@@chaycesmom1212 i agree..but she did it bc she felt the need to rip him off some more. Sure there are mommas boys but his mom saw something about this opertunistic bisshhh and was right. He took care of HER kids..paid for HER school..bought HER a house and what did he get in return? Nothing but his points taken his house trashed and her running up his credit cards.
In today's time that little $474 would pay for what?? One of your bills? Maybe a months worth of groceries for her and her kids. I would have just left well enough alone on that little bit of chump change. Instead of going on national television and embarrass myself, while airing my old dirty laundry and drama from the past.
Sorry sis, he's paying for the house and your schooling?! Girrllll... me, his momma AND MY KIDS would've been singing Christmas Carols in the middle of July somewhere 💅
you must have not had to deal with an awful, emotionally incestuous mother in law before! i would leave a millionaire whos bathing me in cash if he momma was that way. its brutal! torture- complete torture. and so difficult to deal with because its like thats his MOM yet shes acting like a crazy ex-girlfriend. trust me. brutal way to live.
She's so cruel and insensitive. I pray the LORD blessed him with a better friend and partner to be his forever love. Her daughter was a drama queen too. _These type of women will get an innocent BM killed!!!_
I was going to say the same thing. I support him. She waited until he had paid most of her nursing tuition and then divorced him to claim a grant. She will probably do a similar thing to the next guy she encounters.
@@cookgirlcook of course you can! .. I can say; She has leader skills, she has strong oppiniond, she will be the loudest and she is stubborn. She is a fighter and will always find a way. She will be effectiv but not the nurce having long deep conversation/patiente and calm. But she will be an organizer and get everything done in time! She will lead other and be a mini-boss if she dont go further to be the main leader. She will always say it as it is right from her heart. She will be more humble by the years goes on. She needs it in teamwork, and for emphaty. You can read ppl veeery easy in chort time, if you are high sensitive and have lived long and experienced a lot in life!
He started paying and should've finished but as a current nurse....nursing school is expensive and he was paying from the beginning before the grant! That was nice as a husband
Facts and he brought a house and accepted her kid'S that are not his. Yet she couldn't accept his mother who didn't even live in the same home. He apparently travels for business weekly. I think once she got in school she started smelling herself and felt the need to move on with perhaps one of the guys at the college with.
@@generalmoxie2413Uhhhhh nah if a man gets married to a women his wife comes first period, everytime with everything you are a couple🤨………..neither mother should have a say so in anything that happens in their marriage, and she didn’t have to as sage put it in his email “love his mother the way he loves him”🙄pssssssst…………this dude is a fuckin clown talking that bullshit!
Come on now sis... he took good care of you and your kids, put ya'll in a house and paid for you to go to nursing school. You took the points to offset the refinance of the house... did you really have to sue this man for $400?... I'm with his mom. He didn't deserve a woman like you!
Finances don’t over take abusive or emotionally damaging relationships. If you’ve ever had a mil who thinks she’s married to her son you just don’t know how disgusting and damaging she can be.. secondly they both have their faults but you’re supposed to care for your wife as you are your husband. That doesn’t mean that he was an angel nor her. He didn’t deny the altercation with her little daughter hiding in the closet and also stated that he had to leave bc he didn’t want to have issues with the kids. Sounds very telling
@@Meeeeeeeeeeree teenagers are hard to deal with... sometimes you have to leave to cool down. I'm just focusing on this $400 something dollars... she stole his points... let that $400 go! The divorce court wouldn't allow her to get that to offset the amount. She herself said the ONLY problem was his mom... so I'm sure the kids was just regular teenage kids issues.
You don’t know any of these ppl and you’re talking about he deserves a better woman. Smh you sound like you want him lol. she sued because she’s entitled to her money, which is why she was awarded it. So why should she let that go? Some of y’all women are so used to being mistreated by men that even the smallest thing a man does impresses you. He took care of his wife and kids financially because that is his job as a man! He doesn’t deserve an award for that!
@@876me7 As a woman who loves my hubby and he takes care of me and our family... if we were divorced I wouldn't give af about $400 after all he has done for me... but everyone is different. That's probably exactly why she's divorced and has baby daddies now. Nobody wants to deal with that type of pettiness long-term.
" She took 300,000 thousand points😳 She tried to make him look like a liar but she made herself look dumb She's so petty🤦🏿 Im glad he left! Seems like a good man.
Not to mention they were only married for 3 years!!! And he did all of that. Plus they don't have kids in common. I hope he gets into a relationship that is more balanced.
Yeah I bet alot of these women have never been married before and never dealt with a mother in law like that. I was and trust and believe you would not want to stay either. There is a difference between a man who loves his mother and vice versa than a man and his mother doing too much to the point he can't live his own life with his family without her intruding. Please. 🙄
I understand principles...she had every right to sue however I would of let the $474 go honestly esp when he invested in her nursing career. He gave her most of the money back. She will get that money back plus more after she graduates.
I agree. I loaned someone $1600 to help get a car and said pay me back when you get on your feet. A couple of months later I graduated from undergrad and said don't worry about paying me back as I was being blessed with a job in my field of study.
After watching my brother go through a divorce and seeing the woman he pushed through college for and the minute she got her degree she presents papers. Poor man got screwed by the plaintiff.
@@nikkibarnzable I speaking about the sentence within his comment about the PLAINTIFF...MY POINT was that his brother's experience has nothing to do with this situation..so you read to understand and ease me
Sad thing is she is petty, he paid all that money for school before and she still crying about $400? Judge should have made her pay a cleaning fee for $200 for that nasty house she left behind.
Exactly! She didn’t have time to clean because the daughter was scared - I bet they used his credit card to order what ever it was. And she must not have ever had time to clean.
He left the same nasty house behind. Why is all of the trash her fault? He lived there too. And he paid for her education because his income disqualified her from financial aid. That doesn't mean that he gets to steal her grant money after the divorce.
I’m confused 😕. He paid for her to go to nursing school, the grant went to him in error and she wants the money back ~ when he’s the one who PAID HER TUITION? He IS entitled to the money in my opinion or am I missing something 🥴
It would have morally and the less petty option. But as a divorcee the emotional cost on your spirit can lead to some pettiness. Many people rely on scholarships, work-study, grants and some are fortunate enough to have family support. Due to his higher income she didn't qualify for a grant.
JM how could you not understand how he didn't immediately stop card access but you could understand how she didn't immediately switch her bank information with the school? She can forget but he can't? Come on Judge Milian
Good riddance sir, she didn’t deserve you. Most women want a good man. Sounds like you took good care of her, and the kids that weren’t even yours. Spend some time alone and learn to love that time and yourself to the fullest extent. Im sure lessons were learned here. The next person may truly be the blessing you deserve. Set your borders from the start. I have one of the best and waited all my life to see him again.❤️ God Bless you.
There seems to still be a lot of resentment there. He seems solid. He left his accounts open to her and she took advantage of that. He paid for her nursing course and then she sues him for such a small amount. She seems petty and vindictive. From her diatribe you can just imagine what a nightmare it was going through a divorce with her. I bet she fought over every last cent. He seemed sad in the exit interview and she says 'I just want my money'. Go figure.
He paid for all that and built a life with her and her kids, stuck around knowing she still had access to his reward points/other finances because he hoped they might reconcile… usually the men who end up on here are some slouchy deadbeats with no ambitions but this guy seems to be a genuine man who’s heart might be broken.
Mixed feelings for me. I think she might be petty, greedy, and dramatic. And he might be too much of a mama's boy. Unfortunately they weren't good for eachother. 🤷🏾♀️
He seems like a nice guy who’s on the border of being timid. This is the recipe for a people pleaser making him an agreeable son & husband but not necessarily a good one. Boundaries are important & it seems he didn’t set any with his mom which led his ungrateful wife to also become disrespectful (both probably from frustration). He has some inside work to do. Life never gets better for a push over.
Any of you ever married a mommy's boy? That shit is toxic and I can't fault anyone who decides not to stay. My MIL was kinda controlling but my husband set boundaries for her so she is no longer a problem and their relationship is still good. Leave and cleave is important
We don't know these people and it's hard to tell who's at fault in a relationship because it's often both people, but a man who pays for your nursing school, and takes care of your kids must not be the monster she tries to paint him as. He asked for a divorce because he felt that she did not respect his mother so it's weird that she ignores his abuse to her children. You'd think that would be the deal-breaker for her
He paid for her education because his income cancelled her financial aid. And how is terrorizing her daughter equate to taking care of her kids? She didn't ignore the abuse. She included the situation with her daughter holding a knife, and that happened after she put up with Mama's boy BS for a few years.
@supportvawa2213 right. But when the judge said "why did ya'll get divorced?"She quickly said "his momma!" Not "his abuse to my daughter, having her in fear, in the bathroom with a knife!" I think THAT is what they ^ mean when they said about ignoring the abuse or whatever.
when the judge asked the reason for divorce she didn’t say bc he was abusive or disrespectful to her kids. she said bc he loves him mom more than her. if the abuse allegations were at all true i would think tht should’ve been a reason for divorce not bc she doesn’t respect his mom. so tbh i feel like she lied about tht
Exactly!!! That house was a complete mess! Filthy, just like her attitude! I feel that he didn’t pay the $400 because she had already taken more than that!
I love all the comments I see, in his support. It was not granted to him, even if it deposited into his bank account. He didn't need it anways, he still in love I may be wrong.
She is bad minded and ungrateful and would always be miserable, to damn mello dramatic, she needs to consider her kids well being first when dealing with men 100%
@@thtsnotmiayeah morally she was right. That $474 was for HER SCHOOLING. He REFINANCED THE HOUSE BEHIND HER BACK. That’s a big decision to make by yourself when your married.
Them mommas be hell! You can always tell a man that has been brow beaten and guilt tripped by his mother. The fact of that he felt like his wife had to accept his mother, and not that his mother had to accept his wife is a huge sign. I feel sorry for them b/c you can tell it was love there. She wouldn't be so upset if it weren't, and he wouldn't be so sad if it weren't.
She will bring that attitude in her job as a nurse. She will be a mini-boss (she has leader skills, but need to be more humble) and create drama (if she dont get things her way). Hopefully I am not right, but as a nurse myself I have some experiense after 15 years work at hospital.. lots of stress, most - if not only woman, strong personalities.. if your not strong yourself you will be pushed around!
I’m in the middle of a divorce and that man looks very sad and she seems very bitter. Nobody wins in divorces especially when there are children involved
The day my xhusbands mom told me... He loves me more then you...That was the moment I knew it was never gonna work between us. It almost felt like a competition between us at times for his attention and I wasn't gonna fight over a man especially when the other woman is his mom.
Ma’am he paid for your nursing school as in Investment for the family and household not to mention to improve your health. You’re crazy if you think men like that can be found on every corner
I think the ruling is fair. You can’t get back what you invested in a person when you were good. It feels harsh but you did it out of love you can’t take it back in hate
Damn he learned to love and accept her kidS that are not his. He brought a house and was paying for her school. Why did you divorce him, I can't love and accept his mother, wow. These poisonous women are scary. Run man run, when a woman have two or more kids before you, RUN.
@@Gem_Arnae It's not being bitter... A relationship with women with kids, are very difficult. Most relationships and marriage don't work out, anyway. To invest in children that are not yours can be one sided in the end.
@@generalmoxie2413 that's wrong to say if someone has kids run. I'm here to hopefully change your opinion and enlighten you that not all women are the same. I have 5 kids and I left the relationship. I support all 5 of my kids on my own no support or help and I don't ask for nothing as a independent women who's lived on her own since I was 16. I've never excepted a penny from a man I've been the one to support them and my childern. I believe in investing in a man weather there up on life or down in life and need help getting on there feet. I supported him for many years and in the end got tired of no effort. I had my childern knowing I could support them myself not to have them as a meal ticket or government assistance. I have my own successful buisness. Get a women with a different mindset then this ungrateful women. I love how the government gives free money just because I've seen it time and time again I understand needing in a emergency or tough spot temporarily but the government needs to stop supporting for just because reasons.
@@YvonneNonYa girl he basically saying having a relationship with someone who has kids is hard and she was really ungrateful to a man that helped her and her kids. That man seemed like he really cared for her.
His mama was the reason for your divorce, but not the fact that your daughter is locked in a room with a knife terrified, and ready to defend/stab someone. 😳 If she was that afraid then, I’m sure that has occurred before.
I do not believe he harm her child, she seems like the type of woman that do not discipline her children. Why in hell would her child get a knife because he’s yelling at her? He’s being blessed to not be with her. It’s always these types of women that get a good man, and mistreat them.
@@livenowliveright8509 guess what? Yelling is a form of abuse. We are unaware of what he was saying to her child. If it was her child that was the aggressor, she wouldn’t have been hiding and locked in a room. She would’ve been chasing him. Her daughter stood there well mannered and no outbursts. Behavioral children are unable to maintain composure, especially when someone is speaking on a traumatic incident they were involved in. Let’s pray you never have children and if you do they live with their father. Because you’d clearly miss the signs over thinking you have a “good” man. 🙄
@@Reallychris_ If you think yelling warrants a child to grab a knife, I now understand why our kids are so messed up. Neither one of us were there, but as vocal as she was, not once did she state he had been abusing her kids. She instead said, her child was hiding her mail which is probably what prompted him to be irate and yes, yell. So if that child felt that his yelling was so dangerous and life threatening that she ended up taking a knife in the closet, that lets me know of her poor parenting skills. And this is coming from a mother of five, two teen girls that would NEVER do such a thing and it’s been many of times I’ve lost my cool yelling.
@@livenowliveright8509 #1 get your tubes tied. #2 yelling is abuse and can cause your child to have anxiety. #3 it was her mail not his so why he upset with the child over what she was instructed to do? Take that up with the mother. #4 a child is not going to just go grab a knife, run, lock themselves in a room, hide, and call their mother due to feeling in danger just because 🙄 So again I pray for your children. That is clearly not a healthy home. Clearly your children are not in a healthy home. You need to do family therapy so you will understand that yelling is not a form of discipline. You’ll understand when your children are taking anxiety meds because of you and your poor choices in men. ✌🏽
Divorcing over his MIL... ouch. Unless you've been in a relationship with a hopeless Mommy's Boy, you will never appreciate the pain. Mama's Boys: Yank your nads from Mommy's purse and grow up.
Girl, I would of just let it be! He was paying for you to go to school! $474 that’s nothing… petty petty
Right! Bihhh what you gonna do with $400 that's so important?... court cost is $200! 🤦🏾♀️
@@chaycesmom1212 i agree..but she did it bc she felt the need to rip him off some more. Sure there are mommas boys but his mom saw something about this opertunistic bisshhh and was right. He took care of HER kids..paid for HER school..bought HER a house and what did he get in return? Nothing but his points taken his house trashed and her running up his credit cards.
@@Shellygrrl2573 she's a mess!
In today's time that little $474 would pay for what?? One of your bills? Maybe a months worth of groceries for her and her kids. I would have just left well enough alone on that little bit of chump change. Instead of going on national television and embarrass myself, while airing my old dirty laundry and drama from the past.
I thought the same but if she suing for that, she needs it more. And God has the final say!
The person you marry is not the person you divorce..
Well said! I had to read your statement twice to fully understand.
Thats a fact
Oops
Being a divorced man myself.....that hit different
That was deep
Sorry sis, he's paying for the house and your schooling?! Girrllll... me, his momma AND MY KIDS would've been singing Christmas Carols in the middle of July somewhere 💅
🤣🤣🤣
Facts
you must have not had to deal with an awful, emotionally incestuous mother in law before! i would leave a millionaire whos bathing me in cash if he momma was that way. its brutal! torture- complete torture. and so difficult to deal with because its like thats his MOM yet shes acting like a crazy ex-girlfriend. trust me. brutal way to live.
@@sophra1927 I was just thinking that. Dealing with a MIL that is too involved is not easy. 🤦🏾♀️
Lmao😂😂😂😂
She's so cruel and insensitive. I pray the LORD blessed him with a better friend and partner to be his forever love.
Her daughter was a drama queen too.
_These type of women will get an innocent BM killed!!!_
He's a keeper for sure. Hopefully he finds someone who treats him like the kind King he is.
Who gets a knife over being yelled at? You're right, drama queen.
@That Tunisian Crochet Life What difference does it make? Call the police, if you're so afraid. As I said, drama queen.
She may have thought she got away with this, but chasing after $400 (after using his points) is telling me that she has serious issues.
She used him, she will be a wicket nurse ha ha😮
He seems like he’s still hurt and also seems like a good dude as well.
Wishing them both the best.
@@kitaboo2245 Exactly
Wishing HIM the best. Her attitude will bring her nothing but lonliness
I was going to say the same thing. I support him. She waited until he had paid most of her nursing tuition and then divorced him to claim a grant. She will probably do a similar thing to the next guy she encounters.
That women is shady, she sitting there smiling knowing she took his money.
Exactly
Yep
She is soulless without a conscience
believe me she wont be smiling, once karma come knocking!
Right!!! And she nasty. That house is filthy
She took him to court to get $400 back, After he paid for her studies! 🙄🙄🙄. Sis get a grip.
One word: UNGRATEFUL
The money wasn't his, it was for her schooling.
@@googlyeyedcat That tuition he paid certainly was his
@@googlyeyedcat Then she can pay him back for all the tuition he already paid.
@@googlyeyedcatsooooooo. Some things u let goooooo
Yes soon you will be a nurse, thanks to him .. I am a nurse and will say one thing; humbelness is a great quality!
You can't judge people on a 20 minute show. Geez
How was she not humbled? She clearly was in the right to the money hence why she won!
@@ToniaAlex13 her attitude!
@@cookgirlcook of course you can! .. I can say; She has leader skills, she has strong oppiniond, she will be the loudest and she is stubborn. She is a fighter and will always find a way.
She will be effectiv but not the nurce having long deep conversation/patiente and calm. But she will be an organizer and get everything done in time! She will lead other and be a mini-boss if she dont go further to be the main leader. She will always say it as it is right from her heart.
She will be more humble by the years goes on. She needs it in teamwork, and for emphaty.
You can read ppl veeery easy in chort time, if you are high sensitive and have lived long and experienced a lot in life!
@@susannecarolinehoff7847 you seem to think you can-God
He started paying and should've finished but as a current nurse....nursing school is expensive and he was paying from the beginning before the grant! That was nice as a husband
She comes off as ungrateful
Facts and he brought a house and accepted her kid'S that are not his. Yet she couldn't accept his mother who didn't even live in the same home. He apparently travels for business weekly. I think once she got in school she started smelling herself and felt the need to move on with perhaps one of the guys at the college with.
@@generalmoxie2413Uhhhhh nah if a man gets married to a women his wife comes first period, everytime with everything you are a couple🤨………..neither mother should have a say so in anything that happens in their marriage, and she didn’t have to as sage put it in his email “love his mother the way he loves him”🙄pssssssst…………this dude is a fuckin clown talking that bullshit!
Virgo 79 It wasn’t nice of him to pay for smth that would benefit the household, they’re theoretically we’re supposed to be a team! 🤷🏽♂️
@@dennissmith7214 Bro don't address me.
Come on now sis... he took good care of you and your kids, put ya'll in a house and paid for you to go to nursing school. You took the points to offset the refinance of the house... did you really have to sue this man for $400?... I'm with his mom. He didn't deserve a woman like you!
Finances don’t over take abusive or emotionally damaging relationships. If you’ve ever had a mil who thinks she’s married to her son you just don’t know how disgusting and damaging she can be.. secondly they both have their faults but you’re supposed to care for your wife as you are your husband. That doesn’t mean that he was an angel nor her. He didn’t deny the altercation with her little daughter hiding in the closet and also stated that he had to leave bc he didn’t want to have issues with the kids. Sounds very telling
@@Meeeeeeeeeeree teenagers are hard to deal with... sometimes you have to leave to cool down. I'm just focusing on this $400 something dollars... she stole his points... let that $400 go! The divorce court wouldn't allow her to get that to offset the amount. She herself said the ONLY problem was his mom... so I'm sure the kids was just regular teenage kids issues.
You don’t know any of these ppl and you’re talking about he deserves a better woman. Smh you sound like you want him lol. she sued because she’s entitled to her money, which is why she was awarded it. So why should she let that go? Some of y’all women are so used to being mistreated by men that even the smallest thing a man does impresses you. He took care of his wife and kids financially because that is his job as a man! He doesn’t deserve an award for that!
I'm wondering the same thing!
@@876me7 As a woman who loves my hubby and he takes care of me and our family... if we were divorced I wouldn't give af about $400 after all he has done for me... but everyone is different. That's probably exactly why she's divorced and has baby daddies now. Nobody wants to deal with that type of pettiness long-term.
Her voice is so annoying 🙄.she did him dirty. This case is not about the money.
💯😂
Just as I was thinking that, your comment came up!! Lol
I literally said the same thing about her voice
" She took 300,000 thousand points😳
She tried to make him look like a liar but she made herself look dumb
She's so petty🤦🏿
Im glad he left! Seems like a good man.
Seems like a good man. I think she didn't like he had a good relationship with his mother. The mom probably saw right through her.
He’s lucky he got out. That man paid all the bills and she still wants to take from him.
Yes I’m on his side
I’m surprise u not getting attacked on ur comment lol but some females is build to think we our in title to take care of them
Not to mention they were only married for 3 years!!! And he did all of that. Plus they don't have kids in common. I hope he gets into a relationship that is more balanced.
When she said he should have married his mother, I felt that. Been there and ran away screaming 😂😂
She's crazy.
@@NellieKAdaba marrying a man that’s in love with his mom will do that to ya
Yessss 😂 BEEN THERE & NEVER TF AGAIN 🤡👎🏼
So many women in here clearly have never met someone like that lol. That or they're the mom who wants their son to be in love with them
Yeah I bet alot of these women have never been married before and never dealt with a mother in law like that. I was and trust and believe you would not want to stay either. There is a difference between a man who loves his mother and vice versa than a man and his mother doing too much to the point he can't live his own life with his family without her intruding. Please. 🙄
I understand principles...she had every right to sue however I would of let the $474 go honestly esp when he invested in her nursing career. He gave her most of the money back. She will get that money back plus more after she graduates.
I agree. I loaned someone $1600 to help get a car and said pay me back when you get on your feet. A couple of months later I graduated from undergrad and said don't worry about paying me back as I was being blessed with a job in my field of study.
I AGREE!
@@xXLilSmurthXx you’re going to continue to receive blessings for this!! TEN FOLD!
Preach 🙌🏽
Tbh I do not think she sued for the money; she just wanted to win another over him.
He seems like a good dude.
A good guy, but a boy and not a man of he let's his mother control his marriage.
Spineless
Then eyes make him look crazy 👀
She’s broke now that’s why she going after this man for $400. That man did so much for you and you sue him for $400
After watching my brother go through a divorce and seeing the woman he pushed through college for and the minute she got her degree she presents papers. Poor man got screwed by the plaintiff.
But she left before finishing so what is uour point?
Sorry for your brother I hope he hasn’t given up on love
@@alanamitchell9208 I think he talking bout his brother calm down slugger lol
@@nikkibarnzable I speaking about the sentence within his comment about the PLAINTIFF...MY POINT was that his brother's experience has nothing to do with this situation..so you read to understand and ease me
The defendant left the plaintiff
The plaintiff remind me of Tina from the gospel group Mary Mary😁
Yes, she does. 😆
😁
In more ways than just looks too
NO SHE DONT!!!
She does 🙂
Sad thing is she is petty, he paid all that money for school before and she still crying about $400? Judge should have made her pay a cleaning fee for $200 for that nasty house she left behind.
@zyzy _The#1diva FACTS !
Exactly! She didn’t have time to clean because the daughter was scared - I bet they used his credit card to order what ever it was. And she must not have ever had time to clean.
Exactly !
He left the same nasty house behind. Why is all of the trash her fault? He lived there too. And he paid for her education because his income disqualified her from financial aid. That doesn't mean that he gets to steal her grant money after the divorce.
Let’s use the correct term SELFISH And self absorbed.
She took him to court for $400!!!
I think that speaks more to her character than his…
Theres more there than dude got to voice
I’m confused 😕. He paid for her to go to nursing school, the grant went to him in error and she wants the money back ~ when he’s the one who PAID HER TUITION? He IS entitled to the money in my opinion or am I missing something 🥴
He's only entitled to it if he signed paperwork saying it was a loan.
They were married when he was paying for her school. After the divorce she was given the grant, so that money was supposed to go to her.
I agree with you !!!! i was like huh?
It would have morally and the less petty option. But as a divorcee the emotional cost on your spirit can lead to some pettiness.
Many people rely on scholarships, work-study, grants and some are fortunate enough to have family support. Due to his higher income she didn't qualify for a grant.
The money he paid was NOT a loan, it was a gift.. so the grant was to fund her continuing education, which belongs to her.
JM how could you not understand how he didn't immediately stop card access but you could understand how she didn't immediately switch her bank information with the school? She can forget but he can't? Come on Judge Milian
She worried bout $474 after he's paid for her to go to nursing school...she real petty
Good riddance sir, she didn’t deserve you. Most women want a good man. Sounds like you took good care of her, and the kids that weren’t even yours. Spend some time alone and learn to love that time and yourself to the fullest extent. Im sure lessons were learned here. The next person may truly be the blessing you deserve. Set your borders from the start. I have one of the best and waited all my life to see him again.❤️ God Bless you.
spent 300K points? and wants back >500? filthy house..... petty! Im feeling like perhaps his mom had a reason not to like her...
There seems to still be a lot of resentment there. He seems solid. He left his accounts open to her and she took advantage of that. He paid for her nursing course and then she sues him for such a small amount. She seems petty and vindictive. From her diatribe you can just imagine what a nightmare it was going through a divorce with her. I bet she fought over every last cent. He seemed sad in the exit interview and she says 'I just want my money'. Go figure.
He paid for all that and built a life with her and her kids, stuck around knowing she still had access to his reward points/other finances because he hoped they might reconcile… usually the men who end up on here are some slouchy deadbeats with no ambitions but this guy seems to be a genuine man who’s heart might be broken.
Men these days are treated pretty darn bad.
Mixed feelings for me. I think she might be petty, greedy, and dramatic. And he might be too much of a mama's boy. Unfortunately they weren't good for eachother. 🤷🏾♀️
He seems like a nice guy who’s on the border of being timid. This is the recipe for a people pleaser making him an agreeable son & husband but not necessarily a good one. Boundaries are important & it seems he didn’t set any with his mom which led his ungrateful wife to also become disrespectful (both probably from frustration). He has some inside work to do. Life never gets better for a push over.
Always in this case, three sides to this drama,🤦, his side, her side, and the accused Mother.......blah, blah blame🙄🧐
Did i just read a paragraph BLAMING the man for being nice and a good son?
My ex was a son husband...
Travelled with mommy for 20 months in 2019.
Man I’m glad you run.
Thank god you divorce her.
Please stay far....
I’m glad you didn’t get any kids with her
Run🏃🏿♂️
As a man, I pray every day to get married to the right woman and also be the right man for her
As a woman I do the same
Any of you ever married a mommy's boy? That shit is toxic and I can't fault anyone who decides not to stay. My MIL was kinda controlling but my husband set boundaries for her so she is no longer a problem and their relationship is still good. Leave and cleave is important
Yeah, but this may have been different. She was stealing money behind his back and proud of it.
Alana Mitchell You are dead on with that response. You have to do marriage God's way and not the way "the state" says to do it.
We don't know these people and it's hard to tell who's at fault in a relationship because it's often both people, but a man who pays for your nursing school, and takes care of your kids must not be the monster she tries to paint him as. He asked for a divorce because he felt that she did not respect his mother so it's weird that she ignores his abuse to her children. You'd think that would be the deal-breaker for her
He paid for her education because his income cancelled her financial aid. And how is terrorizing her daughter equate to taking care of her kids? She didn't ignore the abuse. She included the situation with her daughter holding a knife, and that happened after she put up with Mama's boy BS for a few years.
@supportvawa2213 right. But when the judge said "why did ya'll get divorced?"She quickly said "his momma!"
Not "his abuse to my daughter, having her in fear, in the bathroom with a knife!"
I think THAT is what they ^ mean when they said about ignoring the abuse or whatever.
when the judge asked the reason for divorce she didn’t say bc he was abusive or disrespectful to her kids. she said bc he loves him mom more than her. if the abuse allegations were at all true i would think tht should’ve been a reason for divorce not bc she doesn’t respect his mom. so tbh i feel like she lied about tht
There is so much more to this story than what we are seeing.
One thing about it...You Reap what You Sow...
The lady is nasty and money hungry. No wonder they didn’t work out. Look how the damn house looks. She wanted someone to take care of her.
Exactly!!! That house was a complete mess! Filthy, just like her attitude! I feel that he didn’t pay the $400 because she had already taken more than that!
I feel so sorry for him 😢 she did him bad
I agree
The fact that she said she left him because of his mother instead of supposable to protect your such scared child smh. I can't with women like her.
Judge Mathis would have caught on to that
Good point.
Like what?.that won't compete with a too involved mother
Exactly! 💯
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He payed for you to go to nursing school took care of your kids that wasn't his and you have the audacity to sue petty betty 🤷🏽♀️
Love this judge.....every case I watch, she doesn't allow the petty in her court room. She's always - I've heard enough!
I was hoping the husband would get something....just seems like Moma might have had a reason not to like her. The verdict was definitely right though.
The Museum of Modern Art?
I love all the comments I see, in his support.
It was not granted to him, even if it deposited into his bank account.
He didn't need it anways, he still in love
I may be wrong.
He’s absolutely still in love. He’s hurt rightfully so. She’s ungrateful and bitter
She needed to respect his Momma but HE needed to put up some boundaries and no longer allow Momma to think she has the say-so in their lives.
Gold-digger!! Was she worth it?
😱 omg trifling behavior, unfortunately he got what he didn't know he married🤦!
“Oh it was like 300,000” PLZZZZZ 😂💀
She seems a little shady
She is bad minded and ungrateful and would always be miserable, to damn mello dramatic, she needs to consider her kids well being first when dealing with men 100%
I don't know them but glad he got away she played him..
His mama ran off his woman and told him he didn’t owe her anything bc he paid for her schooling.
Because he doesn't.
He didn't owe her shit. She isn't automatically owed bc she is a woman
Wait what was the ruling again??? Y’all sound crazy the law is the law.
@@denieraadams4924law is law but morally she knew better. you sound crazy if you can’t see tht
@@thtsnotmiayeah morally she was right. That $474 was for HER SCHOOLING. He REFINANCED THE HOUSE BEHIND HER BACK. That’s a big decision to make by yourself when your married.
Damn she drained that man for everything! He said typical
Look at the judge with her cute bangs
IKR...I love that whole cut on her.
I know! Judge Milian is just soooo pretty!
Yasss Judge Bang-yang wuz on point!
Hopefully he met someone who appreciates him and isn’t a gold digger
Girl $474 got u smiling like that 😂😂😂 I hope her daughter doesn’t think this is okay.... 😒😒
Exactly, $474 ain't sh*t. But it's a lot for her. What he paid out for her to go to nursing school is far more than that $474. Smh
Great thinking Sister , you already know that the daughter thinks that way ! Sad thing is that this behavior more than likely will be repeated .
She just saw him as a wallet. Had her kids with someone else and now uses this man as a wallet.
Them mommas be hell! You can always tell a man that has been brow beaten and guilt tripped by his mother. The fact of that he felt like his wife had to accept his mother, and not that his mother had to accept his wife is a huge sign. I feel sorry for them b/c you can tell it was love there. She wouldn't be so upset if it weren't, and he wouldn't be so sad if it weren't.
He could have told the mother the same thing she's not here and we're only hearing their sides so we'll never really know
Im loving the women comments in the comments section. I love when women call other women out
She petty in my opinion 474.20 smfh
It's small claims court.
One thing about Judge Milan she gonna talk over you faithfully 🤣
She’s greedy. Smh 🤦🏾♀️
July 6th 2021.......The plantiff is an Ungrateful Human Being...This man married you and took her children in and she is still looking for More🐻🐻🐻
If you really want to end the relationship you don't sue over $500. Some people just can't let go.
Now that everybody knows about her... No one would want to have her as a nurse 🤣😂
This is how petty divorces can be...ppl argue over leaves in the backyard
Those couch stains look suspect bro lol .... I seen THAT before ha lol!
Skeet skeet skeet
The faces hes making are priceless..
He changed her life now she’s here for $400 🤦🏾♂️ downbad
Somebody caring for you doesn't mean that you have are obligated to be treated like crap.
She will bring that attitude in her job as a nurse. She will be a mini-boss (she has leader skills, but need to be more humble) and create drama (if she dont get things her way).
Hopefully I am not right, but as a nurse myself I have some experiense after 15 years work at hospital.. lots of stress, most - if not only woman, strong personalities.. if your not strong yourself you will be pushed around!
Nah, the Mother could just See through her. She never wanted him. He's too slow for her. She was after his money and got it.
I’m in the middle of a divorce and that man looks very sad and she seems very bitter. Nobody wins in divorces especially when there are children involved
Nice guy. Nice couple, sorry they were not able to work things out. You can see he still loves her.
The day my xhusbands mom told me... He loves me more then you...That was the moment I knew it was never gonna work between us. It almost felt like a competition between us at times for his attention and I wasn't gonna fight over a man especially when the other woman is his mom.
Ma’am he paid for your nursing school as in Investment for the family and household not to mention to improve your health. You’re crazy if you think men like that can be found on every corner
The fact that he was paying for her school before and she sued for that little bit of money is trash.
Child with a knife hiding in the bathroom shaking < GLAD THEY ENDED THINGS PEACEFULLY!!!! 💯
Omg I wanted to know because I’m nosey as ever 🤣🤣🤣
Hilarious 🤣
I understand a mother in law from hell but he seemed like such a good man.
She lost. He seems like a great guy. She not so much.
"His Mother" " He should've been married to her" 😂😅
Mom has her own faults too. But her school money is hers period.
She did him dirty, but he still won because she was exposed before millions to see her in action!
I think the ruling is fair. You can’t get back what you invested in a person when you were good. It feels harsh but you did it out of love you can’t take it back in hate
Damn he learned to love and accept her kidS that are not his. He brought a house and was paying for her school. Why did you divorce him, I can't love and accept his mother, wow. These poisonous women are scary. Run man run, when a woman have two or more kids before you, RUN.
😂 dang you sound bitter and before you get ready to bash me I do not qualify for your 2 children or more scenario 😉
@@Gem_Arnae It's not being bitter... A relationship with women with kids, are very difficult. Most relationships and marriage don't work out, anyway. To invest in children that are not yours can be one sided in the end.
@@generalmoxie2413 that's wrong to say if someone has kids run. I'm here to hopefully change your opinion and enlighten you that not all women are the same. I have 5 kids and I left the relationship. I support all 5 of my kids on my own no support or help and I don't ask for nothing as a independent women who's lived on her own since I was 16. I've never excepted a penny from a man I've been the one to support them and my childern. I believe in investing in a man weather there up on life or down in life and need help getting on there feet. I supported him for many years and in the end got tired of no effort. I had my childern knowing I could support them myself not to have them as a meal ticket or government assistance. I have my own successful buisness. Get a women with a different mindset then this ungrateful women. I love how the government gives free money just because I've seen it time and time again I understand needing in a emergency or tough spot temporarily but the government needs to stop supporting for just because reasons.
@@YvonneNonYa girl he basically saying having a relationship with someone who has kids is hard and she was really ungrateful to a man that helped her and her kids. That man seemed like he really cared for her.
@ General Moxie 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Typical, woman gets looked after so well and still isn't happy. She stole from him and she's a damn gold digger.
I love Judge Milian...
He is handsome 😍.
Very handsome MAN
Calm down thirsty women
@@terriwilliams4803 how are they so thirsty? All they said was he was handsome. Hate much?
MAN... they put ALL their business out there!
Bro, you should have left her where you found her
If she married a yt man they wouldn’t be here
His mama was the reason for your divorce, but not the fact that your daughter is locked in a room with a knife terrified, and ready to defend/stab someone. 😳 If she was that afraid then, I’m sure that has occurred before.
Right Thank you!!👏🏾👏🏾
I do not believe he harm her child, she seems like the type of woman that do not discipline her children. Why in hell would her child get a knife because he’s yelling at her? He’s being blessed to not be with her. It’s always these types of women that get a good man, and mistreat them.
@@livenowliveright8509 guess what? Yelling is a form of abuse. We are unaware of what he was saying to her child. If it was her child that was the aggressor, she wouldn’t have been hiding and locked in a room. She would’ve been chasing him. Her daughter stood there well mannered and no outbursts. Behavioral children are unable to maintain composure, especially when someone is speaking on a traumatic incident they were involved in. Let’s pray you never have children and if you do they live with their father. Because you’d clearly miss the signs over thinking you have a “good” man. 🙄
@@Reallychris_ If you think yelling warrants a child to grab a knife, I now understand why our kids are so messed up. Neither one of us were there, but as vocal as she was, not once did she state he had been abusing her kids. She instead said, her child was hiding her mail which is probably what prompted him to be irate and yes, yell. So if that child felt that his yelling was so dangerous and life threatening that she ended up taking a knife in the closet, that lets me know of her poor parenting skills. And this is coming from a mother of five, two teen girls that would NEVER do such a thing and it’s been many of times I’ve lost my cool yelling.
@@livenowliveright8509 #1 get your tubes tied. #2 yelling is abuse and can cause your child to have anxiety. #3 it was her mail not his so why he upset with the child over what she was instructed to do? Take that up with the mother. #4 a child is not going to just go grab a knife, run, lock themselves in a room, hide, and call their mother due to feeling in danger just because 🙄 So again I pray for your children. That is clearly not a healthy home. Clearly your children are not in a healthy home. You need to do family therapy so you will understand that yelling is not a form of discipline. You’ll understand when your children are taking anxiety meds because of you and your poor choices in men. ✌🏽
God bless everyone on here❤❤
She took his money clean him out and she not like your mom wow $400 such a grown person
Anyone else has to pay clean up fees ..
My man Doug with that laugh 😂
He should of put his mother in check!!! Don't let anyone other than your mate ruin your marriage!!!
That home is at least 5 months of not cleaning, disgusting 🤮
"Mama's right!" - Bobby Boucher (The Waterboy) 😂
Divorcing over his MIL... ouch. Unless you've been in a relationship with a hopeless Mommy's Boy, you will never appreciate the pain. Mama's Boys: Yank your nads from Mommy's purse and grow up.
shes evil n selfish. This man dodged a bullet !!!!
I had hope and then BOOM a nurse. I love nurses...