When Do We Tell Our Kids About Our $3M Wealth?

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  • @LindaPotter-w5u
    @LindaPotter-w5u 3 години тому +32

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  • @lombardo141
    @lombardo141 9 годин тому +32

    You don’t have to tell them, they already assume you have money based on your mindset. Best to start teaching them about money now, budgeting , investments etc. Then set up a trust, not a will that will be paid out based on requirements that must be fulfilled.

    • @whatsinanamethatthecaptive577
      @whatsinanamethatthecaptive577 7 годин тому

      Agree. We have not told our 28 and 27 year old. But we have been teaching them how to responsibly manage money and wealth their whole life and continue to do so. Both are totally responsible with their own money and are living within their means, working hard, and saving for their own retirements. And yes, they know we have wealth.

  • @kyungshim6483
    @kyungshim6483 9 годин тому +12

    Write up a will and tell them about it. You don't have to tell them what's in the will.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 5 годин тому

      Yeah that's good enough.
      Some people make simple things so complicated.

    • @tonysnow2015
      @tonysnow2015 2 години тому

      ​@@blackworldtraveler3711 A will can be contested. A trust is iron tight.

  • @sarapalin
    @sarapalin Годину тому +2

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      @mary_.1peterson Годину тому

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      @jadewashington7 Годину тому

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      @Arlingtongeorge Годину тому

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      @SammieOlin Годину тому

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      @masterotrunks Годину тому

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  • @jamesjohnson7944
    @jamesjohnson7944 3 години тому +1

    Steve Harvey said it best. "This isn't Your Money. This is MY MONEY. You need to go make your own." Also, don't tell tham anything. Let them find out at the will reading. AND definitely make those age limits are appropriate and based upon some life markers.

  • @pkmcnett5649
    @pkmcnett5649 7 годин тому +7

    No. They can find out if you leave them an inheritance. Why tell them unless you want to be controlling about it?

  • @willelliott5052
    @willelliott5052 4 години тому +2

    We put our kids thru undergraduate college only, and we gave them one used car each. They have to wait until we both are dead for the rest.

  • @Cucumberflavoredmustard
    @Cucumberflavoredmustard 7 годин тому +5

    Appoint the most responsible one as the estate executor. Let them know what is means and what is expected of them, but there is no reason to go into numbers.

  • @BusArch42
    @BusArch42 7 годин тому +6

    We are sitting on 5 million (not counting house etc). Our kids know but they do not share outside our immediate family

    • @patmcguire896
      @patmcguire896 3 години тому +1

      What brings you to Dave UA-cam if you already have 5 mil?

    • @BusArch42
      @BusArch42 2 години тому +1

      @ I am hoping to do financial counseling when I retire in a couple years as a church volunteer. I grew up on Larry Burkett before Dave was even around as a teacher. I earned envelope budgeting at age 14.

  • @axetrops
    @axetrops 4 години тому +1

    Dont ever tell them because once they find out about inheritance, they'll just wait for that time to come. That inheritance will not last a year.

  • @SteamEnginesUSA
    @SteamEnginesUSA 8 годин тому +10

    We started talking to our kids when they were 3 and 8. The conversation progressed in their teens. We set up their retirement Roth IRA's together in their teens and taught them about finances.
    Today I would start a 1 year old off with a 401k invested in a S&P 500 fund.
    Our kids grew up knowing where every dollar we have came from and is invested. We have retirement accounts and real-estate. They have known about our finances from the beginning and it has allowed them to develop as financially responsible young adults.
    As parents you do your children a disservice not teaching them and letting them learn from your success and failure. The day you talk to them is TODAY.
    The hardest part for me has been trying to have the these same finance conversations with my new sons-in-laws. It is a different dynamic but they to now know our finances and money moves we make.
    Above all talk to your family, learn and grow together.

  • @bobmcdoggish9659
    @bobmcdoggish9659 3 години тому +1

    Put all or most of your assets into a trust and notify your children how to access the trust after you have passed away. NEVER LET THEM KNOW that you are multi-millionaires.

  • @samuelmoijueh2030
    @samuelmoijueh2030 9 годин тому +4

    They know more than you think

  • @joannaa.5101
    @joannaa.5101 8 годин тому +2

    25 years old and a trust.

  • @YellowTrashMan
    @YellowTrashMan 7 годин тому +1

    I want them to have the skills to make their own.

  • @cjacob9875
    @cjacob9875 8 годин тому +2

    No, don't tell, until your much older.

  • @JacobGeorge436
    @JacobGeorge436 9 годин тому +71

    The continuously changing economic conditions in our society have made it necessary for people to find additional sources of income; thus, I am looking at the stock market to fuel my retirement goal of $3 million.

    • @JakubKrempasky-f7h
      @JakubKrempasky-f7h 9 годин тому +4

      Keeping some gold is usually a wise decision. You would be better off keeping away from equities for a bit or, even better, seeking advice from an expert given the current market conditions and everything that is at risk with the current economy.

    • @SergioMartinez-i4n
      @SergioMartinez-i4n 9 годин тому +3

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      @JoyceStanley-m3e 9 годин тому +1

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  • @AmericanWears
    @AmericanWears 8 годин тому +1

    Never, let it be a surprise. You don’t want a Lyle and Erick situation.

  • @markg999
    @markg999 7 годин тому +2

    No reason to tell them.

  • @Gadfly247
    @Gadfly247 9 годин тому +2

    Wait until all your kids have grown up, found themselves, able to take care of themselves, have their own lives! Otherwise, they can find out when the will is read.

  • @gin170
    @gin170 7 годин тому

    They are too young right now but at some point you have to include them. I think my husband, his brother and I was were included in a meeting with the estate attorney maybe in our 30s. The Atty went over the trust, etc. Our kids 16 and 12 knows we have investments, inherited house, etc. but they don't know real numbers yet. They know what we invest our own money and their money and it's growing. We talk about that stuff openly, we just don't mention numbers yet. If you want your kids to know how to handle money when you are gone, I think you have to prepare them instead of being scared and not know what to do with that much money. They are not really that interested when they are young but as they get older they might start listening to some of the things you're saying.

  • @djpuplex
    @djpuplex 9 годин тому +2

    Why write in call in when you are going to brag.

  • @monikaw1369
    @monikaw1369 9 годин тому +12

    Since we watch to much of the crime shows, it scares me to tell my kids. 😂

    • @superblump87
      @superblump87 8 годин тому

      Trashy

    • @jasonleatherwood2172
      @jasonleatherwood2172 7 годин тому

      Trashy? People kill for less money im only worth 1.5 mil if i died today my kids 12 and 9 in 10 years i should be wprth 5 million thats why i ensure my kids love me lol

    • @enigmathegrayman2953
      @enigmathegrayman2953 7 годин тому

      ……..Menendez brothers

  • @Chet_24
    @Chet_24 9 годин тому +2

    Around 2 minutes, why in the world would you go to college if you already had money?
    You can pick up a few books and learn just as much as you would in college for way less money.

  • @megsmith596
    @megsmith596 2 години тому

    My children are 38 and 34 and they'll find out when we die.

  • @Flockko342
    @Flockko342 8 годин тому

    It’s not liquid stuff has to be liquidated before they’ll even see

  • @jeretso
    @jeretso 9 годин тому +2

    3M is good but not that crazy. Don't ask. Don't Tell. I suggest wait till kids are old enough to buy a house lol.

    • @BRY__BRY
      @BRY__BRY 9 годин тому

      oh yeah? you multimillionaire? 🤡

  • @gorg9599
    @gorg9599 3 години тому

    One thing i'm wondering about, is the audience here all american or are there also people from other countries listening?
    Not everything here is applicable for every country, but the fundamentals are very similar and at least for me its very entertaining.
    I'm watching from Germany by the way.

  • @allenwinters8103
    @allenwinters8103 8 годин тому +1

    People saying 3 million aint alot of money probably dont have 1million. I dont care what climate u in 3 million in assest is a lot of money with cash too if u have 3 million in cash you can buy all 3 kids a 300000 house spending a million dollars and the kids can just work and save and pay bills and be good

    • @ryanl3812
      @ryanl3812 8 годин тому +1

      I think it's a "in the grand scheme" view.. $3MM is not generational wealth. It's a healthy retirement for a hard working couple with decent careers.

  • @BKFF20
    @BKFF20 3 години тому

    Tell them to save at least 150k in liquid assets on their own first. Then they can have some. This way they learn the difficulties involved in gaining that wealth.

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780 9 годин тому +1

    In the meantime, Ken's eating a Thanksgiving feast part deux for lunch.

    • @todd2456
      @todd2456 9 годин тому +1

      Hey - YT is deleting stuff like crazy. Anyway, I think Dave's growth fund is FMAGX. 15.8% return since 1963.

    • @JustinCase780
      @JustinCase780 6 годин тому +1

      @todd2456 Got it - Thanks!
      Yes, they are deleting a lot lately as if there is some auto trigger if we comment too much or who knows for what.

  • @SalisburySnake
    @SalisburySnake 9 годин тому +15

    You can easily blow $3M on healthcare if one of them gets cancer or something.

    • @todd2456
      @todd2456 9 годин тому +5

      Insurance policies have max out of pocket limits.

    • @Jennifer-xh7lj
      @Jennifer-xh7lj 8 годин тому +6

      My friend's husband had to have a heart transplant which has cost them 2 million so far. Medical costs can go to the sky.

    • @superblump87
      @superblump87 8 годин тому

      ​@todd2456 if you have cancer you won't be insurable once the Trump admin repeals the ACA (Obamacare).

    • @mtbokor1969
      @mtbokor1969 8 годин тому

      @@Jennifer-xh7lj THis is an extreme example

    • @todd2456
      @todd2456 7 годин тому +3

      @@Jennifer-xh7lj Must have terrible insurance. Policies have a max out of pocket.

  • @mrsh2167
    @mrsh2167 8 годин тому

    Just yesterday, I learned a 26 y/o family member is not moving ahead in life b/c he expects to inherit in maybe 30 years

  • @BrianParker-o7k
    @BrianParker-o7k 58 хвилин тому

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  • @johnadm3479
    @johnadm3479 9 годин тому +2

    I just have 3$ wealth 😅

  • @HOLDXSTEEL
    @HOLDXSTEEL 9 годин тому

    Don’t tell them. What’s the point of building generational wealth right ?

  • @KENTUCKYUSA1
    @KENTUCKYUSA1 5 годин тому +1

    Never be more valuable dead than alive. Keep your mouths shut and set up trusts for kids.

  • @zoraster3749
    @zoraster3749 9 годин тому +5

    This isnt 1986 or 1992… $3 million isn’t “that much” money.
    Estate planning and tell them about what’s in the will.
    The beneficiary of my life insurance and certain assets is a trust and it doles out a certain amount of money each year plus some one-off events like a home down payment, car, or tuition. When they hit 30 they get paid out the balance of whatever is left.

    • @trevonlynum2785
      @trevonlynum2785 9 годин тому +1

      You can make on the low end three percent a month selling cash secured puts. If 90,000 a month isn’t a lot I don’t know what planet I’m on.

    • @zoraster3749
      @zoraster3749 9 годин тому +1

      @ 36% ROI on CSPs? You’re asking to get wiped out or be bag holding for years. What are you selling these CSPs on? NVDA or triple leveraged ETFs? 😂
      No such thing as a free lunch; you’re being compensated for risk and 36% is a lot of risk.
      Besides, their total net worth is $3 million so a third of it is likely illiquid.

    • @BRY__BRY
      @BRY__BRY 9 годин тому

      tf are you talking about 3 million isnt that much? your average american will never touch 1 MILLION. You're a clown.

    • @trevonlynum2785
      @trevonlynum2785 8 годин тому

      @ risk? To purchase something, that you would have purchased anyway. 🤔

    • @tayross97
      @tayross97 7 годин тому +4

      $3m is more than 95% of people today..

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780 9 годин тому +2

    Why can't adults use half their brain on this stuff.

  • @kaiinuakuma
    @kaiinuakuma 9 годин тому

    Make trust fund that they get at 30 .

  • @flea4061
    @flea4061 25 хвилин тому

    3 million? I had that at 40. You better get back to work.

  • @BRY__BRY
    @BRY__BRY 9 годин тому +8

    I love these people in the comments who say "nehhh 3 million aint dat much". All in their moms basement with 10k in their bank.

    • @tayross97
      @tayross97 7 годин тому +3

      Agree, less than 5% of people have a net worth over $3m… I’m on my way, $1.25m at 34

    • @SummaGirl1347
      @SummaGirl1347 7 годин тому

      Or, we live in a part of the country where a crack house goes for $500k.

    • @BRY__BRY
      @BRY__BRY 7 годин тому +1

      @@tayross97 congrats! nothing to scoff at what so ever. It is a lot of money.

    • @BRY__BRY
      @BRY__BRY 7 годин тому +1

      @@SummaGirl1347 I live in a Canada. I know how things are. Trailers are damn near 250k. I got a single apartment and rent is 900 a month. All my bills, food etc. including rent is 1800 a month. MOST rent here is like 1400 an up a month but you shop smart. I could quit my job and live off 3 million lmao. It is a lot to SOME people.

    • @tayross97
      @tayross97 7 годин тому

      I live in Massachusetts, $500k here is a starter home that needs some love

  • @OptimalOpinion
    @OptimalOpinion 8 годин тому

    Fake call ? - I am pretty sure the KIDS know if U have wealth

  • @greggpurviance7252
    @greggpurviance7252 8 годин тому

    Too early. Need to know how their character is first

  • @SummaGirl1347
    @SummaGirl1347 7 годин тому

    They actually think this is a lot of money? Calm down, lady. You’re not exactly a Rothschild.

  • @manylaughs9002
    @manylaughs9002 6 годин тому +1

    Does everyone talking shit about “3 mil not being that much” have the same amount or more? Silly geese.

  • @kurtjames9487
    @kurtjames9487 8 годин тому

    Most of the time you can trust a son, but never a daughter. MOST of the time.

    • @SummaGirl1347
      @SummaGirl1347 7 годин тому

      You must not watch Forensic Files.

    • @kurtjames9487
      @kurtjames9487 7 годин тому +1

      @SummaGirl1347 no, I'm not typical American who binge watches their life away and then complains about getting nowhere.

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 6 годин тому

      You can't trust an American.

  • @shortstraw4
    @shortstraw4 4 години тому

    3m isn't wealth. That's a basic retirement nest egg

  • @carguyuk7525
    @carguyuk7525 9 годин тому +5

    You will probably live for another 30 years. Worry about living well when getting old rather than your kids. Write your will and leave it 5 years before discussing the detail. Don't use your will to control your kids.

  • @naegwut
    @naegwut 9 годин тому +1

    ❤🎉 first comment
    Great question

  • @outsidethebox262
    @outsidethebox262 Годину тому

    When they have $500k networth.

  • @OptimalOpinion
    @OptimalOpinion 8 годин тому +1

    3M is NOT wealthy !!!

  • @KingdomKillaz117
    @KingdomKillaz117 9 хвилин тому

    Here's the fun part: you don't.

  • @diceportz7107
    @diceportz7107 4 години тому

    Having The Plan is essential. It bring minor child a lot of comfort "knowing" that they will have a roof over their head. The dollars are not important until after Mom and Dad are gone. But I do hope you taught your daughter something about money management.

  • @lexir7504
    @lexir7504 5 годин тому +1

    why tell them at all wouldnt it be better to act like they're not getting anything or only a little so they don't live lifestyles hoping that you die soon so they can live out on the 1.5 mil lol

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    @brillithgarciaborge 9 годин тому +4

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      @Jhonnydeep-d2q 9 годин тому

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      @Jhonnydeep-d2q 9 годин тому

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  • @t206kid
    @t206kid 9 годин тому +65

    They act like they have 300 million with that question. Imagine that a lot of that money is tied up in a home. They are 16 and 21, I'm sure they have an idea of what their parents have.

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex 9 годин тому +12

      It's a brag call.

    • @t206kid
      @t206kid 9 годин тому +3

      @djpuplex to be honest the kids will probably be disappointed lol. Probably think they had more

    • @mtbokor1969
      @mtbokor1969 9 годин тому +6

      @@djpuplex3 mm isn’t much to brag about

    • @avfc2025
      @avfc2025 9 годин тому

      @@mtbokor1969more than you have

    • @silentnot4812
      @silentnot4812 9 годин тому

      @@mtbokor1969Agree totally. It isn’t much at all especially if you still have years of retirement ahead.

  • @OliviaTìnhnh
    @OliviaTìnhnh 9 годин тому

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  • @memeworld7800
    @memeworld7800 9 годин тому

    When parents put in these ridiculous staggered inheritance structures all it does is act as a control mechanism on your ADULT children and will result in them resenting you. Let them make their own decisions once they are legally adults.

  • @ratsofatso5525
    @ratsofatso5525 8 годин тому

    As needed

  • @robloxvids2233
    @robloxvids2233 5 годин тому

    3.5 million isn't that much. There are all kinds of FIRE 30 and 40 year olds with that much. Not to mention FatFIRE. You don't need to tell them anything.

  • @EmilyChihi-i9n
    @EmilyChihi-i9n 9 годин тому

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    @EvaQuânân 9 годин тому

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