The kid that wrecked the house need serious help. I'm not kidding. This is beyond pouting or stomping out the room. He's the kind of kid that would kill you in your sleep over something as petty as getting his phone taken away.
He’s probably got ODD. My kid does and this seems very much like something he would do. I like to think I can predict the horrendous things he’ll do next but I’m surprised every time. On the daily it’s small power-tripping stuff like hiding my belongings and telling me I’m crazy. Last week he called the cops to arrest me claiming that I was on drugs. Like, I really wish I was at this point, sadly I am not.
The thing is, the "12 year old boy" who did this was actually a 6' tall, 270lb, 15-year-old teen that is currently being treated for mental illness. The video was sent to a friend of the mother and that friend turned around and shared it with false information on it. Gotta get those views even if it means destroying the reputation of a friend, I guess.
I'd be looking into a boarding or military school. I'd first get him to some doctors for a full assessment, then find the appropriate place to ship him off to. It's clear he needs help I can't give him.
As someone who grew up super poor and now doesn't expect any gift from anyone, I absolutely can't stand entitled people. The entitled kids baffles me. What's wrong with these humans.
My sister decided to be like this one year, and we grew up homeless and poor af. So I think she thought she deserved it after my mother graduated college and was able to provide a better life. My mother took her and her gifts to the homeless shelter, then took all her favorite clothes to the homeless shelter, and made her serve food every weekend for 3 months. My sister became so humble after that. Lol my mother is a Saint and has the patience of job and the creativity of God when it comes to discipline without pain.
@@natashah1922 Regardless of the need for medication, the kid was behaving like a monster- that is an example of what is referred to as a fact. That is why the woman was weeping, an acknowledgement that this would be her life. Your feelings are not germane. If, as you claim, the child was off his meds, why did the mother take him out in public knowing the likely outcome? Perhaps she, and you, should learn that your responsibilities are yours alone, stop passing the buck on to society. The kindness of low expectation and zero accountability are the root cause of the very serious issues facing us.
@@natashah1922 I stopped reading your comment when I noted you made it about you; it isn't about you- stop your transference and get on with your life. Accountability matters.
This is actually a horrible amount of misinformation. The kid was 15 in a mental health crisis a phone was never taken. And that video was maliciously put up to go viral. That mother never wanted that video up, she and her family are just trying to heal.
Did I miss part where the mother was asking for pity & not interested in parenting? Maybe my internet isn’t working. Having empathy is not that hard nor does it mean you are excusing the behavior & you never know when that shoe might land on your foot. @@flightographist
@@danielleS257 My statement was empathetic and accurate. Pretending there is no problem is a problem and it will take you places such as are displayed in the video and much much worse. No kid gets to that point in one leap so chew on this: reinforced behavior leads to repeated behavior. Thankfully, the kid didn't (yet) loose his grasp and destroy other peoples property- that would be criminal and land the kid in the system. Do yourself and others a favor and refrain from offering your vapid opinions, or perhaps contact the mother to get a trophy to the kid, that should make the bobo all better.
IRT the first video, the mother of that child sent that video to a trusted friend who leaked it to the entire internet against the mothers wishes. her child has extreme issues, and this was her showing a vulnerable situation to her friend. we werent ever meant to see any of that
That makes it even harder to see. I was already feeling really upset and scared for the family, but to know that we weren't ever meant to see that makes it worse! My heart goes out to the mum, I hope she gets the help she needs.
Like I said in a previous thread, this behaviour from the child shows something very bad is happening with the parents. Let's not feel sympathy for the mum who let this happen to her child, and instead push her to do something to help him
That kid who destroyed the house would have been sent to juvenile detention center if that was my aunt's house, and that guy who was complaining about people out shopping should have just ordered from an online delivery service
Or gone in the morning. As someone who worked retail most of my life and did grocery stores as a teen, old folks don't go out in the early morning. 8:30/9 am when the stores open is the slowest time of day. If you have no patience, you can always ask the cashier nicely what hours are best for shopping. They will always be happy to tell you if you're nice to people.
The thing about the kid that smashed his phone and threw it in the pool is... that behavior doesn't just come out of nowhere. There's a reason he was sure his mom would buy him a new phone and I'd bet she did in the end.
This wasn’t actually a 12 year old or the reason, she sent it to a friend and she shared it without permission and made it to be something it was not. The child was older and had mental illnesses.
Precisely! What irritates me most about videos like this, is the parents trying to frame it like this is a shock to them. Like, bish, you're the one that raised them to act like little turds.
Damn, what a roast. Fr tho, If I ever get a car like how she did, (no offense for me being a bit entitled) if its has an AC, comfy seats, a working radio, and runs good, I'd get in that car, and take that around town.
Never had enough money to get a car. I used my college fund that I saved up since I was 5 years old to get my family groceries when my mom was unemployed and my disabled dad’s SSI only paid the mortgage. I was a teenager who skipped meals for my family and did everything I could to provide and go to school with an auto immune disease. We still depend on the food pantry… And this ungrateful girl has the nerve to judge that beautiful car!?!? It’s so frustrating.
I literally cried when I was gifted a car after saving since 15 and told to use my savings for college. That girl saying how dirty the car was really ticks me off, how can you be so ungrateful?
I am 32 now and still can't afford a car. My parents never bought me one and they didn't pay for my drivers licence either. I would have been so greateful, if my parents would have done just something remotely generous like this for me.
I had to find out about me getting seizures around the time I was trying to get my license. At least she can drive, you know how terrifying it is to seize while LEARNING to drive. So thankful it was in a parking lot and the guy whose car I hit was super chill about it and no one was hurt.
@@RooHue bc the hood was up a little? That car was fine from looks of it, just looked like they didn't close it all the way. A car is a car. Say thank you and now you can drive period. Entitled rude brats need all their stuff taken away and given the bare minimum. Make them work for their shit from there on out
Several years ago, my nieces were arguing very badly around Christmas time. I told them if they didn't stop, I would give their gifts to a women's/children's shelter, they both looked at me, then started fighting again. Christmas morning, they each opened up an envelope with a thank you from the shelter. I told them, don't play with me girls, I will win.
@@sarahelizabeth7890 I'm almost 70 and can assure you that every generation I have witnessed has spawned children who never had to face any consequences for their actions. This is a truth that can be traced back throughout the history of mankind. If I had a dime for every time I heard that statement as a child, I would have a 💩load of pure silver dimes.
@@daemenoth I would've slapped a 4-SALE sign on it, and asked her if she's ready to go to GOODWILL with you to find her a BICYCLE INSTEAD SINCE SHE DOESN'T WANT THE CAR you bought her! WOW daughter! I didn't know you were that into FITNESS !
The first one, was done by a big 15 yr old who had on going mental problems, they'd been treated all their life, the worst was he'd destroyed her laptop, which was how the mother worked and paid the bills. He'd smashed a window too. The mother cried and cried but didn't want people to hate on her son, as he truly could not help it. She's been begging for more help with him. A 'friend' posted the video against the mother's wishes.
To the so called friend who posted this against the mothers wishes, you're disgusting. It not your business to be spreading this around. I really hope she had sense enough to drop you as a friend bc true friends would never do this. She asked you not to put it online and you did it anyway. If this child has issues it's none of anyone else's business except for the ppl who know him and are treating him. By trying to shame him you also shamed your friend. With friends like you who the hell needs enemies. Ppl please if someone asks you not to do something then don't do it bc it's NOT YOUR BUSINESS to spread it around. If she wanted it online she would have done it long before you did. You're not a friend you're a loser and don't deserve to have friends if this is how you betray their trust. You need to really think about what you've done and apologize immediately and beg her for forgiveness. Betraying someone's trust is the lowest of lows, the worst of the worst. I really hope you feel horrible for what you have done. You're a very cruel person so sit and think about that for awhile.
@@francesheinig6420 Then when the son kills his mother people will say "why didn't anyone speak up on what was really going on behind closed doors?". The mum should've had her son charged for what he did. Whatever issues he has is NOT an excuse for him to do what he did & get away with it. At 15 he's old enough to be held accountable for his actions. I highly doubt he'd willingly seek help or agree to help for his rage, anger & other issues. The constant fear the mother must live in would be devastating, & the walking around on eggshells so as to try not to upset him. Hopefully the mothers eyes were opened properly to her dangerous son when the video footage was released, & she was also able to be linked in with the support she desperately needs.
That first scene was genuinely really upsetting to see. I can imagine how scared that child's family was, the feelings of hurt and frustration in having to clean all that up, the sheer amount of damage to their home...
Yep. That's not entitled, that's a severe emotional/mental health problem. My son did similar things while the court was still forcing him to see his abusive narcissistic father, it's terrifying. Now that the a hole is out of the picture, and lots of therapy later, no problems at all
the first video is NOT a 12 year old boy, from what I can remember, the damage was caused from a 15-18 year old boy with serious issues, who was perhaps neurodivergent (developmental, intellectual, or social disabilities in short) The mom sent the video to a trusted friend after her son had a really bad tantrum or something like that. The friend betrayed the woman’s trust and sent the video to a lot of people, which in turn of course due to social media turned into “12 yo boy did this after mom took away his phone”
If that’s the real circumstances than sharing it without consent is awful. It could have been used as evidence of the need for mental health help, proper intervention and understanding if the mother choice to do that. The situation would have been hard enough but posting without permission and lying about what happened is extra disgusting. Hope that the family got help
My sister decided to be like this one year, super entitled and thought her gifts were below her. We grew up homeless and poor af. So I think she thought she deserved it after my mother graduated college and was able to provide a better life. My mother took her and her gifts to the homeless shelter, took all her favorite clothes to the homeless shelter, and made her serve food every weekend for 3 months. My sister became so humble after that. Lol my mother is a Saint, she has the patience of Job, and the creativity of God when it comes to discipline without pain.
I love that. My kids had to go find and donate the one toy they wanted if they could only have one toy ( with a $20 limit ). We had a few tears at the register handing over an item now and then but they ALWAYS got the exact same thing for Christmas from Santa. My daughter as an adult still says she can’t believe she was in junior high before she caught on to the this is how mom figures what we want for Christmas thing. But honestly, it was just to remind them that while they may get many things there was another child just like them that would possibly only get that one item they gifted…lol
Man the chick who was losing her shit at all the nice gifts her man got her is nuts! If a man came home and brought home all that for me I’d start crying bro because that is so damn sweet like what the hell man
It was not actually gifts, she gave him money, sent him to the stores to get specific things and groceries and he returned with what she didn’t ask for and no groceries
@@carstories4169 how do you know she gave him money? Relative? Anyways that's no way for her to act after receiving gifts. Just childish. Edit: grammatical error.
@@carstories4169 Having been in this exact situation before, I agree. Hubby wasn't working at the time, wanted to give him te opportunity to feel like he was contributing something too. He proceeded to spend more than the allocated amount on things no one wanted or needed. Her reaction seemed like frustration, disappointment and sadness more than anything else. No sane person would react that way otherwise. That's stress reaching a boiling point.
Seriously! My exes NEVER even put thought into getting me anything especially something special and meaningful or something I like. Like…Some people’s kids…
I truly felt for that mother that gave her daughter a car and basically had it thrown back in her face, nothing comes for free so she had probably worked her butt off to get it for her. No way would she ever get anything else of any value from me
If you ask me the moms an influencer. Using material goods and her new affluence to spoil her kids to take away from the lack of real attention and affection they ought to be receiving. That’s how you get a spoiled child like that. By spoiling them and ignoring their cries for love and instead spoiling some more. So in a way, I don’t believe they have worked their butts off for that money. I think it’s the life of luxury they’ve gotten used to from influencer lifestyles. Maybe she has put some work into it, not saying this profession does not require at least a level of dedication even if it’s not “hard” work. But you reap what you sow. If you pay no mine to your kids and try to buy their love, your children have no care or desire to learn the value of a dollar, they are also fed up and been feeling like shit for years that your attention to them isn’t theirs, it’s for an audience.
If I was that dude who's girl was throw things and saying "its not what she asked for", I would give her one more gift. Me leaving her and never coming back.
Her reaction was way out of line of course, but I do get where she could be coming from... I also really dislike receiving stuff that I won't use, even more so if I did have some things that I said I would like. From a significant other it's extra frustrating if they give you something you don't really like while you told them some options you would like. And then I'm so stressed out with work atm that I have gotten totally angry about ridiculous, tiny things lately. I can see how the combination of stress with a 'wrong' gift could lead to a bad, out of line reaction to the gift. Let's hope I learned from this woman's mistake so I react gracefully to any gift I get this Christmas 😅
@@meisjeViv I agree and it's not like I'm not grateful for the fact that they thought about me in getting me a gift. It's that they didn't think hard enough about what I actually like. That goes for family too. It drives me crazy that I say exactly what I want and yet no one listens. Why am I telling you what I want for Christmas when you don't even listen to me anyway? It doesn't make sense.
You could hear kids crying in the background, he probably feels trapped because of them😢
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@@meisjeViv well, what about if what you asked for a gift isn't in the other person budget? What if the other person isn't even close to make what the gift cost. People should be grateful to receive gift, you don't know how much effort the other person is doing. The girl in cage video wanted a very expensive gift that even her can't afford judging by how her place looks and herself. I never have asked to my husband for expensive gift, if I want a expensive shoes or handbags I buy it myself., I'm glad to even received a dinner out or bouquet of flowers 💐
I raised my 3 kids ALONE, & they turned out to be 3 of the best humans I've ever met. When they were young I had to beg them to make a Christmas list for me, they were more concerned about making it harder on me than what they could get!! They never knew how hard I struggled because it's not for kids to worry about. But they saw me working 2 jobs their whole life, but I still came home& cooked a hot meal every day, helped with homework, played a game together before bed, kept the house clean, etc. They also knew there were consequences immediately if they disrespected me or did wrong!! That's the prob- these ppl aren't being told NO or having consequences from a young age!! My kids also didn't get what they want all year long, they had to EARN things they wanted when it wasn't bday or Christmas. They tried the "I don't want THAT food" , but they tried it ONCE- I made them sit& watch the "Feed the Children network" that used to be on TV - they cried, apologies to me, & never complained about what food we had again. Every year I also asked them to go through their things& bag up anything they didn't fit anymore& this that they didn't want anymore. Then I'd take them to Children's Village( the name of the orphanage here) & they gave the things to the Center. It made them so happy to give, plus made them very appreciative of all they had.
The biggest issue is parents have literally no way to discipline now. When I was a kid (91 baby) I wouldve been bent over my mums knee and spanked (regardless of the fact she was abusive) When I turned 13 police got involved (my mum was abusive) and my mum was told, in front of me, she couldnt put a hand on me to stop me leaving the house because it was assault, she couldnt lock the windows or doors cause its false imprisonment and she couldnt lock me in my room for the same reason. When my mum asked him and the social worker how they expected her to discipline her kids (I'm 3rd oldest of 19 including steps and halfs) they told her to "sit her down and talk to her but you cant discipline her, its child abuse" parents literally cant do anything and it's no wonder we have so many entitled little assholes robbing old ladies. I'm a firm believer in the punishment fits the crime and I'm also a firm believer in spanking WHEN APPROPRIATE my great grandparents spanked me, my mum abused me. I am very well aware of the difference and if parents were allowed to discipline their kids the way we were and our parents were, maybe they'd think twice before behaving like this. I'm glad yours turned out so well though :) you did good
Same. Watching your single mom struggling below poverty makes you grateful for what you Do have. I should know, I've been on both sides of this spectrum.
@@maddydavidsdottir9862 totally, they probably have kids they've happily ignored for most of their lives and this comment is reminding them of what a parent should be like and it's got under their slimy skin and made them a bit feisty lol.
I remember being absolutely flabbergasted by my cousin being ungrateful for receiving a 1965 Ford Mustang for her sweet 16. A fully restored one, at that. My own parents could not afford to buy me a car for my 16th. Also, not only was that my dream car, but that year and make was super popular among our peers. I too did not have a car until my 20s, and it was a beautiful piece of shit that had no cold air and regularly stalled on me.
Step dad got me this little 2k$ corola when I was 20 so I could commute to college an hour away. Loved that little car, it was so tiny I could parallel park anywhere with ease.
I turned 40 this year and don't even have a licence yet, my partner said he will teach me to drive and when I get my license he will give me he's BMW and buy a new one for himself (as a joke I said hey cheeky I don't want your cast offs, I'm always teasing him to see he's reaction which is always meme worthy) but in reality I was very touched he would give me the BMW but after talking about it it's best I get a second hand banger to start off with LOL.
That’s the kind of child who will end up killing his parents. He needs to get help fast. But.. while he’s doing that, he absolutely can’t live in my house!
Depending on where someone lives and their insurance and if the boy has a diagnosis, there are group homes that specialize in this kind of thing. I know a family that had to have their son go to one for a while, and it made a huge difference. He was able to become a happy and functional young adult instead of ending up in jail.
@@melissasaint3283 I read somewhere else in the comments that the kid was 15 and in the middle of a mental health crisis. Depending on the state, a 15 year old is able to make medical/mental health decisions for themselves. I’m a social worker that works with foster kids and their families and an issue I’ve dealt with repeatedly in the last few years is teens refusing to accept mental health treatment and their parents being unable to get them into a treatment facility/crisis center on an involuntary hold. I had one case where a parent had to send another child to a friends home for two months because she was in danger around her sibling. And what’s worse is that despite repeatedly asking for help and stating she is unable to safely care for her child no one is able to help and she’s legally responsible for this child if he commits a crime and causes damages. Which he does on a regular basis both in her home and elsewhere. I understand why they changed the legal age of medical responsibility for teens to 14, but I think when it comes to mental health it should be raised to 18.
@@lorishaw751 don't give me that mental health crisis garbage ..there are issues and there are just pure evil ..that kids evil , an early grave for him would be doing the world a favour
i remember visiting a friend in america for xmas...we went to see her parents who were so nice...they didnt want to leave me out so had bought me some socks whilst the grandkids open all their presents... i was just so grateful they invited me into their home, shared their christmas with me, and even thought of buying me a little something. My friend new i would never wear the sock because she knows me well, but i smiled, hugged her parents, and thanked them. I gave the socks to my dad as i knew he would wear them - but even though this was 20 years ago i still remember that day and that gift and how thoughtful her parents were
Okay but the girl who was just not giving a shit while the Karen was yelling at her about eggs and breads and sandwiches… like just slowly popping open the bag? Iconic. Truly ✨iconic✨
@@donagnew8481 actually probably nothing happened. Or to make you feel better-lets make shit up.. Okay she was really running late and was going to miss her flight and this young lady forced her to stop and get an egg sandwich and doubled charged her and decided to move at sloth speed. There. Back story. Feel better?
As a kid (who had no source of income) i would wrap up my stuffed animals and give them as gift’s because i knew i would get more anyways and my aunts and uncles still have them to this day❤
That kid with the pool and the phone was the most clear cut case of entitlement out of all of these, and deserving of every bit of our scorn and his mother's punishment. He was so smug too. Its not like a few of the others where I got the impression that there might be more to the story and there is at least the possibility that some of these weren't cases of entitlement, or would have been easy to correct without going nuclear on punishments or publicly shaming them. A lot of people simply cannot see past how things look, and it seriously limits their ability to empathize with others. For example, many people genuinely expect kids to act like they love every gift and fake it if they don't. Which isn't always a healthy or reasonable approach. And with other videos like this online, I've seen several cases of parents or spouses always disregarding the gift receiver's likes, interests, and requests. Instead, they superimpose their own wants on them. Which eventually leads to the gift receiver blowing up after years of not getting listened to and getting filmed by their family. Another common trend I see is poor people or simply people going through hard times snapping after years of only getting to own low end stuff. So they make a misguided attempt to acquire something high end for once or suddenly start acting like certain items are beneath them. Life is about striving for good experiences after all and these people make the mistake of picking a hurtful or selfish way of trying to get the premium goods they covet. And their friends and family go full punitive in response.
This girl yelling at her boyfriend for getting her the wrong gifts is breaking my heart. Me and my husband didn’t have a lot of money after he got sick and when my birthday came up, he got me a pack of socks and a wine glass. that wine glass was my favorite thing to my name until I accidentally broke, and I haven’t brought myself to get myself a new one, because nothing will ever be a special because he gave it to me
"Work hard, make money, and buy yourself anything you want" - that's actually my mantra. I got my first job at 16, realized that I would never need to wait for other people to get me things, and never looked back. It's a great feeling.
Omg that kid that threw the phone in the pool and then expected another one almost made me cry as when I was about 16 I saved up all my money, got a job and bought myself a phone when all my entitled friend had phones at age 9 and 10
The first one: the mom already explained publicly what happened - her sister posted the vid without her permission; apparently the boy (who was 16 at the time, not 12) has mental difficulties and major anger rages as a consequence, and they are busy getting him help.
Even so that kid needs to be in a juvenile psych ward. That level of rage over such little provocation shows that he’s dangerous and needs professional intervention and supervision. The fact he’s sixteen doesn’t make this better or more explainable, it just means he’s more dangerous because he’s bigger.
I'm so glad he's getting help. So many parents would think they need to just throw him in military school or ground him. That's clear mental problems and he needs help if not medicated. The family needs to go along with him so they can learn how to work with him.
I took care of a disabled guy for a while and he was so rude and his family were so entitled. His sister, who moved out as soon as she could, explained to me she'd never even heard the words please and thank you until kindergarten...
As a guy who was raised to not only respect the elderly, but to appreciate the gifts I receive, the people complaining about the gifts they got just leave me appalled and embarrassed for their parents. My heart also goes out to the mother of the 12 year old who destroyed the entire house.
The only time I told my mom I didn't like a gift, it was a ostrich skin purse and it literally made me uncomfortable. I told her I wasn't going to use it so if she wanted to return it to get her money back she could. She was so mad about it but then ended up getting 40 bucks back and I never asked for a second gift. And I thought I was being entitled saying that lmao.
To me that doesn't sound entitled. But I can imagine it may have felt like that. Personally I would be very uncomfortable with that as a gift too. At least she didn't lose any money and you weren't expecting a replacement gift. Hopefully she got over that fairly quickly as it didn't sound unreasonable at all.
@@drunknTr30 it's a lot of tiny dot holes all over a white bag and it made me very uncomfortable haha. So it was definitely not my type of bag. I thought we were at a place we could just gently say no but apparently not.
I’ve returned some gifts too, but my mom then gets the money back, so it’s like if I didn’t receive it lol last year I returned a leather handbag… I don’t have any made of leather…
The kid with the phone? Oh my, not only would he not get another line he would be losing any electronics he already has and every privilege he has for a very long time.
When I was 14, I used to babysit for a 10 year old who had crazy anger issues like that. The mom was always there & basically I was paid to play Nintendo with him and keep him calm. The house had holes in the walls and doors from this kid’s craziness. It was super weird, but I was money hungry and did it for a summer. I felt so bad for his mom and his sweet 5 year old brother. They were hostages to this kids tantrums.
My grandson would behave in a similar way when he was having meltdowns or tantrums. He damaged walls and windows, and property but not to that extent. I was also physically assaulted multiple times. I'm worried for the mom in the video because that is probably the next step in his escalating behavior.
I love how the golden lab is just wandering around wagging its tail while the mom and kid argue about the phone 😂In high school another student once told me they intentionally destroyed their phone so their parents would get them a new one. I was just baffled. At the time I still had my mom's old brick phone with a tiny screen and actual visible pixels. Nowadays I hate having to get a new phone, because it takes weeks to get used to it and customize it the way you want.
ikr- I saw kids at my middle school who had cracked asf screens breaking their old phones bc they knew that their parents were about to get them a new one- while I was sitting there with my first phone which was my parent's old phone which had fallen into a river and didn't have a sim card. I used that one until one day when it overheated and ig something inside broke so it never turned on all the way. (still havent broken a screen to this day :>)
I have only ever bought one phone in my life, it’s still the same one I use now, cracked screen and all. Still works. Kinda. I think it’s ten years old. Before that I had a second hand one from my cousin, that was older and I used it till the thing that held the buttons fell off and we couldn’t repair it anymore. Phones last ages if you don’t throw them in the pool…..
In primary school I knew a kid like that, not just with phones either. Any kind of electronic they ever bought him, phones, consoles, handheld gaming devices. As soon as a new model came out he would come to school with it and make a show of it to a bunch of kids by smashing it to smitherens
I watched the 1 year old of a guy I graduated with because I saw the people offering to babysit her and I was not letting that baby girl go to any of them. I only got involved for her safety. I had her for almost a week! I still feel sick to my stomach thinking what could have happened to her in that time had she not been with me instead.
Thank you for listening to your "spidey sense" (what my former therapist called it). Trust those feelings, and I'm so glad you acted on them! You may have saved that little one's life.
I have watched a plethora of my friends kids for them. Especially if they're a single parent; for weeks at a time. It's not only healthy for parents to be able to get away for a while and let loose with out having to worry about their children, but self care is super important. You can't take care of others if you aren't taking care of yourself. And good on you, even if the parent is not making healthy decisions for themselves, at least they made a healthy choice in having you watch their kid. That was always my thought process on my friends behaviors as well. One of my friends was a mother too early. I took in her kids for almost a year straight. She provided food and medical and clothes and money to wash clothes and outings. And thats all I asked of her. As long as her kids were taken care of, I would not try to take them from her, I would do her wishes in parenting styles, and I would feed them her choice of food. But she just wasn't a good mom to them as small babies, and she recognized that. Because she was a single mom, she reached out to me and we did it together. Today they are amazing preteen boys, with an amazing, supportive, kind, loving mother, who has gone above and beyond to be the parent they deserve. At least I was there to help her when she was unsure, and I'm blessed that she trusted me enough to do this for her kids.
@@erikarussell1142 this is a friendship level I aspire to! Those kids are lucky you and their mom managed to put more than one regular adult in their lives. Love it.
As a mother of a boy who’s went through some really scary moments raising him, my heart goes out to the mothers in the two videos. Hang in there. They do grow up. The boy that destroyed the house though, he’s going to be facing prison one day if he doesn’t get help. There are good psychiatric centers out there for children and teens that may be able to stabilize him and diagnose him if there’s psychological issues. It could also be worth looking into a possible issue with drugs. The mother needs a support group.
Apparently that video was sent from the mother to a friend, and the friend leaked it to the entire internet. The mom is aware of the child and his issues and is getting him help.
after several very lean years and modest christmases, my husband got a new job at a significantly higher salary. To celebrate, we decided to take our first family vacation in many years to a florida theme park. I told our kids we were going, but warned them we would have to stay in a budget hotel to afford it, and didn't want any complaints that we weren't in a fancy resort hotel. To my joy they responded "Mom, we're so grateful just to be going, we'd be happy sleeping in the car in the parking lot!" I have good kids. And it was a great trip.
What i felt the most was disgust but also sadness, i feel so sorry for the people who tried to do something nice and received a slap on the face. Some people are so ungrateful!! They take for granted what they have.
The first video, I did my research. The kid is actually older, I think he was 18. He's over 6' tall and over 200lbs. He has emotional issues, and is receiving help. It was a friend of the family that posted this video without the mothers consent. She didn't go into too much detail about her son, but it wasn't just an out of the blue temper tantrum., He has legit issues that they've dealt with his entire life.
My cousin Dallas acted the same way when she got a brand new car for her sixteenth birthday. It was brand new wasn't even pre owned and she complained that one it wasn't the right color and two wasn't the right model. So her grandma who bought it, returned it and got the one SHE wanted.
Yeah, that first video reminds me of growing up with my brother. He was extremely violent as a kid and quite literally destroyed several places we lived in. Had to call the cops a few times on him too. I was terrified of him when I was a kid. He tried to throw my mom down the stairs a couple of times, almost broke my back once and threw opened scissors at my mom which ended up hitting me. I completely understand and feel for that lady so much. It is jarring going through that. You’re witnessing pure rage.
He wasn't twelve, he was in his teens. I remember that. Everyone thought that the mother was lying through her teeth but the mother had her friend there who saw the destruction with her own two eyes.
I remember that and felt bad because the video was posted without her permission, so now to see it being misconstrued as something it wasn't is pretty bad.
@@LaquetaHodge The second it started it's clear that's not a 12 year old behaving badly over a phone. That teen cannot live at the home at all. It's so sad.
I don't support violence in the home, but I tell you what, Mr. Bust-Em-Up would be on his way to Camp-Behave-Better like the ones Dr. Phil promotes. Darn Tootin! And the Plus-Size Pool Diver could join him!
I remember seeing the video about the destroyed house by the teen. I thought I remembered that he had a bunch of mental health issues and really needed help. No one believed the mom and I do believe she was evicted unfortunately. I hope they are doing better now.
I could not imagine throwing my perfectly good smartphone into the pool just because it's not the newest model. I cried tears of joy when I got a $50 smartphone Tracfone after using one of those sliding phones until it fell apart. I didn't get a smartphone until I was 15, I guess that could be a reason I was grateful for what I could get haha
I used to get those 30 dollar phones and loved them so much I would cry when it broke. Most times those phones came out of my own pocket money since they were so cheap. Didn’t get an iPhone 7 until I turned 17 and also came out of my own money 🤡.
Depends on the location. In FL unless there's a notorized contract between the two parties there's no protection if parents kick out an adult. I know from experience. I'm sure it's not the same for everyone, maybe I had lazy/ignorant police that day, but they wouldn't even let me get my property that I bought. 😒
It could also be that she is an adult and still living at home rent-free. I don't know about other places, but here that's pretty normal for several reasons. Not saying that I agree with that dad at all because I don't.
Once my kids got old enough to not believe in Santa, Christmas became so much less stressful. This year my 3 teenagers are getting money. (A substantial amount, but still, just money). It took so much stress away about wondering if they’d like their gifts, getting each child the same amount of gifts, jealously issues, etc. Now on Christmas we just spend the day together eating and playing games and actually have fun. Highly recommended. Edit: after watching these people throwing fits and being ungrateful about their gifts, I’m even more comfortable with my decision.
The difference is you didn’t raise self-entitled little brats that would act this way and that is a great reflection on you as a parent. Your children are the way they are because of you. I give all 4 of our teenage grandsons money for their birthday and Christmas. They are very happy and appreciative of their gifts. Then we eat, play games, look at photo albums, etc., and it is fabulous!
As soon as I knew who Santa was (I was 9), I had to get my mom gifts too. It was super stressful for me because I barely had money and she always complained
We have been trying to be more intentional with our gifts because of the reasons you listed above. We want to enjoy our time together rather than focus on a bunch of junk that's going to end up at the thrift store in a year anyway.
@@missnesi4525 that sucks and is another reason we just do money. When I was young I felt pressure to get my parents and (much) younger brother gifts. When your only money is from babysitting and then minimum wage jobs (back then, $5.25 a an hour) it’s really stressful and I don’t want Christmas stressful on my kids. This year, we gave them each $100 for buying people Christmas gifts for their girlfriends, friends, and us if they want. I told them I like chocolates and dad would appreciate playing games together. That way they don’t feel bad for not getting us anything and also don’t have to go into their savings for it. My heart broke a little when my oldest (17) said “mom, are we drawing names for who we buy for?” Because that’s what the adults do for the extended family. I said, “no son, you’re too young to be expected to buy for family. Dad and I will do it and it’ll be from all of us, the money we gave you is for who you want to buy for.” They’ll have plenty of time in their lives for Christmas stress and pressure.
I mean I don't know where you are from, but there where I live gifts don't have to be surprises, so every christmas my mom just simply asks me and my sister what do we want this is advice to everyone: if you don't know what someone might like, just ask them
My mom asked for a birthday gift last year. I got her exactly what she asked for then she complained about it and I went with her to take it back for another thing she asked for and she still managed to complain about it. After years of this behavior, I will never give her another gift.
I take notes from bears for the holidays, I stocked my den with food & Im hibernating til the New Year! No shopping, no parties or events, nothing!! I don’t have the energy this year to deal with people.
I totally understand! If you have what you need and avoid the hassle of shopping and interacting with the other stressed shoppers it’s a bonus. I have adult children and we decided not to buy gifts this year. I found it a bit hard to be honest. I’ve always enjoyed giving them a nice Christmas. This year was nice but different. My daughters actually said they enjoyed not having to shop and the stress it entails. We went on a family vacation in November in lieu of gift giving. Hope you are having an enjoyable holiday week
I work with individuals with learning disabilities and autism. This has happened several time during this year alone. Many people don't know that some of the clients have disabilities as they present as normal individuals and young people but their extremely vulnerable. This could be the case with some of the children on this video 🤷🏻♀️ or they could have a terrible upbringing 🤣
@@somedumbbroad as someone who knows how autism works I would expect you to be a bit more respectful towards these people's struggles. There's no such thing as "normal". Only neurotypical. If you don't love them, don't work with them. They deserve better.
Some dumb broad nailed it. This video was NOT a 12 yr old throwing a tantrum. It was a 15 year old w severe mental disorders, and had nothing to do w a phone.
"No Santa for you"? More like no *LIFE* for you. If this was my brother he would be yeeted into outer space in 0.1 seconds Edit: guys, it's an hyperbole. AN HYPERBOLE. It doesn't have to be taken word for word.
The video was fake, the damage was real but It wasnt for " taking away his phone " but the boy is acually mentaly ill and had an emotional alrt burst The friend of that mom did the scam
@@camilaaraneda874 no above they explain that the child anger rages and is not a young child he is a 16 year old. He needs to be in a situation where he can't hurt anyone. It is not abuse to remove dangerous children from homes for the safety of others..
@@camilaaraneda874 Haven't you heard about the recent case where a ten year old killed his mom because she wouldn't buy him virtual goggles? Evil isn't a learned behavior.
The thing about “ungrateful gift recipients” is that we only think how we would feel if someone gave us that with no context. Example: my parents divorced when I was 2, father would get me nothing or just get an extra of whatever his current girlfriend got for her kids. Then expect me to be super grateful to receive something completely antithetical to my interests that just reminded me of how much I was an afterthought. It wasn’t the gift. It was the context.
My mother gave me lasting Christmas memories- screaming at store clerks, throwing and slamming things in stores. I know now that she is a foul narcissist, but it was so so embarrassing as a kid. I'm almost 60 and it's still as fresh as when it happened.
8:58 I didn’t get a cellphone until I was 25! *That kid should be happy!!!* 3:45 And I can NEVER DRIVE because of epilepsy! So take advantage of what you’ve got!!! Edit: I didn’t get a cell phone until I started dating my hubby. I was always at home because of my epilepsy, so I never felt like I needed a phone. But then when I started dating my hubby, we had a long distance relationship, so we were on the phone a lot. So, my hubby talked me into getting a phone. *I love my hubby!!!* 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️
I was 21 when I finally got a phone. And only because I needed it. If I didn't, I still wouldn't have gotten one for a few years. Plus: it wasn't my family that got me a phone, it was a birthday gift from friends. And I kept that thing until it didn't work anymore before I bought a new one. That kid has no idea what he has!
I got my phone when I was 11. I didn’t care what it was. I just wanted a phone. iPhone, android, Samsung, I didn’t give a damn. As long as it wasn’t a flip phone, I was happy
…or take care of of your kids. It’s astounding to watch people berate and belittle caregivers. The sad part is that it shouldn’t affect the child’s care, but it can if the parent is unreasonable and you’re second guessing everything you do.
@@dearyvettetn4489 Yes, absolutely. And not everyone goes into childcare because of their selfless love of children in general (though, having done childcare as a very young adult, thankfully it's often the case, lol. You don't do that job because it's easy or lucrative!) But yes, 1000% agreed. We should treat everyone with respect, automatically...but it also has inherent benefits.
I felt the same way (at least about having kids), until I became an uncle some 14 years ago. Im not saying have kids if you dont want to, but im saying I learned, that anoying (or worse) kids have been MADE that way, by neglect, lazy spoiling, by putting 3 year olds in front of screens, by adults that show bad or simply very stupid behavior themselfs, which children, that do not know better, simply copy. This 12 yo destroying the whole apartment allways got what he/she wanted when throwing a tantrum , I'd bet. Hope its a a wake up call for the parents. I learned that children really are a miracle, they open us adults up, giving us a different perspective. And maybe remind us that giving is as rewarding as getting. (And not only money, but time, thought, feelings and respect) Spoilled kids become carens and kevins latter, and THEN it is drama, for sure. All kids deserve parents, not all parents deserve kids. Have a nice one.
@opal for the lifestyle I live, kids are not optimal. They wouldn't get the attention they need and deserve. I run my own buisness, that is my child. If being an uncle changed your perspective, great! But I know that life isn't for me.
I’m so thankful, for knowing how to be thankful. I appreciate just about, anything and everything that is given to me. Asked for or not. I just, can’t imagine acting like these people. If I by chance really had something I didn’t know how to feel for. Gosh darn it, someone tried. You still thank them! Being thought of, is just, how is that not important to people? I almost get shocked and feel unworthy of receiving things. Is it nice if it’s a nice gift? Of course. But random little things? Are just as cute and sweet and are cherished! It’s the thought that counts! I swear!
I just started watching and the first story hit home. My son is 10 and has a mental disorder and sadly his disorder can lead to this. 😞 Not saying every indecent has to do with a disorder but before you judge know all the facts. Either way my heart goes out to this mom. ❤️
And my heart goes out to this boy. His mother could've taken a video of the damage and send it to a psychiatrist so he could get help, but she chose to subject him to millions of strangers who know nothing about his personality or situation and enjoy hating so much. What if this poor kid saw this video and all the evil comments around it and tried to hurt himself?
@@kristie9144 I'm with you. There is no excuse for the thousands of dollars worth of damage done. This wasn't an outburst. This was methodical, making sure he got everything. Son/nephew or not, I'd press charges.
I had to watch the nose ring girls story a couple times. The nose rings aggravated my ocd so bad with the one ring not having a green end like the other. Like I want to get her contact info just to send her some money so she can get a matching ring.
LOLOLOL!! I was looking for this comment. Her nose rings were just atrocious!! OMG, why would anyone choose SNOT colored nose rings and multiple, no less.
... I cannot even imagine reacting like that, even as a kid my siblings and I were always grateful, and at 31 I'm still grateful someone even thought to buy me something. And these damn kids.... oh my god
I have a 12 year old and a 15 year old and both kids still do not have phones for their general well being and after seeing the first clip, I am so glad for it.
I didn't grow up poor but I got what I needed .. my parents are strict and I was an A grade student always ...yet I had to be extremely careful with my wishes and my barbie doll lasted 3 years before I could think of another gift that expensive.
I'm disabled and can't afford to buy people presents because I can't work. This year, I'm making everyone hot coco bombs for Christmas. I've always noticed that gifts that are made are better received than gifts that are bought 🥰
And to be honest, if you don’t need anything, it’s better to get food related gifts. No one needs another cat statue because once two decades ago they went, “cats are cute”. What they might actually like is homemade jam or banana bread. A knitted scarf. Whatever you make with love
The kid that broke everything? Yeah, you're absolutely right. There wouldn't be any more Santa or birthdays until he worked and earned enough to pay off all the damage 🤷♀️ (through house chores and maybe like, a paper route. Walking dogs and what not)
That child would be either locked up or Institutionalized. That is not normal behavior. That level of destruction is just....no. I'd call the authorities either the cops or the hospital or both
Charlotte has the video shown by the friend of the mom. The info listed is actually incorrect and missing important info. The 12 year old is actually a 15 year old. Also, the 15 year old has mental issues and this was, as far as I remember, an out of character reaction for a punishment. The friend later apologized for posting the video WITHOUT THE MOM'S PERMISSION, but by then, it was too late and the video had already gone viral.
I have a hard time believing that first clip was a child/teenager. If it was, they learned it from somewhere. Probably the parents. I wonder how many things the parents broke of theirs before they thought it was okay behavior 🤔 there's more to this than an entitled teen, imo
@@decay6516 as an aunt of some really great kids you are 100% right. Even at my nieces and nephews worst they've never been that disrespectful to my siblings. There is something more to that story.
I really hope the family with the 12yo that quite literally destroyed that house has access to affordable, comprehensive mental healthcare. It's no exaggeration that he is a danger to himself and others. My heart breaks for him and his family. That's absolutely terrifying.
that video contained a fair amount of misinformation. the kid is 15/16 and it wasn't over a phone, just mental issues. but besides that i do agree with you in that i hope they have access to good mental healthcare
You saying 'why do I feel like entitled people never grew up' SPOKE TO ME. My mom is the worst for that and she is super entitled and hasn't grown up all these years!
I have a theory that entitled people were treated that way when they were toddlers and children and instead of their parents correcting that behavior, they let it pass or even encouraged it. So they spent their whole formative years learning that it's ok for them to act that way and if someone doesn't treat them the way they want, to throw a shit fit until they get what they want!!!
You can thank Dr. Benjamin Spock for some of it. When he wrote his book on child rearing he was a clueless bachelor that never had children. A few years ago he publicly apologized (finally) for ruining two generations of American children. If you do not set limits and enforce them these kinds of children, out of control and destructive, are what you raise and they just get worse as adults.
I’ve seen some toddlers being entitled and the parents laughed ‘so cute, such a little diva’ so cute, but when they’re 6, 7, 8 years old and you see it doesn’t change, then it becomes a problem
I had some craziness happen to me last year I took my son (5 years old) to pick his giant teddy bear out . This thing approaches my son and starts screaming at him that this is her son's gift and physically pushed him . Needless to say I gave her equal rights and lefts. They tried to press charges but once the video surfaced things switched. She is now serving 2 years in jail for child abuse and inciting a riot. She will be on probation for 15 years after. True justice.
My husband and I made an agreement when we started dating that we wouldn't do birthday, Christmas, Anniversary, etc type gifts for each other. We are adults, if we want something we can buy it whenever. It's worked rather well for us.
The kid one got me. If you want that phone so bad, get money by selling old toys or doing odd jobs for the neighbors. It might even earn you some respect from your parentals
I was watching that and thinking how he would never have a smart phone again unless he bought it himself. He'd have a cheap flip phone just so there's a way to contact him but otherwise, have fun playing snake and pressing a number multiple times just to get to one letter for texting.
That girls nose rings were destroying my sense of symmetry. All the ends had a green end but the one end. Had a ball. Couldn’t stop staring at the ball. Lmao.
Not me. It made me so sad because that girl can't smell properly because her nose is pierced all through her nostrils. Why would you do that to yourself? She looked so ugly.
I kept looking at the "freckles" they were in a triangle shape. Can we stop with the fake freckles already?! But, yes nose rings like that, my minor ocd kicked into high
That kid who threw the phone in the pool would get a flip phone until he was 18 and moved out. Because he'd totally be out at 18. If he broke it I'd cancel his line.
They still make old style flip phones that only make calls and that is exactly why he'd get. The first kid needs serious psychiatric help, as in committed. If I'd done that, I wouldn't have been able to sit for a week .
Nope, when I was in middle school a flip phone was a privilege to get to use even when everyone at school had iphones. He'd be getting exactly what I used from ages 11-15, a tiny brick trac phone and as soon as he was old enough he'd be getting a job to pay back for the phone he broke. Not to mention he'd have to wait for the trac phone due to a nice month long vacation away from electronics.
seriously felt so bad for the family of the girl who whined about the car. You could just hear how excited they were for her to see and everyone was in on the surprise - and then she was so awful about it. What a rude, ungrateful child! If that's how she reacts, she's probably not mature enough to drive.
Brats don’t get anything from me. Ever. And yes if I want something I buy it. I work hard so why not? When I receive a gift I’m grateful. Homemade cookies or even a thoughtful card or fuzzy socks (because my friends know I have cold feet all the time!) are the best gifts because they came from the heart. It’s cliche I know but those are really the ones that mean the most. ❤
I've come around a bit about Christmas but it still makes me a bit uncomfortable in regards to the gift giving part. My parents never had money, I often either didn't get anything or one present only. I was raised to enjoy Christmas for the family being together, spending time together. So flash forward to my wife's family Christmas. Packages stacked literally to the ceiling in one corner of their house. Everyone had like 10+ gifts each. I didn't begrudge them for it, it just made me uncomfortable. I guess I felt like they were missing the best part, being together, and the gift giving was excessive compared to my experiences. I've come to enjoy watching them open their gifts especially kids to see their excitement but if people start handing me multiple gifts it still makes me feel like it's wrong for me to accept them. I know it prolly sounds weird but that's just how it is for me. I hope everyone has a safe and happy holiday and cherish the time you have with your loved ones.
That would make me uncomfortable too. My extended family used to do gifts for everyone, a gift from each household for each kid etc. As we grew it turned into a Kris Kringle. Then the pandemic hit and my aunt and uncle we're short on cash as they built it was just decided to scrap gifts all together. Now we just get together as a family, each bring a plate of food and enjoy each others company. Now the only stress is perhaps for the person hosting that year having to clean. It feels nice to not have pressure to buy or fake excitement at gifts you didnt really need
@@mkk2424 we always had modest Christmases: one big gift or a few small gifts, plus stockings and gifts from relatives. When I was younger I sometimes wanted more, but knew better than to complain. Now? We're having a no-presents Christmas and I'm thrilled! The minors will be getting gifts but the adults are just excited to be together. And I'm making cinnamon rolls!
honestly, its only good for kids. Normal adults dont have a big wish list, coz the stuff they want, they get themselves, and anything they havent gotten and want, is too expensive to request (which is why you havent gotten it yourself yet). It's only fun to shop for kids and see them open it. Adults....nobody knows what anyone actually wants wants. If you HAPPEN to stumble upon something you think someone would like, then there you go. Maybe a gift or two as you come across it them. And then you have the staple gifts you know theyll love to get EVERY year, like my dad likes new slippers, by the time xmas comes around he needs a new pair lol. Or my mom with bath beads, or my grandma who loves those chocolate covered cherries they sell during december. just small things. But like, getting gifts otherwise for all the adults and trying to get many gifts for all? Seems too much, a bit incincere, and it really doesnt make any sense. Coz it IS about spending time with family. Meaningful gifts matter as a nice incentive. But going overboard, no way. And if your kids are old enough to start being entitled like the kids in this video: Coal or a ticket straight to military school topped with a pretty bow lol
@@CallMeGameGirl not sure about the military school, but I agree about buying for adults. We have a Kris Kringle with my immediate family via a website and we each make a wishlist. I could not for the life of me think of anything I wanted unless it was a gift card to make the $1500 thing I am going to buy cheaper
@SwitchIt I usually just say "cash" when people ask what I want lol. And then they pry more, and then I say I don't have anything I want currently as I buy them as I want them myself. And if I'm gifted cash, it'll eventually go towards something I want lol. Most gift I buys friends just end up being silly white elephant gifts coz we're all on the same page about not knowing what to get eachother, but want to get at least something, even if it's just for laughs.
A classy person is someone who handles things with grace & is greatful for any & everything they receive. This behavior is why in my family, my siblings & I had to work to pay for anything other than the necessities (ex food, shelter, basic inexpensive clothing needs, etc). I've been working since I was 10, I helped watch children while the parents were home doing things & paid for CPR & first aid training. This helped shape us into the functional, caring, responsible, adults we are today. I will do the same with my kids.
The kid that wrecked the house need serious help. I'm not kidding. This is beyond pouting or stomping out the room. He's the kind of kid that would kill you in your sleep over something as petty as getting his phone taken away.
I agree. He needs to be assessed ASAP.
He’s probably got ODD. My kid does and this seems very much like something he would do. I like to think I can predict the horrendous things he’ll do next but I’m surprised every time. On the daily it’s small power-tripping stuff like hiding my belongings and telling me I’m crazy. Last week he called the cops to arrest me claiming that I was on drugs. Like, I really wish I was at this point, sadly I am not.
He actually 15 and it wasn't over a phone. He has severe mental illness and had an episode.
The thing is, the "12 year old boy" who did this was actually a 6' tall, 270lb, 15-year-old teen that is currently being treated for mental illness. The video was sent to a friend of the mother and that friend turned around and shared it with false information on it. Gotta get those views even if it means destroying the reputation of a friend, I guess.
I'd be looking into a boarding or military school. I'd first get him to some doctors for a full assessment, then find the appropriate place to ship him off to. It's clear he needs help I can't give him.
As someone who grew up super poor and now doesn't expect any gift from anyone, I absolutely can't stand entitled people. The entitled kids baffles me. What's wrong with these humans.
Same.
My sister decided to be like this one year, and we grew up homeless and poor af. So I think she thought she deserved it after my mother graduated college and was able to provide a better life. My mother took her and her gifts to the homeless shelter, then took all her favorite clothes to the homeless shelter, and made her serve food every weekend for 3 months. My sister became so humble after that. Lol my mother is a Saint and has the patience of job and the creativity of God when it comes to discipline without pain.
Dont you know? Those look like humans are actually incubi and sucubi
I once for secret santa was given a box full of cow shit with a necklace hidden in it I had to dig out.
After that Im happy with anything even nothing
This was in elementary school not from my family
That kid, destroying the phone... "... You're really not going to get me a new one?" Props to the mom who stood her ground on that!
I’m usually not for Spanking but In that case it would be deserved. It’s amazing the entitlement of kids.
In my culture that kid would be punished severely just immediately. I dunno how the mother could tolerate this behavior and keep calm.
Kids don't need phones. Point blank. You'll be doing a really good thing for your kid if you do NOT provide them with a cell phone.
I honestly doubt that she stood her ground for long. Kids who act that way are doing so in response to their parents having no backbone.
I need to know what happened next, did he break the pool as well?
The mom crying while inspecting the damage was weeping because she realized her kid was a monster, that would be life changing.
@@natashah1922 Regardless of the need for medication, the kid was behaving like a monster- that is an example of what is referred to as a fact. That is why the woman was weeping, an acknowledgement that this would be her life. Your feelings are not germane. If, as you claim, the child was off his meds, why did the mother take him out in public knowing the likely outcome? Perhaps she, and you, should learn that your responsibilities are yours alone, stop passing the buck on to society. The kindness of low expectation and zero accountability are the root cause of the very serious issues facing us.
@@natashah1922 I stopped reading your comment when I noted you made it about you; it isn't about you- stop your transference and get on with your life. Accountability matters.
This is actually a horrible amount of misinformation.
The kid was 15 in a mental health crisis a phone was never taken.
And that video was maliciously put up to go viral.
That mother never wanted that video up, she and her family are just trying to heal.
Did I miss part where the mother was asking for pity & not interested in parenting? Maybe my internet isn’t working. Having empathy is not that hard nor does it mean you are excusing the behavior & you never know when that shoe might land on your foot. @@flightographist
@@danielleS257 My statement was empathetic and accurate. Pretending there is no problem is a problem and it will take you places such as are displayed in the video and much much worse. No kid gets to that point in one leap so chew on this: reinforced behavior leads to repeated behavior. Thankfully, the kid didn't (yet) loose his grasp and destroy other peoples property- that would be criminal and land the kid in the system. Do yourself and others a favor and refrain from offering your vapid opinions, or perhaps contact the mother to get a trophy to the kid, that should make the bobo all better.
IRT the first video, the mother of that child sent that video to a trusted friend who leaked it to the entire internet against the mothers wishes. her child has extreme issues, and this was her showing a vulnerable situation to her friend. we werent ever meant to see any of that
That's fucked up
That makes it even harder to see. I was already feeling really upset and scared for the family, but to know that we weren't ever meant to see that makes it worse! My heart goes out to the mum, I hope she gets the help she needs.
Like I said in a previous thread, this behaviour from the child shows something very bad is happening with the parents. Let's not feel sympathy for the mum who let this happen to her child, and instead push her to do something to help him
I feel old, whats IRT stand for?
@@cheeling794 I think it’s “in reply to.”
That kid who destroyed the house would have been sent to juvenile detention center if that was my aunt's house, and that guy who was complaining about people out shopping should have just ordered from an online delivery service
Or gone in the morning. As someone who worked retail most of my life and did grocery stores as a teen, old folks don't go out in the early morning. 8:30/9 am when the stores open is the slowest time of day. If you have no patience, you can always ask the cashier nicely what hours are best for shopping. They will always be happy to tell you if you're nice to people.
i said the same thing, i'd tell him there's such a thing as instacart or peapod for stop and shop, and Kroger has their own service as well.
He belongs in a hospital, not a jail. That's not bad behavior, that's serious mental disturbance.
Oh heck yes...a 12 year old who did this would be either in juvie or a mental health facility
@@erikarussell1142 seriously!! If he’s out shopping and complaining about people being out is he not part of his own “problem”??
The thing about the kid that smashed his phone and threw it in the pool is... that behavior doesn't just come out of nowhere. There's a reason he was sure his mom would buy him a new phone and I'd bet she did in the end.
Yup!
@UCPqIvVGYSo3rKUEtp6OMc7Q If I would have spoken to my mom like and got in her face like that kid did.... oh Lord Jesus.
I am being judgemental here but based on his severe obesity at that young age, mom doesn't tell him no very often.
This wasn’t actually a 12 year old or the reason, she sent it to a friend and she shared it without permission and made it to be something it was not. The child was older and had mental illnesses.
Precisely!
What irritates me most about videos like this, is the parents trying to frame it like this is a shock to them. Like, bish, you're the one that raised them to act like little turds.
"I'm too classy"
Bish, hope you got a classy walk, cause that is how you're getting places.
🤣🤣🤣
Ooofff that's a good one!
Damn, what a roast. Fr tho, If I ever get a car like how she did, (no offense for me being a bit entitled) if its has an AC, comfy seats, a working radio, and runs good, I'd get in that car, and take that around town.
Never had enough money to get a car. I used my college fund that I saved up since I was 5 years old to get my family groceries when my mom was unemployed and my disabled dad’s SSI only paid the mortgage. I was a teenager who skipped meals for my family and did everything I could to provide and go to school with an auto immune disease. We still depend on the food pantry… And this ungrateful girl has the nerve to judge that beautiful car!?!? It’s so frustrating.
LMBO I was thinking that too 🤣😂 I would return that car and get her a bike or some nice walking shoes!
I literally cried when I was gifted a car after saving since 15 and told to use my savings for college. That girl saying how dirty the car was really ticks me off, how can you be so ungrateful?
Right?! I was so grateful for my first car. It was a hand me down, but I was beyond grateful.
I am 32 now and still can't afford a car. My parents never bought me one and they didn't pay for my drivers licence either. I would have been so greateful, if my parents would have done just something remotely generous like this for me.
Based on the look of the car, it had to have been a prank. It looked like it had been in an accident.
I had to find out about me getting seizures around the time I was trying to get my license. At least she can drive, you know how terrifying it is to seize while LEARNING to drive. So thankful it was in a parking lot and the guy whose car I hit was super chill about it and no one was hurt.
@@RooHue bc the hood was up a little? That car was fine from looks of it, just looked like they didn't close it all the way. A car is a car. Say thank you and now you can drive period. Entitled rude brats need all their stuff taken away and given the bare minimum. Make them work for their shit from there on out
Several years ago, my nieces were arguing very badly around Christmas time. I told them if they didn't stop, I would give their gifts to a women's/children's shelter, they both looked at me, then started fighting again. Christmas morning, they each opened up an envelope with a thank you from the shelter. I told them, don't play with me girls, I will win.
Consequences are absolutely what is missing these days. Good for you !!
And that's how is done
@@sarahelizabeth7890 I'm almost 70 and can assure you that every generation I have witnessed has spawned children who never had to face any consequences for their actions. This is a truth that can be traced back throughout the history of mankind. If I had a dime for every time I heard that statement as a child, I would have a 💩load of pure silver dimes.
@@bren6967 preach!
@@bren6967 Yeah that's because each generation gets a little worst.
"I'm too classy for this"
Charlotte: " I don't think you are babe"
Me: 😂😂😂
Are you new?
whats funny about it
.that would have been the time to say never mind this car then you can get a damn job and buy your own car up to your standards.
@@It-is-me...Melsie yea explain how is it funny
@@daemenoth I would've slapped a 4-SALE sign on it, and asked her if she's ready to go to GOODWILL with you to find her a BICYCLE INSTEAD SINCE SHE DOESN'T WANT THE CAR you bought her! WOW daughter! I didn't know you were that into FITNESS !
When I was a kid, we never told anyone what we wanted. A gift was a gift and you better be grateful, cuz if you are not, you will regret being alive.
“You deserve to be locked up in Bellevue” for those who aren’t aware the restaurant manager called him crazy. Hahaha best NYC insult.
The first one, was done by a big 15 yr old who had on going mental problems, they'd been treated all their life, the worst was he'd destroyed her laptop, which was how the mother worked and paid the bills. He'd smashed a window too. The mother cried and cried but didn't want people to hate on her son, as he truly could not help it. She's been begging for more help with him. A 'friend' posted the video against the mother's wishes.
Oh man that is heart breaking. I hope someone offers help now.
Obviously she needs to look harder for help for her son. Just because he has issued does NOT make his behavior acceptable. Quite the contrary.
Because it's an EMERGENCY!!!!
To the so called friend who posted this against the mothers wishes, you're disgusting. It not your business to be spreading this around. I really hope she had sense enough to drop you as a friend bc true friends would never do this. She asked you not to put it online and you did it anyway. If this child has issues it's none of anyone else's business except for the ppl who know him and are treating him. By trying to shame him you also shamed your friend. With friends like you who the hell needs enemies.
Ppl please if someone asks you not to do something then don't do it bc it's NOT YOUR BUSINESS to spread it around. If she wanted it online she would have done it long before you did. You're not a friend you're a loser and don't deserve to have friends if this is how you betray their trust. You need to really think about what you've done and apologize immediately and beg her for forgiveness. Betraying someone's trust is the lowest of lows, the worst of the worst. I really hope you feel horrible for what you have done. You're a very cruel person so sit and think about that for awhile.
@@francesheinig6420 Then when the son kills his mother people will say "why didn't anyone speak up on what was really going on behind closed doors?". The mum should've had her son charged for what he did. Whatever issues he has is NOT an excuse for him to do what he did & get away with it. At 15 he's old enough to be held accountable for his actions. I highly doubt he'd willingly seek help or agree to help for his rage, anger & other issues. The constant fear the mother must live in would be devastating, & the walking around on eggshells so as to try not to upset him. Hopefully the mothers eyes were opened properly to her dangerous son when the video footage was released, & she was also able to be linked in with the support she desperately needs.
That first scene was genuinely really upsetting to see. I can imagine how scared that child's family was, the feelings of hurt and frustration in having to clean all that up, the sheer amount of damage to their home...
Yep. That's not entitled, that's a severe emotional/mental health problem. My son did similar things while the court was still forcing him to see his abusive narcissistic father, it's terrifying. Now that the a hole is out of the picture, and lots of therapy later, no problems at all
@@jennh2096 bless your heart, I'm glad he's doing better now. That couldn't have been easy for either of you!
the first video is NOT a 12 year old boy, from what I can remember, the damage was caused from a 15-18 year old boy with serious issues, who was perhaps neurodivergent (developmental, intellectual, or social disabilities in short) The mom sent the video to a trusted friend after her son had a really bad tantrum or something like that. The friend betrayed the woman’s trust and sent the video to a lot of people, which in turn of course due to social media turned into “12 yo boy did this after mom took away his phone”
oof this should be boosted
If that’s the real circumstances than sharing it without consent is awful. It could have been used as evidence of the need for mental health help, proper intervention and understanding if the mother choice to do that. The situation would have been hard enough but posting without permission and lying about what happened is extra disgusting. Hope that the family got help
@@baileybubbles13consent, not constant. :)
Awful. The mum needs proper help to discipline the child/teen. Teachers should work with mum.
@@vinniewrites fixed it. Thank you, I was on my phone and I have dyslexia. Slip ups happen, thanks for not being mean about it. 💙
My sister decided to be like this one year, super entitled and thought her gifts were below her. We grew up homeless and poor af. So I think she thought she deserved it after my mother graduated college and was able to provide a better life. My mother took her and her gifts to the homeless shelter, took all her favorite clothes to the homeless shelter, and made her serve food every weekend for 3 months. My sister became so humble after that. Lol my mother is a Saint, she has the patience of Job, and the creativity of God when it comes to discipline without pain.
I love that.
My kids had to go find and donate the one toy they wanted if they could only have one toy ( with a $20 limit ).
We had a few tears at the register handing over an item now and then but they ALWAYS got the exact same thing for Christmas from Santa.
My daughter as an adult still says she can’t believe she was in junior high before she caught on to the this is how mom figures what we want for Christmas thing. But honestly, it was just to remind them that while they may get many things there was another child just like them that would possibly only get that one item they gifted…lol
Wow, your mom rocks! I'm so happy that it made your sister turn around and change for the better, that's just amazing!
Man the chick who was losing her shit at all the nice gifts her man got her is nuts! If a man came home and brought home all that for me I’d start crying bro because that is so damn sweet like what the hell man
It was not actually gifts, she gave him money, sent him to the stores to get specific things and groceries and he returned with what she didn’t ask for and no groceries
@@carstories4169 how do you know she gave him money? Relative? Anyways that's no way for her to act after receiving gifts. Just childish.
Edit: grammatical error.
@@carstories4169 and I believe pandora jewelry is not just some groceries.
@@carstories4169 Having been in this exact situation before, I agree. Hubby wasn't working at the time, wanted to give him te opportunity to feel like he was contributing something too. He proceeded to spend more than the allocated amount on things no one wanted or needed.
Her reaction seemed like frustration, disappointment and sadness more than anything else. No sane person would react that way otherwise. That's stress reaching a boiling point.
@@carstories4169 Show me the Carfax, Mr. Car Stories. I call bs
The lady that threw a tantrum at the gifts she was brought doesn't deserve him
I would of left her right than and there.
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Run dude!
The child crying in the background that she just didn't give a c__p about was what really got me.
Seriously! My exes NEVER even put thought into getting me anything especially something special and meaningful or something I like. Like…Some people’s kids…
I truly felt for that mother that gave her daughter a car and basically had it thrown back in her face, nothing comes for free so she had probably worked her butt off to get it for her. No way would she ever get anything else of any value from me
That car would have been sold. Kid could take the bus or walk.
That kid would not be getting a car from me after that for a fact, you’re “too classy” for this car, go get yourself a better one yourself🤷🏽♀️
If you ask me the moms an influencer. Using material goods and her new affluence to spoil her kids to take away from the lack of real attention and affection they ought to be receiving. That’s how you get a spoiled child like that. By spoiling them and ignoring their cries for love and instead spoiling some more. So in a way, I don’t believe they have worked their butts off for that money. I think it’s the life of luxury they’ve gotten used to from influencer lifestyles. Maybe she has put some work into it, not saying this profession does not require at least a level of dedication even if it’s not “hard” work. But you reap what you sow. If you pay no mine to your kids and try to buy their love, your children have no care or desire to learn the value of a dollar, they are also fed up and been feeling like shit for years that your attention to them isn’t theirs, it’s for an audience.
@SourPickles8 yes I agree .I am not of the generation that social media is a major part of my life so I didn't really give that a thought
@@SourPickles8the mom isn’t an influencer at all. She wasn’t doing any of that. Your assumption is incorrect. Mom did nothing wrong
If I ever acted like these people, my mom would've given me a good old fashion "attitude adjustment".
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I'd get the belt
Yeah like the ones you got when you were a child of the 80's
Yep mine too!
Same. I would get beaten or the belt if I even TRY to act like this. I mean I got beaten over things not under my control, imagine trying this 💀.
If I was that dude who's girl was throw things and saying "its not what she asked for", I would give her one more gift. Me leaving her and never coming back.
Her reaction was way out of line of course, but I do get where she could be coming from... I also really dislike receiving stuff that I won't use, even more so if I did have some things that I said I would like. From a significant other it's extra frustrating if they give you something you don't really like while you told them some options you would like.
And then I'm so stressed out with work atm that I have gotten totally angry about ridiculous, tiny things lately. I can see how the combination of stress with a 'wrong' gift could lead to a bad, out of line reaction to the gift. Let's hope I learned from this woman's mistake so I react gracefully to any gift I get this Christmas 😅
@@meisjeViv I agree and it's not like I'm not grateful for the fact that they thought about me in getting me a gift. It's that they didn't think hard enough about what I actually like. That goes for family too. It drives me crazy that I say exactly what I want and yet no one listens. Why am I telling you what I want for Christmas when you don't even listen to me anyway? It doesn't make sense.
You could hear kids crying in the background, he probably feels trapped because of them😢
@@meisjeViv well, what about if what you asked for a gift isn't in the other person budget? What if the other person isn't even close to make what the gift cost. People should be grateful to receive gift, you don't know how much effort the other person is doing. The girl in cage video wanted a very expensive gift that even her can't afford judging by how her place looks and herself. I never have asked to my husband for expensive gift, if I want a expensive shoes or handbags I buy it myself., I'm glad to even received a dinner out or bouquet of flowers 💐
He needs to rid of her or stop buying anything completely!
I raised my 3 kids ALONE, & they turned out to be 3 of the best humans I've ever met. When they were young I had to beg them to make a Christmas list for me, they were more concerned about making it harder on me than what they could get!! They never knew how hard I struggled because it's not for kids to worry about. But they saw me working 2 jobs their whole life, but I still came home& cooked a hot meal every day, helped with homework, played a game together before bed, kept the house clean, etc. They also knew there were consequences immediately if they disrespected me or did wrong!! That's the prob- these ppl aren't being told NO or having consequences from a young age!! My kids also didn't get what they want all year long, they had to EARN things they wanted when it wasn't bday or Christmas. They tried the "I don't want THAT food" , but they tried it ONCE- I made them sit& watch the "Feed the Children network" that used to be on TV - they cried, apologies to me, & never complained about what food we had again. Every year I also asked them to go through their things& bag up anything they didn't fit anymore& this that they didn't want anymore. Then I'd take them to Children's Village( the name of the orphanage here) & they gave the things to the Center. It made them so happy to give, plus made them very appreciative of all they had.
Great story. Want a prize?
The biggest issue is parents have literally no way to discipline now. When I was a kid (91 baby) I wouldve been bent over my mums knee and spanked (regardless of the fact she was abusive) When I turned 13 police got involved (my mum was abusive) and my mum was told, in front of me, she couldnt put a hand on me to stop me leaving the house because it was assault, she couldnt lock the windows or doors cause its false imprisonment and she couldnt lock me in my room for the same reason. When my mum asked him and the social worker how they expected her to discipline her kids (I'm 3rd oldest of 19 including steps and halfs) they told her to "sit her down and talk to her but you cant discipline her, its child abuse" parents literally cant do anything and it's no wonder we have so many entitled little assholes robbing old ladies. I'm a firm believer in the punishment fits the crime and I'm also a firm believer in spanking WHEN APPROPRIATE my great grandparents spanked me, my mum abused me. I am very well aware of the difference and if parents were allowed to discipline their kids the way we were and our parents were, maybe they'd think twice before behaving like this. I'm glad yours turned out so well though :) you did good
@@captainobvious8949 what a sad, bored basement gremlin 🙄😒
Same. Watching your single mom struggling below poverty makes you grateful for what you Do have. I should know, I've been on both sides of this spectrum.
@@maddydavidsdottir9862 totally, they probably have kids they've happily ignored for most of their lives and this comment is reminding them of what a parent should be like and it's got under their slimy skin and made them a bit feisty lol.
That waitress actually got “and then everyone clap”
The funny thing is, it actually happens sometimes (rarely), but no one will ever believe you if it happens to you and you tell the story later. 🤣🤣🤣
Dude 😂 I love how the plan of the kid who threw his phone in the pool completely back fired.
Can’t imagine being gifted a car as a teen! The ungrateful girl KILLED me, damn. Didn’t have my own car until my 20s.
I didn't get 'my own' car till I was 45!
I'm 46, never got a car. I'm still taken taxi few times a month to go out.
I remember being absolutely flabbergasted by my cousin being ungrateful for receiving a 1965 Ford Mustang for her sweet 16. A fully restored one, at that. My own parents could not afford to buy me a car for my 16th. Also, not only was that my dream car, but that year and make was super popular among our peers.
I too did not have a car until my 20s, and it was a beautiful piece of shit that had no cold air and regularly stalled on me.
Step dad got me this little 2k$ corola when I was 20 so I could commute to college an hour away. Loved that little car, it was so tiny I could parallel park anywhere with ease.
I turned 40 this year and don't even have a licence yet, my partner said he will teach me to drive and when I get my license he will give me he's BMW and buy a new one for himself (as a joke I said hey cheeky I don't want your cast offs, I'm always teasing him to see he's reaction which is always meme worthy) but in reality I was very touched he would give me the BMW but after talking about it it's best I get a second hand banger to start off with LOL.
That’s the kind of child who will end up killing his parents. He needs to get help fast. But.. while he’s doing that, he absolutely can’t live in my house!
Yes I agree. Another mass murderer in the making.
Actually if my kids did break ANYTHING on purpose, their butts would be handprinted.
Depending on where someone lives and their insurance and if the boy has a diagnosis, there are group homes that specialize in this kind of thing.
I know a family that had to have their son go to one for a while, and it made a huge difference.
He was able to become a happy and functional young adult instead of ending up in jail.
@@melissasaint3283 I read somewhere else in the comments that the kid was 15 and in the middle of a mental health crisis. Depending on the state, a 15 year old is able to make medical/mental health decisions for themselves. I’m a social worker that works with foster kids and their families and an issue I’ve dealt with repeatedly in the last few years is teens refusing to accept mental health treatment and their parents being unable to get them into a treatment facility/crisis center on an involuntary hold. I had one case where a parent had to send another child to a friends home for two months because she was in danger around her sibling. And what’s worse is that despite repeatedly asking for help and stating she is unable to safely care for her child no one is able to help and she’s legally responsible for this child if he commits a crime and causes damages. Which he does on a regular basis both in her home and elsewhere. I understand why they changed the legal age of medical responsibility for teens to 14, but I think when it comes to mental health it should be raised to 18.
@@lorishaw751 don't give me that mental health crisis garbage ..there are issues and there are just pure evil ..that kids evil , an early grave for him would be doing the world a favour
"And I'm asking you nicely"! QUEEN!!!!
i remember visiting a friend in america for xmas...we went to see her parents who were so nice...they didnt want to leave me out so had bought me some socks whilst the grandkids open all their presents... i was just so grateful they invited me into their home, shared their christmas with me, and even thought of buying me a little something. My friend new i would never wear the sock because she knows me well, but i smiled, hugged her parents, and thanked them. I gave the socks to my dad as i knew he would wear them - but even though this was 20 years ago i still remember that day and that gift and how thoughtful her parents were
Okay but the girl who was just not giving a shit while the Karen was yelling at her about eggs and breads and sandwiches… like just slowly popping open the bag? Iconic. Truly ✨iconic✨
Well I've only got two speeds, and if you don't like how fast I'm working now, I'm SURE you're not going to like the other.
I would have bagged it then, Oops I made that wrong. Gotta start from the beginning
@@jerdtgg naw I would have accidentally dropped it. Oopsy hit the floor cant use that
I wonder what happened to lead up to that outburst. I feel we are missing most of the story here
@@donagnew8481 actually probably nothing happened.
Or to make you feel better-lets make shit up..
Okay she was really running late and was going to miss her flight and this young lady forced her to stop and get an egg sandwich and doubled charged her and decided to move at sloth speed.
There. Back story. Feel better?
As a kid (who had no source of income) i would wrap up my stuffed animals and give them as gift’s because i knew i would get more anyways and my aunts and uncles still have them to this day❤
That’s adorable!!
That is so sweet ❤
That’s adorable and so kind as a little kid.
Awww! What a sweetheart! I can see why your aunts and uncles saved them.
It is probably still the gifts that means the most to them.
That kid with the pool and the phone was the most clear cut case of entitlement out of all of these, and deserving of every bit of our scorn and his mother's punishment. He was so smug too.
Its not like a few of the others where I got the impression that there might be more to the story and there is at least the possibility that some of these weren't cases of entitlement, or would have been easy to correct without going nuclear on punishments or publicly shaming them.
A lot of people simply cannot see past how things look, and it seriously limits their ability to empathize with others. For example, many people genuinely expect kids to act like they love every gift and fake it if they don't. Which isn't always a healthy or reasonable approach.
And with other videos like this online, I've seen several cases of parents or spouses always disregarding the gift receiver's likes, interests, and requests. Instead, they superimpose their own wants on them. Which eventually leads to the gift receiver blowing up after years of not getting listened to and getting filmed by their family.
Another common trend I see is poor people or simply people going through hard times snapping after years of only getting to own low end stuff. So they make a misguided attempt to acquire something high end for once or suddenly start acting like certain items are beneath them. Life is about striving for good experiences after all and these people make the mistake of picking a hurtful or selfish way of trying to get the premium goods they covet. And their friends and family go full punitive in response.
The kid with the phone is giving Dudley from Harry Potter vibes
Same and it's the mom's fault for spoiling him.
70's TV-show Night Gallery had a story called The Academy, which would solve this problem.
@@Supersoccerchic at least now he understood the lesson with that incident we hope-
It wasn’t bc she took away the phone. He has mental health issues going on. She made a story time.
Hahaha I found my people
This girl yelling at her boyfriend for getting her the wrong gifts is breaking my heart. Me and my husband didn’t have a lot of money after he got sick and when my birthday came up, he got me a pack of socks and a wine glass. that wine glass was my favorite thing to my name until I accidentally broke, and I haven’t brought myself to get myself a new one, because nothing will ever be a special because he gave it to me
I would be so happy with a pack of socks.
@@ellie8461 they were Disney Pixar❤️ I love my husband so much and he’s so thoughtful
He needs to dump her, she is a freeloader. He took the time to shop and this witch is being a jerk
So sweet!!
Omg I love receiving those types of gifts! Sweet, useful and you'll always think of them. Sorry the wine glass broke ❤
"Work hard, make money, and buy yourself anything you want" - that's actually my mantra. I got my first job at 16, realized that I would never need to wait for other people to get me things, and never looked back. It's a great feeling.
My mantra is if I can't afford it then I don't need it
Omg that kid that threw the phone in the pool and then expected another one almost made me cry as when I was about 16 I saved up all my money, got a job and bought myself a phone when all my entitled friend had phones at age 9 and 10
The first one: the mom already explained publicly what happened - her sister posted the vid without her permission; apparently the boy (who was 16 at the time, not 12) has mental difficulties and major anger rages as a consequence, and they are busy getting him help.
He can't stay in the home at all, based on that video.
Even so that kid needs to be in a juvenile psych ward. That level of rage over such little provocation shows that he’s dangerous and needs professional intervention and supervision. The fact he’s sixteen doesn’t make this better or more explainable, it just means he’s more dangerous because he’s bigger.
I'm so glad he's getting help. So many parents would think they need to just throw him in military school or ground him. That's clear mental problems and he needs help if not medicated. The family needs to go along with him so they can learn how to work with him.
@@loosilu what scares me is a baby is living in that situation....
Mental issues or not, you need to respect your parents!
It must be exhausting to be that entitled. Imagine never appreciating anything and always feeling like a victim. 🤡
Right? I'm tired watching them
I took care of a disabled guy for a while and he was so rude and his family were so entitled. His sister, who moved out as soon as she could, explained to me she'd never even heard the words please and thank you until kindergarten...
As a guy who was raised to not only respect the elderly, but to appreciate the gifts I receive, the people complaining about the gifts they got just leave me appalled and embarrassed for their parents. My heart also goes out to the mother of the 12 year old who destroyed the entire house.
That lady yelling over a SANDWICH! I would have moved in literal slow motion for that "pep in your step" comment. 🤣😭
The only time I told my mom I didn't like a gift, it was a ostrich skin purse and it literally made me uncomfortable. I told her I wasn't going to use it so if she wanted to return it to get her money back she could. She was so mad about it but then ended up getting 40 bucks back and I never asked for a second gift. And I thought I was being entitled saying that lmao.
To me that doesn't sound entitled. But I can imagine it may have felt like that. Personally I would be very uncomfortable with that as a gift too. At least she didn't lose any money and you weren't expecting a replacement gift. Hopefully she got over that fairly quickly as it didn't sound unreasonable at all.
Ostrich skin anything sounds scary. I would react the same way you did.
@@drunknTr30 it's a lot of tiny dot holes all over a white bag and it made me very uncomfortable haha. So it was definitely not my type of bag. I thought we were at a place we could just gently say no but apparently not.
I just googled what they look like..yikes
I’ve returned some gifts too, but my mom then gets the money back, so it’s like if I didn’t receive it lol last year I returned a leather handbag… I don’t have any made of leather…
The kid with the phone? Oh my, not only would he not get another line he would be losing any electronics he already has and every privilege he has for a very long time.
At least the parents don’t have to pay his phone bill😂
Oh no, how did this phone catch fire?
I agree. And I would show him the video every day for a month.
Oh, absolutely, that child deserves no nice things for at least as long as he has that attitude.
If I slammed a phone down like that in front of my parents, they would have slammed me down right after the phone.
When I was 14, I used to babysit for a 10 year old who had crazy anger issues like that. The mom was always there & basically I was paid to play Nintendo with him and keep him calm. The house had holes in the walls and doors from this kid’s craziness. It was super weird, but I was money hungry and did it for a summer. I felt so bad for his mom and his sweet 5 year old brother. They were hostages to this kids tantrums.
My grandson would behave in a similar way when he was having meltdowns or tantrums. He damaged walls and windows, and property but not to that extent. I was also physically assaulted multiple times. I'm worried for the mom in the video because that is probably the next step in his escalating behavior.
I love how the golden lab is just wandering around wagging its tail while the mom and kid argue about the phone 😂In high school another student once told me they intentionally destroyed their phone so their parents would get them a new one. I was just baffled. At the time I still had my mom's old brick phone with a tiny screen and actual visible pixels. Nowadays I hate having to get a new phone, because it takes weeks to get used to it and customize it the way you want.
He would have watched me cancel his number off the family plan and take whatever console system he has and donate it to someone else
ikr- I saw kids at my middle school who had cracked asf screens breaking their old phones bc they knew that their parents were about to get them a new one- while I was sitting there with my first phone which was my parent's old phone which had fallen into a river and didn't have a sim card. I used that one until one day when it overheated and ig something inside broke so it never turned on all the way. (still havent broken a screen to this day :>)
I'll be a parent in March, taking these tips on board. Note to self - always keep a non-trendy chunky old phone in case they break theirs
I have only ever bought one phone in my life, it’s still the same one I use now, cracked screen and all. Still works. Kinda. I think it’s ten years old. Before that I had a second hand one from my cousin, that was older and I used it till the thing that held the buttons fell off and we couldn’t repair it anymore. Phones last ages if you don’t throw them in the pool…..
In primary school I knew a kid like that, not just with phones either. Any kind of electronic they ever bought him, phones, consoles, handheld gaming devices. As soon as a new model came out he would come to school with it and make a show of it to a bunch of kids by smashing it to smitherens
I watched the 1 year old of a guy I graduated with because I saw the people offering to babysit her and I was not letting that baby girl go to any of them. I only got involved for her safety. I had her for almost a week! I still feel sick to my stomach thinking what could have happened to her in that time had she not been with me instead.
Thank you for listening to your "spidey sense" (what my former therapist called it). Trust those feelings, and I'm so glad you acted on them! You may have saved that little one's life.
You were her angel ❤
I have watched a plethora of my friends kids for them. Especially if they're a single parent; for weeks at a time. It's not only healthy for parents to be able to get away for a while and let loose with out having to worry about their children, but self care is super important. You can't take care of others if you aren't taking care of yourself. And good on you, even if the parent is not making healthy decisions for themselves, at least they made a healthy choice in having you watch their kid. That was always my thought process on my friends behaviors as well. One of my friends was a mother too early. I took in her kids for almost a year straight. She provided food and medical and clothes and money to wash clothes and outings. And thats all I asked of her. As long as her kids were taken care of, I would not try to take them from her, I would do her wishes in parenting styles, and I would feed them her choice of food. But she just wasn't a good mom to them as small babies, and she recognized that. Because she was a single mom, she reached out to me and we did it together. Today they are amazing preteen boys, with an amazing, supportive, kind, loving mother, who has gone above and beyond to be the parent they deserve. At least I was there to help her when she was unsure, and I'm blessed that she trusted me enough to do this for her kids.
@@erikarussell1142 this is a friendship level I aspire to! Those kids are lucky you and their mom managed to put more than one regular adult in their lives. Love it.
@@meisjeViv I'm so grateful I could be her support system. And so grateful of how much of a kick ass mom I've gotten to watch her become.
For the kid that threw his phone in the pool, thanks to the mom for finally saying no to him, should have happened a long time ago!
If he had had boundaries all along this would never have happened.
She went out and bought him another one. He wouldn’t behave that way unless he knows his mother is easily manipulated.
That looked staged like Wafflepwn or McJuggernuggets.
Fake AF! Kid and mom were both trying not to laugh. And if it was real, the mom is too bust trying to get clicks than be a parent
The 12 yr old who destroyed their house ...pls mama get him some help. That kind of rage is extremely terrifying.
As a mother of a boy who’s went through some really scary moments raising him, my heart goes out to the mothers in the two videos. Hang in there. They do grow up. The boy that destroyed the house though, he’s going to be facing prison one day if he doesn’t get help. There are good psychiatric centers out there for children and teens that may be able to stabilize him and diagnose him if there’s psychological issues. It could also be worth looking into a possible issue with drugs. The mother needs a support group.
Apparently that video was sent from the mother to a friend, and the friend leaked it to the entire internet. The mom is aware of the child and his issues and is getting him help.
@@AmyoftheFlowerField That’s good to hear she is in a position where she is able to get him help. I hope she has a ton of support around her.
after several very lean years and modest christmases, my husband got a new job at a significantly higher salary. To celebrate, we decided to take our first family vacation in many years to a florida theme park. I told our kids we were going, but warned them we would have to stay in a budget hotel to afford it, and didn't want any complaints that we weren't in a fancy resort hotel. To my joy they responded "Mom, we're so grateful just to be going, we'd be happy sleeping in the car in the parking lot!" I have good kids. And it was a great trip.
This video caused many feelings, mostly disgust and horror.
What i felt the most was disgust but also sadness, i feel so sorry for the people who tried to do something nice and received a slap on the face. Some people are so ungrateful!! They take for granted what they have.
It's free birth control
The first video, I did my research. The kid is actually older, I think he was 18. He's over 6' tall and over 200lbs. He has emotional issues, and is receiving help. It was a friend of the family that posted this video without the mothers consent. She didn't go into too much detail about her son, but it wasn't just an out of the blue temper tantrum., He has legit issues that they've dealt with his entire life.
My cousin Dallas acted the same way when she got a brand new car for her sixteenth birthday. It was brand new wasn't even pre owned and she complained that one it wasn't the right color and two wasn't the right model. So her grandma who bought it, returned it and got the one SHE wanted.
Actually, Grandma should have kept the car for herself.
Grandma nnNOOOOOOoooooo 😩
Yeah, that first video reminds me of growing up with my brother. He was extremely violent as a kid and quite literally destroyed several places we lived in. Had to call the cops a few times on him too. I was terrified of him when I was a kid. He tried to throw my mom down the stairs a couple of times, almost broke my back once and threw opened scissors at my mom which ended up hitting me. I completely understand and feel for that lady so much. It is jarring going through that. You’re witnessing pure rage.
He wasn't twelve, he was in his teens. I remember that. Everyone thought that the mother was lying through her teeth but the mother had her friend there who saw the destruction with her own two eyes.
I remember that and felt bad because the video was posted without her permission, so now to see it being misconstrued as something it wasn't is pretty bad.
@@LaquetaHodge The second it started it's clear that's not a 12 year old behaving badly over a phone. That teen cannot live at the home at all. It's so sad.
I don't support violence in the home, but I tell you what, Mr. Bust-Em-Up would be on his way to Camp-Behave-Better like the ones Dr. Phil promotes. Darn Tootin! And the Plus-Size Pool Diver could join him!
I remember seeing the video about the destroyed house by the teen. I thought I remembered that he had a bunch of mental health issues and really needed help. No one believed the mom and I do believe she was evicted unfortunately. I hope they are doing better now.
@@spklyunicorn The teen has mental issues. That is a terrible way to deal with things like this.
I could not imagine throwing my perfectly good smartphone into the pool just because it's not the newest model. I cried tears of joy when I got a $50 smartphone Tracfone after using one of those sliding phones until it fell apart. I didn't get a smartphone until I was 15, I guess that could be a reason I was grateful for what I could get haha
I didn't get a phone until I've started my first job at 20yo, and it was a brick, because it was years ago.
Some kids need their asses beat. That kid clearly has no respect for anyone or anything.
I used to get those 30 dollar phones and loved them so much I would cry when it broke. Most times those phones came out of my own pocket money since they were so cheap. Didn’t get an iPhone 7 until I turned 17 and also came out of my own money 🤡.
6:16 either she's underage and he's neglecting his child or she's older and has tenants rights. Either way, that was an illegal eviction.
1000%
There is definitely more to the story
@@ericwilliams1659 I agree. There is more to that story.
Depends on the location. In FL unless there's a notorized contract between the two parties there's no protection if parents kick out an adult. I know from experience. I'm sure it's not the same for everyone, maybe I had lazy/ignorant police that day, but they wouldn't even let me get my property that I bought. 😒
It could also be that she is an adult and still living at home rent-free. I don't know about other places, but here that's pretty normal for several reasons.
Not saying that I agree with that dad at all because I don't.
Once my kids got old enough to not believe in Santa, Christmas became so much less stressful. This year my 3 teenagers are getting money. (A substantial amount, but still, just money). It took so much stress away about wondering if they’d like their gifts, getting each child the same amount of gifts, jealously issues, etc. Now on Christmas we just spend the day together eating and playing games and actually have fun. Highly recommended.
Edit: after watching these people throwing fits and being ungrateful about their gifts, I’m even more comfortable with my decision.
The difference is you didn’t raise self-entitled little brats that would act this way and that is a great reflection on you as a parent. Your children are the way they are because of you. I give all 4 of our teenage grandsons money for their birthday and Christmas. They are very happy and appreciative of their gifts. Then we eat, play games, look at photo albums, etc., and it is fabulous!
As soon as I knew who Santa was (I was 9), I had to get my mom gifts too. It was super stressful for me because I barely had money and she always complained
We have been trying to be more intentional with our gifts because of the reasons you listed above. We want to enjoy our time together rather than focus on a bunch of junk that's going to end up at the thrift store in a year anyway.
@@missnesi4525 that sucks and is another reason we just do money. When I was young I felt pressure to get my parents and (much) younger brother gifts. When your only money is from babysitting and then minimum wage jobs (back then, $5.25 a an hour) it’s really stressful and I don’t want Christmas stressful on my kids. This year, we gave them each $100 for buying people Christmas gifts for their girlfriends, friends, and us if they want. I told them I like chocolates and dad would appreciate playing games together. That way they don’t feel bad for not getting us anything and also don’t have to go into their savings for it. My heart broke a little when my oldest (17) said “mom, are we drawing names for who we buy for?” Because that’s what the adults do for the extended family. I said, “no son, you’re too young to be expected to buy for family. Dad and I will do it and it’ll be from all of us, the money we gave you is for who you want to buy for.” They’ll have plenty of time in their lives for Christmas stress and pressure.
I mean I don't know where you are from, but there where I live gifts don't have to be surprises, so every christmas my mom just simply asks me and my sister what do we want
this is advice to everyone: if you don't know what someone might like, just ask them
Lol. The kid that smashed the phone. 😂😂 good for the mom.
As someone w PTSD: It doesn't make you a jerk. Being triggered isn't the same as impatience.
I feel like I'm totally crushing this whole mom thing now. My kids are sweet and respectful and grateful. I hope they stay that way. ❤️
If ANY of these reactions came from someone I knew- that would be the last thing they ever got from me.
My mom asked for a birthday gift last year. I got her exactly what she asked for then she complained about it and I went with her to take it back for another thing she asked for and she still managed to complain about it. After years of this behavior, I will never give her another gift.
@@kissit012 Your mom sounds like she's actually just frustrated that you won't be HER mommy.
I take notes from bears for the holidays, I stocked my den with food & Im hibernating til the New Year! No shopping, no parties or events, nothing!! I don’t have the energy this year to deal with people.
I totally understand! If you have what you need and avoid the hassle of shopping and interacting with the other stressed shoppers it’s a bonus. I have adult children and we decided not to buy gifts this year. I found it a bit hard to be honest. I’ve always enjoyed giving them a nice Christmas. This year was nice but different. My daughters actually said they enjoyed not having to shop and the stress it entails. We went on a family vacation in November in lieu of gift giving. Hope you are having an enjoyable holiday week
All my life I always believed that bears had the right idea.
I’m so sad for the folks that went out of their way to buy gifts and do something nice and the recipient reacted like an absolute pos.
Those kids! The destruction of the house over losing your phone privileges, Holy Cow! The house? I’m speechless.
Then watch him still get gifts
I work with individuals with learning disabilities and autism. This has happened several time during this year alone. Many people don't know that some of the clients have disabilities as they present as normal individuals and young people but their extremely vulnerable. This could be the case with some of the children on this video 🤷🏻♀️ or they could have a terrible upbringing 🤣
Actually it wasn't over a phone it was an 15 year old who has severe mental illness that had an episode.
@@somedumbbroad as someone who knows how autism works I would expect you to be a bit more respectful towards these people's struggles. There's no such thing as "normal". Only neurotypical. If you don't love them, don't work with them. They deserve better.
Some dumb broad nailed it. This video was NOT a 12 yr old throwing a tantrum. It was a 15 year old w severe mental disorders, and had nothing to do w a phone.
"No Santa for you"? More like no *LIFE* for you.
If this was my brother he would be yeeted into outer space in 0.1 seconds
Edit: guys, it's an hyperbole. AN HYPERBOLE. It doesn't have to be taken word for word.
He's actually a mentally disturbed teen, not a misbehaving kid.
The video was fake, the damage was real but It wasnt for " taking away his phone " but the boy is acually mentaly ill and had an emotional alrt burst
The friend of that mom did the scam
@@camilaaraneda874 no above they explain that the child anger rages and is not a young child he is a 16 year old. He needs to be in a situation where he can't hurt anyone. It is not abuse to remove dangerous children from homes for the safety of others..
@@BreakingSynyr I wondered about his age. And if he's in Juvy.
@@camilaaraneda874 Haven't you heard about the recent case where a ten year old killed his mom because she wouldn't buy him virtual goggles? Evil isn't a learned behavior.
The thing about “ungrateful gift recipients” is that we only think how we would feel if someone gave us that with no context. Example: my parents divorced when I was 2, father would get me nothing or just get an extra of whatever his current girlfriend got for her kids. Then expect me to be super grateful to receive something completely antithetical to my interests that just reminded me of how much I was an afterthought. It wasn’t the gift. It was the context.
I remember hearing at one time in my life... Desire is the source of all unhappiness.
It has proven itself to be pretty accurate.
My mother gave me lasting Christmas memories- screaming at store clerks, throwing and slamming things in stores. I know now that she is a foul narcissist, but it was so so embarrassing as a kid. I'm almost 60 and it's still as fresh as when it happened.
Sorry this happened too you. Hope you've been able to make happy memories since.
the kid with the car hurt my feelings. if my mom could afford a car I would have DIED from excitement.
She was so ungrateful and rude.
8:58 I didn’t get a cellphone until I was 25! *That kid should be happy!!!*
3:45 And I can NEVER DRIVE because of epilepsy! So take advantage of what you’ve got!!!
Edit: I didn’t get a cell phone until I started dating my hubby. I was always at home because of my epilepsy, so I never felt like I needed a phone. But then when I started dating my hubby, we had a long distance relationship, so we were on the phone a lot.
So, my hubby talked me into getting a phone. *I love my hubby!!!* 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️
I was 39 when I got my first cellphone, and I didn't want it because it felt like a ball and chain to have to always be available. I'm an introvert.
I was 21 when I finally got a phone. And only because I needed it. If I didn't, I still wouldn't have gotten one for a few years.
Plus: it wasn't my family that got me a phone, it was a birthday gift from friends. And I kept that thing until it didn't work anymore before I bought a new one.
That kid has no idea what he has!
I got my phone when I was 11. I didn’t care what it was. I just wanted a phone. iPhone, android, Samsung, I didn’t give a damn. As long as it wasn’t a flip phone, I was happy
I feel you. I can’t drive because of my epilepsy.
10:39 one of the best pieces of advice you'll ever be given: always be nice to the people who prepare and handle your food and drink.
…or take care of of your kids. It’s astounding to watch people berate and belittle caregivers.
The sad part is that it shouldn’t affect the child’s care, but it can if the parent is unreasonable and you’re second guessing everything you do.
@@dearyvettetn4489 Yes, absolutely.
And not everyone goes into childcare because of their selfless love of children in general (though, having done childcare as a very young adult, thankfully it's often the case, lol. You don't do that job because it's easy or lucrative!)
But yes, 1000% agreed.
We should treat everyone with respect, automatically...but it also has inherent benefits.
Honestly I hope they gave her a cold egg or even just bread
The mom later posted a video explaining her son is 16 not 12, it wasn’t over a phone, etc It’s still heartbreaking but worth a watch.
Can we just all agree that next December we would love an “advent calendar” with entitle and petty Christmas videos everyday?
Advent UA-cam shorts!
Great idea!
OMG Charlotte please 🙏
This video reaffirms why I love being single and childless. No drama like this is possible and it makes me so happy. 😁
I felt the same way (at least about having kids), until I became an uncle some 14 years ago. Im not saying have kids if you dont want to, but im saying I learned, that anoying (or worse) kids have been MADE that way, by neglect, lazy spoiling, by putting 3 year olds in front of screens, by adults that show bad or simply very stupid behavior themselfs, which children, that do not know better, simply copy. This 12 yo destroying the whole apartment allways got what he/she wanted when throwing a tantrum , I'd bet. Hope its a a wake up call for the parents. I learned that children really are a miracle, they open us adults up, giving us a different perspective. And maybe remind us that giving is as rewarding as getting. (And not only money, but time, thought, feelings and respect) Spoilled kids become carens and kevins latter, and THEN it is drama, for sure. All kids deserve parents, not all parents deserve kids. Have a nice one.
@opal for the lifestyle I live, kids are not optimal. They wouldn't get the attention they need and deserve. I run my own buisness, that is my child. If being an uncle changed your perspective, great! But I know that life isn't for me.
I’m so thankful, for knowing how to be thankful. I appreciate just about, anything and everything that is given to me. Asked for or not. I just, can’t imagine acting like these people. If I by chance really had something I didn’t know how to feel for. Gosh darn it, someone tried. You still thank them! Being thought of, is just, how is that not important to people? I almost get shocked and feel unworthy of receiving things. Is it nice if it’s a nice gift? Of course. But random little things? Are just as cute and sweet and are cherished! It’s the thought that counts! I swear!
I just started watching and the first story hit home. My son is 10 and has a mental disorder and sadly his disorder can lead to this. 😞 Not saying every indecent has to do with a disorder but before you judge know all the facts. Either way my heart goes out to this mom. ❤️
I agree. That poor child has an real issue that needs addressing. And poor mother, too 😢❤️
Yeah the first video is of a 15 year old with mental illness and he had an episode. It wasn't over a phone if I remember correctly
And my heart goes out to this boy. His mother could've taken a video of the damage and send it to a psychiatrist so he could get help, but she chose to subject him to millions of strangers who know nothing about his personality or situation and enjoy hating so much. What if this poor kid saw this video and all the evil comments around it and tried to hurt himself?
Save the fake tears, people. I have seen children with ZERO conditions do this much damage and more.
@@kristie9144 I'm with you. There is no excuse for the thousands of dollars worth of damage done. This wasn't an outburst. This was methodical, making sure he got everything. Son/nephew or not, I'd press charges.
I had to watch the nose ring girls story a couple times. The nose rings aggravated my ocd so bad with the one ring not having a green end like the other. Like I want to get her contact info just to send her some money so she can get a matching ring.
She does it on purpose, but that would drive me crazy, I couldn't stop looking at it the whole time 🤣
Thank you... I'm not alone.
It’s clear the entire family has issues.
LOLOLOL!! I was looking for this comment. Her nose rings were just atrocious!! OMG, why would anyone choose SNOT colored nose rings and multiple, no less.
... I cannot even imagine reacting like that, even as a kid my siblings and I were always grateful, and at 31 I'm still grateful someone even thought to buy me something. And these damn kids.... oh my god
I have a 12 year old and a 15 year old and both kids still do not have phones for their general well being and after seeing the first clip, I am so glad for it.
I didn't grow up poor but I got what I needed .. my parents are strict and I was an A grade student always ...yet I had to be extremely careful with my wishes and my barbie doll lasted 3 years before I could think of another gift that expensive.
I'm disabled and can't afford to buy people presents because I can't work. This year, I'm making everyone hot coco bombs for Christmas. I've always noticed that gifts that are made are better received than gifts that are bought 🥰
It means so much more. I would love a gift like that.
And to be honest, if you don’t need anything, it’s better to get food related gifts. No one needs another cat statue because once two decades ago they went, “cats are cute”. What they might actually like is homemade jam or banana bread. A knitted scarf. Whatever you make with love
@@7ab3tha I'd make you hot coco bombs if I could lol
The kid that broke everything?
Yeah, you're absolutely right. There wouldn't be any more Santa or birthdays until he worked and earned enough to pay off all the damage 🤷♀️ (through house chores and maybe like, a paper route. Walking dogs and what not)
He would be face down in the Johor Straight if he was mine.
That child would be either locked up or Institutionalized. That is not normal behavior. That level of destruction is just....no. I'd call the authorities either the cops or the hospital or both
Charlotte has the video shown by the friend of the mom. The info listed is actually incorrect and missing important info.
The 12 year old is actually a 15 year old. Also, the 15 year old has mental issues and this was, as far as I remember, an out of character reaction for a punishment. The friend later apologized for posting the video WITHOUT THE MOM'S PERMISSION, but by then, it was too late and the video had already gone viral.
I have a hard time believing that first clip was a child/teenager. If it was, they learned it from somewhere. Probably the parents. I wonder how many things the parents broke of theirs before they thought it was okay behavior 🤔 there's more to this than an entitled teen, imo
@@decay6516 as an aunt of some really great kids you are 100% right. Even at my nieces and nephews worst they've never been that disrespectful to my siblings. There is something more to that story.
I really hope the family with the 12yo that quite literally destroyed that house has access to affordable, comprehensive mental healthcare. It's no exaggeration that he is a danger to himself and others. My heart breaks for him and his family. That's absolutely terrifying.
that video contained a fair amount of misinformation. the kid is 15/16 and it wasn't over a phone, just mental issues. but besides that i do agree with you in that i hope they have access to good mental healthcare
You saying 'why do I feel like entitled people never grew up' SPOKE TO ME. My mom is the worst for that and she is super entitled and hasn't grown up all these years!
10:03 yooo where's the rest of the video? You know he broke that pool 🤭😂
Was about to say the same thing 🤣
I have a theory that entitled people were treated that way when they were toddlers and children and instead of their parents correcting that behavior, they let it pass or even encouraged it. So they spent their whole formative years learning that it's ok for them to act that way and if someone doesn't treat them the way they want, to throw a shit fit until they get what they want!!!
Ppl think its cute when they are little & forget they grow up that way.
You can thank Dr. Benjamin Spock for some of it. When he wrote his book on child rearing he was a clueless bachelor that never had children. A few years ago he publicly apologized (finally) for ruining two generations of American children. If you do not set limits and enforce them these kinds of children, out of control and destructive, are what you raise and they just get worse as adults.
I’ve seen some toddlers being entitled and the parents laughed ‘so cute, such a little diva’ so cute, but when they’re 6, 7, 8 years old and you see it doesn’t change, then it becomes a problem
Not a theory. An actual fact
I had some craziness happen to me last year I took my son (5 years old) to pick his giant teddy bear out . This thing approaches my son and starts screaming at him that this is her son's gift and physically pushed him . Needless to say I gave her equal rights and lefts. They tried to press charges but once the video surfaced things switched. She is now serving 2 years in jail for child abuse and inciting a riot. She will be on probation for 15 years after. True justice.
My husband and I made an agreement when we started dating that we wouldn't do birthday, Christmas, Anniversary, etc type gifts for each other. We are adults, if we want something we can buy it whenever. It's worked rather well for us.
I’m glad that works for the two of you! I could never do it. I enjoy getting my wife stuff too much. Especially when she has no idea it’s coming.
The kid one got me.
If you want that phone so bad, get money by selling old toys or doing odd jobs for the neighbors. It might even earn you some respect from your parentals
I was watching that and thinking how he would never have a smart phone again unless he bought it himself. He'd have a cheap flip phone just so there's a way to contact him but otherwise, have fun playing snake and pressing a number multiple times just to get to one letter for texting.
My gut tells me that one is staged for clicks.
@@bethpedone8771 Not staged, but the kid is 15 and severly mentally ill. The one who posted wasnt even the mom. Just a big fat liar.
That girls nose rings were destroying my sense of symmetry. All the ends had a green end but the one end. Had a ball. Couldn’t stop staring at the ball. Lmao.
Me too! It really bothered me!
Not me. It made me so sad because that girl can't smell properly because her nose is pierced all through her nostrils. Why would you do that to yourself? She looked so ugly.
Is that the same girl who got yelled at for parking next to someone's boyfriend and asked "Are you OK?"
I think her story about her sister getting kicked out is fake. Those things in her nose? Ick!!!
I kept looking at the "freckles" they were in a triangle shape. Can we stop with the fake freckles already?! But, yes nose rings like that, my minor ocd kicked into high
I always spend fall buying gifts so I don’t have to deal with the chaos during the actual holidays. 😂😂😂
That kid who threw the phone in the pool would get a flip phone until he was 18 and moved out. Because he'd totally be out at 18. If he broke it I'd cancel his line.
Ungrateful brat
He needs some serious discipline. His disrespect and attitude toward his mum (and probably everyone) is revolting. He's clearly been spoiled.
Yeah .. he genuinely might need a phone so it would be an old school black and white Nokia. Hope he likes snake!
They still make old style flip phones that only make calls and that is exactly why he'd get.
The first kid needs serious psychiatric help, as in committed. If I'd done that, I wouldn't have been able to sit for a week .
Nope, when I was in middle school a flip phone was a privilege to get to use even when everyone at school had iphones. He'd be getting exactly what I used from ages 11-15, a tiny brick trac phone and as soon as he was old enough he'd be getting a job to pay back for the phone he broke. Not to mention he'd have to wait for the trac phone due to a nice month long vacation away from electronics.
the first one is so sad 😭 the poor family that has to deal with that…
seriously felt so bad for the family of the girl who whined about the car. You could just hear how excited they were for her to see and everyone was in on the surprise - and then she was so awful about it. What a rude, ungrateful child! If that's how she reacts, she's probably not mature enough to drive.
My heart hurts for the mom crying at her wrecked house, that kid is scary 😳
Brats don’t get anything from me. Ever. And yes if I want something I buy it. I work hard so why not? When I receive a gift I’m grateful. Homemade cookies or even a thoughtful card or fuzzy socks (because my friends know I have cold feet all the time!) are the best gifts because they came from the heart. It’s cliche I know but those are really the ones that mean the most. ❤
I've come around a bit about Christmas but it still makes me a bit uncomfortable in regards to the gift giving part. My parents never had money, I often either didn't get anything or one present only. I was raised to enjoy Christmas for the family being together, spending time together. So flash forward to my wife's family Christmas. Packages stacked literally to the ceiling in one corner of their house. Everyone had like 10+ gifts each. I didn't begrudge them for it, it just made me uncomfortable. I guess I felt like they were missing the best part, being together, and the gift giving was excessive compared to my experiences. I've come to enjoy watching them open their gifts especially kids to see their excitement but if people start handing me multiple gifts it still makes me feel like it's wrong for me to accept them. I know it prolly sounds weird but that's just how it is for me. I hope everyone has a safe and happy holiday and cherish the time you have with your loved ones.
That would make me uncomfortable too. My extended family used to do gifts for everyone, a gift from each household for each kid etc. As we grew it turned into a Kris Kringle. Then the pandemic hit and my aunt and uncle we're short on cash as they built it was just decided to scrap gifts all together. Now we just get together as a family, each bring a plate of food and enjoy each others company. Now the only stress is perhaps for the person hosting that year having to clean. It feels nice to not have pressure to buy or fake excitement at gifts you didnt really need
@@mkk2424 we always had modest Christmases: one big gift or a few small gifts, plus stockings and gifts from relatives. When I was younger I sometimes wanted more, but knew better than to complain.
Now? We're having a no-presents Christmas and I'm thrilled! The minors will be getting gifts but the adults are just excited to be together. And I'm making cinnamon rolls!
honestly, its only good for kids. Normal adults dont have a big wish list, coz the stuff they want, they get themselves, and anything they havent gotten and want, is too expensive to request (which is why you havent gotten it yourself yet). It's only fun to shop for kids and see them open it. Adults....nobody knows what anyone actually wants wants. If you HAPPEN to stumble upon something you think someone would like, then there you go. Maybe a gift or two as you come across it them. And then you have the staple gifts you know theyll love to get EVERY year, like my dad likes new slippers, by the time xmas comes around he needs a new pair lol. Or my mom with bath beads, or my grandma who loves those chocolate covered cherries they sell during december. just small things. But like, getting gifts otherwise for all the adults and trying to get many gifts for all? Seems too much, a bit incincere, and it really doesnt make any sense. Coz it IS about spending time with family. Meaningful gifts matter as a nice incentive. But going overboard, no way. And if your kids are old enough to start being entitled like the kids in this video: Coal or a ticket straight to military school topped with a pretty bow lol
@@CallMeGameGirl not sure about the military school, but I agree about buying for adults. We have a Kris Kringle with my immediate family via a website and we each make a wishlist. I could not for the life of me think of anything I wanted unless it was a gift card to make the $1500 thing I am going to buy cheaper
@SwitchIt I usually just say "cash" when people ask what I want lol. And then they pry more, and then I say I don't have anything I want currently as I buy them as I want them myself. And if I'm gifted cash, it'll eventually go towards something I want lol. Most gift I buys friends just end up being silly white elephant gifts coz we're all on the same page about not knowing what to get eachother, but want to get at least something, even if it's just for laughs.
05:38 I love her accent and I love her attitude.
A classy person is someone who handles things with grace & is greatful for any & everything they receive. This behavior is why in my family, my siblings & I had to work to pay for anything other than the necessities (ex food, shelter, basic inexpensive clothing needs, etc). I've been working since I was 10, I helped watch children while the parents were home doing things & paid for CPR & first aid training. This helped shape us into the functional, caring, responsible, adults we are today. I will do the same with my kids.