Why Matthew McConaughey Turned Down a $14.5 Million Rom-Com

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  • Two days after filming “Dazed and Confused” and two weeks following his father’s sudden death, Oscar-winning actor Matthew McConaughey wrote a list of life goals. Now, nearly 30 years later, McConaughey reflects on how his life has turned out so far. He describes how he gave up a successful career as the go-to romantic-comedy lead in films such as “Failure to Launch,” “How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days” and “The Wedding Planner,” and why he took a sabbatical from Hollywood in order to transition to more serious work in films and TV shows like “The Lincoln Lawyer,” “True Detective,” and the role that made him an Oscar winner, “Dallas Buyers Club.” What are your favorite Matthew McConaughey roles?
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    CHAPTERS
    00:00 "I was the go to rom com guy" - Mattew McConaughey
    00:39 Life changes impacted McConaughey's motivations
    01:10 McConaughey took a break from his mother after leaks
    01:51 Sabbatical from Hollywood
    02:26 "Everything I wanted came to me." - Mathew McConaughey, "here we go."
    02:47 "Take more risks" - Mathew McConaughey
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  • @glendalangley1877
    @glendalangley1877 2 роки тому +90

    Much respect for this man. He stayed true to himself and wouldn’t let Hollyweird change his values. I hope life brings nothing but happiness and love to him and his family always. 🦋🦋🦋

  • @nanwade2133
    @nanwade2133 2 роки тому +29

    He is a good man and doesn’t do what Hollywood wants him to do if it’s not the right thing.

    • @chuckdeuces911
      @chuckdeuces911 11 місяців тому

      He did what they wanted, that's why that list kept skipping keep a relationship with God

  • @jackb348
    @jackb348 3 роки тому +76

    He made the right choice. I have much greater respect for him as an actor.
    His roles on Wolf of Wall Street and Dallas Buyers Club are epic.
    Bravo Matthew. Plus he is a true real man. Not many of those anymore.

    • @marcuskey6667
      @marcuskey6667 2 роки тому +1

      I seen him in a movie about a True Story

    • @AmericanPatriot1776AP
      @AmericanPatriot1776AP 2 роки тому +1

      "GOLD" was a great film.

    • @cherylfitch3183
      @cherylfitch3183 Рік тому

      Love everything I see him in. And yes he IS a GOOD MAN! Not what we see now. (but that doesn’t include all guys)This is what a real man is like.

    • @frankpizarro7924
      @frankpizarro7924 Рік тому

      I love him he's so honest with who he is

    • @mkbarry123
      @mkbarry123 Місяць тому

      Dude has been great for decades.

  • @cynthiacrockett3471
    @cynthiacrockett3471 2 роки тому +33

    You have to love Matthew he's such a good actor but more so a real genuine down to earth person who takes care of his own and will stand up with you as long as you're true to him and his family. We are so proud that he's a real Texas treasure

  • @dianaroach3093
    @dianaroach3093 Рік тому +50

    Matthew is so down to earth kinda man. Love his movies. Wishing all the best for him and his family

  • @bridget2336
    @bridget2336 2 роки тому +45

    This makes me have a lot of respect for him and it definitely resonates with me.

    • @onelife7247
      @onelife7247 3 місяці тому +3

      Me too but at least he had the
      o p p o r t u n i t y to turn it down. You can’t take up opportunities that you weren’t even made aware of. People can be super nasty

  • @SpishvSpash
    @SpishvSpash 2 роки тому +35

    It's nice for my generation and my children's generation to see integrity and ethics in a man of Hollywood like Mathew.
    I know his wife and family are so proud.

    • @cherylfitch3183
      @cherylfitch3183 Рік тому

      Don’t forget morals, which it is quite apparent that he IS a moral MAN!

  • @Qtrademark
    @Qtrademark 2 роки тому +9

    He was so great in True Detective.

  • @armywife0075
    @armywife0075 2 роки тому +39

    Who makes such an intelligent and pragmatic list of goals at 23…while grieving the loss of a father?? That is incredible!

    • @Zaiqahal
      @Zaiqahal Рік тому +1

      Someone who fervently believes in God.

    • @awishinandahopin7232
      @awishinandahopin7232 9 місяців тому +2

      He is a REAL person. 😊 So many actors aren’t.

    • @coldsteelrail1123
      @coldsteelrail1123 4 дні тому

      @@Zaiqahal yeh, but the line on his goals that said continue my relationship with God, was intentionally not crossed off.....by whom? idk

  • @dcricket1
    @dcricket1 2 роки тому +29

    Just love this man period. Doesn’t matter the movie. Love his attitude. Proud he’s a fellow Texan! Way to go Matthew!♥️🙏🏻

  • @candaceconner6443
    @candaceconner6443 Рік тому +9

    Much respect for this man , all movies he’s ever been in are just good , the last few years his movies got more deep and relatable loved Mud ! Way to go Mathew ! We love and respect you !!!

  • @aprilosborn1886
    @aprilosborn1886 2 роки тому +55

    I like when he said 'take risks, otherwise your on the sidelines' you know he's right because It's hard always afraid to fail, being afraid is no way to live

    • @fukhue8226
      @fukhue8226 Рік тому +3

      I'm an amatur guitar player that now Plays the Blues. Tuesday nights I get on stage in front of Real Blues Musicians that have played for years at an Open Mic Jam Session. Some musicians in the crowd still won't get up and play. When I do it I feel ALIVE and LIFTED in my abilities. Matthew is a great actor today because of his talent but more for his drive and desire to push himself forward against all odds and possibly ruining his career. That's Brave and Smart at the same time!

  • @gaymichaelis7581
    @gaymichaelis7581 2 роки тому +10

    Love this short video on UA-cam here! Just wish he had touched the part about his relationship with God and keeping it! Thank you very much!

  • @nancyiverson7771
    @nancyiverson7771 2 роки тому +5

    Nice commentary on living a life with true goals to fulfill for yourself.

  • @rachelcastaneda1381
    @rachelcastaneda1381 2 роки тому +17

    This man is just a great person! He has a great life a d he is a GREAT TEXAN! 💙

  • @merrieking3881
    @merrieking3881 3 роки тому +54

    Powerful! Felt like he was sincerely speaking directly to me. First words captured my attention and the list provided structure and anticipation. Add photos and you have an exceptional telling of McConaughey's story!

  • @cynthiacochrane9691
    @cynthiacochrane9691 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for sharing your story you were truly blessed

  • @l.l.c.
    @l.l.c. 2 роки тому +19

    One of the very few actors who I genuinely have much respect for. He seems like a real honest man.

  • @jenricardo9905
    @jenricardo9905 2 роки тому +16

    I love that movie, “ The Lincoln Lawyer!” I’ve got it saved to watch and I need to watch it again. A friend of mine let me borrow hers and that was my favorite out of all the stack of movies she let me watch! True. That is a great movie.

  • @williamb2854
    @williamb2854 2 роки тому +6

    Matthew you are a fabulous actor. Your roll in ..FREE STATE OF JONES...was great.
    Please keep them coming.

  • @michelledavis6271
    @michelledavis6271 2 роки тому +3

    I always liked him. Dallas Buyers Club made me love him! When I heard him say na na na na boo boo, I am stunned into silence. The only person I know who says that is my granddaughter. Said it since she was 3. What a gem of an actor!

  • @leahwhiteley5164
    @leahwhiteley5164 2 роки тому +5

    You are an actor who can be looked up to by familes,and children. You have common sense, morals.. God bless you.

  • @victoriaprinceton6021
    @victoriaprinceton6021 2 роки тому +4

    That was a beautiful message from Matthew he’s Livin his dreams an very humble sharing. Thanks for the great advice!!! Blessings to You Always 🙏🏾🙏🏾💯💯💯✨✨✨🔥🔥🔥😘😎

  • @ravenblueeaglews2060
    @ravenblueeaglews2060 2 роки тому +21

    He's so awesome I love his movies an him as a person.making that list is an Inspiration

  • @angeleyesfam8919
    @angeleyesfam8919 2 роки тому +34

    I needed this so bad I’ve lost everything,and I’m trying so hard to heal but I’m so alone , I’m on the verge of suicide again ,my mom doesn’t even love me anymore, I’m heartbroken 💔 but the list you had and what you said gave me hope for the first time ,thank you so much McConaughey ❤️

    • @yellowstoneloyal8186
      @yellowstoneloyal8186 2 роки тому +15

      Things will get better, I promise you, stay strong, want to chat? I'm here

    • @coreenaburke5378
      @coreenaburke5378 2 роки тому +13

      Your mom will always always always love you! moms can't stop loving their kids. It doesn't work that way.

    • @charlestaylor9896
      @charlestaylor9896 Рік тому +4

      Don't give up.Jesus loves you and so do I.

    • @327JohnnySS
      @327JohnnySS Рік тому +5

      Life is short yet it will be the longest thing that you ever do. Make it count. Follow your dreams and goals.

    • @hvyduty1220
      @hvyduty1220 9 місяців тому +4

      Never give up the ruff times will not last forever......been there.

  • @annacardenas4519
    @annacardenas4519 2 роки тому +36

    You are the epitome of what a real man and human being should be! Thank you for sharing this! So inspirational!

    • @riverside321
      @riverside321 Рік тому

      You don't know

    • @annacardenas4519
      @annacardenas4519 Рік тому

      Yes, I guess I don’t! It’s only words!

    • @CBB672
      @CBB672 Рік тому

      No he is the epitome of what’s wrong with Celebrities!

  • @jonniemae818
    @jonniemae818 Рік тому +12

    Just a great actor. Thanks McConaughey for putting on the show.

  • @jodidavis6595
    @jodidavis6595 2 роки тому +19

    He’s so normal. I may not like the “ raunchy” movies he made but he’s made more underrated movie than he’s been acknowledged for. He’s a man’s man and I think that’s why everyone likes him. And he’s cool.

  • @kimallen9130
    @kimallen9130 2 роки тому +4

    Loved him from the Unsolved Mysteries way way before he was a star!

  • @DarkAngel-bk1bn
    @DarkAngel-bk1bn 2 роки тому +4

    He would have made a great Texas Governor! I felt disappointed when he spoke about it then declined

  • @dulcehajjar5826
    @dulcehajjar5826 2 роки тому +6

    Awesome Guy
    and Actor ! 👏👏

  • @budsmom3060
    @budsmom3060 2 роки тому +4

    A good guy in his industry!

  • @chrisweidner4768
    @chrisweidner4768 Рік тому +1

    “Surfer Dude” has a great message.

  • @guyhall1414
    @guyhall1414 2 роки тому +4

    A great actor love his movie intersallar one of my favorite

  • @danielburris4096
    @danielburris4096 2 роки тому +18

    Excellent. I really admire MM. He has some real dedication to his values and his family.

  • @marytague6268
    @marytague6268 Рік тому +2

    I love Matthew! He’s so real & I’ve met to many Celebes in my lifetime who certainly are not! Dig ya!

  • @marcuskey6667
    @marcuskey6667 2 роки тому +3

    He Played the Charactor Role as a Truck Driver in a Movie about a True Story with Bill Murrey in the Title Role where Murrey's character was left with a Elephant from his father's Estate that he trys to find a way to get to California on the cheap!

  • @robertwaid3579
    @robertwaid3579 2 роки тому +5

    I have always respected, enjoyed, and loved Him as an actor! After seeing n hearing the previous clip? I just gained 10x the Respect n Admiration for Him as an Awesome 😎🙏 Individual! Who won't let the Entertainment industry manipulate His Life or His Principles. I really Like that about Him.

  • @barbaralawrence-rodriguez2981
    @barbaralawrence-rodriguez2981 Рік тому +1

    That was really good. Thanks for sharing.

  • @perrymichales4242
    @perrymichales4242 2 роки тому +1

    Uvalde strong 🙏 Matthew's hometown is in mourning for 21 persons lost. They will not be forgotten.

  • @melaniexoxo
    @melaniexoxo 3 роки тому +14

    Wish you didn't skip over keeping his relationship with God.

    • @jackb348
      @jackb348 3 роки тому +3

      Well what do you expect? AARP is largely humanist nonsense that denies the important spiritual aspect of why we are even here in the first place.

  • @irenelacour3486
    @irenelacour3486 2 роки тому +3

    Dear Matthew could you PLEADE tell me what you used to make your hair grow back. I am losing my hair on top of my head. I read that you used an ointment of some kind. Please tell me so I can use it too. Thank you from one of your biggest Fans from Dallas TX.

  • @Rodmic-hd9pn
    @Rodmic-hd9pn Рік тому +1

    He was amazing in Dallas Buyers Clup

  • @giaatta9303
    @giaatta9303 2 роки тому +5

    I love this guy!

  • @parkerposey8155
    @parkerposey8155 Рік тому +1

    “All right, all right, all right” was his. He did that! Yay for the McConaughey’s!!

  • @claymccleery9451
    @claymccleery9451 21 день тому

    Reading his memoir now. A lot of 'WOW' moments.

  • @lckgilmo43
    @lckgilmo43 2 роки тому +2

    I think that one of his best movies and it's underrated is Reign of Fire.

  • @dianeclark1135
    @dianeclark1135 Рік тому

    Thinking back….I don’t recall ever seeing him in a ROM-COM movie 🎥, but I sure loved him in
    THE LINCOLN LAWYER and several of his other drama roles. 🎉

  • @tonyhill3786
    @tonyhill3786 2 роки тому +3

    You can turn down that kind of money when you have, but the rest of would never turn it down.

    • @Elias6233
      @Elias6233 Рік тому

      Exactly, he speaks as if he made a great sacrifice. All he showed is that he's rich enough to be able to turn down a fortune.

  • @leslieludwick1321
    @leslieludwick1321 2 роки тому +2

    He didn’t compromise and turned away money to focus on the things that were important to him. I truly believe because of these things Jesus gave him favor to pursue what really matters. Good for him. He appears to be a very honorable man.

  • @susanberdan1626
    @susanberdan1626 Рік тому +1

    All of them are the greatest , Hoe to loose a guy in 10 days, Lincoln Lawyer, Magic Mike , Wedding Planner....... Love you Mathew!

    • @matthewmcconaughey69
      @matthewmcconaughey69 4 місяці тому +1

      Love you too Susan! ❤

    • @matthewmcconaughey69
      @matthewmcconaughey69 4 місяці тому

      Hi Susan. Where are you texting from

    • @susanberdan1626
      @susanberdan1626 4 місяці тому

      @@matthewmcconaughey69 NEW HAVEN COUNTY , CT

    • @matthewmcconaughey69
      @matthewmcconaughey69 4 місяці тому

      @@susanberdan1626 that's lovely. I created an interactive platform to meet my fans and I would like you to be part

  • @dannyespinosa3978
    @dannyespinosa3978 Рік тому +1

    Much respect for the Man after the school shooting in Texas his hometown where he grew up with and fight for those families that is a Grammy and itself

  • @fleaflicker1451
    @fleaflicker1451 2 роки тому +4

    "They're on the sidelines for a reason."

  • @christinebates7493
    @christinebates7493 2 роки тому +1

    Wow, that was awesome. Thanks

  • @davemieze9021
    @davemieze9021 2 місяці тому

    “True Detective” is this mans masterpiece. It’s the greatest long form crime story ever.

  • @stevenbrown9883
    @stevenbrown9883 2 роки тому +2

    True detective! Dude killed it

  • @Art-qy6gd
    @Art-qy6gd 2 роки тому +2

    Lincoln lawyer was an awesome movie.

  • @normanbrown9225
    @normanbrown9225 Рік тому +1

    We Thank You For SHARING MAKES Us WISER in Our LIFE TOO.

  • @davidteague5461
    @davidteague5461 2 роки тому +2

    Great actor. In my top 5 .

  • @thehouseofnaztrodamus2928
    @thehouseofnaztrodamus2928 Рік тому +2

    I wanted him to play SONNY CROCKETT and TERRANCE HOWARD to play RICARDO TUBBS for a MIAMI VICE remake.

  • @paulgrimm
    @paulgrimm 2 роки тому +2

    True Detective was a masterpiece

  • @davidmatthews1710
    @davidmatthews1710 11 місяців тому +1

    Alright alright……….. as a late teen he taught me how to be cool and now it’s about being a better person 🙏🙏

  • @geraldsmith7240
    @geraldsmith7240 Рік тому +1

    Trustworthy, Example Of Respect And Loyalty. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @chriswhitley3283
    @chriswhitley3283 2 роки тому +6

    You the man. I have always admired you. Do what you want in live not what some whole behind a desk says he thinks would work for you. I’ve always tried to do that, and like you haven’t faired all that well. But my mom told me on my latest adventure that I should go for it because you are older now and the prospects just aren’t lining up outside. It turned out to be a great 👍 idea but has cost me some major problems. My mom got hurt and since I wasn’t there to run her off. My sister swooped in and basically destroyed my moms life and ruined my fathers memories. But hey, just have to pickup the pieces and move on. Thank you.

  • @kerri-bethlee4814
    @kerri-bethlee4814 2 роки тому +10

    I love you as an actor you amazing and keep doing what you do, I would love to see you in another rom com here and there because you are good at them too but congratulations to you for forcing Hollywood to not pigeonhole you. Much love and respect

  • @ralphadams4478
    @ralphadams4478 2 роки тому +2

    I really liked the roll in dat Clive cluster novel movie,too bad didn't do another,adventure series as such,perfect character for that part..

  • @louannaesquivel6342
    @louannaesquivel6342 6 місяців тому +1

    My whole family loved you in A Time To Kill. After that movie we watch any movie you are in even Rom Com. You are our favorite actor.
    God Bless you and Gods Grace and Mercy over you ❤️🙏🏼✝️and your whole family.

  • @ormandmelissa8659
    @ormandmelissa8659 7 місяців тому +1

    My favorite actor of all time.
    Keep up the good work my love 😘❤️
    I'm so proud of you babe 😍

  • @rodneynewsom779
    @rodneynewsom779 2 роки тому +2

    Inspiring!❤

  • @harperwebster5913
    @harperwebster5913 8 місяців тому

    There’s very few Hollywood stars I respect and he’s absolutely one,His morals come before millions! ❤️

  • @scottperine9820
    @scottperine9820 8 місяців тому +1

    I like all his non rom coms !!! Great work Matthew !!!

  • @timothyryan8753
    @timothyryan8753 Рік тому +1

    Interstellar is one of the greatest movies of all time, MM performance in that was really out of this world.

  • @dianaguadagnino5410
    @dianaguadagnino5410 Місяць тому

    He is the Lincoln Lawyer...no one else could have pulled it off...when I see those commercials now I still say only Matthew 😆

  • @peterwhite7428
    @peterwhite7428 4 місяці тому +1

    True Detective is a fabulous film I loved his acting there. Alright

  • @sandybianchi2124
    @sandybianchi2124 2 роки тому +2

    Just love this man ❤

  • @kierondillon4458
    @kierondillon4458 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful! Thanks matt!.

  • @thomasfoster5200
    @thomasfoster5200 4 місяці тому +1

    Love everything about this dude always have, one of the best in the business

  • @sheilacape4794
    @sheilacape4794 Рік тому +1

    I've really enjoyed "Interstellar" a lot!!! There's so much more to that movie than we can possibly imagine! His daughter's ghost was gravity as how we communicate in Dispensations!!!

  • @peggyfleener3111
    @peggyfleener3111 2 роки тому +1

    There is nothing more hurtful, in this life, to a Mother than for a Son not talk to her.
    When She is his number
    One Confidant..

  • @kelleywatkins6001
    @kelleywatkins6001 Рік тому +1

    I'LL ALWAYS LOVE THIS MAN .. BEAUTIFUL FAMILY...GOD BLESS U

  • @cards0486
    @cards0486 5 місяців тому

    The first time I saw Matthew was in WE ARE MARSHALL. He was wonderful in a tough role.
    Then I started looking for his past movies on TV. He was cute and funny in the rom-coms, and I thought he was darling.
    Then I saw A TIME TO KILL on TV. I thought,”He’s got such talent. Why doesn’t he do more dramatic roles?”
    I figured (rightly so, it appears) he didn’t get those roles offered to him.
    When I sat through FOOL’S GOLD in a theater, paying money for that tripe, I really thought,”He’s GOT to move away from this stuff.”
    When I saw him talking about his decision and holding out for a really good drama, and he’d fight to get it, I was thrilled.
    I started seeing him in dramas and knew Hollywood finally caught on.
    DALLAS BUYER’S CLUB and that Oscar proved his point. I’m so happy for him.
    The mix of drama and comedy is fine now. I love to see him be sexy and funny. But now he’s got a body of work that proves he can do anything. Now he’s offered both and it’s his choice as to what he accepts. He’s going to be great in whatever he does.
    And I’ve pushed FOOL’S GOLD out of my mind.
    Love, love, LOVE Matthew. Even when he’s an animated voice in SING he’s great to watch. What a fabulous actor (and person) he is.
    I can’t wait until he starts his new Taylor Sheridan series. Two boys from Texas; they’re going to do amazing work together.

  • @kathyparker5899
    @kathyparker5899 Рік тому +1

    My favorite actor…he seems real.

  • @RICHARDGRANNON
    @RICHARDGRANNON 8 місяців тому

    For his performance in true detective I will be forever grateful

  • @soynachocaballero
    @soynachocaballero 4 місяці тому

    Where can I listen to the full interview? Thanks

  • @anacarr4795
    @anacarr4795 Місяць тому

    I came to appreciate more of his work through the years, he became a great actor ❤❤

  • @lb1460
    @lb1460 Рік тому +1

    Loved this.

  • @donnachatterton6298
    @donnachatterton6298 Рік тому +1

    Love his Rom Coms. Never saw any of those that were mentioned. I would think they were the “scary ones” he wouldn’t do.

  • @SpotTheBorgCat
    @SpotTheBorgCat 2 роки тому +2

    What an interesting guy.

  • @sarahhurst701
    @sarahhurst701 Рік тому +1

    Go Matthew McConaughey! What a superb, "salt of the earth," solid seeming guy! Always wish him & his the best!

  • @brentb9319
    @brentb9319 2 роки тому +1

    Well....your one of the best actors in the business....never seen ya in a bad movie......

  • @alecs6492
    @alecs6492 3 роки тому +7

    I really liked the “The Gentleman” movie he was in.

  • @joefuller1478
    @joefuller1478 2 роки тому +1

    Love you Matthew..👍🏻🙏❤️🕊

  • @rommelbillman2872
    @rommelbillman2872 Місяць тому

    I’ve always really liked Matthew. I’ve watched most of his movies and many of his interviews. Although I do not know him personally he’s always came across as a very kind, intelligent and well rounded young man. I wish him and his family the best in life. I’m looking forward to seeing him in more serious rolls even if I’m a little sad he’s no longer doing romcoms because, well what can I say he’s just one heck of a great actor.

  • @jackhayes8710
    @jackhayes8710 Рік тому +1

    Sounds like a great way. You have a look a like here in Murphy Tx. I say him and spoke with him. He said he gets it all the time. Even sounds like you. Alright, Alright, Alright. Lol

  • @patriciaarmstrong6601
    @patriciaarmstrong6601 6 місяців тому +1

    True fans that’s there for your talents not your looks will go watch anything you make family and god have got to come first I’m proud of you for picking that.

  • @sofhar7162
    @sofhar7162 Рік тому +1

    I always admired this Man not only as an Actor ,but also as a Human being! I wish all his Goals to come true & live with his beautiful Family a long & fulfilling Life ! 👍🏻💯🫶🏻

  • @teresavanzandt5089
    @teresavanzandt5089 Місяць тому

    My absolute favorite actor.

  • @shellymilligan2953
    @shellymilligan2953 2 роки тому +1

    Definitely on the take more risks❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @188CRA
    @188CRA Рік тому +1

    Gorgeous in mind,body and soul.

  • @patriciabeltran6269
    @patriciabeltran6269 2 роки тому +1

    WE LOVE YOU MATTHEW!!!!!!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️