I've watched the video and now I know I am in fact all of these. I am drained during social interaction, I'm terrified of social interaction, I'd much rather live in my own little world in my head, and I have 0 energy to do things.
Introvert anxious people be like: - Start typing a comment "Oh this video is so relatable, anyone else here feeling like this too?" - Then frantically erase it and try again to come up with something better, ten times. - End up not commenting at all as this might be perceived as boring.
I think I’m the Anxious Introvert. My brain is constantly saying: Hey, remember that one slightly embarrassing thing you did 5 years ago that only you remember? Let’s think about that for several painful hours.
This is my social life: 1) want to socialize 2) spots a person I can socialize with 3)thinks about the conversation over and over again 4)hates socializing, doesn't socialize for months
The ironic thing about the thinking introverts is that they don't even need to take the test, since their self awareness allows them to instantly identify which type of introvert they are.
"The thinking introvert is so in their own minds that they don't have time to deal with the outside world." Me - (was staring into space) What? Gotta replay that
When you can't even quite remember how you tend to act around people because you've been at home for so long that the idea of socializing feels like a distant, half forgotten dream
I just guessed on the questions that asked “among a group of friends” or other scenarios I haven’t experienced. Not sure if I should’ve scored a 3 instead of guessing.
Dude if i don't spend 5 minutes thinking about what I'll say, only bullshit comes out. If i think about what i want to say, i choke on my words. Once i forgot 3 languages at the same time and only remembered what i wanted to say in german. Wtf.
@@LOVEACTUALLY-23 A lot of us don’t really. I have some people I can talk to in school that might be considered “friends” but other than that I don’t really interact socially with anyone, apart from discord though, I don’t know what I’d do without it. I only have 2/3 online friends but the when the loneliness gets to u it helps a lot. I just spend most of the time playing video games and watching anime or UA-cam.
@@genski657 Yeah text writing is all I’m able to do sadly. Bit awkward when 2 of them are voice chatting and I’m sitting in the channel but typing lol.
@@MinesweepActual I'm different. If I comment, I study the comment section and if most people misspell words or don't use proper grammar, than I follow suit
Yes same! Sometimes I just sit near someone and think up an entire long conversation, then I'll realise that we haven't talked to each other for like fifteen minutes and I feel like they're judging me
Usual I do this at 2 in the morning, planning out 3 or 4 conversations and then never ending up in the situation to use them. Even though I remember them. Now I have all of them in my head and it’s like information overload
as an anxious introvert diagnosed with social anxiety disorder, when you said "that thing i did in second grade" i was reminded of that thing i did in second grade. :(
@@VanillaTried i Wrote mine a love Letter in 5th grade and the Whole school Knew about it afterwards, i‘m still thinking about it even Tho i Changed Schools twice already.....
I scored high on the social and thinking side and low on the anxious and restrained side which is what I expected. I am rather introspective and don't enjoy too much social interaction. It does not make me anxious, I just don't care for it too much. I am fine with limited, individual conversations but hate large group settings.
i'm the introvert that is so socially awkward, they're too scared to go into their own garden because they think "their neighbours will be looking out of the windows and be silently judging them"
Relateable. Everytime I went out to buy groceries or just went out to get the mail, I can't stop thinking that everyone is judging me even when they're not. I'd rather stay at home. T^T
I can’t tell you HOW many times I’ve wanted to add a comment but stopped myself, or posted it and taking it down 2 minutes later. Sometimes I feel bold and will put it out, and then 30 minutes later I’m like “why did I do that why did I do that take it down now” and have to go back into my viewing history and delete it. Edit: this has been up for 1 minute and I haven’t taken it down. Let’s see how long I last. Edit 2: ayy folks it’s been 5 days all the 65 people who liked this believe in yourself! Your comments will be appreciated! Besides, remember... you’re anonymous. This is a mystery platform. Say what you want to say. Be free.
I’m an extrovert with anxiety. I’ve been asked if I’m sure I’m an extrovert many times. Yup. Yup. I am sure. Just this dumb anxiety at war with my personality. Woo hoo.
As a former anxious introvert nobody wanted to be around me because of it lol I’ve somehow managed to become a social introvert by working on coping with my anxiety around other people
seriously it was just a tiny mistake, nobody was even noticed that WHY CAN'T I MOVE ON????!!!!!!!!! My brain is my biggest enemy. I sense another sleepless night coming......
I feel with you. I can still remember the day when my "Mistake" happens. i know exactly what happened and i hate me for this. but i can't solve this problem. every time i want to clear it i feel into a Nervous breakdown. yes the Brain is the End boss from the Game called: Life.
I still remember a "mistake" i did in 4th grade that every body forgot and it wasn't even a big deal, i pushed a girl back then AND I FEEL LIKE I NEED TO SAY SORRY, but I'll look weird cause it was 8 years ago
@@fandeadvirus3816 My doctor tells me to listen to music or just have white noise when I'm going to sleep because if I'm in complete silence I can't fall asleep. I would love to have my brain shut up for once 😂
Anxious introvert for sure. This is the best explanation of what it's like that I have ever heard. It's rather difficult to deal with, and the anxiety is constant, but I accept it. Awesome video!
I sometimes think the concept of "alone" or "being alone" isn't when my own imagination is my best and only friend. Rather it's when I'm surrounded by a crowd of people, yet cannot immerse in a conversation nor be excited or relaxed enough to think to myself.
I too only feel lonely when I'm surrounded with a lot of people. I only remember feeling lonely while alone once in my life. It only lasted for about an hour and was happening while I was in a bad place in my life. When I got help, I was a recluse again. I think it is happening because that's when we see ourselves as different from the people around us, which is not OK in the setting. It is exactly the place where the conformity reigns. If you are different than others (extroverts tend to be there more) then you will feel it.
I'm the "am I an introvert because I like to spend time alone and practice my favorite activities? But I don't hate people, I mean, I love people, but I also love my space" introvert. Edit : after a lot of learning about mbti and stuff I think I am an ISFP :)
@@joltrify I get you. When i was new in all this stuff from Myers-Briggs, i thought i was an ENTJ (I didn't knew so much about it. Now it's cristal clear that i'm NOT an intuitive one 😂). But whenever i did the quiz, i got ESFJ. I thought "Ok, maybe ENFJ or ESTJ, but ESFJ? Never". I wasn't convinced since i learned about the cognitive functions from each type. And yes, i'm highly a Fe dominant and a Si auxiliary. Anyways, don't trust too much on online tests. Frank told in a lot of his videos that if you wanna know which your type is, you should read about all the types and about the Cognitive Functions
I remember there was a period in my life. I lived in a hostel for half a year. I work on a computer, so I often woke up, ate, sat down with a laptop in the common room and worked. At the same time, there was always another guy who, like me every day, sat down in the same room on the next sofa every morning and also did something at the computer. For all six months we have never spoken to him. No kidding, absolutely never. We sat opposite each other, at a distance of a couple of meters, but did not say a word to each other. And it felt ... just comfortable. None of us tried to strike up a conversation, none of us felt uncomfortable. When I was leaving this hostel, I went up to him, held out my hand and said goodbye. It was perhaps the best friendship of my life.
I'm reminded of Ron Swanson's experience with a coworker. "I once worked with a guy for 3 years and never learned his name. Best friend I ever had. We still never talk sometimes."
I'm sorry to say this but this is beyond being introverted, this is actually rudeness. This is on an extreme level, even for an introvert, actually. I'm an introvert and I would feel worthless around people who see me everyday without even saying "How are you?". I would definitely say a couple of words to someone I see everyday until I realize they are not comfortable with that, which I would find rude. I would not be comfortable with that type of introversion.
I’m like a combination of all, I avoid socializing because it causes me anxiety, I scratch my hands and feel scared of talking with people, that’s why I enjoy being in my own world, and don’t like others disturbing the peace I have in my own mind
My results: Social introversion - 43 points Thinking introversion - 44 points Anxious introversion - 46 points Restrained introversion - 37 points I'm just a big introvert I guess...
@@math0_o461 you answer questions and you get points... But that's not a problem When you will finish... There are special questions.. You have to replace those points... When you answered this question with 4 points than you have to replace it with 2 points... But not all questions... Just the special ones... I didn't get it at first too... I hope you understand me ( English isn't my main language)
Guess I'm the anxious introvert. Literally every human interaction I can remember makes me cringe. I find it great that there are people can relate to, helps me feel less lonely.
@Kedamono You can find a way better answer on Google... but for me, I'd say being an introvert is more...me being me. I quite like being alone instead of going out on parties or whatever, and unless it's with strangers, I can get quite talktative. It just flows with my life. With Social Anxiety... its like my life is controlled by it... Because of it I quit 3 different schools, not being able to stay there. I can't make friends and get close to anyone, even if I feel so lonely and really want one. It's better now but years ago I couldn't even go to the shop alone, couldn't talk to strangers at all. Im ranting, but the difference is that social anxiety controls me.
Me: - social, likes to help - hates small talk but loves talking to my bff - feels anxious when with people that aren't my bff - hates it when I'm different to the crowd - likes to have a really low amount of relationships - is analyzing everyone but hates it when people think (or even talk) about me - feels anxious before going somewhere were people are - regrets things I did in kindergarden - is always in my inner world - thinks about everything - hates it when people are facile (is this the right word for it? If this sentence makes no sense, please correct me (I'm not a native speaker)) - experiences everything anywhere mentioned in the video help
Let's not go and put blame on extroverts, alright? We have our odds, they have theirs! We're doing best together while respecting each others quirks and needs!
I'm considered an introvert according to MBTI, and I agree with the test's assessment, but I think I've expanding my comfort zone so much that I often don't act like an introvert. Like, I can go up to some person I've never met and genuinely make friends with them. I most of the time won't seek to talk to strangers, but when I do, I can usually do it comfortably. I'm not sure what type of introvert I am, but I am an INFJ if that helps explain anything
It’s possible that you are an introvert who just likes spending time with people but prefers time by themselves. I’m guessing you have low scores in social and maybe anxious introversion. Idk though I’m no expert
hmm, I'm similar. The test says 34 social, 43 thinking, 34 anxious, 40 restrained; this aligns with what @NatiLol12 guessed. Though I'm an ISTP, so the complete opposite of you besides introversion.
"The thing I did in second grade" for the anxious introvert hit me like a truck akdjflkjdklfjd I hate that instead of being relaxing, shower time is the time when I recall my worst moments and over-analyze every single word I've said.
@@justcurious1146 never. We are in this together 😭I still feel anxiety for things I said/did even as far back as in first grade akdjflkdjfk. I have bad memory, but oh how the memories I wish I could forget haunt me at random times.
remember when you said it was number five but the teacher said it was four, sure you ended up being right but those five minutes of being wrong, wasn’t that horrible
this explains so much. i am squarely a thinking introvert. I don’t get drained by socializing, i don’t dread it, it’s fine- i just prefer to be alone so i can daydream and talk to myself in peace (I talk out loud to myself A LOT). all my introvert friends think i’m not a introvert bc i don’t actively avoid people, gotta show em this vid
yep me too but i think i am going through any mental illness bcz i have made a situation in my mind and that's not the reality and i live in it and i do talk with no one but with my self in different characters can anyone tell me is it a problem or normal thing.
@@solescandon5942 actually i properly talk to my self but in different characters.ok let me explain you i am a girl or you can say a tomboy but i wanted to be a boy so in my mind i am a boy whose serving PAK ARMY and many more characters i don't just imagine i litrally talk in different charactes it's so hard to explain your feeling to anyone.i can't expain you from which thing i am going through.....
@@solescandon5942 yeah you are right actually i will feel embarassed by telling my problem to any phycatrist ok do youstill live in your imagination????
@@solescandon5942 ohh thank god and yeah me too and i started this when i was in class 6 and now i am in 9 and due to this i spend most of my time in my imagination and i can't even study properly this is so distracting.
I think I am a thinking Introvert because when I sleep, I tend to dream a lot and then when I wake up, I tend to think about that dream. Also as a thinking introvert, I also tend to be more creative and use my intelligence on many things like music, organizing, reading, etc.
I’m a restrained that also doesn’t want to talk to others because I’m busy thinking about fascinating stuff nobody in my social group wants to discuss.
But no one is perfect we all make mistakes and get imparised we all feel stupid sometimes but some act like they don't and that makes them seem to be better than u.
So, when I graduated O levels (year 11), I was tasked with delivering a 3 minute speech on graduation day. That speech was the most horrifying and most invigorating moment of my life. I performed better than others, cause my introverted fear of making mistakes in public made me read my speech 200 times before I said it out loud.
Yep. Some of us introverts are good at writing, which makes us able to write good speeches which then makes us appear good at public speaking even if we hate it. But we might struggle more if we have to improvise in front of other people.
Being anxious introvert is the worst. There's multiple times that i have to do a report in front of the class and after reporting, i feel like my insides got scrumbled up. My tummy aches, i feel light headed, my heart feels like it will tore open my rib cage and escape
Even I am an Introvert but I don't think it's a "cool" thing . In real life , people just want me to act how they want and it's not a cool thing for introverts.
No but I like to pretend it is so I don't feel bad about having moved to a new place like eight months ago but not really had a full conversation with a single person. Life hacks
positive and negative, nothing is black and white. And it also depends on how you look at it. You cant change is, accept it and start to apreciate it or stay miserable.
@@marygalstyan5297 It might help you to number and write down your answers as you go, since the the part where you 'recode reverse-word items' means you have to go back to the number you chose for specific questions and re-number your answers in reverse. So for Social Introversion items: 2, 4, & 7, go to back to your answers to questions #2, 4, and 7 in the social introversion section. For each of these 'special' questions, you take your original answer and flip it. If you answered '1' on the second question, you'll change it to '5'. Change 2s to 4s, 4s to 2s, and 5s to 1s. If you answered 3 to any of the special questions, leave it as 3 since it's a neutral answer. Also, I want to be helpful but my brain is being unhelpful right now, so this probably didn't, you know, help... I blame the test for using numbers everywhere, instead of letters and numbers, etc. Also myself for my inability to explain.
I'm absolutely a social introvert. I also came out high on the thinking introversion too. Very low on the anxious one and normal for the restrained. Yep. I agree. I'm not shy at all. No social anxiety whatsoever. I am just introverted and like my alone time.
I have the same results. I work as a manager, I deal with people (colleagues), decision making and managing processes daily. It is just I don't like people and rather be in charge than being the one who listens and works for others. People are draining me, I like my own pace and sometimes I overthink, but I am not shy or anxious. I can actually be pretty tough, nobody wants to argue with me 😅
I used to be a shy introvert, but as an adult I've become much more outgoing to the point of being excited to meet new people and confident to say hello. I don't really get nervous in groups, I can even give a speech or perform musically if prepared. But I can only handle so much and then I need a whole day in my cave by myself to catch up on my inner world stuff. I spend a lot of time thinking about deep things.
Whenever I start making a friend, I end up avoiding them, causing our soon-to-be friendship to just disappear. A lot of times I don’t do it on purpose. I need advice on how to make and keep a friend ;-;
I do that sometimes too. I get excited and start daydreaming about the new friendship. Then build it up to be too big a deal, which makes me a little nervous and avoidant, afraid they'll like me less with time or trying not to show how much it means to me cause that leaves me vulnerable and can scare people off too. So sometimes I can come across lukewarm, I'm afraid.
Yup, I'm totally a thinking introvert! Always having my head in the clouds. I don't mind social interaction. As long as I'm with other people who can carry a conversation that I don't _have_ to be apart of, I can just sit back, let my mind wander like crazy, and maybe say one or two things.
I know many won’t read this, but for those who do: Social: 34/50 (Average) Thinking: 31/50 (Average) Anxious: 46/50 (Very High) Restrained: 37/50 (High) I’m 99% sure I have actual social anxiety
I am a strange type of introvert. I LOVE meetings with my friends, I would do that every day, and yet they drain me out of energy. I LOVE interacting with people, especially with the ones I don't know, I am very funny and talkative around them, and yet I am anxious about these interactions. I am in my imaginary world almost all of the time, and yet I perfectly know what is happening around me and I have time for everything. Sometimes I am a bit slow about mu actions, I have to think about everything before I do something, I have to plan everything to avoid the anxiety, but sometimes I am hella impulsive and do things, that even some extroverts wouldn't do. Maybe I have the multiple personality disorder? Who knows.
If you understood how to find out your score, can you please explain it to me? Because the decode part messed my head up and I don’t quite get this part! If yes, thank you in advance :)
@@MuseFt3daysgrace they didn't explain it well. now after you answer the questions, you will "decode" or change your answer of the following questions: social: change the answer of the questions 2,4,7 thinking: question 5 anxious: questions 4,6,7 restrained: questions 1,2,4,5,6,7,8,9 the change is going to be 1=5 and 2=4 and vise versa, keep 3 as it is after you've changed the answers, add every category's results and see were do you belong :) you're welcome :D
I wasn't surprised: high on thinking and restrained. Low on anxious and average to low on social. I think this is a function of age as much as anything else. I don't really have problems with social gatherings, though I tend to stick with rotating between small groups methodically so I don't get worn out.
So this is the problem. I’m a bit of everything. I think I’m a “fake” person because of that. It’s like... I don’t know... I hate socializing because I don’t get along well with people about my age and also I feel I’m being a burden, a parasite for them. So that makes my overthinking, always in “my world” to stay away from reality. And in that time I’m away from reality, I sometimes see myself in a embarrassing past, wich I would like to not be part of, and I say to myself “You should did that”, “You shouldn’t do that” or “now people will understand you’re a bad person”, “You’re a bad person, aren’t you ashamed to be like that? You useless piece of sh*t”. And here is where I need to think well before start an actual conversation or I will say a complete mess. And here is where I think im a burden to people. And the cycle goes on and never ends. Sorry for bothering you, sorry for stealing your precious time and sorry for being so selfish. Hope you’re doing well. Have a nice day.
@@guilhermefernandes9094 yeah I think so, introversion is aversion while social anxiety is more of a genuine fear that controls and ruins your communication with others
@@scatmanhi7837 Now that you say it out loud...”ruins your communication with others”. Thank you for your kindness and thank you for making me understand. And if you’re wrong it’s not your fault, we all make mistakes. Hope you’re doing well.
Haha, thought I was gonna be a thinking introvert but nope! I am definitely an anxious introvert. Very interesting. Still rehashing every single mistake I have ever made in my entire life and cringing.
Then say it again when you get off the bus and proceed to stress about how weird and annoying the bus driver thinks you are. Rinse and repeat almost daily.... 😅😥
I scored a 40 in social, 46 in thinking, 39 in anxious and 42 in restrained. This means that I am above average in all of them. But I am definitely a thinking introvert. I hyper analyse everything to the point where my brain is constantly running at near full speed. This has its advantages like I'm a natural at puzzles and strategy games. But it also has downsides, such as my brain can sometimes get tired and or I can get distracted from a current task/conversation because I start analysing something in the surrounding environment. I've also thought about myself so much that I know myself extremely well. I also seem smarter than most of my peers because I've ether already thoroughly thought about any given subject beforehand or can analyse it quicker and more efficiently than others. This i suspect has caused me to develop a small superiority complex. Honestly it's probably super obvious how much I think about stuff just from what I've said in this comment. Most of this i'd already figured out and have only just now gotten to us this comment as a chance to tell someone about it.
fun fact : introverts battery drains quicker than iphone after socializing with others . but , if the person is of their type and the topic is interesting , introverts energy wont even drop for hours ! they can talk literally forever !
I got the highest score in the thinking, a score that was considered high in general, average in the social, close to high in the anxious, and close to low in the restrained
I'm definitely drained by social interactions. It's not so much the number of people in the crowd that's the problem, it's the novelty and unpredictability of the situation that's the problem. The more free-flowing the conversation the harder it is. I remember sitting at the table eating lunch in the cafeteria with other kids in my class in grade school and being totally mystified by how the conversation went from one subject to another with no apparent predictability. I felt incapable of participating. If it's a meeting of like-minded people working on a project together or discussing a previously agreed upon topic or agenda, that takes most of the stress off. But I'm also easily embarrassed and dwell on embarrassing events for the rest of my life. If I perceive that I might be embarrassed by what I say or do, that's a cause for anxiety. The other thing I find hard about social interactions is that I often have trouble identifying my own emotions and may need social isolation in order to discover how I truly feel about something. It's hard to put my emotions into words so it feels like I can't respond spontaneously in a given situation. And yes, my energy level in general is low and I have trouble getting out of bed in the morning.
I get a claustrophobic feeling when there are too many people* and when there's too much noise. Unless it's a moderately crowded nightclub & the noise levels preclude conversation & I can just dance. And woe betide anyone who tries to socialise with me inside the club. I may well give in to the urge to rip their extroverted head off 😀 * 'too many people is generally about 4 for me.
my results: social 38 thinking 43 anxious 28 restrained 36 thought id be a little higher on restrained but other than that its pretty accurate to how i thought it would be!
This video helped me realize that most of your introvert content is about social and anxious introverts, not thinking or restrained. I'd enjoy more content on these different types!
Have u ever planned a conversation with someone in ur head over and over again but ended up saying something else? (I literally thought abt posting this comment like 10 times)😂
Funny story of me trying to socialise “ so I was in the same class with this guy and our math teacher is just crazy and for no reason she started yelling at him and he just stayed there looking at her and when she went out I wanted to just be friendly and say hey don’t worry about it she’s crazy no big deal don’t overthink it , yeah but instead weirdass me couldn’t spit the words out and I ended up just staring at him for a couple minutes and made him so uncomfortable 😂😂😂 “ Omg kill me please
This channel helps me to know myself more. I was struggling before coz I wasn't sure if I'm an extrovert or introvert. But this channel helps me to know that I'm a true introvert, and I'm that 4 types of introvert. And I think I'm loving it because I know that it is really me. ❤️
"What kind of introvert are you?"
Me: "Yes."
I've watched the video and now I know I am in fact all of these.
I am drained during social interaction, I'm terrified of social interaction, I'd much rather live in my own little world in my head, and I have 0 energy to do things.
😂😂
HAHAHAHAHA... Your comment would be a great tattoo
@@HermitCree Same here 😂😅
Exactly
Introvert anxious people be like:
- Start typing a comment
"Oh this video is so relatable, anyone else here feeling like this too?"
- Then frantically erase it and try again to come up with something better, ten times.
- End up not commenting at all as this might be perceived as boring.
Usually I commented, but regretting it afterwards thinking whether or not it's the right thing to do.
@@seosoup8306 the same 😓
I usually delete my comment when someone replies to it
Dude yes same with messages I cant stop deleting and rewriting them.
I always rewrite most things eg text messages, work things, emails etc to rephrase everything until it sounds "good" ._.
the video for me went like:
1st one - "hey that's me!"
2nd one - "hey that's me too!"
3rd one - "okay what is going on"
4th one - "SERIOUSLY WTF"
SAME IT'S GOOD
IKR!!!!!
Literally same :3
Same!!! All 4. 3 to an extent. 😂
Same
I think I’m the Anxious Introvert. My brain is constantly saying:
Hey, remember that one slightly embarrassing thing you did 5 years ago that only you remember? Let’s think about that for several painful hours.
Yep, that's me!
I am a social introvert but i have social anxiety
@@yoda2495 then you don’t have anxiety
Samesies
haha, I think many people have that, it's how you respond to it that matters.
most people: walk up to a group of people, joins in conversation
me: *silently stands outside of group until someone notices and starts talking to me*
why i can relate to this!?
So true..
Meeeeeeee
Me: 10 minutes later walking away slowly so they won't notice that I was even there.
Same
- Are you social, thinking, anxious or restrained introvert?
- Yes
lol when I took the test I got average on all of them and I was like I GIVE UP
@@ljkoch99 i got high on all of them and i was like so what am I lol
@@haneneben1566 you have social anxiety
Yes
I have a little bit of all of them in me..
This is my social life:
1) want to socialize
2) spots a person I can socialize with
3)thinks about the conversation over and over again
4)hates socializing, doesn't socialize for months
My daily routine
Sooo true
Same!
Indeed (ノ｀Д´)ノ彡┻━┻
Are you me
The ironic thing about the thinking introverts is that they don't even need to take the test, since their self awareness allows them to instantly identify which type of introvert they are.
Bruh this is so true. Though I honestly have varying degrees of the other three but the thinking one is easily the predominant one
Me too lol
I live in the kingdom of possibilities.
Whoops.
Me too, no test needed🤣
Can I be... all of them?
of course, why not?
Yup, you can...
All introverts do so, so yes.
You can be anything you want to be
Exactly
"The thinking introvert is so in their own minds that they don't have time to deal with the outside world."
Me - (was staring into space) What? Gotta replay that
That's so relatable. My head is always up in the clouds😂
I do that all the time.
Well, yeah, same
I read the comment, then did the same exact thing
😂😂😂
The INFJ motto: “I might be this, but I relate a little bit to all of them.”
Yup, that's basically it
Yeah that's me alright
Who allowed you to read my mind and put it out in the open like that!!
yEEESS
yES thank you
With saying only 23 times "introvert" you are actually on a pretty good score!
I just realized the initials of each type of introvert spell out "STAR"
⭐️
That explain why I keep using that emoji as my signature /-\ I relate to all
✨
Gonna get a little weird, gonna get a little wild-
were stars lol :)
When you can't even quite remember how you tend to act around people because you've been at home for so long that the idea of socializing feels like a distant, half forgotten dream
I just guessed on the questions that asked “among a group of friends” or other scenarios I haven’t experienced. Not sure if I should’ve scored a 3 instead of guessing.
*nightmare (sorry you spelled it like "dream")
True af
This hit me
😂 so true
Who else has to rehearse a conversation in their heads before talking to literally anyone?
.....haha, totally not me 🥲
How about rehearse a conversation and completely got it wrong.
Yep, and when i know what i want to say the moment is gone
Yes and then I stuttered and then forgot what I was saying because I was nervous as well
Dude if i don't spend 5 minutes thinking about what I'll say, only bullshit comes out. If i think about what i want to say, i choke on my words. Once i forgot 3 languages at the same time and only remembered what i wanted to say in german. Wtf.
Same
Me: says literally anything
Also me: oh no I shouldn’t of said that now they’re going to think I’m an idiot
just in this case
And the anxiety never really goes away. Isn’t that nice. *awkward laugh*
*i felt that*
Same, i hate being social.
Y'all how do you deal with it cause I cant even make friends.😪
@@LOVEACTUALLY-23 A lot of us don’t really. I have some people I can talk to in school that might be considered “friends” but other than that I don’t really interact socially with anyone, apart from discord though, I don’t know what I’d do without it. I only have 2/3 online friends but the when the loneliness gets to u it helps a lot. I just spend most of the time playing video games and watching anime or UA-cam.
@@amzwl1671Everything same as me but i cant even talk to strangers on discord...
@@genski657 Yeah text writing is all I’m able to do sadly. Bit awkward when 2 of them are voice chatting and I’m sitting in the channel but typing lol.
The 3rd type describes me better than I would like to admit.
I’m just self conscious but I relate to being a restrained introvert even doh I think myself as an ambivert lmfao
How much anxiety have you had about posting this?
The 3rd describes me aswell but social interactions are draining aswell so basically I'm the 3rd+first
Same here
Same.
"The first type of introvert is the social introvert"
"Ah yes, the floor here is indeed made out of ceiling."
Yes, and I am that floor made of ceiling. I don't actually mind social interaction as much, I'm just really drained afterwards.
And the tree is made of cheese
newsflash, the world isnt split into “social” people and “nonsocial” people
Yes
Me who relates to *every single one of them:* I really need some help.
Has anyone else noticed how well written and thought out these comments are? Haven't seen any spelling errors either. Sorry. Just overthinking.
Interesting
It’s because we’re all introverts- if we don’t spell anything right we’re failures and everyone will judge us.
@@hannahbarlow3885 true true TRUE
@@hannahbarlow3885 This is absolutely correct. I worry about that every time I post something on the internet.
@@MinesweepActual I'm different. If I comment, I study the comment section and if most people misspell words or don't use proper grammar, than I follow suit
I want to socialise, but I always imagine a whole conversation with another person and don‘t say anything in the end
So relateble!
Yes same! Sometimes I just sit near someone and think up an entire long conversation, then I'll realise that we haven't talked to each other for like fifteen minutes and I feel like they're judging me
@@piskie1099 hell yeah
I also think of potential lies and excuses for anything anyone could throw at me but I never actually get to use them. Ever.
Usual I do this at 2 in the morning, planning out 3 or 4 conversations and then never ending up in the situation to use them. Even though I remember them. Now I have all of them in my head and it’s like information overload
as an anxious introvert diagnosed with social anxiety disorder, when you said "that thing i did in second grade" i was reminded of that thing i did in second grade. :(
me toooo!!!oh my goddd
I asked my crush to take a selfie with me in 5th grade.
Frick my life.
I was listing all the abusing I heard and teacher found me. It was 6th grade .
@@VanillaTried i Wrote mine a love Letter in 5th grade and the Whole school Knew about it afterwards, i‘m still thinking about it even Tho i Changed Schools twice already.....
@@denksmitd you're lucky that you changed school.
Cuz I'm still in the same school TwT
I scored high on the social and thinking side and low on the anxious and restrained side which is what I expected. I am rather introspective and don't enjoy too much social interaction. It does not make me anxious, I just don't care for it too much. I am fine with limited, individual conversations but hate large group settings.
i'm the introvert that is so socially awkward, they're too scared to go into their own garden because they think "their neighbours will be looking out of the windows and be silently judging them"
Broken and Emotional that there sounds like anxiety
So true
huh
Relateable. Everytime I went out to buy groceries or just went out to get the mail, I can't stop thinking that everyone is judging me even when they're not. I'd rather stay at home. T^T
Same, but it's the balcony for me
When you're too introvert to write a funny comment:
Sad thing: Now that I've got too many likes I can't delete this comment.
Big mood
can't agree more
Irony
I felt it to the spiritual level
I can’t tell you HOW many times I’ve wanted to add a comment but stopped myself, or posted it and taking it down 2 minutes later. Sometimes I feel bold and will put it out, and then 30 minutes later I’m like “why did I do that why did I do that take it down now” and have to go back into my viewing history and delete it.
Edit: this has been up for 1 minute and I haven’t taken it down. Let’s see how long I last.
Edit 2: ayy folks it’s been 5 days all the 65 people who liked this believe in yourself! Your comments will be appreciated! Besides, remember... you’re anonymous. This is a mystery platform. Say what you want to say. Be free.
when you're introvert but also have anxiety:
👁️👄👁️
I'm an extrovert with anxiety...it's the worst tbh
@@Lea-dq2uy I’m so sorry abt that 😔
That is literally my face when I leave my apartment 👁👄👁
I’m an extrovert with anxiety. I’ve been asked if I’m sure I’m an extrovert many times. Yup. Yup. I am sure. Just this dumb anxiety at war with my personality. Woo hoo.
As a former anxious introvert nobody wanted to be around me because of it lol I’ve somehow managed to become a social introvert by working on coping with my anxiety around other people
Anxious introversion is draining because the anxiety and panic attacks suck the life out of me.
seriously it was just a tiny mistake, nobody was even noticed that WHY CAN'T I MOVE ON????!!!!!!!!!
My brain is my biggest enemy.
I sense another sleepless night coming......
What I wouldn't give to shut up my brain
I feel with you. I can still remember the day when my "Mistake" happens. i know exactly what happened and i hate me for this. but i can't solve this problem. every time i want to clear it i feel into a Nervous breakdown. yes the Brain is the End boss from the Game called: Life.
@@daedalus-7 Infj. Give me your type. I'll be taking it. Now.
I still remember a "mistake" i did in 4th grade that every body forgot and it wasn't even a big deal, i pushed a girl back then AND I FEEL LIKE I NEED TO SAY SORRY, but I'll look weird cause it was 8 years ago
@@fandeadvirus3816 My doctor tells me to listen to music or just have white noise when I'm going to sleep because if I'm in complete silence I can't fall asleep. I would love to have my brain shut up for once 😂
Since we introverts have no friends to hang with, let’s play a drinking game:
Every time he says Introvert, drink!
😙🥃 ➡️ 🤰
Cheers!
Lol
Does water count?
BAGSGSBSNJAHSHSAMDU i cant participate bc i’m a ✨oMniVeRt✨
I’m a Social(45%),Thinking(50%),Anxious(50%),&,Restrained(25%) Introvert
How do u find that out?
Yeah, something doesn't fit into that equation...
@@fahrenheit2101 @VanessaChristina ._. That's their scores. Or around about their scores.
@@patiencejones694 I know. I just didn't know where to find the test. I've found it now anyway.
@@vanessachristina._.5874 because the test scores aren't in percentages, they scored "High" on social, thinking, and anxious, and "Low" on restrained.
Anxious introvert for sure. This is the best explanation of what it's like that I have ever heard. It's rather difficult to deal with, and the anxiety is constant, but I accept it. Awesome video!
I sometimes think the concept of "alone" or "being alone" isn't when my own imagination is my best and only friend.
Rather it's when I'm surrounded by a crowd of people, yet cannot immerse in a conversation nor be excited or relaxed enough to think to myself.
I couldn't agree more☺️☺️☺️
Saaammeeee 😅😭
I too only feel lonely when I'm surrounded with a lot of people. I only remember feeling lonely while alone once in my life. It only lasted for about an hour and was happening while I was in a bad place in my life. When I got help, I was a recluse again.
I think it is happening because that's when we see ourselves as different from the people around us, which is not OK in the setting. It is exactly the place where the conformity reigns. If you are different than others (extroverts tend to be there more) then you will feel it.
Yeah, there’s a difference between being alone and being lonely. You can like to be alone but by definition you can’t like being lonely.
@Nameless King Dude, I thought I was the only one with that fear!
I'm the "am I an introvert because I like to spend time alone and practice my favorite activities? But I don't hate people, I mean, I love people, but I also love my space" introvert.
Edit : after a lot of learning about mbti and stuff I think I am an ISFP :)
that's the social one
@@joltrify I get strong ISFJ vibes from your comment (Also, the ISFJ's are often called "The Most Extraverted of the Introverts")
@@joltrify Also, i can highly relate with you, just that i'm a little bit more extraverted, but i do love having my space too.
-ESFJ
@@joltrify I get you. When i was new in all this stuff from Myers-Briggs, i thought i was an ENTJ (I didn't knew so much about it. Now it's cristal clear that i'm NOT an intuitive one 😂). But whenever i did the quiz, i got ESFJ. I thought "Ok, maybe ENFJ or ESTJ, but ESFJ? Never". I wasn't convinced since i learned about the cognitive functions from each type. And yes, i'm highly a Fe dominant and a Si auxiliary.
Anyways, don't trust too much on online tests. Frank told in a lot of his videos that if you wanna know which your type is, you should read about all the types and about the Cognitive Functions
@@joltrify You're welcome! Glad to help you!
I remember there was a period in my life. I lived in a hostel for half a year. I work on a computer, so I often woke up, ate, sat down with a laptop in the common room and worked. At the same time, there was always another guy who, like me every day, sat down in the same room on the next sofa every morning and also did something at the computer. For all six months we have never spoken to him. No kidding, absolutely never. We sat opposite each other, at a distance of a couple of meters, but did not say a word to each other. And it felt ... just comfortable. None of us tried to strike up a conversation, none of us felt uncomfortable. When I was leaving this hostel, I went up to him, held out my hand and said goodbye. It was perhaps the best friendship of my life.
What????? Really????
That's.........
Beautiful.
I'm reminded of Ron Swanson's experience with a coworker. "I once worked with a guy for 3 years and never learned his name. Best friend I ever had. We still never talk sometimes."
I'm sorry to say this but this is beyond being introverted, this is actually rudeness. This is on an extreme level, even for an introvert, actually. I'm an introvert and I would feel worthless around people who see me everyday without even saying "How are you?". I would definitely say a couple of words to someone I see everyday until I realize they are not comfortable with that, which I would find rude. I would not be comfortable with that type of introversion.
@@eliftr06 it ain't rude if neither of them choose to converse ._.
I’m like a combination of all, I avoid socializing because it causes me anxiety, I scratch my hands and feel scared of talking with people, that’s why I enjoy being in my own world, and don’t like others disturbing the peace I have in my own mind
My results:
Social introversion - 43 points
Thinking introversion - 44 points
Anxious introversion - 46 points
Restrained introversion - 37 points
I'm just a big introvert I guess...
for me, I got
Social - 40 - HIGH
Thinking - 44 - HIGH
Anxious - 27 - AVERAGE
Restrained - 29 - AVERAGE
Can someone explain me how the test work? (sorry I'm not a native English speaker)
I Think That's A World Record
@@math0_o461 you answer questions and you get points... But that's not a problem When you will finish... There are special questions.. You have to replace those points... When you answered this question with 4 points than you have to replace it with 2 points... But not all questions... Just the special ones... I didn't get it at first too... I hope you understand me ( English isn't my main language)
@@S.u.s.e.l Thanks a lot for your help , I'll try to figure it out
Guess I'm the anxious introvert. Literally every human interaction I can remember makes me cringe. I find it great that there are people can relate to, helps me feel less lonely.
U made me laugh, that was the previous me. Nofap helped me get my confidence back and lose my social anxiety
@@iElia what?! 😂
nice profile pic
@@bonzu5796 thx
@@notsovocal6692 And I relate to you as well :) (I'm an INFP)
"What kind of introvert are you?"
Me with social anxiety: Yeah, the anxious one but 100 times worse.
@Kedamono You can find a way better answer on Google... but for me, I'd say being an introvert is more...me being me. I quite like being alone instead of going out on parties or whatever, and unless it's with strangers, I can get quite talktative. It just flows with my life. With Social Anxiety... its like my life is controlled by it... Because of it I quit 3 different schools, not being able to stay there. I can't make friends and get close to anyone, even if I feel so lonely and really want one. It's better now but years ago I couldn't even go to the shop alone, couldn't talk to strangers at all. Im ranting, but the difference is that social anxiety controls me.
Well i also guessed it was the anxious one
Im always anxious in social events
exactly
Heyy armyyyyyyyyyy
Me too! I don't think I need the quiz because my anxiety disorder makes it pretty clear which category I'm in
I dont know how i got this channel recommended to me, but i sure am glad it came to me
Confirmed: I fit all of them.
Edit: Glad I'm not alone :)
Lol I scored high on all except anxious, which I scored low on. Which is interesting bc I have social anxiety 🤔 what trickery is this
𝙋𝙍𝙊 @𝙋𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙚 & 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 -> 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙄 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙂𝙊𝘿 😇😅😂
Same lol
I scored in the 40s for all of them! What does that mean?🙄
Congratulations, you have reached full introvert!
I must be 'The Introvert,' because I experience all of these.
me too lmao
Dude i was freaking out cause i thought i was the only one
But as you can tell im mostly the third one
Same 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Lol, so am i
Which type of introvert are you?
Me: YES!
@jml1958 I'm a INTJ also
Me:
- social, likes to help
- hates small talk but loves talking to my bff
- feels anxious when with people that aren't my bff
- hates it when I'm different to the crowd
- likes to have a really low amount of relationships
- is analyzing everyone but hates it when people think (or even talk) about me
- feels anxious before going somewhere were people are
- regrets things I did in kindergarden
- is always in my inner world
- thinks about everything
- hates it when people are facile (is this the right word for it? If this sentence makes no sense, please correct me (I'm not a native speaker))
- experiences everything anywhere mentioned in the video
help
Amount of times he's said "introvert" after the sponsorship thing:
about 23 times
yes, I've counted
I need a life
hate to break it to you but, that is introvert life
@@SM-hl6hh yessir
@Thomas Rosales yasss
I counted too. Lol.
Long ago the four types of introverts lived in harmony...
Everything changed when the extroverts attacked
Let's not go and put blame on extroverts, alright? We have our odds, they have theirs! We're doing best together while respecting each others quirks and needs!
Oh god this comment made me snort, wth I don't snort-!
😄😄😄😄😄
I’ve never seen Avatar but is that a reference?
@@KxNOxUTA and that's how you show your lack of confidence introvert. Have a nice day 😊
This channel is the best i find in quarantine ❤️
Omg yes what personality are you?
True
I agree
@@ayaala9216 join the club!
@@Thefitty INFP ❤️
I'm considered an introvert according to MBTI, and I agree with the test's assessment, but I think I've expanding my comfort zone so much that I often don't act like an introvert. Like, I can go up to some person I've never met and genuinely make friends with them. I most of the time won't seek to talk to strangers, but when I do, I can usually do it comfortably. I'm not sure what type of introvert I am, but I am an INFJ if that helps explain anything
It’s possible that you are an introvert who just likes spending time with people but prefers time by themselves. I’m guessing you have low scores in social and maybe anxious introversion. Idk though I’m no expert
hmm, I'm similar. The test says 34 social, 43 thinking, 34 anxious, 40 restrained; this aligns with what @NatiLol12 guessed. Though I'm an ISTP, so the complete opposite of you besides introversion.
"The thing I did in second grade" for the anxious introvert hit me like a truck akdjflkjdklfjd I hate that instead of being relaxing, shower time is the time when I recall my worst moments and over-analyze every single word I've said.
I get it driving-cruising along doing nothing and suddenly I’m cringing at that awful thing I said 13 years ago...
yes, I constantly think about things Ive said in the past and wonder what the hell did I say that for? I thought I was the only one
When trying to go to sleep and at school
@@justcurious1146 never. We are in this together 😭I still feel anxiety for things I said/did even as far back as in first grade akdjflkdjfk. I have bad memory, but oh how the memories I wish I could forget haunt me at random times.
remember when you said it was number five but the teacher said it was four, sure you ended up being right but those five minutes of being wrong, wasn’t that horrible
this explains so much. i am squarely a thinking introvert. I don’t get drained by socializing, i don’t dread it, it’s fine- i just prefer to be alone so i can daydream and talk to myself in peace (I talk out loud to myself A LOT). all my introvert friends think i’m not a introvert bc i don’t actively avoid people, gotta show em this vid
yep me too but i think i am going through any mental illness bcz i have made a situation in my mind and that's not the reality and i live in it and i do talk with no one but with my self in different characters can anyone tell me is it a problem or normal thing.
@@solescandon5942 actually i properly talk to my self but in different characters.ok let me explain you i am a girl or you can say a tomboy but i wanted to be a boy so in my mind i am a boy whose serving PAK ARMY and many more characters i don't just imagine i litrally talk in different charactes it's so hard to explain your feeling to anyone.i can't expain you from which thing i am going through.....
@@solescandon5942 so is it any mental illness or not?????plz answer.
@@solescandon5942 yeah you are right actually i will feel embarassed by telling my problem to any phycatrist ok do youstill live in your imagination????
@@solescandon5942 ohh thank god and yeah me too and i started this when i was in class 6 and now i am in 9 and due to this i spend most of my time in my imagination and i can't even study properly this is so distracting.
FJ: Which introvert are you?
Me: ................
FJ: Allllllllllllright then. onto the next video idea...
I think I am a thinking Introvert because when I sleep, I tend to dream a lot and then when I wake up, I tend to think about that dream. Also as a thinking introvert, I also tend to be more creative and use my intelligence on many things like music, organizing, reading, etc.
I’m a restrained that also doesn’t want to talk to others because I’m busy thinking about fascinating stuff nobody in my social group wants to discuss.
I thought every introvert was like this and was all 4 types? Cause all introverts I know, including myself, are a bit like every type.
Same. I guess that makes us... divergent introverts? I know, bad pun, I’ll leave.
me to myself: lets sleep
my brain: nope lets remember your mistakes and embarassing moments
me:then its another sleepless night
Yes bro
But no one is perfect we all make mistakes and get imparised we all feel stupid sometimes but some act like they don't and that makes them seem to be better than u.
So, when I graduated O levels (year 11), I was tasked with delivering a 3 minute speech on graduation day.
That speech was the most horrifying and most invigorating moment of my life.
I performed better than others, cause my introverted fear of making mistakes in public made me read my speech 200 times before I said it out loud.
Yep. Some of us introverts are good at writing, which makes us able to write good speeches which then makes us appear good at public speaking even if we hate it. But we might struggle more if we have to improvise in front of other people.
Being anxious introvert is the worst.
There's multiple times that i have to do a report in front of the class and after reporting, i feel like my insides got scrumbled up. My tummy aches, i feel light headed, my heart feels like it will tore open my rib cage and escape
This literally happens to me every day n i hate it😔. My mind stops processing and it feels as if my whole body is frozen. I kind of zone out
I feel like I’m a mix between anxious and restrained. Still can’t forgive myself for what I did in second grade...
Omg same, anxious and restrained.
I KNOW. ;-;
On the internet being a "introvert" sounds cool but in reality it's really not....
Even I am an Introvert but I don't think it's a "cool" thing . In real life , people just want me to act how they want and it's not a cool thing for introverts.
No but I like to pretend it is so I don't feel bad about having moved to a new place like eight months ago but not really had a full conversation with a single person. Life hacks
positive and negative, nothing is black and white. And it also depends on how you look at it. You cant change is, accept it and start to apreciate it or stay miserable.
Sucks😩
@Odaliz Orozco-Rueda
LoL Thanks
But I'm actually a Hindu 😁
I'm probably a bit of all 4, depends on the season
I'm definitely the thinker, but I can relate to all of them on some level.
The test involves MATH - what are you tryin to pull here FJ?? 😅
It took me an hour to understand that stuff
Ooooooooo! I LOVE math!
Test: "You have to do the math yourself"
Me: "Ha! That ain't happening chief!"
Can someone explain that math stuff? I wanna get my results but cant really figure it out
@@marygalstyan5297 It might help you to number and write down your answers as you go, since the the part where you 'recode reverse-word items' means you have to go back to the number you chose for specific questions and re-number your answers in reverse. So for Social Introversion items: 2, 4, & 7, go to back to your answers to questions #2, 4, and 7 in the social introversion section. For each of these 'special' questions, you take your original answer and flip it. If you answered '1' on the second question, you'll change it to '5'. Change 2s to 4s, 4s to 2s, and 5s to 1s. If you answered 3 to any of the special questions, leave it as 3 since it's a neutral answer.
Also, I want to be helpful but my brain is being unhelpful right now, so this probably didn't, you know, help... I blame the test for using numbers everywhere, instead of letters and numbers, etc. Also myself for my inability to explain.
I'm an introvert and have social anxiety but I wouldn't even say I'm shy. It's like 3 different things.
Same for all of it
Exactly. Anxiety is a disorder; shyness is a personality trait.
@@clairerussell1391 But being shy does make you anxious in some situations that you need to expose yourself
Same, it isn't really shyness
The anxious introvert. "Oh boy"
:'')
I'm absolutely a social introvert. I also came out high on the thinking introversion too.
Very low on the anxious one and normal for the restrained.
Yep. I agree. I'm not shy at all. No social anxiety whatsoever. I am just introverted and like my alone time.
Exactly how I scored too!!!
I have the same results. I work as a manager, I deal with people (colleagues), decision making and managing processes daily. It is just I don't like people and rather be in charge than being the one who listens and works for others. People are draining me, I like my own pace and sometimes I overthink, but I am not shy or anxious. I can actually be pretty tough, nobody wants to argue with me 😅
I used to be a shy introvert, but as an adult I've become much more outgoing to the point of being excited to meet new people and confident to say hello. I don't really get nervous in groups, I can even give a speech or perform musically if prepared. But I can only handle so much and then I need a whole day in my cave by myself to catch up on my inner world stuff. I spend a lot of time thinking about deep things.
Thiss….
Me too
Whenever I start making a friend, I end up avoiding them, causing our soon-to-be friendship to just disappear. A lot of times I don’t do it on purpose. I need advice on how to make and keep a friend ;-;
Send memes to them. Just random ones.
@@plant_12 thanks!
@@beethechange1834 your welcome.
I do that sometimes too.
I get excited and start daydreaming about the new friendship. Then build it up to be too big a deal, which makes me a little nervous and avoidant, afraid they'll like me less with time or trying not to show how much it means to me cause that leaves me vulnerable and can scare people off too. So sometimes I can come across lukewarm, I'm afraid.
Your not the only one me too..and sometimes I meet really nice people but at the end I just start avoiding them without reason
Yup, I'm totally a thinking introvert! Always having my head in the clouds. I don't mind social interaction. As long as I'm with other people who can carry a conversation that I don't _have_ to be apart of, I can just sit back, let my mind wander like crazy, and maybe say one or two things.
I understand being soooo awesome that the best person to be around is yourself.
I know many won’t read this, but for those who do:
Social: 34/50 (Average)
Thinking: 31/50 (Average)
Anxious: 46/50 (Very High)
Restrained: 37/50 (High)
I’m 99% sure I have actual social anxiety
I got
S- 41 High
T- 40 High
A- 41 High
R- 39 High
I think I might be introverted... 😳
can someone help me how to get the result? i don't understand what that means by recoding the numbers and summing the items... help!
@ironic i've like 45 in anxious, so yeah, i'm an anxious introvert yeee, like i didn't know already xD
@ironic thank you very much for explaining.
Social 42
Thinking 48
Anxious 21
Restrained 37
My results (even though nobody will care to read them):
Social: 31
Thinking: 28
Anxious: 37
Restrained: 42
I read for no reason
I read them :) was curious to know what people were getting in general
whats your mbti types?
@@Kreazive INFP
Hey that's the closest to mine I've seen :) we should promise to be friends with no intention of carrying out said promise.
I am a strange type of introvert. I LOVE meetings with my friends, I would do that every day, and yet they drain me out of energy. I LOVE interacting with people, especially with the ones I don't know, I am very funny and talkative around them, and yet I am anxious about these interactions. I am in my imaginary world almost all of the time, and yet I perfectly know what is happening around me and I have time for everything. Sometimes I am a bit slow about mu actions, I have to think about everything before I do something, I have to plan everything to avoid the anxiety, but sometimes I am hella impulsive and do things, that even some extroverts wouldn't do. Maybe I have the multiple personality disorder? Who knows.
Hi twin! Well...pre-plague twin. 😒🤷🏽♀️
same here, thanks for saying what I didn't know how to put into words lol
and I also wanted to say that we're valid introverts
Yeep, that's me. I'm an introvert but I love people and being around them!!
Νah you're an ambivert 100%
My twin i have found you😢
Took the STAR test. Scored high on each attribute. Going to hide now.
Disclaimer: the test isn't a buzzfeed quiz, it is in fact a school test. The audience is advised to bring a notebook and some math skills.
for real
If you understood how to find out your score, can you please explain it to me? Because the decode part messed my head up and I don’t quite get this part! If yes, thank you in advance :)
@@MuseFt3daysgrace you should change the numbers to 5=1 4=2 etc. for the question numbers that they name below for each category
@@MuseFt3daysgrace they didn't explain it well. now after you answer the questions, you will "decode" or change your answer of the following questions:
social: change the answer of the questions 2,4,7
thinking: question 5
anxious: questions 4,6,7
restrained: questions 1,2,4,5,6,7,8,9
the change is going to be 1=5 and 2=4 and vise versa, keep 3 as it is
after you've changed the answers, add every category's results and see were do you belong :)
you're welcome :D
@@leenbasha we appreciate it homie thanks
Thinking introvert here. Very self aware and self focused and I enjoy it.
Me to!
INTPs like "am i a joke to you?" after scoring high in all categories
Same here. High in all categories. Lol!
Came to comments to see if anyone else scored high in all categories. I should have expected this from INTPs 😅
It's so frustrating being an INTP :(
@@melo743 It's not too bad. It's just an inconvenience for everyone else most of the time.🤷♀️
@@lalaj.6022 That makes sense
I wasn't surprised: high on thinking and restrained. Low on anxious and average to low on social. I think this is a function of age as much as anything else. I don't really have problems with social gatherings, though I tend to stick with rotating between small groups methodically so I don't get worn out.
So this is the problem. I’m a bit of everything. I think I’m a “fake” person because of that. It’s like... I don’t know...
I hate socializing because I don’t get along well with people about my age and also I feel I’m being a burden, a parasite for them. So that makes my overthinking, always in “my world” to stay away from reality. And in that time I’m away from reality, I sometimes see myself in a embarrassing past, wich I would like to not be part of, and I say to myself “You should did that”, “You shouldn’t do that” or “now people will understand you’re a bad person”, “You’re a bad person, aren’t you ashamed to be like that? You useless piece of sh*t”. And here is where I need to think well before start an actual conversation or I will say a complete mess. And here is where I think im a burden to people. And the cycle goes on and never ends.
Sorry for bothering you, sorry for stealing your precious time and sorry for being so selfish. Hope you’re doing well. Have a nice day.
This is so relatable its so pain to read:"")
Sounds more like social anxiety then just introversion
@@scatmanhi7837 Really?
@@guilhermefernandes9094 yeah I think so, introversion is aversion while social anxiety is more of a genuine fear that controls and ruins your communication with others
@@scatmanhi7837 Now that you say it out loud...”ruins your communication with others”. Thank you for your kindness and thank you for making me understand. And if you’re wrong it’s not your fault, we all make mistakes. Hope you’re doing well.
"What they think about much of the time is actually themselves", I've never been so exposed!
"which type of introvert are you?"
me, an extrovert: hehe *clicks*
Hi! XD What are you doing here? XDDD
@@animaticToshiue hi! i'm just chilling tbh, having the time of my life, trying to get to know my introverts better :D
Haha I (as an ambivert) am just chilling too
So how did you score on the test?
Kinda sus
I'm a social introvert. Good to know, enjoy your videos glad to know I'm accepted and understood here ☺️
Haha, thought I was gonna be a thinking introvert but nope! I am definitely an anxious introvert. Very interesting. Still rehashing every single mistake I have ever made in my entire life and cringing.
I'm definitely the anxious introvert, I still think of how I embarrassed myself by crying after being born. Lol
😅😅😅
I said thank you to the bus driver before getting on the bus. Spent the entire bus ride worrying if people said thank you before getting on the bus.
Then say it again when you get off the bus and proceed to stress about how weird and annoying the bus driver thinks you are. Rinse and repeat almost daily.... 😅😥
❤
I scored a 40 in social, 46 in thinking, 39 in anxious and 42 in restrained. This means that I am above average in all of them. But I am definitely a thinking introvert. I hyper analyse everything to the point where my brain is constantly running at near full speed. This has its advantages like I'm a natural at puzzles and strategy games. But it also has downsides, such as my brain can sometimes get tired and or I can get distracted from a current task/conversation because I start analysing something in the surrounding environment. I've also thought about myself so much that I know myself extremely well. I also seem smarter than most of my peers because I've ether already thoroughly thought about any given subject beforehand or can analyse it quicker and more efficiently than others. This i suspect has caused me to develop a small superiority complex. Honestly it's probably super obvious how much I think about stuff just from what I've said in this comment. Most of this i'd already figured out and have only just now gotten to us this comment as a chance to tell someone about it.
just dropping my results here cos why not
Social: 26
Thinking: 41
Anxious: 48
Restrained: 24
basically i'm far too much in my head
Sounds quite tough actually
@@69raisinswhy ye i hate it, that's why I'm in therapy lol
You're an anxious thinker. I had the same in those two categories.
aaay I'm a
Social: 32
Thinking: 43
Anxious: 38
Restrained: 27 , *peace sign*
I even had to think a lot to write this comment, but in the end, I couldn’t even write what I wanted to write 😭
Oh the number of posts I've written but never posted...
@@jagwolf8079 Exactly what I was going to say
@@angelbear_og same
Same
It's the internet, why does it matter to you, people will just ignore it if they don't like it
fun fact : introverts battery drains quicker than iphone after socializing with others . but , if the person is of their type and the topic is interesting , introverts energy wont even drop for hours ! they can talk literally forever !
I’m a sad mix of the thinking introvert and the anxious introvert
Same.
Frank: There are four types of introvert
Comments: All four types are me.
Me: "What kind of introvert am I?"
test in the description: "yes"
I got the highest score in the thinking, a score that was considered high in general, average in the social, close to high in the anxious, and close to low in the restrained
I'm definitely drained by social interactions. It's not so much the number of people in the crowd that's the problem, it's the novelty and unpredictability of the situation that's the problem. The more free-flowing the conversation the harder it is. I remember sitting at the table eating lunch in the cafeteria with other kids in my class in grade school and being totally mystified by how the conversation went from one subject to another with no apparent predictability. I felt incapable of participating. If it's a meeting of like-minded people working on a project together or discussing a previously agreed upon topic or agenda, that takes most of the stress off.
But I'm also easily embarrassed and dwell on embarrassing events for the rest of my life. If I perceive that I might be embarrassed by what I say or do, that's a cause for anxiety.
The other thing I find hard about social interactions is that I often have trouble identifying my own emotions and may need social isolation in order to discover how I truly feel about something. It's hard to put my emotions into words so it feels like I can't respond spontaneously in a given situation. And yes, my energy level in general is low and I have trouble getting out of bed in the morning.
I get a claustrophobic feeling when there are too many people* and when there's too much noise. Unless it's a moderately crowded nightclub & the noise levels preclude conversation & I can just dance. And woe betide anyone who tries to socialise with me inside the club. I may well give in to the urge to rip their extroverted head off 😀
* 'too many people is generally about 4 for me.
my results:
social 38
thinking 43
anxious 28
restrained 36
thought id be a little higher on restrained but other than that its pretty accurate to how i thought it would be!
I thought to myself “I’m definitely that one” for every one
This video helped me realize that most of your introvert content is about social and anxious introverts, not thinking or restrained. I'd enjoy more content on these different types!
Have u ever planned a conversation with someone in ur head over and over again but ended up saying something else?
(I literally thought abt posting this comment like 10 times)😂
It's ok for me, with random people in life. I deal with it. But at work. IT'S A PROBLEM
@@asylkhanshamkenov4710 oh for me its school not like anyone bullies me or anything but u know right
Yes. Either because at the last moment I decide it sounds really stupid, or because my mind LITERALLY GOES BLANK.
Notreally..
Hahaha.. Yeah..
That "for years afterwards." thing hurts the most tbh...
Right? I almost threw a controller at my TV (but then I’d regret it forever.) (Also I’ll delete this comment in 2 months.)
Funny story of me trying to socialise
“ so I was in the same class with this guy and our math teacher is just crazy and for no reason she started yelling at him and he just stayed there looking at her and when she went out I wanted to just be friendly and say hey don’t worry about it she’s crazy no big deal don’t overthink it , yeah but instead weirdass me couldn’t spit the words out and I ended up just staring at him for a couple minutes and made him so uncomfortable 😂😂😂 “
Omg kill me please
sounds like something i would do
Been there, done that ...
This channel helps me to know myself more. I was struggling before coz I wasn't sure if I'm an extrovert or introvert. But this channel helps me to know that I'm a true introvert, and I'm that 4 types of introvert. And I think I'm loving it because I know that it is really me. ❤️