I think is also because some grooms have actually not much interest in the party, only in the action of getting married, which is either because of apathy, being shy, or even the fact that getting married is a "milestone" for some woman, so all of organization goes to the bride because it is sort of more important for her than the groom
Most grooms just abdicate the responsibility but also, most brides check with their fiancé about all plans. These stories are anywhere from entertaining cautious example to outright horrifying but they’re a small minority of most (planned) weddings.
I'm sorry, but I would have ABSOLUTELY spilled the beans that they were already married to the rest of the family if she was causing this much grief. If you're married - you're married. Marriages don't just "not count". I wouldn't suffer her wrath just to keep her "secret marriage" from everyone else. Yikes. Good thing OP and most others cut all contact from the bride and groom. Hopefully HE wakes up before too long and before they have children together.
@@davidransom4476 Couldn't afford health insurance, couldn't afford her wedding, and had the gall to lash out at everyone who couldn't afford to attend HER event. I am a big supporter of courthouse weddings and saving that money up for either the honeymoon or a house. Unless you have the money to afford it (on your own, without begging everyone else to pay for it), a big wedding is entirely unnecessary.
@@arianebolt1575 True, but there's a difference between being forced to postpone your wedding (and my sympathy definitely goes out to those who got caught in the storm that is COVID) ... And turning into a greedy monster who shames and yells at invited guests because they can't afford to pay for HER wedding.
That husband had absolutely no spine. That will be a short, loveless marriage where he likely stays intoxicated the entire time because he's miserable.
If the groom wasn't her cousin i would have replied to her post with the amounts she expected people to pay for everything for her so it costs her next to nothing
I love the Stepsister. She seemed like a lovely person, but the moment her beloved ones are threatened, she goes nuclear. The line "she wouldn't have to worry about a wedding because she would be in intensive care" was pure gold 💖
My mom's cousin was acting crazy when she got married and it took my mom bringing her down to reality. By saying. "Cousin. It's a wedding not your funeral. But if you keep acting this way it'll be your divorce party AND your funeral because your father will beat you to death for how you're acting! Get over yourself or I'm leaving!" My mom is by far the most trusted person in the family if she leaves 10 others leave with her. Cousin shut up fast with her attitude.
The bride told the wedding party that "If they messed this up she would never talk to them again." Sounds like a plan to me. Makes you want to mess up doesn't it?
Yiish. My husband and I had a court house wedding. Reception was a nice, reasonably priced buffet at a popular restaurant. It didn't break the bank and we used all the money we saved up for our life now. It's sad that so many bridezillas are more focused on the wedding, but not their marriage. 💔 PS. When the bridezilla went "if you don't like it, you can leave!" I would have gone "lol ok" and left. Money be damned. It's not my wedding photos that will look awful. If you think about it, these bridezillas need their wedding party more than the wedding party needs them!
My parents got married in a church but didn't have a reception. Dad wore his Sunday best and Mom wore Grandma's wedding gown. The only expenses were the minimum required fees.
I got married at the city hall. 15 guests, family and closest friends. Small buffet back home me and my husband had prepared the night before. We forgot to buy me a bouquet and the cake. We didn't have wedding bands rings, either. It's been 10 years!
If you're going to ask people to be in your wedding party, give them an itemized list of all of the expenses from the beginning. My aunt did this. I realized I couldn't afford all the expenses and I dropped out of the wedding party. I ended up playing them a song on my guitar at the reception.
1st story: I hate bridezillas. While we were dress shopping for my older sister's bridesmaids dresses, there was one in the store. Geez...I felt sorry for the ladies who worked there.
Entertainment. Something to laugh about when things go bad in life, she could remember the day this shit show went and remember that the 'bride' didn't get her way. Petty? Yes. Asshole mentality? Yes Worth it? Totally
I'd go. I hate weddings (I would've been happy to do mine over Skype, I only went along because my husband wanted the big wedding), and I'd go just to bare witness to this mess.
OP did said that she go because of the groom. I think she was hoping the groom would grow spine but the groom was become evenmore of a doormat. Also to honor the groom mother.
Funny that the bride is calling the grooms family broke while at the same time expecting everyone else to pay. Unless this is a cultural thing? But standard in the US is old school the brides family would pay & frequently the couple pays themselves. I’ve also heard of the grooms family paying for rehearsal dinner but never the bridal party footing the bill. I’ve always thought of a wedding as the guests being treated to a special evening to celebrate with you. Not fund for you.
Unfortunately it's becoming a thing that guests are expected to fund wedding because couple is "nice enough to arrange this event for them" So it's kind of entrance fee. And bridezillas don't care about marriage, they want their princess day at any costs. I do wonder how these people have been raised, no consept of money
" The Groom told my step sister he regrets marrying her and is sorry ... " Uhhh, dude, if you're actually verbalizing that thought to your family, you should be acting on it, not proceeding with a sham wedding. As far as I can tell, there are no children involved, yet. Get out while the getting is good.
Normal rational women don't suddenly turn into irrational bridezillas when they start planning the wedding. They were ALWAYS like that and have just managed to hide it long enough to get engaged. Just because you're stressed out that doesn't give you the right to scream and take out your anger on other people. In fact if the woman you're going to marry starts acting like a bridezilla RUN! RUN FAR AWAY. Because if she acts irrationally entitled and takes out the stress and anger on other people that is how she will act under ALL stress. And you better believe you're the one who is going to bear the brunt of her irrational anger for years if you marry her. It's far better to cancel a wedding than have to go through a messy divorce.
Erm.... I believe some of these bridezillas WERE taught to be respectful to others. But they grew up thinking the wedding is an EXCEPTION to that rule. In other words, a wedding is their one chance to be demanding and bossy without consequences.
@@DrawciaGleam02 I think you're onto something there. I wish the culture would stop this "bride's special day" bullshit. It's no wonder so many men (and some women like me) roll our eyes at the very thought of marriage when we hear stories like this one, of all the crazy expense of a day-long party. The wedding is about BOTH of them. Perhaps if it was talked about like that more often--and normalized--you wouldn't see so many spoiled bridezillas.
@@tallyp.7643 Yeah, girls need to be taught not to act this way, even if it's your wedding. When wedding planning, certain things can happen that will VOID the "it's your special day" saying. Mainly medical-related issues (allergies, pregnancy, disability, etc).
21 years ago hubby and I got married in city hall and then had a backyard reception st my mom's. We had around 35 people in attendance and the whole thing costed 2000 dollars and this included My dress. I'm so glad we didn't go all out because it's ridiculous to go this crazy for 1 day and fracture your relationships with family and friends.
The only good thing about stories like this is the narcissists out themselves in spectacular fashion. No side-eyed glances or suspicions--it's a narcissist's "coming out" party of a sort. Nobody else has to lift a finger, just maybe a raised eyebrow toward the spouse-to-be after a spectacular fit by the groomzilla/bridezilla, quietly asking "you REALLY wanna marry that thing?" Oh, and the stories themselves. Guilty-pleasure popcorn fodder.
I ventured into catering weddings a couple of times. I learned quickly that I don’t have the temper for bridezillas. I would end up in prison for knocking a bridezilla out. Therefore, I no longer cater weddings.
When my boyfriend says a wedding day will be my day, I always say "Our" because I'm not getting married to myself. I'm getting married to him and his family, and vice versa.
The only thing I got to see about the first story is how everybody kept sticking it out for this stuck-up snobby picture of a bride for no apparent reason like in my opinion if I was in the situation I would have just left a long time ago and I would have started telling family no we don't need to put up with this crap let's just get the hell out of here because of why are we dealing with this person they can't even treat us right or even respect us and the way they're just acting is so childish that would have been in for me and I would have told them if you're going to put up with this crap don't expected to get any better
Yeah, im pretty upfront to people that i dont like them, i would of told her, and then told the cousin that until you divorce her, your family will not support you
Thank you guys for making me feel like I'm not the only person that felt the exact same way on top of that I'm the type of person if I feel like I'm being mistreated at a type of event like a wedding this is how the person who's getting married acts I just would start telling me and my wife like yeah let's get the hell out of here
These bridezillas seem to be a product of sleazy reality TV shows. I don't remember ever going to the wedding of someone like this, or even hearing about such a crazy bride. But I haven't been to a wedding in about 15 years.
Honestly, it's entitlement, selfishness, and materialism. They don't want the marriage; they want the wedding. It's all about being the center of attention, the "fairytale" and lavishness of being a "princess" for the day. This is what happens when a generation is spoiled rotten, and I say this as a woman in her early 30's that was married in 2019.
I think so too, plus SM. Before that all the weddings I was in, the brides were very considerate about costs.there were no crazy expensive bachelorette trips and parties, no destination weddings or additional expensive obligations. The one worst Bridezilla wedding I went to ( but wasn’t in thankfully) was awful because while the bride and her mother had the horrible my day, my way or the highway attitude they cheaped out on everything that had to do with making your guests comfortable: not enough food ( I totally related to the 6 bagels cut in fourths part),cheap food not professionally taken care of so it was off, beverages of any kind only in an amount for about 1/10 the of the guests etc... the grooms family tried so hard all along the way to pay/ provide/ help with all these things that ended up going wrong but they refused to a ridiculous degree as well as treated them really bad for offering. Everybody escaped like 30 minutes into the reception and went to a restaurant. So I related to that part of the story too!
So whoever gets married last in friend groups doesn’t get any celebration because everyone else has already price gouged you for _their_ weddings. When did this become normal? I spent more on each wedding I’ve been connected to than on my own wedding and I didn’t even get gifts because I was last to marry. I didn’t charge anyone to attend either.
Sometimes there is a time and a season for friends. It really depends on their financial circumstances and commitments. (kids, mortgage, employment, timing, health etc.). Let your true friends know how youI feel. If this isn’t the case, it’s time to find new friends. It’s better to have a supportive partner and one or two good friends
The guys in a wedding generally rent their tuxes. So, why can't the dresses for the ladies in the wedding party also rent? Seems to be a major hardship imposed on the ladies, especially those on lower incomes. Were I being expected to shell out for a wedding like this, I'd be noping out immediately.
Huge reason not to have a "wedding" after a courthouse wedding. Alternatively, don't do a CH wedding so you can find out if your bride or groom is a "zilla". I imagine 30% of engaged couples have no clue the red flags planning a fancy wedding will toss up about their intended.
@@lancerevell5979 Wedding dresses are traditionally handed down from mother to daughter. You also don't generally want to rent one - the sizes in wedding and a large selection of formal dresses aren't the same as anything you get off a rack (mine required four different patterns to make). You *can* rent a dress, but the cost is often about comparable to just buying the stupid thing if it needs any alterations, and the mandatory add-ons like cleaning (white us a stupid color, and the materials they are made of like lace, satin, ect all require special cleaning methods - when I worked for a drycleaning service, we charged 750$ base to clean one that hadn't been too dirty - that was on TOP of the 500$ rental fee - my dress cost me 120$ new) that you're going to be responsible for in the fine print. Plus, it's considered bad luck by some to wear a rented dress.
Jesus christ the entitlement. I had to postpone my wedding twice to covid. First 1 the world shut down exactly 2 months before the wedding. I had 2 groomsmen drop out a month before the wedding for real life issues going on in their lives which i understood. My original venue got sold so had to change venues 3 months before my wedding so had to completely change centerpieces table settings, floral arrangements,transportation, everything and did not flip out like this woman. I paid for everything myself including hair and makeup for my family. Had a wonderful day had supportive family and friends there who helped me through all the tough things going on. Preparing a wedding was the most stressful experience of my life, but it didn’t mean i got to treat people like shit for my day to be perfect.
Blame pop culture and history. It used to be a huge test of how good of a wife you were going to be - the idea was that, in planning a wedding to someone you'd maybe met twice including the day of if you were lucky (the staff, acquiring the textiles and tailoring them, feeding a cadre of people for status points, name it), you could prove that your husband could show up after going off to some stupid war and/or political campaign, and have everything ready to start procreating, and then he could jaunt back off to whatever war campaign he was called to. So, yeah, the past is the worst, and still has weird baring on the present.
@@pansprayers I kinda agree about pop culture influencing this. I do wonder if bridezillas were a thing in past decades. At the very least, the trend was less common.....
Tell bridezilla she is lucky to have a family left after this fiasco. Can't wait for her eval ofthe gifts. Not too late for annulment immediately after ceremony. Time to grow up.
Wow. Just…wow. I think my wedding cost about $1,000. I bought my own dress for about $700. We just had an afternoon ceremony with snack-like food for the reception. Very low key and simple.
It’s a whole new world now - I was 33 when I got married. We married in a Registry Office (in the uk) as we couldn’t afford a wedding dress or a big fancy wedding and the next day, I was going for my chemotherapy (breast cancer at 33). But really, whatever the reason for getting married (my doctor told me I wasn’t expected to live very much longer), it’s not about how much money people have, it should be about love
My parents married 40 years ago this April. There was no engagement ring, reception, or honeymoon. Dad wore his Sunday best and Mom wore Grandma's wedding dress with adjustments made by Grandpa since he was a tailor. The ceremony was in a local church and the wedding bands were heirlooms. The only expenses were the ones necessary to make the marriage legal.
@@brigidtheirish My parents had a similar wedding, getting married at the courthouse. Even after over 25 years, they're still happily married. Now I can see why people are saying everyone should consider elopement because they are the least stressful and it's quick and easy. It's not my style personally, but I'll definitely consider it.
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly Yep. Less stress for the couple and the family. At my middle sister's wedding, Mom told my youngest sister and me that she'd *pay us* to elope.
thats a laugh coming from bridezilla screaming if they are so poor etc etc well if shes so poor she should not be having a circus of a wedding and expecting everyone else paying for it!!!!!!
From what I've seen, the bigger/fancier the wedding, the shorter the marriage tends to be. I would have walked long before this wedding and told the bride EXACTLY what she could go do with herself on my way out. This had nothing to with getting married and everything with strong arming folks into paying for the bride's delusions.
I'm surprised loads of the bridal party didn't drop out sooner tbh. It shouldn't be a question of "can't afford to be at a wedding, don't be there" it should be "don't have a wedding with all the trimmings if those trimmings are outside your budget"
I love the last story (I love all the stories, but I have a comment for the last one). It's just too bad that the girls didn't learn WHY they did not get the job.
1:53 At this point, I would have e-mailed, "I'm out. I don't need this stress. Good-bye." 3:35 My god, this is a public service announcement against weddings. 9:23 If I were the groom, I'd be seriously intoxicated as well, or have my ticket to Costa Rica on order.
I blame the groom. It goes without saying that the bride is a nightmare, but not once did the groom finally call it quits and leave her. Even when he finally started arguing with her. She’s disrespected and humiliated even the most disabled members of your family and you don’t annul your marriage and cancel the wedding? She’s gone behind your back and everybody hundreds to thousands of dollars for everything and wouldn’t even bother to feed them the day of.
1) OMG, so much crazy entitlement and obnoxiousness. I can see why everyone was alienated by all this wedding expense and nastiness for someone who was already married. Seems like the groom should think better of this marriage and get out now. Yikes, what an awful woman. I hope he waked up and runs. After update: Wow, that was a train wreck, as fully expected. How can someone be that awful. I really hope at some point there will be an update that the groom woke up to the fact that is bride is an awful person and called it quits so we can all cheer his divorce. 2) I love that malicious compliance. So glad that uncooperative guy got his comeuppance and the elderly person has even more room conveniently located nearby the apartment. 3) Very nice their applications were intercepted with info about their bad behavior.
3) I feel bad for that Dollar Tree getting flak from corporate for something they can't do anything about. It's insane that employees can't stop shoplifters for fear of being *sued.*
Someone is looking to have you all fund an extravagant vacation &/or a nice house. I think everyone should just send apologies that you’re no longer able to attend... send zero money & go to the dollar store for their “gift” & then you all go out to a medium priced restaurant & post “cheers to the bride” pictures on fakebook lol
What a dumpster fire, inside another more disgusting dumpster fire. If the groom is in an abusive relationship, I really hope he gets help. If not, if he's gone full weakling, guess it's his life to ruin. Guessing no updates means no further contact? Oh well.
In Australia the custom is… the Bride pays for everything involved for her bridal party plus a gift for each member of her bridal party. The bride pays for the dress, shoes, hair, makeup, etc. if you are doing a favour by agreeing to be a bridesmaid, you should NOT be expected to pay for this favour. It is sickening that any bride thinks that her friends should be ‘honoured’ to spend a ridiculous amount of money on her big day.
Not that I have any plans on getting married, but is there a way to test for bridezilla behavior? I'd hate for anyone to get this far into a relationship just to find out they're with a bridezilla.
The last story about shop lifting small items. Yes shop lifting has Karma. I had a job that required background checks. They only cared about financial issues, like stealing, writing hot checks, etc. Even petty crimes could block you from getting hired.
After hearing the first part, I want to know why the groom still wants to "marry". that mess? By some chance I lose my sanity and want to get married, I want a court house wedding.
My first wife and I had a church wedding. I think I gave the priest some money for the ceremony in the church. We had a buffet in a separate room in the church with food, family and friends brought. Thirty years later I married again after being single for 11 years. We went to the church and had a priest marry us in a part of the church with close family and a few close friends. We also had a buffet right there with a cake we brought. I don't think we spent more than a couple hundred dollars on either wedding. I did have a photographer during the first wedding but a family member taking picture during the second wedding. No call to waste thousands of dollars on a wedding that can be used for a start on your life together instead.
Told my partner I didn't want a fancy wedding. A simple ceremony at the courthouse would be ideal. And then we all get together, go hit up a buffet and drink + eat a lot.
NGL, the entire bridal party should have just left the bride ten minutes before the ceremony. I remember a similar story where the bride started raging at the OP from the get go, and OP told her that she wouldn't be able to be in her bridal party because she (the bride) was crazy and there wasn't enough time or money in the world for her to put up with her nonsense. Then OP's family, of course, started in on how mean she (OP) was for trying to sabotage the bride's day. Wisely, OP ignored them all.
The 3rd story is the main reason I don't want to work retail if I can help it. I despise thieves and not being able to do anything about shoplifters would drive me insane. I'd probably get fired for confronting them and calling the cops, whatever, but you know in those situations--because no one wants bad press thanks to cell phone footage floating around--that most managers won't have your back and practically placate them. It's a hard situation to be in, and would leave me so mad I'd not stick around long. They need to bring back the wall of shame in certain places and ban folks from stores who steal. But I hate the mentality of "if you're not caught, you're not wrong" that's just gotten worse over the years. You can bet if someone stole from the thief, they wouldn't just shrug it off--they'd be pitching a fit and demanding answers. The hypocrisy gets me the most.
I want a big wedding but I want a long and happy marriage even more, so if the time comes and I can’t afford it I’d rather have a small ceremony than one that bankrupts me 🤷♀️
Same here. I love Big weddings as they can be beautiful, luxurious and fabulous, but I'd much rather have a intimate romantic wedding at home, than risk having a big wedding that's not only a trainwreck, but also sucks all of the joy away. ❤️💕❤️
Used to be friends with a very abrasive woman who was a bridezilla. Unfortunately I was in her wedding party and she was so over the top demanding of everyone, would insult people until the cried then bitch at them for crying, threatening people for "trying to ruin" her day. Groom was totally spineless and his family was just all "oh, she's going to be family, so do whatever makes her happy". Brides mother was as much of a piece of work as her daughter. We got through it, though at one point I did have to snap at the bride and tell her she'll spend her wedding day in the hospital if she spoke to me in a snippy tone like that again. After all was said and done, NO ONE in the bridal party ever wanted to speak to the bride or her family ever again. She lost so many friends, her SIL hates her and won't have anything to do with her, and some of her own family have even blocked her from coming to family functions. And bride actually CRIED, not understanding why none of her friends talk to her anymore and why her husband is now an alcoholic and smokes pot 😂
I highly doubt I’ll ever get married, but if I do, and I ended up as a bridezilla, someone better slap, or backhand me. Hard. I hate those kinds of people and being one would be even worse.
The people that end up as bridezillas are usually people that are selfish, entitled, and immature as general character flaws. They just hide it until the day of because they don't truly want to be married. They want the "fairytale" white wedding and to be the center of attention and a princess for the day. A hint is when they say "my wedding" leading up to it, rather than "our wedding". Rest easy, if you're not like that now it's unlikely you will be then, should the day come.
The best weddings are the small, simple meaningful ceremonies. I've been to a few and they are really lovely. My daughter got married last summer and it was quite small (covid safety) and held at a country venue - outdoors with fields of flowers, mature trees, rolling landscapes (someone took a farm and turned it into a place of wonder for events). It was beautiful. Everyone was relaxed, happy and the "reception" was a bbq. It worked. Weddings shouldn't be a Broadway Play or the next Alien movie, but be meaningful and full of good emotions....and cost the minimum. The very minimum. :)
She only supplied the groomsmen with whiskey and vodka and no food? Was she just assuming that all guys are frat bros and can survive on just booze alone? Even the junior groomsman?
S1: I give this FARCE ++ 3 - 5 years at the most before the groom finally wakes up from the spell Bridezilla has put on him. Hopefully he runs away before she has kids but .... ++ elements of both tragedy and comedy in it!
"Sigh" I will never understand why bridezillas always make their weddings all about themselves. The marriage and wedding is about the bride AND groom. It's about celebrating the start of marriage and cementing a love story/love match or at least an intensely sweet friendship, but above all bringing two people in holy matrimony. Sorry if I sounded too sappy. Just had to get it off my chest.
I know people who got married before their weddings for different reasons. But they weren’t necessarily “weddings”, they were more “commitment ceremonies” to finally celebrate with others. Any gathering for a couple should be focused on the love their share, not for money or a bragging show.
Would have loved to quote DBZ abridged Vegeta but after not knowing da aftermath of da aftermath, I'm more curious of it now that the story ended earlier. But oh well beggers can't be chooser, yet hilarious that I asked for a bridezilla in one of the comments from a past video
Why do people put up with Bridezillas? The groom should have put his foot down and said no. If the Bride screams then tell her goodbye. Anyone gambling on if they are still married? I would like to say no but I am related to someone who is a doormat to his wife.
Why does the OP continually call the renewal of vows ceremony a wedding? The wedding had taken place already in the registrars office. They cannot have another wedding unless they divorce and want to remarry.
The behaviour in story one would cause most of the guests and bridal party members to walk out the wedding. Yes It's the bride and groom's special day that doesn't mean anyone has to put up with their every bs.
For sensible people who want the big wedding. I recommend that they have a courthouse or backyard wedding and then take your time saving up for the big party. But if the people want sensible. I recommend The Big wedding right off the bat. That way they get to find out whose batshit crazy like this. These big weddings doing great job of reading crazy people out.
Wedding is for grooms and brides day,not just HER day. I always wonder why the grooms doesn't have a say about it.
Because toxic women have been spreading "Happy wife, Happy life" ignoring the groom for decades.
Because they have no spine.
It never occurred to me to mistreat or disregard my husband during the wedding planning process. It was our wedding, so we planned it together.
I think is also because some grooms have actually not much interest in the party, only in the action of getting married, which is either because of apathy, being shy, or even the fact that getting married is a "milestone" for some woman, so all of organization goes to the bride because it is sort of more important for her than the groom
Most grooms just abdicate the responsibility but also, most brides check with their fiancé about all plans. These stories are anywhere from entertaining cautious example to outright horrifying but they’re a small minority of most (planned) weddings.
What a army of doormats. The bridezilla's husband was the general.
OP and her step sister were Major and Lieutenant.
I'm sorry, but I would have ABSOLUTELY spilled the beans that they were already married to the rest of the family if she was causing this much grief. If you're married - you're married. Marriages don't just "not count". I wouldn't suffer her wrath just to keep her "secret marriage" from everyone else. Yikes. Good thing OP and most others cut all contact from the bride and groom. Hopefully HE wakes up before too long and before they have children together.
What's so ironic is that she wants this expensive wedding, but they had to get married early because she couldn't buy health insurance herself.
@@davidransom4476 Couldn't afford health insurance, couldn't afford her wedding, and had the gall to lash out at everyone who couldn't afford to attend HER event. I am a big supporter of courthouse weddings and saving that money up for either the honeymoon or a house. Unless you have the money to afford it (on your own, without begging everyone else to pay for it), a big wedding is entirely unnecessary.
@@Emily-ck9ji
Exactly. And why does big have to be so expensive? If it's truly about the celebration have it at a park BBQ style or something
In fairness, marrying ahead of the wedding is fairly common mid-Rona.
@@arianebolt1575 True, but there's a difference between being forced to postpone your wedding (and my sympathy definitely goes out to those who got caught in the storm that is COVID) ... And turning into a greedy monster who shames and yells at invited guests because they can't afford to pay for HER wedding.
That husband had absolutely no spine. That will be a short, loveless marriage where he likely stays intoxicated the entire time because he's miserable.
True. I mean they got the license just to put her on his insurance (sus, but ok)
Well, that and the lack of actual food to balance out the booze. That'll screw you up fast.
If the groom wasn't her cousin i would have replied to her post with the amounts she expected people to pay for everything for her so it costs her next to nothing
Story 1: Groom should have left the bride at the altar!
I love the Stepsister. She seemed like a lovely person, but the moment her beloved ones are threatened, she goes nuclear. The line "she wouldn't have to worry about a wedding because she would be in intensive care" was pure gold 💖
My mom's cousin was acting crazy when she got married and it took my mom bringing her down to reality. By saying.
"Cousin. It's a wedding not your funeral. But if you keep acting this way it'll be your divorce party AND your funeral because your father will beat you to death for how you're acting! Get over yourself or I'm leaving!"
My mom is by far the most trusted person in the family if she leaves 10 others leave with her. Cousin shut up fast with her attitude.
Go mom!!! Lol
OOH!
Thank GOD for your mother!!!
Glad to hear of a bridezilla being brought back from the brink!
Now that's a Super mom!
@@ellorasg4525 She is
One minute in and I was thinking along those lines. Hubby should have told her that if she wanted to stay married, she needs to smarten up
The bride told the wedding party that "If they messed this up she would never talk to them again." Sounds like a plan to me. Makes you want to mess up doesn't it?
Made me mad when she called them losers who were too poor to finance *her* wedding when she was the loser making people Vince her wedding.
Yiish. My husband and I had a court house wedding. Reception was a nice, reasonably priced buffet at a popular restaurant. It didn't break the bank and we used all the money we saved up for our life now. It's sad that so many bridezillas are more focused on the wedding, but not their marriage. 💔
PS. When the bridezilla went "if you don't like it, you can leave!" I would have gone "lol ok" and left. Money be damned. It's not my wedding photos that will look awful. If you think about it, these bridezillas need their wedding party more than the wedding party needs them!
Sounds awesome! I want to get married at the library where me and my SO spent a lot of times together in the music room.
My parents got married in a church but didn't have a reception. Dad wore his Sunday best and Mom wore Grandma's wedding gown. The only expenses were the minimum required fees.
@@pollypockets508 That's a great idea!
I got married at the city hall. 15 guests, family and closest friends. Small buffet back home me and my husband had prepared the night before. We forgot to buy me a bouquet and the cake. We didn't have wedding bands rings, either. It's been 10 years!
If you're going to ask people to be in your wedding party, give them an itemized list of all of the expenses from the beginning. My aunt did this. I realized I couldn't afford all the expenses and I dropped out of the wedding party. I ended up playing them a song on my guitar at the reception.
Bridezillas is a guilty pleasure of mines. I root for the fiance/bridesmaids to escape.
It good to see people true colours and then there is clearly no love between them they shouldn’t get married
1st story: I hate bridezillas. While we were dress shopping for my older sister's bridesmaids dresses, there was one in the store. Geez...I felt sorry for the ladies who worked there.
why Op even attend the wedding is beyond me. I would have refused to have anything to do with the bride.
Entertainment. Something to laugh about when things go bad in life, she could remember the day this shit show went and remember that the 'bride' didn't get her way. Petty? Yes. Asshole mentality? Yes Worth it? Totally
I'd go. I hate weddings (I would've been happy to do mine over Skype, I only went along because my husband wanted the big wedding), and I'd go just to bare witness to this mess.
Free food, drinks, drama- This is grade A entertainment, of course I'd tell the Bride that she can go fûćk herself when I leave.
OP did said that she go because of the groom. I think she was hoping the groom would grow spine but the groom was become evenmore of a doormat. Also to honor the groom mother.
Funny that the bride is calling the grooms family broke while at the same time expecting everyone else to pay. Unless this is a cultural thing? But standard in the US is old school the brides family would pay & frequently the couple pays themselves. I’ve also heard of the grooms family paying for rehearsal dinner but never the bridal party footing the bill. I’ve always thought of a wedding as the guests being treated to a special evening to celebrate with you. Not fund for you.
Unfortunately it's becoming a thing that guests are expected to fund wedding because couple is "nice enough to arrange this event for them"
So it's kind of entrance fee.
And bridezillas don't care about marriage, they want their princess day at any costs.
I do wonder how these people have been raised, no consept of money
" The Groom told my step sister he regrets marrying her and is sorry ... "
Uhhh, dude, if you're actually verbalizing that thought to your family, you should be acting on it, not proceeding with a sham wedding. As far as I can tell, there are no children involved, yet. Get out while the getting is good.
I love bridezillas stories. Thank you ❤️
Normal rational women don't suddenly turn into irrational bridezillas when they start planning the wedding. They were ALWAYS like that and have just managed to hide it long enough to get engaged. Just because you're stressed out that doesn't give you the right to scream and take out your anger on other people. In fact if the woman you're going to marry starts acting like a bridezilla RUN! RUN FAR AWAY. Because if she acts irrationally entitled and takes out the stress and anger on other people that is how she will act under ALL stress. And you better believe you're the one who is going to bear the brunt of her irrational anger for years if you marry her. It's far better to cancel a wedding than have to go through a messy divorce.
Erm....
I believe some of these bridezillas WERE taught to be respectful to others. But they grew up thinking the wedding is an EXCEPTION to that rule. In other words, a wedding is their one chance to be demanding and bossy without consequences.
@@DrawciaGleam02 I think you're onto something there. I wish the culture would stop this "bride's special day" bullshit. It's no wonder so many men (and some women like me) roll our eyes at the very thought of marriage when we hear stories like this one, of all the crazy expense of a day-long party.
The wedding is about BOTH of them. Perhaps if it was talked about like that more often--and normalized--you wouldn't see so many spoiled bridezillas.
@@tallyp.7643
Yeah, girls need to be taught not to act this way, even if it's your wedding.
When wedding planning, certain things can happen that will VOID the "it's your special day" saying.
Mainly medical-related issues (allergies, pregnancy, disability, etc).
21 years ago hubby and I got married in city hall and then had a backyard reception st my mom's. We had around 35 people in attendance and the whole thing costed 2000 dollars and this included My dress. I'm so glad we didn't go all out because it's ridiculous to go this crazy for 1 day and fracture your relationships with family and friends.
That sounds really sweet.
These kind of gatherings are usually more memorable and enjoyable. Congratulations on celebrating 21 years.
@@GMAMEC ty so much. I don't regret having a small wedding at all
The only good thing about stories like this is the narcissists out themselves in spectacular fashion. No side-eyed glances or suspicions--it's a narcissist's "coming out" party of a sort. Nobody else has to lift a finger, just maybe a raised eyebrow toward the spouse-to-be after a spectacular fit by the groomzilla/bridezilla, quietly asking "you REALLY wanna marry that thing?"
Oh, and the stories themselves. Guilty-pleasure popcorn fodder.
I ventured into catering weddings a couple of times. I learned quickly that I don’t have the temper for bridezillas. I would end up in prison for knocking a bridezilla out. Therefore, I no longer cater weddings.
When my boyfriend says a wedding day will be my day, I always say "Our" because I'm not getting married to myself. I'm getting married to him and his family, and vice versa.
The only thing I got to see about the first story is how everybody kept sticking it out for this stuck-up snobby picture of a bride for no apparent reason like in my opinion if I was in the situation I would have just left a long time ago and I would have started telling family no we don't need to put up with this crap let's just get the hell out of here because of why are we dealing with this person they can't even treat us right or even respect us and the way they're just acting is so childish that would have been in for me and I would have told them if you're going to put up with this crap don't expected to get any better
That got to me too. Like why are you even there? Time wasted.
Exactly
Yeah, im pretty upfront to people that i dont like them, i would of told her, and then told the cousin that until you divorce her, your family will not support you
Thank you guys for making me feel like I'm not the only person that felt the exact same way on top of that I'm the type of person if I feel like I'm being mistreated at a type of event like a wedding this is how the person who's getting married acts I just would start telling me and my wife like yeah let's get the hell out of here
Story one: universally bail on it. Congratulate them, but tell him that she's being nuts.
These bridezillas seem to be a product of sleazy reality TV shows. I don't remember ever going to the wedding of someone like this, or even hearing about such a crazy bride. But I haven't been to a wedding in about 15 years.
Honestly, it's entitlement, selfishness, and materialism. They don't want the marriage; they want the wedding. It's all about being the center of attention, the "fairytale" and lavishness of being a "princess" for the day. This is what happens when a generation is spoiled rotten, and I say this as a woman in her early 30's that was married in 2019.
I think so too, plus SM. Before that all the weddings I was in, the brides were very considerate about costs.there were no crazy expensive bachelorette trips and parties, no destination weddings or additional expensive obligations. The one worst Bridezilla wedding I went to ( but wasn’t in thankfully) was awful because while the bride and her mother had the horrible my day, my way or the highway attitude they cheaped out on everything that had to do with making your guests comfortable: not enough food ( I totally related to the 6 bagels cut in fourths part),cheap food not professionally taken care of so it was off, beverages of any kind only in an amount for about 1/10 the of the guests etc... the grooms family tried so hard all along the way to pay/ provide/ help with all these things that ended up going wrong but they refused to a ridiculous degree as well as treated them really bad for offering. Everybody escaped like 30 minutes into the reception and went to a restaurant. So I related to that part of the story too!
So whoever gets married last in friend groups doesn’t get any celebration because everyone else has already price gouged you for _their_ weddings.
When did this become normal? I spent more on each wedding I’ve been connected to than on my own wedding and I didn’t even get gifts because I was last to marry. I didn’t charge anyone to attend either.
WOW, how crappy of your friends. Sorry they treated that way.
Sometimes there is a time and a season for friends. It really depends on their financial circumstances and commitments. (kids, mortgage, employment, timing, health etc.).
Let your true friends know how youI feel. If this isn’t the case, it’s time to find new friends. It’s better to have a supportive partner and one or two good friends
I could almost see your face when you said "it's her special day"!
This bride is absolutely ridiculous! A wedding should not be this stressful
She sounds very disorganized additionally.
If someone goes nuts in the planning of a wedding then you REALLY should look closer on if you want to marry them.
The guys in a wedding generally rent their tuxes. So, why can't the dresses for the ladies in the wedding party also rent? Seems to be a major hardship imposed on the ladies, especially those on lower incomes. Were I being expected to shell out for a wedding like this, I'd be noping out immediately.
Huge reason not to have a "wedding" after a courthouse wedding. Alternatively, don't do a CH wedding so you can find out if your bride or groom is a "zilla". I imagine 30% of engaged couples have no clue the red flags planning a fancy wedding will toss up about their intended.
@@lancerevell5979 Wedding dresses are traditionally handed down from mother to daughter. You also don't generally want to rent one - the sizes in wedding and a large selection of formal dresses aren't the same as anything you get off a rack (mine required four different patterns to make). You *can* rent a dress, but the cost is often about comparable to just buying the stupid thing if it needs any alterations, and the mandatory add-ons like cleaning (white us a stupid color, and the materials they are made of like lace, satin, ect all require special cleaning methods - when I worked for a drycleaning service, we charged 750$ base to clean one that hadn't been too dirty - that was on TOP of the 500$ rental fee - my dress cost me 120$ new) that you're going to be responsible for in the fine print. Plus, it's considered bad luck by some to wear a rented dress.
Jesus christ the entitlement. I had to postpone my wedding twice to covid. First 1 the world shut down exactly 2 months before the wedding. I had 2 groomsmen drop out a month before the wedding for real life issues going on in their lives which i understood. My original venue got sold so had to change venues 3 months before my wedding so had to completely change centerpieces table settings, floral arrangements,transportation, everything and did not flip out like this woman. I paid for everything myself including hair and makeup for my family. Had a wonderful day had supportive family and friends there who helped me through all the tough things going on. Preparing a wedding was the most stressful experience of my life, but it didn’t mean i got to treat people like shit for my day to be perfect.
I would really like to know the psychology behind bridezillas. Some of the sweetest, down-to-earth people turn into monsters
Blame pop culture and history. It used to be a huge test of how good of a wife you were going to be - the idea was that, in planning a wedding to someone you'd maybe met twice including the day of if you were lucky (the staff, acquiring the textiles and tailoring them, feeding a cadre of people for status points, name it), you could prove that your husband could show up after going off to some stupid war and/or political campaign, and have everything ready to start procreating, and then he could jaunt back off to whatever war campaign he was called to. So, yeah, the past is the worst, and still has weird baring on the present.
@@pansprayers
I kinda agree about pop culture influencing this. I do wonder if bridezillas were a thing in past decades. At the very least, the trend was less common.....
Tell bridezilla she is lucky to have a family left after this fiasco. Can't wait for her eval ofthe gifts. Not too late for annulment immediately after ceremony. Time to grow up.
Wow. Just…wow. I think my wedding cost about $1,000. I bought my own dress for about $700. We just had an afternoon ceremony with snack-like food for the reception. Very low key and simple.
It’s a whole new world now - I was 33 when I got married. We married in a Registry Office (in the uk) as we couldn’t afford a wedding dress or a big fancy wedding and the next day, I was going for my chemotherapy (breast cancer at 33). But really, whatever the reason for getting married (my doctor told me I wasn’t expected to live very much longer), it’s not about how much money people have, it should be about love
My parents married 40 years ago this April. There was no engagement ring, reception, or honeymoon. Dad wore his Sunday best and Mom wore Grandma's wedding dress with adjustments made by Grandpa since he was a tailor. The ceremony was in a local church and the wedding bands were heirlooms. The only expenses were the ones necessary to make the marriage legal.
@@brigidtheirish My parents had a similar wedding, getting married at the courthouse. Even after over 25 years, they're still happily married. Now I can see why people are saying everyone should consider elopement because they are the least stressful and it's quick and easy. It's not my style personally, but I'll definitely consider it.
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly Yep. Less stress for the couple and the family. At my middle sister's wedding, Mom told my youngest sister and me that she'd *pay us* to elope.
Story 1: I’m a Locomotive Engineer, and I thought I was an expert on train wrecks!🚂😳😹
Bridezilla stories are always juicy
thats a laugh coming from bridezilla screaming if they are so poor etc etc well if shes so poor she should not be having a circus of a wedding and expecting everyone else paying for it!!!!!!
Pity they are already married. The groom is scuuuuuhrewed
He could easily file for divorce.🤷♀️🤷♀️
@@MaryTheresa1986 With his moldy pool noodle of a spine? Probably not.
@@jaredmorales5130 At this point, I just hope they don't breed.
From what I've seen, the bigger/fancier the wedding, the shorter the marriage tends to be. I would have walked long before this wedding and told the bride EXACTLY what she could go do with herself on my way out. This had nothing to with getting married and everything with strong arming folks into paying for the bride's delusions.
This wedding sounds like a flaming train wreck of a dumpster fire in the middle of a landfill. You know you shouldn't want to watch but...
...instead you find yourself sitting back with your feet up eating popcorn. 🤣🤣🤣
Well said!
When OP mention like being on Jerry Springer I'm chanting Jerry, Jerry, Jerry, Jerry!
Good afternoon LG. Bride is absolutely horrible. Money grabbing deluxe. Have a great day
I'm surprised loads of the bridal party didn't drop out sooner tbh.
It shouldn't be a question of "can't afford to be at a wedding, don't be there" it should be "don't have a wedding with all the trimmings if those trimmings are outside your budget"
My got that wedding was such a wreck even the weather got involved
I love the last story (I love all the stories, but I have a comment for the last one). It's just too bad that the girls didn't learn WHY they did not get the job.
So all the groomsmen were drinking by 8am? Yeah, I think I know why.
I was just watching your other bridezilla videos 🤣
1:53 At this point, I would have e-mailed, "I'm out. I don't need this stress. Good-bye."
3:35 My god, this is a public service announcement against weddings.
9:23 If I were the groom, I'd be seriously intoxicated as well, or have my ticket to Costa Rica on order.
I blame the groom. It goes without saying that the bride is a nightmare, but not once did the groom finally call it quits and leave her. Even when he finally started arguing with her. She’s disrespected and humiliated even the most disabled members of your family and you don’t annul your marriage and cancel the wedding? She’s gone behind your back and everybody hundreds to thousands of dollars for everything and wouldn’t even bother to feed them the day of.
Bruh it's wedding not birthday. Jesus I would never treat my partner or any of his family like that. That's truly horrible
I D K! My daughter has turned into a bridezilla. Second marriage, and she's list her ever loving mind. Her father and I don't want to go.
1) OMG, so much crazy entitlement and obnoxiousness. I can see why everyone was alienated by all this wedding expense and nastiness for someone who was already married. Seems like the groom should think better of this marriage and get out now. Yikes, what an awful woman. I hope he waked up and runs.
After update: Wow, that was a train wreck, as fully expected. How can someone be that awful.
I really hope at some point there will be an update that the groom woke up to the fact that is bride is an awful person and called it quits so we can all cheer his divorce.
2) I love that malicious compliance. So glad that uncooperative guy got his comeuppance and the elderly person has even more room conveniently located nearby the apartment.
3) Very nice their applications were intercepted with info about their bad behavior.
3) I feel bad for that Dollar Tree getting flak from corporate for something they can't do anything about. It's insane that employees can't stop shoplifters for fear of being *sued.*
1st story,
I only have one word for the groom, annulment!
Someone is looking to have you all fund an extravagant vacation &/or a nice house.
I think everyone should just send apologies that you’re no longer able to attend... send zero money & go to the dollar store for their “gift” & then you all go out to a medium priced restaurant & post “cheers to the bride” pictures on fakebook lol
What a dumpster fire, inside another more disgusting dumpster fire. If the groom is in an abusive relationship, I really hope he gets help. If not, if he's gone full weakling, guess it's his life to ruin. Guessing no updates means no further contact? Oh well.
In Australia the custom is… the Bride pays for everything involved for her bridal party plus a gift for each member of her bridal party. The bride pays for the dress, shoes, hair, makeup, etc. if you are doing a favour by agreeing to be a bridesmaid, you should NOT be expected to pay for this favour. It is sickening that any bride thinks that her friends should be ‘honoured’ to spend a ridiculous amount of money on her big day.
If somebody had spoken to my nephews or nieces the way that bridezilla did, that wedding would have become a funeral
"If we screwed this up she'd never talk to us again." Me PROMISE!? (Throws water on the bride) bitch please I live to not be talked to.
Not that I have any plans on getting married, but is there a way to test for bridezilla behavior? I'd hate for anyone to get this far into a relationship just to find out they're with a bridezilla.
Love when you upload ✨
Absolute power corrupts absolutely this is why it should be what both partner want not just the bride
The last story about shop lifting small items. Yes shop lifting has Karma. I had a job that required background checks. They only cared about financial issues, like stealing, writing hot checks, etc. Even petty crimes could block you from getting hired.
Story # 1: Nothing YET, that is, LG.
After hearing the first part, I want to know why the groom still wants to "marry". that mess?
By some chance I lose my sanity and want to get married, I want a court house wedding.
They’re already legally married 🤦🏼♀️
@@M_T_Gr8 i mean "marry" as is have a ceremony they cant even afford
My first wife and I had a church wedding. I think I gave the priest some money for the ceremony in the church. We had a buffet in a separate room in the church with food, family and friends brought. Thirty years later I married again after being single for 11 years. We went to the church and had a priest marry us in a part of the church with close family and a few close friends. We also had a buffet right there with a cake we brought. I don't think we spent more than a couple hundred dollars on either wedding. I did have a photographer during the first wedding but a family member taking picture during the second wedding. No call to waste thousands of dollars on a wedding that can be used for a start on your life together instead.
Told my partner I didn't want a fancy wedding. A simple ceremony at the courthouse would be ideal. And then we all get together, go hit up a buffet and drink + eat a lot.
Why do *some* people put so much emphasis on a wedding that makes their friends and family miserable? Who are they trying to “impress”?
Exactly, it’s disgusting.
Wow, that wedding was a mess!
This is why some people say "Weddings are occasions to to engage in robbery and not get arrested".
NGL, the entire bridal party should have just left the bride ten minutes before the ceremony.
I remember a similar story where the bride started raging at the OP from the get go, and OP told her that she wouldn't be able to be in her bridal party because she (the bride) was crazy and there wasn't enough time or money in the world for her to put up with her nonsense.
Then OP's family, of course, started in on how mean she (OP) was for trying to sabotage the bride's day. Wisely, OP ignored them all.
Juicy one to start the morning
The 3rd story is the main reason I don't want to work retail if I can help it. I despise thieves and not being able to do anything about shoplifters would drive me insane. I'd probably get fired for confronting them and calling the cops, whatever, but you know in those situations--because no one wants bad press thanks to cell phone footage floating around--that most managers won't have your back and practically placate them.
It's a hard situation to be in, and would leave me so mad I'd not stick around long. They need to bring back the wall of shame in certain places and ban folks from stores who steal. But I hate the mentality of "if you're not caught, you're not wrong" that's just gotten worse over the years. You can bet if someone stole from the thief, they wouldn't just shrug it off--they'd be pitching a fit and demanding answers. The hypocrisy gets me the most.
I want a big wedding but I want a long and happy marriage even more, so if the time comes and I can’t afford it I’d rather have a small ceremony than one that bankrupts me 🤷♀️
Same here. I love Big weddings as they can be beautiful, luxurious and fabulous, but I'd much rather have a intimate romantic wedding at home, than risk having a big wedding that's not only a trainwreck, but also sucks all of the joy away. ❤️💕❤️
Used to be friends with a very abrasive woman who was a bridezilla. Unfortunately I was in her wedding party and she was so over the top demanding of everyone, would insult people until the cried then bitch at them for crying, threatening people for "trying to ruin" her day. Groom was totally spineless and his family was just all "oh, she's going to be family, so do whatever makes her happy". Brides mother was as much of a piece of work as her daughter. We got through it, though at one point I did have to snap at the bride and tell her she'll spend her wedding day in the hospital if she spoke to me in a snippy tone like that again. After all was said and done, NO ONE in the bridal party ever wanted to speak to the bride or her family ever again. She lost so many friends, her SIL hates her and won't have anything to do with her, and some of her own family have even blocked her from coming to family functions. And bride actually CRIED, not understanding why none of her friends talk to her anymore and why her husband is now an alcoholic and smokes pot 😂
If your wife to be is acting like this, call the wedding off.
I highly doubt I’ll ever get married, but if I do, and I ended up as a bridezilla, someone better slap, or backhand me. Hard. I hate those kinds of people and being one would be even worse.
A strike to the solar plexus might be better, knocking the wind right out of you, literally.
The people that end up as bridezillas are usually people that are selfish, entitled, and immature as general character flaws. They just hide it until the day of because they don't truly want to be married. They want the "fairytale" white wedding and to be the center of attention and a princess for the day. A hint is when they say "my wedding" leading up to it, rather than "our wedding". Rest easy, if you're not like that now it's unlikely you will be then, should the day come.
The best weddings are the small, simple meaningful ceremonies. I've been to a few and they are really lovely. My daughter got married last summer and it was quite small (covid safety) and held at a country venue - outdoors with fields of flowers, mature trees, rolling landscapes (someone took a farm and turned it into a place of wonder for events). It was beautiful. Everyone was relaxed, happy and the "reception" was a bbq. It worked. Weddings shouldn't be a Broadway Play or the next Alien movie, but be meaningful and full of good emotions....and cost the minimum. The very minimum. :)
She only supplied the groomsmen with whiskey and vodka and no food? Was she just assuming that all guys are frat bros and can survive on just booze alone?
Even the junior groomsman?
If she’s so poor that couldn’t afford her big wedding she should t expect others to pay for it
For Story 1, I'll be waiting for the divorce saga....
How low do you have to be to threaten someone (ESPECIALLY A CHILD) with special needs?!!🤬
Never speak to me for screwing it up? Challenge accepted!
There was a guy in Australia who wants to marry his female robot
I’m not laughing at them anymore😹
They are getting married at a budget motel, and she was trying to plan a caviar wedding on a Budweiser budget.
S1: I give this FARCE ++ 3 - 5 years at the most before the groom finally wakes up from the spell Bridezilla has put on him. Hopefully he runs away before she has kids but ....
++ elements of both tragedy and comedy in it!
"Sigh" I will never understand why bridezillas always make their weddings all about themselves. The marriage and wedding is about the bride AND groom. It's about celebrating the start of marriage and cementing a love story/love match or at least an intensely sweet friendship, but above all bringing two people in holy matrimony. Sorry if I sounded too sappy. Just had to get it off my chest.
I really hope that she goes to a wedding whether bratzilla. Maybe then she will understand how crazy she was
Wow just wow. If that was me an the bride did anything like that to me. O lord have mercy on the bride for I will have none.
I know people who got married before their weddings for different reasons. But they weren’t necessarily “weddings”, they were more “commitment ceremonies” to finally celebrate with others. Any gathering for a couple should be focused on the love their share, not for money or a bragging show.
Would have loved to quote DBZ abridged Vegeta but after not knowing da aftermath of da aftermath, I'm more curious of it now that the story ended earlier. But oh well beggers can't be chooser, yet hilarious that I asked for a bridezilla in one of the comments from a past video
They are too old for demanding either family pay for anything.
ew what the heck, why would groom let her do this? he should've called the wedding off right away, pathetic.
This was so bad i had to watch it twice 😂
So why wasn't the groom involved when she called his family broke losers?
My guess he is spineless
Why do people put up with Bridezillas? The groom should have put his foot down and said no. If the Bride screams then tell her goodbye. Anyone gambling on if they are still married? I would like to say no but I am related to someone who is a doormat to his wife.
" . . . She yelled at all of us and told us if we screwed this up she was never speaking to us again."
Promise?
Oh. My. God. What on earth is the Bride's problem?
$5,000 for a REHEARSAL DINNER?!!! 😳🤬🤬😳
I would have walked out.right then and there.
My wedding was for MY HUSBAND AND I, not just me.. I'm giving this marriage 1yr tops before heading for divorce.. LOL
Why does the OP continually call the renewal of vows ceremony a wedding? The wedding had taken place already in the registrars office. They cannot have another wedding unless they divorce and want to remarry.
The behaviour in story one would cause most of the guests and bridal party members to walk out the wedding. Yes It's the bride and groom's special day that doesn't mean anyone has to put up with their every bs.
For sensible people who want the big wedding. I recommend that they have a courthouse or backyard wedding and then take your time saving up for the big party.
But if the people want sensible. I recommend The Big wedding right off the bat. That way they get to find out whose batshit crazy like this. These big weddings doing great job of reading crazy people out.