How to look CLASSY
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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
- How to look CLASSY
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I don’t understand why people are angry. She never said anything that would be rude or bashing, she just states the facts. Today’s society is influenced by porn and it has become over sexualised. She didn’t say that looking like she has pointed out is bad.
Heavenly Athena
I agree.
because thots were hurt by the truth
This is really true
Aa Ds burrn
yes, if you look at dita von teese, shes so sexy and wear mostly 50s looks
she's a very clever woman...she's addressing the topic of 'balance', which is absent from modern society.
Well, that depends on und what you mean by modern society.
2 examples are the 80s and the early til mid 2000s.
The fashion was very flashy in both, and in the 2000s it was also very "open", as Aly would say 😉
And women started wearing very very shorts in the 60s, much shorter than Julia Roberts shorts were, in pretty woman.
I don't understand the hate in the comments. I think they miss her point. She is showing the lines between looking attractive and elegant and looking let's say "cheap" maybe! She is not being judgmental what so ever. She is just explaining some facts people.
Don't worry it's just third wave wanna be feminists missing the entire point of the video and when they don't agree with something that goes against their cult following they attack with such viciousness because they themselves feel demoralized. Ironic though , when they lack morals themselves 🤣
I'm a man and not even a feminist. But saying that something looks "kinda cheap" is basically judging.
*now time to leave strange YT feed*
it's judging but she'd not being judgmental (i.e. overly critical and snobbish
Pink Lol right? Like any normal person. The only time I come across overly politicised idiots like that exaggerator is here - even on makeup videos. It’s so irritating and borderline socially malfunctioning.
@@divaythfyr8643 she's right. you judged her for judging. so you can 'judge' but she can't... ali is a smart brave very talented lady. i applaud her for speaking up. and i agree with her.
I've seen people bashing others who say they prefer modest dressing. What disturbed me the most was when someone told me that "oh so you dress modest to hide your disgusting body?". I can't believe people actually have that mindset
Tired_bish ikr
I knew a man who always commented on my conservative dressing. I don't why people feel the need.
Yes they do and did. I was bashed so much for my thicker legs that I am still covering them up. It was so embarrassing and cruel.
@@Vicki1951 I'm sorry that happened to you
4 years ago, I've made a comment saying this video was a joke. Now I think much differently. I don't know what had triggered me so much about this video. Now I think this video is perfect and has an important message and very useful tips. My taste, my style and my perspective have evolved so much over the years, much of it is thanks to the intelligent and kind people on UA-cam, like Aly.
I applaud your outspoken on this particular subject. I think the twisted body images that are viewed as beautiful and popular among youth aren’t helping them build self-esteem. A twisted image creates a twisted mind if we are not careful.
It’s like most things in life “every thing in moderation”
ItsOnlyWarPaint ...even moderation 😉
I used to cake masses of makeup on my face everyday. I couldn't go on a night out without fake eyelashes. At one point as a teenager I would wear two padded bras. I spent years with low self esteem, and social anxiety hiding behind a mask.
Then in my 30s, I stopped wearing padded bars (I am very flat), stopped wearing makeup- even mascara, and stopped dying my hair which has a fair amount of grey in it.
I had to literally get to know myself again!
I then went through a phase of looking like a bit of a feral hippy- long straggly hair and baggy clothes. I just wanted to feel as natural as possible whilst I found myself again.
Recently, age 35, I learned about what clothes suit my shape and I cut my hair. I exercise and eat well and look quite healthy. I am beginning to have confidence in my authenticity. I am loving that my ancestors have shaped how I look and that my interesting looking face with my high forehead is individual and beautiful. There is nothing wrong with my body even if I am angular and slim.
I feel you! I had a "reset" phase to re-discover myself too. It's quite refreshing to find what works for you, especially after teenage years/20s.
Beautiful :) And good for you
everyone has their own natural beauty, talent, ability and worth. everyone can contribute something good in this world. time to respect and celebrate that. not plastic fingernails and false eyelashes.
Lovely to hear about your journey to your true self.
Respect ❤❤❤❤
“How to be classy”
And look at the amount of people triggered.
That says a lot about them 😁
Exactly. To know better is to do better.
I should of threw the drink in your face.
She changed the title. It used to be titled; "How not to look like a porn star".
@@chloedullingham either way it's gold. very sound advice from a very perceptive and talented lady. i applaud her.
@@Ganpignanus the video message is good but my problem is with russian people they always think they are superior than others their women always have this ego and think they look better than others mostly she seem into white more than other groupe hope i’m wrong
People getting triggered over nothing. Did you guys not even listen to the video? Jesus. She was teaching a course about style, and you guys saw the title and instantly pulled out the picket signs. She did not say women can not look sexy. Infact, she produced examples of some of these trends, done the RIGHT way She said if we wear ALL OF THESE trends at once, the skimpy clothes with the differen textures, the over done makeup, the heels that don't go with the outfit, the 'unkept' hair and makeup, ALL OF THESE TOGETHER make you look CHEAP. Like a prostitute. A porn star. A homeless woman. And for all of your 'leave porn stars alone!' soap boxing, you guys do know that porn stars don't look the same when they're not performing, right? They scale back the makeup, sometimes by 100%. They don't dress skimpy either. They look like regular women. Which, they are. I actually find it offensive that all of you women who are objecting to this video are ASSUMING that Pornstars WANT to look like the type of women that they are depicting in their films. These are characters. They are acting. How dare you guys assume that looking cheap is something that they enjoy.
It's interesting how quick people are to rush to defend pornographic style, ain't it! Almost like someone is profitting from keeping people addicted to seeing women & the world this way...
Yes. Is there any homeless people who genuinely want to look homeless?
Literally the most brilliant makeup artist on youtube
uhm hardly. aly has a lot of knowledge but there are professional make up artists on youtube, like lisa eldridge, who works on the biggest celebrities and campaigns.
Just because other makeup artists work with celebrities doesn't mean that they are more talented.
Elaura Sh oh please. lisa eldridge gets personally hired by people like kate winslet because she is a master of her craft. she works with the biggest beauty brands in the world and is very sought after. OFCOURSE there is a different.
your statement is like saying someone who buys stocks at home know just as much as people on wall street.
Why are you so salty? I just really love Aly because she provides unique insights that no makeup artists have mentioned before.
Elaura Sh i’m not salty hahaha i’m just correcting you. i never gave any shade to aly, if you read again you will see i said she has a lot of knowledge but she can not be compared to the big makeup artists like lisa.
" Why are you going to the field and sniffing the flower " You killed me hahahahahha
aahaha thank you )))
Y C "What the story there?!" lol cracked me up too 😆
oh my god i laughed out loud
I really hope lots of young people finds this channel. Being bombarded with oversexualizing images on every step its good too hear message about art, taste, knowing yourself and being unique.
Finally someone has a courage to talk about it out laud. I know the video probably had a lot of backlog (because a lot of girls recognized themselves in this image), but this is probably the best video you have made so far! :) Love you!
I watched this video again, almost a year after. This is one of the best videos on UA-cam, I think. Thank you for your bravery to put this message across. I really hope more people, especially women, young girls will hear it.
watched again in 2021. still classic and true as ever.
2022 🖐️ (this thread is gonna be a calendar from now on)
I also think this is one of the best videos on you tube.
You're a really wise woman.
"Why are you going to the field and sniffing the flower?" Lmaoooo
Ikr, I almost choked laughing 🤣🤣🤣
Hahaha
Good job mentioning the addiction, the emptiness, the loss in relationships, the desire for purpose, intimacy. Great advice at the end!
Even though the angry voices are relatively few, they are much louder. Don't worry, Aly. They think they are standing up for other women and being heros for defending them, but you never attacked anyone.
Thank you!!!
i wonder why they got triggered. broke a plastic fingernail typing perhaps...
You are a very smart, classy young lady and I can feel your spirituality I hope a lot of young girls see this video and get the message
Wow the ending is so powerful. I think another reason this is so rampant is because the way to grow your following and make money nowadays is to be over-sexualized. With that added sexual element it grabs the attention of the masses.
Thank you!
Alicia J I don’t agree with all aspects of the video, but I agree that it’s almost as if you don’t exploit your sexuality nowadays, you’re not going to have success. The pressure is real. However, I don’t judge that kind of behavior cause it’s become so widespread that it is almost expected, not to mention it’s hard to know where to draw the line. I don’t agree with the whole choker and hoop earring thing and some of her other points cause that isn’t a sexual style choice to me.
Aly explains that there are many elements that must be taken into account according to the time and the occasion. When a girl is dressed in full attire, she should evaluate whether it is exaggerated according to the occasion or not.
She is not judging negatively anyone. She explains that by combining the elements, in some way, they will make you look cheap or out of context. Aly explains it perfectly. The environment, the context and the occasion are fundamental when we choose our outfit, accessories and other things such as makeup, etc. It also makes a very interesting reference and it is knowing how to choose the hair color and how to combine it to give a message.
Unfortunately, people tag you when they see you. Regardless of whether they know you or not, they tag you according to your appearance. Their first visual impression, even if you do not want it, will tag you at first glance.
Aly I agree with you and your comments seem very useful to point out important aspects when combining the elements in our personal presentation.
Aly You have my support.
Receive a hug from me and thanks for your videos!
Your content is so thoughtful and intelligent -- in addition to being practical and useful. I, and your other viewers, I imagine, really appreciate this. xo
I am so proud of you for posting this video! What a powerful message at the end. Good to know that there are such positive, powerful women like you on UA-cam ✨💗
Thank you very much ))
I guess i used to look like a porn star most of the time until i learned how to properly use makeup. I wish i had seen this video at the age of 16!
Loved the video and your message! xx 💓Hugs from Lithuania
same lol
I'm 16 and watching this I'm lucky lol
You are so right, especially near the end. I have a young daughter and I saved this video. I hope I remember it and can show her someday. Growing up is hard, and the pressures are great. I would like to see all women embracing ourselves and not seeking this kind of attention. This is a true and beautiful message to girls and young women. Excellent video.
Hi, I'm reminding you just in case your daughter is old enough now :)
First minute: "How to not look like a porn star" That was pretty straight forward lmao I like that :D
Edit: Now that I've finished the video, I must say that this was so so inspiring. That speech you gave in the end really resonated with me. This is a very important message for young girls and women. Great job!
I almost cried near the end
It helped me so much when I finally realized that
Thank you for uploading this. We live in a vulgar age where innocence is not known. I appreciate your compassionate yet clear, no nonsense portrayal of a crucial topic
True! It seems the more vulgar, the better.
Wow, this is the most important video about modern beauty standards.
Thank you for your thoughtfulness and the way you voice your opinion!
I would totally be your friend Ally! You are a great authentic person
Thank you so much!
I thought exactly that. Where can I find someone like Aly to have a weekly coffee 😊
This is why I feel the prettiest when I create a balance in glam and my natural beauty, I try to let it be an enhancement not dominant...it just never feels right when I overdo something...makes me sad that lately doing more and more and showing a lot of nudity is being seen as confidence...the light comes from within ❤️ loved the video and your beautiful mind
Absolutely agree!!! Thank you . xx x x
Sa saidi Boring
Mar Cee dafuq?
I think the biggest problem with the look and the story behind the "porn" look is that it objectifies women even more as sexual objects, and not as individuals. There's nothing wrong with adding one or even a few of the elements talked about here, but, if your look exacerbates your womanly sensuality soooo much, it does kind of lead to that image of a sexual object more than a human being.
I'm not saying it is the woman's fault, because it is certainly not, it's society's fault, as women are usually pushed in that direction of being sensual and pleasing to the masculine eye. That's what the patriarchy is about, it's not about what a woman is, but how a man perceives a woman. Women should be sexy, but not too much or too little. If they are, you can criticize and disrespect them, because they don't respect themselves. That's how society thinks.
The big problem, however, is that girls feel pressured to look a certain way, to please the eyes of men from a young age, and one of their sources are celebrities and porn stars ,as many boys will fantasize about them. A girl that has that look will, of course, attract attention, and will be popular to boys, but she won't be respected, because there's also the stigma surrounding porn stars, there's the stigma of looking too sexy.
Well said!!!
also, by wearing these outfits women objectify themselves! And putting pressure on other women to do the same!
@@agynes8827 Your comment sounds a bit bitter and also outdated. I think in 2022, we can agree that people can dress however they want because they feel most confident and comfortable in these clothes and not to get objectified or please others. If you feel pressured or intimidated by other people's clothes, it is your problem and not theirs. Just live and let live, or rather dress and let dress 😉
@@leni0210 oh boy, did you even watch the video, its called classy and not, as Aly pointed out if you watch to the end, most of the way women dress when they are dressing in a provocative and sexualized way is a result of many things one of being exploitation. I hate that you didn't get the message! I guess that's easy for you to do on SM! watch the video to the end....
@@agynes8827 Exact!!! The truth is that many times the same women criticize others for not seeing themselves "in a sensual way" and the problem is that turning yourself into a sexual object reflects how empty you are inside, and it is terrible that both men and women are bombarded by these things, because none of this will make you happy.
This is a fantastic video, someone not afraid of speaking against the norm, and also in a very educated manner
Wow! I'm shocked to see what a negative backlash this got. This comment is probably going to get buried, but I think people are too quick to jump to the guns without understanding what she really means. Nobody said it's wrong or bad to look or to be a porn star. All she is saying that combining too many of those elements makes for an exaggerated and overly sexualized look. If that's what you're going for, good for you. Otherwise, it's better knowing how to dosage those elements, so you can still be sexy, without it being "too much" - hence, this guide was made. Probably Aly should've treated the subject like walking on eggshells, but it's sad how overly offended people get on the internet.
You make the best thought out videos.
Thank you )))
the comment section makes me kinda sad ): there's so many people getting triggered without even bothering to understand the message Aly is trying to convey. she never judge anyone for wearing this item or liking that style--she even showed the example of the elements she mentioned being worn in a classy and elegant way. i think it's great that she encourage young women not to get influenced and pressured by what society or media think is beautiful, because everyone has their own charming points that they need to embrace.
Yes! 100%. She's basically saying: How to Dress Classy, and in her video, she highlights elements of how people can look cheap. Pornstars wear that type of clothing, because they're trying to attract attention and stay in business!
I loved this! So good and so true. I read a book called the narcissism epidemic and one of the things brought out was wanting to show off ones body. Wanting all that attention on themselves. And I love how you brought out what it does to the others who are just trying to connect and be themselves. Very good
Dang I never even thought about where the todays aesthetic came from ...
that video has a very powerful message. I had never thought of it this way and she just opened my eyes. When I was in school I felt like no guy wanted me, and I felt very lonely seeing that the boys wanted other types of girls, I was sad 'cause I thought I was strange... But I wanted to be myself so I learned how to stay happy in my skin trying to improve myself without being somebody else.
You really make me smile, Aly. You are so honest while being so kind.
The end of the video was so inspirational and true!! You're very very wise. Amazing, you should cut the end of the video as a own video, I think it deserves it.
Thank you )))
You are incredible, i am so happy I found you, honestly - a makeup/fashion UA-camr with such a message, I have never seen it before
The saddest part of this look is that it projects a belief that a womans highest life priority should be to cater themselves the flavors of the other gender. To work long and hard hours to render themselves palatable to the attention of men. By doing so, we implicitly ascert that the validity and importance of their desires is above ours. But why?? We are both equals. Every human being has so much more to live and offer than a purpose of catering to the taste of someone else. Our lives have other profound objectives and forms of value. Let's live and act for ourselves now, our life minutes pass us by! Lets form experiences and memories that indulge in US, not restlessly aimed to indulge someone else.
sulamith105 I mean, scientifically thinking, a human’s main purpose is to grow up, have children, and start a new generation. Among the many other things we can do.
This is the most relevant beauty video I’ve ever watched on UA-cam. Every single detail you’ve mentioned is very true. I’m fighting to love and understand my features in an environment where all the girls try to look the same. Defying the messed up beauty standards of these days is just very hard.
Enjoyed this video. Especially the message at the end. It’s so true that seeking that type of attention never makes you happy, satisfied or contented long term. It’s so hollow in the end. Because what you are seeking can only be gotten from within. No one else can give that self worth to you, you have to find it within. I’ve been down that path before of seeking attention in the wrong ways and it’s a lonely endeavour. Until I truly found contentment within myself. It truly has become a virus these days and it’s very sad.
kiwigirljacks they aren’t seeking attention. They’re getting paid. What are you doing? 💅🏽💸☕️
Candy Kane I’m not just talking about ‘influencers’... I’m talking about, for example, those people we all know in our friends list who post hundreds if not thousands of selfies looking for self worth... or those who are extremely insecure and are looking for people to constantly boost their self esteem. Or those women who, as Aly states, don’t feel alive unless they are getting constant attention from men (or women). Who feel depressed without that constant attention, it’s like a drug to them. Sadly, that is not the way to find contentment or happiness long term. I’m talking about the extreme cases of this.
Candy Kane and I’m not sure what you’re implying by “what are you doing”.. I’m comfortably retired at 47 so I guess you could say, I’ve done a lot and now I get to do whatever I choose...
kiwigirljacks they are insecure because they post selfies? Did they tell you that or are you assuming?
kiwigirljacks no what are you doing besides being judgemental and making assumptions?
I didnt expect this end. I agree you so much that i was about to cry. I had the same ideas and also I learned many new ideas from you too. Thank you Aly. Thank you
I love the way you can talk about this in such a polite, dignified way, without sugarcoating your opinions, but also without disrespecting anyone. Watching your videos has really improved my self esteem, and I even find that I am more positive in the way I think about other women as well, because I can see now that there are so many different kinds of beautiful. Thank you!
Aly, you said it with gentleness, classiness, and love. I like you more with every video of yours I watch. Bless you, and KEEP making these lovely videos. Our girls around the world need you. From California with love. 🕊❤🌹
People may roll their eyes at this, but giving my life to Christ, being born again and becoming a Christian has given me a great peace I can't explain. I don't have any desire to try to attract someone's attention and am content with who I am and who God made me to be. It's very freeing and I wish I was like this as a teen and young adult. I feel like I wasted a lot of my life wanting to be like someone else, comparing myself to other girls, wishing I was pretty like others instead of just being happy with who I am.
I like how Aly teaches you how to be happy with your own strengths and weaknesses and what to do to compliment them instead of trying to change them like the beauty industry does.
You are such an intelligent woman with a detailed eye for being able to understand the psychology behind self expression. I love learning from your channel x
Aka how to not look like a kardashian
Thank you so much for this video. I find you to be a real voice of reason amid a world pool of toxic influencers that all promote the same message from a place of insecurity. Your guidance as a mature beautiful woman speaks volumes above the ever changing beauty trends. Seriously youre the momma beauty guru I didn't know UA-cam needed.
After reading the comments I would like to write one more thing: it is very, very interesting that girls who actually look like pornstars feel offended by your video... Because these girls are putting their photos every day on social media to actually BE JUDGED by likes and dislikes... :D
Kitty Seven Just like you tubers are putting their content out there to be JUDGED by likes and dislikes :D. You can judge other women and be an ass, but don’t be surprised when you get judged back :)
Anfisa Kiryanova Nobody says you are not right, but it still sounds like bullshit to me since Aly was not trying to bash or offend anybody while some girls are writing really hurtful comments to her. Of course if you are putting anything on the internet you should expect people judging you and also disagreeing with you. However it is very sad that girls trying hard to look sexy, showing off their skin and catching wrong attention cannot understand what is wrong with this behaviour and type of look.
Hey, my dude, I personally don't really like the Kardashian/modern look, especially on myself, I'm more in favour of purely 'cute' clothing, but I also disagree with the core message of this video.
Though I found the whole video was mainly backpedaling after every statement. But her main message at the end of the video was basically "You're all beautiful, except those hoes who dress the the Kardashians who get all the male attention." (obviously I'm being more blunt than she is, but that's the main point).
Personally I think everyone should have the right to wear whatever the hell they want, with no/little judgement (within the laws of that country of course). I get judged for what I wear, it's never pleasant. I've been called a whore or prostitute by some girls in some on my most modest outfits (Oversized jumper, jeans, and hair tied up), and I never want to do that to another girl. I don't have to like an outfit to think the girl wearing shouldn't be called a porn star.
Amen
Muffy Chao What grace, what beauty, what a mature and adult response. 10/10
I will show this video to my future daughter. Thank you so much! Very wise of you ♥️
I like that you showed pictures at the end of the video of different ethnicities and each women's unique and individual beauty.
Ally the last part of your video description is so sweet. I've been single my whole life 😭😭😭 because all the boys around me have been so immature and I'm too lazy and not really desperate enough to date anyone. I've resigned myself to the fact that I'm going to be alone my whole life and single dog and cat parent
Oh don't worry - the right man will find you. Just have your integrity, be proud of who you are ))))
Aly Art thank you! You're so sweet and encouraging ❤️
Angela Melanie Rego Its in your mindset. Its hard to love person who doesnt love himself. How can that person be sure that you love him if you dont like youself? So love yourself and someone will apear for sure 😊
Angela Melanie Rego and who needs a man when you have your cat/dog best friend by your side. they love you regardless!!!
Maddie Martinez PREACH 👏👏👏👏
Best video I have seen in ages. The message is so strong and I can only hope that all females and men that look like a drag/pornstar "unintentionally" let this talk to their heart and mind. It is fun looking like this once in a while but don't think you have to look like this to be someone.
Sure - that's what I wanted to say. Some girls do that not becuse they feel this way but because it's "needed"and "wanted". And I want people feel awesome also without any makeup and in classy and closed clothes, why not. Thank you ))
Frl_F Is there a male pornstar look?
Plain Popcorn To be honest, I guess there might be one but in this case I just wanted to include all genders since there are more and more men into make up and a certain appearance.
+Frl_F Aha, I see, thank you for clarifying.
Thank you for this fantastic video!
I love all your videos anyway, but this one really made me happy! Many young girls are struggling to find their identity - that is actually what puberty is about and it is okay, but nowadays it is way too easy to think that "sexy" is the right path to happiness... However it is not at all. I also had to find out - that being a woman means being beautiful, being powerful, selfconfident. Living in harmony with myself, my body. It does not mean living for myself! But living for what is truly important - for truth, love and peace. This is what we were "made" for. Trying to be interesting for other people is just waisting your time, it can never make you happy. I am so glad you are speaking about it, because our society needs that... Anyway I think that nowadays women are feeling unbeareble pressure to be perfect in everything (perfect body and face, but also perfect education, perfect job, perfect kids, perfect relationships) - but it does not work like this...
I agree. I am tired of these sloppy styles. It is so try hard. It is so refreshing when I see a stylish woman who isn't dressed and made up like kim k. I love the clean styles.
This was very bold of you to speak on such a touchy subject. You are courageous, wise, and handled this very tactfully! Thanks for all of your videos! I love them all.
I love this video and hiw frank you were, I adore how you pointed out all the weak points of our today's society/trends going around and I really did feel like the "girl" that you were talking in the end of the video that feels obligated to follow something that doesn't feel in sink with herself, unorganic, it is funny that I find myself in a crazy similar situation to the one you described if not the very same one, it truly felt like a wake up call, that I felt very strongly towards, but didn't know how to reach, I felt cornered to be that for a while and you really helped me free that doubt of going back to what I know and love. I think you are one of the last channels on this surface that produces any moral driven content, I admire your integrity and your courage to point out the issues, to break the problem down, as well as I love the fact that you bluntly speak your mind unlike most influencers that hold back in fear of negative feedback. You are one of a kind.
Those angered by this video can't accept the unfortunate reality that books are judged by their covers in society, consciously and subconsciously. Everyone takes various visual cues and makes assessments about other peoples' personalities, lifestyles, jobs, socioeconomic statuses, morals, religious beliefs, gender identity, sexual orientation, etc. I don't think Aly is trying to tell people what to do or decide how they should look. She's sharing her own observations and opinions on how to look a certain way if you so desire.
I get that there's a lot of societal pressure put on women to be a certain way. There is a moral stigma against porn stars and overt sexuality that needs to end. I don't necessarily think Aly is addressing the topic from that angle at all, that's a much more in depth video. I think she's addressing it purely from an esthetic/fashion point of view. You don't have to have any moral objections to porn and pornstars to find the "pornstar look" esthetically unpleasing, unstylish, and tacky. My opinion is dressing that way should be a fully conscious decision, not the default "sexy" look for women.
And as for her sentiments at the end of the video, it's no secret that a lot of people who have worked in porn were drawn to it for the wrong reasons and stayed in the field for the wrong reasons. There are problems within the porn industry that need to be addressed, and consequences of porn consumption (some bad, some good). There are also issues that have nothing to do with porn that might lead people into that world, such as financial desperation and low self-worth. These aren't the only reasons why people are drawn to porn, but it's not uncommon.
Aly you are amazing and I agree with everything you said. Emulating pornstar look will just attract guys who watch porn and I'm pretty sure most women don't need someone like that.
Girl, you’re so innocent. I’ve honestly been doing a lot of research on the internet about this topic because of how disgusted I am with porn culture and it turns out that all men watch porn. Or at least all men who watch porn want me to believe that all other men watch it regularly too. It makes me sick to my stomach that society (including a lot of women) wants to normalize it so desperately as if it’s completely normal. When I display my disapproval of it, men on the internet go nuts and are sooo defensive about it and tell me that I’m a “prude” or “sexually repressed” which I’m absolutely not. They also say that I will never be able to find a life partner who doesn’t watch porn and that watching it multiple times a week is totally normal for any healthy person with a sex drive (which is again utter bullshit). I don’t know what to believe honestly. All I know is that the way porn displays sex is so disgusting, vulgar and filthy. It cheapens the relationship between a man and woman and is so degrading. There’s no way I want the father of my children to be a porn viewer because such a man would look at everything from the lens of perversion !
@@rukhsanazaidi629 Women control reproduction and sex, therefore the behavior of men. If all women stopped giving sex to men who watch porn many of them would stop.
I just wanna say thank you so much, Aly! Thank you for giving those advices and the way you see beauty really affect me in a good way. I had those attention seeking thoughts and I also had and still having unconfident feelings sometimes , but by watching your videos really is helping me to get to know more about myself and educate myself. I hope I can be just just you one day, I mean elegant, soft, smart, confident and powerful. Those qualities should be the “trend” for women nowadays to chase for. I love you so much!!!!!!!💓
I think people didn't understand that you were talking about elements that would make a combination of most these elements look trashy looking. I like what you said about the photographers. And I like your message at the end. We all have these ideas of what a one-night stand should look like (even us women), but at the end of the day, what we really like for longer relationship is spontaneity, genuine people, smiles etc. I've watched "I feel pretty" recently, and this is a good example of what a change of mindset does on your looks.
Haven't seen such a decent vid and a decent youtuber in a really, really long while.
This video made me realize why my mother hated my outfit choices in middle school and high school
When this first came out I was really sceptical. After watching, I think the message isn't so much about sex appeal or status/bias about sex work. I think she's trying to get at the fact that when we try too hard to follow trends it can come off as false/theatrical because we are ignoring our natural beauty. ....Maybe a better title for the video would be something like "how to look *effortlessly* beautiful?" I lovehow she's always promoting that we don't have work against our bodies to be confident and sensual. Thanks for your commentary, Ally! Love this video ♥️
... riffing off title ideas: "how to not look overdone." Please continue with this kind of commentary. It's so needed
I wish I had this video when I was a teenager, or at least someone gave me this point of view.. now I got older (in my 20's) and I learned to embrace what I'm comfortable with, I look back and saw that this bombshell trend really has a big influence to younger people (cause I was one of them lol).. thank you Aly for this video. I am still on my journey in finding my own true style with the help of your videos. I gotta admit when I saw this particular video there are still old mindsets that I hold on to.. but now it all makes sense. there should be balance, in moderation, some elements should be like an occasional accessory and not a daily necessity (unless you're really going for that kind of look everyday, but not for me).. Thank you. I hope you're doing well and may you be repaid goodness and prosperity because of this generosity you give through your videos
wooow the message, i needed that... due to the whole instagram thing i always felt like i wasnt enough and u made me realize that i dont have to!
I'm waiting for Aly to create a nice community on the UA-cam that would understand the content better. I know everyone is free to express their opinion on the internet if they don't like something but I know more youtubers out there who don't go for this kind of look (like, Wayne Goss), criticise it and don't get that so many negative comments. (And, by the way, all the people who don't like the video: you have a right not to like it just like Aly has a right not to like some of the looks shown in the video!)
K Budzisz Yes, Wayne has classic taste. Very good, easy to follow tips. And he's so sweet.
I know this is an old video, but thank you so so so much for this video, Aly. I'm a teenager, and this genuinely touched me. I've been searching for my own style, and all your videos are so helpful. This one, however, is really really helpful. Thank you so much for especially the talk at the end. I wish I could send this to my friends in school. I love you!!! Please keep up your hard work!!
you’re a really great communicator. I love the message! Anyone that distorts the message is clearly part of the problem. In the end, doesn’t matter how good of a communicator you are, people will only understand what they WANT to understand. It’s very sad to see so many negative people here. Moderation should always be encouraged with every aspect of our lives, not just fashion. There clearly aren’t many UA-camrs out there brave enough to talk about this so 👏👏👏👏 bravo to you.
The video has an unexpected message that really isn’t harsh for anyone whether you’re in agreement or not.
the takeaway message is more about how the porn industry makes girls/women want to change themselves more than it is about bashing pornstars.
15:44 is one of the most beautiful pieces of art I’ve ever seen. Who ever she is she looks amazing and I love the whole idea of the photo .
I think a better title would be: how to look more classy and less cheap. It's not an easy topic. but it's a truth.
Great video. As a heavily tattooed woman who was influenced by images on Tumblr in my 20s, I now struggle a bit with how to look classy. I don't regret my tattoos but it certainly takes more effort finding a balanced look. Hope young girls have this in mind before getting a lot of ink.
You are on to something about porn and it's grip on the male and female psyche. Many children access it and grow up w distorted ideas of sexuality. And those high heels with platforms , they originated from stripper culture and are known as stripper heels. How telling. This is a valid subject. Look like you are available for purchase isn't sexy, it's self commercialization and the dreges of capitalism. Yes, you can dress how you like but at least know where your choices are originating from-- porn and stripper culture. Not classy, just overtly sexual.
For the butt is usually a liposuction combined with a brazilian butt lift. The videos about the procedure are BRUTAL.
i love all the effort and information you put in your videos ♡
I SO ADMIRE your well thought out, clearly conscious ability to communicate so many aspects of how our desire for "style" moves into areas that young people (and some older people) have No Idea are involved in how they put themselves together! Your careful consideration of terminology and feelings on these aspects of style, and there by Life! I see It as a GIFT!!! To be able to express such things in the manner that you come across with I envy!
It is Normal, Natural, and Fabulous for every girl to want to be pretty, or even sensual, but crossing the line of preciously "Gorgeous" into the vulgar is so easy to do, and I LOVE that you are making these videos to help us all be our Most Beautiful selves! The sense of concern that comes though is Very Sweet! Thank You! I wish you were my neighbor - I would love to chat!!!!
Such a great video and a great message that is well needed in this day and age! I love your insight into fashion and beauty. The sad thing about everyone trying to look like the Kardashians or porn stars is that they lose their individuality and their unique beauty - they just all end up looking like barbie dolls cut from a cookie cutter. Embrace who you are and enhance your natural beauty with classiness - you can never go wrong! Keep up the good work Aly x
Excellent video and message. The ending is so true; it's too bad that we don't realize this when we are young - and usually not until we're much older and it makes sense. Thanks Aly!
Really great advice about making sure the makeup matches the “story”. Would love a whole video on matching makeup looks to different outfits/events(daytime vs evening, everyday/work, day date, etc)
I really appreciate what you did here. The message was perfect and I wish more people (men and women) could see it and take the message with them. I don't think this is something we as a whole think about when we follow certain looks that are trending or what's getting the attention/popularity of the opposite sex. I don't think we notice the impression it leaves or the lasting effects it can have on how others are viewed or made to feel at the end of the day esp in the younger generations. If this is the look you prefer or the attention you are comfortable having then I say by all means go for it. However, on the same note, if your doing it to feel more attractive or to fit in but its not comfortable and not your style then just do what works for you. The right people will notice you and appreciate you for being you. Bottom line just do you and be happy with who you are. Don't let society or others dictate what is beautiful and attractive because we are all different and beautiful in our own true unique selves. ❤
I think you are very brave. It needed to be said. Thank you. What color and brand of lipstick do you have on in this video, if you can remember.
100% agree with you about everything. 1 only element is not the problem is when some women over do or try. For some reason every women want to look the same and over sexualised, it looks tacky in my opinion.
Great content🤗❤️
I agree with this video 100%. I don't understand the backlash, do people actually think Kim Kardashian and Insta baddies are classy ? Do you think you're classy when you copy them? It's very obviously cheap BUT if that's what you like it's okay, you will attract similar people to you.There's a reason why Kim Kardashian isn't dating David Gandy, Jon Hamm or Idris Elba or why Kylie Jenner isn't friends with Elle Fanning, Lily Collins , Zendaya or Emma Watson. And it's their CHOICE.
I have a romantic/theatric romantic bodytype, very curvilinear and I have difficulty in dressing "respectfully" because my body jumps from the clothes and easily becomes vulgar. Could you make a video about this?
Carolina Paiva If you dress in an outfit that every other woman can pull off without looking sexual and still think you look "too much", don't apologize for having an amazing, beautiful figure. I have the same "problem", but honestly at this point, I can't help my figure, in fact I've chosen to love it, if someone thinks my relatively modest outfit is sexual then that is their problem.
beebikinis thank you sweetie, now i feel better. But i can't help that my hips show up easily. I don't like this hahaha
I don't see how natural curves can be a problem tbh, but how about oversized clothes or loose jumpers/shirts that cover your hips? Anything less tight on your waist should be just fine.
Loose or oversized clothes made me very round, very strange and without dimension. And wide pants leave my hips and thighs huge. This is basically the point. Tight clothes mark too much and wide clothes make me huge. For what i understood aly saying, romantic types should use "cute, feminine" clothes. May i am wrong.
Yeah, I totally see what you're saying since we probably have similar figures. Personally I don't have a problem with tight or sexy clothes, but I tend to dress mostly in a "cute, girly" way. Floral skater or wrap dresses, for example, are my go to's (always paired with flat shoes). Something like the ones below:
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it's like you described this thing that's everywhere, but that I couldn't put into words! it's the porn vibe and it's viral, some people also curate the way they speak and the facial expression they make but it's again that vibe and it's a dangerous trap, thank you for this!
I really love Aly attitude. We need this kind of advice especially today.
Right?! It's so honest and yet so polite. She puts it in a nice way and doesn't bash anyone. We all need to hear this!
thank you aly, you're really one of the best makeup artists on youtube, you really know the actual 'rules' of makeup and don't just rely on trends like most of the others do :) you teach us how to feel beautiful in ALL our bodies and i appreciate that so much :) you are so so talented and i agree with this video so much, everything you said at the end - porn is very disturbing trend now a days
I think the message was that young girls shouldn't feel like they need to wear provocatively to get boy's attention. And it has become a trend that, more attention = you are valuable. But using other ppl's images without context is immoral. Legally you can, but imagine being one of the girls in the pic.
Can u do a video on what earring fit different faces. I love that you did this vid btw some of us young women need to hear this, even me.
Awesome idea!!
This is such a cool and unique idea for a video! Thank you! I love your channel, and this was both interesting and informative! ❤️😊
Thank you! x x
well said!
Please don't delete this video. I needed this video more than I thought I did
This video is so good, thanks for making this I am in the beauty industry and love natural beauty looks and enhancing our natural features to bring out the best in you instead of being a clone of all these celebrities. Thanks for voicing some of my major concerns about the way people think you need to present yourself to be beautiful.