Spotting the Signs of a Covert Narcissist: 10 Early Warning Signs of the Covert Narcissist

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  • @popmonika
    @popmonika 25 днів тому +11

    Here are my ten...
    1) disregard for personal boundaries. 2) you feel uncomfortable around them.
    3) seems to have different personalities around different people.
    4) likes for you to only communicate with them.
    5) always seems to be everywhere
    6) can't self manage.
    7) has to be around someone all of the time.
    8) doesn't take responsibility for their mistakes.
    9) isn't sincere.
    10) seems to have no sense of self (ie appearance changes allot, shifts in personality).

  • @paco9694
    @paco9694 24 дні тому +8

    TOTALLY TOTALLY TOTALLY
    It's sickening!!!
    My husband!!!
    I have a permanent protection order against him after he started attacking me. When he was taken away I found a affidavit that his previous wife had wrote. He tried to murder her. A lawyer told me to run a CBI on him. 6 pages of domestic assault, drugging a victim, attempted murder in the 1st degree. Stalking, so much stuff!!! I had zero idea!!! He's currently stalking me. He acts so meek and mild, soft spoken and totally the victim. He's super crazy and it's so freaky!!!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому

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  • @whitneysawyer483
    @whitneysawyer483 25 днів тому +8

    "Totally" "Energy vampires" "So sick" "Soul suckers" "On track" I notice they stare a lot. I like that you pointed out the gas-lighting and making a person feel like there hair is falling out and going crazy. They always have illnesses. So true! The stalking is really odd...

  • @fifilafleur5555
    @fifilafleur5555 25 днів тому +10

    You have just described my dad’s third wife and their daughter (half sister). This is exactly how they behave around me. My dad’s wife calls her daughter her “mini me.” I call them “the Marsha’s.” They have been absolutely vicious to me.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому +1

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  • @tonimarie6809
    @tonimarie6809 25 днів тому +6

    "I did it for you. I thought you wanted me to. I wanted to make it easier for you."

  • @keeyta333
    @keeyta333 25 днів тому +7

    The staring is always so creepy. You can feel it like a sixth sense. I’ll think I’m alone and then get a chill up my spine and catch them staring 😬

    • @whitneysawyer483
      @whitneysawyer483 25 днів тому +1

      I have dealt with this to. Makes you feel so uncomfortable, it's also unnerving.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому +1

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    • @keeyta333
      @keeyta333 24 дні тому +2

      @@whitneysawyer483 it does! It’s so unsettling!!

  • @LiveforHim73
    @LiveforHim73 25 днів тому +5

    Yep, flying monkey doesn’t see it.
    But recently was revealed when a one on one visit blew up . The covert blew it!!

  • @Varykino1917
    @Varykino1917 25 днів тому +3

    This describes my mother, my daughter, and my ex-husband. I think that you're right - they are often subtle so you don't have your guard up all the time and that allows them to make inroads into your life. Once they get in, they look for ammunition and for ways to sabotage you. Your biggest mistake is to be vulnerable around them. Once again Rebecca, you nailed it with this one. I'm saving this to my educational vids.

    • @sherrydickie8459
      @sherrydickie8459 24 дні тому

      My daughter and ex husband too! Now she withholds my granddaughter 💔

  • @dsoler7563
    @dsoler7563 23 дні тому +2

    Totally!!! 14 years, just woke up!

  • @arianasha
    @arianasha 23 дні тому +1

    BEC YOU COVERED IT ALL..
    thank you!

  • @user-rh5fd4pj9n
    @user-rh5fd4pj9n 25 днів тому

    Love your channel. I have had the same thing happen in several of my legal cases in the past 20yrs. It can be terrifying for sure.

  • @LiveforHim73
    @LiveforHim73 25 днів тому +1

    Thanks!

  • @DawsonDave-YZF-R6
    @DawsonDave-YZF-R6 24 дні тому

    So sick ! 👍

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому +1

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    • @DawsonDave-YZF-R6
      @DawsonDave-YZF-R6 23 дні тому

      @@RebeccaZungEsq Thank You 💗

  • @tamarap387
    @tamarap387 13 днів тому

    TOTALLY! Lent my brother a substantial amount of money years ago and no matter how many times I'd bring it up, he'd literally just walk out of the room. To this day, no monies paid back. Instead he dismissed and justified it at one point saying I wasn't loyal to the family because I had moved away and never returned! I'm OBVIOUSLY NOT allowed to leave home, find work elsewhere, get married and stay in the area where my husband worked....as an independent adult! This brother is 8 yrs younger than me!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  6 днів тому

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  • @nebeln
    @nebeln 24 дні тому +1

    My dad had a gut feeling about my child’s mom that was not good. He couldn’t put the finger on what it really was but she should always pretend to know everything whatever they talked about. And she has also started whitness against me in a trial where she should be my eyewhitness so my lawyer had to tell her to stop talk and start whitness for me.
    She also registered her to dating sites ”to get my attention” because she said to me ”I didn’t care about her and distanced me from her” she said. But in fact it was her who distanced me and blamed me for it. Probably some type of gaslightning.
    When she broke up with me she ghosted me and took our 16month child with her and accused me for domestic violence, filed a complaint to the police, started a custody dispute directly after the ghosting. All these events within just some days. Before it happened I didn’t see it coming. As a lighting bolt from a clear sky.
    In the custody dispute she constantly accusted me for being limitless to boundaries and being an alcoholic.
    So yes my childs mom must be a covert narc. Or having a an unspecified personal disorder accompanying this.

  • @lindavincent678
    @lindavincent678 18 днів тому

    You meme it Physical, emotional, psychological, neglect, you name it. I believe I have seen it all. Arrested twice, both times came back lack of evidence. I live day to day with him, I start out ok, then I fill I am being manipulated everyday. I fill numb, lost, fill like a burden. He tell lies to his daughter. He moved out two months, he was fine I was not. I am in therapy for trauma. How can a person be abuusive for over eight years. He has been trying to be good, I don’t understand. He has more excuses it now makes me ill. How can I care for this person when he lied about many things, and not pay for what he did. There are several statements on tape admitting that he did the damage. My Gut tells me….with hold for 24 years. I just found out one 1/2 years ago. He has moved money out of state

  • @sherrydickie8459
    @sherrydickie8459 24 дні тому

    Yes! You have perfectly described my grown daughter and my ex husband (her dad). So she either learned it from him, or inherited it from him. Besides all the things you listed that they withhold, they withhold their children! My daughter created a smear campaign against my husband (her step dad) and now withholds my granddaughter. Looking back, I'd catch her watching and staring like you said. She is always triangulating. She was always jealous that my granddaughter loved me. Again you nailed it!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому

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  • @bkb2012
    @bkb2012 16 днів тому

    Totally. It was all tucked inside of 1 person.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  6 днів тому

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  • @cherylbagshaw5151
    @cherylbagshaw5151 18 днів тому

    Everything!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  6 днів тому

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  • @user-rh5fd4pj9n
    @user-rh5fd4pj9n 25 днів тому

    Totally, 100% Every single behaviors in your list is the spouse in my brother's marriage.

  • @victoriafaith1820
    @victoriafaith1820 23 дні тому

    I am currently in an situation with my 'adopted mother'.. I can not even relate to most humans.. everyone I've ever been close to are all under the control of this narcissist woman..

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  21 день тому

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  • @sandywatts2649
    @sandywatts2649 24 дні тому

    Totally!

  • @lindavincent678
    @lindavincent678 18 днів тому

    He told me many things

  • @grecannamari
    @grecannamari 25 днів тому +1

    Totally 👍

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому

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  • @cassandraandrews6656
    @cassandraandrews6656 23 дні тому

    TOTALLY!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  21 день тому

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  • @Sherl454
    @Sherl454 15 днів тому

    In Therapy and Insured is what it is be Prescribed just saying 😮.....period

  • @susan6390
    @susan6390 25 днів тому

    I have totally 😊

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому

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  • @dianamiller2947
    @dianamiller2947 24 дні тому

    I have two former bosses who fit this description perfectly. One died, and i strongly suspect most of her family disowned her at the end. The other is apparently flying high with his new company, feasting on his current supply with his flying monkeys at his side.

  • @michaelcouchman2820
    @michaelcouchman2820 25 днів тому +1

    Totally

  • @sylviebigger4939
    @sylviebigger4939 24 дні тому

    Totally.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому

      By following Rebecca Zung's 4-part plan, you can win when dealing with narcissism! Learn more >> slay.rebeccazung.com/outsmart-narc ✨

  • @tomhill31
    @tomhill31 24 дні тому

    God, yes! My ex would do the staring. I used to pretend I was on my phone, but I'd have my camera app open, seeing her just staring... unsettling.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому

      By following Rebecca Zung's 4-part plan, you can win when dealing with narcissism! Learn more >> slay.rebeccazung.com/outsmart-narc ✨

  • @kre8504
    @kre8504 24 дні тому

    They treat everyone else so nice, so if the target says something, they are looked @ with unbelief. Because the narcissist puts off an air of innocence, as though they are some kind of angel. In the end of life, they will be a literal hells angel, in eternal pain & torement. You may think they get away with it, however they aren’t going to want to pay the price for their evil deeds!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому

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  • @nebeln
    @nebeln 24 дні тому

    A combination of a post-it note, do what I do (in the beginning) and a leech is my experience.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому

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  • @chariblackwood5056
    @chariblackwood5056 24 дні тому

    Oh my mother 🙄 the desperate attempts! Totally!

  • @serenityhill5695
    @serenityhill5695 23 дні тому

    All that‼️‼️‼️‼️😊💕i have had my experience too, #Totallyenergy vampire.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  21 день тому

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  • @suelindsey2295
    @suelindsey2295 24 дні тому

    Totally my husband

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  21 день тому

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  • @Sherl454
    @Sherl454 15 днів тому

    Yea,, h3 even said a prayer I t him to remember they act like their memories is gone( he did the that 🙏🏼th....0

  • @Kate.Sangalang
    @Kate.Sangalang 25 днів тому

    Yeah, with the adulation thing, also my gut instinct tells me that they are copying me in terms of how I interact with people hoping they would get the same admiration and respect. What would be the term for this behavior?

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому

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  • @lindavincent678
    @lindavincent678 18 днів тому

    I would be texting for one hour

  • @fraserwood3314
    @fraserwood3314 22 дні тому

    My wife goes silent for weeks the longest was 2 months.
    She calls its withdrawing because she feels i don't show enough affection.
    So now I'm thinking is it me?

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  21 день тому

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  • @SamStevens-bg7mx
    @SamStevens-bg7mx 22 дні тому

    What about neglectful narcissist?>

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  21 день тому

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  • @Kate.Sangalang
    @Kate.Sangalang 25 днів тому

    9.5 out of 10 my coworker exhibits. Does this mean they are a covert narcissist?

    • @lori5613
      @lori5613 24 дні тому

      It means get another job😅

  • @MYKEYCARD
    @MYKEYCARD 25 днів тому +2

    🙏💜🌍💜🌍💜🌍💜🌍💜🌍💜🙏

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому +1

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  • @tinadailey3934
    @tinadailey3934 23 дні тому

    I think for me it's the emotional vampire thing, I literally feel like he's sucking my soul right out my body my grown son , by my first marriage, well,he says the same thing . Now I know it's because he's actually sitting there with silent rage inside his heart for me and my son, also I am a empath, I was born that way ,an no I disagree I'm not insecure about myself. I have the normal about of security about myself. He's a complete jerk , never wrong, gaslighting me and my son, his favorite flying monkey,get this, is my mother,he's actually turned my mom against us. He's hated his own mom his whole life. Hates I mean he hates her, it's so sickening 🤢 btw his dad was a judgemental person a perfectionist,an a narcissist. I think it's passed thru DNA 🧬🧬🧬🧬 somebody pray for US 😢

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  21 день тому

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  • @selenafreeman5856
    @selenafreeman5856 24 дні тому

    Energy Vampires

  • @Sherl454
    @Sherl454 15 днів тому

    It, is Cause my mom was if only I was 20 yrs Younger,,,, 0 no be Careful What you Wish 4,,,,, 😢

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  6 днів тому

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  • @myopinion8551
    @myopinion8551 25 днів тому +1

    😌☺️🤗🤗🤗💜💚🥰🥰🥰

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому

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  • @suelindsey2295
    @suelindsey2295 23 дні тому

    Energy vampire

  • @anneyoung2310
    @anneyoung2310 24 дні тому +1

    The covert can bring years of death, especially those who play the Jesus card. Narcissism and Christianity are wholly incompatible, yet I know numerous "spiritual narcissists."

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому +1

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    • @anneyoung2310
      @anneyoung2310 23 дні тому

      @@RebeccaZungEsq I'm pretty sure it's happening. No apologies necessary. One thing is, though.

  • @LiveforHim73
    @LiveforHim73 25 днів тому +1

    They wanted to be a rock star or famous preacher where everyone adores him. Grandiosity ideas of himself. Has to be in control. Women are beneath him.
    Hints at needing this or that!
    Grudges!
    Jealous! Not happy for other’s success unless it’s his own kids.
    Fake,,, will the real person stand up.., yikes!
    Gaslight into fires!
    His whole life is spin..
    I need some fresh air, really!

  • @RoB-dp1cm
    @RoB-dp1cm 24 дні тому

    Totally!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  24 дні тому

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  • @marcialane6955
    @marcialane6955 24 дні тому +1

    Totally