Dude I feel you. It's so freaking unfair. It doesn't matter what I say, what proof I have or if I bring an advocate. I'm constantly treated like im making sh*t up, and brushed off like oh it's just ur feelings, ur feelings aren't fact or reality.
Thank you for your perseverance. So many seek community. I hope your community embraces you like they should in future while you embrace the others who don't feel like they belong.
I loved this discussion on ableism. However, based on her language and dismissal of the other isms, i can tell she voted in favor of banning abortion rights, as well as shouts ALL LIVES MATTER. It would have been beetter if she had acknowledged intersectionalities of disabled people. Because the disabled can experience racism, sexism, homophobia, xenophobia all on top of ableism.
nah i don't think so. parents/"caregivers" actually do kill their disabled children. google "disability day of mourning." and i don't think she was dismissing anything else? just pointing out that disability doesn't get the same treatment and it's true. and that makes people uncomfortable.
She had me until 7:35... "Parents are killing their own children because of their ableist perspective on the quality of life".. The word choice "killing" in particularly bothersome. Which makes this video unusable for my purposes.
There are children murdered because of it, so shut your yap about that. The hate group “Autism Speaks” had commercials where a mother spoke point blank about doing that to her autistic kid.
I worked with the late great Dr. Margaret Condon, professor of psychology, who was a quadriplegic and worked on drafting the Americans with Disabilities Act. She would deplore what you are saying in this video. She hated the way that some people, like you, tried to instill the idea of victimization into disabled people's minds. She often said "stop being a crybaby" and she lived what she said. She NEVER felt sorry for herself and certainly didn't encourage it in others. It's not that she didn't recognize obstacles, she just got on with overcoming them.
i am so much less bothered by the labels and words that people aim at me rather than the actions they take that shut me out of the every day world.
You have a gift for articulating what PWD systemically go through on a daily basis.
Thanks this was a wonderful lecture. Very well spoken and persuasive. This is also super helpful for a paper I am writing on ableism.
YES. EVERY WORD.
That is an amazing lecture on ableism! This ableism lecture is going to be a very handy resource when I co-write a blog on ableism! Kudos
Wowzers,bravo,excellent talk and a very important analysis
Wonderful talk. I will have to check out more of your work. Tabs is a new one I will use.
Accept people who refuse food. Not everyone is able to eat everything you can.
so true!!! there is no disability books EVER.
its called brail you moron or audio books
@@StarsSoBright. Usually people with disabilities have to write their own books.
That's awesome 😍😍
Doctors shame and verbally abuse those of us with chronic illness and pain. I honestly don't want to exist anymore.
Michele avyou found a better doctor yet?
I'm so sorry to hear but there are lots of great doctors out there. so hopefully you'll find a good one soon. you don't deserve that.
Dude I feel you. It's so freaking unfair. It doesn't matter what I say, what proof I have or if I bring an advocate. I'm constantly treated like im making sh*t up, and brushed off like oh it's just ur feelings, ur feelings aren't fact or reality.
Thank you for your perseverance. So many seek community. I hope your community embraces you like they should in future while you embrace the others who don't feel like they belong.
ableism is a huge drag on potential economic growth.
throw away materialism in relationships
I loved this discussion on ableism. However, based on her language and dismissal of the other isms, i can tell she voted in favor of banning abortion rights, as well as shouts ALL LIVES MATTER. It would have been beetter if she had acknowledged intersectionalities of disabled people. Because the disabled can experience racism, sexism, homophobia, xenophobia all on top of ableism.
nah i don't think so. parents/"caregivers" actually do kill their disabled children. google "disability day of mourning." and i don't think she was dismissing anything else? just pointing out that disability doesn't get the same treatment and it's true. and that makes people uncomfortable.
She had me until 7:35... "Parents are killing their own children because of their ableist perspective on the quality of life".. The word choice "killing" in particularly bothersome. Which makes this video unusable for my purposes.
consider how many fetus are aborted because they have Downs and other developmental disabilities.
It's true, though. That happens all the time.
but it happens... the truth hurts, but it doesn't make it any less true...
There are children murdered because of it, so shut your yap about that. The hate group “Autism Speaks” had commercials where a mother spoke point blank about doing that to her autistic kid.
I worked with the late great Dr. Margaret Condon, professor of psychology, who was a quadriplegic and worked on drafting the Americans with Disabilities Act. She would deplore what you are saying in this video. She hated the way that some people, like you, tried to instill the idea of victimization into disabled people's minds. She often said "stop being a crybaby" and she lived what she said. She NEVER felt sorry for herself and certainly didn't encourage it in others. It's not that she didn't recognize obstacles, she just got on with overcoming them.
If you chew your resentment like a cud, you can make a career from it.