Why You Want To Focus On Self Concept When Manifesting An SP Back | Kim Velez
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I’ve been persisting in affirmations such as “I’m the baddest bitch in my reality”, “I am magnetic”, and “I’m confident” to name a few, and everyone around me has been conforming for weeks now, even my SP 😍😍
That's awesome, congrats! 💕
Do you mind if I ask if you’re with your sp right now?
YES..If Your Going to Make A Self Fulfilling Prophecy..Make it Positive, Make it Beautiful, Adventurous, Glamorous
Absolutely!!!
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This is true, everyone is reacting to you. When you change your self image, your relationships will reflect that. You will attract others who feel the same way you do. If you are depressed, You will attract depressed people. If you want to attract happy and confident people, then you must be happy and confident.
Omg it’s like you’re saying my story ! When I was interested in a guy I would start to feel insecure even if he was turning me good ... I’m now intending to change that I’m affirming I’m worthy of the love and commitment from the man I want
Girl, thank you for sharing! This is so true! I tend to do this 🥴
You keep getting more beautiful each video.
After watching countless videos of manifesting a SP, your video really resonated with me. Absolutely agree with SC, after many failed relationships and finally finding someone who treated me so good, doubt began to creep in and hey ho, all of my insecurities manifested. Time to reprogram my thoughts and remind myself, I am beautiful, chosen and loved. My SP will be back in relation to my new SC of love! Thank you for sharing ✨
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@@jeniferscott7690 Na. Can do this on my own thanks :)
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For me I have realized that I have never been chosen or committed to. Obviously now I know there is a reason behind it. Like subconsciously I’m making that happen even though I do feel beautiful and worthy and I’m a prize. But I was still manifesting that in my life. I am now focusing on self concept
The second question was mine in the group! Thank you, it felt like you were talking directly to me and it’s kicked me into gear! You’ve helped change my life Kim. I used to look for reassurance, I’m done with it. I know this is my person and we’re perfect together. You’re the best. You’ll be hearing from me soon with my success story! 💞
Great question!
This is key. I have a pretty good self concept regarding almost every area except for relationships. And it's not that I don't feel worthy, I know for a fact I can do better than most men out there, I have good looks and I really put effort into connecting with someone in a healthy way, yet I always seem to think they usually end up with other guys, maybe easier guys, or guys they don't feel are too much for them, or guys that treat them poorly so they are always the "good one" of the relationship. I've seen it happen many times. That's what I need to change. Thank you so much.
so true! my selfworthbis above all.. i love myself i attract people who serve my purpose...he will come back with redefined values aligning to mine
this is the only self concept advice ive ever needed
I can’t believe I’m getting these golden nuggets about self concept now in my life. Nonetheless, it’s never too late. Thank you for sharing your knowledge 🦋🙏🏾🦋
Thank you for this! I had always been confused because I really do love myself and see myself as a wonderful partner and person, and could easily list things about myself that I loved - but my self concept in relationships was still that "oh it's not good enough, I'm still never chosen" etc. etc. Now I know where I need to work!
I love your videos they are straight up gold. I wish I knew this fe the past 24 years of my life, I’ve been crushing it in work and other areas EXCEPT love and friendships. I used to always manifest emotionally unavailable partners who treat me like shit and ghosted me
The white is perfect!!! Just started watching, focusing now!!!💗
Literally my story my childhood made me believe all those
So so so grateful for all your content Kim! My life has been changing so much in just the way I want it (including sp situation) it's incredible! Feel so much more calm and at ease as well once I've realised I am in charge no matter what. All starts and ends with you, easy peasy, work on your mind and that is literally all needed :D
I’ve been watching your videos, along with Roxy Talks, and now I’m just thinking...have I been manifesting the version of my SP who only sees me as a friend all along? We’re super close and I know there’s more than a friendship going on but he told me that he’d “never” see me that way, so I’ve just been going off that this whole year that he returned to my life. I was worried that I’m now in too deep and I can’t ever reverse the story he has of me, but now I realize that I need to reverse the story I have of MYSELF AND HIM. I’ve been complaining about all the unfavorable things he does and I dread it when he talks to me about other women. I want to change all of this. I know I’m lovable, amazing and I can get him. I tried moving on to someone new but I just want to keep pushing through with this person, because I don’t care about anyone else. With that said, I know he’s not the key to my happiness. I’m still whole regardless. ❤️
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I’m in the same position but from the man’s perspective lol long story short, I convinced myself that she only viewed me as a friend on accident by things she has said even though we’ve messed around and have flirted but some circumstances happened and it caused me to believe what I didn’t want (just being friends because I don’t see her like that) lol I’m changing that now so just know you are not alone on that lol she doesn’t talk about other guys or anything. I convinced myself she only likes a certain type but to much has happened to where I believe me and her are a great match. So now I’m taking this advice, working on my SC and affirming myself and her. There’s way more to the story which I think I have a upper hand only because the story isn’t bad and she said maybe one day we can be together but that was my assumption all along. Viewing myself as a friend on accident because of me not validating myself and just rolling with whatever she said. I’m changing all that now. Lol you got this!
THIS was the video I needed. Thank you!!
Wonderfully well explained, Kim! I totally agree, we have different self-concepts depending on the area of life and my case is very similar to yours :) Thanks a lot!!!
Best video ever!! It’s absolutely the same with me- killing it in everything except love life! So glad there’s a relatively easy way to address and fix this! Thanks Kim for always explaining things so clearly. Lifesaver!
What an excellent talk Kim - so on point!! And it shows that you speak from personal experience. This is really good advice. Thank you ❤
I needed this so much. It always feels like you know EXACTLY what I need to hear.
I do need this my beliefs go back to my childhood always feeling left out, forgotten and left with scraps lord I have work to do!! What can do to constantly build myself up??!!?!
Affirm “I am Wanted”
Tell yourself everyone you know is lucky to have you in their life. Which they are. I had a childhood like that and it’s massively important to lose those beliefs ASAP. You are amazing.
Thank you! I will keep pushing because I am worth it all! I have good and bad days and sometimes it gets to be too much but I just keep trying
Affirm as much as you can for a while, until you no longer feel the need to do that. Like seriously: affirm constantly.
@Aliya Grubbs Also, look up inner child work, to heal your inner child🤗 I think it is really important, it has helped me 🙂
I feel like I’m exactly how you described yourself. Thank you so much!
I love you Kim ♥️✨,you really made me realize I'm a queen. I really feel the power when my brain rejects negative thoughts because she knows that's a lie🤣😌
YESSSS Kim! This is everything!!! 👏🏻
Kim!!!!! Thank you thank you thank you for this video!!! This is the best video of yours that I've listened to. Amd I've listened to you alot. This message was perfect, possibly the thing I needed to shift everything!!!
I love your make up in this video (very natural looking) 😍
Hello do you need help why don’t you try dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
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This video is everything 🥰
Keep up the good work Kim.... The way you explain is so easy to comprehend... you're my new fav coach❤️
Prrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaacccchhhh boo!!! Need I say more...Kim just drop yo mic please lolol. This was for me, on point and on time.
Omg I’m doing this right now 😳
♥️ Beautiful I Love your Energy and straightforwardness 🙏💎 Thanks
Stunning again! Thank you !
You're a blessing 😘 Kim
I love your explanation of this. Helpful..however, what do you suggest affirming to help us change our assumptions with our SPs
this is gold
I love you !! Thank you ☺️
I made voice recordings of affirmations on the ThinkUp app on repeat because of how my job works. It’s difficult to say them out loud lol isn’t that just as effective as saying them out loud since I’m using my own voice? Is it best to just have a few affirmations? I have 15 or 20 that I recorded and have on a loop
even if you record them and say it in your head? does you still get your results?
@@samara.dadonnn oh I did. This comment was awhile ago. So much has happened since then lol i started consciously affirming the new story, observing my thoughts and what inner beliefs were causing these opposite thoughts. I listen to my own silent subliminals now when I work and when I sleep and just keep focused on the new story with my life. I did get my results though. Not how I was expecting though lol
@@samara.dadonnn you can say them in your head. When I’m by myself I say my affirmations out loud when I’m able to but I’m around people a lot so I listen to my subliminal affs and just affirm the new story in my head
@@samara.dadonnn and keeping up on my mental diet. Not supressing my emotions but observing my thoughts and what I can say in that moment to affirm what I know I need in that moment
Beautiful ❤️ pl make more videos on how to manage n keep marriage ,love 💕 always
I always seem to stop when my sp shows some movement 😠
Needed this!
Hi! I have request. Could make a video on how to rebuild your self concept after an abusive relationship? I have certain assumptions that I don’t want to keep in regards to relationships and I would like tips to change them please!
She has a video manifesting with trauma, that should help x
❣🌹🌹🌹oooooohhhh so helpful. Those red nails are sexy. Love ur content...
Loved this video thank you so much ❤
Ily bae we making moves !
I know it’s different for everyone but for you, How long did it personally take for you to manifest your SP’s back?
Can you do a video explaining how changing how you view the situation differently makes my SP who hasn't been coming over at all in a month change? - how does thinking positively and not getting hurt that work and Navy have come before this month, how does that change him and physically make him suddenly decide oh I should treat her like a priority and hang out with her now? I don't know if I am making sense. I'm just trying to figure out how changing my perception about his behavior - like telling myself oh he is always with me, we are always together (even when we are not) versus looking at what is right in front of me and saying I don't feel like a priority, I'm tired of wondering when he is going to make time for me again... how does changing how I view the situation and telling myself a story that feels good make him change his behavior? How does that get him to go oh I need to prioritize her?
When you change the way you see yourself, the world reflects it. Manifestation is not about changing your SP it is about changing your subconscious thoughts.
By affirming and changing your story you change your perception of SP and then he automatically shifts to reflect it.
You are the priority he always puts you first he's at your house all the time
Right now you're manifesting the reality you don't want, you're focusing on being hurt and that he's prioritizing work and navy and that is exactly what reality has to show.
@@sydluvsdepechemode Thank you so much! That made SO much sense. Both of your comments did. Do you want to be manifestation buddies and bounce stuff back and forth between each other? Hold each other accountable and lift each other up?
@@Gottagetaway31 I'm happy to help! I don't really do manifestation Buddies because I don't like reaffirming 3D circumstances but you are welcome to DM me on fb! I'm also in Kim's Facebook group .
@@sydluvsdepechemode No I don't meant reaffirming 3D - I mean strictly focusing on what we desire and living in our end result and living in our daydreams and imagination and helping each other affirm that. : ) And yes I will add you on FB!
what did you do or say to change your past concept of "it's too good to be true" or "it doesn't" last" when it comes to love?
Thanks a lot Kim
Amazing. thank you xx
I want to let that I like your meaditation
what kind of self concept would you use for mental and physical health?
thank you! ❤❤❤
I have had several experiences where I would try to manifest the person I was interested at at that time, and I felt like I was feeling good about it but it always ended up with them suddenly getting together with someone else. Would this also be because of my self concept? Maybe I am unconsciously thinking that it won't happen with me so my manifestation ends up taking a turn and the sp gets together with someone else? Has anyone experiences something similiar? I have started becoming a bit afraid of being interested in someone..
Do you want them? If you do just declare your sc affirmations for them also. Actually declare them for every person in the world. You own it. Maybe it's just a normal period and don't take it seriously!
Omg,gamechanger !!!!
Weird thing is, I feel like I can't love people truly or purely. I need to work on that lmao
how much information do you usually use every day? I'm around 15 and I wonder if it's too much?
Thank you.
7:16...on point..
What if you're working on manifesting and reprogramming so much that you become really sensitive to outside content. Is that normal??
Coul someone explain me why I m living in Roller coaster: I can be calm, or good, for a couple of days, and than be depressed for 2,3 days, like all my work was gone. It s a endless circle from November 🙏🙏🙏 and it s exhausting
Hello do you need help why don’t you try dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
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Can you talk more about examples of a good self concept? So we can change permanently?
How to find the beliefs ? And change them ?
Hi Kim, you said it is easy to manifest a sp. my block is my sp was once gay for me but he is now married, though unhappy in his marriage he cannot accept me as gay and he’s staying in his marriage for the sake of his child. How easy is my case? 5 years of manifesting and I’m going nuts.
How to know when to stop affirming self concept?
So if I have mental illness is this healthy for me to do?
So.. last year my SP told me that he can only give me sex, not full commitment ( we live in different countries ).. lately I started self-love and relationship affirmations, because I still have feelings for him, but he keeps coming back with a sexual energy.. our whole communication is around this topic.. I keep on affirming and persisting but my question is “should I cut the whole communication and calmly tell him that this is not how I want us to communicate or should I continue with his flow but also ignoring the 3D?”
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Thank you Kim💖 yes I know this is the truth 💖🌸
It is easy for me to make a boyfriend + of course he wants To be with me, he needs me, he is addicted to me, he just wants to be with me 👱♀️💖
Hello do you need help why don’t you try dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
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I’m fucking done this happened again even tho I know all this shit u know what self concept only it is I knew this change and keep going even when he comes back quick asf. Still self concept ofc he’s chasing me begging me like my fucking #1 fan. Let him I deserve him the man I want. He’s been showing up and my self concept caused what u said to hyper focus. It’s annoying and I’m done. Like come on. It’s fine tho it’ll change fast I’ve experienced months of him doing rite. But the arguments need to be ridden of Bc they are stupid and he’s plain morally wrong. So that had to change with my self concept change thank God. Yeah we love each other our connection is deep we been together official asf like asf. So yeah ima keep it and fucking love myself and it’s who I am I’m amazing and idc what no bitch has to think or say ab it I deserve this man to treat me this way I get what I want. No more tears no more stress no more confusion no more unhealthy shit I’m happy asf
Hello do you need help why don’t you try dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex. Back
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So what about self concept relationship affirmations?shouldn't it be not only about us?
It can be about sp. Like Sp knows how chosen and attractive I am! Etc etc and just declare it
@@Nash_Aurora oh thanks hun
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Second comment!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
This videos is luck
Why do you keep saying „fucking“ on and on so often?? It’s kind of annoying you know..? Although i love what are u saying overall..
This was awesome basically Neville Goddard with cussing to make us feel it’s real 🤌🏿
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Needed this today! Thank you Kim
I appreciate this video. Thank you
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