That reminds me of an episode of Judge Mathis years ago. *Witness- She asked So-and-so, who was a heroin addict, for financial advice. *Judge Mathis- She asked a heroin addict for financial advice?! Was she on heroin too!? Everybody knows that any money a heroin addict gets is going to the dope man!
I know, right? It's a pretty good lesson to let sleeping dogs lie when some trashy person from your past comes a-callin'. So much could have been avoided if Pat had just been ignored at the onset.
Read this story before, and it's a wild lesson in boundaries, and how "keeping the peace" is such a toxic mentality. You need to teach the "Pats" in your life where the hard line is, or they'll walk all over you. It helps if the people around you hold the same standards.
Poor girl. My great-grandmother's wedding ring is now my own wedding band, as it belonged to my mother. After my mom died when I inherited it I wore it on my right ring finger before I got married and moved it to my left. I couldn't imagine some "friend" asking to give her MY family's ring. Maybe look at or try on if her fingers are a similar size, sure. It is one of a kind. But take from me? I'd tackle the chick before she made it out the door. Poor girl was so manipulated and bullied. Also, how do these women have so many wedding dresses?
The only thing I can picture as "penguin walking" would be somebody clinching like they were trying not to crap themselves and I'm wondering how that would garner sympathy to get what you want.
Sometimes I wonder how people got so despicable as Pat? Were her parents to blame? Was she a sociopath with no concern for others? I would had everyone say they're coming to her wedding and then NOT show up. I would've sent her a video saying WHY nobody came to the wedding and WHY they would talk to her again. I think the "no's" in this situation needed to come a lot sooner. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on ME." The dress thing was PERFECT BTW.
People like OP are to blame. They tolerate them and then go all Pikachu face and write long winded rants when their daughters get abused by the abusers they invited into their lives.
What isn't explained and what I'm confused about is this: Was OP the one who introduced Pat to the center as well as to Lenah? She says they were never friends but she allowed this woman to have a lot of contact with her life as well as her child. It's interesting that it took Pat taking a massive blow to her ego for the husband to finally get help for himself. So in the end Lenah helped a man in a bad marriage finally get out. She indirectly saved him.
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I would have called the police on Casey…. I don’t care if she goes to a juvenile dentition center or even jail. This would make me furious as a mother. Don’t mess with my kids.
I feel sorry for the youngest kids of this woman. It’s so sad when kids become as entitled as their parents and they grow up in this kind of environment. I have little sympathy for the oldest as she stole from someone and that is absolutely horrible. The teen developed this behaviour from her mother plain an simple
And what’s even worse is that she didn’t even show any remorse and was actually happy when she excluded OP’s daughter from the party because she didn’t get the gift she demanded, and thought taking the ring would be “compensation”. Just imagine what that daughter is gonna be like when she’s out of high school and in the real world. She’s probably gonna be worse
Sometimes kids reject their parents and go hard in the opposite direction due to not wanting to be remotely like them. Here’s hoping that happened in this case.
I would have cut oodles of threads throughout the dress and popped just enough of the seams (arm holes and sleeves, along the zipper, dropped the hem, shoulder seams, waist seams, etc. ) so that when she put it on, it would have basically self destructed ...... then she probably would have called and gone off on who ever altered the dress ...... MWAH-HA-HA-HA-HA-HAAAAAAAA! Oh, yeah, and clipped threads holding the beading in place ....... heh heh heh!
42 Years ago when we got married..... I upset every body because we refused to have any children at our wedding...and although we had traditional vows I insisted that 'OBEY' was removed....that really was upsetting for everybody...but it was right for us. I only had one trip to the fabric shop...and no sewing machine. Love was in every hand stitch...we had a wonderful day...do what YOU wish....xxxx
They shouldve just left her to figure out the wedding dress situation by herself BUT the just HAD to give her another dress. Like no. Even if it was ugly, I wanted to see how she would figure it out herself.
I love Pat's EX Husband's SHINEY NEW SPINE when he told her during their DIVORCE UNLESS what you have to say to me INVOLVES our KIDS DO NOT TALK or CONTACT me in ANY WAY and I don't blame him
I like you reading these stories and the awful Bridezillas I can’t even imagine how they can be like that! I liked the took out the back panel of the dress Lenah my hero ! The entitlement quotient is exponential! Unfortunately she has raised another bridezilla in her daughter Casey , sad 😞 but great stories Dude! 🙂
I thought Leah was going to undo some stitching, so the dress would fall appart , preferably when she was ready to walk down the aisle. I hope someone who attended filmed the wedding and put it on social media.
Hank didn't get his divorce!?!? THATS OUTRAGEOUS!!!! If ever a spouse NEEDED an out from a marriage, Hank is it. But at least he got distance. HANK, FIGHTING!!! ✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼
I don't get this.. you meet a person who you see is problematic and an awful human being. You drift away from this person precisely because of this... but a few years later you let this person into your life again, present them to your family, let them into your house and let their bratty kids mingle with yours and even bully one of your daughters, you let this person into your charity community where they wreak havoc, steal stuff meant for vulnerable people, bully others to do stuff for them etc. And you never in this period just simply say: "I don't appreciate what you are doing, so please never contact me again or I'll call the police. My family doesn't like you, my community doesn't like you and I don't like you. Get out of our lives". How does this make any sense? I really think the actual problem here is that this OP simply doesn't know how to draw clear boundaries. She talked about them, but she clearly doesn't know what they are and needs a backbone. She let this person take advantage not only of herself, but of her family and extended community too. She's the one that let the wolf in. Yes, I say let because if she hadn't resumed contact with her, none of this would have happened. I don't accept friend requests from some people just because I know them; I refuse those that I don't want in my life; I don't answer their messages and I sure as hell do NOT go out with them or invite them to my house. You just need to say NO. What's so hard? Just because she couldn't say no, everyone she knew in her life was negatively impacted. What was the point of that? How do you continue a relationship with someone whose daughter stole family jewelry and bullies her.. and the mom never apologized for this?
When I got married, I went by the old adage, "something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue." The item that was old was a pair of pretty sandals I hadnt worn for three years. The new was a pink necklace I bought a week before. My wedding dress was what was borrowed, and my friend was surprised by how clean it was. The blue item was a pair of drop earrings I wore to my prom.
Pat this. Pat that. Like you cant walk away from Pat? You can't keep your kids away from Pat? You cant last a day without Pat? So much complaint about Pat but what about walking away and completely cutting her off from your life? You dont have to be nasty.
I seriously need therapy. Rather more. Lol. I grew up w entitled family & gold child crap. Not immediate family but extended family. In some cultures they r around just as much Had therapy & found my voice. Now. I love the confrontation. Lol. I wouldn’t cut dress. But I would post all over Facebook & burn the person down. I would make it PUBLIC! I’m still people pleaser as having toxic family. Unfortunately I have a line & it goes from “people pleaser” to “damn” very quickly.
Ok OP am I suppose to feel sorry for you! You opened this can of worms! You knew exactly the type of person Pat was which is why you cut all contact with her in the first place. Yet you choose to let her back into your life and into everything you do. You set no boundaries and let her and her kids walk all over you. If things got messy and uncomfortable for you then it is your fault for letting this person back into your life. I can not feel sorry for you. You made your choice, a bad choice at that, and continued to make bad choices now deal with the failout.
The back panel is probably the back of the bodice. So Lehna would have cut away the seams under the arms & at the shoulders, then detached that piece from the skirt. Which means, if they could ever get the dress back, a half-decent seamstress could re-assemble the dress good as new.
For once, I’m doubting the veracity of the story. Why would Pat call OP who had forcibly retrieved her own daughters ring, and who has stopped being friendly with her to vent about the dress and ask her borrow her dress or pick up another? Someone else had to closer to Pat than OP. And them supplying her with that awful dress? It was so awful it would have made OP and Lena look bad, unless they just thought the revenge was worth it. Just sounds like a revenge fantasy to me.
I don't know about the dress part but the casey story seems viable to me. I've had 'friends' who sabotaged my school assignments (and got their grades bumped up by the professors too) acts all friendly and sweet because they needed something from me. Or vented about how others ignored, or treated them poorly in other class assignments Then had the gall to act all shocked and horrified when i refused to help and tried to justify themselves when i reminded them about how they sabotaged my work🤷🏻 I'm not really suprised just how far entitled people would reach just to get everything their way Edit: spelling
@@Khellyyyyyy people can indeed be a piece of work! I myself had to drop a class at the last minute because someone refused to return my surveys and the professor wouldn’t listen except to tell me after that I should have talked to her first. Well, I tried!
The ring story might have happened a while ago, because OP is saying at the beginning she and Patty are 48 years old, and it is just an example of Pat behavior. From what l understood from the video, Op is working with Lenah at a renting wedding dresses store so OP knows well about wedding dresses so this is why Pat asked her.
@@petercafrancisca4569 possibly, but Pat’s daughter was 17 at the time. 48-17, probably not that long ago. I don’t think OP considered Pat her friend any longer. But it’s possible.
I am not sure about the veracity, but that is still possible. She might have called many others (she did feel upset because many people did not help her, including her own family members), but they either did not pick up the phone or they rejected her. Also, Pat doesn't seem to love anyone but herself. So why would she care about her daughter, especially when she KNOWS her daughter had stolen the ring. I think that everyone around them knew how horrible Pat is, so they were not curious as to their bad taste in dress etc.
Jesus, OP, does Pat have to murder someone for you to cut her out of your life?
Sadly, yes.
Like that one stupid fly that never leaves you and comes back everytime you try and hit it away
Not everyone just cuts people off.
Pretty sure OP tried before, but she keeps worming her way back in. I wouldn’t be surprised if OP changed her number several times.
@@arianebolt1575 Not everyone (actually, almost no one) gives people literally hundreds of chances. Unless they have some mental problems themselves.
Glad there is a happy ending for Hank that was a nice surprise.
That made me so happy too! He discovered his self-worth and got away from that selfish bitch.
Hold on. They put a known thief in charge of shipping out wedding dresses!? Who’s hair brained idea was that?
That reminds me of an episode of Judge Mathis years ago.
*Witness- She asked So-and-so, who was a heroin addict, for financial advice.
*Judge Mathis- She asked a heroin addict for financial advice?! Was she on heroin too!? Everybody knows that any money a heroin addict gets is going to the dope man!
If you think this story is true I’ve got a bridge to sell you
@@michaelturner5050 I’m listening…
Harebrained*. Basically, an idea so dumb that it must have come from a hare, not human.
Hare, not hair.
I would never had accepted pat as a friend in the first place. Glad the ring got back to the rightful owner. Pat got what she deserved.
I know, right? It's a pretty good lesson to let sleeping dogs lie when some trashy person from your past comes a-callin'. So much could have been avoided if Pat had just been ignored at the onset.
aaawww.....I hate that the original bride didn't get the dress.
As do I,but. If it wasn't for her not getting her way then We wouldn't get this story and the husband wouldn't get divorced.
She can always get another, a better one
I'm glad that Pat got what she deserved, the ring was gotten back and Hank made it out.
Read this story before, and it's a wild lesson in boundaries, and how "keeping the peace" is such a toxic mentality.
You need to teach the "Pats" in your life where the hard line is, or they'll walk all over you. It helps if the people around you hold the same standards.
Poor girl. My great-grandmother's wedding ring is now my own wedding band, as it belonged to my mother. After my mom died when I inherited it I wore it on my right ring finger before I got married and moved it to my left.
I couldn't imagine some "friend" asking to give her MY family's ring. Maybe look at or try on if her fingers are a similar size, sure. It is one of a kind. But take from me? I'd tackle the chick before she made it out the door. Poor girl was so manipulated and bullied.
Also, how do these women have so many wedding dresses?
Nice to see some revenge on Pat. I like Lenah!
I hope pats daughter get the same treatment
Lenah is the real MVP.
Hell yeah.
Boy, do I feel bad for that husband...
The only thing I can picture as "penguin walking" would be somebody clinching like they were trying not to crap themselves and I'm wondering how that would garner sympathy to get what you want.
Great voice narrating. I got enchanted and stayed till the end🌹🌹
Ugh that bridezilla... She deserves what she got. 🙄
I am down the rabbit hole of bridezillas again. And today, the countdown for my own wedding is 5 days. 🤦🏻♀️
Sometimes I wonder how people got so despicable as Pat? Were her parents to blame? Was she a sociopath with no concern for others? I would had everyone say they're coming to her wedding and then NOT show up. I would've sent her a video saying WHY nobody came to the wedding and WHY they would talk to her again. I think the "no's" in this situation needed to come a lot sooner. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on ME." The dress thing was PERFECT BTW.
We don't know about her parents, but she is certainly setting her own kids a bad example.
People like OP are to blame. They tolerate them and then go all Pikachu face and write long winded rants when their daughters get abused by the abusers they invited into their lives.
What isn't explained and what I'm confused about is this: Was OP the one who introduced Pat to the center as well as to Lenah? She says they were never friends but she allowed this woman to have a lot of contact with her life as well as her child.
It's interesting that it took Pat taking a massive blow to her ego for the husband to finally get help for himself. So in the end Lenah helped a man in a bad marriage finally get out. She indirectly saved him.
I agree! Why would she answer phone calls, accept a FB friend request, and help her pick up a dress?
The thing that op did with the ring 💍 is what I was thinking, when you see her just take it off her finger
Had it not been for the laws of morality, I would have chopped that finger off.
@@maubrey2095 do an oppsy.
@@maubrey2095 I hate to say it, but agreed, it makes me feel bad because she’s a “child” (at 17 you are nearly an adult)
Glad everything turned out well for Hank
Well done people. It's not hard to be a good neighbor.
I watched several of your videos before I realised you weren't an automated voice 🤣🤣 You're so clear and well spoken. I really enjoy listening to your voice!
Thank you Kiki! 😊
@@LostGenre You're very welcome 😊 Thank you for your channel.
I love that they pulled a “Parent Trap” move on the dress ( the original movie) and I’m so happy Hank got out of that toxic life and LIVED!
I would have called the police on Casey…. I don’t care if she goes to a juvenile dentition center or even jail. This would make me furious as a mother. Don’t mess with my kids.
I keep wondering why people put up with creatures like that. Lack of a backbone?
I feel sorry for the youngest kids of this woman. It’s so sad when kids become as entitled as their parents and they grow up in this kind of environment. I have little sympathy for the oldest as she stole from someone and that is absolutely horrible. The teen developed this behaviour from her mother plain an simple
And what’s even worse is that she didn’t even show any remorse and was actually happy when she excluded OP’s daughter from the party because she didn’t get the gift she demanded, and thought taking the ring would be “compensation”. Just imagine what that daughter is gonna be like when she’s out of high school and in the real world. She’s probably gonna be worse
And she had 5 kids? Mercy! More monsters.
Sometimes kids reject their parents and go hard in the opposite direction due to not wanting to be remotely like them. Here’s hoping that happened in this case.
@@erickpoorbaugh6728🤞🙏
Last story: It's a shame they ruined the wedding dress, I wish they wouldve just taken it and given it to someone else...and Pat knows it.
She can press charge for theft tho
@@kos2919 Hardly when she took it in the first place.
I think that you can fix it. They still have what they took out. Besides she changed the color of it.
@@kos2919how? Pat stole it. Would have been fun if she’d called police!
Pat's husband should have got a vasectomy after child 3. The poor man was struggling with holding down 3 jobs.
Pat’s lucky OP didn’t call the cops on Casey for theft. At 17, she was old enough that she could get into serious trouble for it.
Whenever i hear Pat's Name, i just imagine Pat Fusty from BTD6
Today's Content:
00:00 Bridezilla Stole Another Bride's Wedding Dress - Backstory Setup
05:17 Bridezilla Stole Another Bride's Wedding Dress - Part 1
11:11 Bridezilla Stole Another Bride's Wedding Dress - Part 2
15:41 Bridezilla Stole Another Bride's Wedding Dress - Ending
Enjoy!
And also poor Hank! Of course he’s showing signs of depression and mental distress! He’s in a disaster of a marriage.
She should of turned the entire dress into used toilet paper 😂
I would have cut oodles of threads throughout the dress and popped just enough of the seams (arm holes and sleeves, along the zipper, dropped the hem, shoulder seams, waist seams, etc. ) so that when she put it on, it would have basically self destructed ...... then she probably would have called and gone off on who ever altered the dress ...... MWAH-HA-HA-HA-HA-HAAAAAAAA! Oh, yeah, and clipped threads holding the beading in place ....... heh heh heh!
Doesn't Pat have her dress from her first wedding? Oh right, 5 kids and 20 years means it doesn't fit anymore.
Around the ten minute mark, I was like, “ is there a point to this story is OP just complaining”?
42 Years ago when we got married..... I upset every body because we refused to have any children at our wedding...and although we had traditional vows I insisted that 'OBEY' was removed....that really was upsetting for everybody...but it was right for us. I only had one trip to the fabric shop...and no sewing machine. Love was in every hand stitch...we had a wonderful day...do what YOU wish....xxxx
Traditionally, the bride carries a bouquet to hide her crossed fingers when she promises to 'obey.' :-)
What came first the Karen or the bridezila 😂
They shouldve just left her to figure out the wedding dress situation by herself BUT the just HAD to give her another dress. Like no. Even if it was ugly, I wanted to see how she would figure it out herself.
I swear this readit content is popular in every where in youtube , best pro revenge story
Who the hell has a 9am wedding on a Sunday?
Somebody who does not want to pay for the flowers at the Chapel and reuses the flowers of the wedding the day before or of the wedding afterwards.
I think this is my favorite story of all time.
Before it starts I wonder if this is about the lady that stole from the community group...
it is and she gets what she deserves
I wish my supervisor had a come uppance like this
There is a song that says :If you tolerate this then your kids will be next.
Great story!
I love Pat's EX Husband's SHINEY NEW SPINE when he told her during their DIVORCE UNLESS what you have to say to me INVOLVES our KIDS DO NOT TALK or CONTACT me in ANY WAY and I don't blame him
I like you reading these stories and the awful Bridezillas I can’t even imagine how they can be like that! I liked the took out the back panel of the dress Lenah my hero ! The entitlement quotient is exponential! Unfortunately she has raised another bridezilla in her daughter Casey , sad 😞 but great stories Dude! 🙂
It's pronounced "pick ett fence" not "picked fence" for future reference. Love your videos!
I would've totally told Pat I fucked up her dress, that's what happens when you steal from people.
Poetic justice!
I thought Leah was going to undo some stitching, so the dress would fall appart , preferably when she was ready to walk down the aisle. I hope someone who attended filmed the wedding and put it on social media.
5:27 Casey: “…’Ants In The Pants’!? ‘ANTS IN THE PANTS’!?” 🎁
this feels like a desperate housewives plot
I sew so I would have taken a seam ripper and opened a few seams!
That's punishing the guests.
I'd have ripped seams near her butt... but I'm petty as hell.
@@kitsumekat It would have given them a laugh, and something to film.
I am glad the OP finally figured out how to distance herself from Pat.
Babies are a blessing but at max I'm only having 2 😄
Tyvm LG.
Ok you did a great job of putting pat in her place,that really worked.but did your kid get the ring back
Hank didn't get his divorce!?!? THATS OUTRAGEOUS!!!! If ever a spouse NEEDED an out from a marriage, Hank is it. But at least he got distance. HANK, FIGHTING!!! ✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼
Bridzilla still got less than she deserved, lmao!
This is one of my favorite stories
I don't get this.. you meet a person who you see is problematic and an awful human being. You drift away from this person precisely because of this... but a few years later you let this person into your life again, present them to your family, let them into your house and let their bratty kids mingle with yours and even bully one of your daughters, you let this person into your charity community where they wreak havoc, steal stuff meant for vulnerable people, bully others to do stuff for them etc. And you never in this period just simply say: "I don't appreciate what you are doing, so please never contact me again or I'll call the police. My family doesn't like you, my community doesn't like you and I don't like you. Get out of our lives". How does this make any sense? I really think the actual problem here is that this OP simply doesn't know how to draw clear boundaries. She talked about them, but she clearly doesn't know what they are and needs a backbone. She let this person take advantage not only of herself, but of her family and extended community too. She's the one that let the wolf in. Yes, I say let because if she hadn't resumed contact with her, none of this would have happened. I don't accept friend requests from some people just because I know them; I refuse those that I don't want in my life; I don't answer their messages and I sure as hell do NOT go out with them or invite them to my house. You just need to say NO. What's so hard? Just because she couldn't say no, everyone she knew in her life was negatively impacted. What was the point of that? How do you continue a relationship with someone whose daughter stole family jewelry and bullies her.. and the mom never apologized for this?
When I got married, I went by the old adage, "something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue." The item that was old was a pair of pretty sandals I hadnt worn for three years. The new was a pink necklace I bought a week before. My wedding dress was what was borrowed, and my friend was surprised by how clean it was. The blue item was a pair of drop earrings I wore to my prom.
9:14 ma’am you’re raising an abusive bully. “Assertive woman” my butt.
Reverse karen. You start out entitled then you become a mom and stop.
Usually, that makes them mega monsters.
Loved the opening line re Karen 😂😅😃
0:46 I’m sorry, what’s this now? 🤯🤭
13:48 Same hun, _SAME!_ 🙄🤦🏾♀️
Pat this. Pat that. Like you cant walk away from Pat? You can't keep your kids away from Pat? You cant last a day without Pat? So much complaint about Pat but what about walking away and completely cutting her off from your life? You dont have to be nasty.
kinda sad y’all cut up a beautiful vintage dress :(((
Sacrifice needed
@@kos2919 🤣🤣🤣🤣facts
“Presumptuous details?”
The real hero of this story is hank leaving her
I'm glad Hank is free from Pat
What is it with these bridezillas and their rotten ways? Geez!
Pity the dress was ruined.
TELL HER NO!! WHAT'S WRONG WITH PPL, SAY NO NO NO NO, WHY IS THAT SO HARD?
Why would pat husband remarry her he should had gotten a divorce long time ago
Couldn't have happened to a nicer woman. Glad her husband got away from her.
Nub. He was worn down to a nub.
Not a knob. That’s… very different.
OP did this to herself, and I feel zero pity for her.
What does walk like a penguin mean?
walking side to side like a penguin. In all honesty, I would have thought she had a literal stick up her hymen.
If I saw that, I would probably ask if she really had to use the toilet, and point her in the right direction
Haha, if you accept a toxic person into your life , well you deserve it :D
Pat's husband could have gotten a vasectomy...
Story 1: pat's husband is that guy you unfriend from the friend group because his a simp.
Uou got just what you asked for ,once you have dumped someone they STAY dumped!!!
I seriously need therapy. Rather more. Lol.
I grew up w entitled family & gold child crap. Not immediate family but extended family. In some cultures they r around just as much
Had therapy & found my voice.
Now. I love the confrontation. Lol.
I wouldn’t cut dress. But I would post all over Facebook & burn the person down. I would make it PUBLIC!
I’m still people pleaser as having toxic family. Unfortunately I have a line & it goes from “people pleaser” to “damn” very quickly.
First one. Delete her from friend list after telling her to keep her crotch goblins to herself. NC is to be enforced.
Poor hank
B & C .. 😂😜
Dislike ppl that think everything fake is cute, never cute!
I loved this story… 😂 😂
I enjoy the revenge! She deserve a horrible moment!! Horrible person will never be on my life!
Ok OP am I suppose to feel sorry for you!
You opened this can of worms!
You knew exactly the type of person Pat was which is why you cut all contact with her in the first place. Yet you choose to let her back into your life and into everything you do. You set no boundaries and let her and her kids walk all over you.
If things got messy and uncomfortable for you then it is your fault for letting this person back into your life.
I can not feel sorry for you. You made your choice, a bad choice at that, and continued to make bad choices now deal with the failout.
Lena rocks🤩
Good for hank
I don't know what the fuck is wrong with Pat, but I know even less what is wrong with the mother who keeps Pat in her life.
Yeah pat and her kids need to be out your life forever she is awful
They are no better than Pat
I don´t get what they did to the dress. Please, native speakers, what is a back pannel?
The back panel is probably the back of the bodice. So Lehna would have cut away the seams under the arms & at the shoulders, then detached that piece from the skirt.
Which means, if they could ever get the dress back, a half-decent seamstress could re-assemble the dress good as new.
Your better off without Pat and family! Cut the dead weight!
🤘🏻🕶️💫
For once, I’m doubting the veracity of the story. Why would Pat call OP who had forcibly retrieved her own daughters ring, and who has stopped being friendly with her to vent about the dress and ask her borrow her dress or pick up another? Someone else had to closer to Pat than OP. And them supplying her with that awful dress? It was so awful it would have made OP and Lena look bad, unless they just thought the revenge was worth it. Just sounds like a revenge fantasy to me.
I don't know about the dress part but the casey story seems viable to me. I've had 'friends' who sabotaged my school assignments (and got their grades bumped up by the professors too) acts all friendly and sweet because they needed something from me. Or vented about how others ignored, or treated them poorly in other class assignments
Then had the gall to act all shocked and horrified when i refused to help and tried to justify themselves when i reminded them about how they sabotaged my work🤷🏻
I'm not really suprised just how far entitled people would reach just to get everything their way
Edit: spelling
@@Khellyyyyyy people can indeed be a piece of work! I myself had to drop a class at the last minute because someone refused to return my surveys and the professor wouldn’t listen except to tell me after that I should have talked to her first. Well, I tried!
The ring story might have happened a while ago, because OP is saying at the beginning she and Patty are 48 years old, and it is just an example of Pat behavior. From what l understood from the video, Op is working with Lenah at a renting wedding dresses store so OP knows well about wedding dresses so this is why Pat asked her.
@@petercafrancisca4569 possibly, but Pat’s daughter was 17 at the time. 48-17, probably not that long ago. I don’t think OP considered Pat her friend any longer. But it’s possible.
I am not sure about the veracity, but that is still possible. She might have called many others (she did feel upset because many people did not help her, including her own family members), but they either did not pick up the phone or they rejected her. Also, Pat doesn't seem to love anyone but herself. So why would she care about her daughter, especially when she KNOWS her daughter had stolen the ring.
I think that everyone around them knew how horrible Pat is, so they were not curious as to their bad taste in dress etc.
Doctor Ramani on UA-cam is very helpful on toxic people like Pat & Casey.
Too Fuckin' Long!!! Did Not Hang Around