How To Step Up Your Text Game From Average to Pro (Texting Example Breakdown)

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  • @TheFsissala
    @TheFsissala 4 роки тому +126

    Bro this is great, usable and practical content. Thanks

  • @ashukataria2153
    @ashukataria2153 4 роки тому +144

    I really love the fact that this channel is straight to the point no extra bullshit while others are just mostly talking about channel sponsors

  • @de11o
    @de11o 3 роки тому +32

    “Be the buyer not the seller” something I really needed to learn to implement into my game. Just discovered this channel and I’ve been binging. I feel like I’ve learned more in 2 days of knowing this channel than all my other UA-cam research. Great channel man hope u blow up

  • @pas5294
    @pas5294 4 роки тому +113

    The older bro i never had

  • @darylezeji
    @darylezeji 4 роки тому +72

    It’s crazy how quick you come up with these crazy ideas for texts.. like i should just steal your brain

    • @uthmanoseni3565
      @uthmanoseni3565 4 роки тому +8

      I’ve said that too. If I could have his brain. I would be a monster. Dude comes up with flirty lines fast. Takes me days to think of what to say

  • @evanthailer9217
    @evanthailer9217 4 роки тому +53

    Bro I just caught wind of your channel a few days ago and my tinder game has already improved astronomically. I owe you tons from flakes to dates. Your the fucking man.

  • @billihawk368
    @billihawk368 2 роки тому +15

    -Be aware of your actual interaction
    -Dont be a text robot
    -Pay attention to your interaction
    -Own it when she tests you and make silence
    -Dont give up way too easy when she doesnt buy. Like marketing, figure out whats her concern or objection
    -Be brief and Dominant. Dont be wordy.
    -Dont Half sexualize like youre afraid. Do it.
    -Dont apologize
    -Dont be overly understanding. Found out Why she is not buying.
    -Buyer frame
    -Be assertive
    -Reframe the interaction in a positive way when she is repeting a bad pattern.
    -Tease her when/if she tries to tool you/test you.

    • @isaiahjr9259
      @isaiahjr9259 2 роки тому +1

      Saved me bro I didn’t take nots lol

  • @jgpix1
    @jgpix1 3 роки тому +7

    I like the in depth analysis of all the texts back and forth. Also the framing, buyer/seller stuff, and timing of soft close etc. I can definitely see where I messed up in the past. Great channel

  • @christianforte8032
    @christianforte8032 4 роки тому +7

    You have the best most insightful videos in this genre of UA-cam, keep it up man

  • @mrblondeheart9562
    @mrblondeheart9562 4 роки тому +8

    This ain’t no BS, I binge watched these vids and my text game has already improved! I’ve been chatting with a dozen baddies, all with different personalities to work with. It’s pretty fun tbh, I see why they call it “game”😂

  • @richrise4065
    @richrise4065 2 роки тому +2

    Damn, you're really making me think about this differently. I love your advice and guidance. It's great. Subscribed.

  • @meetangad
    @meetangad 3 роки тому +1

    Brother - you are one of the most strategic thinkers, I’ve seen. Love your content and method

  • @darylezeji
    @darylezeji 4 роки тому +4

    This is the type of frame control we want a video on 🙌🏾 maintaining masculine frame

  • @isaacsotomayor3746
    @isaacsotomayor3746 4 роки тому +32

    Nice never accept her frame , always be in control and lead . Easy . Thanks .

  • @pistachioicecream1484
    @pistachioicecream1484 4 роки тому +19

    I’ve been binging this dude, so much sauce 💯

  • @IamProfessorO
    @IamProfessorO 4 роки тому +2

    You’re fucking hilarious bro. That 8:18 bit about the salesman analogy had me dead. Your persistence and results are the most impressive thing. Love the thorough breakdown of your conversations and why certain things work and why others don’t. Keep it up brother. Subbed

  • @connorkennedy8454
    @connorkennedy8454 4 роки тому +9

    Love the channel man. Any advice for a guy that doesn’t drink alcohol? Seems 70% of your soft or hard closes involve wine, any alternatives?

    • @vanamutt43
      @vanamutt43 4 роки тому +6

      advice is, start drinking.
      jk, man, props to you for staying sober, respect

    • @fray2748
      @fray2748 4 роки тому +6

      Works just as well with coffee, a home cooked meal and such things. Good job staying sober!

    • @connorkennedy8454
      @connorkennedy8454 4 роки тому +1

      Lucas Fray thanks bro, good idea!

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому

      Depends, you just generally trying to not drink or are you an alcoholic where a sip is going to be a game changer. If the first, I would just pour myself a bit and just sip on it. If second, you can just say you’ll cook or just pour non alcoholic for yourself

    • @connorkennedy8454
      @connorkennedy8454 4 роки тому +1

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel I'm the first, so yeah that's a great idea thanks. I'll just take a sip or two and the girl can still have a lot

  • @M3urs
    @M3urs 4 роки тому +5

    pls, more step up text game breakdown, that's fire ;)
    it would be interesting if you do a vid on concern too :)

  • @mypetcacus
    @mypetcacus 9 місяців тому

    bro Alex your videos don't miss!

  • @adilnasir8914
    @adilnasir8914 4 роки тому +12

    At least he didn’t threaten to fight her grandma

  • @AkiraUema
    @AkiraUema 3 роки тому +3

    6:46 Me thinking: "Kinky cuddles? Hmmmm! That was actually quite clever!"
    Alex: "Here's his mistake! Kinky cuddles??? That doesn't make any sense!!!"
    Me: "Oh!!"

  • @patrickjames3321
    @patrickjames3321 3 роки тому +1

    Have you ever considered making a guide for guys with gf or married already? To spice things up with our couple more?

  • @lds6182
    @lds6182 3 роки тому

    Cherry picked a lot from your content great stuff man 👍🏽 im too direct and always go in for the number close to gauge the attraction level then talk on phone for 10 minutes then set a date

  • @julla1416
    @julla1416 2 роки тому

    Great video and your website forum is very helpful.

  • @brettstefanishin574
    @brettstefanishin574 4 роки тому

    "The infamous 'swiped right for possible nice booty'"
    Holy shit I laughed way too hard at that.

  • @justinmacarrhur1924
    @justinmacarrhur1924 2 роки тому +1

    4:36
    Hdf did the message from friday 3rd of april at 12:00 am was followed by friday 3rd of april 10am ???

  • @75pdubs
    @75pdubs 2 роки тому

    @Playing With Fire can we still send texts to be analyzed/roasted? i have some doozies in which i get manhandled by 9s when i’m trying to stick to a script.

  • @pnoipr8
    @pnoipr8 4 роки тому +1

    do you have examples/videos of you addressing the concern of meeting up during the pandemic with your potential hook ups? like a text breakdown where you have those discussions?

  • @ColeAhamad
    @ColeAhamad 4 роки тому +1

    More people need to see this

  • @elmerwowop7983
    @elmerwowop7983 4 роки тому

    this channel deserves million subs

  • @hetapolski
    @hetapolski 4 роки тому +1

    very nice , i like that u cover every aspect. 2020 is online game
    U should do more of that "oh my gosh" funny voice

  • @someoneonamission6149
    @someoneonamission6149 4 роки тому +1

    Hi, I am struggling to get girls in my high school because they think I try too hard to get girls and text too many girls. You replied to one of my comments recently saying I have a long way to go and things will naturally change when I get to college. But how do I act now? Before I got college, what do I do with girls?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +4

      High school is largely a popularity contest. Just don’t give a fuck and ppl will think you’re cool

  • @Nijlandboy
    @Nijlandboy 2 роки тому

    So, what if I don't drink alcohol? Any other suggestions besides splitting a bottle of wine?

  • @darylezeji
    @darylezeji 4 роки тому +3

    Damn bro. You good!

  • @jacobalaba4202
    @jacobalaba4202 4 роки тому +1

    What advice would u give if someone has hard time clicking good pics of themselves but they have good text game?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +2

      It always comes down to improving your weakest point. So keep taking pics, eventually a few are bound to turn out good

  • @catreflex
    @catreflex 4 роки тому

    Hey man, great content. Any advice for texting a girl that has gone ghost after your first FaceTime date even though she was texting normally after the FaceTime date and then all of a sudden stops texting back?

    • @nausuki123
      @nausuki123 4 роки тому +2

      Onto the next one, sounds like she wasn’t feeling you bro. If she was the facetime wouldve raised her interest, not lowered it.

  • @pyyp_5319
    @pyyp_5319 4 роки тому +2

    “Don’t crave get chased”

  • @KingCoCo
    @KingCoCo 4 роки тому +1

    Dope video bro, solid - makes me cringe at some of my past fuck ups 😂

  • @redpillbrotherhood110
    @redpillbrotherhood110 3 роки тому +3

    Great breakdown. This guy is chasing a low interest girl way too much. The second she mentioned Covid stop wasting your time and go find a girl who is down.

  • @rpm3127
    @rpm3127 3 роки тому

    love ur vids, so when i first meet a girl, ill instantly be dominate and flirty?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 роки тому

      There's no black or white to something like that. You need to go off of the vibe. Observe her body language and the way she maintains eye contact etc

  • @Leo-yn5fx
    @Leo-yn5fx 4 роки тому +3

    I really dislike the wordy texts unless it really calls for it man. Like the texts most guys use in response to a girl asking “whats your idea of a date?” with the whole chemistry and making her beg for it makes me cringe at this point lmao.

  • @SavaNedev
    @SavaNedev 3 роки тому

    1) Great video 2) Is it an old one because you said "help us get 10K subs"? hahaha smashed through that milestone a while ago ;)

  • @danielmay1011
    @danielmay1011 4 роки тому +2

    What's going on bro, thanks for the content

  • @ColeAhamad
    @ColeAhamad 4 роки тому

    I’m gonna shout you out on all platforms

  • @6alisk
    @6alisk 3 роки тому

    Great channel

  • @danielcooper4455
    @danielcooper4455 3 роки тому

    "I wouldn't of said that, I would have said (fill in the blank)... LIKE BAM!!!"

  • @sempiazza7264
    @sempiazza7264 2 роки тому

    Really thanks 🙏

  • @AlenaSenziova
    @AlenaSenziova 11 місяців тому

    Biggg broooo

  • @liamfinn9709
    @liamfinn9709 3 роки тому

    Hey what are some good questions to ask girls on text?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 роки тому

      Just take a look at all our Love report breakdowns. And every other single video

  • @stivestokkeprygl1025
    @stivestokkeprygl1025 3 роки тому

    thk bro, there are def something I can use here..

  • @Diirk
    @Diirk 4 роки тому

    Great video

  • @starbright1266
    @starbright1266 4 роки тому +1

    you've stepped on a poor bird bro

  • @widz_
    @widz_ 3 роки тому +1

    "save my name with hearts and sparkles" oh my lord smh

  • @fatalexpress5970
    @fatalexpress5970 4 роки тому +1

    how do i reply if a girl says "why am I trouble?"

  • @braddlyswaggly
    @braddlyswaggly Рік тому

    question, j don’t know wine. which wine is good 😂

  • @kunalbhargava593
    @kunalbhargava593 4 роки тому

    What'd you reckon to be a good way to address the corona thing the girl said here?

  • @markuruymagov3203
    @markuruymagov3203 3 роки тому +1

    Мужык ты крут, спасибо за советы)

  • @alphaisamindset1718
    @alphaisamindset1718 4 роки тому +4

    Hey trouble 😈

  • @soccerstreaks4787
    @soccerstreaks4787 4 роки тому

    More videos like this plz

  • @thatswhatisaidbunnybread.5317
    @thatswhatisaidbunnybread.5317 4 роки тому

    I need to go from mediocre to average

  • @paulfitness5157
    @paulfitness5157 3 роки тому

    You know you're stuff, I'm in sales and Id honestly just pick up the phone

  • @funkliveDj
    @funkliveDj 4 роки тому

    Bro you re the bro or father of all of us

  • @reecesimpson1150
    @reecesimpson1150 4 роки тому

    Hey bro how would I approach a shy girl ?

    • @heatherfeather9951
      @heatherfeather9951 4 роки тому

      Don't be an annoying extrovert. Shy girls don't respond the same way that extrovert girls do to extrovert guys. A shy girl doesn't give her attention to anyone and everyone so don't come off as the type of guy who chases EVERY girl he encounters.

  • @jthb
    @jthb 4 роки тому +1

    Any tips for "religious girls"

  • @cornholio777
    @cornholio777 2 роки тому

    Can we talk about why women are ruthless when it comes to courtship??? They play victims when the players play their game

  • @tommydawson7147
    @tommydawson7147 3 роки тому

    So ALMOST NEVER USE EMOJIS?

  • @antoniopetrache1
    @antoniopetrache1 4 роки тому

    What about from below average to average?

  • @shriyashsonar8082
    @shriyashsonar8082 4 роки тому

    Man I was talking to a girl we talked for an hour maybe and after that she said maybe you'll get someone better? Lol

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому

      You probably said something she didn’t like

    • @shriyashsonar8082
      @shriyashsonar8082 4 роки тому

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel ah let me check but the thing was we were talking about culture and I was talking about my she was talking about her and I don't think I said something. Let me figure out

  • @DanTuber
    @DanTuber 4 роки тому +5

    you got a feather stuck to your shoe

    • @indianpe624
      @indianpe624 4 роки тому +1

      DanTuber That was the main point of the video

  • @samueldecelles2631
    @samueldecelles2631 4 роки тому

    Dude I think you stepped on a pillow before the video

  • @dte6469
    @dte6469 Рік тому

    Great info Alex but I think you stepped on a bird.

  • @RagingBullKm
    @RagingBullKm 4 роки тому

    BAM!

  • @PrimalSnake
    @PrimalSnake 3 роки тому

    I make hella mistakes😭

  • @FW7737
    @FW7737 4 роки тому

    Single moms aren't worth it. Let's leave them for loosers.

  • @The9833785963
    @The9833785963 4 роки тому

    Im texting a girl and after I mentioned we could hang out ! She straight away said 'corona is gonna woop our asses' now in this case I can't ask her if she's worried cause she straight up said it ! What would be wise to text ?

  • @Kochos
    @Kochos 4 роки тому

    bro are you a football player? Your face is familiar

  • @romankozlovskiy7899
    @romankozlovskiy7899 4 роки тому

    No such thing as text game there is just game

  • @ExtremeGuy1
    @ExtremeGuy1 3 роки тому

    She is wearing a mask loll

  • @teresemariecloonan.c7739
    @teresemariecloonan.c7739 3 роки тому

    😍😍

  • @reljanedeljkovic7545
    @reljanedeljkovic7545 3 роки тому

    Tf is on the bottom of your shoe my guy