If by Rudyard Kipling - Read by Sir Michael Caine
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- Опубліковано 17 сер 2020
- Sir Michael Caine's rendition of his favorite poem, "IF" by Rudyard Kipling. Kindly overlook the missing 20 seconds and focus on the overall meaning of this eternal verse. It brings together all the virtues of life: perseverance, humility, and integrity, in a way as to create the ultimate dose of inspiration.
If- by RUDYARD KIPLING
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream-and not make dreams your master;
If you can think-and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings-nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And-which is more-you’ll be a Man, my son!
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My dad, gave this poem to me for my 12th birthday . I wasn’t to thrilled being 12 getting a poem on a plaque, but it was from my dad who I looked up to. Seven months later he was killed in Vietnam on his second tour. After I was told by my mom I cried till I couldn’t cry anymore and walked to my drawer removed the poem from its box and put it on my wall . I’ve never taken it down and have tried to live up to those words . Thanks dad.
I am so sorry- your father was truly a loving man.
More father in 12 years than others have in a lifetime. Sorry for your loss. 😔
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. He sounds like a good man. What a sweet story. Thank you for sharing.
@@lisas2538 thank you . He was a tough guy with a good heart . I think he new his profession, at the time, was literally minute by minute. I believe he wanted leave me a guidebook in case he wouldn’t be there to finish the task of raising me . This poem covers just about all we need to know to do what’s right in life. Thanks for your post 🇺🇸
My condolences.
KM Hemmans The UA-camr
My sixth grade teacher, Mr. Burke, made the whole class memorize this poem. 55 years later I can still recite it. Knowing these words has gotten me through life, even though I am a woman.
I think that in him having made you commit this wisdom to memory, he gave so much more of a true education, the most students receive in 12 years and most of tertiary education. A shout out to your teacher and others like him.
No, you're a man
Best human advice, ever.
Poem applies of the human experience
This about how a human should be.. not only a man..
Fact he wrote this to his son who died is truly inspiring.
If you read about it he was the reason his son died. Terrible human, but incredible poet!
@@nickpeitchev7763I pity you, for you will never know nor understand.
@MudlangenTango do your research first then comment
@@nickpeitchev7763 Research? I have a lifetime of research, this is my opinion.
I know better than to try to dissuade you, we are quite different you and I, and nothing short of a major existential crisis will convince you otherwise.
@@MudlangenTango no I mean do your research on Rudyard Kipling and his life and his relationship with his son because you don't know what you're talking about
My Dad, born in 1911, told me of this poem when I was about 16. He carried it on a small piece of paper folded in his wallet. I found it when he died in 1986 and have kept it. I shared with my two sons when they were in their late teens and next week, at my only grandson’s wedding, I’ll share it with him. I’ve tried to live up to the words, but have faltered from time to time. But, it’s still my resolve to be the man described.
May your grandson pass this wisdom down to his son, and his son and his son. My your line be long and good fortune to all your descendants who bear this legacy your father started.
I love how Kipling calls triumph and disaster 'impostors'. Just brilliant.
incredible poem, really inspires people
Sus
I love that line.
I love every line of that great poem.
It is through the guidance of stoicism you shall reach your full potential
When I was a small child, 75 years ago, my father gave me a framed copy of this poem. He read it to me until I was able to read it for myself. It has had a profound effect on my life!
Your father sounds like a great man.
Ur comment made me cry my friend. The same poem is hung in a frame on a wall where my Father passed in my Mummy's house on a main road in Belfast Northern Ireland. We lost him almost 5 years ago, this poem reminds me of him so much... I feel so blessed and touched, that I share this poem with others... thank u Sir
@@VBni 👨❤️👨
@@ekeretteekanem just is i read this ....i crying....i feeling much thinks.💓💓💓💓💓👏💐😂.im creek
@@linadimitriadou2947 find courage. Much love from here!✊🏼
My dear mother had a copy of this poem framed for my son when he was in grammer school. Today, he is almost 60 years old and the poem is hanging in his office. My mother was a wise woman. This poem is wonderful.
I gave this poem to my grandson when he turned 21 years old! I printed it and put it in the birthday card I gave him! It was my way of telling him that everything would be okay! He had had a very difficult time making friends in HS and also not a good relationship with his father! He’s my first grandchild and we have a special relationship even now that he’s 31 years old…..❤
Michael Caine is my favourite actor. This is my father’s favourite poem. I read it at his funeral. He is my favourite father.
Shout-out, David. My father had an old framed printing of this poem, I'm
guessing from his father, and now I
have it. Sir Caine is a great favorite of mine as well . Very easy for the scurry and dust of the day to deny
pondering or mentioning the invisible points that comprise one"a
higher character.
@@jonathanmather3431 you have a wonderful way with words and guessing you are a writer yourself 😊
Suspecting a keen intuition behind that " guessing " my friend, and yes,
words have a way with me.
@@jonathanmather3431 thank you. My father had an old poetry book given to him by his father that contained this poem. I was allowed to take it to school in first grade. Unfortunately it went missing from my school bag. I think someone probably took it. I know my father would have been upset due to the sentimental value of the book, but he never showed it. A few years ago I came across a similar copy that was over 100 years old by then, and was able to give it to my father. Not the same sentimental value, but I hope it brought back some nice memories for him.
favourite father? how many fathers you have?
curiously asking. no hate sir.
I'm glad that Michael's dad read this poem to him, so that one day he could read it to me. Cheers
for a split second I was like, "whoa, is this actually Michael Caine's son posting?" And, then I realized he just read it to me too.
Guys, HERE is The Savior
HalleluYAH translates “Praise ye YaH”
YaH is The Heavenly Father
YaH is Who Created “Man (Adam)”
YaH arrives via the TENT OF MEETING
YaH was Who they Crucified for the sins OF “Man”
** NO female involved WHATSOEVER **
- Hebrew Book of Isaiah
Isaiah 42:8
"I am YaH; that is my Name! I will not yield my glory to another or my praise to idols.
Isaiah 43:11
I, I am YAH, and there is no other Savior but Me.
Isaiah 45:5
I am YaH, and there is none else.
My mother read me this poem when I was a little girl. It has always stayed with me it is my favorite. She changed the end to "you will be a woman, my daughter"
Great mother. Congratulations, lady, you're very fortunate 😁💪🏼🌟...
@MiguelMedV Thank you. Mama was a very wise woman. I thank God for her and Daddy.
My father also put this poem on my bedroom wall. I've read this many times, and it always rings true. Now my father is long gone and I'm in the twilight of my life this poem is still pertinent and rings true!
beautiful
I'll bet you shared it with others, too. Send them a message, Darryl. People are desperate for a little word of encouragement lately, and are stressed and scared. They'd probably be thrilled to hear from you just out of the blue. Your twilight is needed and precious ❤
When you have *Michael Caine* reading this masterpiece, you don’t cover it in crappy b-roll. Especially at the very end- the most heart-warming part! You gotta show his reaction! Like, WHAT. I love this channel, I do, so it’s hard for for me to say this and I feel really bad… but as a director myself I am truly mortified! I think you should repost this for sure with just Kaine!
Caine.
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@@mattborman5780 Thanks Matt for the link to the much preferred version of Sir Michael Caine reading of this epic poem.
Very true. Its utterly inappropriate and distracting.
The music also is over the top for me, like the poem couldnt move people enough on its on.
@@mlb5525 my pleasure - thanks for the idea. Didn’t know what I was missing until your comment. Take care
My dad lived by this poem. He taught my sisters and I to the same. I still tear up when I hear it … miss you dad 😢
I only have my Dad around now, somehow there's a stillness to fathers if we're lucky, a reassuring presence. I'm sure you've absorbed a lot of your own's wisdom without realising it, if he was the kind to teach you this poem.
It applies to anyone male or feminine
If you can listen and not tear up
@@tombryan1 and Gunga Din
Bless your father
Words to navigate by.. I just turned 70, I am blessed to be healthy and strong., With a loving family. Remember when you fall down to get up. Never never give up..
I love how Mr Caine has changed the last part from "60 seconds" to "40 seconds" ! This poem is the north star for any man ! Respects
"If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster, And treat those two impostors just the same" Wow, what a line. Sums up life in a sentence, really 😅
My favourite line in the hole poem. I'm 70, I've learnt to achieve this most of the time.
Guys, HERE is The Savior
HalleluYAH translates “Praise ye YaH”
YaH is The Heavenly Father
YaH is Who Created “Man (Adam)”
YaH arrives via the TENT OF MEETING
YaH was Who they Crucified for the sins OF “Man”
** NO female involved WHATSOEVER **
- Hebrew Book of Isaiah
Isaiah 42:8
"I am YaH; that is my Name! I will not yield my glory to another or my praise to idols.
Isaiah 43:11
I, I am YAH, and there is no other Savior but Me.
Isaiah 45:5
I am YaH, and there is none else.
Inscribed on a wall in Wimbledon, just above their heads, before the players walk out to Centre Court.
I have no idea what that means. Triumph and disaster are two different things, why would I treat them as the same?
Can you read?
It says treat them in the same manner. Shit Happens but so does Magic. Accept them equally.
Sir Michael Caine's voice alone would have sufficed.
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Could not agree more!
Right❤️❤️
Or Richard Burton. He would have been electrifying.
@@borjastick oh yes most definitely...making me nostalgic for the true masters
I’m reading this at my father’s funeral. His favorite poem.
So beautifully done .. this was my dear husband's favorite poem .. he had it by heart .. he recited it to me just before he died .. and three months before his own beautiful son was born .,
I cannot hear this achingly beautiful poem without crying ..
Jen999💙
Oh my heart breaks for you. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@@lindaseel9986 Thank you for your kind words.. they mean so much to me .. when you lose someone you dearly love .. and do not want to live without,. Somehow the love they leave behind keeps you going .. for me .. that love was our precious son ..
Jen999💙
Dearest jen999
I to for a long time
Have absolutely loved...&...adored this beautifully scripted poem.
**if** by Mr Rudyard Kipling.
As your husband also surely did.
..
I'm so sorry/saddened
By your loss jen.
within both your husbands life..&..love.
I know from your words!
The son you both gifted to life
is the illuminating inspiration of both your loves..&..life
shared together!!
.&.
Will help you advance forward
Through your darkest hours.
On your journey with he by your side.
.&.
The love... memories..laughter..
Adventures shared.
Locked within your ❤..&..soul!!
Will gift you a Strength..&..courage from the universe jen.
@@glennhosick1514 Thank you for the comfort of your kind words.. so gratefully appreciated by me they are.. and our son.. the very picture of his father.. has been the balm of comfort you said he would be.. thank you for caring .. and for sharing your kindness with us🙏🦋
Jen999💙
@@Jen999
Upon listening once more to this beautiful poem..&...reading your thoughts jen999.
Your words simply🤗 hugged my ❤
My reply was to envolope within the same back to you jen999.
..
One of the greatest poems read by such a man does not need the typical images and music of countless so-called motivational videos. Just the voice and facial expressions of Sir Michael Caine reading this gem.
yes just poem not the symphony please!
Yes!
Agree
Couldn’t agree more 👏👏
Omg, YES! The music absolutely ruined the whole experience for me 😢
When I left primary school at age 11, my teacher gave us a copy of this poem. I still have it 45 years later. Thank you Mr Arnold.
Kudos Mr Arnold. Please pass it on to your children and grandchildren.
I’m a woman and my dad gave this poem to me to be a strong person. My favorite poem
When I was young and first encountered 'If,' I didn't quite know what Kipling was trying to say. I could sense a subtext, an overarching theme I couldn't quite see.
Now, at 53, I get it. Thank yoy, Kipling.
"Watch the things you gave your life for broken, and stoop and build them up with worn out tools." If you cry at that line, you're not alone.
I think of my dad and cry for him.. Hang in there, though. Beautiful/sad comment.
This was my dad's favorite poem. I teared up a bit when I read it, as a tribute to him, to my own teenaged son. But I really had a hard time holding it together when, having finished it, he said, "Mom, by this criteria, you're the only man I know."
@@pricklypear7516 I love that!
Another favorite line of mine.
Been there!
Personally, I wish this video had simply stayed with Sir Michael orating this.
The cutaways to all the usual Instagramesque clipart do not serve to bolster these strong words but only serve to distract.
Especially as I am sure Sir Michael was looking right down the lens!
That said, whilst I see this as an opportunity missed, I thank you for reminding me of such excellent writing. 🏆🇬🇧
I was thinking the same thing myself. The imagery just distracted from the words.
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Agreed there's so much uneccesary cheese inserted into things these days.
I kept waiting for that woman to trip over her dress and fall over the side
IF only people could make videos where great voices or inspirational speeches weren't obscured by some inspirational music blaring. As if the original words weren't good enough.
I always had the same problem with several versions of Charlie Chaplin's amazing speech from the end of The Great Dictator.
Kipling was way ahead of his time. Words we can still live by.
He wrote down old, old wisdom, that was still more present when he was alive than it is today.
Most of the things said in the poem have been regurgitated for thousands of years in different forms of writings. I guess in modern times our motives have changed to get better things. Through reading literature, I believe in old times it was more common to find motives to strive to become a better person first, than to strive for better things. Times have changed.
Rudyard Kipling did write a masterpiece.
His rendition changed "If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds distance run, yours is the Earth and everything that's it it, and which is more, you'll be a man my son" to forty seconds and I like it. Because reality is you're going to fall. There will be hard times for all of us, in various ways and manners throughout our life. Just do your best.
I’m a 32 year old woman who grew up hearing this poem (among others) from my mom, and now it hits me hard.
I know it wasn’t designed for my sex, but I just opened a business early this year before my dad was hospitalized and my uncle was diagnosed with a terminal illness. I divide my time between my business, my father (who is back home and thriving), and my 95 yr old grandmother (who is struggling with the grief of losing her son), and listening this poem reminds me why I’m setting my own needs aside for the success of my family…people I love who did so much for me, and now need me to do as much as I can for them too.
It means a lot to me. I hope I can live up to the standards of this poem.
I think it applies to everyone regardless of gender. Glad you found inspiration in it.
You're wrong, it's was written for you and your sex, as much as for all us, human beings. Living to the standards of the poem is not about results, is about trying to do, you're well covering it. Kudos for you.
Alfred lord Tennyson
William Shakespeare cool too
Pray for GOD'S guidance and wisdom for the task at hand.
You got this
My 8th grade teacher, Mrs. Stampley, tall, dark, looked like a model, had us individually recite this poem. Never forgot it. I am now 75 years old.❤
Hello Linda
How are you doping today?
My father gave me, his daughter, this poem when I was 10 back in 1964. It's still framed and hanging on my wall. Love this version.
your sister???
My mother gave this to me framed on my 11th birthday. I've strived and fallen short at times.over the years I became the man worthy of it. I will never forget why she introduced me to it.
I love Psalm of life from usa
I am 50 years old man and i have lost more things in life than i have gained. I have dusted myself off and lifted myself from the ground when i have fallen. I have fought hard and lost a many of a fight and fought with love and vigor for those in the end who never loved me but still i tried to be the best i could be and i hold these words close to my heart. As all we have in this world in the end is our integrity and that love for those ones who love us.
Be kind to others.Be understanding and dont let those fools out there divide us or take away who we are.
life is hard but can be wonderful in a moment. it can change in a second..a moment ..all things strife to change so hold firm stand tall.
love you all.❤
Beautiful and wise words Mr. Frank. Thank you.
Was going to respond ,then actually re-read it and you did use the word "Integrity" :) IF You have found this or are even making efforts to live within the definition then you have found much more than many many others ever achieve . :) A lot of my own poems come from this or my own realization that life even a hard one does not have become some over bearing weight, and yes stand stall but know you have to flexible , constantly adjusting,I often make the reference of standing of walking into the wind,it increases and decreases THEN you have to return and "it" is now blowing against you trying to blow you down,do you make it home? even after being blown down many times,personally I also see this like I made it home AND with a big smile on my face:) "PEACE TAKES PRACTICE" Rick
@@wichitarick Thank you for your words. I cherish my bad times aswell.. it is all learning either way.🍀
Integrity...first and always. God bless America.
@@24Mossberg God bless USA 🍀👍
This poem was framed and hung in the cabin of every cadet in the National Defence Academy at Khadakvasla, in India. One still gets goosebumps hearing it. Especially the last line. You will be a man, my son.
Case in point.
My 5th grade teacher made us learn poetry. This was one. I hated memorizing poetry, but when I was three years later taking it as a guide for my life. It’s about maturity.
I am a 38yo mother of an 8yo daughter and 4yo son. As Im listening to this, I am bawling my eyes out at what I think are missed opportunities to teach them life lessons. This poem will allow me to give them another starting point. 🙏🏽
It's never too late to bring greatness into this world. Always starting with the person in the mirror of course.
You got this!
For those that don't know this was intended, or written for, his son. A few years later an entire generation of Europe's best and brightest lay dead on her battlefields. Young Kipling was among them.
@@acbulgin2 Sadly you may be right.
@@acbulgin2 Wars will certainly happen again; they're going on right now. But mankind may eventually evolve. We have learned many things. South Africa made incredible strides for humanity with its Truth avd Reconciliation Commission. Etc, sorry, no time.
I think I am right in saying that young John Kipling was excused service due to his very poor eyesight but he enlisted anyway. He was killed in the trenches by a single shot to the jaw from a German sniper.
@@helenhucker346 Interesting story.
It wasn't only Europe's best and brightest llying dead on battlefields. That damned European war was finished by men from overseas at huge cost. Never forget.
When I was in Uni, I met a lovely young man who loved this poem, and read/quoted it all the time. He was shot by his step father 2 years after I met him, in fact 5 members of his family were killed on that terrible day. Only one of his brothers survived. I think of him often, and wonder, and I keep this poem close, and read it often. I always remember Craig when I hear these words. Thank you for a beautiful reading.
I wrote this poem out for my niece and changed the last line to read “ “you’ll be a woman , hon!””
@@peternorton367 truer words…
Oh Katherine how have you coped? I too met such a girl nearly 50yrs ago. We became one to my total amazement. I actually experienced what you dream of. 5 years ago next month she was given 3 months to live. Like you I have never met her equal. Not during our 44yrs together nor since. I have often been comforted by words like “oh Peter..she’s looking down on you each day”.....that is no comfort at all. For she would see my pain along with our four children. She clearly stated throughout her life that she had no wish to be an angel but preferred to just be “asleep” until the day when “the meek shall possess the earth and live forever on it.” We are tenants on this planet and have all but ruined it. Karen would say “the owner will soon clear out the bad tenants and we shall walk together again through fields “of grain covering the mountains “ where “the bear will dwell beside the lamb” “and they will build houses and dwell in them.” That was her joy in life and I share that with her.
God bless you
Holy shit, what an awful story! It kinda wrecked this whole experience for me. Thanks.
First year in High School 1964 - our English teacher [Cockney fellow and Ex Royal Marine] gave us this poem to learn. I've never forgoten it and have read it to my three sons. I tear up every time I hear it - such wisdom! Kipling's other poems are well worth reading too.
I cried at first hearing this with my dad giving me all those things in a look and in my head the world needs this
When I was young special forces soldier doing selection I remember the poem outside the regimental office. I stood and slowly read it, it really inspired me to give life my every all and never worry about triumph or disaster. Now I’m nearly 71 and still try and live up to that wonderful poem about being a man!
Courage is really needed to stand by this poem a life time. So cheers!
Thank you for your service.
Thanks for your courage against great odds. You could teach young errr men a thing or two about what it means to be a MAN! ❤️
It's an honor and a privilege to read about the thoughts and perspectives of people who have endured some of the hardest undertakings life can throw at you. Thank You for your service!
What Jonell said above. Honor & privilege. Thank you for your service.
My grandma (who raised me from age three) gave me a copy of this on August 12th 1975 - the day I joined the army. I carried it with me for seventeen years. I still have it, although it is now in eight pieces from regular opening. Listening to this has made me cry but it has also brought hundreds of memories flooding back.
Wow. Reading that your Grandmother gave this poem to you the day you joined the Army was powerful. Made my eyes tear up! That's beautiful! Isn't it wonderful how beautiful souls like your Grandmother always knew what we would need later in life, fending for ourselves in this cruel and evil world? That's why I ALWAYS try my best to listen to our Elders when they speak because they seem to know what to do and say for MOST life situations. I miss the Elders in my community...
My grandmother gave me my copy on a card for my high school graduation in 1968. I framed it and it’s like a plaque on my wall every place I’ve lived. I also had to memorize it in my 5th grade class. I hated memorizing poetry, tho three years later it became my guide to maturity as a woman.
This should be read out loud in the House of Commons everyday.
I got chills. Caine is the man.
My father gave me, his 17 yr old baby girl, a beautiful little book when I left to start my career with the government and military. It was this poem in his handwriting. He had the entire thing weather-proofed and as damage proof as possible done by a book binding company. I’m 52 and still carry it with me everyday.
"career with the government and military" How pathetic. Those words clearly did not do much.
That is quite a gift. He thought highly of you and your potential. When my daughter joined the Navy 10 years ago I gave her a compass inscribed with, "Cast your fates to the winds..." which is my life motto.
I believe your father and myself had a similar vision in mind for our children.
@@dewok2706 Nothing pathetic about public service, sonny.
@@dewok2706huh
That's pretty cool❤
I am a woman and this poem is my motto word from word
it is my opinion, that there is literally no rendition better in conveying the importance of the words, than this one, by Sir Michael Caine...
Dad graduated in 1960 from a boarding school that was part of a thousand-year-old Benedictine monastery (Pannonhalma, Hungary, now a UNESCO world heritage site). This poem was recited at their school leaving ceremony.
Quite against the wish of my parents, I'm an only child (my brother was stillborn with no pregnancy after that). When I was admitted to a state secondary grammar school under the Socialist régime in 1984, If was recited at the year opening ceremony.
My father told me he considered it a good omen.
It turned out into one, indeed.
Thank you, Sir Michael, for this magnificent rendering of the poem.
My Dad was a frustrated poet and artist. When I was 10 he read this poem to me on my Birthday. and when I was 11, and 12, and 13... yup - right through to 17, when I left home to earn a living...
I'm a Professor now. Thanks dad. Thanks, Rudyard!
Tears for my late son. This so describes him.
May he rest in peace, my condolences.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
May he rest in peace.
Absolute chills...
Needed to be heard now more than ever...😮😅🇺🇸
I am crying after listening to this beautiful and wise poem…my mom would read it often and she is long gone now, she would say her father, my grandfather, loved this masterpiece very much! I think it is the single most profound work ever gifted to us all! ❤
I lost my father when I was 11 and my mother shortly after. Following the next few years, other close member of my family would also pass on. By the time I turned 18, I still had no idea what it meant to be a man and to be honest with you, I still don't know. I've gone back and listen to this throughout those years and words cannot describe the wisdom, the connection this work makes me feel to my father. This reminds me of the best of him, as well as to keep trudging on. Thank you Mr. Cain, you may never read this, but from the bottom of my heart, Thank you for making me remember the best of him and to keep inventing myself.
What a beautiful comment you have posted. You're brave and I'm glad you were able to find comfort and guidance from this poem: amazing. It's a great poem. Your parents must have raised you well in the short time that they had. I hope you are blessed with many good things; take care.
Your comment is heartfelt and very respectful ... you do them proud.
I was blessed to have my father for sixty years but its never long enough sorry for your loss at such a early age be strong and continue to share your strength . We shall all meet again though Jesus Christ our Lord !
God bless!
I have never contemplated what it means to be a man. I spend my time contemplating what it means to be human and humane.
I can't think of any masculine values that would not be useful for a woman to cultivate, nor any feminine values that would be useless for a man to cultivate.
When I was 12 in 1966, my 6th grade teacher required my entire class to memorize this poem. It has been something I have always remembered when times get tough.
Hi
@@michaelrobert3566 hello michael
I've read this poem many times but this is the first time I listened to it 💗😌
This was in my school syllabus. It’s in my mind since then. I keep going back to it. It’s such a complete poem for life.
My Grade 8 teacher Mr. Edwicker had the whole class memorize this poem and recite it to him. We discussed it in class and to this day I have never forgotten that lesson or poem and it's meanings. Thank you Rudyard Kipling for writing and Mr. Edwicker for believing in the power of the words to make an entire grade 8 class memorize.
Great teacher! Need more Mr. Edwicker's now than ever! That lesson will be more instrumental is some young man's life, than anything being taught today!
Today he'd probably be arrested for sharing intelligent literature with students.
@@davidm1149 And he would be branded as a "Racist" for trying to inspire ALL students to become a good and well rounded person and not be a "victim" of the Marxism ideology of destroying all identity and self worth in a person.
That’s awesome. We did the Jabberwocky. 😂
I used this poem in my language class every year I taught the subject. It is a profound life lesson.
I don't think the music added anything. I would have preferred to simply hear Sir Michael recite it. It doesn't need a backing track.
Turn the sound off and read the captions.
@@jeffhildreth9244 If you could show me how to turn off the music and leave Sir Michael's lovely voice only, that would be great.
@@troyhartley9681 I wish I knew how. I enjoy Sir Michael's voice also.
Not only music distracting but the images. I closed my eyes trying to concentrate on the words.
@@mvann5 Agreed.
A great poem read by a great actor! thank you Sir Michael!
I've never heard this poem before, the words are so familiar as if instinctively I've lived by them my whole life. Now I'm a father of three and I'll get to share this with my two sons and daughter as a first. Tru words that they'll take with them forever...............❤🙏🏾
"Triumph and Disaster, those two impostors". How true.
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I got emotional watching this.... Probably at the lowest part of my life I came across this poem on a poster rack. I bought it and put it on the wall of my basement apartment. It gave me clarity. Almost 35 years later, I still have that poster tucked away in the closet of my house and has been a calming notion when ever life gets me a little down.
Always loved Sir Michael Caine. This means a lot. Just gotta stay calm and be true to yourself
That's so perfect. Except for the last line because the poem applies to women just as easily. It inspires everyone.
This poem speaks volumes.I wish every father could pass it onto their sons.
I will !!!!!
Amen
Tell them
Yes I agree; But give them an example to follow, show how it is done.Love has many forms, a covert wink between a man and one who wan'ts to be one, is one of lifes joys.To be found wanting in there opinion makes you think about your decisions, and to quote my Dad "pull my sock's up".They will allways love you, it's the choices you make that give them the willies.
I found this poem in my 20's. It was inspiring to me then and now. I did not think of anyone when I read the poem, not a future son, or my father. It was wisdom for me and I am female. It gave me strength.
It did not give you strength. It merely showed you the strength you already have. More power to you.
I read in my tenth grade boards 10 yrs later I finally get what it means
@@yashagar4443 same dude, same
I can remember loving this poem straight away when my Dad first introduced it to me, as you get older it just gets better and better.
A very apt poem for the way life is at the moment , so well read by Michael Caine.👌🇬🇧
…interesting this came across my timeline at this moment. I recited this in high school.
I’m struggling with a depressive episode. “ And so hold on when there is nothing in you except the will which says to them ‘Hold on!’” really hits different right now.
Me too. Just at that one point when all you can do is hold on, ride it out without causing damage is all you can do during the storm.
I don't mean ANY offense by this; however, I said a prayer for you - that you would ask Jesus to be your friend, your father, and your rock.
I'm so sorry you are in a deeply depressed season. Years ago, I went through a hopelessly negative time, as well. It's extremely scary experiencing every day full of dread. I'm not sure how or why I survived.
Anyway, I simply wanted to share that I said a prayer for you 💌
@@wallacewallace4801 Thank you for the prayer, it is greatly appreciated. 💚
I’m so sorry to hear this. I trust this will soon pass but please do not ever feel ashamed to reach out for help.
@@SceneStealer1 ❤❤❤ please know my prayers for you continue. You have not been forgotten 🙂🥰
God I needed that poem today, more than any other day in my life.
Pocholo you said 6 months ago “ God I needed that prayer today, more than any other day in my life”... that was so touching. Have you got past that day? It is common to say “God” when we are stressed....OMG is used in Australia a lot. If we speak to Him to thank Him for a beautiful day or delicious fruit, He most likely will answer your urgent calling to Him like you did 6 moths ago.
You could also hear big smoke quote this poem in gta San Andreas, but from some random guy on internet who’s had everything go to shit, I hope things got better 9 months later.
This poem always brings tears to my eyes.
Years ago, I sat down with a you man of my employ who was deeply troubled. His father was a gang member and he had run away from an abusive home. The only thing I knew was that he was looking for guidance so, not knowing really what to say - almost in desperation - I recited this poem to him. Initially he was a bit confused and certainly surprised at his boss reciting a poem.
But, I know he heard the meaning and sometimes, just sometimes, when we were having a cigarette together, alone, he would ask me to recite it to him.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
Such a Great Narration and a very emotional performance By Rir Michael Caine
A poem about Virtue. It is what we need in this time which is drowned in "virtue signaling." This has been one of my favorite poems for a long time too. Great post!
My only problem with your post is that, in my experience, most people who complain about ‘virtue signaling’ by others are actually masking their own vice or at best, the absence of virtue in their own actions and motives. Most of those people turn a blind or even an approving eye toward figures who contradict every single one of Kiplings ideals put forth in this poem, extolling the braggarts and the mendacious deceivers, coddling those who complain the most while trumpeting their own triumphs and complaining about the mistreatment perceived in critiques of those who engage in the most mistreatment. Then they turn around and say to someone who isn’t trying to do the right thing, or at least remember what the right thing to do was, and dismiss the attempt as ‘virtue signaling.’
I say, it’s far better to signal virtue and hope the message is contagious than to signal the opposite and watch that mindset spread.
@@fergusmcfierce maybe take your own advice old mate
@Margaret
"If you can hear the Margaret's sharp derision,
And hold you head up high and say with ease:
I hold myself to standards _I've_ decided,
My life is not designed to always please.
But to live up to my measure is my struggle,
And I stumble, but I rise each time I fall,
I'll reach my summit proudly, with my head up,
Having never pleased the Margarets at all."
@@fergusmcfierce I wouldn't call Margaret a Karen. Karens tend to be self-serving and entitled, without much thought or reasoning. Margaret is at least properly expressing a widely held opinion that I believe is wrong, and irrelevant to the poem we're talking about.
@Margaret You took my verse as a personal insult, when it didn't impugn anything about you, except to use your name as a figure of opposition. The poem speaks of opposition, which we all have to face in this world, and that's what you've chosen to be in this discussion of the poem. You call that violence and insult. It's not. It is easy to be right when you ascribe to me evil intent, but it is harder to take truths where you find them.
"If" is not a poem about the intricacies of history or man's inhumanity to man. It is about living a life of virtue despite the storms that come. You choose to view it from the perspective you are comfortable with, in a way that allows you to denigrate the poet with points I feel are irrelevant to the text. I can only assume you get something out of that. I assume you get something out of being offended at my little verse. I can suck it up, I can take your insults with aplomb. I don't have to accept your argument, and Kipling's poem does not undergird your criticism of me, or the poem itself. It's interesting that you challenge his idea of manhood and then insult me for not meeting the standard you are undermining. It's also interesting that you attack my manhood when I'm not a man.
Apparently, your preferred response to your opinions is no response, or agreement. Anything less is "becoming violent and insulting in words, thoughts and intent." This is apparently Eurocentric Imperialism, though I am neither of European descent, nor have I conquered any nation. It's not oversensitivity on your part, it's the rottenness of the world and everything in it, even poems.
I have the right to disagree with the things you post on the internet, and the right to post my opinions on the same forum.
By the same token, you have the right to hate everything. Please do.
This was read at my Grandpa's funeral, most amazing man who touched my life without doubt. I wish I could be half the man he was, loved and adored by many, especially me. I have this poem he used to have hung up on his office wall.
We read it at my dad's funeral. All through my childhood, even when I was a little, little girl, my dad would randomly pull this up and read it to me.
I love this actor.
I haven't heard his voice for a long time, till now and I miss him, he is inspirational human being ❤
I wanted to see Caine's eyes as he was reading Britain's favourite poem:
When you have Sir Michael Caine reading, you don't need these distracting images. Just Caine's voice, Kipling's genius.
Exactly! And we're not here to hear the piano, especially not so loud that we can barely hear the reader! Stop trying to be Cecil B. DeMille. You're not.
This poem is heard with deeper meaning now compared to when I was a boy. You have to get this into your DNA and live from it's truth.
basically every 10 yrs you realize you didnt really know all that much
True.
So true. When I was around 12 years old I was give "If" in a photo frame which hung on my bedroom wall. I did not get it until many years later. I wished I was a more mature 12 year old.
I read this at about age 13, a time in life when we are all looking for answers. I knew I had found life's guiding principles. My father didn't talk much about things like that but I knew if I could live my life with those principles, he would be proud and I would become a grown person. I am female.
“If you can dream and not make dreams your master….”
Lovely rendition of the uplifting poem. Thanks.
I truly appreciated the lines he misremembered, it shows that he was reciting it, not reading it. Well done sir!
40 secs of distance run?? bad memory??-lol
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But to recite 40 seconds suggests he doesn't understand the meaning of that line.
Excellent point.
This poem was a complete description of my father. If you could sum up a human being in words, “If” would be my father. A good, honest, kind, decent, honorable, gentle man. Growing up my Mom had my brother memorize it to recite to Dad for his birthday and I read it at his grave. I miss him every day.
You are blessed to have had a father like that.
I didn't grow up here and have not
heard this poem before right now. I know the writer's name, Kipling is famous world wide!
Your comments motivated me to also read the transcript on my phone. I want to say I completely understand your raving reviews.
The poem is wonderful, warm, and uplifting! Thanks for guiding my attention to it!
I gave a copy to my son and all my grandsons. It’s so everything that I respect in a human male or female. It’s just brilliant.
After having listened to his audiobook on You Tube I would have bet a million this would be Michael’s favorite poem. Mine too. A rough life makes or breaks a man.
I am a woman and when I was a young child I loved this poem
To me it meant growing up and trying to be a successful human being. I loved this writing.
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Makes me cry - the most beautiful use of language in one poem!
This is such a wonder ! I am determined ,despite my advanced age, to work on memorizing this poem. One line a day firm .
My grandad shown me this poem when I was younger. Miss you grandad ❤️
My mother read this to me as a child. I read it to my boys, couldn't get through it without crying.
This is read out by my eldest brother at my mothers funeral, and I listen to Everytime I think of her
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
I wrote this poem out as a gift for my father when I was 10 & years later gave it to my son as he became a man… another decade on I still love it & admit that I have quietly kept these precepts for myself all these years, thinking them relevant to us all ❤
Came across this poem as an 18 year old cadet training at the academy back in 91. The pace of life was just too fast to sit back and contemplate the profound message conveyed by Kipling. The experience that comes with all the ups & downs of life was to come later, while serving in the army. As I look back now with 3 decades in uniform behind me, I realize how profound this message is. Have I filled the unforgiving minute with 60 seconds worth of distance run???? Could I have done better?
I first heard this in 2002 when I was 50 years old. Changed my life.
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Hello Gary hope you’re having a wonderful day?
I can not believe I never heard this until yesterday, my birthday. I am 53 and my father (87) and I were by ourselves sitting in the back yard listening to the birds sing, recited it from memory. It was auspicious timing!
This has always been my favourite poem.
It was part of our 10th class poems ICSE ‘82 in India . 🥰
Those days when we learnt it not because it was part of curriculum but for the love of it .😍
My dad bought me a small booklet if "If" when I was in high school. that was over 50 years ago, and it's still my favorite also.
This poem is timeless. The virtues spoken of are not just limited to "a man", but to human kind.
Ooohhhh we got a feminist here that doesn't understand that MANkind , AND MAN means human. When MAN stepped on the moon. We knew what it meant and what it means. Quit being stupid.
I appreciate your comment.
You will never understand the meaning and gravity of being a Man.
@@FirstNameLastName-ug7rp Hi - I think you could be more aware of your language. It's unkind to call someone stupid. Also, feminism is a movement and was a hard fight for women in the U.S, and most of the women on the Earth suffer and are treated inhumanely.
"If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,"
Even in these comments. Keep speaking your truth.
Never heard this before, but no one better than sir Michael. Ty sir Michael.
I am old and grey now but this poem helped me through all the tough times in my life. Now I have handed it on to my son and grandson.
Such an excellent poet and writer, do read this "Seal Lullaby" too
I found, among my grandfather's things, a framed copy of this poem and loved it. There also was a framed copy of another poem with it. The name of that poem was Thinking by Walter Wintle. This poem moved me even more than If (maybe because I am a woman). I had two girls with Cystic Fibrosis and I had them memorize Thinking because I thought it might help them through life. I guess I was right because, when my youngest daughter made me a copy in her calligraphy, she wrote me a note on the back of the poem. She wrote: Dearest Mom, You taught me to memorize this poem as a child it has brought me through difficult times. It has shaped my attitude all thru my life. I love you. She fought a good fight and lived a lot longer than her sister but she still died too young.
It’s wonderful that you passed along such beautiful things to your daughters.
I have always loved this poem and I am a woman too. The part that got to me most was the last part. From If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue...to the end. It is seared into my brain. I too have a daughter with Cystic Fibrosis. This is one of the poems I shared with her. Sorry for your loss. I know the battle. She made her father a mug that said, Thanks for reaching me to be a man, even though I'm your daughter.
Thank you for sharing this... I've never heard of Walter Wintle or "Thinking" and I'm going to look it up directly after I leave this response. I find what you wrote here to be a tender and poignant record of the profound effect a mother can have on her daughter when she is a wise and generous teacher.
@@crowdedcrow3098 Walter winkle
@@TheJhale2011 Will your daughter get the miracle drug?