy, Lord have mercy on her.❤
She had a right to feel how she feel. People always wanna show love when someone die. But fake as hell when they alive.
I am lifting this mother up in prayer to THE ONE who knows and understands. I am so sorry for the loss of this young man. This is truly heartbreaking.
this is my friend and she is not lying she did alot for her kids iv knew her since i was 17 and she is and was a go mf getter and rest in peace for her son i have never seen her in this much pain🙏
Thank you for sharing. A lot of people felt her pain and appreciated her being honest. Give her a hug for us.
i sure will love this is hurtful to see@@Cromwell7777
May heaven bless her soul🙏🙏🙏 the 'gir' in the white dress? What's her deal??
I'm praying for your friend and her family. God came through for her.
I apologize👐 I was completely confused
All I'm going to say is she spoke her PEACE because that is HER CHILD ,HER (SON) HER'S...there's nothing else left to be said🫡🙏🏾🙌🏾💙
just like that!
@@barberstar5291 OFF DA T-O-P 💙🫡
When my son died i was a mess. I hope she has ppl to comfort her
I didnt attend my last uncles funeral...family be fake as hell and never there and be living 5 mins away and always talking shit but will dress up just to show off for everybody else. God bless that woman speak your heart!
They weird as hell for that
@@MrBroome-wi6zg fr fr and just like usual no where to be found...back to the t.v. show after the commercials
She ain't lying! You see ALL the family at the very end!
LET HER TALK‼️
SPEAK SISTER💔
"Family" will hurt you worst than a stranger but want you to keep Quiet 🙌🏼
Facts!!
So , very true
That part!!!
That part!!!
Facts. I have nothing to do with my living family
What a prayer from the man of God.
Yesssss Indeed
Shame on the people laughing at the grieving mother.May her son rest in heaven 🙏 💔 God bless this precious mother. She can say whatever she wants.
They were not laughing at her grief they were laughing at her acting a fool and cussing in the church. Then on part 2, she said that he was not the boy's father anyway, the DNA said so, so how can she get mad b/c his mother told him the same thing?
The preacher is deep he cleared the devil out
Amen he did that praise the lord 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🫶
Amen
Yessssssssss
The Blood !!! Amen...
Amen
She even apologized to Pastor, but made sure her truth was known publicly! Bless You & the entire family.
Oh "sorry pastor " for ruining any followers you may have gained to hear his word. Sorry. The devil in a skirt 2 sizes to small for a damn home going.
I don't blame the mom. If you weren't there for her son while he was alive. What are you doing at his funeral. God pls give this mom strength. May this young man rest in peace!🙏💕🕊⚘️
Shit she might not been there for the kid or children......we don't know..... that's why I'm judging her by herunfavorable actions.
Single momma of five. And what I've learned is that no one owes any one any thing. This was uncalled for, IMO. If you raised your kid on your own, then so be it. No one owes her anything with the exception of the kids dad.
@CMeri-sl6bt True, but if someone wasn't present. Why come to the funeral.
Her son is "😂😂Yes that is my Mama...❤"
Sweet and sour 😊
So much hurt; so much built up disappointments; so much pain; and suffering. Such a beautiful girl; needed prayer and more prayers. AMEN! Pastor did a beautiful job of staying calm and bringing forth the anointing.
The way she stood guard over her sons casket lets me know she really lived and rode for her kids. Ppl try to ignore her but they know she spoke truth. Sending love and prayers her way❤❤❤❤❤
She was a drug dealer. I hope she didn't sell drugs to kids in the neighborhood. I'm sure she loved her children the only way she knew how, but her behavior at the funeral was rude, selfish and vulgar. Stop normalizing bad behavior, it makes black women look bad.
What is "riding for your kids " ... probably not holding them accountable and thinking that they can do no wrong.
@@Van-c4wyeah, we’re kinda glossing over the fact that she was a drug dealer and a prostitute and the implication that goes with that lifestyle.
@@Van-c4wSay it again!!!
@@Van-c4wamen
I pray for healing for her. You can hear her pain and none can judge grief hits us all different. 🙏🏾
I can truly understand this mother's pain. Since my daughter's passing this past November, I yet have to see or hear from all of the young ladies and gentlemen that hung around her when she took them into my home to shield them from the streets...sometimes hiding them (not knowing that her voice carried, and I overheard her sneaking them in) in her room to allow them to stay the night. A few of the young ladies stayed the entire Summer (some, several Summers) at my house. They hung out with her doing only God knows what. NONE of them was at her service. It hurt to see her go, it hurt even worse to have all of them just throw her away when she turned her life around for the better and STOPPED doing for them.
I'm so sorry Ms Barbara 😢🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🤍💐
She was doing what God wanted her to do. Not for glory or praise. We don't know those young people or their pain. You can love someone dearly and can't see them in a casket. Give them grace. But most of all your daughter left a beautiful legacy that those who never knew or met her just learned in your pain. God bless you and give you peace and understanding. She finished her journey early. It hurts but obviously, her time was not wasted in this place. Glory Be To God may this be received in love. Amen
❤❤❤I totally understand my sister may God continue to bless and hold you FASHO AMEN 🙌🏽❤❤❤❤🙌🏽
I'm so sorry Ms Barbara
My heart goes out to the mother that lost her son, this was her only chance to catch them all together and have her say(was it the right way? Probably not, but when you're hurting Right or wrong goes out the window when an opportunity presents itself For you to share your true feelings. I think and praise the pastor for his compassion and godly leadership He did an awesome job because he labored with this hurting mother and her family... I pray God's blessing upon him his church his family from this day forward because God knew his heart.
YES
It's been said there's no greater pain than when a parent buries their child. So I guess I can understand her grief. She loved her son. She carried him for 9 months, successfully raised him to adulthood just to watch him die in the prime of his young life. Yes, I understand her rage, hurt and pain. May bless her and the family - RIP.
My mother buried 2 of my siblings ages 4 in 88 and 21 in 08. Both gun violence that they were innocent victims in. I also ALMOST lost my eldest 2 children. That pain is real. It never leaves. I've seen it up close and personal. Sending long lasting love and healing to the Mother. She was passionate in expressing her hurt and anger. Glad she said how she felt. I too wish someone would've held her and reassured her of all the greatness she did for her son. And now he (her son) watches over her now. He has his wings. It's not for ppl to judge our lives. Only God has thee authority. 🙏🏾
May her son rest peacefully and may she finds true love and support through these difficult times.
How could sleep in peace. He died in chaos and look at this bs at his home going. IGNORANT!!!!
I'm so sorry for her loss. She is in mourning and on top of that is very angry because she had no help from her alleged family and friends when he was alive and struggling. She's particularly outraged at her son's father and his mother. For always having an opinion on how she should raise and support her son, she had at 16 years old when she got pregnant. And furious for not helping them out financially all those years. She mentioned the things she had to do to make ends meet. IE: Selling drugs and her body. And for them to then have the unmitigated gall to show up at his home going. Im so glad she got all of that pain off her chest and mind.
and it’s the fact the dad mother was sitting front row
She’s been waiting years to
Put on the performance. Stop.
@@WhySoFlyMoore4 where was the dad? That is not right for her to cuss people out in the church, I do not care what people are saying.
If they did not show up, then she would have been upset. Giving her a pass to act like that is the problem blacks are having. Many women have had children at an early age, but she can not blame others for not helping, others did not make a child with her.
@@WhySoFlyMoore4 where was she supposed to sit? This is why young people do not live out their days, disrespecting elderly people is not of GOD. The grandmother was NOT obligated to take care of that child, she raised her children, that is the problem now. We justify this tactless behavior and in the LORD'S house at that. Pitiful
The Pastor/Speaker did an amazing job !
Great job Pastor.
He led his people when they needed him most.
Love and respect sir.
This women is A REAL ONE frfr. This poor lady I pray 🙏🏾 for her and her family hearts and spirit to get stronger...
That's ignorance.
Bless her heart. I haven't experienced that pain but I'm a mother of two grown men. I can relate to being a single parent with no help and a lot of hate and judgement bc I had to provide however bc it was a must. Tears flowing from my eyes for her. Prayers for protection and strength for this beautiful sista.
That pastors voice was so powerful 😢 ..Thank you Jesus
Thanking God the Pastor used wisdom.Obviously there's much pain from the mother. I can't judge don't know except what I've viewed from this video. Praying for his Mom and his entire village of people who loved him.
I needed this video, the devil wanted to show up,but My God!!! Thank you Lord for your Son...all Praises 👏🏾
5:28 she throwing them flowers down 😂😂
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?Girl bless this Mom🤦🙏
Girl i said the Same thing lord bless her🤦
That momma was hurt and sick and feed up with the foolishness her and her baby went through. She is hurt and it is coming out as anger. I love how the pastor knew to call on the name of Jesus, and not talk bad about the mother. RIP young one bless her lord to be able to forgive them, so she can have peace. Look how the Holy Ghost changed the vibe in the Lord's house.
Props to the preacher for trying to drown her voice out. Bless his heart for doing such a great job!
He wasn’t drowning her out praise confuse the enemy
The devil is a LIAR!!!!!
I told my mama, which of us passes first, I don’t want anyone who does not deal with us while we are still living. Why in the HELL would they come when we are dead. Must be to come and see to make sure we are dead or to be nosey.
Pastors and officiants have to be prepared for anything at funerals these days. Better come girded up and able to call upon the name of the Lord with power and sincerity. So much going on in families and the circumstances leading up to the funerals. Prayers for peace upon the family. 🙏🏽
Yes God
People don't respect the Name of God's or Jesus anymore 🙏🏼 this world is changing fast and l do believe, God is getting ready to tell Jesus go get my Children out of this world🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
some of those pastors you are speaking of are using the money from the church to get rich when they should have a job
Ignorance!!! SMH @ people in the comments condoning this behavior blaming grief. This was a lack of couth and disrespecting the House of God. Disgusting.
Yes . And people's time too
I agree, don't wait until a funeral, tell people How you feel, call them or go by there house or see them wear they hang out at. This was hurting people who did nothing wrong just so she can get to the people she Hate. That's not fair to the House Of God, or The people who came to show real respect that did nothing wrong to her or her son. Don't make everybody SUFFER FOR WHAT SOMEBODY ELSE DONE WRONG TOO YOU. I understand she needed everybody in the same place at one time but not the House Of God, do it at a family reunion, Birthday party, or some other event. This was not pleasing to God or the Pastor or the people that press their way that did nothing wrong. The family members who is FAKE they already know who they are they been this way since the 16 year old was born, all I am saying you don't hap to wait until a funeral! Tell people how you feel right NOW
When you deal in hypocrisy, MANY TIMES, what it takes is the enemy to expose you for your hypocrisy.... Don't judge her... pray that the Only God would grace her with wisdom and healing.
Yes indeed God is the only one that judge ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ much blessings to all in the name ohmighty God Amen
Indeed, Indeed
who is judging her? She acted a fool in GOD's house, even if she wanted express her self, it should have done in an articulate manner, why use all of that profanity? This is not right.
@@4dyamondx745 forget all that, let it out.
That was uncalled for, I don't care what anyone say, unbelievable.
Bless this woman. Grief shows up in many ways. Thank God the pastor knew exactly what to do to shut the enemy down. Praise God the enemy will flee.
Thank you pastor for exclating the problem he makes a big shift to the situation... May God bless that mother in her lost and may that man soul RIP
When people die and this is coming from a mother who loss her only son to a senseless, brutal murder. I chose to let my son body stay at the funeral home, because it was suppose to be private but so many came out and I made it very clear, no disrespect because if I could hold my anger as his mother we will respect his two children and nieces and nephews. I pray for this mother even now
No disrespect, but I don't understand your comment.
JESUS IN YOUR HOLY NAME COMFORT THIS MOTHER THIS SOMETHING NO PARENT SHOULD N HAVE TO GO THRU....THANK YOU FOR ANNOTATED WORDS COMING FROM THIS PASTOR THANK YOU FATHER GOD MY PRAYERS GO UP TO HER ❤
There is no pain that our Father cannot heal. I pray this woman's emptiness is filled with The Holy Spirit and she feels the joy that comes from our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
This woman was in the right place, among the right people, and demonstrating how she lives.
She put on a show in GOD'S house and among GOD'S people. God's people saw her need for a new spirit. Her son brought her to GOD'S house where she would get mercy, where she would get love, where she would learn of God's forgiveness. She was brought to where the power of prayer would begin a new work in her.
Mothers our children are watching how we live. We are their first example. When you're selling drugs you are killing another mother's child. A mother is crying and in pain for her child. Whatever you show your children can come back to bring you joy or it may come back to bring you tears. Then who will you blame?