DAY IN THE LIFE | Changing Identity in Motherhood
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- Опубліковано 12 тра 2024
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I would argue that this is your channel and you can post whatever the heck you want. Of course you’re naturally a very considerate person and you want people who find your content to be encouraged and inspired by it, but I think that is happening no matter what. You have no idea who I am and I am always encouraged and inspired by you. You are so genuine and I find your personality to be such a light in the darkness that is the internet. Keep being your lovely self!
Thank you! I will! I’m glad you’re here. 💛
I hope this doesn’t sound condescending, but I’m really proud of you for all you’ve been doing lately! I think it’s so important for us as moms to remember who we are as humans, outside of being parents. I have been watching your channel for the past 3.5 years and have enjoyed you as a person, not just as a mom. Thank you for always being thoughtful in your content creation!!
Not condescending at all! I appreciate your support 💛
As a Mother who can't have anymore children, it's refreshing to watch a mother who is finding their own identity as themselves. I've watched many UA-camrs over the years starting from when I had my son in 2019 and they are still pumping out kid after kid and I find them so unrelatable now. Your content is amazing, it's made me try hobbies I never would have imagined doing. I grew flowers this year thanks to you. Please don't be discouraged by the comments because you're amazing xx
I don't think you've talked about your book excessively at all. You vlog your life, and it is a part of your life currently, of course you should be excited and share it with us! I've been LOVING the current content ❤
Megan you are such a light & I seriously look forward to your videos every week! Anyone commenting hateful things (respectfully) has no place in this community. Being a mom is the hardest job in the world, and it will always be a part of us. We should be celebrating that and not dismissing it. I hope someone picks up your book soon so we can all support you in a real way!! ❤
Thank you so much for being so kind 💛
As a mom who is also done having babies and entering the era of toddlers growing into kids, I am here for this content! I promise you haven't lost all of us :)
Some people only want one facet of a person’s personality, which is like saying they only like a single cut on a beautifully carved jewel with several facets that shine in their own way. I honestly am not into the gardening or cottage core type content, but I watch anyways because I’m a mother trying to find my own tastes and hobbies same as several others in this community. I love seeing how implementing changing styles and growth and hard periods shapes people and it can all be inspiring even if I don’t share those same trends or goals or choices. I also have an English degree and am trying to figure out how to write while raising three very young kiddos and it’s not easy to find the time or passion for it even though there’s always thousands of ideas running through my head. Seeing your passion doesn’t feel promotional to me; to me you’re sharing my own fears, victories, and wishes when you talk about writing and querying. For those mean commenters; our lives will never look the same and our interests will never be the same. I watch because I love every facet of the Jewel called Life that’s being polished and shaped in these vlogs.
Beautifully said. Good luck with your writing! 💛
Finding identity outside of motherhood is such a game changer! I’m so glad you found writing again! And idk about you but seeing someone so passionate about something even if it’s not something I’m doing is contagious. I’ve found it encouraging to continue finding myself outside of motherhood. It’s so hard to “win” on the internet. And I feel like people are extra critical these days.
The people we are outside of motherhood is so interesting to me and something I love seeing here!
It’s hard work to keep or find that identity!
Congratulations on already getting a positive response to your query letter! So impressive! And please keep sharing updates about your book. As an aspiring writer and first time mom to a 5 month old, I'm in the season where writing keeps getting put on the back burner. You inspire me and help me have faith that there will be time in the future to come back to writing.
Five months! Congratulations! Yes you will get your identity outside of motherhood back.
I completely resonate with you on needing an identity outside of motherhood. sometimes I shame myself when I feel like I’m being selfish or not finding enough fulfillment in my role as a mother, but it’s really important to feel like a human being too. I always remind myself he is only little for so long and I will soak it up too, but I have to feel like a human even in these years. having personal projects and goals gives us purpose. being a mama is a full time job and motherhood doesn’t have to be what fills our cup all the time. its valuable and valid to have other things that fulfill us.
I feel like people are going to judge regardless. Do what's best for you, if it feeds your soul and it makes you happy then that's that. I love your content, it's very wholesome.
I’m so glad you like it! Thank you for being here. 💛
The one on one talk was so great!! I think it's awesome that you found something that makes you happy. I don't think it seems like you have been selling it at all. It's just genuine excitement!!❤
Exactly! I’m glad you liked it. 💛
I am normally a silent viewer, but wanted to share that I am also working on a manuscript and I find it really encouraging and inspiring to hear that other people are doing it too. Most people in my circle aren't readers, let alone writers, so I appreciate you sharing your experience!
I’m grateful for your journey in every regard! i’m simultaneously finding facets of me outside of motherhood, and it’s refreshing to see your different hobbies. Your channel and Embers and Ash are inspiration to me to continue trying new things that fill my cup and help me be a more present mother! I’m amazed at how kind you are to even the trolls, what a queen 👑❤️
Hate that you received those rude comments. It’s amazing that you have been working on this piece of your identity as a writer and that you are so excited to share it! Of course you are excited! Totally makes sense :)
I hope it works out!
PLEASE DONT STOP TALKING ABOUT YOUR BOOK! Love hearing about your passions !
I never comment on UA-cam. This would be my first time. I am a fairly new mom and I love how you incorporate your hobbies with motherhood. My husband has been writing a novel for years and it is very dear to him. There’s something exciting about creating a your own. Keep up the good work. Writing a novel is something to be proud of no matter what happens.
Megan, I feel as if you are speaking directly to me about finding identity outside of motherhood! I have been a SAHM for 11 years, it was my entire identity for that time. Now my little one is going to kinder this fall and I will have much more time on my hands. I'm looking to find my identity by going back to teaching again. After 11 years, I hope to be back in the classroom and be mom and teacher, not just mom. Your writing, my teaching; here's to new beginnings for us!
I’m right in the middle of that “identity” crisis myself! My husband and I have a 17 month old as well as a 2.5 month old…and my entire life is being a mama (I say that with the biggest smile and fullest heart). I have the sweatshirts, the necklaces, and even a Mother’s Day gift from my hubby with our boys’ initials in the chain of the necklace…and you’re absolutely right…there’s so much PRIDE in being “Mama” to our boys!!!! Plus it was our older baby’s first word 😊 But I do feel like I’ve lost parts of myself along the way. I’ve been a CNA since 2019 and have been dreaming of the day I’d finish my RN program….you are very relatable to me right now. We also want one final baby in a couple of years, so I’m desperately trying to find that balance of “rockstar mama” and just “Pamela”. Thank you for sharing! I needed this video today ❤️
Not a book girly, my adhd won’t let me focus on one! but I love how passionate you are about yours! Definitely here for YOU! ❤️
I deleted the app off my phone for personal reasons. Whenever it feels right I will log on and catch up on your content. I’m digging it! I’m in a similar place, having two toddlers who’ve had my brain the last few years. It’s feeling like a reawakening figuring out who I am again. There isn’t a lot of content out there about this time in a person’s life and for that I’m really thankful you’re talking about it.
Im not into book stuff but its so great to see your passion for it! I dont feel you talk about it too much and definitely dont feel u are trying to sell it to us. Things change over the yrs as your kids grow through their seasons of life and u change and grow with them and find yourself and your interests again and new passions. We need to have them too as our kids get older and independent. I love all the home and garden stuff u do. Dont change anything ❤
I really appreciate how you fully accept the mom part of your identity while still focusing on other passions. It doesn't have to be all or nothing and that's a great reminder!
Do whatever you want to! It's your channel..
I'm not into books or gardening and I love seeing your kids (Juniper is about 2 weeks older than my son).... But I still watch all your videos!
Just be you and do what you want to.
I actually think how the kettle looks now its burnt, gives it more character. I feel like you can imagine it's been well used and loved by people throughout the years, or maybe that's too deep and I need to stop reading books 😂
I'm sorry you get comments about being seen as 'not-mumming' enough just because you don't film all of that type of content. Or talking about your book a lot. Please ignore comments like that. We are so proud of you, we understand you are a full time mum even if we're not seeing it 100% of the time. We love that you've found something you're passionate about and love hearing about your journey with writing. This is your channel, your life. We're just here for the ride ❤
I love seeing you and all about your job, interest you have, gardening, & your book. I would love to read your book. I love seeing your children as well and love seeing crafts you do with your kids. I am a mom of three daughters and they are older 24,22, & 20. I love babies and worked at a pediatric office and loved the newborns. I hope the rest of your day is as great as the am. 😘🤗💕
I love whatever u feel you want to share! It’s nice to see the seasons in someone’s life!
As someone who also loves writing and wishes to someday publish something I get your excitement and don't mind hearing about it one bit. Please continue to update us 😊
I am in my “toddler-to-who am I” mom era. I get it. You’re doing great! Appreciate you ❤
I would like to thank you so much! We are both in very similar times in our journey of life and your videos have seriously helped me a lot. I'm so happy that you are finding new hobbies and things that make you, you! I'm just started this journey for myself and I'm so happy I have your channel to guide me on different things that I could do and try. You're amazing! Keep growing and have a great journey!
Megan i loved this vlog!❤ your so inspiring! And girl, you so mom it up! Proof is in the pudding when in the beggining Matt gave you praise for what you did. We know your an amazing mom, vlog what you want! I love them all that you post!❤ and for the record, you do not talk about your book a lot. It is not the main topics of your channel. Love you sister and god bless you and your family!
Be proud of you’re accomplishments and interests. You’re a great mom but also have wonderful talents. Love to hear about book
I full support keeping the kiddos off the internet...keep those babies safe.
I am here for the journey, my two kids are each a year younger than yours. Also, just to throw it out there my husband publishes books and I am sure he would love to read your stuff.
To salvage the copper kettle, cook something tomato based, like tomato soup (Campbell’s is pretty inexpensive) put the kettle in the hot soup and it should clean the copper pretty well. Learned this when growing up with copper bottom pans.
Post whatever you want! I know it can be a bummer to see the numbers not go up or even go stale, because only certain people are here for certain things but guess what? All of the ones that have been here forever (like me) have watched you and your channel grow! I love to see it evolve and I love to see your hobbies come through and be out into this world. I’m currently in the trenches with a baby and I love watching your channel as a pick me up. No matter the content.
I think it’s so important that as mothers we have an identity and interests outside of motherhood. Good for you for being able to write a book - I applaud you . Anyone who can’t see that is projecting ❤
I personally don’t think you talk about your book enough. I’m a big romantacy reader and I’m so eager to read your book. I hope you make it available for purchase to your subs one day even if you never end up publishing it!
I’m not a bookish person at all; but I don’t mind listening to you speaking about it! You go girl ❤️
3 outfits a day club here!!
Woohoo! 💛
Really proud of you for keeping the channel authentically you even when the kid content is the "money maker" so to speak! I love the book updates, it would be cool to get to read it one day!
I love your channel and I love your way of doing things.Dont listen to the downers in the world.they are different and see things differently. You hang in there and keep that head high.you are blessed with your children and I hope your book gets the award for the best ever.keep smiling dear friend .
Rejection means you’re that much closer to greatness! You are amazing. I can’t wait to see you continue to grow. You’ve grown so much 💛 🌸
I didn’t think that at all until you said it and then I was like…. You did heaps of mumming in the 22 minutes that you showed us. Don’t worry. You are a great mum.
Always love your content! And thank you so much for sharing this transition phase of motherhood and its aspect of your identity as a human, I’m in the same stage of life with a three and 1 year old at home and just starting to feel like I can begin to find my own self again and get to explore who I’d like that person to be. And also as an aspiring writer and creator - just thank you for sharing! Relatability makes us feel so seen ♥️
Just wanted to say that I'm loving all the book content! I just finally got back into reading again and hearing how the publishing process goes on the back end is soooo interesting to me; I'd love to read it if it gets out there!
I started watching your videos a few months before getting pregnant and I'm now a mom to a 5 month old who still looks forward to watching your new videos every week. I'm really sorry you're receiving rude comments!
Baking soda paste is normally a thing for copper cleaning!
Hecking internet. You are absolutely allowed to change and also have facets to your personality! This is your space that you choose to share with us. Also, you're one of two people that I actually watch the entirety of your videos through- so...-shrug- take that for what you will.
Has there been a newsletter sent out since 4/19? I got the first few but haven’t in a few weeks!
Couple of things.
I appreciate hearing about your book journey. As a new mom that had to step away from the business she built and watch my husband rock it from afar, i am also struggling with this season of identity. My version of imposter syndrome is all mixed up with feeling like a bad woman for not trying to juggle work and home making when i have no outside help and cannot swing childcare even for parts of the day or week. My job used to be helping others and now I'm only here to help my little guy. It feels equally wonderful to get to focus on him and also like i should be doing more. Even though your journey is so different from mine, i get to be motivated by you and apply the lessons your leaning to my own version of life.
Secondly. I'm worried about your kettle. I know no details on it but can't not share... Hubby gifted me this beautiful chopper kettle that he felt was safe since it was lined. I had a mom intuition moment and decided to test the kettle water with a standard heavy metals strip test (off amazon) and it came back with elevated levels that would be toxic. Turns out that while the lining is tin, the welds are poisonous. My fingers are crossed for you that your beautiful kettle is not the same and that you can figure out how to save it. I can only think of a lmon juice and baking soda paste soak and scrub. But that's just a lay-woman thought. Not anything I've known to work from a similar situation.
Longest comment ever. Lastly, you rock. Love you lots. Thanks for giving me a friend in this super isolated time in my life.
Keeping a house with two toddlers is not easy, I can attest to this 😅. If my place stays clean for more than 2 days, I’m grateful 😂.
Loving your content 👌🏾!
It’s an eternal struggle!
@@MeganAcuna We gotta pick & choose our battles wisely!
Hi Megan! I love everything that you share and post. I am a mom as well and I am inspired 👉👈 ✨ I am shy to comment but yea ☺
Thank you for commenting! I’m so glad I can inspire you 💛
@@MeganAcuna You made my day replying wuwu 💖
You may have mentioned this before but what do you do for quiet time with Rowan? My 3 year old is refusing his naps but I can’t picture him being content just sitting in his crib for an hour not sleeping!
Personally I stopped watching the book recommendation video because it became apparent that we have different taste in books lol.. but enjoy all the other videos.. clicked so fast on the clean video and the remodel video.. and as a mom who doesn't share her child on the internet you do what's best for you
I watch all your videos and you never gave that impression about your book. Of course you are excited, it’s not even available to buy so how could you be marketing it… lol 😂some people just want to find issues.
You are doing a great job and I love whatever you want to put out
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