Or have an opinion. In traditional families the parents get an opinion 🤷🏽♀️. I knew why from the start why he didn’t know. Hopefully she relaxes now since that weight is of bc for ppl in traditional families is a big overbearing weight that makes you feel bad allll the time.
@@NatashaT329 I thought it was weird that she lied and said Clayton was her boyfriend only to turn around and immediately tell her dad he was actually her husband… she comes off as a liar 🤥
The father may be upset, because he wasn’t there for his daughter’s wedding, I mean he must’ve imagined walking her down the aisle since she was a little girl. Any father would be upset if their daughter got married and had no idea.
I'd be upset if anyone I was very close to and claimed they were close to me, just up and getting married to someone they have been keeping hidden for a whole year. It would feel like I don't know this person anymore.
@fjeisdivoojlk most fathers imagine walking their daughter down the isle or if your traditional wanting to give your blessing or at the minimum. Have an opertunity to meet your daughters husband. He got none of that.
Sophie is going to be absolutely shattered if it ends. Imagine spending your 20’s in an apartment with no bathroom, and a husband who is insufferable, dense, and shallow. Imagine having to dull yourself because your fiancée gets aggressive when you mention a “duvet.” What kind of grown a** man acts that way,instead of being normal and asking her about it. He couldn’t even GOOGLE IT. He has to be an actor … right?
I don’t believe FOR A SECOND that Sophie “comes from money!” Both she and her Mum are sooooo basically middle class. She claims to not even know how her family has acquired their “supposed riches!!!!!!”
Rob is downgrading her. when a guy gets a nice car. He wants to take care of it. He won’t park the car in ghettos areas Cus he doesn’t want someone to key it or scratch it. Oil changes. Decorating the tires and pipes. He would keep the car in his garage to protect it from the snow or rains My point is when a man really likes you he will take care of you. When I see an unkept tired women I blame the husband.
I'm a mom and it would break my heart if my daughter kept a relationship for a year from me and then got married without me. If she needed to elope, I would understand but to hide the biggest part of your life from someone who loves you and raised you and wanted only good things for you, that would be a red flag for me. Especially because with all 5 of my children, the only time they hid things from me was when they were doing something that wasn't good for them.
There’s no guarantee that he raised her. You have to know the full story of her upbringing. There are various family dynamics around the world including single mothers raising children alone or absent fathers that are or aren’t physically and mentally present in families. (Her parents are divorced.)
As a parent, a child does not owe their parents anything. It is our jobs to raise them and do right by them. What they do with their life is their choice, like it or not.
Feels kinda obvious why the dad is upset. She lied to him for months, dropped a bomb on him that she got a bf in the US. Only to realize that her energy is off, so he's still nervous, and then she says she got married with no family. That hurts. She keeps too many secrets, even from her own people. He's probably gonna hate Clayton even though he always wanted the dad to know.
@@knittingnana2939That's exactly what I was thinking. The whole situation is just so sad. I think had Nickki been honest with him in the beginning, It would have given him time to sort out his feelings. And what he really wanted.. by Nickki not telling him the truth from the beginning and revealing it the way that she did it embarrassed him and made him feel less than a man. And that's what we saw in they're relationship throughout the show🫢🫣 Good luck too them both!!
Yay it's Po! I'm a little disappointed in Anali and Sophie not running away from all the glaring red flags from their men but the Ashley breakdown kind of makes up for it lol. "I DIDN'T WANT TO UGLY CRY WAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!" XD
@@scottking6481 Completely agree. Anali had a stripper for her bachelorette party and didn't even tell anyone about Clayton until after they got married. It's pretty delusional to think Clayton is the problem in that relationship. He's awkward but hes not problematic.
Take a hint Nikki, HE’S NOT INTO YOU!!! But again if somebody acted like I owe them sex and they didn’t tell me the truth of which they really were and I found out, I don’t think I would want to be with them.
1) Clayton and Anali having a wedding reception in the school gym. and had a shower sheet that said just married. i’m sorry but like i want y’all to do better. y’all deserve better 2) Popeye/Citra and Clayton/Anali having guests show up in t shirts and distressed jeans. like have some decorum. tell your guests its a formal event 3) idk what’s worse knowing Rob and Sophie are returning for Happily Ever After or having to endure ANOTHER season of Jasmine and Gino. TLC….AMERICA IS OVER THEM 4) Nikki…..Justin doesn’t want to be with a trans woman. cut your losses and find a man who wants a trans woman. you live near NYC….you must be able to find someone.
I agree with you on everything except for deciding what other's weddings and guests should look like. As long as the bride & groom are happy and okay with it? Oh well... If they wanted formal or had a preference, I imagine they would have stated as much. Some ppl don't care about the huge production, and "formal" isn't their style. Not everyone has the budget, and it can be hard to essentially enforce a dress code unless you're willing & able to pay for other's clothing. Not everyone has "dressy" clothes, especially depending on where you live. Sometimes ppl just value others authetically showing up. Ideally, they all have at least 1 pair of jeans that aren't distressed and something more business- casual if not on the more formal side, but again, as long as the bride & groom are happy and aren't concerned about what wedding pics, etc look like, then 🤷🏼♀️ Does it look esthetically pleasing? Not so much, but it's *their* wedding. The appearance of the wedding/reception venues and guests are the least of some of these couple's problems. I used to work for a photographer who photographed a lot of weddings, and from my perspective it was irritating when I noticed things that *in my opinion* , didn't photograph well, or stood out in a "bad" way, but ultimately it wasn't about me. The couples, their parents, and bridal party were nonethewiser bc all they really cared about was the experience they had and being able to capture the moments/memories of that day. *I appreciate that you expressed that they deserve better. ❤
I agree wth you. I'm done watching Jasmine abuse Gino. I'm sick and tired of this crap. Plus they lie to us about the couples. If TLC doesn't do better they will lose views. Don't get me wrong we like watching people and their problems but not abuse on the show. No thank you. Move on TLC. Jsted like their new show Lost in Translation. Come on. 3 men to what 15 girls. You know there gnna b drama there but that's not the kind I'm into. I don't wanna watch grown women who can't understand each other fighting over a few men. But apparently TLC don't mind. I watched the first 30 min. Then I was done. TLC do better.
I'd cry too if i missed my daughter's wedding and being able to walk her down the aisle 😭 but at the end of the day shes a grown woman and may have some trauma or something that made her SO SOLID on not telling him. without any context or explanation tho i do have a soft spot for when i see a father cry
this is the best comment. like yeah it’s upsetting for the parent but as an adult you’re entitled to your own life and you don’t have to tell your family things that you don’t want.
it’s upsetting but also you don’t owe anyone anything. your family does not own you and if you have a reason for not telling someone something you have a right to do so
Po dear, Rob only looked nice because he is a definition of a narcissist, and if you look better than a narcissist, you will be in a world of hurt plus I don’t believe a damn word that Sophie says that she likes Rob etc.. I think she is after an American life and she’s willing to sacrifice pain.
That break up text was written in perfect English. No way that Igor wrote it by himself. He googled "how to break up via text !" or Niki re-wrote it herself to show to audience.
I was thinking about that after it was revealed about losing the son/ brother. It made me wonder if Clayton felt like he needed to be near his Mom and protect her feelings, and that's why the sister thought he'd never leave. It all makes a lot of sense now. 😢
Why was Anali's father upset? He just missed his daughter's most important life event because she excluded him from it! That would break anyone's heart. He must have felt absolutely heart broken and betrayed. Robbed of such an important event in his daughter's life and deceived for that whole time. And, according to her, they're super close so that makes it even worse!
Hey Po! As a curvy girl I had the same social anxiety about workout classes but it really does get better the more you go. It's important to remember that everyone started as a beginner at some point and there's nothing wrong with being a beginner. It only gets better after the first class but you have to keep going for it to get better x
PSA: If you want your children to tell you important, life changing things, they need to feel safe doing so. If your children don’t feel safe telling you such important things, it’s on you if/when they don’t.
Did you notice when the officiant said that Sophie shared “she feels so taken care of and at peace with Rob, her Mom rolled her eyes and looked at other people, like “are u kidding me “. 😂
I said this before, and I’ll say it again, but I don’t understand why people are genuinely surprised that Sophie married Rob. She clearly likes being treated like dog sh*t, so I wasn’t surprised that she married him… like at all. You could definitely tell when someone is going to stay with someone or if they’re going to leave them. It was pretty obvious that Sophie’s going to stick by Rob until HE leaves her or until he does something majorly bad.
I don't feel bad for Nikki. I don't think she loves Igor at all. She got him very young, kind of molded him into her perfect boy toy, manipulated and traumatized him. I think she just liked him because he was good-looking and she felt validated that she could buy her very own straight trophy guy. She dressed him, renosed and renamed him. It wasn't a relationship, it was a transaction and when she cut him off financially she stopped fulfilling her part of the deal. Not to mention she was a major creeper always pressuring him for sex and not telling him she was trans. I really do hope she grows from this and doesn't repeat the same mistakes.
Thats exactly why she picked JUTIIIIIIIIIIN. And if they dont get back together, she'll find another JUSTIIIIIN. They only want people they can manipulate with money.
Potato girl don’t let your social anxiety stop you from getting fit. I used to have it too and still do if I’m going to a new gym but you can’t let that stop you from living your best life and having the body of your dreams!! Summer bodies are sculpted during winter/spring!!
@@shays4887 me too girl. Literally in bed w the bs as we speak. Alot of the supportive comments help alittle but We really do need to come together and get through anxiety. Social..Any type.
So idk, I’m Latina and I still keep my boyfriends a secret from my family unless I’m absolutely sure it’ll be worth the embarrassment and fear of facing strict parents
100%. Kept a 4 year relationship from them and now keeping current bf from them. Odd dynamics going on, also got a stepfather, distant from my own father and my mom is lost in her own mind with some narc abuse from stepfather. . So yeah im keeping secrets
Im Asian, but my parents are also strict. However, i may not know her relationship w her fam to hide something so big. But personally, I wished my father cried for me like that, but I wont even have him at my own wedding some day. So im biased, bc he seems heartbroken that he missed out on her big day. I wish my dad felt like that. Damn. But if I was the HUSBAND. If I found this out, thats a huge ass red flag. Either there's a really good reason why, or you've been ashamed of me up till now. That hurts too. Idk. But im biased so 🤷🏻♀️
I totally get that. But I just don't get how she could keep it secret until after she got married. I mean at least give him a one month warning or something.
Girl why is he so upset? Your daughter doesn't tell you she's dating someone and then boom one day she's married and she's probably never going back home girl are you dead inside? That's his baby and he couldn't even see her off on her wedding day. Also I'd think I was a bad parent if my child couldn't even tell me they were getting married bruh.
I'm actually getting married on the beach in 3 weeks, and I'm basically wearing a floor length white sundress, with a pretty headpiece with flowers, pearls, and silver leaves. No shoes. I think Sophie's wedding look is super cute for a beach wedding. I get it. It's simple, and pretty. Lol I'm dying as I'm listening to you roast her look, thinking omg, what would she say about mine?? 😆 😅 her dress looks much more wedding dressish than mine. 😅
I think Po roasted the dress because we'd seen her try on two very fancy and opulent wedding dresses, and then she appeared in something quite the opposite. Your dress and accessories sound lovely - congratulations!! 🥂
@Tassie85 I agree lol I was just joking because it was just too similar in taste not to 😅. Poe always, always makes me laugh so much 😆. Thank you for the compliment & congrats! 😊 I'm really excited but hella anxious too, but I'm told it's how most women feel before.... It can't be because I'm always having anxiety when I leave the house 😂😂😂
@@aryabolton2949 I haven't been married but I am sure most brides are nervous and anxious before, during and after. My friend said that she tried to be in the moment on her wedding day, to enjoy every moment. Her cake fell off the table and there is a great photo of the wedding party, in their fancy dresses and tuxes, sitting on the floor with spoons, eating the cake off the floor! So, even a rather large bump in the day turned out great.
@Tassie85 oh wow! That's so awesome that they just said hey, whatever and ate cake and had a blast. They sound like very cool people. I'm happy for her that they had fun with it, rather than let it ruin such a big day. That sounds like good advice, just be in the moment, and enjoy it. It's something I'm not always great at, but I've actually gotten considerably better over the past year. It's gonna be great 👍 🤞 🤞 😆
@@aryabolton2949 She paid like $700 for this cake and the catering staff somehow knocked it to the floor. My friend said she started to panic and get emotional when the best man, usually a doofus, ran over with a spoon and dug in. It looked delicious from the photo! I am not always the best at putting worries to the side but, like you, I've gotten better over time. I hope your day is happy and fun and full of cake!!
Im watching your video before seeing the last episode and I laughed so hard from Ashley crying I woke up my 2 year old daughter by accident. 😅 I regret nothing. Thank you for such great quality content. My Mom passed a year and half ago. It's been really difficult. It was sudden and she was only 54. One of things we'd share was we would watch 90 days every week and then gossip, cut up, and talk about the episode when it was over just like you do. We would laugh and it was just so much fun. Your videos take me back to those good times. It's almost like a comfort. You've become the highlight of my day. Thank you for taking me back to such great memories. 💖✌️
I feel like her dad being upset makes perfect sense, for dads it's a big deal when their daughters get married and he just found out that his daughter hid an entire relationship from him. Plus if he thinks they are close the way she portrays it it's even more hurtful
Cant believe this show has come to and end..thank you Po for your recaps, it was really refreshing to watch every time .. well done and cant wait for love is blind recap as well
A peloton type of set up at home may help. Im pretty sure you can zoom meeting the classes. I crave socialization but am so self conscious in those type of settings
I can't even feel bad for Sophie anymore. This guy has been a red flag since day one. I also do not believe that she comes from money. Nothing about her says I have money. And no one in their clear mind would live in that apartment
That has to be hard for a father not to walk his daughter down the aisle, especially in their culture. I’m sure there’s a litany of emotions he’s feeling. Can’t imagine having that bomb dropped on me.
I sing along to the theme song. I can hear my husband laughing at me because he knows exactly what I'm watching and how much I love this channel! Thank you ❤
Oh my God you are at 200,000 whoop whoop. Love you Po-ho!!! you’re amazing! I’m so glad I found your channel. You have no idea how much you cheer me up on some of my most difficult days of the depression. Thank you so much.
I would love to see you do something on the Michael and Angela situation right now!!!😮😮😮😮 Michael is in America, and he ran away when he was supposed to be babysitting Angela’s grandchildren! He was gone for three days before he contacted anyone and now refuses to come back to Angela! He said he was afraid for his life ! 😮 Smart man! I signed a petition last year to try to get Angela off the show because she is so abusive to Michael! Run Michael!!! we have your back!!! 😊
The Dad could be upset for so many reasons. His daughter just married someone who is a stranger to him and could just not come home again. That's so scary so many bad things could happen. Even best case scenario he didn't get to see his daughter get married. And if they are close like she says that would be devastating and then also realizing she kept it from him for so long
I agree. I'm from the UK and they remind me of people who want to come across as well off, but their whole presentation screams nope. On the other hand, being rich doesn't mean being classy so it might be that. Conversely, you can be educated & cultured but dirt poor. The class system is weird here.
They Saud it was her father's father's money. And it paid for her private education. Then she chose not to continue on in school, got a job to support herself. So reading between the lines, richer guy accidently knocks up Claire from the council flats and she raised Sophie but Dophie got the posh education and child support. Explains the mix.
100% if my daughter left the country and just called and told me she was married, I'd be very upset too. And Clayton is not ANYONE I'd be happy my daughter was married to. The ONLY thing that makes him better than Rob is that he got a job and an apartment with a bathroom INSIDE.
Look… I’m not president of Clayton’s fan club or anything with everything he’s done, but I never really cared for Analis . She judged Clayton for gaming, not having any friends and frames her telling her dad about their relationship only AFTER getting married as a gift?? Like wtf did you expect? Your dad to forgive over Skype?
I totally understand why you have some social anxiety. You’re used to being in a bag with tens of other potatoes! But you have to shine on your own girl! Everyone would pay money to have a potato riding a bicycle in their class! 💜
Wtf is wrong with Annali. Imagine getting married without telling anyone on your family. I think the reason why his dad is upset boils down to tradition, family values, and culture. In our family, wedding is celebrated by everyone to the point that relatives get to put money and plan all the cooking and reception to lessen the burden for the groom and the bride.
As a parent I totally get why he would be hurt if she gets married without even telling her dad about the relationship let alone invite him so he can give her away.
I am from Germany, right now in holidays in Spain and thought of you today 😅 I normally make a little UA-cam break during holidays, but can't wait to get home to watch your videos again 🎉
I just subscribed because you’re so freaking hilarious!! I’ve never watched any of these shows (and never will), but I watch these recaps just because of you 🥔
I was thinking how unpractical it was and revealing it could be. A bit of wind and xxx Plus the sitting down reception at the beach with something that short 😬
Hi, Po!! I understand what you are saying about wanting to start new things. I don't know if this could help you to overcome your social anxiety: Arrive to the class just a bit later, when all the people is getting into place. This way, you would avoid the akward moments with no one to talk! Also, pretending to be busy with your phone is a great tool aswell 😅 Remember that everyone is worried about themselves :) Don't let your anxiety get in the way of doing things you want to do. I know it's easier said than done, but I also know that you can do it! Thank you for your videos. You make my days go better ❤
These hispanic parents are VERY protective, a lot of the time they get upset at a boyfriend. Then with the fact she didnt tell him leading up to this, Ive seen many times how hispanic parents react to these things
**WORKING OUT RELATED** Best experience with sports I had was at a center where seniors had some special discounts. This encouraged variety of people to come there not only youngsters on top of their game. So the atmosphere was relaxed and giggly. In a place like this you get to the consistency and after you can move to something more challenging
I was encouraged to take up some aquatic classes with seniors bc of my chronic pain, need for exercise, and extreme fear of socializing and especially when it comes to being self-conscious and working out. I'm still afraid the seniors will judge me 🤦🏼♀️
@@JustJ-Me there is a knows fact that sometimes people give you looks but they don't really truly care. Everyone is too self absorbed with their own lives. Another thing is that old people already have been through all the insecurities you are living with right now so :D and lastly you are doing it for your health that is mature and sexy. IT WILL BE SUPER FINE! Glhf
The dad is upset because he didn't get to see his lil girl get married
Or have an opinion. In traditional families the parents get an opinion 🤷🏽♀️. I knew why from the start why he didn’t know. Hopefully she relaxes now since that weight is of bc for ppl in traditional families is a big overbearing weight that makes you feel bad allll the time.
That and she lied for a year.
Exactly and she straight up lied to him
@@NatashaT329 I thought it was weird that she lied and said Clayton was her boyfriend only to turn around and immediately tell her dad he was actually her husband… she comes off as a liar 🤥
Her dad thought she was in the US to study right? I'd be upset too. So u weren't studying but had a whole bf for years ? That's lame
The father may be upset, because he wasn’t there for his daughter’s wedding, I mean he must’ve imagined walking her down the aisle since she was a little girl. Any father would be upset if their daughter got married and had no idea.
I'd be upset if anyone I was very close to and claimed they were close to me, just up and getting married to someone they have been keeping hidden for a whole year.
It would feel like I don't know this person anymore.
As a Nigerian, I understand the dad's reaction.
Annali was a wimp. She could have told him she was dating an American. Now she hit him with everything all at once. Poor dad
@kenennaoyeka5286
You don't have to be Nigerian to understand her dad's feelings, as you can see on this board. 😊
Or the "father" is her real husband back home 😂
He’s upset because he wasn’t apart or aware of the wedding and marriage, that’s pretty important and not the right way to start off a marriage.
And she purposely took that away from him
@fjeisdivoojlk most fathers imagine walking their daughter down the isle or if your traditional wanting to give your blessing or at the minimum. Have an opertunity to meet your daughters husband. He got none of that.
Well if she wasn’t comfortable enough to tell him then obviously there’s something deeper. She seemed really scared to tell him before.
@@Lionizzu yes, so she shouldn't have done it behind his back in that case. It just makes everyone involved upset.
My family is religious & traditional sometimes your views don’t match up & they’ll never understand
what do you mean why he is so upset??? they talked everyday multiple times a day and she never told him about Clyton. I would be so hurt and pissed.
There must be a reason why?
The greatest betrayal to a parent, thank God we have to pay a dowry in my culture so can't get married without parents unless you're Anali
I can relate my sister just had a baby and didn’t tell me until the day of 😑
Exactly!!
Exactly. Even if you have bad relations with your parents they should know.
Sophie is going to be absolutely shattered if it ends. Imagine spending your 20’s in an apartment with no bathroom, and a husband who is insufferable, dense, and shallow. Imagine having to dull yourself because your fiancée gets aggressive when you mention a “duvet.” What kind of grown a** man acts that way,instead of being normal and asking her about it. He couldn’t even GOOGLE IT. He has to be an actor … right?
I agree,but she's hardly PhD level intelligence either
You are right. She is no child anymore,but she acts like one.He too@@charlie_says3841
Exactly. The best thing she could do for her AND HIM, is move tf on
I don’t believe FOR A SECOND that Sophie “comes from money!” Both she and her Mum are sooooo basically middle class. She claims to not even know how her family has acquired their “supposed riches!!!!!!”
Word on the streets is she's filming Single Life now 😂so they split.
Love Sam he's hilarious!!! 😂😂
I don’t doubt that Sophie wore a cheap dress to not make rob upset abt spending money😒
Rob is downgrading her. when a guy gets a nice car. He wants to take care of it. He won’t park the car in ghettos areas Cus he doesn’t want someone to key it or scratch it. Oil changes. Decorating the tires and pipes. He would keep the car in his garage to protect it from the snow or rains
My point is when a man really likes you he will take care of you. When I see an unkept tired women I blame the husband.
100%
I thought that too
I m pretty sure the whole "my family is rich" is 100% made up because I mean.. there is no indications they are but a lot of indications they aren't
@@Madinaash so true, he can’t stand the thought of her being better than him so he does this
I'm a mom and it would break my heart if my daughter kept a relationship for a year from me and then got married without me. If she needed to elope, I would understand but to hide the biggest part of your life from someone who loves you and raised you and wanted only good things for you, that would be a red flag for me. Especially because with all 5 of my children, the only time they hid things from me was when they were doing something that wasn't good for them.
There’s no guarantee that he raised her. You have to know the full story of her upbringing. There are various family dynamics around the world including single mothers raising children alone or absent fathers that are or aren’t physically and mentally present in families. (Her parents are divorced.)
Then, it should be of the utmost importance to make your children feel safe enough to tell you things like that. Her Papa did not. That’s on him.
@@ichangedmynameforyoutubeand how do you know this? Or you are blaming him, because he is a man? That's disgusting 🤢
As a parent, a child does not owe their parents anything. It is our jobs to raise them and do right by them. What they do with their life is their choice, like it or not.
@@CaptainCaterpillars all kids owe their parents the truth at least 😂😂😂
Feels kinda obvious why the dad is upset. She lied to him for months, dropped a bomb on him that she got a bf in the US. Only to realize that her energy is off, so he's still nervous, and then she says she got married with no family. That hurts. She keeps too many secrets, even from her own people. He's probably gonna hate Clayton even though he always wanted the dad to know.
Not telling him anything about any of it seems to just make no sense. She's strange, but not nuts. Hopefully, she'll clue us in at some point. 😊
The dad crying broke my heart.
Her poor dad he looked so hurt she didn't tell him she was getting married
Yeah 😢
I cant feel bad for Nikki NOT one bit... this person lied and tricked him, misled him so what did she expect. Lies never lead to a good outcome.
She was so mean to him! If I were Igor I wouldn’t want to be with her either. 😢
Justin Igor found somebody new to pay his bills.
I cant even feel bad that he wanted some money out of it
Did any of you happen to see Nikki on Truly? It was randomly recommended to me here on YT. I watched it and can't say there was anything surprising.
@@knittingnana2939That's exactly what I was thinking. The whole situation is just so sad. I think had Nickki been honest with him in the beginning, It would have given him time to sort out his feelings. And what he really wanted.. by Nickki not telling him the truth from the beginning and revealing it the way that she did it embarrassed him and made him feel less than a man. And that's what we saw in they're relationship throughout the show🫢🫣 Good luck too them both!!
omg i'm almost at 200k!! 🥹
Woohoo!!!!!🎉
You will get there soon !
Congrats you’ve came long ways already!! 💗
Shine baby shine ✨️
Oh yeah Po!🎉
Yay it's Po! I'm a little disappointed in Anali and Sophie not running away from all the glaring red flags from their men but the Ashley breakdown kind of makes up for it lol. "I DIDN'T WANT TO UGLY CRY WAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!" XD
I was like wtf is she doing? Did she forget she's on T.V? How embarrassing.... Smh
@@LoriPinkerton-m2iomg shes having a real moment? not everyone is fucking perfect
Anali has more red flags than Clayton imo
@@scottking6481 Completely agree. Anali had a stripper for her bachelorette party and didn't even tell anyone about Clayton until after they got married. It's pretty delusional to think Clayton is the problem in that relationship. He's awkward but hes not problematic.
@@LoriPinkerton-m2ishe's getting married and it could possibly be ruined by a hurricane. She's overwhelmed with a lot of different emotions
Take a hint Nikki, HE’S NOT INTO YOU!!! But again if somebody acted like I owe them sex and they didn’t tell me the truth of which they really were and I found out, I don’t think I would want to be with them.
She should have stopped paying his way a long time ago and initiated this break up.
Agreed he put up with a lot of
Also, he is straight and therefore attracted to women,not blokes.
@@daynasafranek7807im glad he got some money out of that horrible woman
1) Clayton and Anali having a wedding reception in the school gym. and had a shower sheet that said just married. i’m sorry but like i want y’all to do better. y’all deserve better
2) Popeye/Citra and Clayton/Anali having guests show up in t shirts and distressed jeans. like have some decorum. tell your guests its a formal event
3) idk what’s worse knowing Rob and Sophie are returning for Happily Ever After or having to endure ANOTHER season of Jasmine and Gino. TLC….AMERICA IS OVER THEM
4) Nikki…..Justin doesn’t want to be with a trans woman. cut your losses and find a man who wants a trans woman. you live near NYC….you must be able to find someone.
I agree with you on everything except for deciding what other's weddings and guests should look like. As long as the bride & groom are happy and okay with it? Oh well... If they wanted formal or had a preference, I imagine they would have stated as much. Some ppl don't care about the huge production, and "formal" isn't their style. Not everyone has the budget, and it can be hard to essentially enforce a dress code unless you're willing & able to pay for other's clothing. Not everyone has "dressy" clothes, especially depending on where you live. Sometimes ppl just value others authetically showing up. Ideally, they all have at least 1 pair of jeans that aren't distressed and something more business- casual if not on the more formal side, but again, as long as the bride & groom are happy and aren't concerned about what wedding pics, etc look like, then 🤷🏼♀️
Does it look esthetically pleasing? Not so much, but it's *their* wedding. The appearance of the wedding/reception venues and guests are the least of some of these couple's problems.
I used to work for a photographer who photographed a lot of weddings, and from my perspective it was irritating when I noticed things that *in my opinion* , didn't photograph well, or stood out in a "bad" way, but ultimately it wasn't about me. The couples, their parents, and bridal party were nonethewiser bc all they really cared about was the experience they had and being able to capture the moments/memories of that day.
*I appreciate that you expressed that they deserve better. ❤
@@JustJ-Me… 🤔 its just that Some of the guests looked so unhappy to be there.
I agree wth you. I'm done watching Jasmine abuse Gino. I'm sick and tired of this crap. Plus they lie to us about the couples. If TLC doesn't do better they will lose views. Don't get me wrong we like watching people and their problems but not abuse on the show. No thank you. Move on TLC. Jsted like their new show Lost in Translation. Come on. 3 men to what 15 girls. You know there gnna b drama there but that's not the kind I'm into. I don't wanna watch grown women who can't understand each other fighting over a few men. But apparently TLC don't mind. I watched the first 30 min. Then I was done. TLC do better.
Where did all these guests come from. He has no friends except for the one he spend his awkward bachelor party with.
Jasmine & Gino
Saying why is he crying and why did she never tell him back to back is crazy
Thought the same thing frfr
all these weddings were ugly and awful😂 Nick and Devin had the best one
I forgot nick and Devon were even on the show. Their story line was so short!
@@PA-bu7fxand thank god too
@PA-bu7fx that's because they're a good couple and tlc only wants toxic couples for the drama
The driver trying not to bust out laughing when Ashley starts wailing 😂😂😂
That"s what made me really laugh. His utter surprise! Props for not veering into oncoming traffic, buddy.
I'd cry too if i missed my daughter's wedding and being able to walk her down the aisle 😭 but at the end of the day shes a grown woman and may have some trauma or something that made her SO SOLID on not telling him. without any context or explanation tho i do have a soft spot for when i see a father cry
this is the best comment. like yeah it’s upsetting for the parent but as an adult you’re entitled to your own life and you don’t have to tell your family things that you don’t want.
Not sharing your special day with your parents IS VERY UPSETTING. That's common sense
it’s upsetting but also you don’t owe anyone anything. your family does not own you and if you have a reason for not telling someone something you have a right to do so
@@m4tta yes but both are true lol jsut cuz u dont have to tell anyone anything dlesnt mean they arent allowed to feel hurt
Exactly I’m not sure why she was acting so confused especially it being the Dad who she was nervous to tell in the first place 😅
Po dear, Rob only looked nice because he is a definition of a narcissist, and if you look better than a narcissist, you will be in a world of hurt plus I don’t believe a damn word that Sophie says that she likes Rob etc.. I think she is after an American life and she’s willing to sacrifice pain.
the "bye heaux" text has me screaming....😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂
Lmfaooooooo
That break up text was written in perfect English. No way that Igor wrote it by himself. He googled "how to break up via text !" or Niki re-wrote it herself to show to audience.
On Reddit everyone was sure it was AI and someone put the question to chatGBT and the result was almost exactly what Justigor wrote 😂😂😂
Po being confused about Anali's father being upset just got me like ?????? What do you mean you need more context?
Sophie feels taken care of?????!!!????? What!!!!???? With no internal toilet and living with bullet holes in the wall?
She’s“inlove” at this point she don’t wanna be saved
HAHA taken care of when asking for a duvet starts an argument between them 😂
I understand why closet mom is the way she is after losing a child unexpectedly.
I was thinking about that after it was revealed about losing the son/ brother. It made me wonder if Clayton felt like he needed to be near his Mom and protect her feelings, and that's why the sister thought he'd never leave. It all makes a lot of sense now. 😢
Nikki acting like a dumped teenager while being over 40 is so cringy to me..
And a man.... I don't care how much horrible work you've done to your face and body U ARE A MAN. Period....
Why was Anali's father upset? He just missed his daughter's most important life event because she excluded him from it! That would break anyone's heart. He must have felt absolutely heart broken and betrayed. Robbed of such an important event in his daughter's life and deceived for that whole time. And, according to her, they're super close so that makes it even worse!
The veil gave Carole Baskins
100 percent
😂‼️ I choked on my drink LMAO
Solid comment. Exactly.
Killed her husband, whacked him
Hey Po! As a curvy girl I had the same social anxiety about workout classes but it really does get better the more you go. It's important to remember that everyone started as a beginner at some point and there's nothing wrong with being a beginner. It only gets better after the first class but you have to keep going for it to get better x
Nikki and Igor were never real. She just wanted to be on the show. I don't feel bad for her.
If my daughter told me she married Clayton, I'd cry, too.
PSA: If you want your children to tell you important, life changing things, they need to feel safe doing so. If your children don’t feel safe telling you such important things, it’s on you if/when they don’t.
Exactly!
100%
Did you notice when the officiant said that Sophie shared “she feels so taken care of and at peace with Rob, her Mom rolled her eyes and looked at other people, like “are u kidding me “. 😂
I said this before, and I’ll say it again, but I don’t understand why people are genuinely surprised that Sophie married Rob. She clearly likes being treated like dog sh*t, so I wasn’t surprised that she married him… like at all. You could definitely tell when someone is going to stay with someone or if they’re going to leave them. It was pretty obvious that Sophie’s going to stick by Rob until HE leaves her or until he does something majorly bad.
True, she accepted it. Her Mom knows better so it's not even that she wasn't raised right.
so what would be considered “majorly bad”??
Love that all your emphasis is on her, and not Rob’s awful behavior. What a weird little brain you have
@@ZoeNycole because she agreed to be with himand were beyond trying to fix a man.
@@ZoeNycole the reason on the emphasis is all on her is Rob refuses to change. and she knows this and still chooses to stay. like??
I don't feel bad for Nikki. I don't think she loves Igor at all. She got him very young, kind of molded him into her perfect boy toy, manipulated and traumatized him. I think she just liked him because he was good-looking and she felt validated that she could buy her very own straight trophy guy. She dressed him, renosed and renamed him. It wasn't a relationship, it was a transaction and when she cut him off financially she stopped fulfilling her part of the deal. Not to mention she was a major creeper always pressuring him for sex and not telling him she was trans. I really do hope she grows from this and doesn't repeat the same mistakes.
The scene with Anali’s father is the saddest thing I’ve ever seen on this show. It’s heartbreaking.
Nikki knows Igor only wants to be together for the money and Nikki is so pathetic that Nikki will stay and beg for the relationship. it's pathetic
Thats exactly why she picked JUTIIIIIIIIIIN. And if they dont get back together, she'll find another JUSTIIIIIN. They only want people they can manipulate with money.
Potato girl don’t let your social anxiety stop you from getting fit. I used to have it too and still do if I’m going to a new gym but you can’t let that stop you from living your best life and having the body of your dreams!! Summer bodies are sculpted during winter/spring!!
Social anxiety comes in all sizes i wish more women could come together with these insecurities big or small 😢
@@shays4887 me too girl. Literally in bed w the bs as we speak. Alot of the supportive comments help alittle but We really do need to come together and get through anxiety. Social..Any type.
@@LuckyLetty777yes girl we really do ❤
Sophie did It for The "fame", just like Liz
Making your dad cry has to be the saddest thing ever. I understand how he felt and I'm not even a parent
Sophie is clearly not as rich as they've pretended
The mom never said she was rich it was rob n Sophie
So idk, I’m Latina and I still keep my boyfriends a secret from my family unless I’m absolutely sure it’ll be worth the embarrassment and fear of facing strict parents
Ok... but a relationship over 2 years old and a whole ass engagement and wedding? Seems pretty extreme.
100%. Kept a 4 year relationship from them and now keeping current bf from them. Odd dynamics going on, also got a stepfather, distant from my own father and my mom is lost in her own mind with some narc abuse from stepfather. . So yeah im keeping secrets
I'm almost 30 and I do the same😂😂😂
Im Asian, but my parents are also strict. However, i may not know her relationship w her fam to hide something so big. But personally, I wished my father cried for me like that, but I wont even have him at my own wedding some day.
So im biased, bc he seems heartbroken that he missed out on her big day. I wish my dad felt like that. Damn. But if I was the HUSBAND. If I found this out, thats a huge ass red flag. Either there's a really good reason why, or you've been ashamed of me up till now. That hurts too. Idk. But im biased so 🤷🏻♀️
I totally get that. But I just don't get how she could keep it secret until after she got married. I mean at least give him a one month warning or something.
I’m not gonna lie, I was a tad disappointed that Anali showed up to the wedding 😅
Girl why is he so upset? Your daughter doesn't tell you she's dating someone and then boom one day she's married and she's probably never going back home girl are you dead inside? That's his baby and he couldn't even see her off on her wedding day. Also I'd think I was a bad parent if my child couldn't even tell me they were getting married bruh.
This season was so long i completely forgot about Devin
Me too! 😂
She didn't even given her dad the opportunity to walk her down the isle
I'm actually getting married on the beach in 3 weeks, and I'm basically wearing a floor length white sundress, with a pretty headpiece with flowers, pearls, and silver leaves. No shoes. I think Sophie's wedding look is super cute for a beach wedding. I get it. It's simple, and pretty. Lol I'm dying as I'm listening to you roast her look, thinking omg, what would she say about mine?? 😆 😅 her dress looks much more wedding dressish than mine. 😅
I think Po roasted the dress because we'd seen her try on two very fancy and opulent wedding dresses, and then she appeared in something quite the opposite. Your dress and accessories sound lovely - congratulations!! 🥂
@Tassie85 I agree lol I was just joking because it was just too similar in taste not to 😅. Poe always, always makes me laugh so much 😆. Thank you for the compliment & congrats! 😊 I'm really excited but hella anxious too, but I'm told it's how most women feel before.... It can't be because I'm always having anxiety when I leave the house 😂😂😂
@@aryabolton2949 I haven't been married but I am sure most brides are nervous and anxious before, during and after. My friend said that she tried to be in the moment on her wedding day, to enjoy every moment. Her cake fell off the table and there is a great photo of the wedding party, in their fancy dresses and tuxes, sitting on the floor with spoons, eating the cake off the floor! So, even a rather large bump in the day turned out great.
@Tassie85 oh wow! That's so awesome that they just said hey, whatever and ate cake and had a blast. They sound like very cool people. I'm happy for her that they had fun with it, rather than let it ruin such a big day. That sounds like good advice, just be in the moment, and enjoy it. It's something I'm not always great at, but I've actually gotten considerably better over the past year. It's gonna be great 👍 🤞 🤞 😆
@@aryabolton2949 She paid like $700 for this cake and the catering staff somehow knocked it to the floor. My friend said she started to panic and get emotional when the best man, usually a doofus, ran over with a spoon and dug in. It looked delicious from the photo! I am not always the best at putting worries to the side but, like you, I've gotten better over time. I hope your day is happy and fun and full of cake!!
I never watch these shows, only your recaps and I love them.
I never tell my Dad about the men I date. He’s extremely judgmental. No one is ever good enough. I will however tell him if I decide to get married.
For me it’s my brother that is never impressed and won’t pretend he is. Lol
You are the worlds best "reality tv" re-capper EVER ❤❤🎉
Im watching your video before seeing the last episode and I laughed so hard from Ashley crying I woke up my 2 year old daughter by accident. 😅 I regret nothing. Thank you for such great quality content. My Mom passed a year and half ago. It's been really difficult. It was sudden and she was only 54. One of things we'd share was we would watch 90 days every week and then gossip, cut up, and talk about the episode when it was over just like you do. We would laugh and it was just so much fun. Your videos take me back to those good times. It's almost like a comfort. You've become the highlight of my day. Thank you for taking me back to such great memories. 💖✌️
I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my mom to pancreatic cancer and I miss those conversations too. ❤
I'm so sorry about your mum. Sending hugs from across the pond ❤
Nikki is very bold to be the one crying LOL you're the reason he's breaking up with you.
Omg I was dying laughing when Ashley was ugly crying and having a panic attack, that was truly unique 😂😂
The mother’s face after the lady said she felt so taken care of and at peace. 😂😂😂
I feel like her dad being upset makes perfect sense, for dads it's a big deal when their daughters get married and he just found out that his daughter hid an entire relationship from him. Plus if he thinks they are close the way she portrays it it's even more hurtful
Cant believe this show has come to and end..thank you Po for your recaps, it was really refreshing to watch every time .. well done and cant wait for love is blind recap as well
A peloton type of set up at home may help. Im pretty sure you can zoom meeting the classes. I crave socialization but am so self conscious in those type of settings
Lol could _you_ afford one of those?
You can rent them, and they very affordable.
I can't even feel bad for Sophie anymore. This guy has been a red flag since day one.
I also do not believe that she comes from money. Nothing about her says I have money. And no one in their clear mind would live in that apartment
That has to be hard for a father not to walk his daughter down the aisle, especially in their culture. I’m sure there’s a litany of emotions he’s feeling. Can’t imagine having that bomb dropped on me.
the way you said her wedding dress was a picnic dress PLS UR SO FUNNY😭
I was thinking figure skater outfit. But if Rob was footing the bill, she was lucky to not be wearing a bedsheet stolen from her mom's hotel.
@@Tassie85 pls this made me giggle LOL
I just subscribed recently! I think you're a breath of fresh air. You're upbeat, honest, and incredibly funny. I love your energy!
I sing along to the theme song. I can hear my husband laughing at me because he knows exactly what I'm watching and how much I love this channel! Thank you ❤
I can't believe its only 200k. You should be at a million girl!
Kinda my words exactly lol
She is a potatoe absolutely not
Lol...the break up text was one of the best things about this episode! 😂
Oh my God you are at 200,000 whoop whoop. Love you Po-ho!!! you’re amazing! I’m so glad I found your channel. You have no idea how much you cheer me up on some of my most difficult days of the depression. Thank you so much.
I would love to see you do something on the Michael and Angela situation right now!!!😮😮😮😮 Michael is in America, and he ran away when he was supposed to be babysitting Angela’s grandchildren! He was gone for three days before he contacted anyone and now refuses to come back to Angela! He said he was afraid for his life ! 😮 Smart man! I signed a petition last year to try to get Angela off the show because she is so abusive to Michael! Run Michael!!! we have your back!!! 😊
Season 10 brought me to your channel and Love is blind recaps sealed the deal 😂👏🏻
The Dad could be upset for so many reasons. His daughter just married someone who is a stranger to him and could just not come home again. That's so scary so many bad things could happen. Even best case scenario he didn't get to see his daughter get married. And if they are close like she says that would be devastating and then also realizing she kept it from him for so long
Ashley was putting on for the show because look at how family reacted … that girl has never “cried “ like that in her life
I’m convinced Sophie and her family ain’t rich
I agree. I'm from the UK and they remind me of people who want to come across as well off, but their whole presentation screams nope. On the other hand, being rich doesn't mean being classy so it might be that. Conversely, you can be educated & cultured but dirt poor. The class system is weird here.
They Saud it was her father's father's money. And it paid for her private education. Then she chose not to continue on in school, got a job to support herself. So reading between the lines, richer guy accidently knocks up Claire from the council flats and she raised Sophie but Dophie got the posh education and child support. Explains the mix.
They're not super rich. They're English upper middle class rich.
@@joywebster2678this theory makes sense to me! 😂
She doesn't speak proper british English . Her accent is lower class.
I 100% agree with you about the "wedding dress" ensamble! You were spot on!
Can't wait for the reunion!! Looks 🔥
I love you, Po. I cannot believe I've lived without your recaps up until now. I'm 34. Too long too long too long.
Nikki thought she can treat someone like shit and they won’t leave as long as she gives them money 😂
omg potato pls try out a spin class. group exercise is fun. nobody is looking at you, the lights go down low, just try it!!! i believe in you!
100% if my daughter left the country and just called and told me she was married, I'd be very upset too. And Clayton is not ANYONE I'd be happy my daughter was married to. The ONLY thing that makes him better than Rob is that he got a job and an apartment with a bathroom INSIDE.
You know when I’m always going through stuff girl I needed this!
You're asking why the Dad is so upset? Really, Po? 😑😂 c'mon now
Look… I’m not president of Clayton’s fan club or anything with everything he’s done, but I never really cared for Analis . She judged Clayton for gaming, not having any friends and frames her telling her dad about their relationship only AFTER getting married as a gift?? Like wtf did you expect? Your dad to forgive over Skype?
I totally understand why you have some social anxiety. You’re used to being in a bag with tens of other potatoes! But you have to shine on your own girl! Everyone would pay money to have a potato riding a bicycle in their class! 💜
🤭💕
I do cycling classes and they are my absolute favorite! Such a good vibe and workout !!
Wtf is wrong with Annali. Imagine getting married without telling anyone on your family.
I think the reason why his dad is upset boils down to tradition, family values, and culture.
In our family, wedding is celebrated by everyone to the point that relatives get to put money and plan all the cooking and reception to lessen the burden for the groom and the bride.
When my son catches a glimpse of my phone, he asks “are you watching potato bean again?”
Hi Po!!! Always lift me up when I'm feeling down!
Ashley is only stressed because she forgot to bring her grounding crystal again 😂
As a parent I totally get why he would be hurt if she gets married without even telling her dad about the relationship let alone invite him so he can give her away.
Well she lied to him saying she went away for a job. So he's totally unaware. But she's been telling her divorced mother everything.
@joywebster2678 That's what I'm saying. He was completely in the dark about everything. So, I completely understand that he feels hurt.
I love you!!!! That anxiety/ anti-social comment you said ..RELATABLE AF
Sophie’s dress is giving “this wedding is not happening”
I am from Germany, right now in holidays in Spain and thought of you today 😅 I normally make a little UA-cam break during holidays, but can't wait to get home to watch your videos again 🎉
Sophie's probably keeping the beautiful dresses for her second wedding...
I just subscribed because you’re so freaking hilarious!! I’ve never watched any of these shows (and never will), but I watch these recaps just because of you 🥔
WHY IS HE SO UPSET???????? Because she’s a liar
Jasmines scream at the end OF THE PREVIEWWWW!!! LMFAOOO
That’s all she ever does!
I love the short beach wedding dress, and the veil. Usually I get talked into the hate, but I think it’s perfect.
It definitely fits for some people.
I was thinking how unpractical it was and revealing it could be. A bit of wind and xxx
Plus the sitting down reception at the beach with something that short 😬
Sofia reminds me of an Abused Woman 😢
Sophie
I don't see why Nikki upset he gave you so many clues he was not attracted to you
If my daughter moved to a different country and married someone I didn't even know existed I would be upset too.
Seems kinda like a great reason to be upset 😂
Hi, Po!! I understand what you are saying about wanting to start new things.
I don't know if this could help you to overcome your social anxiety: Arrive to the class just a bit later, when all the people is getting into place. This way, you would avoid the akward moments with no one to talk!
Also, pretending to be busy with your phone is a great tool aswell 😅
Remember that everyone is worried about themselves :)
Don't let your anxiety get in the way of doing things you want to do. I know it's easier said than done, but I also know that you can do it!
Thank you for your videos. You make my days go better ❤
Just be friendly & smile & compliment others. It'll come back to you 10 fold
These hispanic parents are VERY protective, a lot of the time they get upset at a boyfriend. Then with the fact she didnt tell him leading up to this, Ive seen many times how hispanic parents react to these things
What do you mean why is he so upset? He’s obviously so upset cause she kept a massive secret from him… like huge 😂😂
**WORKING OUT RELATED**
Best experience with sports I had was at a center where seniors had some special discounts. This encouraged variety of people to come there not only youngsters on top of their game. So the atmosphere was relaxed and giggly. In a place like this you get to the consistency and after you can move to something more challenging
I was encouraged to take up some aquatic classes with seniors bc of my chronic pain, need for exercise, and extreme fear of socializing and especially when it comes to being self-conscious and working out. I'm still afraid the seniors will judge me 🤦🏼♀️
@@JustJ-Me there is a knows fact that sometimes people give you looks but they don't really truly care. Everyone is too self absorbed with their own lives. Another thing is that old people already have been through all the insecurities you are living with right now so :D and lastly you are doing it for your health that is mature and sexy. IT WILL BE SUPER FINE! Glhf