Bedroom cleaning motivation for neurodivergent people

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  • Опубліковано 13 сер 2023
  • In this video I transform my chaotic bedroom into a cozy and calming safe space, whilst we have a chat about some of the day to day issues neurodivergent people can face. I really hope you enjoy. 😊

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  • @NaturalMedicineAcadamy
    @NaturalMedicineAcadamy 6 місяців тому +6

    I heard someone say before that depression is nothing more than our bodies screaming for "deep rest". So now if I am low in my moods I dont say I am depressed, I say I am in need of deep rest. And that really shifts my entire experience. Thanks for sharing your journey. Autistic here and I struggle with keeping a perfectly clean home. What helps me is most days I do one load of launry and one load of dishes. This helps prevent it from becoming too overwhelming to tackle.

  • @Deverox77
    @Deverox77 9 місяців тому +15

    I want you to know you have helped my mental state SO much. I had cancer and my house fell into ruins. Cleaning a year worth of dirt and grime from a kid and four cats was more than i could handle with my anxiety, but thanks to your pep talks I've gotten it done and am on top of it. I am even making a phone call to the dentist myself this week. 😆 Thanks for sharing your struggles

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +3

      Oh my goodness, this has absolutely made my day!! Well done for getting all of that done!!! And I’m so sorry to hear you faced a battle like that? How are you feeling now? X

    • @Deverox77
      @Deverox77 9 місяців тому +5

      @remiclog I'm much better now, thanks! A lot weaker than I was but I am alive and healing and that's all that matters. Keep up the wonderful videos. I watch every single one. :)

  • @lawi5335
    @lawi5335 6 місяців тому +4

    This has got to be the realest most down to earth and relatable cleaning motivation video channel Ive ever come across.

  • @garlicgalore
    @garlicgalore 9 місяців тому +4

    Ive always like the saying "so far you've survived 100% of your worst days." It reminds me that the way I am seems to have worked so far!
    Love your videos, Remi! ❤️

  • @starrpatrick2905
    @starrpatrick2905 9 місяців тому +4

    Thank you, Remi.
    I have lymes disease and didn’t know I’ve had it since I was 4. It makes a lot of sense now. And when people would be upset at me forgetting so much all the time or having anxiety/ depression issues or just go off into a stare, it was so hard and embarrassing. But I couldn’t help it. My brain and body have been sick for so long from parasites and bacteria and lymes disease.
    When big stressful things happen my body can sometimes shut down and the nerves in my legs make it difficult to walk. My legs both go to sleep and I can’t feel them.
    I say all this to say, your videos are so encouraging.
    I’m married now with two littles and I’m so in love. They bring me so much joy and I’m so thankful to God for them. They don’t mind mama is forgetful or stares off or has to have a couch day sometimes.
    I love to see the love for your family. It’s so sweet. Thank you for being an encouraging person in my day.

  • @user-dg4tf2zh8w
    @user-dg4tf2zh8w 9 місяців тому +6

    My name is Nancy, I wanted you to know how much I admire your work and honesty. I love the way you make your videos, cause they are organized and right to the point. Your videos are so much better than the others on UA-cam. They start talking about themselves or they are shouting at you from the TV.
    I've never been diagnosed with ADHD, but I suspect I have it, cause I do all the things you said : start working on something, and then I get easily distracted and don't finish the first one. I love how you show how to make the list and follow through until it all gets done.
    I'm always making lists and sticking notes on the front door so I know what to get.
    My companion died 5 weeks ago and now I need to go through her stuff. I will need to go through all my stuff so I can move back to my homeland and take care of my mom.
    In short I need to declutter and then pack for the move.
    Thank you for all your advice and tips, continue making those videos, I'm sure I'm not the only one that enjoys learning with you.
    Take care and may God's blessings get sprinkled on you and your family.
    Nancy Ruiz - Garcia

  • @joysmith9185
    @joysmith9185 9 місяців тому +87

    My daughter has dyslexia and also struggles making phone calls, she's in her 40's and occasionally I make 'officia'l calls for her ❤

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +31

      I absolutely love this, what a great mum! Your daughter is lucky to have you. My mum would sometimes make calls for me well into my 20’s and I think she still would now if I asked her ❤️

    • @dearayleen
      @dearayleen 9 місяців тому +15

      Oh you're such an awesome mom!! I've been struggling with selective mutism, stuttering and a form of speaking dyslexia and I'd always make my mom or my husband make phone calls for me. Now I do them mostly myself (finally, I'm 28), but every once in a while when I just feel like I can't, I still ask my husband:)

    • @elckefahwehinmi1466
      @elckefahwehinmi1466 9 місяців тому +1

      @@remiclogwhy only 4 min

    • @elckefahwehinmi1466
      @elckefahwehinmi1466 9 місяців тому

      @@remicloglove it
      And you are lovely

    • @joannehickok4653
      @joannehickok4653 9 місяців тому +2

      you're a great mom. My mother was to busy.

  • @swright5081
    @swright5081 9 місяців тому +6

    Thank you for being so clear, kind, loving, and pragmatic. This was important -- the combo of hearing this message while you brought coziness to chaos ... it made me cry. I'm over 60. My oldest is 31. I know there are times he wishes I'd still make those calls or deal with paperwork he finds daunting. It wasn't until my kids were getting diagnosed, that I understood I had the same issues.
    And still struggle with now.
    What I could do for my kids, empowered and strong, I struggle to do for myself.
    What I love about the service you provide through your videos is you model how it doesn't matter how bad it gets, one can deal with it.
    The message about being hyper vigilant in general because you know there will be an error sooner or later...
    So exhausting, isn't it?
    What I reallllly loved about this video is the reminder that rooms always get messy again, clothes always need washed (and then dried, and then folded, and then put away!), etc.
    But it all can come to rights again.
    And does.
    That's what I'm taking with me for the rest of this day.
    Thank you again.

  • @ciara.eason13
    @ciara.eason13 6 місяців тому +5

    I suffer with anxiety and depression, so seeing this video warmed my heart and made me happy.

  • @frogandfudge
    @frogandfudge 9 місяців тому +6

    Thank you! You're the first person to explain why making telephone calls and appointments is so difficult sometimes.

  • @annageorge4490
    @annageorge4490 4 місяці тому +5

    I have autism and suffereing quite bad with my mental health and i come across your channel and its actually encouraging me too do even a little bit a day x

  • @michaelsmom1199
    @michaelsmom1199 8 місяців тому +5

    i was in such a slump this weekend. so sad, home alone looking for a way to get up and get some rooms organized. your videos are so kind. im practicing talking to myself the way you talk to yourself. thank you.

  • @IndigoSun77
    @IndigoSun77 7 місяців тому +6

    Sending you love, thank you for posting this. I needed this. Adhd autism, anxiety, and multiple autoimmune diseases completely cripple me. My bedroom is probably about 10x worse realistically. I actually thought about hiring someone to help. I am scared to because I'm afraid they won't, or they will charge me more than I have. What you spoke about is me in so many ways. Simple little things are hard, almost impossible for me to accomplish. I feel I have people out there in the world who know what I feel and I appreciate their stories and I appreciate you sharing your home to help us.

  • @nicolavedovelli621
    @nicolavedovelli621 6 місяців тому +3

    I’m so glad I found this channel! So many other cleaning motivational channels tend to leave me feeling inadequate and lazy, but you leave me feeling empowered and happy. So a big thank you to you ❤

  • @crischeleroberson832
    @crischeleroberson832 8 місяців тому +4

    I’m not here to judge….I just want to say that I’m a 48 year old African American woman and yes I’M JUST LIKE YOU! Thank u for your honesty and Thank u for sharing your struggles. I have a very poor relationship with my health care team. I’m forgetful, I miss appointments, I forget to pick up meds, I’m busy, I’m confused and I’m so flawed. I hate the way I am, and those disapproving tones on the other line PISS ME OFF. We are not perfect and neither are they.

  • @melaniapina6368
    @melaniapina6368 9 місяців тому +8

    Dear Remi, I recently found out about your channel, and I’m loving your videos. Thanks for forgiving me and everyone here for our everyday imperfections, it really feels good to hear someone actually saying those words of forgiveness and encouragement, like you do. And let me just say, you are really doing great managing to do all the things you do with work and two kids, I’m very impressed! Your videos are pleasant, very well executed and edited, it’s clear that you are putting some serious effort in them and the result is great. You really motivated me in my everyday tidying up routine, I have just one daughter but my house gets messy too! Thanks a lot for everything and forgive my english, I’m from Italy. Keep up the good work!

  • @kieraalighieri9138
    @kieraalighieri9138 9 місяців тому +3

    Your wisdom and kindness (and humor) never fail to bring a smile! You are the best, Remi!

  • @ladysparkymartin
    @ladysparkymartin 9 місяців тому +5

    I hope you take thi in a positive way, but you walking on the bed is so refreshing. I wish I could do that. And I haven’t been to the dentist or doctor in more than two years. It’s traumatic for some reason. Anyway, I hope you keep taking care of yourself. It can be the hardest. 💞

  • @BlueBird-nf2gp
    @BlueBird-nf2gp 6 днів тому

    I put off phone calls also. It does help to remind myself the other person is just doing a job and they’re not thinking about you for more than 2 minutes.

  • @nicolehenderson6746
    @nicolehenderson6746 9 місяців тому +4

    Yes! Clean sheets, shower and clean jammies is the best. I love your content! Makes me feel better about my lived in home

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому

      Thank you so much! Pleased you’re enjoying the videos ☺️

  • @sofiabrandt7947
    @sofiabrandt7947 9 місяців тому +4

    I love how you doing VoiceOver without music it’s much more relaxing for my brain❤

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +3

      I love to hear this! Thank you! ❤️

  • @susangomolla577
    @susangomolla577 6 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for these videos. I am retired, and no longer have the children to pick up after. My struggles are still the same though, with my anxiety over phone calls and things to do that I put off. And when you put them off the anxiety becomes worse. It feels better knowing that I'm not the only one.
    Your videos help me to get motivated and to feel better about myself.
    When I have a really hard time, I make myself put away or clean just 10 things and then it usually gets me to cleaning more.❤

    • @JKMA818
      @JKMA818 6 місяців тому

      Doing something over doing nothing will help with the mess

    • @JKMA818
      @JKMA818 6 місяців тому

      If anyone has advice on getting to laundry done it's hard I have to go out to wash

  • @amhall1970
    @amhall1970 9 місяців тому +6

    The lantern light is so pretty

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому

      I know, I love it! 🥰

  • @funkidsfunthings3742
    @funkidsfunthings3742 9 місяців тому +3

    Nice to hear someone talking about the anxiety of making calls..my family doesn't understand it and neither do I but there it is..lol

  • @sharondetrick950
    @sharondetrick950 10 днів тому +1

    I still have problems making phone calls. I have to nerve myself up, sometimes for days or even weeks for phone calls that take a minute and when they're done, such a sense of relief. Why is it like this when I know that sense of relief will come? I don't know.

  • @aidasjournal
    @aidasjournal 8 місяців тому +5

    I have to tell you that I felt so seen by this video. I have adhd and yes I do take Ritalin and it helps me a lot, but I am still very forgetful and flimsy and people don’t understand how much it hurts me when I try my best and I forget something important. Being nd isn’t easy and it felt like no one could ever understand me, but you described it so well and I felt so good that I had to tell you ❤ may Allah bless you. You are a huge blessing and so very helpful. Thank you for sharing and posting and doing all this ❤

  • @juliebrooke6099
    @juliebrooke6099 9 місяців тому +4

    I have to write a list on paper and actually tick things off as I do them. It’s satisfying to see progress and it’s a physical reminder. Love your videos Remi.

  • @MKMK022
    @MKMK022 9 місяців тому +5

    Its not much, but everything you said in this video is so similar to me, and I find it so comforting that you share these things so we can relate. Thank you

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +2

      Oh my goodness, no it means the world, thank you! ❤️

  • @jennifercalhoun1366
    @jennifercalhoun1366 9 місяців тому +3

    I just wanted to let you know that I listen to your videos while I clean. It motivates and calms me while I tackle my own messy house. Thank you so much!

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +1

      This makes me so happy! You’re more than welcome, and thank you!

  • @vivianhudacek1556
    @vivianhudacek1556 9 місяців тому +4

    What helps me keep from making even bigger messes is advice from Dana K. White from the channel A Slob Comes Clean. She says over & over again: “Take it there now!” I’ve always been so distracted that I’d set things down not even noticing I was doing it, or I’d feel so overwhelmed that I’d think, “I’ll just do it later.” I’ve made progress, just as you have. Keep up the self-care.

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +1

      Love this! Thank you so much for noticing that I’ve made progress! And well done on yours! ☺️

  • @mayra_m767
    @mayra_m767 9 місяців тому +2

    Tomagotchi and sims!yes!!! And making calls being a trigger is such a relatable thing for me.

  • @gilliekins
    @gilliekins 6 місяців тому +5

    I've said this a few times now, but you are amazing. You really are. ❤

  • @dorothywatson4440
    @dorothywatson4440 9 місяців тому +3

    Hi Remi...So glad to see a recent video. I'm 80 but I can sooo relate to feeling anxious and putting off phone calls not only to make appointments but even social contact phone calls. I go through stages when I too want to be a hermit and just shut out the outside world. Im chuckling as I write this because a lot of people likely think at my ripe old age I should have EVERYTHING together but I don't. Life is a work in progress even when one is older. Thank you for you. Fondly, Dorothy.

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому

      Aww I love this comment, thank you so much Dorothy! ❤️

  • @AspiringAngel
    @AspiringAngel 9 місяців тому +3

    I dont mind the phone calls too much, but i am horrible about keeping appts. I will reschedule all of them at least once. They do sound condescending when i do show up. They have no idea. I love watching your videos. Dont beat yourself up too bad. Im 54 and with depression, PTSD, and anxiety that started 4 years ago, I have trouble turning my head "off" sometimes just to feed a dog and 2 cats. On those days, my husband (a godsend) helps me!

  • @jenyoung6681
    @jenyoung6681 9 місяців тому +3

    Hi Remi. This is the first time I’ve commented. I found your channel a few months ago and binge watched all your videos and shorts. Then I watched them over again whilst cleaning my own house, which has gotten a bit out of control over the last couple of years. I just wanted to say thank you. I love the motivation of watching your spaces transform, and I also love listening to your stories. You are funny, don’t take yourself too seriously, you’re honest, and unapologetically you. I also love how you manage to tell people to take a hike, yet in the nicest way possible, and whilst still validating the struggle of being neurodivergent and keeping a clean home. As someone with ADHD who actually really likes to clean and tidy, I struggle so much with keeping up the momentum, and with other people’s expectations of what should and should not be possible. I can only imagine what it must be like for those who struggle and hate cleaning. You’ve been a huge catalyst for me in accepting who I am, and for not feeling guilty about struggling with things that NT people can’t even fathom, nevermind sympathise with. There is a lot of ADHD content out there, but yours is the most honest yet affirming I have found. Every time I see a video from you I smile in anticipation. Thank you so much for putting your life online and subjecting yourself to criticism from so many people who are blissfully ignorant of what it means to have executive functioning problems. You’ve said a few times that if you only help one person see that they aren’t alone, then it’s worth it for you. Well, I am one person, and I am so thankful. And I’m sure I’m not the only one.
    ❤❤❤

    • @jenyoung6681
      @jenyoung6681 9 місяців тому +1

      I got distracted…I was originally commenting to say: I don’t like calling either. I always talk too much and over share. Also I remember to do things when it’s the middle of the night, or late on. Now I email instead. My doctor has an email address for patients, but even if they don’t, your dentist might be happy for you to email in if you explain your difficulties. xx

  • @CadetRedShirt
    @CadetRedShirt 9 місяців тому +2

    there was a beautiful short story from Sandra Cisneros called "eleven" that really highlights that feeling of "i revert back to my teenage years" thing you said. Its opening lines about the ages of people really resonated with me, and I totally have the same issues of anxiety of being on the phone and stuff as well

  • @shirleybrewer8921
    @shirleybrewer8921 9 місяців тому +3

    I don’t like making phone calls either! Glad I’m not the only one. And I’m 67 years old, you’d think I’d be over it by now! LOL!

    • @edithengel2284
      @edithengel2284 9 місяців тому

      76 and still don't like it!

    • @cobyn_tv123
      @cobyn_tv123 9 місяців тому +1

      If that is you in your profile picture Shirley, you do not look anywhere near 67! You look gorgeous 😍 what's your secret?

    • @shirleybrewer8921
      @shirleybrewer8921 9 місяців тому +1

      @@cobyn_tv123 thank you! Good genes, I guess! And I always say my fat fills in the wrinkles! And it’s a tiny pic! LOL!

  • @ColorMyRainbow55
    @ColorMyRainbow55 7 місяців тому +4

    I came across your Chanel the other day. I absolutely love your videos. Your voice is so soothing. Watching your videos have helped me so much already. You make me feel super calm, and like i can take a breathe. I feel so much better after watching your videos. I feel so relaxed and zen. You also make me feel like I am not alone. I struggle with my mental health a lot and it makes it hard to clean my house and take care of my self. You are an amazing person. Thank you for all that you do.

  • @mg-s17
    @mg-s17 9 місяців тому +3

    Remi - I want you to know I stumbled across your channel a few months ago, and I connect and identify with your content so much. Thank you for creating a safe, open-minded space for those of us that struggle with these types of things. Your content is therapeutic, encouraging and hopeful and there needs to be more like it out there. Also, just when I thought the relatability to your videos was at the max, I saw your video today about anxiety around making phone calls and I felt completely seen. I struggle with this a ton and felt very alone in this struggle until today. Thank you for being vulnerable and for being yourself and for making such positive content. :)

  • @Paintspotsandpaper
    @Paintspotsandpaper 9 місяців тому +2

    Thankyou Remi, I’m a very active pensioner, and was getting a bit overwhelmed with everything I want or need to do, and I’m just the same with any telephone calls, at my age, but it never leaves you if you’re neurodivergent, does it. You’ve just lifted me from a possible depression! Thanks again! Take care 😊

  • @lw5836
    @lw5836 9 місяців тому +2

    Hi Remi! Your videos, shorts,or whatever they’re called, always puts a smile on my face. You are so dead on about whatever you’re talking about in the video. Keep it going and I’m sure you can make others smile too.

  • @laceylegendofmom5747
    @laceylegendofmom5747 9 місяців тому +2

    Phone calls literally give me panic attacks. So I just write down everything I am going to say and wait till the very last minute.

  • @debc7341
    @debc7341 9 місяців тому +2

    I’m still like you and I’m 70! You help me❤️🙏🏻Thank you. I’m going to clean my bedroom😘

  • @lindsayb1329
    @lindsayb1329 9 місяців тому +3

    Sweet Remi, I also have the phone call phobia 😂 and I am almost 40. Bless your heart. What I do now is approach things in almost a healthy mad way. I tell that little voice to get the heck out of here and that I am just as good as anyone else and that I deserve things just like anyone else. ❤

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +1

      I love this! ❤️

  • @sandywelch1573
    @sandywelch1573 9 місяців тому +2

    I owe my summer projects around the house that i got done this summer to you...bless you and thank you for being you.

  • @robynmorgan1325
    @robynmorgan1325 9 місяців тому +2

    I just adore you! I love your messages and you help me every time I watch your videos!! Be proud of yourself and know you help a 68 year old Memaw in Forsyth, Georgia USA. 😊❤️🙏🇺🇸

  • @dibirch4110
    @dibirch4110 9 місяців тому +4

    Bless you your an amazing lady ❤❤

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +1

      You’re very kind ☺️

  • @bobbiegallacher399
    @bobbiegallacher399 2 місяці тому +3

    I love the long videos, I watch with a coffee until I finally have the motivation to tackle the task ahead. I think your account is motivational, funny and feels relatable to REAL PEOPLE ❤

  • @jhutch1681
    @jhutch1681 9 місяців тому +3

    Do you use calendars and lists? I have a master calendar with my 'ideal' schedule on it, and I assign all the tasks to days where I can reasonably hope to accomplish them. Then I make a list each day, which REALLY helps with my anxiety. I don't put it on the list if I can't reasonably expect to accomplish it. That means I have to prioritize and reschedule as needed. One of those timeslots is for 'admin' stuff, like phone calls.
    I've learned that the people around me, like the dentist, are not usually as interested in judging me as I think. They appreciate courtesy, but mostly they just think about doing their job.

  • @PaulHathawayRetired
    @PaulHathawayRetired 9 місяців тому +4

    Just keep talking, Remi. I love it! Its like I've been accepted!

  • @scraycee6438
    @scraycee6438 9 місяців тому +2

    I need you to do a podcast! Your voice and chatter are both soothing and motivating at the same time. I could absolutely listen to you chatter away on a podcast for an hour as I clean.

  • @lyannecb8499
    @lyannecb8499 9 місяців тому +2

    I make the next dentist appointment before we leave the surgery and put it into my phone calendar with all the reminders I can (from 30 minutes before, to 1 week before). And I take the appointment cards and staple them to the bottom of my paper calendar on the right month (or December, for February next year). That's okay, I can do that.
    But phoning people up is horrible. What helps me is the Flylady trick of being dressed to my shoes first, and standing up to make the phone call. Of course, the standing up is okay for "hello dentists, we're ill & need to reschedule" but doesn't help with trying to get through to the GPs to make an appointment... Being on hold and moved up in the queue isn't ideal for anyone!

  • @carlarancatore-white4886
    @carlarancatore-white4886 9 місяців тому +2

    I absolutely love that lamp on your little dresser.

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому

      Thank you! It’s over 10 years old now! I love it so much too! ❤️

  • @Maeda_Miakoda_Gaming
    @Maeda_Miakoda_Gaming 9 місяців тому +4

    This is my life!! I absolutely CANNOT get something out of my head until I have written it down on my wall calendar (yes, I have a physical one) AND set an alarm in my phone for it. I live by alarms on my phone. I have one for everything i need to remember and if it's more than a week away, I either create the alarm as a recurring event (e.g. every Thur) or I set an alarm to set an alarm. I might need to explain that. 😝
    Let's say I have an appt on Thu the 24th. My iPhone doesn't let me create an alarm for something over a week away, so I just set an alarm for this Thurs with the correct label and time of the appt. to set the alarm for next Thurs. Basically, once that alarm goes off, I just edit it for the correct day. Am I completely dependent on my phone? Yes. Do I have an alarm to charge my phone and Apple Watch? Also, yes. 😝

  • @DrinkYourNailPolish
    @DrinkYourNailPolish 9 місяців тому +2

    I live by my planner. If it isn't written down- it doesn't exist. Helps woth anxiety b/c I can open it up and just stare at it if I need to.

  • @SarahPowMo
    @SarahPowMo 8 місяців тому +2

    You are a true inspiration and totally make sense to me as a ND person. My house is way cleaner just a week since I found your channel. You have so kindly dispelled so much of my anxiety around cleaning. Many, many thanks!

  • @BritanyRoby
    @BritanyRoby 9 місяців тому +2

    Remi I can't explain the happiness that I get when I see you've uploaded another video! Your amazing and your positivity blows me away keep being the great person and mumma you are xxx

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so so much! How lovely are you!? ☺️❤️

    • @BritanyRoby
      @BritanyRoby 9 місяців тому

      @@remiclog aww 🥰 just never forget how much we appreciate your hard work and dedication xx

  • @rhondabozeman7089
    @rhondabozeman7089 9 місяців тому +3

    Remi, you are just so soothing to me. Thank you so much ♥️

  • @starklingspars8956
    @starklingspars8956 9 місяців тому +3

    I put off making appointmentss for same reasons. And as soon as you make one you have it hanging over your head, annoyingly, with the risk of missing it. It's a pain. I love that blanket on your bed. Such a nice dusty pink! And that lamp makes gorgeous light. I got a lamp recently ( 2 months ago) but only just b9ught the extension cord for it 2 days ago lol. When I can be bothered I'll go get the extension cord out of my bagand plug it in!

  • @Pyreliten
    @Pyreliten 9 місяців тому +2

    Am so thankful I found you at UA-cam!! And even more thankful that you share your life! It motivates me to start trying to get myself together! Thank you!🙏

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +1

      So pleased to hear this! Thank you! 😊

  • @carolbreeden8854
    @carolbreeden8854 9 місяців тому +3

    Hey we're only human. I forget stuff all the time. But understand about having to make that call. ❤❤❤❤

  • @Echoia
    @Echoia 9 місяців тому +2

    I got to do a deep clean on my bedroom yesterday for the first time in a bit, and I don't want anyone to go in there now 🤪

  • @jaynepictures9846
    @jaynepictures9846 9 місяців тому +2

    Some of what you said about anxiety reminded me of myself...

  • @Mimi-lx7em
    @Mimi-lx7em 9 місяців тому +3

    What I stress the most about is my husband's comments about one negative thing I did badly and the way he don't see anything I did good

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому

      I’m really sorry he doesn’t notice all of the good things you do. I can totally relate to that, I had similar experiences with exes

    • @ZZ-su8ph
      @ZZ-su8ph 6 місяців тому

      Specsavers. Make him an appointment. Tell him why. 🎉

  • @Bananna219
    @Bananna219 9 місяців тому +1

    You're not the only one who has trouble making phone calls Remi. Especially not in our generation. Proud of you for tackling things that are intimidating like the phone call and this clean.

  • @mamajodieanderson4565
    @mamajodieanderson4565 9 місяців тому +2

    Hi, I just found ur channel, and I love it. I'm can't stop watching them.
    I have a magnet on my fridge, and it says
    A Clean House Is
    A wasted life . And I get that bc if ur constantly cleaning, you miss out on the little things with your kids and your partner. I just lost my son, and cleaning helps me bc I'm forced on something else. I'm so glad I found your channel. Love love love it, 😊 from Manitoba Canada 🇨🇦 ❤

    • @Jae-by3hf
      @Jae-by3hf 9 місяців тому

      Single people with no kids have to do everything themselves and if you have no family and/or disabled everything is just as hard, you don’t have to put another group down to uplift another!

    • @mamajodieanderson4565
      @mamajodieanderson4565 9 місяців тому

      I'm not saying anything bad about anyone, I live with a disability. From my experiences with ppl who look down at me bc I can't do the things I use to do, I keep going and don't let people get to me, I go at my own pace. ❤️

    • @lorraineearle5967
      @lorraineearle5967 9 місяців тому

      So sorry for your loss. 🙏❤

    • @ZZ-su8ph
      @ZZ-su8ph 6 місяців тому +1

      So sorry for the loss of your son. 🕊

  • @Kat54322
    @Kat54322 9 місяців тому +3

    I love your videos and I know just what you mean about making phone calls! I am in my fifties and still find it hard to make one!

  • @vbhandle79
    @vbhandle79 9 місяців тому +3

    The idea of making a call is worse than the reality!! It’s just taken me two months to work up the courage to book a dental appointment, I am seriously phobic. Feeling both proud and terrified now😂

    • @ZZ-su8ph
      @ZZ-su8ph 6 місяців тому

      The dentist work will be a breeze by comparison.

  • @carris2scents57
    @carris2scents57 9 місяців тому +5

    I’m obsessed with your voice ❤

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +1

      Ahhh thank you! 😁❤️

  • @amymason5145
    @amymason5145 9 місяців тому +1

    A small bit of advice... I have anxiety whenever I leave my apartment to the point of agoraphobia. It has been a huge help to not take the "reminder appointment card" at any time and put it in your phone's calendar instead. Anything. I put laundry day in mine. Thank you for making these videos. They help me even in Washington State, USA.

  • @Teddietonbear23
    @Teddietonbear23 9 місяців тому +3

    Yr doing a brilliant job remi. I also forget things all the time ♥️♥️

  • @akimbocowboy6665
    @akimbocowboy6665 8 місяців тому +3

    thanks for making us feel better and more inspired😊. i happen to be in the neurodivergent gang myself.

  • @minnamae25
    @minnamae25 9 місяців тому +3

    I'm currently in that mindset that crap, I'll make my bed, all pillows perfectly set...and then i go to crawl into bed at night, utterly exhausted and I have to unmake my bed before i can crawl in. Ugh, whip up the blankets, yup, made my bed, all done. Hahahaha 😂😂😂😂
    I'm 44, mom of 4 and i don't wanna make my bed anymore. 😅

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +1

      Oh god I feel this!! The futility of making a bed over and over again only to get back in it and mess it up again anyway 😂

  • @kellylandis3492
    @kellylandis3492 9 місяців тому +1

    Loving you from the US! One thing I implemented years ago was to make sure there is a trash bin in EVERY room of the house. It keeps things from piling on the flat surfaces like nightstands and desks. I'm not sure what your recycling situation is, but I also keep at least one recycling bin per floor, but you could totally put one in every room as well. It takes a bit of space, but it's so worth it to keep things from looking literally trashy. Keep up the good work! PS I also hate making phone calls. Thankfully most of my doctors and such have online scheduling now.

  • @JourneyMetaspirit
    @JourneyMetaspirit 9 місяців тому +2

    Wonderful commentary. I get something out of every one of your videos. Thank you! 🤗

  • @Minimadaa
    @Minimadaa 9 місяців тому +1

    I’m a mom of two as well. We bought a new house and sold ours, so I’m very stressed with the logistics. Thanks for the encouraging words!!

  • @bernadettebiscuit8748
    @bernadettebiscuit8748 9 місяців тому +1

    You're such a sweetheart! My son with AS was always terrified of the phone - would not answer the phone when he was living at home, even when caller ID showed that it was someone for him! He now has to make & take calls as part of his work, so he just has to force himself to do it, but I know he always puts off making personal appointments like doctor, etc. for as long as possible!

  • @flyingcloudsmoore1313
    @flyingcloudsmoore1313 2 місяці тому +1

    Maybe you’d like an engagement calendar where you could write down the things you need to remember. Then you’d only have to remember one thing: to look at your engagement calendar!

  • @NormyTres
    @NormyTres 9 місяців тому +3

    I have problems with making phone calls too.

  • @Annie-of9gl
    @Annie-of9gl 9 місяців тому +1

    Honesty, wisdom, adulting, parenting & Cleaning 😁 your are my absolute favourite ❤️ thank you 😘🥰 xxx

  • @anamae03
    @anamae03 9 місяців тому +3

    Super relatable, girl!

  • @tahliafletcher890
    @tahliafletcher890 9 місяців тому +3

    I seen your name and was like 😁😁 a new upload. Just love love watching your videos, they always make me feel safe and secure. Because i have fibromyalgia and 2 little ones things get on top of me quick! Your videos make me feel less alone in not having my house "perfect" thank you ❤ ps i sometimes still get my mum to call the doctors on my mental bad days and im 27year olds...😬

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому

      You’re so very welcome, and don’t worry, I still sometimes asked my mum to call until way into my 20’s and then I was like “come on remi you can do this!!” Doing it over and over again does make it way less scary ☺️❤️

    • @Cookmomx3
      @Cookmomx3 9 місяців тому

      I get so excited too

  • @DayNaInBlackWhite
    @DayNaInBlackWhite 9 місяців тому +2

    You always motivate this ADD & bipolar girl. 😂 You've taught me what Executive Disfunction is and oh my goodness it makes SO much sense.
    I understand you on the phone calls. Ordering pizza even back in the day. Total shaking anxiety. Thank goodness for online ordering, eh?
    Tamagotchi 😅 my gosh you crack me up.

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +2

      Oh yes, I always do things online whenever possible 😅 so glad to hear my videos have been motivating you! ☺️

  • @CoffeeDropping
    @CoffeeDropping 9 місяців тому +3

    i love your channel so much! it is so motivating! also love how the bedding and the throw match with the candle, it's so nice!

  • @nataliestownsend4211
    @nataliestownsend4211 9 місяців тому +3

    Hi lovely Remi, it so helpful and very motivated. I know my bedroom is a mess, but thank u for your videos 📹 help physically and mentally, so thank you so very much. I appreciate and send love ❤️ ❤

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому +1

      So glad it helps! Sending love your way too! ❤️

    • @nataliestownsend4211
      @nataliestownsend4211 9 місяців тому +1

      Thank u, lovely lady it really does help me out ❤

  • @happyhypo1
    @happyhypo1 9 місяців тому +1

    I am so grateful than I work as a clerk, so I can have all my appointments and notes TODO in my work calendar. Thank God no one have access to it since they would see my crazy everyday personal notes as "call OB, vacume bedroom, clean fridge, cut onions for onion powder, do laundry,.." next to work meetings. I looks sometimes as secret code for some ilegal things :D but this only help me to do not forget about them so I know what I need to do after work is done.

  • @hannahmosley454
    @hannahmosley454 9 місяців тому +1

    Best feeling ever having a clean bedroom, even when it doesn’t last! Love your content ❤

  • @user-ec8hi3mj9q
    @user-ec8hi3mj9q 2 місяці тому +2

    I love seeing all the stuff on your stairs
    I thought it was just me
    No one ever takes it up we all walk past it😂😂😂 then I get a day when I say right that’s it
    Clear it all
    Say it’s not going to happen again
    Then 2-3 days later 😱😱😱
    Yes it’s all bloody back 😂😂😂

  • @juliee620
    @juliee620 9 місяців тому +1

    I find to help with stressing about upcoming appt or tasks to do I write it down on my notes app
    and use my calendar with alarms. This helps calm my mind a bit. When I forget I check my to do list and or calendar. I also check list and calendar in morning and before bed.

  • @NeshaCora
    @NeshaCora 9 місяців тому +2

    i found your videos recently and just binge watched them all, you are so likeable and wise beyond your years that i find myself wanting to be friends with you irl while i listen to you chat about things!!! hope you have a great week!!!

  • @DGarcia-ok7vn
    @DGarcia-ok7vn 9 місяців тому +1

    I really like that lantern lamp. It’s very pretty.

  • @loribragg2947
    @loribragg2947 9 місяців тому +2

    I hate going to the doctor, I hate making doctor’s appointments (and I only go once a year for my annual thyroid check, lol) to such a point that I’m down to my last thyroid med before I call. 😬😂. So, my very loving fiancé recognized I had a mental/emotional problem with this and he took over calling and making my appointment. He not only keeps track of the appointment, but scheduled his time around that day and drives me there, then takes me out to lunch afterward. He is a rather unusual man, I suspect. 😊

    • @emma-victoria933
      @emma-victoria933 9 місяців тому +1

      I'm same. I need to order mine as on my last too! But have to have my thyroid checked 6 monthly . Hate ringing and making apps

    • @ZZ-su8ph
      @ZZ-su8ph 6 місяців тому +1

      Lovely support. ❤

  • @Darkbillhook
    @Darkbillhook 9 місяців тому +2

    Love getting a notification that there’s a new Remi video!! 🎉

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому

      This makes my heart happy! Thank you 🥰

  • @KevianaElliot
    @KevianaElliot 8 місяців тому +1

    This was actually very calming. Somewhere between the clean nightstand and the candle, I just cozied into your voice and all the real talk. 💙 Thanks for this moment. Really appreciate.

  • @rustyjenny1
    @rustyjenny1 9 місяців тому +1

    Literally, just you talking makes me feel better

  • @Rosabelle69
    @Rosabelle69 9 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for another helpful video. I really resonate also with what you've said here. Appreciate this so much! 💜

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  9 місяців тому

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @glimmagma4551
    @glimmagma4551 7 місяців тому +2

    Hugs to all 🤗 I really needed to hear this one today ❤ thank you Reni ❤

  • @empain_
    @empain_ 9 місяців тому +1

    I also dislike calling for appointments, heck even for delivery! But as a soon to be mom, older than you, gotta get the hang of it as well

  • @sarahk758
    @sarahk758 9 місяців тому +1

    I always love watching you make the bed- your comforter and throw are soo pretty! Thanks for inspiring me to get up and do a tidy 💕

  • @leashy1204
    @leashy1204 4 місяці тому +1

    I use the Calendar on my phone. You set the appointment and time and then at the bottom it gives you the option to set the alarm. For the alarm you can set for the day of or the day before. You can also set up multiple alarms for one appointment. And then it pops up as a notification on your phone about an upcoming alarm. Then your alarm will ring on your phone to help you as you have set it. 👍👍😎