My ex wife claimed I abused her... she stated that when I refused to agree with her.. I would become... disagreeable... the judge actually laughed at her.
The word "abuse" used to mean something. Now it means anything she wants to apply that label to in order to gain victim status. But don't tell her that because that would be abusing. In fact doing anything she does not approve, is abuse. And if you do everything you ask, she looses desire and respect. You really can't win in the long run.
They all say the man abused them, because their Lawyers tell them to say this. The Attorneys train the women during a divorce to be a liar. Their concept is that gain has all the value and morals or honesty has no value unless it creates gain.
It’s normal for relationships to encounter problems, but there’s always a way to navigate through them. My marriage faced major difficulties, but with the right support, my wife and I were able to solve our issues and fortify our bond. Solutions are possible if you’re committed to working together. Don’t give up-there’s always a solution.
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you for this advice. I'll promptly start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm optimistic that pursuing this approach will also lead to favorable outcomes for me; her absence weighs heavily on me.
Women want to get married so as to make an exit (divorce), a few years down the line. It's all so obvious now that any man who puts himself in this position, should just blame himself. Modern marriage is a grievous error don't do it guys.
Men don't want marriages anyways. Silly people. Lol. They work for what they got and they want to keep what they worked for. That is fine really. They should keep all that they worked so hard for. Let them have it. Then you also must remember this. It is his house your only a guest. So act like a guest.
Then when men complain if women refuse to get married in an at-fault divorce state? It's a lose-lose and it shows why marriage is an obsolete concept. Don't tie yourself in your spouse to the government.
As soon as my wife breathed the word “abuse” i distanced myself from her immediately. She, a nurse, had been filling her head with feminism for years. She’s radioactive now.
I work in healthcare, in the ICU environment for the last 19 years. I can absolutely tell you that corporate Health Care has become liberal-minded through and through. Female-dominated, petty, entitled environments that men hate to work in and are not welcome in.
This is interesting because my wife is also in the medical industry and got brainwashed by the people in it with feminism. I've also heard this from multiple other men out there that people in the medical industry heavily towards feminism.
It's ok. I've dated them too post divorce. Even though my last one was starting to think critically and lean back to conservative which I will respect her for? Guess what else she was doing? Screwing the married co worker at work. You know? The one they always tell you there's nothing to worry about it's strictly professional and he's just a work buddy? 😂. The stereotype is true. Now for the liberal teacher ex wife? As soon as I found out she was taking emotional abuse courses online. Writing to press editors of local papers about me and labeling me as crazy for having a conservative opinion? I distanced myself from her immediately. Fortunately however we co parent well most of the time.
'No-fault divorce' was the greatest mistake ever made in marital law. See, in any other field, breaking a contract _costs_ you dearly. And righty so. Except for women, who get rewarded -- and thus incentivized --- to divorce you. And all because she was bored, and wanted to go chase Chad again.
wrong.... the greatest mistake in marriage was the marital law created, stating that the government had to be involved.... anything after 1927 was fraud when it came to marriage
@cattywampusmcdoogle Thank you for the timeline. If memory serves me correctly, it began with blood testing for RH factor in New York where of all places, undet the guise of health reasons, you had to get a marriage CERTIFICATE from the state. I grew up in Wyoming during my high-school years, and here, marriage certificates required RH and VD* testing before issuance. In genealogy research, at a point, it was necessary to go to church records, not state records, to track marriages and families. There is a whole field of research on marriage census records immigration documentation. Much of state interference in modern times was implemented IN AMERICA due to immigration. It is interesting that God forbade King David ,Monarch, and head of state to take a population census. God severely punished Isreal because King David did so. It is also notable that God never decreed nations should be ruled by popular sovereignty such as democracies, representative republics, political collolitions, * VD now expressed as STD.
@AlanThomas-hp3fn I may be off a year or two.. but yeah, it all started with interracial marriages needing a government license to be considered a marriage... when it became profitable, by 1927, it was made national to be considered marriage....also all men kept the children in case of the divorce, just as the bible says....children belong to the father, they are his inheritance, his treasure. Women taking children from the fathers were considered kidnapping.
If you watch any of the podcasts where they interview women, it's very clear they don't actually understand what any of the words mean. They think they're just mouth sounds to get what they want.
It's too little too late. Every time I think about getting into another relationship I get chills down my spine. A walking ATM instantly pops into my head.
Yea, every few years or so think about it... nope.. just can't imagine wasting my time or effort like that anymore... much more enjoyable less stressful ways to spend it.
bro its like if anything men should get more money out of it (like what 60-40 generous enough maybe even 70-30, cause usually men work way harder for money/ resources 22:41 (and who maintains society best) (but some men take that too far and arguably abuse it, billionares/millionares but thats not most men, maybe some deserve it/money like a doctor/inventor etc ) cause men provide more value to society, (but grocery/supermarket/store workers, i'd imagine the ratio of men and women being equal enough) sucks to have periods, not as strong physically or whatever argument, they wanna say, if people wanna say, if it's like but then make tampongs free etc some women have actually complained about it, clearly i mean, this had to have gotten started cause of some abusive men, had to be something in it
I get chills down my spine the minute I hear marriage as well. Then I see chains and me being beaten. So I don't think that marriage is a good idea for myself. Some women are ok with slavery. Some are not.
My wife walked away feom me for no reason and then I found out she had been cheating for a while. 42 yrs gone. My heart is broken. She tried to get our grown kids to cover for her. My daughter covered for her, but my son did not. I am a follower of Jesus and have built my life on the Bible.
Hang in there Brother. My wife walked out on me right after our 40th anniversary and now, 4 years later filed for divorce, which is about to finalize. I'm 67, and was about to give up. But now I have women noticing me... Cute, quality, younger women. Pray in your quiet place... and wait for the Lord to answer you.
Yep, it's done. There's No sense in a man getting married he can lose all his wealth just because she gets bored. The wealth and assets that anyone has before marriage should never be included in any settlement. Only the wealth obtained during the marriage should be subject to division during a divorce. This should be 50/50 after 15 years. If you ask for a divorce before that time you get a reduced share of joint assets based on how long the marriage lasted.
Not all of us are freaking out. Many of us already see that you only want temporary relationships. We being guests in your home is the win for you guys. You keep what you worked for. And that is great. But also women do not need to live in your home as a guest.
Yep. Even if all of this changes culturally overnight, it will still take GENERATIONS for all of this to smooth out. These women are so damaged from the modern lifestyle that their children and grandchildren will still be reeling from its effects.
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
but its like, what do you think freud would say about it, looks attract intially ofc, but like yeah rationally ofc why are the genders even interested in eachother, ofc feelings play into it, but so much drama seems to happen because of it but is it rational that people even write stuff maybe no, cause some feelings must play into it. what does even the word mean, cause technology was made to make life better and thats cause of feelings, like shit ohh im cold etc thats how humans live their lifes
This requires qualification. *_American_* women are a waste of time. There are dozens of countries and cultures who raise their girls to be wives and helpmates as nature intended. Those women are worth protecting. Those women make their homes a sanctuary, not a battlefield. Those women raise their sons to be men modeled after their father and their daughters to be women modeled after themselves. That's why a lot of us say get your passport. If you're looking for a diamond, you don't go searching through raw sewage hoping someone lost one, you go to a diamond mine.
Alienation of Affection has always been abuse towards men, but I’m sure that would never come up in the discussion especially with cheating so normalized in the media.
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
Kids are the true victims of no fault divorce. Funny how the courts will find child support the right of the child but having two parents isn’t the child’s right. It’s a money machine
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
If No Fault divorce doesn’t benefit women, why do we only see women wanting to keep it in place and defending it? There’s also a big problem with child support and matching dollars the states receive from the federal government that incentivizes not only divorce but the breaking up of families.
"Do you really want her to be legally held hostage?" Sure. Men have been legally held hostage for long enough; time for some of that good old equality to kick in. The projection is strong with this one...
Even if all the gynocentric bias around divorce were fixed today, it would take a generation to rebuild any kind of trust. Men's eyes have been opened.
@@hyperteleXiithis is not a bad thing when you think of it. I am one that believes what a man works for is his entirely. She owns nothing if she comes into the relationship with nothing. He only has a wife as a temporary maid babysitter and cook. She has no business living in the same space as he does.
I love @Far From Eden!! You are the only rational female on this freaking continent. Most modern western women are the epitome of unappealing. You are constantly helping to maintain my faith in humanity! Much love, be well!
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
Marriage is a contract. If you are in the business. You don't treat each other with love. You treat each other as business partners. No love or care required. If that is what men want then just say so.
@@phoenixtoash2396 That’s a fascinating misunderstanding of the concept of marriage. It is neither a contract in the United States (why do you think it’s called a marriage LICENSE?) nor is it referred to as such by those most concerned about it. It’s referred to as a covenant, a promise between individuals. That’s a relationship. A marriage contract is something generated in cultures where the chief point is an agreement, a connection, between families.
Modern day marriage is no longer "marriage", most women are so entitled today most of them see the marriage vows as nothing but a joke to them. " till death us do part" no body take it seriously. 😢
This. Go back 200 years and marriage was an essential partnership for survival. There was no big government to pay you during hard times or bail you out for your bad behaviour. Children where your community, your social insurance, and pension. Maintaining your home, ensuring your Children became strong productive citizens and then helping your Children with their Children. Marriage was a full time job right up to ones death, for both men and women. Then in the twentieth century, big government grew, technology reduced housework, all children started be shipped out to someone else to be cared for at the age of 5 (or younger). Women became, to a large degree, pets to their husband, not necessary but nice to have around. This probably is the reason women became so resentful of men and their work and their purpose. The knew they were not necessary anymore, just there to reproduce. So they started pushing into the men's world thinking they would find purpose and respect....however, while doing so, they still wanted to be kept like pets wanting for nothing...and here we are today.
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
I have no problem with No Fault Divorce, if you want to leave, leave, BUT I do have a problem with women getting PAID to leave. It should be THIS simple. Whoever breaks the contract gets screwed in the divorce. If you leave for no reason, other than the fact that you're just not happy, YOU broke the contract. If you cheated, YOU broke the contract If you refuse to have sex, YOU broke the contract. If you physically abuse your spouse, YOU broke the contract. If the person breaking the contract was the breadwinner, then they will lose half their shit and still have to provide for their partner and children, as things stand today. If the person breaking the contract isn't the provider, then they get only what they came with and the portion of the marital assets commensurate with their income. IE if they made $50K and the other made $100k, then they only get 1/3 the marital assets. But the guilty party NEVER gets any child support or alimony. If they don't make enough to support the children, then they don't get custody. That is ALL it would take to get women to quit filing for divorce. As long as they know they won't get cash and prizes for leaving, then they will figure out a way to make it work. Also, if they know they will get kicked out on their ass for refusing sex, then that shit will stop too.
I agree. I do believe getting rid of no fault will just result in skyrocketing false accusations. That problem has to get solved before any other else we are all just spinning our wheels.
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
True. I agree. I think this thinking is perfectly fine. Women are only maids and cooks really we are only guests. So we should act as guests. We are temporarily invited into mens lives. For no real good reason other than what we give. And that isn't much if the female is spoiled. Even isn't a lot of we give all we are. So for the notion that love doesn't exist then why care to marry at all.
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
@@phoenixtoash2396I know right? How DARE families remain intact with a mother and father that studies have shown is a huge advantage to the success of children.
The women want no fault divorce so they can switch up their man whenever they think they found a better man. These days that’s how they think. This guy is the best right now so I ll marry him until I find a better one.
Yep. But they know that sounds bad to admit that, so they say the reason they need 'no fault' is because of abuse. All the 'minority communities' in the liberal parade act like this. Hiding their true intentions.
Unless an infant is nursing, divorce could be so simple. Whoever makes the most income over some specified period (e.g. average income over the past 3 years) gets at least shared custody of the children. If the poorer parent cannot afford shared custody then she gets only visitation. No money should ever exchange hands after a divorce. The whole idea of paying someone to get a divorce is insane on the face of it.
Women often trade their time and body for a promise of long term resources. Men trade resources for access to a woman's time and body. Guess which one is riskier and more valuable 🤔 A man divorcing an older woman effectively steals her time and vitality. She lost out on the opportunity to invest in marketable skills by devoting her vitality and time to raising children. It is a partnership, where she allows him the freedom to focus on skills while she raises the kids etc. He can focus on marketable skills and earn more for the family since he doesn't have to manage a household alone. Even if women didn't give birth, men would still find huge value in a stay at home/worker partnership... Dumping the ""poorer"" partner and NOT dividing assets fairly is literally more evil than outright theft. You can potentially recoup financial losses. NOTHING can recoup LOST TIME. Your disrespect of the power of an at-home parent tells me you don't care what's best for children, and the RISK involved. Only what's best for you. Rethink it bro, why do you think we're here? Do you think our ancestors/predecessors are a bunch of idiots or something? What is a 50yo woman supposed to do if her rich husband decides to no-fault with NO division of assets so he can remarry a 20yo? Can you really not see how insane that is?
@@dantosinferneHe doesn’t focus on “skills,” he focuses on work to provide. Ask anybody and they’ll value family over work. Is the woman so incompetent, she has 0 time to develop her skills?!
You are such a treasure to help men and women wake up to the evil of our society that is destroying relations between men and women. How wicked our feminist institutions are.
Child support and alimony should probably be kept in some form with well laid out and fair formulae. For example, each spouse must pay half of the true cost of upkeep of the child, food clothes, schooling, even vacations as calculated by the cost of the last year before divorce. Rent and housing cost should NOT be considered part of child support. Finally, alimony should be based on a formula such as the couple must pool their income each year and then split that total income. This arrangement should last as long as they were married divided by 3. This means that no party can just be parasitic on another party for the rest of their lives, but it also allows for people who contributed to the marriage only through non paid house work and maintenance and raising children become self supporting.
@reekinronald6776 only if the divorce is mutual. If one party instigated a no fault divorce against the will of the other party, the one who initiated should pay ALL of it.
@@reekinronald6776Alimony shouldn’t last more than 5 years. And any alimony should be a tax deduction as well as guarantee immediate forfeiture of the children.
They don't even know what marriage is. That's right. My mom divorced my dad when I was 2 years old. She loved it. I hated it all my life and was the step son of a drunk she wanted instead of dad. Jesus says you can get a divorce if fornication or adultery is happening. BUT, you can forgive each other for even that and just never do it again! God hates divorce and so do I.
I was not only a faithful husband and father I genuinely loved my wife. After 24 years she filed for divorce and my heart breaks every day. My daughters went with her and I haven't heard from them since. I don't know what marriage is either.
I'm sorry brother I went through what you did. First I was terribly abused. Only she could get my money out of our Bank's. Physical abuse mental and emotional and cheating on me. I'm glad I'm out of that nightmare. She was trying to murder me@@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor
@@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor Oh man you do know what it's like for sure. It is VERY common that the wife turns the children against the father and is successful at that also. I don't know why, but it is called parental alienation by the mother. You can see this subject all over youtube, so it is common.
Then no female should ever marry for love. Never should anyone marry for love. If you think marriage is for your benefit only as a child then parents don't matter.
I think one of women's most common mistakes is misunderstanding how to negotiate. like that woman threatening to become more abusive to their husband if they can't get a no fault divorce. but you can't make that threat if you've already been acting as evil as possible. your back is against the wall.
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Never again. A good man here. Super husband. Hard worker. I busted my ass for my family. Faithful trusting, and got cheated on, lied too, accused of poisoning her. Took my kids, half my stuff. I even had proof of it all. I had to pay for the divorce too. Sorry burned so bad that I’ll never marry or have kids again. Guys don’t do it. I took us out of debt. Paid everything off. Supported her career success and more while working 60/80hours a week. Lost friendships due to false accusations even though it was proven false. Woman look down on divorce men. Shame you. Last 3 years dating. Has been a joke. List of 6s, and other higher then realistic standards.
I think the boon of removing nofault divorce is that by women knowing they dont have an easy out they will be forced to have a mindset to actually put into their relationships to make themselves happy rather than being leeches who can leave whenever desired.
Most of the divorces of friends and family are a result of some form of "I'm not fulfilled in this marriage" by the wife. No real reason, just the grass is greener over there and I'm missing out. Getting rid of no fault would probably start forcing women to actually find other ways to be fulfilled within the marriage.
Go Erin! We need this change in family court law. The divorcing spouse of a no fault divorce must leave the home without the kids. No reward for the person divorcing in a no fault divorce. Any abuse needs to have verifiable, physical evidence and should be treated as a criminal case. Saying mean words is not a crime. I think this would stop people from divorcing so readily. And it would prevent going back to the expensive, traumatic and long litigation inherent in 'fault' divorces. Women need to stop expecting to be happy in marriage. Kids need an emotionally stable, mature and responsible mother. Not a spoiled brat demanding everyone make her happy or else.
Then you need to be willing to accept not being happy in the marriage as well. Just because you aren't getting what you want doesn't mean you go outside the vows.
What no fault divorce does is make people think before they marry in the first place. No women should marry if they don't want to lose their own assets nor should a man marry to lose his own assets. Ladies if it is his house it's his not yours. It will never be yours. Your a guest.
So your saying women should expect to never have a shot at happiness ever. Should we just accept being depressed and sad and broken our entire lives. We shouldn't be allowed to be happy ever. If that is a fact then why marry.
@@phoenixtoash2396 No. No-fault divorce clearly made it easy for people to NOT think before marrying. How could you look at people’s choices and reasons for divorce and come to the conclusion that no-fault in any way gave people a reason to think before marriage?
2nd crazy lady was confusing no fault divorce, for a hostage situation, it’s appalling how twisted their minds are, but like Erin pointed out, if you’re all up in your feelings of unhappiness, you can leave, but you don’t get the house, the kids, nor half of anything because you broke your vows. That’s it.
Only allowed for abuse n abandonment but too many times the government n society allows them to lie bout abuse without proof. Also abuse against the husband is not taken seriously.
I've had a divorce and will never have one again. I would have no problem pledging the rest of my days if I found a worthy woman but I'll never get married under the eyes of the law, nor live in a state that has common law marriage on the books. I'm sure there are trustworthy women out there but there no way to identify who they are. Too much to risk in all ways.
I got married, she divorced 18 months later, she said I did nothing wrong. Married, first day she said she lied to me so I would marry her. Right away she wanted to date another man. She told me she got married to me to divorce me and get money.
Abuse would be fault divorce which would stay applicable. If no fault divorce is repealed then perhaps women won’t want to marry in the first place and make mgtow easier. Go the bears and 4B. I agree Erin, if you want out, you should only be allowed personal affects.
There are no good women, as long as these divorce and alimony laws exist. A so-called good woman will turn evil when she realizes she can take everything in a no-fault divorce. As long as the Government gets their cut from alimony and child support payments, these laws will never change. Don't get married or live with a woman. There are laws that allow a woman to take everything from you, even without marriage, just by living with her long enough. It's a common law marriage.
God introduced marriage for the purpose of a family unit. God would not take kindly to men disregarding this sacred act simply because they're too busy whinging about women because they can't find one, or they search for the wrong marital partner. Men and women are equal in God's eyes. Marriage is a union of that equality with both in the marriage having different roles. The trouble is men blaming women is exactly what Adam did, yet he was still punished. Men like you are Adam. Still blaming the woman and God because you refuse to be accountable, then carry on that women don't want to be accountable. Both are to blame when a marriage falls apart unless one is the abuser or adulterer. Don't put yourself above God. That's what Satan attempted to do.
If vows can be withdrawn on a whim, then they're meaningless. What of drivers licenses and passports could be withdrawn on a whim? What if your bank called in your home loan on a whim? So... what we're doing is abolishing agreements, right?
Technically the bank can call your mortgage in at any time. There were a lot of farmers that had that happen in the 1980's. The banks were in danger of going under due to loans to mega farms and to save their asses they screwed over a lot of smaller farms.
Removing no fault divorce doesn't remove fault divorce. Abuse is under a fault. Whether it's from the man or from the woman. Financial abuse, no sex marriages, child abuse, refusing to live together, inconsolable religious differences and many more are under causes of 'fault'. Still plenty of ways to get rid of your man. But no fault means you cannot get divorced just 'because'. You need to meet the requirements set by the State you live in.
"Do you really want to be married to a woman that hates you?" If she hates me, why the hell did she marry me?! She could have said no - she SHOULD have said no, if she hates me!
Amen! Preach it sister! My ex claimed I abused her and our children, cheated on her, and refused to pay child support despite me sending her money every month. If I had not been able to prove it was all a lie, I would have been busted to E-1 with no pay, placed in a military prison and then discharged dishonorably while I was stationed in Germany. Despite being able to prove she lied about it all, the courts still ruled in her favor and then would not hold her in contempt when I proved that she was withholding visitation and attempting to hide them. Even though it was clear in the divorce decree that neither of us would interfere with the relationship with the children, and that each of us was responsible for informing the other if there were any change to our contact information. She did neither repeatedly, and the courts did nothing. Eventually she got a judge to strip me of my parental rights to our youngest child based completely on lies. Yet the judge accused me of lying despite the evidence. As far as I am concerned, no fault divorce needs to be eliminated. Marriage is the only contract in this country where the person who breaks or violates the contract gets rewarded, and that is due to No Fault Divorce.
The family court system has not caught up with modern realities. The contemporary North American Criminal Justice/Social climate is very much slanted. The courts still treat women as if their economic wellbeing is dependent on the man (it’s not like that anymore.) We risk losing more than half of everything we’ve slaved to earn, and around half of what we will earn. The courts still treat women as victims. If a woman say’s, “He raped/beat me” (1) we are seen as guilty in the public’s eye. Any lawyer worth their salt will tell you when a client sits in the defendant’s chair the jury sees them as 50/50 guilty/innocent. That’s a big jump “innocent until proven guilty.” A false rape claim is not merely an attack on a man’s character. It’s an attempt to kidnap, imprison, emotionally torture, and destroy an innocent man. (BTW, this comes at the cost of the credibility of all women who truly endure such horrors.) It is a profoundly evil act and yet there are rarely any real consequences for women who make false rape claims. (2) If co-habitating, we will be barred from our own house immediately and without a judge's decision (LET THAT SINK IN! WHERE ARE YOU GONNA LIVE?). (3) We will be suspended from our job pending the legal outcome. It might take a year or more. (4) We might have our beloved kids taken away. Put yourself in our shoes. How'd YOU like THAT woman? (That's role reversal for the purposes of understanding.) PROVE US WRONG. PLEASE! The laws need to change. “He wasn’t meeting my emotional needs” is all a woman needs to say to justify destroying a family. “I signed the pre-nup under duress” is all a woman needs to say to get one thrown out. About 65% of marriages fail and about 77% of divorces are initiated by the woman. It’s not the men who are destroying families. Overwhelmingly, it is the women who are destroying families. Yet they show the insanity to deny it. The truth is, in many ways, modern North American women are the most privileged in history. And they wonder why smart men are walking away from this whole mess. They want the privileges and would rather shame men into conforming into doing whatever they’re told to do, and believe whatever they are told to believe. Men see this as manipulation. IT IS. It is also evil. Women like this are not worth our vow. That vow is one they, overwhelmingly, are responsible for breaking. Many Modern North American men see many modern North American women demonstrate behaviors that prove their bad values, wrong expectations, wrong worldview, and abhorred attitude for a relationship, let alone marriage material. Resources men spent their life building, can cruelly be snatched away from us by sneering lawyers, judges, and their own wives, desperate to abandon them at their first opportunity that another richer man comes along. Smug, twisted smiles of greed and barely concealed hatred accompany the clawed hands, grabbing hungrily at the fruits of the man's labor, the sweat off his back & brow, meant to be shared by a loving couple raising a family, now cruelly stolen away by unfeeling harpies screeching for more even as their ill-gotten gains, overflowing their grasp, tumble to the ground all around them. All while the judges self-righteously admonish the men that if they don't pay regularly, and on time, their very freedom will be taken from them. And they still must pay, even when under lock and key, unable to toil for the resources that (so many, but not all) women covet so selfishly. Men do NOT walk away to teach other people a lesson. We walk away because we finally learned a few of our own. I wear knee pads at work. Women ignore me. Yes.... the video is right.... many gals are throwing a temper tantrum that they cannot ruin a family for their own benefit. They do not honor their vows.
Thanks for discussing this! I completely agree. Wife left me cuz she was unhappy. Told me all our memories together were “tainted” as if her current unhappiness invalidated her vows and all the great memories we built together
Personally I think there should be marriage insurance for men. That way in case she files for no good reason and a man has to give up half his stuff away he can be reimbursed and live a normal life.
Doesn't no fault divorce swing both ways... then why aren't men freaking out... oh I know, because divorce isn't part of their original marriage plan 😂 ❤ from Northeast England ❤️
God, From the very beginning has always made marriage til death does you part, divorce dows not end the marriage vows. Proverbs 31 woman is what men need and women need a man to love them as Christ loves the church.
I want her to understand the gravity of making a VOW. also if she is going to get half my money, I should AT LEAST have a servant (to use her descriptor).
Anyone else feel stuck in hot water, or caught between 2 fires as you will? Where you want warmth, love, companionship and the ability to raise a family on one side, but distrust women and fear they will manipulate, lie, abuse, gaslight and leave you (broken)? I don't think MGTOW is the answer altho I can definitely empathize with people who follow this path. Shouldn't we work towards healing? Make men and women want each other again and form genuine connections again? Where did it all go so wrong...
Women are only capable of true love if they pair bond with you. If they have had any partners before you, there will be no love. There was actually a Stanford study years ago that showed the more partners a woman has, the less sensitive her oxytocin receptors in the brain. This means, quite literally, the more partners she has, the less capable she is of loving her partners and even her offspring. Hence why high school sweethearts usually have the greatest connections.
im quite grateful to be freed from this fallen society. im sure many men agree with you, but many others were only doing their duty to their people, and are fine with doing their hobbies instead. like they say, feminism has freed men not women
"Love" is a RomCom Hollywood fantasy. It's not what you think it is. It's a tool used to control you. Companionship, get a dog. Warmth? Turn on the furnace.
Regan himself said no fault divorce was his biggest mistake. However, there was supposedly a lot of couples going to extreme lengths to get the fault divorces. My idea: get the government out of marriage. If she is accustomed to a lifestyle, she why I she divorcing it.
I hate the term "No fault" If there is no fault. Then why is your marriage in trouble. Also, no fault means in most states adultery doesn't matter. How insane as adulty is literally a break in marriage vows. Abuse is a factory in divorce and can be used.
I subscribed after watching you and Terrence pop in a video today. His comedy literally saved my life when I was ready to give up. I am ex-military and divorced. His humor gave me hope, and because of that, I made it through everything. I wrote him a letter thanking him and he read it on one of his episodes a few years ago. I have my daughter. She's healthy and well adjusted. My ex wife is now jail... again. She is like the Borg.
Until alimony and child support sre abolish men wont be getting married like that. The issue aint divorce. Its the fsct she can leave anytime she wants you be financially on the hook to help her out. Only finances go for my household only. Not outside
Yeah, Gen z women by and large aren't conservative. GEN Z overall is more conservative because young men have swung hard to the right. Young women are leaning even further left, at least for now
Don't be a fool. Women always want men. Stop acting like the feminists speak for all women. There's plenty of decent men and women out there if you get out of the basement and go look
"The effort to end no-fault divorce has a disproportionate effect on women." Yeah, that's because women stand to make disproportionate gains in no-fault divorces!
My wife left 8 months into our marriage when I became paralyzed in an accident while working overtime to pay off her wedding ring. She told everyone she left because of abuse. Our joint attorney asked how I abused her. She said that a couple times I said she was nagging me . The attorney laughed and asked her if she was nagging me when I said it. She said yes.
@@melkerner no i mean thats, no more sickness-es thats atleast a good thing, no chance of getting someone pregnant, no more people saying what you say, (i dont agree with it) soo, but it is what it is, nothing wrong with s or f c
My ex wife claimed I abused her... she stated that when I refused to agree with her.. I would become... disagreeable... the judge actually laughed at her.
Woman
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So not all the judiciary are mental... thanks be to God
❤ from Northeast England ❤️
The word "abuse" used to mean something. Now it means anything she wants to apply that label to in order to gain victim status. But don't tell her that because that would be abusing. In fact doing anything she does not approve, is abuse. And if you do everything you ask, she looses desire and respect. You really can't win in the long run.
They all say the man abused them, because their Lawyers tell them to say this. The Attorneys train the women during a divorce to be a liar. Their concept is that gain has all the value and morals or honesty has no value unless it creates gain.
It’s normal for relationships to encounter problems, but there’s always a way to navigate through them. My marriage faced major difficulties, but with the right support, my wife and I were able to solve our issues and fortify our bond. Solutions are possible if you’re committed to working together. Don’t give up-there’s always a solution.
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you for this advice. I'll promptly start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm optimistic that pursuing this approach will also lead to favorable outcomes for me; her absence weighs heavily on me.
I promise you will not regret it
How long has your sentence been? Anything below 20yrs you don't really know
Dont they realize that MEN dont want to get married anymore because of this NO FAULT .. Then they bitch about that.
They're not clever enough to figure that out, and even if they did, they'd still wanna somehow eat their cake and have it.
Women want to get married so as to make an exit (divorce), a few years down the line. It's all so obvious now that any man who puts himself in this position, should just blame himself. Modern marriage is a grievous error don't do it guys.
Men don't want marriages anyways. Silly people. Lol. They work for what they got and they want to keep what they worked for. That is fine really. They should keep all that they worked so hard for. Let them have it. Then you also must remember this. It is his house your only a guest. So act like a guest.
Then when men complain if women refuse to get married in an at-fault divorce state? It's a lose-lose and it shows why marriage is an obsolete concept. Don't tie yourself in your spouse to the government.
@@michbenny1363. Exactly
No one wants to stop a miserable woman from leaving. We want to stop her from winning the lottery for being disloyal.
Agreed
Well said!
instead of no fault divorce as an agenda...
i want to hear from conservatives is a NO SPOILS DIVORCE!
I now feel fortunate that I have been 100% invisible to women all my life.
Enjoy your Sanity
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Who said that? 😮
Oh, there you are! 😊
Phew! Thought I'd changed my gender 😂
❤ from Northeast England ❤️
Same. its like winning the lottery
😅😅😅😅😅😅 not by choice I bet
As soon as my wife breathed the word “abuse” i distanced myself from her immediately. She, a nurse, had been filling her head with feminism for years. She’s radioactive now.
Aye, some get indoctrinated at work. 😢
❤ from Northeast England ❤️
I work in healthcare, in the ICU environment for the last 19 years. I can absolutely tell you that corporate Health Care has become liberal-minded through and through. Female-dominated, petty, entitled environments that men hate to work in and are not welcome in.
This is interesting because my wife is also in the medical industry and got brainwashed by the people in it with feminism. I've also heard this from multiple other men out there that people in the medical industry heavily towards feminism.
So is my nurse ex wife
It's ok. I've dated them too post divorce. Even though my last one was starting to think critically and lean back to conservative which I will respect her for? Guess what else she was doing? Screwing the married co worker at work. You know? The one they always tell you there's nothing to worry about it's strictly professional and he's just a work buddy? 😂. The stereotype is true. Now for the liberal teacher ex wife? As soon as I found out she was taking emotional abuse courses online. Writing to press editors of local papers about me and labeling me as crazy for having a conservative opinion? I distanced myself from her immediately. Fortunately however we co parent well most of the time.
'No-fault divorce' was the greatest mistake ever made in marital law. See, in any other field, breaking a contract _costs_ you dearly. And righty so. Except for women, who get rewarded -- and thus incentivized --- to divorce you. And all because she was bored, and wanted to go chase Chad again.
wrong.... the greatest mistake in marriage was the marital law created, stating that the government had to be involved.... anything after 1927 was fraud when it came to marriage
Actually, the problem started when the state made themselves the third party in marriage.
@AlanThomas-hp3fn yep... 1922 was the testing waters, 1927 it was made national when the government seen it was profitable
@cattywampusmcdoogle Thank you for the timeline. If memory serves me correctly, it began with blood testing for RH factor in New York where of all places, undet the guise of health reasons, you had to get a marriage CERTIFICATE from the state. I grew up in Wyoming during my high-school years, and here, marriage certificates required RH and VD* testing before issuance. In genealogy research, at a point, it was necessary to go to church records, not state records, to track marriages and families. There is a whole field of research on marriage census records immigration documentation. Much of state interference in modern times was implemented IN AMERICA due to immigration. It is interesting that God forbade King David ,Monarch, and head of state to take a population census. God severely punished Isreal because King David did so. It is also notable that God never decreed nations should be ruled by popular sovereignty such as democracies, representative republics, political collolitions, * VD now expressed as STD.
@AlanThomas-hp3fn I may be off a year or two.. but yeah, it all started with interracial marriages needing a government license to be considered a marriage... when it became profitable, by 1927, it was made national to be considered marriage....also all men kept the children in case of the divorce, just as the bible says....children belong to the father, they are his inheritance, his treasure. Women taking children from the fathers were considered kidnapping.
I personally lost faith in Relationships and Marriage, you aren't entitled to anything unless "She" feels like it, so fk it
I agree 💯
Exactly.
Whoever panics at no fault divorce tells us everything we need to know about them
Anybody panicking about the idea of no fault divorce, ALREADY cheating.
Same for people panicking about removing the capability for paternity fraud.
Many women's definition of abuse is when you disagree with her
Truth bomb💣!
This is what I experienced. All you have to do is disagree stand up for yourself and say no then you are accused of being abusive.
Or refused let her to waste money or go to parties at a bar and have sex with other guys
Yup I was accused of being emotionally abusive for having a conservative opinion and thinking and standing on it.
Don’t forget to mention financial abuse if you tell them they can’t go by the coach bag because right now money is tight.
@Theblackdutchman The "financial abuse" narrative is on every bus stop and billboard now.
The 3 rings of marriage. The engagement ring, the wedding ring, and the suffer ring.
The hidden meaning of marriage - the three things she sees when she enters the church: Aisle Altar You!
No nose ring? 😅
Women have a misguided understanding of what abuse actually is.
Understatement of the year.
We have posters up on our bus stop shelters saying that financial control is domestic abuse now.
@@mintoxace5571 whatever it takes to break up a family.
If you watch any of the podcasts where they interview women, it's very clear they don't actually understand what any of the words mean. They think they're just mouth sounds to get what they want.
Life is hard. Somehow, women convinced themselves everything hard is abuse by men and society, thus every woman has been abused.
It's too little too late. Every time I think about getting into another relationship I get chills down my spine. A walking ATM instantly pops into my head.
Stop playing Beta Bucks game. Problem solved.
Spanish: cartero is a mail man, cartera is a purse or wallet. If Anglicized Carter is a combination--- mail my wallet because she is gone.
Yea, every few years or so think about it... nope.. just can't imagine wasting my time or effort like that anymore... much more enjoyable less stressful ways to spend it.
bro its like if anything men should get more money out of it (like what 60-40 generous enough maybe even 70-30, cause usually men work way harder for money/ resources 22:41 (and who maintains society best) (but some men take that too far and arguably abuse it, billionares/millionares but thats not most men, maybe some deserve it/money like a doctor/inventor etc ) cause men provide more value to society, (but grocery/supermarket/store workers, i'd imagine the ratio of men and women being equal enough) sucks to have periods, not as strong physically or whatever argument, they wanna say, if people wanna say, if it's like but then make tampongs free etc some women have actually complained about it, clearly i mean, this had to have gotten started cause of some abusive men, had to be something in it
I get chills down my spine the minute I hear marriage as well. Then I see chains and me being beaten. So I don't think that marriage is a good idea for myself. Some women are ok with slavery. Some are not.
My wife walked away feom me for no reason and then I found out she had been cheating for a while. 42 yrs gone. My heart is broken. She tried to get our grown kids to cover for her. My daughter covered for her, but my son did not. I am a follower of Jesus and have built my life on the Bible.
Hang in there Brother. My wife walked out on me right after our 40th anniversary and now, 4 years later filed for divorce, which is about to finalize.
I'm 67, and was about to give up. But now I have women noticing me... Cute, quality, younger women.
Pray in your quiet place... and wait for the Lord to answer you.
Women cheat a lot in these modern times. Sorry for your troubles my friend. God bless you and yours.
@@dwaynestomp5462Bless you brother. I hope things go well for you.
Mine too. Absolutely insane!
Women have self group preference.
Too late. Marriage is over. No fault divorce showed women's true nature. You can't un-ring a bell.
Exactly, once you *truly* understand female nature, you can't look at relationships the same.
Yep, it's done. There's No sense in a man getting married he can lose all his wealth just because she gets bored.
The wealth and assets that anyone has before marriage should never be included in any settlement. Only the wealth obtained during the marriage should be subject to division during a divorce. This should be 50/50 after 15 years. If you ask for a divorce before that time you get a reduced share of joint assets based on how long the marriage lasted.
Not just no fault divorce but mandatory DNA testing at birth.
boom! good one
Hooray!
Indeed
Work in progress...many states and other part of the world do this
Mandatory testing is just bs medical and govt overreach. Test if she asks the courts to order child support. THAT makes sense.
There is no unseeing the last 4 years of narcissistic misandry
Yup, precisely.
It has been far longer than 4 years
This is the ultimate comment today.
The Trump win has all these liberal ladies freaking out. For good reason.
Trump? Is he that guy who has been married three times and was good friends with a convicted sex offender?
Not all of us are freaking out. Many of us already see that you only want temporary relationships. We being guests in your home is the win for you guys. You keep what you worked for. And that is great. But also women do not need to live in your home as a guest.
@@phoenixtoash2396 That's good. Everyone needs to be the best for themselves.
@DaDavis1954 I agree. I'm not a child. I wouldn't want to be treated as one. But owning women makes us infantile.
@@phoenixtoash2396 Sounds like what divorce *should* be
Just avoid marriage altogether. No reason in this age of the internet that guys shouldn't be aware of the serious risks of marriage.
The Blue Pill programming runs very deep. It is very difficult to overcome the programming.
Yep. Even if all of this changes culturally overnight, it will still take GENERATIONS for all of this to smooth out. These women are so damaged from the modern lifestyle that their children and grandchildren will still be reeling from its effects.
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
Women are a waste of time period. Just stay away.
but its like, what do you think freud would say about it, looks attract intially ofc, but like yeah rationally ofc why are the genders even interested in eachother, ofc feelings play into it, but so much drama seems to happen because of it but is it rational that people even write stuff maybe no, cause some feelings must play into it. what does even the word mean, cause technology was made to make life better and thats cause of feelings, like shit ohh im cold etc thats how humans live their lifes
This requires qualification. *_American_* women are a waste of time. There are dozens of countries and cultures who raise their girls to be wives and helpmates as nature intended. Those women are worth protecting. Those women make their homes a sanctuary, not a battlefield. Those women raise their sons to be men modeled after their father and their daughters to be women modeled after themselves. That's why a lot of us say get your passport. If you're looking for a diamond, you don't go searching through raw sewage hoping someone lost one, you go to a diamond mine.
Best comment ever
Live on, mgtow!!!!
They are the violent ones 80% of the time.
Alienation of Affection has always been abuse towards men, but I’m sure that would never come up in the discussion especially with cheating so normalized in the media.
You are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. These demonic harpies need controlled.
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
Kids are the true victims of no fault divorce. Funny how the courts will find child support the right of the child but having two parents isn’t the child’s right. It’s a money machine
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
Funds landlording, since the couple now pay two rents.
If No Fault divorce doesn’t benefit women, why do we only see women wanting to keep it in place and defending it? There’s also a big problem with child support and matching dollars the states receive from the federal government that incentivizes not only divorce but the breaking up of families.
and the long term damage done to children’s divorce carries into the next generation. Fu***n’ SAD
It was men who created no-fault divorce for their own benefit.
As a man I would never, ever marry if it meant I was held hostage for life.
Well said brother! Preach!✊️🫡
Fault or no fault, doesn't matter! MGTOW!
😅😅😅😅 another loser cult
Well said Erin "Never enter into a Contract in which one is rewarded for breaking!"
A marriage is a Covenantal vow made between a man,!his wife, and God. God takes an exceptionally dismal view of covenant breakers.
"Do you really want her to be legally held hostage?"
Sure. Men have been legally held hostage for long enough; time for some of that good old equality to kick in. The projection is strong with this one...
You bet it’s happening darlings. It’s no mercy now.
Even if all the gynocentric bias around divorce were fixed today, it would take a generation to rebuild any kind of trust. Men's eyes have been opened.
@@spectralcav im certainly done for life and Im confident that I was a few of these girl's best option
No more Mr. Nice Guy
@@hyperteleXiithis is not a bad thing when you think of it. I am one that believes what a man works for is his entirely. She owns nothing if she comes into the relationship with nothing. He only has a wife as a temporary maid babysitter and cook. She has no business living in the same space as he does.
@@phoenixtoash2396 Salty sarcasm is all you got lady but it speaks volumes about who and what you are. Enjoy the next 4 years.
I know that I will never have a family . I am 48 years old and learned early. Woman have an unrealistic expectation in the modern day.
She's not forced to stay. She just can't set the terms of the exit her way.
I love @Far From Eden!! You are the only rational female on this freaking continent. Most modern western women are the epitome of unappealing. You are constantly helping to maintain my faith in humanity! Much love, be well!
God I love this channel.
Make Marriage Serious Again.
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
Marriage is a contract. If you are in the business. You don't treat each other with love. You treat each other as business partners. No love or care required. If that is what men want then just say so.
@@phoenixtoash2396
That’s a fascinating misunderstanding of the concept of marriage. It is neither a contract in the United States (why do you think it’s called a marriage LICENSE?) nor is it referred to as such by those most concerned about it. It’s referred to as a covenant, a promise between individuals. That’s a relationship. A marriage contract is something generated in cultures where the chief point is an agreement, a connection, between families.
@@phoenixtoash2396
Marriage is a covenant.
@kimberlyturner820 and I'm not human enough to make a covenant with a human. Since roe renders me less human.
Modern day marriage is no longer "marriage", most women are so entitled today most of them see the marriage vows as nothing but a joke to them. " till death us do part" no body take it seriously. 😢
This. Go back 200 years and marriage was an essential partnership for survival. There was no big government to pay you during hard times or bail you out for your bad behaviour. Children where your community, your social insurance, and pension. Maintaining your home, ensuring your Children became strong productive citizens and then helping your Children with their Children. Marriage was a full time job right up to ones death, for both men and women. Then in the twentieth century, big government grew, technology reduced housework, all children started be shipped out to someone else to be cared for at the age of 5 (or younger). Women became, to a large degree, pets to their husband, not necessary but nice to have around. This probably is the reason women became so resentful of men and their work and their purpose. The knew they were not necessary anymore, just there to reproduce. So they started pushing into the men's world thinking they would find purpose and respect....however, while doing so, they still wanted to be kept like pets wanting for nothing...and here we are today.
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
Erin's terrific qualities shown in her videos: moral outrage, empathy, compassion, humility. And she's adorable.
Yes, Erin is a real sweetheart. If only I was 30 years younger...
I have no problem with No Fault Divorce, if you want to leave, leave, BUT I do have a problem with women getting PAID to leave.
It should be THIS simple. Whoever breaks the contract gets screwed in the divorce.
If you leave for no reason, other than the fact that you're just not happy, YOU broke the contract.
If you cheated, YOU broke the contract
If you refuse to have sex, YOU broke the contract.
If you physically abuse your spouse, YOU broke the contract.
If the person breaking the contract was the breadwinner, then they will lose half their shit and still have to provide for their partner and children, as things stand today.
If the person breaking the contract isn't the provider, then they get only what they came with and the portion of the marital assets commensurate with their income. IE if they made $50K and the other made $100k, then they only get 1/3 the marital assets. But the guilty party NEVER gets any child support or alimony. If they don't make enough to support the children, then they don't get custody.
That is ALL it would take to get women to quit filing for divorce. As long as they know they won't get cash and prizes for leaving, then they will figure out a way to make it work. Also, if they know they will get kicked out on their ass for refusing sex, then that shit will stop too.
I agree. I do believe getting rid of no fault will just result in skyrocketing false accusations.
That problem has to get solved before any other else we are all just spinning our wheels.
@@troydunn8463 I'd take the step in the right direction even if it won't solve everything. The perfect is the enemy of the good.
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
True. I agree. I think this thinking is perfectly fine. Women are only maids and cooks really we are only guests. So we should act as guests. We are temporarily invited into mens lives. For no real good reason other than what we give. And that isn't much if the female is spoiled. Even isn't a lot of we give all we are. So for the notion that love doesn't exist then why care to marry at all.
@@phoenixtoash2396 Bravo dear lady. Thank you !
"Modern" women see the wedding vows as a formality.
I wonder, if this were men giving the advice like this, how it would be viewed by women 🤔🤔😂🤣🙏☮️
The algorithm would take it down... they'd be outrage
No you really don’t. You know exactly, and so does the galaxy!!!
Sadly Rome Instituted No Fault too, and it was a direct factor in it's Fall!
Stats sadly prove that many women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness and the majority of married men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Yes, yes,.....there are exceptions. Women need to stop making "happiness" or their emotions their damn idol.
Not sure about that. They had it for a long time before the empire deteriorated.
@@John-fk2kymen of rome gave up. They stopped trying to support marriage, home, and civilization as a whole
This moment is allowing me to see freshly how terrible the Left's policies have been for everyone.
And I see how horrible the rights vision of marriage is as well.
@@phoenixtoash2396I know right? How DARE families remain intact with a mother and father that studies have shown is a huge advantage to the success of children.
Thanks for the supportive content : )
The women want no fault divorce so they can switch up their man whenever they think they found a better man. These days that’s how they think. This guy is the best right now so I ll marry him until I find a better one.
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Yep, starter husbands. That is real, they look at us like that.
Yep. But they know that sounds bad to admit that, so they say the reason they need 'no fault' is because of abuse. All the 'minority communities' in the liberal parade act like this. Hiding their true intentions.
Unless an infant is nursing, divorce could be so simple. Whoever makes the most income over some specified period (e.g. average income over the past 3 years) gets at least shared custody of the children. If the poorer parent cannot afford shared custody then she gets only visitation. No money should ever exchange hands after a divorce. The whole idea of paying someone to get a divorce is insane on the face of it.
Women often trade their time and body for a promise of long term resources. Men trade resources for access to a woman's time and body. Guess which one is riskier and more valuable 🤔 A man divorcing an older woman effectively steals her time and vitality. She lost out on the opportunity to invest in marketable skills by devoting her vitality and time to raising children. It is a partnership, where she allows him the freedom to focus on skills while she raises the kids etc. He can focus on marketable skills and earn more for the family since he doesn't have to manage a household alone. Even if women didn't give birth, men would still find huge value in a stay at home/worker partnership...
Dumping the ""poorer"" partner and NOT dividing assets fairly is literally more evil than outright theft. You can potentially recoup financial losses. NOTHING can recoup LOST TIME. Your disrespect of the power of an at-home parent tells me you don't care what's best for children, and the RISK involved. Only what's best for you. Rethink it bro, why do you think we're here? Do you think our ancestors/predecessors are a bunch of idiots or something? What is a 50yo woman supposed to do if her rich husband decides to no-fault with NO division of assets so he can remarry a 20yo? Can you really not see how insane that is?
@@dantosinfernemy question is how is 50% + alimony a "fair" split.
@@dantosinferneHe doesn’t focus on “skills,” he focuses on work to provide. Ask anybody and they’ll value family over work. Is the woman so incompetent, she has 0 time to develop her skills?!
You are such a treasure to help men and women wake up to the evil of our society that is destroying relations between men and women. How wicked our feminist institutions are.
Without NF-divorse they will not marry, they think about this since they are 4 years old!
Child support and alimony are "traps" as well. Does she want to end those as well?
Child support and alimony should probably be kept in some form with well laid out and fair formulae. For example, each spouse must pay half of the true cost of upkeep of the child, food clothes, schooling, even vacations as calculated by the cost of the last year before divorce. Rent and housing cost should NOT be considered part of child support. Finally, alimony should be based on a formula such as the couple must pool their income each year and then split that total income. This arrangement should last as long as they were married divided by 3. This means that no party can just be parasitic on another party for the rest of their lives, but it also allows for people who contributed to the marriage only through non paid house work and maintenance and raising children become self supporting.
@reekinronald6776 only if the divorce is mutual. If one party instigated a no fault divorce against the will of the other party, the one who initiated should pay ALL of it.
@@reekinronald6776Alimony shouldn’t last more than 5 years. And any alimony should be a tax deduction as well as guarantee immediate forfeiture of the children.
Like she said if you change your mind and want to leave LEAVE but leave without half.
No argument here
They don't even know what marriage is. That's right. My mom divorced my dad when I was 2 years old. She loved it. I hated it all my life and was the step son of a drunk she wanted instead of dad. Jesus says you can get a divorce if fornication or adultery is happening. BUT, you can forgive each other for even that and just never do it again! God hates divorce and so do I.
I was not only a faithful husband and father I genuinely loved my wife. After 24 years she filed for divorce and my heart breaks every day. My daughters went with her and I haven't heard from them since. I don't know what marriage is either.
I'm sorry brother I went through what you did. First I was terribly abused. Only she could get my money out of our Bank's. Physical abuse mental and emotional and cheating on me. I'm glad I'm out of that nightmare. She was trying to murder me@@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor
@@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor Oh man you do know what it's like for sure. It is VERY common that the wife turns the children against the father and is successful at that also. I don't know why, but it is called parental alienation by the mother. You can see this subject all over youtube, so it is common.
Then no female should ever marry for love. Never should anyone marry for love. If you think marriage is for your benefit only as a child then parents don't matter.
It’s all about security for her
I think one of women's most common mistakes is misunderstanding how to negotiate. like that woman threatening to become more abusive to their husband if they can't get a no fault divorce. but you can't make that threat if you've already been acting as evil as possible. your back is against the wall.
Never again. A good man here. Super husband. Hard worker. I busted my ass for my family. Faithful trusting, and got cheated on, lied too, accused of poisoning her. Took my kids, half my stuff. I even had proof of it all. I had to pay for the divorce too. Sorry burned so bad that I’ll never marry or have kids again. Guys don’t do it. I took us out of debt. Paid everything off. Supported her career success and more while working 60/80hours a week. Lost friendships due to false accusations even though it was proven false. Woman look down on divorce men. Shame you. Last 3 years dating. Has been a joke. List of 6s, and other higher then realistic standards.
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I think the boon of removing nofault divorce is that by women knowing they dont have an easy out they will be forced to have a mindset to actually put into their relationships to make themselves happy rather than being leeches who can leave whenever desired.
and now that the average 30 year old woman has a body count of 50, they just have no idea how to do that.
Most of the divorces of friends and family are a result of some form of "I'm not fulfilled in this marriage" by the wife. No real reason, just the grass is greener over there and I'm missing out. Getting rid of no fault would probably start forcing women to actually find other ways to be fulfilled within the marriage.
Marriage is the women leeching off men. So I wasn't born to be a begger or using people, this was never a good moral idea.
@@shaolinotterwhat is your body count?
Go Erin!
We need this change in family court law. The divorcing spouse of a no fault divorce must leave the home without the kids.
No reward for the person divorcing in a no fault divorce.
Any abuse needs to have verifiable, physical evidence and should be treated as a criminal case.
Saying mean words is not a crime.
I think this would stop people from divorcing so readily.
And it would prevent going back to the expensive, traumatic and long litigation inherent in 'fault' divorces.
Women need to stop expecting to be happy in marriage. Kids need an emotionally stable, mature and responsible mother. Not a spoiled brat demanding everyone make her happy or else.
Then you need to be willing to accept not being happy in the marriage as well. Just because you aren't getting what you want doesn't mean you go outside the vows.
What no fault divorce does is make people think before they marry in the first place. No women should marry if they don't want to lose their own assets nor should a man marry to lose his own assets. Ladies if it is his house it's his not yours. It will never be yours. Your a guest.
So your saying women should expect to never have a shot at happiness ever. Should we just accept being depressed and sad and broken our entire lives. We shouldn't be allowed to be happy ever. If that is a fact then why marry.
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No. No-fault divorce clearly made it easy for people to NOT think before marrying. How could you look at people’s choices and reasons for divorce and come to the conclusion that no-fault in any way gave people a reason to think before marriage?
@@phoenixtoash2396 Bravo thank you dear lady
2nd crazy lady was confusing no fault divorce, for a hostage situation, it’s appalling how twisted their minds are, but like Erin pointed out, if you’re all up in your feelings of unhappiness, you can leave, but you don’t get the house, the kids, nor half of anything because you broke your vows. That’s it.
You're an absolute gem FFE.
No fault: If BOTH spouses agree to some divorce settlement FINE!! The problem is the courts getting involved in dishing out cash.
Marriage is a life-long pledge. (R.I.P. Cathy) It was for me. Should be for everyone.
Right on.
Doesn't matter. The best family laws you can think of wouldn't make these women marriage material.
Divorce completely contradicts Sacred Scripture, particularly the New Testament.
Only allowed for abuse n abandonment but too many times the government n society allows them to lie bout abuse without proof. Also abuse against the husband is not taken seriously.
@@sunsoza8320and adultery. Which many men commit, not just women
@@hopeful5825 yes i agree but nowadays more women commit adultery then men. Times have changed.
I've had a divorce and will never have one again. I would have no problem pledging the rest of my days if I found a worthy woman but I'll never get married under the eyes of the law, nor live in a state that has common law marriage on the books. I'm sure there are trustworthy women out there but there no way to identify who they are. Too much to risk in all ways.
Exactly.
I got married, she divorced 18 months later, she said I did nothing wrong. Married, first day she said she lied to me so I would marry her. Right away she wanted to date another man. She told me she got married to me to divorce me and get money.
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Dayum im srry brother
She admitted that?? I hope she got nothing!! What happened in the end man? Don't leave us hangin'
This should be chargeable as marital fraud
Abuse would be fault divorce which would stay applicable. If no fault divorce is repealed then perhaps women won’t want to marry in the first place and make mgtow easier. Go the bears and 4B. I agree Erin, if you want out, you should only be allowed personal affects.
Do not care about position, money, or assets. I care about body count, morals, respect, and loyalty !
100 fucking %
This applies to you as well.
@@phoenixtoash2396 absolutely
"Whoever invented the term 'soul mate' divorce lawyers should be paying them dividends." -James Sexton (divorce attorney)
There are no good women, as long as these divorce and alimony laws exist. A so-called good woman will turn evil when she realizes she can take everything in a no-fault divorce. As long as the Government gets their cut from alimony and child support payments, these laws will never change. Don't get married or live with a woman. There are laws that allow a woman to take everything from you, even without marriage, just by living with her long enough. It's a common law marriage.
Hi FAR FROM EDEN, I sure enjoy your content. God bless you.
Whether you love or hate someone is a choice. Love is not a feeling. It is a choice.
Get rid of no fault divorce for those silly enough to get married.
Agreed
God introduced marriage for the purpose of a family unit. God would not take kindly to men disregarding this sacred act simply because they're too busy whinging about women because they can't find one, or they search for the wrong marital partner. Men and women are equal in God's eyes. Marriage is a union of that equality with both in the marriage having different roles. The trouble is men blaming women is exactly what Adam did, yet he was still punished. Men like you are Adam. Still blaming the woman and God because you refuse to be accountable, then carry on that women don't want to be accountable. Both are to blame when a marriage falls apart unless one is the abuser or adulterer. Don't put yourself above God. That's what Satan attempted to do.
@@Starlight-AGyou're agreeing to Satan who hates marriage
If vows can be withdrawn on a whim, then they're meaningless.
What of drivers licenses and passports could be withdrawn on a whim?
What if your bank called in your home loan on a whim?
So... what we're doing is abolishing agreements, right?
Technically the bank can call your mortgage in at any time. There were a lot of farmers that had that happen in the 1980's. The banks were in danger of going under due to loans to mega farms and to save their asses they screwed over a lot of smaller farms.
Removing no fault divorce doesn't remove fault divorce. Abuse is under a fault. Whether it's from the man or from the woman. Financial abuse, no sex marriages, child abuse, refusing to live together, inconsolable religious differences and many more are under causes of 'fault'. Still plenty of ways to get rid of your man. But no fault means you cannot get divorced just 'because'. You need to meet the requirements set by the State you live in.
"Do you really want to be married to a woman that hates you?"
If she hates me, why the hell did she marry me?! She could have said no - she SHOULD have said no, if she hates me!
Make the wedding license include a copy of the vows and enforce those vows as contract law. Include the reasons that are allowed for divorce.
Amen! Preach it sister! My ex claimed I abused her and our children, cheated on her, and refused to pay child support despite me sending her money every month. If I had not been able to prove it was all a lie, I would have been busted to E-1 with no pay, placed in a military prison and then discharged dishonorably while I was stationed in Germany. Despite being able to prove she lied about it all, the courts still ruled in her favor and then would not hold her in contempt when I proved that she was withholding visitation and attempting to hide them. Even though it was clear in the divorce decree that neither of us would interfere with the relationship with the children, and that each of us was responsible for informing the other if there were any change to our contact information. She did neither repeatedly, and the courts did nothing. Eventually she got a judge to strip me of my parental rights to our youngest child based completely on lies. Yet the judge accused me of lying despite the evidence. As far as I am concerned, no fault divorce needs to be eliminated. Marriage is the only contract in this country where the person who breaks or violates the contract gets rewarded, and that is due to No Fault Divorce.
The family court system has not caught up with modern realities. The contemporary North American Criminal Justice/Social climate is very much slanted. The courts still treat women as if their economic wellbeing is dependent on the man (it’s not like that anymore.) We risk losing more than half of everything we’ve slaved to earn, and around half of what we will earn. The courts still treat women as victims. If a woman say’s, “He raped/beat me” (1) we are seen as guilty in the public’s eye. Any lawyer worth their salt will tell you when a client sits in the defendant’s chair the jury sees them as 50/50 guilty/innocent. That’s a big jump “innocent until proven guilty.” A false rape claim is not merely an attack on a man’s character. It’s an attempt to kidnap, imprison, emotionally torture, and destroy an innocent man. (BTW, this comes at the cost of the credibility of all women who truly endure such horrors.) It is a profoundly evil act and yet there are rarely any real consequences for women who make false rape claims. (2) If co-habitating, we will be barred from our own house immediately and without a judge's decision (LET THAT SINK IN! WHERE ARE YOU GONNA LIVE?). (3) We will be suspended from our job pending the legal outcome. It might take a year or more. (4) We might have our beloved kids taken away. Put yourself in our shoes. How'd YOU like THAT woman? (That's role reversal for the purposes of understanding.) PROVE US WRONG. PLEASE! The laws need to change.
“He wasn’t meeting my emotional needs” is all a woman needs to say to justify destroying a family. “I signed the pre-nup under duress” is all a woman needs to say to get one thrown out. About 65% of marriages fail and about 77% of divorces are initiated by the woman. It’s not the men who are destroying families. Overwhelmingly, it is the women who are destroying families. Yet they show the insanity to deny it. The truth is, in many ways, modern North American women are the most privileged in history. And they wonder why smart men are walking away from this whole mess. They want the privileges and would rather shame men into conforming into doing whatever they’re told to do, and believe whatever they are told to believe. Men see this as manipulation. IT IS. It is also evil. Women like this are not worth our vow. That vow is one they, overwhelmingly, are responsible for breaking. Many Modern North American men see many modern North American women demonstrate behaviors that prove their bad values, wrong expectations, wrong worldview, and abhorred attitude for a relationship, let alone marriage material.
Resources men spent their life building, can cruelly be snatched away from us by sneering lawyers, judges, and their own wives, desperate to abandon them at their first opportunity that another richer man comes along. Smug, twisted smiles of greed and barely concealed hatred accompany the clawed hands, grabbing hungrily at the fruits of the man's labor, the sweat off his back & brow, meant to be shared by a loving couple raising a family, now cruelly stolen away by unfeeling harpies screeching for more even as their ill-gotten gains, overflowing their grasp, tumble to the ground all around them. All while the judges self-righteously admonish the men that if they don't pay regularly, and on time, their very freedom will be taken from them. And they still must pay, even when under lock and key, unable to toil for the resources that (so many, but not all) women covet so selfishly.
Men do NOT walk away to teach other people a lesson. We walk away because we finally learned a few of our own.
I wear knee pads at work. Women ignore me.
Yes.... the video is right.... many gals are throwing a temper tantrum that they cannot ruin a family for their own benefit. They do not honor their vows.
Thanks for discussing this! I completely agree. Wife left me cuz she was unhappy. Told me all our memories together were “tainted” as if her current unhappiness invalidated her vows and all the great memories we built together
It's so interesting hearing your translations. They use multi-level manipulative language.
Do these women understand that abuse would fall under "fault"?
Yea, but that would be ACTUAL abuse. Not everything that women want to CLAIM is abuse these days.
Personally I think there should be marriage insurance for men. That way in case she files for no good reason and a man has to give up half his stuff away he can be reimbursed and live a normal life.
That would be like insuring 90 yeas old against death. It happens to too many people for it to work.
How about just don’t get married…if it is not broken, then do not fix it…
State gathered and enforced Child support is cruel and unusual punishment that leads to state facilitated financial abuse and family division.
Absolutely! And given how corrupt the state tends to be, it becomes a bedrock "feature" and not a "bug".
Doesn't no fault divorce swing both ways... then why aren't men freaking out... oh I know, because divorce isn't part of their original marriage plan 😂
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Maybe it's just me but the attitude of alot of women is a clear sign men need to be very careful in regards to marriage.
No one will stop you from divorcing. You just won't get his money without cause.
God, From the very beginning has always made marriage til death does you part, divorce dows not end the marriage vows. Proverbs 31 woman is what men need and women need a man to love them as Christ loves the church.
What does it really mean for "a man to love them as Christ loves the church."? You mean the way that Jesus talks about in Revelation 3:19?
They should allow no fault divorce, but if there's no fault then there's no payments
I want her to understand the gravity of making a VOW. also if she is going to get half my money, I should AT LEAST have a servant (to use her descriptor).
Anyone else feel stuck in hot water, or caught between 2 fires as you will? Where you want warmth, love, companionship and the ability to raise a family on one side, but distrust women and fear they will manipulate, lie, abuse, gaslight and leave you (broken)? I don't think MGTOW is the answer altho I can definitely empathize with people who follow this path. Shouldn't we work towards healing? Make men and women want each other again and form genuine connections again? Where did it all go so wrong...
Women are only capable of true love if they pair bond with you. If they have had any partners before you, there will be no love. There was actually a Stanford study years ago that showed the more partners a woman has, the less sensitive her oxytocin receptors in the brain. This means, quite literally, the more partners she has, the less capable she is of loving her partners and even her offspring. Hence why high school sweethearts usually have the greatest connections.
im quite grateful to be freed from this fallen society. im sure many men agree with you, but many others were only doing their duty to their people, and are fine with doing their hobbies instead.
like they say, feminism has freed men not women
"Love" is a RomCom Hollywood fantasy. It's not what you think it is. It's a tool used to control you. Companionship, get a dog. Warmth? Turn on the furnace.
Things will change. Don't give up. Just wait a year or two. Be patient.
Absolutely !!!!! But this current crop of narcissistic women have to expire first !!!
One way or another, no fault divorce is going. Either man ends no fault divorce or God will just end divorce.
You had me up to supporting P25. Good luck with the channel, lady
Regan himself said no fault divorce was his biggest mistake.
However, there was supposedly a lot of couples going to extreme lengths to get the fault divorces.
My idea: get the government out of marriage. If she is accustomed to a lifestyle, she why I she divorcing it.
They had no fault divorce later in the Roman Empire and this was one of the things that bought the Empire down !
I hate the term "No fault" If there is no fault. Then why is your marriage in trouble. Also, no fault means in most states adultery doesn't matter. How insane as adulty is literally a break in marriage vows. Abuse is a factory in divorce and can be used.
I subscribed after watching you and Terrence pop in a video today. His comedy literally saved my life when I was ready to give up. I am ex-military and divorced. His humor gave me hope, and because of that, I made it through everything. I wrote him a letter thanking him and he read it on one of his episodes a few years ago. I have my daughter. She's healthy and well adjusted. My ex wife is now jail... again. She is like the Borg.
Until alimony and child support sre abolish men wont be getting married like that.
The issue aint divorce. Its the fsct she can leave anytime she wants you be financially on the hook to help her out.
Only finances go for my household only. Not outside
Yeah, Gen z women by and large aren't conservative. GEN Z overall is more conservative because young men have swung hard to the right. Young women are leaning even further left, at least for now
Now let's find some WOMEN that actually would WANT most MEN now!
Don't be a fool. Women always want men. Stop acting like the feminists speak for all women. There's plenty of decent men and women out there if you get out of the basement and go look
"The effort to end no-fault divorce has a disproportionate effect on women."
Yeah, that's because women stand to make disproportionate gains in no-fault divorces!
My wife left 8 months into our marriage when I became paralyzed in an accident while working overtime to pay off her wedding ring. She told everyone she left because of abuse. Our joint attorney asked how I abused her. She said that a couple times I said she was nagging me . The attorney laughed and asked her if she was nagging me when I said it. She said yes.
"Anyone in the court system with an abuser"
Sweetheart... the irony.
Recriminalize adultery
and sexlessness / forced celibacy
@@melkerner no i mean thats, no more sickness-es thats atleast a good thing, no chance of getting someone pregnant, no more people saying what you say, (i dont agree with it) soo, but it is what it is, nothing wrong with s or f c
Yes but only if it is defined as the bible defines it. Adultery is when a man sleeps with another mans wife. That is the biblical definition....