So here's the thing about the INFP/ENFP bit: as an INFP, if I had gone to such lengths as to *lie* to someone about why I couldn't hang out with them, being found out would simply kill me. I would simply pass away.
And an ENFP would never call you out on that lie, even though they would totally know what you were doing. It's ok little INFP, you don't need to face the world alone. 😉😉
@@LilyGrace1990 oh same, like a boundary I’ve started to set with friends (I was not good at setting personal boundaries before, but I am getting a lot better at it) is to just tell me. Like I say that I will understand, but just don’t wait till like an hour before to tell me and you don’t have to lie I have those moments to where I don’t want to go or just don’t feel like being around people but as an extrovert when I am feeling icky being around people is just what I need so. I’d just be like “you know you don’t have to lie to me, just say that you don’t feel like hanging out.”
That ENTP and INTP one has literally happened so often before. I've (INTP) shown my husband (ENTP) so many of my favorite games before, games that I've played for YEARS, and within 15 minutes he's beating me at them and crushing all my confidence and sense of self. The predictability of the world is gone. The patterns, shattered. Nothing make sense anymore.
I'm curious about this because I don't know how you could be OK with an ENTJ wanting the reward without doing the work. INTJ wants to earn it, right? Does the ENTJ want to do all the work, or make someone else do all the work? This is what I'm trying to understand.
@@deconstructing7307 ENTJ's work, we just live by the moto, work smarter not harder. Once this plan is off the ground, the ENTJ moves on to building the next empire.
@@deconstructing7307 The ENTJ sees their work as managing and training all the minions - which is in fact very stressful. INTJs are fine with no outward recognition as long as their work is being recognized internally - good salary, career progression. In theory, they would be a perfect duo. The problem is, ENTJs can be dictatorial and INTJs hate to obey power figures - we're iconoclasts by nature. Any slight imbalance in hierarchy can lead to the relationship blowing up.
@@jessicanilo2110 Yes, exactly! INTJs and INFJs (myself) are more motivated by ideals, where ENTJs seem to be motivated by power. I would expect them to clash because ENTJ would try to dominate INTJ. That is no.
Do a series where every personality describes one in particular: 16 Personalities describing INFP 16 Personalities describing ISTP 16 Personalities describing ENTJ And so on.
But both Infj and enfj were like same same. But ni is dom for one and secondary for another 😵 could have made it more different. But all FJ videos have this 'FJ Charms' 🙃
Are you guys really that talented with sensing other people's feelings? I'm an INFP and for me it's very difficult to really understand other people (although I always overthink everything they say or do). Isn't it complicated? Or is it just the magic of extroverted feeling?
I have a twin sister. I am ENFJ and she's INFJ and I can never agree more about how this video was so accurate. That's exactly how our conversation goes and it doesn't end. I showed it to her and we were both laughing. She is 5 minutes older than me.
SAME with the twin sister and the types being that. Mine is ENFJ. although she is a little not intuative about how I feel but is shocked when i know how she feels. She is still an INFJ like she is amazing with others i just got good at hiding my problems but occasionally she might pick it up. Meanwhile, i know how she feels all along.
Yep, as an ENFJ, having an INFJ friend is free therapy for me and free therapy for them. It was so relatable that I was just laughing, holding my stomach. Also when I heard "I am sensing.." I was like "Yeah, that's NFJs, woahhhh"
I'm an INFP and my mom is an ENFP and we go on long distance hikes every morning. Our whole dynamic is basically Me: "I'm gonna plan this route so we don't get lost" Mom: "Sure. Now let's go this way." Me: "Wow, it's beautiful over here- wait, where are we?" Mom: "No idea. Hey look, dewdrops in a spider web!" Me: "Oooooo"
That's amazing. I never met an Enfp, this make me think how different Infp and Enfp is, cause there's a time I think I have dominant Ne. It would be nice having a friend who like to brainstorm ideas with TvT
As an Infp I am so attracted to intps for some reason, not just romantically but like I realized 80% of my closest friends were either INTP or ENFP, mostly INTP
@@6up5ohcopoutprocon heyyy! I'm also infp. Most of the people around me either don't know about MBTI or don't take it seriously so I unfortunately can't tell their types. I try to take guesses based on their preferences though
@@lightlumiere2335 same tbh, I just lately (literally this three last days) introduced them to it and made them take the tests, the only way to convince them was telling them about having the same personality as famous people (scientists, characters, artists they love...) and also that one extrovert girl (who pisses me off btw) who claims she loves MBTI, and since everyone likes her they listened to her.
@@6up5ohcopoutprocon I've also made some of my friends take the test and they've turned out to be mostly infjs and enfjs. I've heard people get mistyped as infjs a lot so I somehow doubt the accuracy. I was mistyped as an infj at first. Btw, are you really into MBTI if you don't convince other people to take a test?😅 I've been dying of curiosity to know some people's type but I'm too shy to ask them to take a test😄
My INFP friend won't lie to me if she doesn't feel like going out with me. She just tell me she doesn't want to go out, and that's ok n_n But we then set other day to meet up :3 Also, ENFP and INFP conversations are full of randomness and deepness. Or "randeepness" :3
You're teh kind of friends we need in life for real! That realize sometimes we just don't wanna go & still love us anyway so we feel ok being truthful with you. You're friend probably cherishes you, whether they tell you or not.
The ENFJ-INFJ duo is literally me and one of my absolute best friends 🤩 We either talk for hours or just keep each other company without much talking at all
@@celesteassi2721 Han! Donc je ne suis pas seul alors !! C'est super ça 🤩 J'ai découvert la chaîne par hasard quand j'avais décidé d'approfondir sur le MBTI (j'avais fait le test quelques années auparavant) Et toi ? On peu s'écrire en privé si tu veux ☺️
I'm an INFJ and having an ENFJ friend is totally heaven. The chemistry is on another level. We could go hours and hours talking about the topics we both love without any interruption because others can't relate to what we talk about 😂👍🏻 great minds sure think alike
Except when INFJ and ENFJ meet, and the ENFJ try to impose his standards and way of thinking on the INFJ, making the INFJ retract - causing a vicious cycle of the ENFJ judging and punishing the INFJ for not being a puppet, and the INFJ retracting further, because no INFJ wants to live by other peoples standards. 🙃
I love that the NFJs randomly met in the bathroom and had the most cathartic therapy breakthroughs. I can imagine this being their first actual conversation after noticing one another in passing and getting married shortly after graduation,all while their relationship remains secret until then. The understanding is too real. Like star athlete and goth outcast having everything in common vibes. Makes me wonder, "Is my romantic counterpart also my extroverted personality.... counterpart?" The word may never know! 🤣
I am ENTJ and my husband and best friend are both my introverted counterparts, INTJ. This is accurate. I am always the one coming up with these big ideas. They are both the logical geniuses who develop more precision plans for execution. My best friend and I had a secret love of writing. As soon as I discovered this I said "let's write a book together, publish it, sell thousands of copies." We wrote the book, she did all of our accounting, I did the marketing. We won an award for that book, went on to publish several more books. ENTJ and INTJ = perfect match.
The "Let's write a book" part was so relatable but me and my friends never really properly wrote the books just discussed the characters. We were young back then and 2 of us were INTP and ENFP lol
@@1tubax I was thinking, 'Oh, no. That's the INTP losing, isn't it?' I don't like the idea of losing to an ENTP unless I win frequently enough too. Nothing to do with ENTPs, and everything to do with the idea that INTPs always lose arguments to ENTPs. Though, honestly, thinking about it, ENTPs and INTPs have very different motivations in arguments, so I suppose it doesn't matter.
@@makaniwebb9358 yeah, intps argue to be correct, and entps argue cause it’s fun. Of course, i (an intp) argue cuz it’s fun too, but it also has to be correct to be fun.
I am an ENFJ and one time I was talking with another ENFJ, 10 minutes after meeting him I said "It's so nice that you're so confident, I know that you weren't always like this and it's been a struggle. You know what? Your future pain will make you a lot more mature and a lot happier." And he was like "Wait how did you know that I wasn't confident since recently?" And then he was like "Oh, I understand why you understand it" and I'm like "Yeah" and he's like "seriously I'm not lying, I can understand how you found it out it's like... Umm..." Me: "Hey I understand how you understand that I understand it" and he's like "yeah I understand how 😅😃"
My closest cousins are an INFJ and an ENFJ. I myself am an INFJ and honestly these 2 are the most understanding human beings I've ever met. My boyfriend is an ISTJ and learning about the 16P has helped me understand why we are so different in how we deal with situations. The best thing is that we both want the same things. That is what has worked for us in the relationship for the most part. That and talking about anything and everything under the sun since the past 10 years of knowing one another and 5 years of dating one another hehehe
Oh, man, this comment... I'm an ENFJ falling for an ISTJ, and it makes me concerned because I do know we're total opposites in many aspects, how can we deal with a relationship? I'm glad you and your boyfriend have been working out together all these years though S2
Yes! My husband of 13 years is an istj and im infj. It can be challenging at times , but so worth it. I've felt good with my isfj,enfp,infj isfj Co workers. It's weird that there are 3 infj at my company. Weird but What can i say we are attracted to broken things we think we can fix. The enfp and infp couldn't take the heat and now my isfjs are dropping like flies. I kept complaining and my Ceo finally hired an iterations director. My new company coach is an enfj and I'm like wow is someone understanding me for once? First time i felt like I really had someone in my corner in my toxic work environment. Who wants to make it better, but communicates all my ideas way better than me. Talk about a breath of fresh air...
The Enfj-Infj interaction literally made me go "aww🥺" ngl. Must be nice to have a friend who understands you and care for you as much as you care and understand them TT - INFJ
@@bluejay7805 yess. I am also an ENFJ and I have never met another ENFJ in real life, like wtf. Where are you cuties all? :DD I often meet infjs tho, also great people. INFJ x ENFJ is a great friendship, yes :))
@@xkaruu5122 I guess it's because ENFJ is kind of a rare personality, I mean, we're less than 3% of the world's population. But I have such a good friend of mine who's also an ENFJ, and we think and act similarly in almost every way possible, and we have many hobbies in common. She understands me as no one else ever could, and she says the same about me. Though I also feel amazing around other personalities and have strong friendships with them.
We have two sets of older and younger siblings with these pairings. Not 100 accurate but my INFJ brother and I usually are counseling each other simultaneously.
I guess it all depends on how a person grows up. I am an INFP. I had no friends, kept getting bullied at school and more abuse. I am now 28 and have changed so much. I have healed, I have overcome social anxiety and depression. I crave for social time with my close friends and definitely not cancel any of our hangouts. I guess all those years without friends made me wanna crave for that and cherish them!
I feel you. As an introvert I don't like to hang out like every day or every two days. Like sometimes once a week looks too much for me but I force myself because if I don't interact I can't do bonding with people. I joined an NGO to help and know people and I try to attend all the meetings. Ah by the way I'm a social and thinking introvert. I can't stand highly extrovert people it's overwhelming. I have an acquaintance that she's very very extrovert and I feel like she needs to be with someone 24/7 and she is too close to everyone, I mean she invades their privacy. For example there was a couple and she sat next to the boy and took his hand, she wanted to talk with him and know each other and she ignored the girl (the girlfriend). As for me she's keeps asking me if I'm okay and doesn't let me breath and space out, my brain can't be 24/7 paying attention to people, I need to be in my own world to have a social rest and recharge a bit. And even if my mind is in the real world I don't have the energy to show I'm excited all the time. And she goes too close to me and asks me as a joke "hehe should we kiss each other?"
Nice! Glad you're a healthy INFP. I'm 27 and an ESTJ though I thought I was an introvert as a kid because I'm shy (so, not like the stereotype either) and not super friendly, but I enjoy working and doing stuff with people and don't get drained being around a bunch of people.
There will come a time you will not see it like this. A strong attachment to ones (current) identity Is something that usually needs to be balanced as we grow older and wiser in life. And INTP can have lessons for ENTP too. This is one facet of it. :)
Nailed the ISTJ, as always. As an ISTJ, I started saving my money when I was 8 years old and planned extensively for a road trip to Ohio that I anticipated to be years in the future. Along the way, I lost interest in Ohio and was left with a ton of cash savings that I had nothing to do with other than invest, and that's the story of how I'm not broke in college because of my obsession with planning things way too far in advance.
I wasn't broke in college because my dad's an ISTJ and as an ESTJ I've followed his good financial advice. I don't know about Ohio but I moved to Michigan for a few years and really liked it, the sand dunes along Lake Michigan are super underrated as a tourist destination.
Dude its becoming annoying that even in games i plan out everything for years to come....only for a big update to come that changes how the game work....im just there "oh.....well.....cool, guess thats hype.....LETS DO IT AGAIN"
ENFJ here, I had an INFJ friend in college and we had SO MANY conversations like this LOL our dialogue was sounded like a movie script for some reason but it was really nice. Hope he's doing well :)
@@deconstructing7307 I can count on one hand the number of times we went to a zoo so unfortunately it never came up. They did wrestle each other a lot as most brothers usually do. They also did different clubs growing up, the ESTP being into football and chess while the ISTP was into track and cross country. After high school they did find a common love for paintball. Though I think their taste in sports has matured a bit. They've been really into disc golf lately.
As someone who has had an identity crisis over losing their computer mouse, I can confirm this is 100% accurate. --INTP (P.S. The ISFP/ESFP skit is exactly something my two brothers of the respective types would do.)
@@RandomGuy-yf4wf It wasn't so much about the mouse as it was about what losing it said about me, who I am, how I function, etc. One thing really just led to another. Strap yourself in for a lengthier explanation than is probably necessary. See, my room was a mess, but it was an organized mess. I knew where everything was, even if no one else could figure it out. I ordered everything in haphazard piles and stacks on my floor, arranged by level of importance or time sensitivity based on proximity to my bed. Every time I tried cleaning and organizing it to someone else's standards, I became lost and couldn't remember where anything was or what I had to do. I've always viewed my room as a reflection of my mind in terms of organization and ability to confuse and frustrate people. Everything is everywhere, and if you're not careful, you'll trip on something. Enter the misplacement of my mouse. This disrupted everything. All of the order in the disorder. All of the method to the madness. I had known where everything was amidst the chaos, but now suddenly I didn’t. I kept second guessing myself and my setup, and if this happened to my room, how did that translate to my mind? Not knowing my room as well as I thought meant I also didn’t know myself as well as I thought. My room was a reflection of who I was and how I functioned. After all, the way one's mind works directly influences how they treat their living and work spaces. Drawing a comparison was inevitable for me, but evidently dangerous. Suddenly, my mind seemed just as fragile and precarious and dysfunctional as my room now appeared to be. Although I would always convince myself that it was fine that my room and my mental space were cluttered and messy and unorganized, now I couldn’t stop thinking of times when that was proven incorrect. My memory has always been absolutely abhorrent. I’m constantly losing memories in a very similar way to how I had lost my mouse. Not just memories, either. Knowledge and facts that I used to know slip through the cracks, schedules disappear like they never existed, basic functions of everyday life like eating are either forgotten about or their priority level is mislabeled as much lower than it should be. The signs were there before, but I didn’t let myself see it. This all spiraled me down a rabbit hole of constantly second guessing myself, how I function/work, and who I am. As ridiculous as it sounds, the state of my room and the connection I made between it and my mind were part of my identity, and that was put into question. It was a double whammy. The funny thing is the mouse wasn't actually lost in my room. I found it a week later on the family computer desk. The whole "crisis" was unwarranted because it turned out I was just stupid, which I already knew.
@@angstydoodles1101 I wouldn't call your room a reflection of your identity, because your mind is much more complex than a room can represent. There's simply not enough objects in your room to depict the neural network that is your brain. However, disassembling and reassembling all the atoms inside your room such that after the reassemblement all the atoms form an accurate copy of your brain would work, I doubt that you did that. If a mirror showed an accurate reflection of you, then your room to your mind would be equivalent to a slightly misplaced hairs on a carpet(instead of a mirror) resembling your looks. Your room is not a part of your identity, but a symptom of it. We all lose memories, connections between our thoughts, our ideas, that is, we can't keep absolute order in our minds, because that's how our brains work, and if they didn't work like that, then we wouldn't be what we are now. Losing your mouse would be equivalent to losing a nice idea about epistemology you had 2 days ago, but it's just how our brains work. Losing your mouse triggered a chain reaction of trying to remember all the things that may help you in calculating the quality of your mind. This is ineffective however, because memories fade, and we often tend to look for a certain kind of thing, that is good/bad, without looking at the full picture. Much more effective way to measure yourself would be to have a kind of feedback loop, where you ask yourself, over a period of time, what are you doing and what could you be doing better.
I'm an ISFP and the skit doesn't match me. Like on the general I trust people but I don't donate to every charity I come across especially if I have never heard about it. First I have to do some research. And If I would have to ask someone if they want to donate to a charity, I wouldn't comment it no matter if they said yes or no, maybe simple thank you, I appreciate it. But also I don't think anyone around me has the ESFP personality type. Maybe if there was someone I would change my mind idk
Jokes on you, as an infp, I always enjoy getting dragged along by my enfp friend. It's just that at the end of the day, I will severely lack any kind of energy
i always love doing things with my enfp friend, but she has that enfp spontaneity and adventurous streak which does NOT mix well with my anxiety and need to plan everything months in advance. love her though, enfps are the best
As an enfp I would be totally ok if you said "hey sorry about this, but I'm worn out and feel like I should head home!" I value honesty over someone lying about how much fun they had when they don't. (Usually, I can start telling when someone hates hanging out or is bored/tired.) As long as you don't always bail on everything, life is good! Especially since infps are so great to chat with and have unusual conversations with! 😄
I always love coming back to this one. ISFP might not be the one always coming up with the impulsive ideas but we will always follow them! Joining with ESFP makes us unstoppable.
@am i I am very vocal and my friend used to be reserved but I helped him out of his shell. We both have long term goals, but he definitely brings his up less than I do :) Hope this was helpful!
ENFP here, dragging introverts to food trucks is a legit favourite summer activity. Oh and getting sidetracked by brewery patios nearby. And ice cream.
3:13 You're sensing right. (INFJ) I liked how the worries of the ENFJ came from Fe and the worries of INFJ came from Ni but both of them used Ni and Fe to read each other.
The INTJ knowing the ENTJ’s plan is awesome but feeling threatened and this digging them with the one and only insult that would actually affect them is amazing 😂😂
The INTJ is not "insulting" the ENTJ by not knowing who they are -- they literally don't know who they are. And highly unlikely to feel "threatened" but rather, again literally, think it sounds like a good plan. FJ was spot on with characterization but you're misreading the INTJ reaction completely.
The xSTJ is the skit about planning months in advance for the model railroad convention. There are actually a good number of xSTJs in government employment, and they do care about accuracy!
As an INFJ with no ENFJ friends, I can't judge if it's accurate but I'd say this is how I'd definitely imagine the conversation to be like. Must be nice
Ideas: 16 personalities interacting with their S/N type.. 16 personalities interacting with their T/F type.. 16 personalities interacting with their P/J type..
Me and my husband are ENFJ and INFJ respectively so we have conversations like this one but we don't cry about it 😂 we are best friends and we understand each other pretty well which is really nice specially if one or the other is having a hard day.
As an INFP with an ENFP mom, that conversation is golden. 😂 Although my mom is not as... flamboyant, there's definitely a "let's do this! ... when you're feeling up for it" dynamic and that's fun. Sometimes you'd even see us reverse the roles and I'd be the one pushing her to do things and go out, so I guess we're a nice duo. 😄
Video Suggestions: • 16 Personalities Giving Up Something (for Lent) • 16 P on a Scavenger (or Easter Egg) Hunt • 16 P Decluttering / Going Through Their Stuff / at a Garage Sale I’m also curious about situations or factors that might make it seem like people are a different type than what they really are. Are there “common” or “easy” mistakes that amateur MBTI enthusiasts (like me and others who watch your videos) might be likely to male when trying to figure out someone’s MBTI type? Thanks for yet another fab video!
Something crazy happen today with my INTJ friend We were talking about MBTI and basically talking about everyone we met possible personality type. She usually labels them by thinking about what function they use the most "FI/FE SE/SI" and stuff meanwhile I told her I just try to use "ISFP/ESFP" the whole in general cause I'm not very good at dissecting it. Then I realise that my friend (INTJ) prefer using their NI (by looking deep into their main fuction to determine their MBTI) meanwhile me (INFP) prefer using NE(by looking their personality type as whole in general). Which is why I have such a hard time understanding how she labels it and she doesn't prefer using the 4 words in general. Which was cool when we realise it were like "ITS ALL COMING TOGETHER " Thanks for taking the time to read my short story
As the first person started talking, i was like this sounds like me but more enthusiastic to an actual person compared to talking to my myself only for it to be ENTJ. -INTJ.
The avoidant behavior of the INFP is a MOOD literally I make things up all the time out of anxiety. Sometimes true, sometimes half true...being busy can mean anything nowadays
the scene at 0:52 actually took place with me in real life! I beat my INTP friend at chess cuz I wasn't following a strategy and ultimately won! well done at capturing that Frank!
I follow strategies, but it's more of a "general idea gut feel what do I want to do" thing, and end up doing surprisingly well. I hate games where you have to study strategies to win. I think I'm ENTP, though I tend to be rather ambiverted
@@id01_01 ENTP tend to be amnivert quite a bit (I know I am at least on an off and definitely ENTP). In childhood we can even be somewhat introverted. :)
@@charlmon i’m not that surprised Ne doesn’t like rules, but still good at detecting and utilizing patterns. We still have strong Ti, Even if we’re not aware of it we it we supplement that with some strong logic and rational action, Even if not traditional sort of strategy. In some ways this combination can indeed be more “deadly” in that it is more unorthodox, creative, and less predictable.
Accurate 100% when me (INFJ) and my ENFJ best friend indulge in conversations (rarely) based on our lives... Couldn't agree more.. Happy to see your videos (as an INFJ).
INFJ/ENFJ is spot on. Although this is kinda how my INFJ/INFJ interactions go too, but with more awkward silence and lingering between "So I'm sensing..."
When I don't respond to people, it's usually because the only honest thing I can say would be to contradict them. Another common reason is that they go going too fast, I'm still thinking about what they said three sentences ago. Another possibility is that they are literally talking "for" me, and revealing their deep misunderstanding of me in the process, which I could put a stop to, but it's all too fascinating. Yes, people talk for me all the time. If I'm not Johnny-on-the-spot with an open, shareable reaction, they start filling in for my half of the conversation. They attribute reactions to me which are way off base, and they say what they believe I'm thinking, and then just go on with the conversation. I also find people using a lot of force in a conversation, which I can't respond to. They say manipulative things, use sales techniques to make me agree with stuff, pressure me, etc. I simply balk. It is beneath my dignity to argue with such persons, and I sure as Hell won't be giving in. If they trick me into initially giving in, then I loathe them forever because they have triggered my compliance and witnessed my shame.
help jsdfj it'd be hilarious, I feel like us ourselves always want to end it that way if it's not going like we thought, such as confessing, or wanting them to know -that- side we have, or any other reasons like being too friendly, accepting when they say i hope we can still have a good relationship idk that's how life is for us huh
Because we don't have boundaries. The people we are into, think we're such amazing friends and the ones who we might dislike or are neutral towards, think we're into them (just because we go out of our way).
HEY, FRANK! Could you do a video on types interacting with their opposite personality in their category like: Analysts: ENTP INTJ INTP ENTJ Explorers: ESFP ISTP ESTP ISFP Sentinels: ESTJ ISFJ ISTJ ESFJ Diplomats: INFJ ENFP INFP ENFJ OR a video with all the categories interacting together, like the: DIPLOMATS ANALYSTS EXPLORERS SENTINELS Thanks Luv you ❤️
Well... I will share what are the types I think are most compatible with: * INTJ: (ENFP & ENTP): INFJ * ISTJ: (ESFP & ESTP): ISFJ *ENFP: (INFJ & INTJ): ENTP * ESFP: (ISFJ & ISTJ): ESTP * INTP: (ENTJ & ENFJ): INFP * ISTP: (ESTJ & ESFJ): ISFP * ENTJ: (INFP & INTP): ENFJ * ESTJ: (ISFP & ISTP): ESFJ However, this is subjective. Any pair of couples within the mbti are ok.
So I'm an INFJ but my I & E are typically like 49 and 51, so the INFJ and ENFJ face-off was pretty much my internal struggle trying to figure out my own self and it's issues 😆
@@js42025 oh I’m definitely an INFJ but my ENFJ type comes out sometimes especially when I’m one on one with someone talking about personal growth opportunities haha
I'm either a Infj or a Infp because I'm all in on the introverted, intuition and feeling parts but the J & P are pretty much 50/50 so I just consider myself both types since I see myself in both lol.
If it's in the middle you're most likely INFJ. INFJs are some of the most extraverted introverts. If you were an ENFJ you would have been really high on E
As an ISFP my bday is like my favorite time of the year, and this totally happened before btw a ESFP friend of mine and myself! But who cares we always celebrate In the end :) no hard feelings ever.
I'm an ENFJ and one of my best friends is an INFJ. We often hung out in a group of friend's together, but one day we started going running in the morning and our conversations often got deep and sensing super fast. We would just say something, and the other person would be like, "Oh my gosh, I completely understand that!" The amount of understanding was amazing, some of the best conversations I have ever had!
Likewise, I've only known one ENFJ whom I can relate with constantly picking up other people's emotions. Otherwise, I'm almost completely surrounded by sensors!
@@trinaq I only know like One ENFJ and she and I get along so well. Like even without completing our sentences we just kind of always get what the other person is trying to say. Anyways, it's nice to have someone like that😌
As an INFP, this is so relatable! I have an ENFP friend and I like spending time with her because she is so funny, but she is sometimes a little bit obsesive…
i like the fact that ISTP is also wasting his time to watch ESTP playing poker lmao.. also i can't get to be more relate about ESFP and ISFP forgetting their bday, im an xxFP.. but not with ENFP though never know INFJ ENFJ men would be so dramatic in the toilet talk
My cousin is an INFJ and I'm an ENFJ, and you pretty much just copy and pasted our conversations 😂It's like we both know what the other person is going to say and why, but it's just reassuring and interesting to hear. We get along waaaay too well.
Haha, that INFP was me as a teenager, always lying to get out of social activities if I wasn't in the mood. I don't really do that as an adult, especially not with ENFPs!
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This type of comment is wot I always look for the comment section....i just wabt what it says about me . INTJ
So here's the thing about the INFP/ENFP bit: as an INFP, if I had gone to such lengths as to *lie* to someone about why I couldn't hang out with them, being found out would simply kill me. I would simply pass away.
Very accurate
And an ENFP would never call you out on that lie, even though they would totally know what you were doing. It's ok little INFP, you don't need to face the world alone. 😉😉
As an ENFP, I would be really hurt that the INFP felt the need to lie. I have days when I don't want to do anything social too. I get it.
@@LilyGrace1990 oh same, like a boundary I’ve started to set with friends (I was not good at setting personal boundaries before, but I am getting a lot better at it) is to just tell me. Like I say that I will understand, but just don’t wait till like an hour before to tell me and you don’t have to lie I have those moments to where I don’t want to go or just don’t feel like being around people but as an extrovert when I am feeling icky being around people is just what I need so. I’d just be like “you know you don’t have to lie to me, just say that you don’t feel like hanging out.”
I am sorry for your loss.
I love how the INTJ didn't know who was approaching him but he waited for ENTJ to finish his thought anyway 😆
Well, how do you counter a complete unknown? It's also harder when they're overwhelmingly enthusiastic. :)
@@jenniferhanses4205 agreed, though that gets me stuck when I'm accosted in public by someone trying to get me to buy/sign up for something 😅
Well we are open-minded... 😂
Yeah. I often didn't have an idea who has great conversation with me 😅
#intj
if it's an interesting proposal, why the f not.
That ENTP and INTP one has literally happened so often before. I've (INTP) shown my husband (ENTP) so many of my favorite games before, games that I've played for YEARS, and within 15 minutes he's beating me at them and crushing all my confidence and sense of self. The predictability of the world is gone. The patterns, shattered. Nothing make sense anymore.
Yes, feel the chaos, smell the chaos, taste the chaos within you and only then can you draw logic from its depths!
@@id01_01 ないす
The impostor syndrome is real.
lmfaoo😭😭
@@id01_01 and BE the chaos
I feel like INTJ and ENTJ relations vary between “we plan amazing things together” to “we disagree completely” and there’s no in between
-Fellow INTJ
I'm curious about this because I don't know how you could be OK with an ENTJ wanting the reward without doing the work. INTJ wants to earn it, right? Does the ENTJ want to do all the work, or make someone else do all the work? This is what I'm trying to understand.
I'm a Feeler though, so maybe you don't care whether the ENTJ cares or not, as long as your objectives match.
@@deconstructing7307 ENTJ's work, we just live by the moto, work smarter not harder. Once this plan is off the ground, the ENTJ moves on to building the next empire.
@@deconstructing7307 The ENTJ sees their work as managing and training all the minions - which is in fact very stressful. INTJs are fine with no outward recognition as long as their work is being recognized internally - good salary, career progression. In theory, they would be a perfect duo. The problem is, ENTJs can be dictatorial and INTJs hate to obey power figures - we're iconoclasts by nature. Any slight imbalance in hierarchy can lead to the relationship blowing up.
@@jessicanilo2110 Yes, exactly! INTJs and INFJs (myself) are more motivated by ideals, where ENTJs seem to be motivated by power. I would expect them to clash because ENTJ would try to dominate INTJ. That is no.
Do a series where every personality describes one in particular:
16 Personalities describing INFP
16 Personalities describing ISTP
16 Personalities describing ENTJ
And so on.
I really like that idea, i think he has done it in an explanation style but not in a comedic skit format to my knowledge.
:D that's so interestingggg
YES THIS IDEA IS AWESOME
Yesss let's go for it !!
Vouch
I loved the INFJ/ENFJ skit, why actually have a conversation with someone when you can easily sense EVERYTHING that they're currently feeling?! 😅😉
Ikr
im an infj and my girlfriend is an enfj can confirm this is how our conversations go 🤣
My brother is an ENFJ and I'm an INFJ. Our conversations are usually us being dumbasses. 🤣
But both Infj and enfj were like same same. But ni is dom for one and secondary for another 😵 could have made it more different. But all FJ videos have this 'FJ Charms' 🙃
Are you guys really that talented with sensing other people's feelings? I'm an INFP and for me it's very difficult to really understand other people (although I always overthink everything they say or do). Isn't it complicated? Or is it just the magic of extroverted feeling?
I’m an INFJ and my twin sister an ENFJ - this is exactly how every conversation goes and it drives our family insane😂 haha
You INFJs & ENFJs are truly the most precious humans
@@ingridmarie3587
@🍕__Mulan__🍕 love INFP’s too😭💖
@@ingridmarie3587 💖😭
I'm a infj and my twin sister is a infp lol 🤣
I have a twin sister. I am ENFJ and she's INFJ and I can never agree more about how this video was so accurate. That's exactly how our conversation goes and it doesn't end. I showed it to her and we were both laughing. She is 5 minutes older than me.
SAME with the twin sister and the types being that. Mine is ENFJ. although she is a little not intuative about how I feel but is shocked when i know how she feels. She is still an INFJ like she is amazing with others i just got good at hiding my problems but occasionally she might pick it up. Meanwhile, i know how she feels all along.
Yep, as an ENFJ, having an INFJ friend is free therapy for me and free therapy for them. It was so relatable that I was just laughing, holding my stomach. Also when I heard "I am sensing.." I was like "Yeah, that's NFJs, woahhhh"
I'm an INFP and my mom is an ENFP and we go on long distance hikes every morning. Our whole dynamic is basically
Me: "I'm gonna plan this route so we don't get lost"
Mom: "Sure. Now let's go this way."
Me: "Wow, it's beautiful over here- wait, where are we?"
Mom: "No idea. Hey look, dewdrops in a spider web!"
Me: "Oooooo"
That's so sweet
Aww thats awesome! Infps are pretty great! -enfp
That's amazing. I never met an Enfp, this make me think how different Infp and Enfp is, cause there's a time I think I have dominant Ne. It would be nice having a friend who like to brainstorm ideas with TvT
Aw that honestly sounds so nice
That sounds like a S (Se namely) type if I've ever seen one
I think we need a "16 personalities and their toxic versions" like INFJ w/ toxic INFJ, ESTP w/ toxic ESTP etc.
That video will be bombarded by negativity
I'm interested.
Yes yes yes this is needed
I'm typed as INFP-T (turbulent)😕
Got some work to do..
@@kiki_3405 An INFP-T and a Toxic INFP are not the same. Don't be too hard on yourself, man.
Yes! that would be very interesting.
I'm absolutely loving this counterpart series. Could you do thinking types with their feeling types next? Entj/enfj, infp/intp etc
As an Infp I am so attracted to intps for some reason, not just romantically but like I realized 80% of my closest friends were either INTP or ENFP, mostly INTP
@@6up5ohcopoutprocon heyyy! I'm also infp. Most of the people around me either don't know about MBTI or don't take it seriously so I unfortunately can't tell their types. I try to take guesses based on their preferences though
@@lightlumiere2335
Bro same 😂😂
@@lightlumiere2335 same tbh, I just lately (literally this three last days) introduced them to it and made them take the tests, the only way to convince them was telling them about having the same personality as famous people (scientists, characters, artists they love...) and also that one extrovert girl (who pisses me off btw) who claims she loves MBTI, and since everyone likes her they listened to her.
@@6up5ohcopoutprocon I've also made some of my friends take the test and they've turned out to be mostly infjs and enfjs. I've heard people get mistyped as infjs a lot so I somehow doubt the accuracy. I was mistyped as an infj at first.
Btw, are you really into MBTI if you don't convince other people to take a test?😅 I've been dying of curiosity to know some people's type but I'm too shy to ask them to take a test😄
My INFP friend won't lie to me if she doesn't feel like going out with me. She just tell me she doesn't want to go out, and that's ok n_n But we then set other day to meet up :3 Also, ENFP and INFP conversations are full of randomness and deepness. Or "randeepness" :3
Randeepness is very true.
You're teh kind of friends we need in life for real! That realize sometimes we just don't wanna go & still love us anyway so we feel ok being truthful with you. You're friend probably cherishes you, whether they tell you or not.
Hehe, or "deepdomness"?? XD
@@kattykat9600 Awww, Muchísimas Gracias n_n
@@MyWits_End That also works XD XD
I knew the first one would be ENTJ because he was planning a lot but too loud about it, and then the INTJ reaction killed me. 😆
Yes, we get very excited about our master plans :)
Never reveal your plans so early to mortals
The ENFJ-INFJ duo is literally me and one of my absolute best friends 🤩
We either talk for hours or just keep each other company without much talking at all
Oh, le premier ivorien que je rencontre dans cette section 😊
Pardon mais tu me permets de te demander comment tu as atterrit ici ..😅
Saaame, it's always a deep talk and that's exactly what i need😌
@@celesteassi2721 Han! Donc je ne suis pas seul alors !! C'est super ça 🤩
J'ai découvert la chaîne par hasard quand j'avais décidé d'approfondir sur le MBTI (j'avais fait le test quelques années auparavant)
Et toi ?
On peu s'écrire en privé si tu veux ☺️
@@shafarahmanifaza IKR?
@@wilbeugre Je veux bien 😊 so Facebook ou insta ?
I'm an INFJ and having an ENFJ friend is totally heaven. The chemistry is on another level. We could go hours and hours talking about the topics we both love without any interruption because others can't relate to what we talk about 😂👍🏻 great minds sure think alike
Relatable
ENFJ and omg, you guys are amazing, literally the best people
@@sjedwardscissorhands tysm!! y'all are awesome guys! so caring and inspiring
Except when INFJ and ENFJ meet, and the ENFJ try to impose his standards and way of thinking on the INFJ, making the INFJ retract - causing a vicious cycle of the ENFJ judging and punishing the INFJ for not being a puppet, and the INFJ retracting further, because no INFJ wants to live by other peoples standards. 🙃
I clocked the XNFJ and XNFP ones lol.
As an INFJ with an ENFP parent, you nailed the ENFP trying to keep their plans at all costs 🤣
Same here, but with an ENFP sister too invested in going out somewhere
How is that connection? I am ENFP and I have an INFJ girlfriend and that is the best match EVER!
Yes, “plans”, and totally not “thing I thought of then and there”. Although I don’t have much room to talk. ISTP with anENFP girlfriend
What’s with everyone thinking we ENFP’s have plans?
@@unmemorablehero My brother is an ENFP, he has planned 10+ years into the future. (INTJ here)
I love that the NFJs randomly met in the bathroom and had the most cathartic therapy breakthroughs. I can imagine this being their first actual conversation after noticing one another in passing and getting married shortly after graduation,all while their relationship remains secret until then. The understanding is too real. Like star athlete and goth outcast having everything in common vibes. Makes me wonder, "Is my romantic counterpart also my extroverted personality.... counterpart?" The word may never know! 🤣
I am ENTJ and my husband and best friend are both my introverted counterparts, INTJ. This is accurate. I am always the one coming up with these big ideas. They are both the logical geniuses who develop more precision plans for execution. My best friend and I had a secret love of writing. As soon as I discovered this I said "let's write a book together, publish it, sell thousands of copies." We wrote the book, she did all of our accounting, I did the marketing. We won an award for that book, went on to publish several more books. ENTJ and INTJ = perfect match.
Unless we disagree, then it’s warfare😅 ENTJs desire to make their plans a priority is like.. personal insult for INTJs
When you said: "lets write it and sell thousands of copies" I just felt that.
@@rezasalamati9652 haha, yeah. I always assume best-case scenario.
The "Let's write a book" part was so relatable but me and my friends never really properly wrote the books just discussed the characters. We were young back then and 2 of us were INTP and ENFP lol
Damn. Wish I had an ENTJ best friend...
- fellow INTJ man
INTJ ENTJ team could simply rule the world
True, at least until the ENTJ attempts to consolidate power and the INTJ initiates their self-destruct contingency.
Until INTJ gets angry with ENTJ trying to boss them all the time
Oh man, INFP has a lot to explain to aunt to aunt Hilda when he arrives with all those tacos
Imagine if her aunt is an ESTJ...
They don't want to taco'bout it.
As an INFP I can approve that aunt Hilda doesn't even exist.
@@albertojosesayago8421 Yeah and imagine if the INFP's name is Timmy
The Intp/Entp interacting as gaming rivals is so iconic
dude I was literally like "bro this is soo me if this is not ENTP then I really don't know who I am"
thank god it was
@@1tubax
I'd love to game with an entp sometime. I bet it'll bring out the inherent chaos in me.
-INFP
@@1tubax I have an Entp brother and this is us on a daily basis.
I recognized it on the spot🤭🤭
@@1tubax I was thinking, 'Oh, no. That's the INTP losing, isn't it?'
I don't like the idea of losing to an ENTP unless I win frequently enough too. Nothing to do with ENTPs, and everything to do with the idea that INTPs always lose arguments to ENTPs.
Though, honestly, thinking about it, ENTPs and INTPs have very different motivations in arguments, so I suppose it doesn't matter.
@@makaniwebb9358 yeah, intps argue to be correct, and entps argue cause it’s fun. Of course, i (an intp) argue cuz it’s fun too, but it also has to be correct to be fun.
I am an ENFJ and one time I was talking with another ENFJ, 10 minutes after meeting him I said "It's so nice that you're so confident, I know that you weren't always like this and it's been a struggle. You know what? Your future pain will make you a lot more mature and a lot happier." And he was like "Wait how did you know that I wasn't confident since recently?" And then he was like "Oh, I understand why you understand it" and I'm like "Yeah" and he's like "seriously I'm not lying, I can understand how you found it out it's like... Umm..." Me: "Hey I understand how you understand that I understand it" and he's like "yeah I understand how 😅😃"
As an ENFJ we just know. We just know lol
i’m simultaneously an ISTP/ESTP at work. and i work for the govt. youre representation was spot on
My closest cousins are an INFJ and an ENFJ. I myself am an INFJ and honestly these 2 are the most understanding human beings I've ever met. My boyfriend is an ISTJ and learning about the 16P has helped me understand why we are so different in how we deal with situations. The best thing is that we both want the same things. That is what has worked for us in the relationship for the most part. That and talking about anything and everything under the sun since the past 10 years of knowing one another and 5 years of dating one another hehehe
Isn't like 2% of the population infjs? What are the odds 🤨
Oh, man, this comment... I'm an ENFJ falling for an ISTJ, and it makes me concerned because I do know we're total opposites in many aspects, how can we deal with a relationship? I'm glad you and your boyfriend have been working out together all these years though S2
@@artvulture456 1% of the world itself is literally 140+ million people. It's not very little
Yes! My husband of 13 years is an istj and im infj. It can be challenging at times , but so worth it. I've felt good with my isfj,enfp,infj isfj Co workers. It's weird that there are 3 infj at my company. Weird but What can i say we are attracted to broken things we think we can fix. The enfp and infp couldn't take the heat and now my isfjs are dropping like flies. I kept complaining and my Ceo finally hired an iterations director.
My new company coach is an enfj and I'm like wow is someone understanding me for once? First time i felt like I really had someone in my corner in my toxic work environment. Who wants to make it better, but communicates all my ideas way better than me. Talk about a breath of fresh air...
Wow I am an infj with an istj boyfriend too!
The Enfj-Infj interaction literally made me go "aww🥺" ngl.
Must be nice to have a friend who understands you and care for you as much as you care and understand them TT
- INFJ
And here you got an attentive ENFJ who's always looking for new friends to care about, nice to meet you lol
I want to find an enfj counterpart lol
@@rebecafermino1194 enfj here and what you just said is totally enfj yyy 😂😂😂 passed the enfj vibe check mate
@@bluejay7805 yess. I am also an ENFJ and I have never met another ENFJ in real life, like wtf. Where are you cuties all? :DD
I often meet infjs tho, also great people. INFJ x ENFJ is a great friendship, yes :))
@@xkaruu5122 I guess it's because ENFJ is kind of a rare personality, I mean, we're less than 3% of the world's population. But I have such a good friend of mine who's also an ENFJ, and we think and act similarly in almost every way possible, and we have many hobbies in common. She understands me as no one else ever could, and she says the same about me. Though I also feel amazing around other personalities and have strong friendships with them.
🤣ISTP/ESTP hilarious!! I knew those government workers didn't give a shrimp! The INFJ/ENFJ killed me... man!😭 🙌💜
We have two sets of older and younger siblings with these pairings. Not 100 accurate but my INFJ brother and I usually are counseling each other simultaneously.
@@ginocastillo8272 😂 That's cool. I have no idea what my siblings are, but I know I'm the odd one out.
Except some of us think it really matters because it’s government
I guess it all depends on how a person grows up. I am an INFP. I had no friends, kept getting bullied at school and more abuse. I am now 28 and have changed so much. I have healed, I have overcome social anxiety and depression. I crave for social time with my close friends and definitely not cancel any of our hangouts. I guess all those years without friends made me wanna crave for that and cherish them!
same here! we tend to be late bloomers
I feel you. As an introvert I don't like to hang out like every day or every two days. Like sometimes once a week looks too much for me but I force myself because if I don't interact I can't do bonding with people. I joined an NGO to help and know people and I try to attend all the meetings. Ah by the way I'm a social and thinking introvert. I can't stand highly extrovert people it's overwhelming. I have an acquaintance that she's very very extrovert and I feel like she needs to be with someone 24/7 and she is too close to everyone, I mean she invades their privacy. For example there was a couple and she sat next to the boy and took his hand, she wanted to talk with him and know each other and she ignored the girl (the girlfriend). As for me she's keeps asking me if I'm okay and doesn't let me breath and space out, my brain can't be 24/7 paying attention to people, I need to be in my own world to have a social rest and recharge a bit. And even if my mind is in the real world I don't have the energy to show I'm excited all the time. And she goes too close to me and asks me as a joke "hehe should we kiss each other?"
Nice! Glad you're a healthy INFP. I'm 27 and an ESTJ though I thought I was an introvert as a kid because I'm shy (so, not like the stereotype either) and not super friendly, but I enjoy working and doing stuff with people and don't get drained being around a bunch of people.
@@mariaastin I think almost anyone would need a break from the lady you described lol
I (INTP) miss my INFP so much. She was always able to get our band of misfits together for activities. I can’t get people together for anything.
"My identity is crumbling" as an INTP I chuckled cuz I relate to this, if im not the best at something I start decaying from the inside out
You're always the best at being you, so you're always the best in at least one thing.
@@id01_01 that is not comforting at all
There will come a time you will not see it like this. A strong attachment to ones (current) identity Is something that usually needs to be balanced as we grow older and wiser in life.
And INTP can have lessons for ENTP too. This is one facet of it. :)
As an INFJ with a ENFJ bestfriend this is accurate
As an ENFJ with an INFJ friend, i agree
As an INFJ with no best friend, i cant relate but also relate :D
@@me_justme aww, buddy...❤️❤️🥲
@@ibelieveinyou1696 BRO I GOT A GUY BESTIE AND HE IS AN ENFJ!!!! INFJ X ENFJ COLLAB IS A DESTINYY
@@me_justme that's great! Have fun! 😊😄
00:00 Entj, Intj
00:15 Estp, Istp
00:53 Entp, Intp
01:27 Esfj, Isfj
01:54 Esfp, Isfp
02:21 Estj, Istj
02:36 Enfj, Infj
03:18 Enfp, Infp
Nailed the ISTJ, as always. As an ISTJ, I started saving my money when I was 8 years old and planned extensively for a road trip to Ohio that I anticipated to be years in the future. Along the way, I lost interest in Ohio and was left with a ton of cash savings that I had nothing to do with other than invest, and that's the story of how I'm not broke in college because of my obsession with planning things way too far in advance.
Inspiring
I wasn't broke in college because my dad's an ISTJ and as an ESTJ I've followed his good financial advice.
I don't know about Ohio but I moved to Michigan for a few years and really liked it, the sand dunes along Lake Michigan are super underrated as a tourist destination.
Dude its becoming annoying that even in games i plan out everything for years to come....only for a big update to come that changes how the game work....im just there "oh.....well.....cool, guess thats hype.....LETS DO IT AGAIN"
Congrats on your Si-dom and Te haha
Ohio will always take an interest in you...watch your back from now on
ENFJ here, I had an INFJ friend in college and we had SO MANY conversations like this LOL our dialogue was sounded like a movie script for some reason but it was really nice. Hope he's doing well :)
As someone who has both an ESTP and an ISTP brother, this is accurate.
That skit was hillarious.
Too damn accurate 😂
Do they punch each other at zoos?
@@deconstructing7307 I can count on one hand the number of times we went to a zoo so unfortunately it never came up. They did wrestle each other a lot as most brothers usually do. They also did different clubs growing up, the ESTP being into football and chess while the ISTP was into track and cross country. After high school they did find a common love for paintball. Though I think their taste in sports has matured a bit. They've been really into disc golf lately.
Same ! What’s your type ?
As someone who has had an identity crisis over losing their computer mouse, I can confirm this is 100% accurate.
--INTP
(P.S. The ISFP/ESFP skit is exactly something my two brothers of the respective types would do.)
@Elise S Yes! Thanks for the concern, LOL. The place I found it subverted the identity crisis because it turns out I'm just stupid. Nothing new there.
how exactly do you get identity crisis over losing a mouse?
@@RandomGuy-yf4wf It wasn't so much about the mouse as it was about what losing it said about me, who I am, how I function, etc. One thing really just led to another. Strap yourself in for a lengthier explanation than is probably necessary.
See, my room was a mess, but it was an organized mess. I knew where everything was, even if no one else could figure it out. I ordered everything in haphazard piles and stacks on my floor, arranged by level of importance or time sensitivity based on proximity to my bed. Every time I tried cleaning and organizing it to someone else's standards, I became lost and couldn't remember where anything was or what I had to do. I've always viewed my room as a reflection of my mind in terms of organization and ability to confuse and frustrate people. Everything is everywhere, and if you're not careful, you'll trip on something.
Enter the misplacement of my mouse. This disrupted everything. All of the order in the disorder. All of the method to the madness. I had known where everything was amidst the chaos, but now suddenly I didn’t. I kept second guessing myself and my setup, and if this happened to my room, how did that translate to my mind? Not knowing my room as well as I thought meant I also didn’t know myself as well as I thought. My room was a reflection of who I was and how I functioned. After all, the way one's mind works directly influences how they treat their living and work spaces. Drawing a comparison was inevitable for me, but evidently dangerous.
Suddenly, my mind seemed just as fragile and precarious and dysfunctional as my room now appeared to be. Although I would always convince myself that it was fine that my room and my mental space were cluttered and messy and unorganized, now I couldn’t stop thinking of times when that was proven incorrect. My memory has always been absolutely abhorrent. I’m constantly losing memories in a very similar way to how I had lost my mouse. Not just memories, either. Knowledge and facts that I used to know slip through the cracks, schedules disappear like they never existed, basic functions of everyday life like eating are either forgotten about or their priority level is mislabeled as much lower than it should be. The signs were there before, but I didn’t let myself see it.
This all spiraled me down a rabbit hole of constantly second guessing myself, how I function/work, and who I am. As ridiculous as it sounds, the state of my room and the connection I made between it and my mind were part of my identity, and that was put into question. It was a double whammy. The funny thing is the mouse wasn't actually lost in my room. I found it a week later on the family computer desk. The whole "crisis" was unwarranted because it turned out I was just stupid, which I already knew.
@@angstydoodles1101 I wouldn't call your room a reflection of your identity, because your mind is much more complex than a room can represent. There's simply not enough objects in your room to depict the neural network that is your brain. However, disassembling and reassembling all the atoms inside your room such that after the reassemblement all the atoms form an accurate copy of your brain would work, I doubt that you did that. If a mirror showed an accurate reflection of you, then your room to your mind would be equivalent to a slightly misplaced hairs on a carpet(instead of a mirror) resembling your looks. Your room is not a part of your identity, but a symptom of it.
We all lose memories, connections between our thoughts, our ideas, that is, we can't keep absolute order in our minds, because that's how our brains work, and if they didn't work like that, then we wouldn't be what we are now. Losing your mouse would be equivalent to losing a nice idea about epistemology you had 2 days ago, but it's just how our brains work.
Losing your mouse triggered a chain reaction of trying to remember all the things that may help you in calculating the quality of your mind. This is ineffective however, because memories fade, and we often tend to look for a certain kind of thing, that is good/bad, without looking at the full picture. Much more effective way to measure yourself would be to have a kind of feedback loop, where you ask yourself, over a period of time, what are you doing and what could you be doing better.
I'm an ISFP and the skit doesn't match me. Like on the general I trust people but I don't donate to every charity I come across especially if I have never heard about it. First I have to do some research. And If I would have to ask someone if they want to donate to a charity, I wouldn't comment it no matter if they said yes or no, maybe simple thank you, I appreciate it. But also I don't think anyone around me has the ESFP personality type. Maybe if there was someone I would change my mind idk
Jokes on you, as an infp, I always enjoy getting dragged along by my enfp friend. It's just that at the end of the day, I will severely lack any kind of energy
We’ll carry you 👍
Same
i always love doing things with my enfp friend, but she has that enfp spontaneity and adventurous streak which does NOT mix well with my anxiety and need to plan everything months in advance.
love her though, enfps are the best
As an enfp I would be totally ok if you said "hey sorry about this, but I'm worn out and feel like I should head home!" I value honesty over someone lying about how much fun they had when they don't. (Usually, I can start telling when someone hates hanging out or is bored/tired.)
As long as you don't always bail on everything, life is good! Especially since infps are so great to chat with and have unusual conversations with! 😄
@@TrueAlpha100 gotta lift with the knees! ^.~
I always love coming back to this one. ISFP might not be the one always coming up with the impulsive ideas but we will always follow them! Joining with ESFP makes us unstoppable.
Who else is an INFP with ENFP bestie ?? yall are literally the best 💗💗
The infj and enfj one is an absolute masterpiece 😂 big love to enfjs for getting us infjs 💜
As an entj with an intj friend, that is way too accurate lol, we are literally always planning out what we want to do in the future
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@am i I am very vocal and my friend used to be reserved but I helped him out of his shell. We both have long term goals, but he definitely brings his up less than I do :)
Hope this was helpful!
@Dat hooman yes my dude 🤙🤙
@@Haha-Jim Ayo entjs gang
Heyyy I am ENTJ too 😁
Am I the only Intj who hasn’t met an Entj I feel like I’m missing out 😔
I'm sensing that FJ working hard to complete 1 million subscribers....yes yes. I'm sensing it😂😂
ENFP here, dragging introverts to food trucks is a legit favourite summer activity. Oh and getting sidetracked by brewery patios nearby. And ice cream.
OMG I'm laughing so much
lol enfp here....we drag them there eat out out brains and still can't figure out how we're so slim after buying the entire shop uk what i mean
3:50 I kind of do that: make up stories on spot to somehow save myself from such outings....
I'm sensing a strong Shawn Spencer vibe in the INFJ-ENFJ interaction 😂
LOL same 😆😏🤣
YES!!! You are totally right! Such a good show! 🤩
Hahaha yes!
COME ON SON
“Gus, don’t be exactly half of an 11 pound Black Forest ham!”
INTJ ENTJ best Bros For Life 💪🤨🤘
~INTJ
As an INFJ I'm just sensing that this video will get a like from me.
I’m sensing that also
3:13 You're sensing right. (INFJ)
I liked how the worries of the ENFJ came from Fe and the worries of INFJ came from Ni but both of them used Ni and Fe to read each other.
The INTJ knowing the ENTJ’s plan is awesome but feeling threatened and this digging them with the one and only insult that would actually affect them is amazing 😂😂
The INTJ is not "insulting" the ENTJ by not knowing who they are -- they literally don't know who they are. And highly unlikely to feel "threatened" but rather, again literally, think it sounds like a good plan. FJ was spot on with characterization but you're misreading the INTJ reaction completely.
@@RishaBond👍
"Do better, at work and poker." I live with an ISTJ and an ESTJ, and I'm constantly bombarded with TE heavy lines like this! 😂😉
My mum is an ISTJ and I am an enfp so I feel this in my core
The xSTJ is the skit about planning months in advance for the model railroad convention. There are actually a good number of xSTJs in government employment, and they do care about accuracy!
Im an ESTJ and my husband is an ISTJ 🤣
That's for ISTP and ESTP
@@azulablue6988 It's still a Te-sentence. That's why he didn't reveal the type until the last sentence.
As an INFJ with no ENFJ friends, I can't judge if it's accurate but I'd say this is how I'd definitely imagine the conversation to be like. Must be nice
It is my sis is an infj and i am an enfj i can confirm .
I'll be your ENFJ friend :)
@@anniehindley2866 Oh my god, that's really touching :(
@@miinmin. I sense you are feeling overwhelmed with the love I am sending you haha! I hope you're having a wonderful day
@@anniehindley2866 Yes exactly, you're right but it's a good overwhelmed? Thank you, I hope you have a lovely day as well! :)
As an INTJ, right on the cusp with ENTJ, I'm like "yes, let's do it."
The ISFP just keeps getting better and better! The back and forth and then the daring solution. This is art.
Yas
My best line in the whole video is the "giddy up" 🤣🤣🤣
I'm an INFP and my boyfriend is an ENFP, he definitely knows how to turn excuses around and he thinks he's helping 😂💗
No one escapes our ENFP orbit of positivity!
INFP reading this : *INTERNAL SCREAMING *
Sincerely, INFP 🥲
@@adrenalineactivate dw u gonna enjoy our *company* 🙂
@@sayuwami6969 We can start Taco Truck Crawl, round 2! Tell Kesha to wear their good sneakers! 🙌
@@adrenalineactivate Don’t worry. You don’t HAVE to go on our adventures, we’re just as comfortable hanging out doing nothing.
As an INFP sometimes I get tired too and I want to be by myself but sometimes too I want company too 😩
I'm sensing, that you're sensing, that everyone is sensing, that this video is sensational. 🙌
Thanks for the video, definitely one of my favourites!
Ideas:
16 personalities interacting with their S/N type..
16 personalities interacting with their T/F type..
16 personalities interacting with their P/J type..
Me and my husband are ENFJ and INFJ respectively so we have conversations like this one but we don't cry about it 😂 we are best friends and we understand each other pretty well which is really nice specially if one or the other is having a hard day.
As an INFP with an ENFP mom, that conversation is golden. 😂
Although my mom is not as... flamboyant, there's definitely a "let's do this! ... when you're feeling up for it" dynamic and that's fun. Sometimes you'd even see us reverse the roles and I'd be the one pushing her to do things and go out, so I guess we're a nice duo. 😄
FJ's getting close to a MILLION subs with this awesome content!
Video Suggestions:
• 16 Personalities Giving Up Something (for Lent)
• 16 P on a Scavenger (or Easter Egg) Hunt
• 16 P Decluttering / Going Through Their Stuff / at a Garage Sale
I’m also curious about situations or factors that might make it seem like people are a different type than what they really are. Are there “common” or “easy” mistakes that amateur MBTI enthusiasts (like me and others who watch your videos) might be likely to male when trying to figure out someone’s MBTI type?
Thanks for yet another fab video!
Something crazy happen today with my INTJ friend
We were talking about MBTI and basically talking about everyone we met possible personality type. She usually labels them by thinking about what function they use the most "FI/FE SE/SI" and stuff meanwhile I told her I just try to use "ISFP/ESFP" the whole in general cause I'm not very good at dissecting it. Then I realise that my friend (INTJ) prefer using their NI (by looking deep into their main fuction to determine their MBTI) meanwhile me (INFP) prefer using NE(by looking their personality type as whole in general). Which is why I have such a hard time understanding how she labels it and she doesn't prefer using the 4 words in general. Which was cool when we realise it were like "ITS ALL COMING TOGETHER "
Thanks for taking the time to read my short story
Woah okay that's crazy lol
Bro, INFJ and ENFJ was really a magical conversation, some mists in the air
As the first person started talking, i was like this sounds like me but more enthusiastic to an actual person compared to talking to my myself only for it to be ENTJ.
-INTJ.
My sister is an ENTP and I’m and INTP so that was absolutely perfect lol.
One of my best friends is an INFP and this is so accurate. And then sometimes we're both the ENFP with our mutual INFJ friend in that scenario.
The intuitives *sensing* is exactly the kind of irony we needed ❤️ chef's kiss
Was looking for this comment.
-INFP
😂 so great. I’m an INFJ, my bf is an ENFP and I love his mom because she is an ENFJ, she is the dream mother in law!
The avoidant behavior of the INFP is a MOOD literally I make things up all the time out of anxiety. Sometimes true, sometimes half true...being busy can mean anything nowadays
Agreed.
No need to say more
I always wondered if I was just a bad person, lol
the scene at 0:52 actually took place with me in real life! I beat my INTP friend at chess cuz I wasn't following a strategy and ultimately won!
well done at capturing that Frank!
I thought it was only me!
I follow no apparent strategy in gaming (and many life things, haha).
This is so cool!
I follow strategies, but it's more of a "general idea gut feel what do I want to do" thing, and end up doing surprisingly well. I hate games where you have to study strategies to win.
I think I'm ENTP, though I tend to be rather ambiverted
I’m an ENTP chess player
@@id01_01 ENTP tend to be amnivert quite a bit (I know I am at least on an off and definitely ENTP). In childhood we can even be somewhat introverted. :)
@@charlmon i’m not that surprised Ne doesn’t like rules, but still good at detecting and utilizing patterns. We still have strong Ti, Even if we’re not aware of it we it we supplement that with some strong logic and rational action, Even if not traditional sort of strategy. In some ways this combination can indeed be more “deadly” in that it is more unorthodox, creative, and less predictable.
Loved this one!!! @ 2:35 ENFJ & INFJ = perfect, reminds me of convos vibing with my friend (me = E, she = I) 😀
The ExxP/IxxJ perceivers vs the ExxJ/IxxP judgers distinctions were so on point with this interaction!
Accurate 100% when me (INFJ) and my ENFJ best friend indulge in conversations (rarely) based on our lives... Couldn't agree more.. Happy to see your videos (as an INFJ).
did y'all know that i'm an ESFP and my younger sister is an ISFP and 2:16 IS VERY ACCURATE TO US
INFJ/ENFJ is spot on. Although this is kinda how my INFJ/INFJ interactions go too, but with more awkward silence and lingering between "So I'm sensing..."
I once was falling for a former classmate, an INFP, and my attempts to spend time with her were pretty much exactly like that.
I tried making friends with an INFP once, and it was always as if they never wanted to talk about anything. I gave up.
@Elise S it's true we actually want people who really understand us so much (an INFP)
When I don't respond to people, it's usually because the only honest thing I can say would be to contradict them. Another common reason is that they go going too fast, I'm still thinking about what they said three sentences ago. Another possibility is that they are literally talking "for" me, and revealing their deep misunderstanding of me in the process, which I could put a stop to, but it's all too fascinating.
Yes, people talk for me all the time. If I'm not Johnny-on-the-spot with an open, shareable reaction, they start filling in for my half of the conversation. They attribute reactions to me which are way off base, and they say what they believe I'm thinking, and then just go on with the conversation.
I also find people using a lot of force in a conversation, which I can't respond to. They say manipulative things, use sales techniques to make me agree with stuff, pressure me, etc. I simply balk.
It is beneath my dignity to argue with such persons, and I sure as Hell won't be giving in. If they trick me into initially giving in, then I loathe them forever because they have triggered my compliance and witnessed my shame.
@@PoetryInHats Thank you for your insight. It could be useful in the future if I come across another INFP I connect with.
YW but I have a lot of trouble figuring out my type. My son and husband have nearly convinced me I'm an INFJ. I lived for years as an INTP. 🤷♀️😬
Petition for FJ to make "why do INFJs always get friendzoned"
help jsdfj it'd be hilarious, I feel like us ourselves always want to end it that way if it's not going like we thought, such as confessing, or wanting them to know -that- side we have, or any other reasons like being too friendly, accepting when they say i hope we can still have a good relationship idk that's how life is for us huh
Because they're always putting their own feelings apart and prefer trying to satisfy other's instead.
Because we don't have boundaries. The people we are into, think we're such amazing friends and the ones who we might dislike or are neutral towards, think we're into them (just because we go out of our way).
Yesss please 😭
@@doreenadrianfernandes4212 As an ENFJ also saaaame.
We need this but with the Thinking and Feeling
HEY, FRANK!
Could you do a video on types interacting with their opposite personality in their category like:
Analysts:
ENTP INTJ
INTP ENTJ
Explorers:
ESFP ISTP
ESTP ISFP
Sentinels:
ESTJ ISFJ
ISTJ ESFJ
Diplomats:
INFJ ENFP
INFP ENFJ
OR a video with all the categories interacting together, like the:
DIPLOMATS
ANALYSTS
EXPLORERS
SENTINELS
Thanks
Luv you ❤️
Fun video as usual! Here's an idea: 16 personalities in love triangles with the two types they are most compatible with lol
Well... I will share what are the types I think are most compatible with:
* INTJ: (ENFP & ENTP): INFJ
* ISTJ: (ESFP & ESTP): ISFJ
*ENFP: (INFJ & INTJ): ENTP
* ESFP: (ISFJ & ISTJ): ESTP
* INTP: (ENTJ & ENFJ): INFP
* ISTP: (ESTJ & ESFJ): ISFP
* ENTJ: (INFP & INTP): ENFJ
* ESTJ: (ISFP & ISTP): ESFJ
However, this is subjective. Any pair of couples within the mbti are ok.
As an INTJ, I approve this message.
So I'm an INFJ but my I & E are typically like 49 and 51, so the INFJ and ENFJ face-off was pretty much my internal struggle trying to figure out my own self and it's issues 😆
@@js42025 oh I’m definitely an INFJ but my ENFJ type comes out sometimes especially when I’m one on one with someone talking about personal growth opportunities haha
Oh gosh that sounds stressful 😅
I'm either a Infj or a Infp because I'm all in on the introverted, intuition and feeling parts but the J & P are pretty much 50/50 so I just consider myself both types since I see myself in both lol.
@@js42025 It's better to research the cognitive functions and identify your type with them
Tests are good as a guide though
If it's in the middle you're most likely INFJ. INFJs are some of the most extraverted introverts. If you were an ENFJ you would have been really high on E
Finally, my video suggestion that I've wait for several months has been made
As an ISFP my bday is like my favorite time of the year, and this totally happened before btw a ESFP friend of mine and myself! But who cares we always celebrate In the end :) no hard feelings ever.
The ENFJ*INFJ is sooooo apt 😂😂😂😂😂
Literally me with my INFJ friends all the time with our deep talks 😜
Me (INFP): thinking about random excuses to cancel plans before the plans are even made 🤣
I'm an ENFJ and one of my best friends is an INFJ. We often hung out in a group of friend's together, but one day we started going running in the morning and our conversations often got deep and sensing super fast. We would just say something, and the other person would be like, "Oh my gosh, I completely understand that!" The amount of understanding was amazing, some of the best conversations I have ever had!
As an ISFP that skit is 100% accuate!
Giddyup😂
0:10 It is funny how accurate this is about who I met my friend like this.
2:22 - ISTJ / ESTJ , it's so accurate for ISTJ
2:52
these two are just Jedi
it's tough when you can sense about other people so much, but not many people sense you. :') (a fellow INFJ ig)
Likewise, I've only known one ENFJ whom I can relate with constantly picking up other people's emotions. Otherwise, I'm almost completely surrounded by sensors!
Woah, that was deep.
@@trinaq I only know like One ENFJ and she and I get along so well. Like even without completing our sentences we just kind of always get what the other person is trying to say. Anyways, it's nice to have someone like that😌
As an INFJ, I can relate to doing this with my extrovert type.
As an INFP, this is so relatable! I have an ENFP friend and I like spending time with her because she is so funny, but she is sometimes a little bit obsesive…
i like the fact that ISTP is also wasting his time to watch ESTP playing poker lmao..
also i can't get to be more relate about ESFP and ISFP forgetting their bday, im an xxFP.. but not with ENFP though
never know INFJ ENFJ men would be so dramatic in the toilet talk
My cousin is an INFJ and I'm an ENFJ, and you pretty much just copy and pasted our conversations 😂It's like we both know what the other person is going to say and why, but it's just reassuring and interesting to hear. We get along waaaay too well.
I enjoy getting dragged out but still have to make excuses to head home when the night never ends with the bubbly ENFJ
@@avril.227 YESSS, like, "the conversation is great but I need to recharge, I've spent a lot of energy for today, let me go" 😂😂
Haha, that INFP was me as a teenager, always lying to get out of social activities if I wasn't in the mood. I don't really do that as an adult, especially not with ENFPs!
Great idea!!
PLS DO THIS W THINKING AND FEELING COUNTER PARTS!! this was a good one!!