Ballum Part 4 - Callum Fights For His Marriage!

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  • Опубліковано 23 гру 2024

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  • @Sumatra77
    @Sumatra77 2 роки тому +41

    I appreciate what Ben is going through but I would also like to see a scene (even if in the future) of a Ben speech fighting for his marriage as well. Callum is always begging him to consider him/them/their future. I’m craving a turned table.

    • @mf8080
      @mf8080 2 роки тому +4

      THIS, so much this! I know Ben has a lot of trauma to work through but it's not fair on Callum who carries the marriage on his shoulders...

  • @bellefairchild3970
    @bellefairchild3970 2 роки тому +6

    Not the song in the background being Dancing on my Own 😭😭 emotional damage

  • @VickyDruce
    @VickyDruce 2 роки тому +29

    I get Ben is scared of losing Callum. But if he Carries on the way he’s going he’s going to lose Callum anyway, because will divorce him. I really hope Ben turn up to meet Callum

  • @dontdeletethexos
    @dontdeletethexos 2 роки тому +6

    It's not a party in England until Mr brightside plays 😅

  • @remruna3538
    @remruna3538 2 роки тому +11

    It's obvious Callum and Kathy is severly underestimating how damaged Ben is... which is stupid seeing as Ben is a walking example of PTSD at the moment. You would think especially Callum with him being in the army would recognize the signs of deep emotional trauma. I feel for Cal, I really do and I understand where he's coming from but giving ultimatum and forcing Ben into situations that scare the hell out of him is not going to cure PTSD. With Ben being as pigheaded as he is I don't know what will but it's not this.

  • @daanroelofs119
    @daanroelofs119 2 роки тому +8

    I really hope Callum is able to help Ben through his PTSD. After everything they have done and have been through, if they aren't staying together. There is no hope for the rest of us

  • @dontdeletethexos
    @dontdeletethexos 2 роки тому +10

    Kathy is starting to annoy me a little bit. It feels like she is just guilt tripping Callum into fighting for Ben, when Callum is always the one fighting for them, and Ben is always the one pushing him away. I understand that Ben is traumatized and he truly believes that he is doing what's best for Callum, but it's really not fair on Callum that Kathy is constantly telling him to fight for him, he has a lot on his plate right now with Stuart and just needed Ben to support him like he always supports him, but it seems that Ben never really does.
    I want to see Ben do the fighting for this marriage, because Callum has done all of it so far and at the moment frankly deserves better

  • @Markilloz1986
    @Markilloz1986 2 роки тому +12

    Ahh Callum is such a handsome man...but I am finding their drama a little bit boring, hopefully it will get better

  • @chenzhou7288
    @chenzhou7288 2 роки тому +6

    Ben: casually watching the watch, counting time
    Me: sighed once again! 😔 😞 are you going or not??

  • @goldilocksoriginal1984
    @goldilocksoriginal1984 2 роки тому +3

    I know I’m gunna get a bit of hate but I’m gunna say it! I do think Ben and Callum should separate for the time being - not divorce though. I think this for two reasons:
    1. I think Ben needs to heal in his own way and time. While I know Callum would be supportive of that as well, most of their relationship it’s been Callum who’s fought the relationship. I do really think that they both need some space to work on their own issues/or just live a little outside the relationship. In the end though, something will bring them back together, which brings me to my next point…
    2. Tony Clay/Callum NEEDS a storyline that doesn’t revolve around his marriage with Ben. Tony is a brilliant actor and Eastenders is wasting so much potential due to the Gray serial killer storyline. Tony deserves a real, hard-hitting storyline! And I don’t think that can be done with dramas following him and Ben. Yes it can slowly bring them back together but I do want a storyline focused solely on Callum.

  • @Js2Jo
    @Js2Jo 2 роки тому +8

    Ballum!! 💔

  • @suzannekilgannon1242
    @suzannekilgannon1242 2 роки тому

    You can tell Ben wants nothing more than to go to his husband and to tell him they're gonna be ok. But Ben is NOT ok and is struggling so much and won't accept help. He's not ready

  • @Here4Years
    @Here4Years 2 роки тому +14

    I didn't want to admit it but Ben is a coward.

    • @rmdurha2
      @rmdurha2 2 роки тому +6

      He sure is Callum deserves better.

    • @stillirise9705
      @stillirise9705 2 роки тому +1

      I agree but bit I'm sure alot would, when you look at the reasons behind it

    • @bethmccreadie3808
      @bethmccreadie3808 2 роки тому +12

      dude what he's exhibiting symptoms of mental illness exacerbated by seeing his husband get gay bashed in front of him only a few years on from his boyfriend being killed in a similar attack I think it's understandable that he's freaked out rn

    • @lexi219
      @lexi219 2 роки тому +8

      @@bethmccreadie3808 Comments like the ones above really show how little compassion people have for those with mental health issues. Calling someone suffering from PTSD "a coward" is ableist as fuck.

    • @JordanjamesX
      @JordanjamesX 2 роки тому +1

      Ben is more than a coward he is a loser.

  • @JordanjamesX
    @JordanjamesX 2 роки тому +4

    Callum is always fighting for Ben it is exhausting seeing him love a guy who is a loser. All Ben does is being a victim. Ben hardly ever supports Callum. It is a one sided relationship. I don't see what other people see. Callum needs a new guy without Ben baggage.

  • @troyphillips562
    @troyphillips562 2 роки тому +2

    They can’t do this not before Valentines Day

  • @craigwaters1508
    @craigwaters1508 2 роки тому +1

    😱😱

  • @haleytuttle4497
    @haleytuttle4497 2 роки тому

    Caption English please

  • @beccacostelloe04
    @beccacostelloe04 2 роки тому +3

    Please tell me they won't break up :(

    • @veroniquel.6432
      @veroniquel.6432 2 роки тому +1

      No, Ben will come for sure I don't think Ben is fixed but I hope they find a solution. Don't be too worried❤️

    • @beccacostelloe04
      @beccacostelloe04 2 роки тому +1

      @@veroniquel.6432 Thanks for putting my mind at rest 😀💖

  • @phylasvell
    @phylasvell 2 роки тому +2

    cant wait for the divorce, then down the line they pull a jack and ronnie and reunite ben & callum five years later after.

  • @AC_RDR2_Q
    @AC_RDR2_Q 2 роки тому +1

    The thing is, i understand Ben i really do. I get he is scared and i was scared watching this because i thought at the end everyone would get murdered or something.
    But i also know from personal experiences that pushing people you love away when you are hurting is not the way forward. I think Callum shouldn’t force him to be all “proud and pride” just yet. I’m in the lgbt community or whatever, and i just don’t really feel like walking around with a massive pride flag on my back. It’s sad that society has done that to us.

    • @lucypreece7581
      @lucypreece7581 2 роки тому +1

      Then make society change. If you are proud of yourself and open about who you are it forces the bigots and the idiots to deal with it. We are always gonna be around them whether they like it or not. They can beat us, take away our rights and picket and protest all they want we ain't going anywhere.

    • @Bruced82
      @Bruced82 2 роки тому

      If he really cared about Callum's safety, Ben could start by denouncing all his shady businesses, that have put them both in serious danger (Keanu almost killing Callum, Callum getting blackmailed to spy on Phil, Ben scared of found out he led to a dude's death in prison)...

    • @AC_RDR2_Q
      @AC_RDR2_Q 2 роки тому

      @@lucypreece7581True mate, however i just don’t have the confidence. I am trans, ftm, and my hair is short. However i get scared everytime i have to have a haircut because i get judged by everyone in my year so i can never fully be myself. It is so annoying that i constantly worry about what others think of me rather than worrying about who i am.
      And constantly getting called a girl as well. Isnt helpful at all.