Left ALONE with the Twins! - May 24, 2014 - itsJudysLife Daily Vlog
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its kinda funny because people are like omg benji complains all the time but they're actually complaining about benji complaining
Agreed!
Hold up - are you complaining about people complaining about Benji Complaining? Maybe I'm just complaining about you complaining about people complaining about Benji complaining?
Thuis is complainception o.o
I just think everyone should stop complaining and if they don't like what happens in the videos don't watch them..
omg this.
It's come to the point where I actually hate reading the comments on these vlogs. (not all the comments are like this but quite a few) People are always complaining about their parenting styles or saying one spouse doesn't appreciate another and it's RIDICULOUS. They show us 15-25 min clips. That's a TINY glimpse into their 24 hour days.
Oh yes I totally agree to watch such a beautiful Video and then the crap it is Shocking but I am finding in my real life that some people are so unhappy in there own skin the so Desperately have to ruin life for Others God Bless you
i wish all the negative comments would be put last and not first. that way we wouldnt have to see all that crap.
Exactly! I see NOTHING wrong in the vlogs. Some people would say Judy and Benji aren't getting along or being good parents, but to me they're a great couple! Plus, everyone has their faults. 24 hours in a day and people judge them on a 20 minute video.
Couldn't agree more!
***** everyone is entitled to their own opinions. But my point is that, it is IMPOSSIBLE for us to know if there was anything wrong. why? because what they may do in a 15 min video doesn't necessarily mean that that's what they do all the time. 15 minutes out of 24 hours is nothing. It shows us a tiny glimpse of what happens in their day and how they are around their kids.
so, I just think it's ridiculous that anyone could judge judy and benji based on these short videos. They don't have to make these videos, but they do because they enjoy it and so do their viewers. so, people need to just do that. watch and enjoy their videos. and if you don't enjoy them, well then don't watch it! no one is forcing you to.
My little rascal is fast a sleep taking her afternoon nap while I watch this. Its hard to take care of the kids especially hard for us men. Although I have 1 child to take care of, taking care of 2 kids while mumma bear is out and about is tough. I feel for those that don't have a father figure in their lives coz Benji is a great example of how fathers must be in a family. Cheers to you Benji, reppin all the GOOD dads in the world.
I was blown away by Benji's patience, love, and selflessness during those 3+ hours! He didn't even eat. People need to recognize a loving, devoted dad when you see one! Those 3 girls are soooooo lucky. He loves them to pieces.
And it's NOT easy to watch little ones who long from mommy's smell and touch.
You go, Benji!!! Hope those movies were the "bomb diggity". ; )
(love you too, Judy. you guys are a helluva team)
Why is everyone hating on Benji ?? Benji is a great father to his daughters ! AND he cooks for his family every single day !! Stop complaining. He's doing amazing
True, but he complains waaaaaaay too much along the way.
U shut up stupid who asked u smh
kenzie williams who asked you to add something negative to this comment which was not needed?
It wasn't negative..I never went against anything she said in the comment obviously..I just added a downside so swerve pls
A great father wouldn't complain about taking care or his 2 out of three daughters for a couple of hours so that his wife could take a break. A great father wouldn't ignore his wife after taking care of his kids. A great father would be appreciative and realize how much hard work it is taking care of two children, let alone three.
And this vlog proved how much of a great father benji is and how he should be appreciated & not hated.
this is a beautiful comment! made my day even though im not a parent (: i like seeing the bright side of youtube
OMGGG when the twins were on the rocking chair, THEY WERE SOOOOO CUTE WHEN THEY WERE SMILING AND MAKING NOISES. SO SO CUTEEEE
My husband and I have been married about as long as Benji and Judy have. Sometimes he's the most amazing man in the world. Sometimes he's an ass. Sometimes I'm the perfect wife. Sometimes I'm a bitch. We argue, we make up, we mistreat each other, we fall madly in love with each other, again and again. We miscommunicate with each other and have misunderstandings. We are learning and growing every day. That is just how marriage is. And adding one (or three) babies to the mix just complicates things a million fold. Thank you, Judy and Benji, for sharing your beautiful family with us, and for keeping it real in the process. I know it isn't easy. :)
Perfectly said!!!👍👌
This is very true!!! :)
Exactly!!
I think Benji is an excellent and amazing father and husband. Judy is very lucky to have him
Thats exactly what I say… I can't imagine Judy with any other type of husband. She is very blessed to have a husband so caring loving and that really caters to his wife.
ikkkk!!!!!'
***** how so?
Everyone hating on benji stop being so unfair to him. Listen here, women have a special gift with their children. WOMEN know exactly how to nurture a crying baby. Not sure if it's the touch or our voice but babies ALWAYS do better when their with their mom. Even when dads do amazing jobs like Benji for example , it's not the same. People need to understand that Benji was having a hard time and it happens to everyone. He was frustrated. Like I said it's way easier on Judy to be taking care of the twins because of that gift women have. Don't hate guys , give him a break, he cooks everyday and is an amazing dad and husband he deserves better than hate :)
omg exactly! that's so true...plus he has two crying babies and it's stressful, it doesn't mean he doesn't love them or wants to be there he just probably hates not knowing what to do to help and he can't help both out so as long as he can't help one out he can't get to the other. i'm not sticking up for him but people like judging so much it's ridiculous.
Moms don't have a "special touch" with their children. Society believes that but the only reason moms know more of what to do with the babies is because they tend to spend more time with them. There isn't really anything natural about it. I forgot where but I found that out from something I read.
Everyone's judging but I'm pretty sure if they were stuck in the same situation, they would be just as pissed and grumpy lol
turtletrout you read that somewhere
.....so it's some new age notion. .....If u don't believe a mother and child connect in a way that is unique and specific to them you r beyond mistaken
loved watching you guys since before you got engaged, and now look how far you've gone! Benji's a GREAT father and GREAT husband. He may not be perfect, but he's doing a lot more than a lot of guys out there.
Preach 🙌🙌
Benji, just remember this!!! whoever said that you blablabla, you selfish, or you're not a good daddy, its totally wrong!!!! The girls will always love you.. Someday when they grown up, they will know, that they have a wonderful daddy and parents like you both!
I agree with you. He's a really good father. BenjiManTV, ignore all the awful things others say about you.
People we got to see it this way....Benji goes to the store almost everyday, spend 3 hours cooking and goes out and do other things throughout the day most times...and there is no problem with that and no complaints. Judy goes out to shop for the next video, shops for herself, take the girls with her to her moms house for a few hours or just overall gone in general, there's a problem..I see a grown man who wanted kids complaining about watching HIS OWN KIDS?? Then ignores his wife when she gets back like she went to the club or something?? My child father never complained about his own daughter that he wanted from day one.. I just don't get it....
i think benji was pissed because he was hungry and it must had been tough for him to look after twins alone!
yuki milky So then he should of gotten something to eat. He could of whipped up something quick. Not every meal he eats has to be a 3 hour gourmet meal and to add who cares if its hard to watch the twins alone. They are his children that he created and like everyone else who watches their kids he needs to deal with it.
Judy almost usually has somebody around to give her a hand - either Benji even when he's cooking (I'm sure he runs over if she needs help or the twins are screaming) or Melody. It is one thing to mind two baby twins alone with people around and a whole other thing completely by yourself. And he was just moody because he was starving, men get like that, everyone gets like that. I thought he did an awesome job and when the twins were peaceful you could tell he was cherishing those moments with them. Stop being so negative! They're both great parents.
Diana Smith was gonna say the same thing! :)
Exactly!
Benji can never nurture the girls the way Judy can. I feel that is an outlet of frustration he has, although I will add he does a good job, trying atleast. Nursing really strengthens the bond that Judy has with the twins and Benji can never compete with that, figuratively speaking. I'm not trying to imply there is any competition it's just that parents play different roles.
True!
OMG grampy is adorable!!!
I think so too! :)
Yeah! Benji is lucky to have him around! I miss my grandparents.
Listening to Benji talk to Grampy made me tear up. It really made me think of my only living grandmother and of how much I miss her. BENJI YOU'RE SO LUCKY TO HAVE HIM! God bless your beautiful family.
Benji if you read this I think you did amazing! As a mother of twins I always appreciate help from my family, so for you to do it on your own is incredible. Please ignore all the negative comments and just keep doing what your doing. When the girls eventually watch this, they will love you all the more for being a great father. Kisses from Barcelona Xxx
You're a great dad Benji! Good job today with the babybears 🐻🐻
if benji can go out and about whenever he pleases i dont understand what the big fuss is when judy needs to get away. mothers need to get away too!
I think it's an Asian thing where it's the women's job to be a stay at home mom and nothing else while the men owns everything, controls everything, bosses the wife around, etc. This is how my grandparents in the past lived back in Vietnam. Now it's all good.
Sooo true, benji always goes out with Juliana and leaves Judy with the twins! He gets me so mad at times lol
The comments are so sad to read! People praising Benji for watching HIS OWN CHILDREN that he created (not just Judy).
He didn't complain but his actions showed that he wasn't happy to watch them. I can't believe you would ignore your wife because you had to watch YOUR OWN CHILDREN!?
And people saying how he does the majority of the work?! WTF am I watching something else?! All he does is cook and take Julianna on walks (somedays) and changes diapers (sometimes) I haven't seen him clean. (He let it slip that they had a cleaning lady on one of there live chats)
So if this is the man people want as a husband than that's just really pathetic and so so sad. I have a lot of guy friends who do more and hardly ever complain.
So Benji grow a pair and put your big boy panties on. You wanted children and that's why you get.
A to the Men!
I don't think watching them was the problem. Have you ever noticed that when Judy has the twins she is never alone, by herself, for long periods of time? Usually Melody or Mama is there to help her. Don't get me wrong, Judy has them while Benji goes on walks/runs or shopping, but there is a distinct difference as how long Benji is gone compared to Judy. I have seen times when Judy is very considerate of Benji's time, this was not one of them...just saying.
omg lol cause he was supposed to be laughing and smiling when the girls were crying o.O sometimes you get stressed and it's normal it doesn't mean he didn't enjoy bonding with them. and he was probably just kidding when he ignored her, judy wasn't even offended it was such a small clip, jeez.
Seriously. My husband does 10 times more and NEVER complains. Is this what we accept as women in society? A man that can cook and love his children are the only criteria of a great father? Yet everytime he takes care or them he complains. Yes there are so many dead beat fathers, but we should expect more from our men and women not bash each other so there are less dead beat dads out there. Benji is just extremely immature to me. I watch others vlogs and hardly click on this one just because It's hard to watch him be disrespectful/complain constantly. And to those who say just don't watch, I usually don't.
***** I'm not sure you understand what I'm saying, I think you should reread my comment.Never once did I mention stress or his lack of wanting to bond with the twins. I did on the other hand say that there is an obvious difference in this vlog of time consideration.
Benji's such a great father! I love the way how he wants to see them smile putting himself on ridiculous just to see them happy.
damn benji cooked two meals for his family yesterday and woke up to a messy kitchen. wow Judy, you don't cook, you can Atleast do that but no. he cooked breakfast for you while you did your precious makeup and then he cleaned the kitchen. wow. and cut him some slack. "the girls are in one piece" "are you tired" blah blah. he's a great guy and did an amazing job. he doesn't say sarcastic comments like that when your by yourself with the twins. and let let me not say much about you having an office and not him. doesn't fucking matter what your job is you don't leave your husband in the garage!!!
Can you not. We all love and support judy and benji so you can leave. Benji loves to cook and hes a great husband and judy cooks and takes care of the twins. Leave them alone they are doing great!
XOhannXO
Natalie is talking about how Judy didn't clean that mess up. You gotta feel sorry for Benji in that regard. Who would want to wake up to THAT hell hole?
Yes, he slaved over the stove yesterday for HER family, at least she could've cleaned the kitchen. A relationship should be 50/50. I am surprised that she did not get up & insist that she clean the mess! Fair is fair!!!
Omg are you serious? I wish a camera followed you guys and saw the lives you live... I'm sure people will judge you too, that's such a minor thing in a relationship it's just dishes guys relax
Mariya Cooke what if she was busy with the babies and putting Juliana down to go to sleep.She could have been feeding the babies and she got tired and went to sleep.
Omg Keiras face when Benji accidently scares the twins XD So adorable
They are sooo cute!!
I know I wanted to see Judy's reaction lol. It's was hilarious.
haha! aww ...that was funny. Super adorable babies.
where's that part i seem to have missed it somehow :(
***** hahahahah thanks! haha
Omg I got teary eyes the sweet time Benji was with the twins. Special moments with his babies. Love when they talk back to him. They love their daddy so much u can tell how big they were smiling
my highlights in today's vlogs,
1. benji spending quality time with the twins
2. julianna spending time with auntie jazz and gulping the jamba juice. lol
3. keira and miya's smiling faces
instead of focusing on the negativity in the comments section, i thought i'd shared what I enjoyed the most in today's vlogs. :) so judy and benji have faith in yourselves
are you freaking serious that benji cant even have a small area for his desk INSIDE the house?! that is just so funny to me imagining him sitting in the garage.
they are planning to get a new house anyway, thats also why the garage is not finished i guess
Lol
I know right!! Judy has a whole huge make up/filming room to herself and Benji is sat in the corner of a garage hahaha. I hope he gets his office soon.
I was wondering what happen to that room on the main floor he had desk in...maybe it just is quiet and more room out there....
If you watch the vlogs he says that he doesn't wasn't his office right there in the spare room bc Judy comes in and bothers him(as a joke) so he prefers to just be in the garage.
Benji... YOU are an awesome DAD!!!
People can't you just focus how adorable and beautiful the twins have grown up to be???? Where are all the angst coming from for every single vlog....
We rarely see the twins. The camera is always stuck in Benji's face. I would love to see JB and the twins more.
flavorsofwisdom did we just watch the same vlog?
Brandi P let me clarify for YOU. If you look back over the last week of videos, we barely see the twins. Is that better? Heck we barely see Judy let alone JB. Benji gets the most camera time.
flavorsofwisdom so don't watch. Bye!
yadiaries79 So don't read comments! BYE!!!
I really don't think it's fair how Benji is forced to babysit keira and mia and doesn't get the chance to make himself some food and even struggles to go to the bathroom. while on the side judy gets her relatives to babysit julianna while they're out and then she gets her mom to babysit all three girls while she makes food for herself. I love judy i think she is fantastic but at times like this I don't really think she thinks of benji.
Guess what? That's what happens when you're a parent.
'Babysit'? He is their DAD, he chose to have babies, taking care of them is the least you can do.
aliceinwonderlandd7 thanks for the obvious, twit. judy could be doing more to help out benji though. from what i've seen (and yes i realize these are only 20 minutes of their lives) judy does nothing for benji. she doesn't help wash dishes, she doesn't go grocery shopping or help cook dinner except on the rare occasion. she seems like such a selfish person but doesn't realize it. plus it does not take away from the fact that she left benji all by himself with the twins fending for himself and judy was having a breeze because she had her relatives look after julianna while she went and did her thing.
Laura Joseph What about all the times Benji goes to the co-op or goes to the farm and leaves Judy by herself? This is his second time he's actually watching the twins by himself since they were born. Judy does it all of the time.
Laura Joseph I can't believe people are saying that she "left benji all by himself with the twins fending for himself." Do people not realize what parenthood is? He was not left to "fend for himself," he was WATCHING HIS CHILDREN! Good lord.
I read comments before I watched, so I was expecting some blowout and drama. But let me be surprised (or not) that the comments blow things way out of proportion. I've seen so so much worse from frustrated parents! I didn't see Benji complain at all and Judy was perfectly happy and thought him deserving to get his time off too. They're both good parents and I enjoy watching their vlogs.
It is always like this!
Bravo to Benji, handling the twins alone, wow! How brave he is!
Yes, this is totally video journaling. At least, we had the opportunity to watch the babies a lot. They are so cute!
Benji is such a great father and husband. He has sacrificed so much. It would be nice to see him be more appreciated....and I hope someone helped you with all those dishes! Xoxo
Horrible mom! Horrible wife! Always putting her side of the family first!
Lmfaooo! Now you know damn well that isn't true! Like, what the fuck are you talking about? Are we watching the same vlogs!?
Guys stop feeding the troll
@bebeluvv because you know them personally? Grow Up
Dani Kerr some things are just so annoying you just gotta put em in place lol
Agree she totally does
You know what's awesome about their vlogs? All of their relatives that can't visit on a regular basis get to see their family EVERY DAY. Amazing. Benji's Grampy is so far away but he's been able to see Julianna & the twins grow. What a blessing. Couldn't even imagine this in the 90s.
I never heard Benji complain once……what are you all talking about?
I didn't either. Maybe we're watching a different vlog lol
You're kidding right?
AgDollLoveHarts Give me three different times in which he complained. I'll wait.
AgDollLoveHarts No we're not kidding...because its true...he didn't complain, he was simply documenting his moments with his girls, and simply stating a fact...that raising twins is tough work. That's a fact. And that's all he was doing...he and judy love to document their memories of the good times and bad, funny and sad, loving and emotional, etc etc etc. They aren't fake....Only showing their family with a fake smile plastered across their face like the joker...running thru a field of daisies like in the sound of music. No..they remain genuine and true to who they are, and they show all of the genuine moments throughout their lives. Maybe you should find another vlog that only shows the good times, if that's what you are looking for...because you won't find that here. They love creating memories and documenting them, and they enjoy making 'notes to the future' so that the girls can also look back and see how much work mommy and daddy went thru...and they can see how difficult they were on mom and dad at times & get a good laugh. Just like I get a laugh at when my mom would show me a picture of me as a baby in my high chair with a bowl of spaghetti plopped on the floor. Or when my mom showed me a pic of me at the age of 4, and how I had made my mom a beautiful piece of art on our walls. I love looking back and seeing what a terror I was, and how much my mom went thru raising me, and it allows me to gain such appreciation for all her endless hard work, especially now that I'm doing the same hard work with my children...I only wish she had a camcorder...so I could see the actual footage of me growing up and I also wish that I had recorded some of my children's memories rather than just pictures as well. JB, miya, and keira are going to adore the fact that they can literally watch themselves grow up since birth...it's going to be such a priceless blessing for them, a gift no money could buy. But that's what benji is doing...he isn't complaining...he's simply stating how difficult it has been for him and his wife to raise their twins. Hope that clears it up for you.
He didn't really complain. He had twins. I would be the same way. I think he did a good job.
What Benji filmed is like the longest time I've seen the twins not cry. Keep at it! :)
They are very young and obviously colicky so....they cry.
I know, it must be hard. It isn't so bad to have crying babies all the time. Just a little stressful. Its alright to give them a 'keep at it!' just in case he is stressing out. :)
The twins are so cute and when they smile and coo it is so precious. This was a great day for everyone.
AWWW! Miya and Benji, you just melted my heart, so precious!
Benji and the girls were super precious this vlog especially when both were smiling at him awww it just melted my heart!
I have been watching your vlogs for months, and I always laugh when I read the comments. People on here will literally nit pick at every situation until they find the smallest thing to complain about. Quit wasting your time being negative and just enjoy the journeys that this beautiful family shows us. If you don't like how Judy and Benji parent or have problems with the way they handle situations, then don't watch!
Wow! How incredibly sad and disheartening it is to come back day after day to watch this wonderful loving family share their ups and downs, sometimes hectic and fun-filled lives with the world, only to have a bunch of disrespectful, sometimes hateful, judgmental people verbally attack them. It's really quite sad that people think that it's a good idea to berate ***** and BenjiManTV . I'm sad to say but they should really disable their comment section on a permanent basis. I hate to say that because I do enjoy reading the positive comments and enjoy leaving positive comments myself but this hateful and disrespectful commenting is getting way out of hand! As always I love watching their daily vlogs and enjoy watching on a daily basis! Such an awesome family!
I agree...it's definitely always risky talking about relationship arguments because people end up taking sides then form a negative opinion because of the complaint/vent. the partner is then ok with their spouse, but the other person now has this negative view of their partner. I think ppl want to defend judy, but they need to realize she doesn't need it. Benjis not a monster lol..She's a big girl I'm sure she'll be ok :)
bookwrm4evr what kills me, is a lot of people always comment how ungrateful either one of them always are. They both at least once a week mention how much they love each other, are soooooo grateful for the other... they appear to me atleast have a very normal loving relationship that is give and take. They have a normal beautiful family!
why is benji always allowed to spend his entire day doing leisurely activities around town but judy's not allowed to leave the house for more than 15 minutes lmao. we all know you hate taking care of YOUR children, no need to put on an act because the only ones who believe you are the 10 year olds who watch your videos. judy, please stand up to him and i mean REALLY stand up to him. thanks.
Can people please stop hating on Benji or Judy, just stop prejudging jesus christ, no family is perfect and being as they both take the time and effort to film and edit their lives every single day, we should be supporting them not putting them down
The reality of it is, is that Benji is a man, and men will be men. Even if they're not doing anything but sitting at home with their feet up, I can assure you any man would rather do that alone then have to watch his kids. (Not always, but at least once... Really) that doesn't mean that they don't love or appreciate their children, they're just being men. I've never seen Benji do anything that men don't typically do. At the end of the day he's a great husband and father.
I agree. He is a great father. He does a lot of the women duties that most men won't. Most men don't even watch their kids.
That's the problem with society! People like you guys who excuse the problem because "hey they are men, they were built to do this and that" like seriously?!
And I don't know what men you guys are around but the ones I'm around actually do EQUAL work. Just so pathetic how women excuse this behaviour because they are "men" ha sad.
I'm not "excusing" his behavior. Whether he likes it or not, he watches the kids when need be. And he does a EVERYTHING around the house. "I don't know what kind of men you're around..." MEN WHO WORK HARD, but that doesn't mean that they don't complain from time to time because they're men. I don't use "they're men" for behavior that's unacceptable, so excuse you. Benji is a great dad and wonderful husband. Before you try to make me seem like someone who excuses all behavior with "they're men" you could've took a second to read what I actually meant in the comment.
chelle21100 I think maybe you didn't understand what we meant. We weren't excusing his behavior. We were pointing out that he is a great father because unlike most men, Benji actually does things that most men wouldn't do because most men feel it's a woman's job to do it.
Chocolate milk recipe please!
Easy. You mix milk with chocolate Nesquik.
@babycupcakesz that made me laugh!
You and everyone else that liked your comment needs to rewatched 0:20-031 he tells you right there.
I knew it was gonna happen. Benji is always like blablabla i love my twins i like to take care of them im not complaining.and he was complaining the whole time.loooool. stop it benji. Just take care of them.its u who made judy preggo with twins.lmao.
Its life. You act like youve never complained about anything. Dont be so damn self righteous.
You talk about benji complaining, but yet your over here complaining about benji!
Bria Love well said
Benji is complaining? LOL! Sweetie, read your comment again. You are complaing about Benji and it is a FACT. He's just a proud daddy cause he's taking care of the girls. Nothing wrong with that! Oh and Benji was the one who made Judy preggers? Wow! So they can't have sexual connection now because Benji is always "complaining"? What about Judy? Why not blame her for letting Benji make love to her? LMAO!
Lenny Emelda sweetie.im talking abt how he used to complain in previous vlogs in this vlog he did not but rewatch the end.he completely ignored judy in front of her mom.thats so disrespectful. Im not complaining. If they r willing to make their life public for millions.its not always abt good positive comments u know. I am asian and i know the standards.benji once said he is from a strict hardcore disciplined family well i dont think so looking at how he ignored judy twice when she tried to talk to him.it didnt happen only once.im nobody to judge and i didnt want to but if u say so im just explaining why i made that comment. Haters gonna hate sweetie. Have a nice day
Awh! Benji is a great dad and Judy is a great mom. I love watching the vlogs from before when jb was young and watching her grow up
I loovveed this vlog.
Also Benji captures the best moments of Keira and Miya.. they laughed and smiled soo much in this vlog it was ammaaziingg!!
Benji did a good job with the twins. I don't understand why he ignored wifey but whatever lol
He was probably just hungry and a little crabby because of it
I cried seeing twins smiling in the same sitting....so beautiful! Good job benji for taking care of the twins alone
Benji, you win the father and husband of the day award! It isn't easy to take care of a baby alone, let alone they are twins! (:
BENJI AND JUDY, YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME PARENTS!!
You did awesome Benji. Hubby wasn't calm like you when I'd go nap for a while. He was in a panic lol. Now that baby is older he can handle it. I still kind of freak out sometimes when I'm alone w/ baby.
You guys have such a beautiful family. Thank you for sharing these moments with all of us on youtube.
The twins are getting cuter every day. Their smiles are so adorable!
Kiera's face to be his scary voice literally cracked me up
I KNOWWWW SO FUNNY AND CUTE
The girls are so lucky to have a mum and dad like Judy and benji ... Super parents💕
Benji makes it hard to watch these vlogs...he is getting progressively more miserable. His "woe is me" is exhausting. The joy he demonstrates is usually around mansplaining. Honestly, I think they should have waited to have kids. And if this were just baby blues, there would be more light between them. He resents her, and in some ways it's mutual. Anyway, I like their vlogs because they are joyful, but now the realization that babies take work has set in, In every moment, I'm just waiting for the "this is my life" comment. And in this one. it started early with the garage. Ugh. A beautiful wife, three beautiful children, a beautiful home. and very little time at the office and that man is miserable.
Just stop the hate.
omg with your comment you are miserable.
Sooo true! He has like a perfect life and still he complains for just taking care of them alone for 3-4 hrs.
So stop watching. This comment made you sound miserable
Shanice Garcia
you're probably right...watching him ignore her...twice...bummed me out...best just not to watch...
i love how family orientated they are. the 3 little girls are so lucky to have them as their parents
That moment with Benjie talking to the twins is just too precious❤️ you guys are very lucky to have such beautiful happy babies!
First of all, Benji you are an amazing father and husband. To people who are saying Benji was being rude when Judy got home... I was thinking that he had the right to be pissed. He was hungry and judy didn't even bring home food. Also, he had to take care of the twins by himself. Although he love them, it is hard doing that ALONE. its true they both deserve to go out and get some air but Judy got home and didn't have to take care of the kids alone. Of course she has her mom helping her as usual. If it was the other way around and Judy had to take care of the twins alone, she'd probably be crying..
i agree
Amem to that.
I would have done more than "getting pissed" if I were the one there.
She HAS Taken Care Of The Twins Alone Before!! And no She Doesn't Get Pissy Or Cry About It Cuz Those ARE Her Children! ! Sheesh. I Cud C U Dnt Watch The Vlogs Much!
Well, you go ahead and show me ONE vlog where she takes care of them alone.
Only one will be enough.
Because I have been watching them for over 3 years
I've Seen A FEW. . .
Benji deserves to be kinda pissed. He was obviously ignoring Judy after she got home. Benji can't breast feed them, he's not the mother, I'm sure it's so much different for the dad to take care of the baby alone let alone twins. And he seemed to have done a good job.
Agreed.
true.
No Benji can't breastfeed that is why Judy pumps so he can give them bottles with her breast milk. God forbid he have to feed his own children.
melwise2007 Are you a man? And have you ever took care of twins by yourself? I agree with Healu1102
melwise2007 exactly... A couple of days ago Judy filmed the many bags of frozen breast milk she had stored in the freezer. He can feed his daughters... PS I'm a twin from a family full of twins...taking care of 2 infants isn't Mission Impossible.
14:49 They love talking to you dad. They're so precious!
Judy: "We need to go grocery shopping." The we = Benji. lol. Judy, have you ever thought that YOU can go grocery shopping yourself too for food instead of always relying on Benji to do it. Yeah, Benji loves grocery shopping but c'mon Judy.
I know, I have never seen her go shopping for groceries, only makeup and clothes!!! Benji has really spoiled her! Unfortunately he created the monster!!
Relax! Maybe she isn't grocery shopping because its harder for her to leave her 3 babies at home to grocery shop when benji can easily do it himself. I'm sure if she did go grocery shop, the other half would complain saying how dare judy leave her kids, she is a horrible mom etc. they just cant win... Can they? And she said "we" need to go grocery shopping...she didn't say benji needs to...wow some people never fail to find something to bitch about. Pathetic
Benji loves doing the grocery shopping, it relaxes him, which is probably exactly why he's always doing it
Have you ever thought that maybe they split the grocery bills.. You just don't know because you don't see. And it's not that she relies on Benji for grocery shopping... He's like the main one who always cooks so he knows what they need or are running out of and what not mainly... Did you expect Judy to go and get groceries when she said that comment in the video today? Because she clearly couldn't have gone as it was her turn to take care of the twins as Benji left to be with his brother/dad. And just cause you have never seen her do grocery shopping doesn't matter... She does a lot of shopping for the kids and sometimes gets things for the house decor like candles or whatever AND she sometimes cooks still too
yeh then people will complain that Judy always leaves Benji alone with the girls,
they never win.
OK I can't say enough how cute the twins are smiling, but what is really cute is JB and Sophie. It's cool to see how Benji handled the twins and vlogging at the same time.
I feel for benji, I would never be able to leave my baby with my husband as he wouldn't know what to do. Great job benji. Keep it up
Benji you are the definition of a Super Dad!
Benji is "SUPER DAD". Lets give him some love and support guys.
The twins are just toooo cute!!! Thank you Judy and Benji for letting us viewers watch Miya, Kira, and Jb grow up
Hands down the cutest vlog EVEEER. Benji you are the sweetest dad. I know handling the twins on your own must have been stressful but you did an amazing job!
Ohh benji is such a nice father and a husband too...u are really blessed.
Benji is a SUPER DAD!!! Like seriously!
YAY A LONG VLOG! the twins are growing up so fast! i can't wait until they can play with julianna!!
Hats off to Benji. Awesome dad. I have to tell you that these raising kid years takes a lot of patience and tag teaming. It's not easy but your children will reflect all the sacrifices as they age.
Benji did AMAZING! The fact he was so hungry proves he put the babies Needs ahead of his own I know of many Moms that won't even do that!! I can't say I blame him being agitated he was Starving they should have brought him back a plate (:
LOVE all the footage of them GORGEOUS DollBabies they sure are growing much too fast!
Like benji said in yesterday's vlog we only get to see about 20 mins out of 24 hours in their day we don't see everything so you people don't know everything that goes on. Y'all are so negative.
Point taken but if he complains this much in 20min, I would be scared to see 24 hours.
Lol, that is just what he does.
Your vlogs are usually up around 2-3 am my time. Is it bad that I stay up just to watch it as soon as u put it up lmao
Lmfao 😂 same here ... I just finished watching it and about to go to sleep now lol and it's almost 3.30 am here ... This is my every night routine lol
I do to lol
no its not bad i stay up until like 1:43 at night
Usually up around 12am my time.. I'm usually awake still & I watch it. If not then I'm all excited to watch it in the morning!
I just go to sleep and watch it now (11:08 in Amsterdam)
I love how you guys always start by saying good morning :)
Watching Benji watching his baby girls is the sweetest. He is so in love with them! What lucky girls.
The twins on the rocking chair together were just too precious!! Loved seeing Benji with the baby bears!!
Just a suggestion. I think Judy should share her makeup room with benji since he doesn't have an office. when she started yt he let her film in his office and he bought her a vanity. So they can share the office space. I think sharing the room might work since I doubt they'll both be working/filming at the same time, since one or the other would be occupied with the babies.
I said the same thing a month ago and I got attacked by the other viewers lol! I've been called dumb and stuff but I just really feel bad for Benji. Its true that Judy makes beauty videos in her room but they could rearrange that room and put benji's office in it. When there's a will, there's a way.
BBUTT3RFLY
why were they attacking u? its just a suggestion. i mean, im sure its not going to be permanent, itll be temporary. those ppl who attacked u, mustve been those who hate benji lol. i mean benjis work is just as important and i think it would be considerate to share a work space, like theyve done in the past. if benji could invite her into his space in the past, i think it would be sweet if she did the same. i mean, its just a makeup room. benji doesnt need a his material in there right? in the garage hes just on a table... poor benji. must be uncomfortable in the garage.
I don't know what some people consider complaining,but I don't think Benji was complaining at all!! He was simply stating what was going on with the twins. To me complaining would be something like him saying " I wish Judy was here cuz this is just too hard" or " I'm never doing this again" . I think so many people just want Benji to be the villain but just face it guys,Benji is an amazing father,husband and person!! God bless the Travis family!
BENJI you should play past vlogs with Judy's voice on it! Therefore the babies might get some comfort from it when she's out!
Benji is such a good dad .. props to you benji!!! and judy i love you all!!!
Beji seeing you hang with the twins today was precious! It is very difficult for a daddy to handle twin babies ALONE and they loved being with you too!
Oh man this Astrid hater is just doing the absolute most. If you don't like what you see just unsubscribe. It's so annoying to see this user negatively comment on the vlogs especially about Benji multiple times on a video every single day. Jesus just get off the channel.
AMEN SISTER
The twins are like benjis sidekicks
Lets just focus with the twins today.. They both so freaking cuuteeeeeee!!! They wanna talk and play.. i hope to see more of their video talking and smiling.
So Judy went out to have fun, yet she brought Julianna with her... Usually, when Benji goes out he is all by himself. Judy, having to take care of three under two's never gives Benji the cold shoulder as he did to her. :/
Benji takes Julianna everywhere with him. In every vlog she's with him, even when he goes to meetings.
Actually, Judy has never been alone with the three kids. There's always someone with her.
He had every right to be pissed.
It was wrong of her to leave him alone with the babies and not even bring him some food when she got home. He always puts her needs first.
I would have done a lot worst when she said "hey, look, my babies are all in one piece"
fedengosbina THEY'RE HIS DAMN CHILDREN! HIS FUCKING RESPONSIBILITY! HE SHOULDN'T HAVE TO BE PISSED FOR BEING "LEFT ALONE" WITH HIS DAUGHTERS! God damn, you people are so stupid sticking up for Benji.
Kay Stephens you mad or nahh! LMAO!!
yadiaries79 It's infuriating to see how stupid you minions are.
Sorry Benji but the twins look waayy more Judy! LOL
That's funny I thought They looked like him haha
I think More benji Judy also has big eyes but they have more benji in them JB looks more like Judy and JB looks nothing like the girls when she was a new born!
YesiJ Love I think that JB totally looks like Grandma! The twins definitely look more like their parents than JB does.
YesiJ Love agree
Totally identical to their fathers ;)
It seems like Benji was ignoring Judy on purpose when she got home and at the end of the vlog.../:
he has his reason though right? He didn't even get a chance to eat when Judy was out with her family and she had to come back and mock him saying that the girls were still in one piece. That's kinda mean to say to a husband who's been taking care of them the whole time :(
Vivian Li I understand that.. But did you watch the vlogs where Benji always says things like how he does all the work around their home so that she can sit on the couch and just do UA-cam work all the time? I feel like Benji underappreciates Judy. She let him go out after too, and Miya and Kiera are also his children. It shouldn't be something to ignore your wife about... In my opinion anyways.
Shelley Lee people need their own space sometimes. I am surprised that judy or benji had not broken down yet from taking care of the twins, JB, and vlogging. It is better to ignore than fight in some cases, however I am not saying that ignoring your wife frequently is a good thing. People get tired and worn down.. and sometimes act or say things they don't mean. Next time you should be more understanding and not assume that Benji doesn't appreciate Judy and her youtube job.
M3naPop or "under appreciate" like you said.
I think he didnt have the power anymore to reply. Maybe he only wanted some Rest and Judy was disturbing him. It was a Hard Day for him
Benji is literally the BEST dad.
Why are people so angry about Judy going out? She still had one kid with her, yeah Benji took care of the twins alone, but when he left for his fun he didn't have to take any kids with him.. It seemed pretty fair to me.
I love when Judy says "thank you baby"!
Benji and Judy are the most amazing parents out there, they are doing what they can do help each other out and give their kids the best they can. I have learned alot just watching your vlogs. God bless you
The twins are getting so chubby and cuter by the day, I just wanna squeeze them, and wow I just realised how much JB looks like judys mum it's crazy!!!
Such a good husband
I wonder if Judy could take care of the twins all by herself for few hours...no help from Melody or her mom
No she couldn't.
Hijabi S You know how?
sheinrichable
She always gets help from her family
Hijabi S Bitter much?
sheinrichable
That's the reality. Benji leaves with JB all the time. Takes her to the park, takes her with him to the store to buy groceries and you always see Judy home with either her mom, Melody or she leave to go to her mom's house where she gets help from both her parents. What pisses me off is your kind of people, each day trying to side with Judy for no reason. Benji does a heck of a good job taking care of his family... back off will you stupid drama seeking hater.
benji u did an awesome job dont listen to the haters
CUTENESS OVERLOAD. I haven't watched the vlogs in about a month and they've got little personalities now!!! Keira and Miya at 15:05 is literally the cutest thing I've ever seen.