How to get what you want by Letting Go (life-changing)
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- Опубліковано 14 тра 2024
- Have you ever noticed that the more detached you are from something happening, the more likely it is to happen? In this video, I want to show you that whatever you want, if you were to let go of attachment around that thing, you increase the probable likelihood of that thing actually happening and this will better help you understand the power of vibrational resonance. Join the High Vibe Tribe: aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe
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Hi Aaron, I just joined your High Vibe Tribe, but the photo didn’t update. It says to skip for now. Hmmm. I’ll add a photo after you accept me into your group. Thank you.
By the way, I’ve watched your posts on UA-cam since you started. Love how you made it happen. You’ve always motivated me and you’re so inspiring!! Thank you for everything you do. Also, I have shared with friends/family. Keep up the Super vibes! I’m gonna really apply more of it this year and unfold my life to be in a better space than where it’s been. With your essence and applicationsz I’m sending hugs of vibes, with positive energy your way… ✨✨🪷🧘♀️📿☀️
Where did you do your spiritual training?
Yeah when I focus on t he feeling state that is representative of the things I want that’s when shit happens, takes commitment, trust, and letting go of everything else that isn’t that, which can bring up fear and guilt as it also mean alerting go of what I thought was right and safe
Also I have comedy skits on my channel about my law of attraction mistake that you might like too
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Hey Aaron! Can you make a video around love topic? For example why we catch people that dont choose us, why we dont attract what we want, etc?
I know its a hard topic to talk, because about love, its not only about letting go. Theres other things we cant control. Like spiritual awakenings, lessons that you need to learn before the relationship you want, destiny, our actions, people actions, karma... Infinity things
Something a lot of people don’t realize is you can’t just force yourself to let go. You have to do the inner work to get to actual acceptance. The universe knows if you’ve really let go or you’re faking and still desperately want something
this is what I struggle with 😔
Sometimes, in the beginning, it looks like forcing letting go. Just don't lie to yourself by trying to convince yourself that you're not attached. Be aware and observe your feelings while simultaneously working on yourself and finding productive things to distract your mind from the attachment. Eventually letting go comes naturally.
The more you try to force something, the more resistance you’ll meet. This is universal. That’s why the inside route works best and also why if you depend on the external, you think you’ll need to use force. But if you perfect self-concept, there is no external validation needed, it’s all inside, just like dreams at night.
Force only works in the form of repetition or robotic affirmations as it’s commonly called. You override your rational mind by programming new thoughts habitually.
The best approach i’ve found is getting clear on what you DO want to experience and what you DON’T. Then once you know that, do breathwork to make things 200% easier, and know that you only have to focus on what you DO want completely (besides ensuring your own survival).
You need to breach your rational mind in the beginning but once the floodgates are open, i.e when you get used to the new percetion and your mind gets used to these concepts, it gets easier and easier.
For me, it’s essentially like learning to see the world like a kid again, total freedom and complete internal agency through brazen impudence and quiet command. Stay in the magic.
Really cause I've heard the opposite from people. Even though they didn't really believe it intellectually. If they were able to at least feel like it happened it would eventually happen regardless of "belief" almost described to me as fake it till you make it mentality but with feelings of what you want to happen. It's more about the "feelings" then the beliefs from what I heard 🤷
@@apocalypze83 We’re talking about the same fundamental thing but it can get convoluted when breaking it down. I mentioned robotic affirmations for instance, they do work and they work really well. It is said that if you repeat something 10,000 times; this is when you build a new neural pathway. Which is one of the most major things about manifestation and most people are not going to outright accept such a radically different way of going about life. So they need the repetition, which is basically also how you learn anything new. Conscious to subconscious. Because it is very much a lifestyle. It has been the most transformational journey for me personally.
But techniques don’t manifest, but they all have the same goal; to saturate your mind, to reprogram it using repetition.
Eventually you create something that’s best described as a ”future memory”. It becomes so familliar that you feel like it’s already occured.
It’s trippy. This is also where feeling comes in.
So for me, i’d rather transform my sense of self/self-concept which then automates the feelings associated to that new belief about myself. I reach levels of bliss that make me feel high at this point daily, it’s pretty unbelievable but.. it works lol.
So, while some people can consistently stay in the wish fulfilled, for me i need a practical disciplined system in place that overrides my old ways of thinking consistently.
And also think about it, a belief is way more profound than a feeling, the belief is what creates the framework which the feeling arises in.
So i don’t force myself to chase the feeling, i work with myself by freeing myself, giving myself peace and operating in my own favor. By focusing on my self-concept, the feeling then arises out of that. Sometimes though, the entry point is a specific feeling of freedom or bliss or whatever too. But the focus isn’t just ”feeling”. It’s the belief system behind it for me.
So by repeating something like an affirmation which speaks of the fulfillment of a desire mindlessly, eventually it HAS to become habitual which in itself may bring the feelings or it may not, for me it’s automatic. If i hold a new belief about myself/self-concept, the belief automates the feelings because now it’s ingrained. Which is exactly what happens.
So it just becomes a question of approach, i’ve manifested stuff using visualizations too but they are a lot of effort for me as mentioned. I’d rather just go ”nope i know what i want and what i don’t, so i’ll only give meaning and energy to what i want”.
”Those who stop feeling like prisoners are the one’s that leave the prison” - Edward Art
the law of detachment is the answer for getting everything. it never failed me.
How to do it?
@@pravitt4852focus on self love, put yourself on the pedestal, stay present, enjoy and go about your day to reduce the desperation for that thing you desire. Once we drop the stress and trying and desperation, we automatically put ourselves out of the lack mentality and attract what we want.
easier said than done
I've still never seen a balding man manifest a new hair line. Could you help me with that since it's never failed you?
@@syouknow4175 if you don’t change your mindset, then yeah, that’s how it’ll manifest into your reality.
Actually giving up causes some kind of relief and therefore a high vibrational energy. It's like a dog. When you chase it runs. When you stand still it comes to you eventually.
or even boomerang maybe...?
I won't call it giving up, it would call it reaching a point where the outcome does not matter to you. And you feel happy and content in every way already.
@@duskysapient I agree, but from a personal experience: When I looked for a relationship, nothing seemed to work out, no matter how hard I tried. Once I focused on other areas of my life and stoped thinking about getting into a relationship, I met my current girlfriend. Suddenly other girls seemed to chase me as well. It's really an energy game.
My cat does that haha I always want to cuddle with her so I chase her. But when I’m least expecting, she would come to me!!
I remember when I was borderline obsessed with finding a girlfriend and I craved a woman’s attention. But after countless heartbreaks and no traction I finally “gave up” in the sense where I just said screw it im over it. I started focusing on myself and God and shortly after, my middle school crush came back into my life. Fast forward to today, we’re married with one kid so far. I just need to work on this for money and my business now
How did you just “give up”. Even when I tell myself I give up. The feeling still exists in the back of my mind. It’s why I drink and take other substances. So I can not think about it. How do I stop wanting things I want without external vices?
@@senorfrog5605 Ya that's a valid feeling and question because I struggle with that now with my business. Because I'm a commission based salesman who has to kind of grind in order to make money so like in Aarons videos about detachment, I'm trying to consciously detach myself from money and the outcome but its hard because its like where do I draw the line between grinding it out and detaching myself from it? Because if I completely detach myself from it, obviously I'm not going to make any money. But going back to relationships, I think it was almost like I hit a breaking point where mentally and emotionally I couldn't take it anymore. Also, at that stage of my life I wasn't happy with who I was and I was in a pretty bad place and I think I used the attention from girls as my coping mechanism to feel better about myself. But all of that was a quick fix like putting a bandage over a bullet hole. It wasn't sustainable and I needed to get to the root cause of it. So I started reading more personal development books, listening to all these different podcasts and videos, surrounding myself with the right people and going to church more. So I think the sayings of you have to love yourself first before you can love others and you can't pour out of an empty cup, as overused and corny as they may sound, does hold a lot of truth to it. Because once I started doing that, it was within a year that we got back together. So if I had to answer your question, I think for me it's just constantly reminding myself and having it in the front of my mind that everything will work out/has worked out in my favor so just be patient and control what I can control without forcing things. And also just knowing that whatever happens is meant to happen and it all happens for you not to you. Let the chips fall where they may and have that mental, emotional and I'd even say spiritual clarity and awareness that everything will be alright. I know I was kind of all over the place with that response but hopefully that helps in some way🤝
My marriage sucks and my wife is an avoidant. And now I have to live with it. Maybe I should let it go. But at the same time it's very hard because if I let it go I have this feeling like I'm not being true to myself, I'm not taking responsibility to create something better, and I feel powerless
Let go is really important, forget about the how and leave everything in the loving hands of the All
I feel like a wise friend was talking to me. Thank you
You have saved me thousands of dollars in therapy with videos like these. Can’t thank you enough. 🙏🏻
me too....this is just enough!! Aaron is so great!!🙂
Letting go is really the killer technique of manifestation. I've tried it and it works.🌟🌟 Thanks Aaron for reminding this🙏🏻
How did you let go I want to learn how to do it without forcing myself to detach
@@SouhaAbid acceptance. complete acceptance
Yeah when I focus on t he feeling state that is representative of the things I want that’s when shit happens, takes commitment, trust, and letting go of everything else that isn’t that, which can bring up fear and guilt as it also mean alerting go of what I thought was right and safe
Also I have comedy skits on my channel about my law of attraction mistake that you might like too
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I let go of the energy of wanting an exclusive relationship with someone, and felt really good afterwards. He came back around a month later and wanted an exclusive relationship with me and by then, I liked my freedom of being relationship free. We flip flopped, lol. We both negotiated somewhere in the middle and things are going great. So much better when I let go of the energy of wanting to control what I wanted it to be.
This made me think about this guy I used to like 5 years ago. He never showed me that he liked me back. I kept pushing and pushing to the point where he went to HR on me.
Stay with me, trust me. 😂
When I let him go and not worry about him liking me, I ended up not only him wanting me, but I ended up with a better man. ❤
Haha! Excellent! Thanks for sharing and being so honest. It was probably a good thing you didn't end up with that guy if he was the kind of person to go to HR on you 😅. It just goes to show doesn't it? The minute you let go people do feel it. Glad you ended up with a good man
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Ayyyy! She nailed it
Happy for you 🧡
Same happened with me 😅
True. When I stopped desperately wanting a house of our own, we managed to build it.
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I love the language of the universe ✨️ it feels so pure, loving and supportive.
Its 222 oclock here in canada lol
@@nicolesousa8864read this with 2 likes on your comment...😂
I saw this comment and it said it was posted 22 hours ago. Also there were 2 comments on your post at the time. 😊
And now you have 22 likes
I think the comments on all your videos consistently lack mentions if just how good the humor you sprinkle in is. You’re secretly hilarious
I've learned the power of giving myself permission to fall apart but I give myself a time limit. I become an emotional wreck feeling the feels before pulling myself up by the bootstraps. Then I can make a game plan which instills more confidence and purpose.
Same!
So true! Absolutely so true 💯
Everytime I think I understand this stuff fully this man makes me look at it in a new way. I've had a hard time allowing myself to feel the bad feelings. But it's the only way to let go fully. I appreciate this channel so much!❤❤❤
That’s the most accurate someone ever talked about my actual state of mind - thank you a lot Aaron ! I’ve learned very much !🌸🙏🏼 all love for you and every one who’s reading it
1000% right. I gave up on finding the right one and decided to work on myself. Not a yr or 2 later I met my wife
So happy to hear that sir ❤❤❤❤
Letting Go Works…. Starting letting go of a SP, it was a 5 month process of training my brain to accept and let go of all emotions and attachment to her… and the week I felt completely detached is when love entered… it works… for love… now I’m coming for that abundance 😊 Thanks Aaron from a longtime subscriber’s first of many comments ❤
Can you teach me bro all I want is to find my passion and make a living and find the one
Aaron nailed it! Do what you can and move your focus onto the next thing. Don’t look back and wait for the original thing to come back. If it doesn’t come back - you’ll already be working on other things. Abundance at its best.
When i did your breath work class, in high vibe tribe, my 2 grandmas showed in spirit each one holding my hand they told me to have more fun in life. And that's all i have been hearing you say in your videos. needless to say, i have been following that advice. And life has been way more fun 😅. Thank you for the great experience and great advice 😃 ❤🎉 magical ✨️
Realizing who I thought was my twin flame was only a "faux flame" actually helped me chill my butt out and now I can heal better. That's part of why I'm here after all.❤❤❤❤❤❤
Aaron you are on fire honestly you living your purpose inspires us all to live our purpose ❤️
Yes, letting go is the key to getting what you want. Attachment is the root of all suffering. I've struggled with this many times if it's relationships, outcomes etc.
Don't give up. Good words aaron.
Much Love 🙌❤️
I’ve found that instead of resisting negative thoughts, be present with and acknowledge them… they are sometimes a misguided effort at protection or something similar…
Then it’s easier to let them go…
Not an effort but acknowledge them and they eventually just leave :)😊
“They are sometimes misguided effort at protection to something similar…”
Wow. You said a whole word.
I don’t listen to many people, but I totally resonate with this particular video, that’s exactly how it is…
Almost 2 mill?!? The last time I watched you were almost at a million. Came to check in and was so proud of you that you’re almost at 2 mill now!!
So exciting for you!
Congrats
I know this is true- because I’ve experimented with it. It’s so true. Get busy enjoying your life, pouring into yourself- and let the universe take care of the rest. Simple, but not always easy lol.
“It happens when you are not looking for it” because you align with the vibration of having it!
This means you are not constantly looking for it (for the numbers to increase etc..) you already have a community which you are engaging with.
This is brought up in the process of making New Moon wishes (manifesting) letting go is an important step.
Feel it to heal it, I love this!
Literally been part of community on twitch called "high vibes" and this video is 👍👍👍🔥🔥🔥
The more you feel it, the more you heal it ✨👌✨
Every time I watch a new video I can't wait to hear Aaron's story about his abusive stepmom, job at the womens shoe store and emotionally abusive store manager 🤪🤗😚 p.s. and his controlling ex girlfriend...
🤣 🙌🏻 yes it’s so true ! These details make me laugh but they really help 😅
it's always sneaked in there somewhere. he never forgets to add it into every video. its now boring to listen to. sounds like a broken record to me.
Thank you for talking about the toxic positivity mentality 🙏✨️ I have been taking your advice & putting into practice & I've had really great results. I did actually intentionally Manifest a relationship, but I didn't have a specific person in mind -- I just felt really called, like my man was waiting for me & sure enough he found me the 1st day I went looking. 😌🙌 we've been together since Dec 2023 & very happy. I also manifested a new living situation & new lifestyle by using gratitude & letting go of resistance like you're always saying Aaron. Thank you so much for all your videos, I find them so helpful. 😁
I had a narcissist in my life while my mom was transitioning into the afterlife. He abandoned me and blamed me for it. I have had to reflect on the whole relationship. I learned that they are demons sent here to destroy the empaths. We all have trauma and don't mistreat people! He has helped me grow in ways I never thought possible. I have had to go within, most of my friends left when I needed them most forcing me to rely solely on myself. I am a Scorpio and am always there for people in need bc that is who I am. I learned that I cannot expect people to react as I do bc they are not me!
How have things gone since…the demons? I felt my mom’s husband (S-F) was demonic, took fatal possession of her and then pushed her into the transition to next world. My biggest encounter with Devil. I am guessing she passed the test and angels were there collecting her, on the other side, and hopefully not wrong about that. Best wishes
Recently i had a rare item get lost in the mail, i sat down in front of ebay thinking its gone i`ll never see it, i have to find a similar replacement. The moment i found a listing that was comparable and felt relief, I heard a knock on the front door and a man from the end of my street was holding my parcel that was lost. Fair example of what your saying i reckon mate.
do a white board of this going deeper! great video! love your channel
I really appreciate you sharing this, thank you Aaron❤️
I needed this video 🙏🏻 even tho I’ve seen so many of these videos by Aaron around the same topic there’s always something new that just clicks in my head. A new metaphor or perspective on letting go. I love this channel it has really transformed my life
Aaron, thank you for boldly mentioning Reality Transurfing along with the picture of the cover. It is evident you let go of the pressure to not speak on it. The freedom to speak from your heart shrines through, brother.
hello, may i know why people are pressuring others to not speak on this book? i am completely ignorant about this topic and your comment was the only one i found mentioning the book. Thank you in advance.
A wonderful session Aaron. I absolutely love how the exact right things get conveyed through your delivery. Thank you.
I like to give money on impulse to people who look down and out and are living on the streets. Not as a flex, I don't tell people. And not lots of money, just here n there, if I have cash and I have the impulse. Recently found a rare book at an antique store thats worth 30 grand, its on consignment with Christie's auction house, now. Truth in this.
So I have been actively practicing this as I’ve been watching your videos in this chapter of my life. I’m realizing as the feelings come to the surface and I worked through them, I feel so much better and more confident instead of looking for external validation.
Exactly what I heard in a channeling. It is also my gut feeling to detach from my dreams. With respect.
Making it feel normal is definitely the key! Thanks for this
I needed this today. 😇 thank you ❤
You bring it to fruition so much more faster, and easier - plus it feels so much better to not push, force, or feel stress about it!
Thanks for the reminder, friend. God bless ❤
I appreciate your teachings!
I can't thank you enough brother Aaron for your help 🙌
I love Ur positive energy ❤❤from Malta
I am just learning this. Thank you for your help . ✨💖✨
Aaron. I've spent 5 years working on myself, and I have seen a lot of growth in that time. I've built beliefs, to have them shattered, I've learnt so much, and unlearnt so much. To say I have been dedicated is an understatement. I'm in a lot of pain right now, trying to heal from what I believe to be my deepest wound. The physical pain that the emotional pain causes is almost unbearable. Sometimes it seems easier to just turn back, and avoid it, but once you see there are ways out....how can you?
I just wanted to say thank you. It's been such a long road, and sometimes when it feels like the work doesn't quite yield adequate enough results to continue, your videos have provided me with new hope.
Amazing video, one of your best! 🙏✨💛
This is absolutely TRUE!
This video comes at the right time for me! In my personal life. Thanks!
Yes, please, to the whiteboard!
Excellent video, great presentation Aaron.
Aaron thank You . I love your Videos , Big hug and Sending love from Germany.❤️
Let it go but when it comes accept it! with gratitude.
Aaron, thank you 🙏🏼
Gentle approach=abundance
I dont chase i attract wt belongs to me will simply find me ❤💫🌟
Man spittting facts
I always believed this too,it's true,spontenaety❤
The insight on detachment as a means to manifest desires powerfully highlights how letting go can actually bring us closer to our goals. This approach not only reduces resistance but also aligns us more naturally with our aspirations. 🌟
When the scary unknown is what you allow yourself to be naturally worthy of... and what you naturally are worthy of is the scary unknown... then anything is possible.
thank you. share more of this please. thank you and love
❤ profound as usual
Yes please do a video using the whiteboard!! ❤
My spirit kept rising out of my body and going back in
Yes draw it in another video, Aaron!
So good topic,thanksss!!🌹💜🌜✨😊👌
Its where we get the term, "out of nowhere"... 🙏
I wouldn't think negative thoughts ever since I suffered with psychosis I developed a fear or stress anxiety anything that would make me feel negative things .... Now I'm coming down of anti depressants because I'm 5 years free of depression . These videos are helping unbelievable amounts
But it’s out of my hands! I can’t be detached! It’s all in my mind.. even if I try not to think about it.. I am actually thinking of it in a way by “not thinking about it”! 🙄
Great video
Yes of course!!!! I want you to do the whiteboard drawing. Everything stems from childhood and family
Aaron thanks this is great and Soo much knowledge, attachment and reflection ✨✨ allow and resistant finding connection to self, I am my own medicine! I am enough ❤✨🌈👽.
Freedom
feel it to heal it. dont suppress it. the body remembers
Thank you .
I like your hair!
I love lightworkers like you,I had Stuart McKay,he's now called peaceatwork,he's still a practioner in Perth now,Australia
Most gracious Father, he has been so merciful to me I exhalt his name now and everyday of my life. The spoken words of this channel has been a daily motivation for me and my family and I am also grateful for the opportunity to financial freedom. God is indeed wonderful, $48k monthly to my portfolio is no joke. Thank you lord ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
Wow this is a massive return! How did you do it please. Can you explain, I’m in dire need of solutions to my problems my rent is almost due and we’ve been living off loans and nothing moves exactly the way we planned. I’ll be glad if you respond thanks.
Well *Ms Maria Luisa Abrams* has been my helper
She’s quite good on the digital market sphere
I gave her my savings of 8000 together with my friend and she helped in opening a brokerage account for me which turned out to be the best step. Tell me if His grace has not be showering upon me
YES!!! That's exactly her name so many people have recommended highly about her and am just starting with her from Brisbane Australia 🇦🇺
This video is 💎🔥. Definitely resonate with what you are saying. We have some things in common. I worked in Bloomingdale’s with women’s shoes and then leveled up throughout 9 years. I started understanding these concepts back then and have manifested being on TMZ with Celebrities with my Artwork. Celebrities like Cara Delevingne, Rihanna, Dj Khaled and more.
Watching your content and other related content gives me the confidence to touch on these subjects of Quantum Physics and Subconscious Mind and Laws of the Universe.
Learned about manifesting money through becoming the value and the being in alignment of that frequency and giving value to others.
Born on 222 (Master Number)
💪🏽 🔥🔥🔥
Happy Manifesting!
- Andrew Gonzalez aka Perspektiv
I think I would say the things thinking I’d believe it and would do a 180 from another UA-camr
She never talked about going within or feeling your feelings and I’m finally understanding ♥️
Breathwork so powerful let it make to be released resistence storage!!👍🙏😮
Thank you 💜
When you were saying where is love where is love where is love I was on our screened in porch at a very odd time (normally I would not be home) and my partner of 15 years drove by the driveway in a truck I’d never seen before (he was home at a very odd time) picking up something from home for his work in a vehicle from his workplace. The odds I’d see him at the exact moment you said those words would normally be super low. 😂
I haven’t been looking for love for 10 years. Unsurprisingly no one has come along or been interested. With the same logic should someone who wants a job not apply to any and hope someone knocks on their door?
That was my train of thought. What if you get to the point of no desire. Do you just sit until you rot?
I'm not always good at meditating in the normal way but I do get lost on purpose sometimes. It brings the metaphorical find your way home to a more tangible feeling. You can't rush when you get lost because you'll only get more lost. It makes me take my time to calm down and I think I'm basically doing walking meditation at that point. By the time I finally find my way back, I've already met new people, find hole in the wall treasures, and find peace/acceptance. I find home by finding myself. The journey can be scary at times but so is life.
Facts! That’s exactly how I feel🙂 thank you☮️💟✝️
This is true but it has to be genuine… I became sick of wanting someone I told her I want her to be happy and I hope she finds love… this made her question herself. If she comes around great if not so what
You can find LOVE in Church... but you gotta be there First for Jesus. Lots of ppl are shopping for a spouse at church but they are doing it out of a means to an end. So it wont work if your Heart isnt in the right place.
do that board thing aaron ❤
✨🪷🙏Thank you Aaron
Thanks. It’s something I searched last night. 🙏🏻💙
Let’s go awaken Aaron
Always awesome. I've been doing this and it works.. it's crazy
Yes please white chalkboard 😊
I broke someone's boundaries, and compared him with another.
YES, Please. Family Whiteboard Story. ;)
I stopped looking for love 10 years ago. A year ago a casual acquaintance came forward and professed his love for me. We were together for a year and his actions did not match his words of love. Disrespect was the main theme. I dropped him. Now I'm back on square one not looking.