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"Finding out about a third party in my relationship was a painful revelation. Confronting my ex-boyfriend only resulted in gaslighting, pushing me further away. However, seeking assistance enabled us to heal, and thanks to a spiritual advisor, he's undergone a positive transformation."
He will text you all day every day. He tells you how important you are to him. He wants to give you everything. He wants to pick you up after work and take you out. He calls you to make sure you get home safely. He calls to hear the sound of your voice. He remembers everything you say. He wants you exclusively and says so.
Great video. I’m going to be 49 (I look in my 20’s) this year and single by choice. I’ve been at my job 21 years and have a 401K and a pension. I lost both parents within a month of each other to cancer in 2021. I also was with a man for 10 years and lost him in 2013 from suicide. I’ve been working on myself and I’d like to meet someone on my level. Your videos have helped me so much. Thank you.
You quoting “Damn the torpedos,full steam ahead”, was in the movie “Tbe More the Merrier “. Maybe you’ve seen it. An old movie, excellent. Thanks for this video. ❤️
Wow. I shouldn’t have watched this today on Valentine’s Day. I truly hit something and I just started crying. Ladies listen to this man. Don’t justify actions. People are treating you how they feel about you. Period
We love you Johnathan! I am growing with your work. Limerence is hard to logically navigate through due to the crazy chemicals. No more situationships, I am worth more than that. I am not interested in being used and me using someone. I blocked a man who thought I was a porn queen operator! Geez. What is the best way of setting your boundaries of no casual sex without being super blunt? It is like men choose not to hear you when you set boundaries. Instant block. These dating vows are wonderful! Awesome job! I tried to put the seat up and almost fell in, because it was in the dark. lol. I learned not to do it again. My condolences for your loss. Side hug.
Jonathan, this was supremely helpful. I have been seeing a guy for 3 months and he is exhibiting all five of those signs. I am fairly confident we are well-suited and things are going well but there is always a part of me that wants some sign that I am on the right track with him. This was it. So grateful.
Pathetic if men think women would waist her time, for a "free meal". Most women nowadays are actually earning a lot of money, some more than men even. I would rather stay home and eat popcorn, then suffer through a better meal with a man who is just interested in hooking up. And who I have very little in common with. It's not like men even take girls out to a high end restaurant anyway, unless they know her better and are already in a relationship. Nowadays the guys online are worse off financially,and emotionally than most women anyway.
I think your right but also if you care and want to spend time with them why do something more comfortable or thoughtful and most likely cheaper but better .like I love picnics id rather that or a dinner that's not cheap but together in a more space to get to learn each other . Not just for sex I think that has to be on boths mind in the first place but that's called a bootycall not date .
It definitely does happen but I would think it's younger women mostly us older ladies are more financially established in saying that if a Man asks me out on a first date and doesn't pay there would be no second date 1 you asked me 2 I will never forget what Steve Harvey says if he can't buy you a plate of food he's not going to invest money or time in you. I'm not talking super flash restaurant just a nice meal
Good points ladies. I have no time for men that complain about money when their lifestyle and behavior indicates otherwise. Also time. Invest in those that invest in you.
I think it's a great subject about Men paying attention..a situation happening to me was I had a Nail in my Tire...the response was: No problem I'll fix it..I thanked him and as soon as he arrived it was taken care of...It was nice of him doing it,even though I didn't ask,but I appreciated it. We had many great conversations and are looking forward to our Trip and a Concert! Thanks, Jonathan
@Tati S be your best self and shine in that! I found my fella two weeks after a bad accident that changed me forever. It's possible, really, BELIEVE IT !!! Blessings to you!!!🤗❤
Men like de facto relationships more than women, even if they've been together for years. Women like to feel honoured and respected and that comes with being married.
I love the emotion vow. After two months of dating, I asked the guy after the second time we slept together, is it going to be just me and you? He said, he would like that. I am serious about him and wanted to know if he felt the same. He said the 1st time we slept together that he works alot and doesn't have time to to be dating around. He had been drinking so I wasn't sure if he was serious. I can say I fell for him after 2 months. 3 months in, I do love him and have planned our future in my head but I don't want to say anything to him until I am 100% sure that he feels the same way. Our values line up perfectly. So I am praying for the best. We both agree on the roles we would like to see in our husband/wife. He is more traditional and I am modern/traditional. He will let me be to work and I promise that when it is time for a family. I will put that 1st. I was home with my 1st kid and I loved to see each moment. I wouldn't want to miss that a 2nd time around. However, I haven't told him that I don't want 2 children. I only want one between us. I like traveling.
My soon to be ex husband tried to fix EVERYTHING!!! So annoying!! Even our past marriage counselor told him not to try to fix everything that l expressed to him. What she said to him, went out the window. I strongly believe narcissists are too broken to change.
"Finding out about a third party in my relationship was a painful revelation. Confronting my ex-boyfriend only resulted in gaslighting, pushing me further away. However, seeking assistance enabled us to heal, and thanks to a spiritual advisor, he's undergone a positive transformation."
In a friends with benefit situation, there is usually one who wants more (usually the woman); however, if they say anything about how they feel or that they want the "benefits" should we say to be exclusive, he will run.... This is true especially if you're dealing with a player who has no desire to have a commitment with anyone. If the woman mentions commitment, he may end it, and then the woman is left out in the cold. This scenario is of course if the woman really cares about her "friend." Sometimes, you have to think are you going to be better off without him? Anyway, I am obviously in this situation, and I chose to keep my mouth shut in order to have my hot young buck keep coming around. I realize I am just wasting time if I want a relationship with someone, but I am living for the moment. Just my opinion.
Regarding the toilet seat up or down well I read a book that was written by a pretty famous actress and she actually wrote about that situation and I had to agree. pretty much we as women need the seat down more often than you because we tend to go to the bathroom more frequently. At least in our younger ages as you get older, you’re fine. The men tend to go more frequently interesting huh?
I would never get married again but if I felt a guy really loved me I would live with him but I dont believe in marriage. Been there done that .not interrested
Haha…perhaps you have advice for me..met a fella a few times at an organized event I attend regularly.. He realizes I live in the same area as I do.. There is an event I am attending Tuesday evening..he asked me that if he drives over to my place, would I drive up there..
You fall in the toilet water - clean or not & u will remember to put the seat down ! Men can pee seat up or seat down really with good aim! Women need to sit or hover- even if only pee. ( most ,but not all women will fall into the water if no seat & could potentially get hurt even if just slightly & who wants toilet water to get all over & in that special place- even if its clean water it is from the toilet bowl! Its just the idea of it as well imho. )
This is great advice for what men show you if they’re truly interested. I am just wondering have you found someone else that you connected with?? because I’ve had to walk away from that past person that I did truly have a connection with. I have not yet within 6 to 5 months have run into another new connection. I am out all the time whether it’s my job a social place or even just out in the community, ran into what I’m looking for which is better this time than what I’ve been through in the last connection. I have asked and manifested specifically what I’m looking for from this last connection😊.
Just going to settle this once and for all, Jonathon! Aside from men being *able* to leave the toilet seat up when they use the bathroom, flushing the toilet with the lid open disperses particles in the air. If the seat is up when you go to use their bathroom, that means they flushed with the lid open too. That's gross on its own without having anything to do with us -- just saying! One toilet seat cancels out all the nice shirts for me, haha!
Jonathan a woman won't put the seat down Because generally the man is facing the toilet. It's easy to just bend and lift it easily. for a woman,when she really has to go badly, she doesn't have time to put the seat down. Sometimes she accidentally sits down and doesn't realize that the seat was left up in her haste to pee quickly and her entire a** goes into the water. That never happens to a man. That's why!!!!!
…because an open toilet looks gross even if it’s pearly white. ESP if there’s dried yellow specks on it. It is reminiscent of bending over and showing. Plus pets drink out of it. Chlorinated water is bad for them.
Looks like a knit shirt though- ive only known “ dress shirts” of a woven material of some llk to have collar stays- i could be wrong &/or maybe times have changed ( if its knit collar with a seam on the bottom edge usually has interfacing sewn in to help with the structure- but still no stays…- at least in my experience- & JA wears “polo” ( also some call “golf” shirts) style shirts ( knit of some ilk) more often than woven shirts seems to me….regardless - whatever this shirt material is - it looks properly pressed, and comfortable & appropriate - collar stays or not- thats my main take away. ( Yes - in this setting a shirt with a collar of some sort i think is more appropriate). Just saying…
Jonathan where do you stand on how to deal with a man not keeping his word for me it’s a red flag and it triggers my anxious attachment pattern so I make a big deal of it early on in the relationship which hurts me is there a right way to deal with this in the early stages thank you and I love how authentic you are in your videos
About the longevity of your parents marriage……longevity does not equal health. The marriage could have been incredibly dis functional. Your viewers will never know. Hell, you may not even know.
Regarding asking about finances: I am a woman and want to have this conversation early. I want to make sure the man is financially responsible with a retirement plan. That's the path I am on and I want to ensure we are aligned. Regarding coffee dates: I decline them and suggest something else. It doesn't have to be fancy and/or expensive, just not a coffee shop. I do not drink coffee and find most coffee shops in my area are loud and busy and not conducive to a nice first date.
I haven't watched for a while. Regarding a relationship, Jonathon mentioned "the next time". Did his relationship end with the woman from out of state?
If women have to touch the toilet seat then we have to then eash our hands before using the toilet . We are more prone to infections . Men , put the seat down!😅
@@JonathonAslay true, though narcissists have an over-the-top flavor of it that is egregious, eg. two weeks in: “you’re my soulmate,” “I want to marry you and adopt your kids” etc. Until they suddenly devalue you. Run! Don’t walk… Another one is the “reptile eyes,” a soul-less look in their eyes in certain moments that I saw very early on, which I found out other people have experienced when encountering a legit narcissist.
Toilet seat. Think of trash cans. We prefer not to see the garbage. Keeps the animals and kids out of it. Same with the toilet. Keep it covered. It’s never germ free. It’s dirty. So keep it covered up!
What am i doing? Men follow me at the shops, I'm not doing anything except walking and dressing nicely and modestly. I tie my hair back to look less obviously attractive, but they still follow me. I usually keep an eye out for them and walk fast and cross over to another area. Why do I care? It's unpleasant and intrusive to discover a man is in your personal space - like 1' behind me rhe whole way up an otherwise empty shopping aisle. It's creepy and a bit threatening. Men shouldn't be doing it - not so close and persistent. I'm doing NOTHING except existing and daring to take care of myself so that i have pretty soft shiny hair. And being petite. It's genetics and good lifestyle. That shouldn't mean men get to intrude on my personal space. I'm just minding my own business, shopping.
It doesn't go the other way because god made toilet seats. And since god made toilet seats they need to be down! Otherwise why would god have made toilet seats?
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Self respect. Just because you’re older doesn’t mean you’re desperate.
Indeed
"Finding out about a third party in my relationship was a painful revelation. Confronting my ex-boyfriend only resulted in gaslighting, pushing me further away. However, seeking assistance enabled us to heal, and thanks to a spiritual advisor, he's undergone a positive transformation."
Ketherwhale. 👍
Indeed not desperate.
Absolutely!
What if your lonesome you choose erong
Social media & dating apps have made it very easy to be casually dating indefinately
Indeed
He will text you all day every day. He tells you how important you are to him. He wants to give you everything. He wants to pick you up after work and take you out. He calls you to make sure you get home safely. He calls to hear the sound of your voice. He remembers everything you say. He wants you exclusively and says so.
And???
Not true
@@PdBrownhill I’m sad that you have not experienced this ☹️
Talking and doing is two separate things
Great video. I’m going to be 49 (I look in my 20’s) this year and single by choice. I’ve been at my job 21 years and have a 401K and a pension. I lost both parents within a month of each other to cancer in 2021. I also was with a man for 10 years and lost him in 2013 from suicide. I’ve been working on myself and I’d like to meet someone on my level. Your videos have helped me so much. Thank you.
You quoting “Damn the torpedos,full steam ahead”, was in the movie “Tbe More the Merrier “. Maybe you’ve seen it. An old movie, excellent. Thanks for this video. ❤️
Wow. I shouldn’t have watched this today on Valentine’s Day. I truly hit something and I just started crying. Ladies listen to this man. Don’t justify actions. People are treating you how they feel about you. Period
We love you Johnathan! I am growing with your work.
Limerence is hard to logically navigate through due to the crazy chemicals. No more situationships, I am worth more than that. I am not interested in being used and me using someone. I blocked a man who thought I was a porn queen operator! Geez. What is the best way of setting your boundaries of no casual sex without being super blunt? It is like men choose not to hear you when you set boundaries. Instant block. These dating vows are wonderful! Awesome job!
I tried to put the seat up and almost fell in, because it was in the dark. lol. I learned not to do it again.
My condolences for your loss. Side hug.
awe... thank you
Me too! So, interesting,eh? I love the f bombs. He gets so excited about this😂
Being direct the best way.
Stating your position standards & boundaries.
That's confidence. Take charge.
Jonathan I like your attitude and I agree with what you are saying about being all in and being there for the tough times.
Exactly
Jonathan, this was supremely helpful. I have been seeing a guy for 3 months and he is exhibiting all five of those signs. I am fairly confident we are well-suited and things are going well but there is always a part of me that wants some sign that I am on the right track with him. This was it. So grateful.
Glad it was helpful!
Pathetic if men think women would waist her time, for a "free meal". Most women nowadays are actually earning a lot of money, some more than men even. I would rather stay home and eat popcorn, then suffer through a better meal with a man who is just interested in hooking up. And who I have very little in common with. It's not like men even take girls out to a high end restaurant anyway, unless they know her better and are already in a relationship. Nowadays the guys online are worse off financially,and emotionally than most women anyway.
I think your right but also if you care and want to spend time with them why do something more comfortable or thoughtful and most likely cheaper but better .like I love picnics id rather that or a dinner that's not cheap but together in a more space to get to learn each other . Not just for sex I think that has to be on boths mind in the first place but that's called a bootycall not date .
Are you suggesting it never happens... I've read dozens of articles on this practice.
It definitely does happen but I would think it's younger women mostly us older ladies are more financially established in saying that if a Man asks me out on a first date and doesn't pay there would be no second date 1 you asked me 2 I will never forget what Steve Harvey says if he can't buy you a plate of food he's not going to invest money or time in you. I'm not talking super flash restaurant just a nice meal
Good points ladies. I have no time for men that complain about money when their lifestyle and behavior indicates otherwise. Also time.
Invest in those that invest in you.
There is truth in your statement Brenda. On and offline. Rather do something I enjoy than be in the wrong company.
I think it's a great subject about Men paying attention..a situation happening to me was I had a Nail in my Tire...the response was: No problem I'll fix it..I thanked him and as soon as he arrived it was taken care of...It was nice of him doing it,even though I didn't ask,but I appreciated it.
We had many great conversations and are looking forward to our Trip and a Concert!
Thanks, Jonathan
This is resonating I just realized I want a real relationship with the whole ball game for real this time Thank you Jonathan
love your actual duck tape on your video. You're easily the best in your field of coaching on so many levels. You're a natural. Go you. Love it
@Tati S be your best self and shine in that! I found my fella two weeks after a bad accident that changed me forever. It's possible, really, BELIEVE IT !!! Blessings to you!!!🤗❤
Indeed
The dating vows are not stupid I think they should be a standard and definitely my relationship with anyone Thank you Jonathan❤
Men like de facto relationships more than women, even if they've been together for years. Women like to feel honoured and respected and that comes with being married.
Indeed
Yes, committed whether this is in a committed relationship- common law or married.
You look good in your new style. Of clothes.
@ketherwhale “yes it does” lol 😂 I’m kidding hahaha
I love the emotion vow. After two months of dating, I asked the guy after the second time we slept together, is it going to be just me and you? He said, he would like that. I am serious about him and wanted to know if he felt the same. He said the 1st time we slept together that he works alot and doesn't have time to to be dating around. He had been drinking so I wasn't sure if he was serious. I can say I fell for him after 2 months. 3 months in, I do love him and have planned our future in my head but I don't want to say anything to him until I am 100% sure that he feels the same way. Our values line up perfectly. So I am praying for the best. We both agree on the roles we would like to see in our husband/wife. He is more traditional and I am modern/traditional. He will let me be to work and I promise that when it is time for a family. I will put that 1st. I was home with my 1st kid and I loved to see each moment. I wouldn't want to miss that a 2nd time around. However, I haven't told him that I don't want 2 children. I only want one between us. I like traveling.
Thank you
This was great thank you for explaining not only to men but to us women also .thank you .❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
My soon to be ex husband tried to fix EVERYTHING!!! So annoying!! Even our past marriage counselor told him not to try to fix everything that l expressed to him. What she said to him, went out the window. I strongly believe narcissists are too broken to change.
My narcissist ALWAYS had to fix so he could prove he was right and smart. So tiring. Narcissists listen to THEIR inner voice.
Loss really opens us up to love...💖
Indeed
I love that hold the basket or what your advice I remember Marie saying that❤
Wow! Just found you! I needed this content! Thank you!
Happy to help ☺️
Yea the part about how much he cares and held the vomit basket for me. I really love ❤️ him
Hold the basket 🧺 😋
"Finding out about a third party in my relationship was a painful revelation. Confronting my ex-boyfriend only resulted in gaslighting, pushing me further away. However, seeking assistance enabled us to heal, and thanks to a spiritual advisor, he's undergone a positive transformation."
How about put all the toilet seats down 🤷♀️ nbd really ⚔️🧘♀️⚔️ but just the most hygienic option overall.
Noted
I really liked you talk today. Thanks for the toilet comment.
Any time!
The 10 Ascent commandments of a relationship
In a friends with benefit situation, there is usually one who wants more (usually the woman); however, if they say anything about how they feel or that they want the "benefits" should we say to be exclusive, he will run.... This is true especially if you're dealing with a player who has no desire to have a commitment with anyone. If the woman mentions commitment, he may end it, and then the woman is left out in the cold. This scenario is of course if the woman really cares about her "friend." Sometimes, you have to think are you going to be better off without him? Anyway, I am obviously in this situation, and I chose to keep my mouth shut in order to have my hot young buck keep coming around. I realize I am just wasting time if I want a relationship with someone, but I am living for the moment. Just my opinion.
Good point
I was in a situation like this never ever again
It is sad...the respect is not there. I always try to make the contributions to the dating situation as equal as possible.
Agreed
Great session!
Thanks for all you do Jonathon!
I appreciate that!
😂😂😂 love you Jonathan...you're hilarious.
Regarding the toilet seat up or down well I read a book that was written by a pretty famous actress and she actually wrote about that situation and I had to agree. pretty much we as women need the seat down more often than you because we tend to go to the bathroom more frequently.
At least in our younger ages as you get older, you’re fine. The men tend to go more frequently interesting huh?
Some are very good at pretending.
My mother was dying and I managed to contact someone I was dating to let them know I couldn't meet . He's bullshitting to let you down .
Oh yes...
Jonathon,,nails it!
Thanks
Morning Sir.
Hello there!
Men can talk about future but doing it is just a mirage
It's unhygienic to leave the toilet seat up - poo germs are airborne- hello!
Noted
Definitely good point 😁
Yep I know what it means and is to be in to be all in a relationship and a marriage that lasted til death due us part?❤️❤️❤️
Exactly
I would never get married again but if I felt a guy really loved me I would live with him but I dont believe in marriage. Been there done that .not interrested
Haha…perhaps you have advice for me..met a fella a few times at an organized event I attend regularly..
He realizes I live in the same area as I do..
There is an event I am attending Tuesday evening..he asked me that if he drives over to my place, would I drive up there..
10 Commandments Of A Relationship Essentials
Dr. Stan Tatkin
Did you look it up? Good stuff, right? 🙏
You fall in the toilet water - clean or not & u will remember to put the seat down ! Men can pee seat up or seat down really with good aim! Women need to sit or hover- even if only pee. ( most ,but not all women will fall into the water if no seat & could potentially get hurt even if just slightly & who wants toilet water to get all over & in that special place- even if its clean water it is from the toilet bowl! Its just the idea of it as well imho. )
Reason why? 90 % of the time we all pee. 10%#2. Women100% sit. No matter. Woman are all very happy please seat down.
Indeed
Jonathan what is your definition of a fully committed relationship? please can you explain this in your next video?? thanks
Yes...
This is great advice for what men show you if they’re truly interested. I am just wondering have you found someone else that you connected with?? because I’ve had to walk away from that past person that I did truly have a connection with. I have not yet within 6 to 5 months have run into another new connection. I am out all the time whether it’s my job a social place or even just out in the community, ran into what I’m looking for which is better this time than what I’ve been through in the last connection. I have asked and manifested specifically what I’m looking for from this last connection😊.
Not yet... soon.
Hell yes to the toilet seat my ex would not do that when you have had babies you pee a lot and sometimes real fast that's why we want the seat down 👍
Exactly
Just going to settle this once and for all, Jonathon! Aside from men being *able* to leave the toilet seat up when they use the bathroom, flushing the toilet with the lid open disperses particles in the air. If the seat is up when you go to use their bathroom, that means they flushed with the lid open too. That's gross on its own without having anything to do with us -- just saying! One toilet seat cancels out all the nice shirts for me, haha!
Noted
Jonathan a woman won't put the seat down Because generally the man is facing the toilet. It's easy to just bend and lift it easily. for a woman,when she really has to go badly, she doesn't have time to put the seat down. Sometimes she accidentally sits down and doesn't realize that the seat was left up in her haste to pee quickly and her entire a** goes into the water. That never happens to a man. That's why!!!!!
Yes, I get it... we men just sometimes forget.
…because an open toilet looks gross even if it’s pearly white. ESP if there’s dried yellow specks on it. It is reminiscent of bending over and showing. Plus pets drink out of it. Chlorinated water is bad for them.
Those are called collar stays, and you need them to make your collar look crisp! 😉
Thanks for the tip!
Looks like a knit shirt though- ive only known “ dress shirts” of a woven material of some llk to have collar stays- i could be wrong &/or maybe times have changed ( if its knit collar with a seam on the bottom edge usually has interfacing sewn in to help with the structure- but still no stays…- at least in my experience- & JA wears “polo” ( also some call “golf” shirts) style shirts ( knit of some ilk) more often than woven shirts seems to me….regardless - whatever this shirt material is - it looks properly pressed, and comfortable & appropriate - collar stays or not- thats my main take away. ( Yes - in this setting a shirt with a collar of some sort i think is more appropriate).
Just saying…
I hate dating , God took my first husband of 30 years and I hate dating ! Many want just sex and can be monogamous but still single
The dating vows are wisdom! You're speaking truths. Thank you. I'm old school. 😊
You are so welcome
Jonathan where do you stand on how to deal with a man not keeping his word for me it’s a red flag and it triggers my anxious attachment pattern so I make a big deal of it early on in the relationship which hurts me is there a right way to deal with this in the early stages thank you and I love how authentic you are in your videos
Sounds like it
This totally off subject, but my observation. With you dark hair, have you thought of a lighter colored background behind you?
Noted
About the longevity of your parents marriage……longevity does not equal health. The marriage could have been incredibly dis functional. Your viewers will never know. Hell, you may not even know.
Indeed
Regarding asking about finances: I am a woman and want to have this conversation early. I want to make sure the man is financially responsible with a retirement plan. That's the path I am on and I want to ensure we are aligned. Regarding coffee dates: I decline them and suggest something else. It doesn't have to be fancy and/or expensive, just not a coffee shop. I do not drink coffee and find most coffee shops in my area are loud and busy and not conducive to a nice first date.
A toilet seat up ? It just looks so messy ! Ugh !!
I haven't watched for a while. Regarding a relationship, Jonathon mentioned "the next time". Did his relationship end with the woman from out of state?
Yes, 6 months ago.
I hate dating , God took my first husband of 30 years and I hate dating
If women have to touch the toilet seat then we have to then eash our hands before using the toilet . We are more prone to infections . Men , put the seat down!😅
😁
TOTALLY AGREE ABOUT HEATHER ANDERSON ❤ look her up Jonathon xx
A narcissist will start by love-bombing you.
Most guys love bomb when they feel excited
@@JonathonAslay true, though narcissists have an over-the-top flavor of it that is egregious, eg. two weeks in: “you’re my soulmate,” “I want to marry you and adopt your kids” etc. Until they suddenly devalue you. Run! Don’t walk… Another one is the “reptile eyes,” a soul-less look in their eyes in certain moments that I saw very early on, which I found out other people have experienced when encountering a legit narcissist.
Toilet seat. Think of trash cans. We prefer not to see the garbage. Keeps the animals and kids out of it. Same with the toilet. Keep it covered. It’s never germ free. It’s dirty. So keep it covered up!
Love love love the duct tape!
😁
❤
What am i doing? Men follow me at the shops, I'm not doing anything except walking and dressing nicely and modestly.
I tie my hair back to look less obviously attractive, but they still follow me.
I usually keep an eye out for them and walk fast and cross over to another area.
Why do I care? It's unpleasant and intrusive to discover a man is in your personal space - like 1' behind me rhe whole way up an otherwise empty shopping aisle. It's creepy and a bit threatening. Men shouldn't be doing it - not so close and persistent.
I'm doing NOTHING except existing and daring to take care of myself so that i have pretty soft shiny hair. And being petite. It's genetics and good lifestyle.
That shouldn't mean men get to intrude on my personal space. I'm just minding my own business, shopping.
I agree
I actually would put the toilet seat back up when I went over to my boyfriend's house.
Really?
@@JonathonAslay i would do that too, it makes sense
It doesn't go the other way because god made toilet seats. And since god made toilet seats they need to be down! Otherwise why would god have made toilet seats?
Original one's didn't have seats