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Still such a beautiful song. And a great reminder every time I feel like going back to Old habits to Old situations a great reminder of why I shouldn't.
I ran into a stash of Terri Clark 45's at a flea market today and this is the one I bought (50¢ great condition) I can't recall hearing this song before - it must not have been a very big hit for her but I Like it though 👌
if this song reminds you of your boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wife or anyone else in your life, please know you can find help and support in your community and you will move on to a happier, healthier relationship / life . I didnt always have good self esteem but now I found someone who really loves me and he makes me feel really good, the way everyone should feel .
I consider myself to be a kind girl and when I am married and have kids, I promise to never hurt them and to give them the best life my family has ever known. I will never hurt anyone emotionally, physically, spiritually in any way. I hate it when people who have the best in life abuse it.
Freaking hell. How on earth have I been a Terri Clark fan since the beginning, listened to this song more times then I can count, and somehow never seen this video?! Goodness that tugs at the heart strings.
I just love this song. I would go as far to call it a masterpiece. I can still remember my mom jamming to it in her car when I was just five or six years old. I’m almost 30 now & I remember the music & every lyric by heart. I’ll never forget it!
My mom told me the story that this song held for her when this song came on. She was at home one day when my dad called from the rehab center(he's a recovering alcoholic) and asked if he could stay with her because they wouldn't let him stay for whatever reason. As my mom was getting ready to leave, she was on the music video channel and saw the video for this song. The part that she remembered so well was the hamster in the wheel and how he managed to get out of the cycle that he found himself in time and time again. She realized that she was doing the same thing as the hamster and called the rehab center to tell my dad she couldn't pick him up. Turns out, he wasn't allowed to leave and that he was going to sneak out to leave. I don't think I'd be here if she hadn't seen the video that day.
My best friend is a recovering addict. Before I go into the story, I want to say that she is 16 months sober, and is doing phenomenal. But, this song actually represents to me how she got off the wheel for her addictions, but is still on it for emotional abuse. She's still with the husband that laid his hands on her (I've seen the black eyes and bruised limbs), and now even though it's not physical, it's more emotional. Recently he actually told her that she was the worst mistake he ever made, as in marrying her. Keep in mind, after she got out of rehab, he said he would sober up...and he failed. I personally have been her rock because everytime I hear her pain, I think of this song, and I cry myself. Her own mother has said to leave him and give me a chance, because I was pretty much the only reason outside of her three daughters to keep her on the path to sobriety. I've not laid a hand on her in anger, and have been her rock in times like this. Like the lyric says, in her case, "Everytime I think you might have changed, put aside the anger and the blame, make myself believe that there's a way to work it out. Everytime you say 'let's try again,' begging me to let you back in. Everytime I do, everytime you lie, everytime I cry." It's reality...and I'm determined to break that cycle.
Dustin Parks this is so true going through it my self but more mental then anything u love him so much it is hard to let go I wish I had someone to love me
Heard this song at work and started tearing up in the middle of the aisle this is too my so called friend who treats me like crap but always comes back into my life.
THANK YOU! I cannot tell you how many times your music helped me to get thru tough times. My son (26) and I were talking by phone tonight and he said, “Mom there was another woman besides Shania that you used to listen to all the time, who was that?” I said without missing a beat, “Terri Clark.” He let out a loud, “oh yea”. He looked up a video and said, “Not gonna lie Mom, Terri Clark is HOT!” Lol I said, I totally agree, she’s beautiful, always has been.” I feel sure if I got him in a car and we began to play your music, he’d know the words. He heard them over and over again. I just want to say, I have always enjoyed your music and from my heart, thank you for sharing your amazing talents! 😘
I adore this song, its helped me be strong against my abusive mother for ages now, and its is all too easy to believe (when its family its hard) that all her promise will actually make things change. it won't and I got out. and I have to saw the visual subtle references she used in her vid was incredible. The walking up an escalator but going no where the walls closing in. Changing the locks was a brave and strong thing to doo too, it would have been hard but it was what they had to do. And I really love the little boy calling the cops on that abusive father of his friend. I spent too many days of my childhood wishes someone would get me out of that situation I was fortunate I made it out alive but its no joke abuse of any kind from anyone. This is a really great song.
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Growing up, I always thought knew when to walk away. It took me being in intensive care 4 times before I said enough. My youngest was six months. He's almost 12. Always love Terri Clark. I saw her in concert. She's awesome.
I remember the first time I saw this video many years ago. As soon as I saw the little girl and hamster I started crying and it's still makes me cry LOL great singer. Great song. Great
yea this is a good song and yes terri clark is a beautiful woman and I'd say my favorite vid of hers is when boy meets girl cause she looked good in them tight Jeans and I don't blame the guys for lookin cause she's hot
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She`s georgous!!! Greetings from Tyrol in Austria, EU!!! WOW, I "know" her since 5 weeks and do by her CD on Amazon, the collection... I LOOOOOVE her songs!!! Thanks a lot - She should be more famous in EU!!!
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...Oh, let me say, my late mother protected all nedy humans and beasts. Including me, who required a much larger lunch allowance, every day during my freshman years as a football player....I ate 3 to 4 large lunches a day and was not a large boy, but very energetic...she was very forgiving and turned a blind eye...nuff said...GOD I DO miss and Love her.
This song really reflects what abusers do to their victims. My ex-husband was abusive and he would boot me from the house if I did something that he didn't like. I would always go home to Delaware and he would always call me back to Alabama promising that he was going to change. The abuse got really bad in the fall of 2011. He stuck a gun to my head and pulled the trigger but the gun jammed. I escaped in June of 2012, filed for divorce, and moved back to Delaware. I wasn't going to take the chance of him killing me. My divorce was finalized on July 30, 2012, and 7 weeks later I was Facebook official with my second husband. My second husband and I were married in October of 2013 by the head chaplain at Dover Air Force Base. One year later we were in South Korea. I am really glad that it didn't work out with my ex-husband because all the relationship would bring me was pain. I got tired of crying and here we are nearly 10 years later.
This song to me is about emotional abuse. I’ve always associated this with my mother. She was a narcissist, but could be very loving but nothing was ever good enough. No matter how mistreated I was by her, she would eventually want to make things right, but her alcoholism never would let her, so here we are in a non speaking relationship for over 4 years now. So heartbreaking. I will always relate this song to us
this says how I feel about my older brother he always says hes going to change and get help but he never dose I love him but im just done I cant take it anymore and my neither can my heart .
Lyrics:😥😍 You call and wake me up, the way you always do Say you miss me and you're sorry, deja vu You push the button in the heart you know so well The wall starts coming down then I remind myself Every time I think you might have changed Put aside the anger and the blame Make myself believe that there's a way to work it out Every time you say let's try again Begging me to let you back in Everytime I do Every time you lie Every time I cry If only promises could just erase the past I could open up my heart enough to take you back But we've been down that road Time and time again I've learned the hard way how the story always ends Everytime I think you might have changed Put aside the anger and the blame Make myself believe that there's a way to work it out Everytime you say let's try again Begging me to let you back in Everytime I do Everytime you lie Everytime I cry Everytime I think you might have changed Put aside the anger and the blame Make myself believe that there's a way to work it out Everytime you say let's try again Begging me to let you back in Everytime I do Everytime you lie Everytime I cry Everytime I do Everytime you lie Everytime I cry
Mijn lieve Walther van mij! Ik verander nooit van liefde! IK Lieg niet lieve schat van mij. Huil aub niet lieve schat! Ik ben zoo stapelverliefd op jou. I love you forever xxxx
I would not lock the door on my daughter. She will be my flesh and blood and I will die and try in order to make her better. Offsprings are never easy but they really need your help and guidance no matter how much they deny it. What the mum did in that video was wrong. I will actually force her to get help and THREATEN to kick her out. But even if she does move out, I will always protect her. This is a promise if I ever have kids.
This song had so much memory's and I really miss these memory's and then as soon as I headed I I was crying and yes every time I cry thinking about the memories
Set it to one side violence is a cowards way out and unworthy of all people. I am 78 and have never hit a women in my life but I just turn and walk away
This song is so old but its better then the crap they play today
Yeah it’s not remotely close !
I totally Agree
This is Terri's best song, and hardest video to watch! 😥
This woman put her heart and soul on the line for this song she is a true country singer I love hearing this lady sing
This son is SO true. Just because someone says they are sorry, does not mean they are. Actions speak louder than words.
I miss 90s country music
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Me too!
me too ugh! absolute best
Who is still listening to this in 2024
I’m still listening and watching all the time
❤❤❤
Who would give a thumbs down to a song about encouraging people in abusive situations to get help??? SMH.
This is a beautiful song and always has been ❤
Aww 🥰 I’m glad to hear that ❤❤
After all these years, this song still gets to me
Still such a beautiful song. And a great reminder every time I feel like going back to Old habits to Old situations a great reminder of why I shouldn't.
Music at its finest. Your heart and mind come together to feel. Not the pop country that has no meaning.
I ran into a stash of Terri Clark 45's at a flea market today and this is the one I bought (50¢ great condition) I can't recall hearing this song before - it must not have been a very big hit for her but I Like it though 👌
This song got me through some tough times. Still love it.
I so adore her voice. 😊😊😊😊😊😊
❤❤❤
if this song reminds you of your boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wife or anyone else in your life, please know you can find help and support in your community and you will move on to a happier, healthier relationship / life . I didnt always have good self esteem but now I found someone who really loves me and he makes me feel really good, the way everyone should feel .
How about that ole gal one good canidien
How about that ole gal one good canidien
I consider myself to be a kind girl and when I am married and have kids, I promise to never hurt them and to give them the best life my family has ever known. I will never hurt anyone emotionally, physically, spiritually in any way. I hate it when people who have the best in life abuse it.
steamingleo Thank you
❤❤ I love you Terri
Love you too ❤❤
Freaking hell. How on earth have I been a Terri Clark fan since the beginning, listened to this song more times then I can count, and somehow never seen this video?! Goodness that tugs at the heart strings.
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I just love this song. I would go as far to call it a masterpiece. I can still remember my mom jamming to it in her car when I was just five or six years old. I’m almost 30 now & I remember the music & every lyric by heart. I’ll never forget it!
Is it just me or does this woman get more beautiful and beautiful and beautiful she was my first girl crush and always will be
My mom told me the story that this song held for her when this song came on.
She was at home one day when my dad called from the rehab center(he's a recovering alcoholic) and asked if he could stay with her because they wouldn't let him stay for whatever reason. As my mom was getting ready to leave, she was on the music video channel and saw the video for this song. The part that she remembered so well was the hamster in the wheel and how he managed to get out of the cycle that he found himself in time and time again. She realized that she was doing the same thing as the hamster and called the rehab center to tell my dad she couldn't pick him up. Turns out, he wasn't allowed to leave and that he was going to sneak out to leave. I don't think I'd be here if she hadn't seen the video that day.
Whoah. Good story.
My best friend is a recovering addict. Before I go into the story, I want to say that she is 16 months sober, and is doing phenomenal. But, this song actually represents to me how she got off the wheel for her addictions, but is still on it for emotional abuse. She's still with the husband that laid his hands on her (I've seen the black eyes and bruised limbs), and now even though it's not physical, it's more emotional. Recently he actually told her that she was the worst mistake he ever made, as in marrying her. Keep in mind, after she got out of rehab, he said he would sober up...and he failed. I personally have been her rock because everytime I hear her pain, I think of this song, and I cry myself.
Her own mother has said to leave him and give me a chance, because I was pretty much the only reason outside of her three daughters to keep her on the path to sobriety. I've not laid a hand on her in anger, and have been her rock in times like this. Like the lyric says, in her case, "Everytime I think you might have changed, put aside the anger and the blame, make myself believe that there's a way to work it out. Everytime you say 'let's try again,' begging me to let you back in. Everytime I do, everytime you lie, everytime I cry." It's reality...and I'm determined to break that cycle.
Dustin Parks this is so true going through it my self but more mental then anything u love him so much it is hard to let go I wish I had someone to love me
Dustin Parks don't give up I've seen my grandmother get beat by my grandfather and emotionally I'm screwed up by it
@Bakuais I call that Divine Intervention.
The video is beautiful but the more you watch the more you want to cry because the video is super sad 😢
Terri Clark has a soul
Thanks for your love and kindness...kindly text me back
Absolutely so true xx
Terri I love your music you have a great voice
This is one amazing song. Abuse in any form is wrong and uncalled for. Please if your being hurt get out. I know its not easy. Ive been there
helpline
Such a Powerful Song!!!!
U got that right illustrates good and catchy!!
terris as a girl she is amazzing and a singer is a bonus
Heard this song at work and started tearing up in the middle of the aisle this is too my so called friend who treats me like crap but always comes back into my life.
THANK YOU! I cannot tell you how many times your music helped me to get thru tough times. My son (26) and I were talking by phone tonight and he said, “Mom there was another woman besides Shania that you used to listen to all the time, who was that?” I said without missing a beat, “Terri Clark.” He let out a loud, “oh yea”. He looked up a video and said, “Not gonna lie Mom, Terri Clark is HOT!” Lol I said, I totally agree, she’s beautiful, always has been.” I feel sure if I got him in a car and we began to play your music, he’d know the words. He heard them over and over again. I just want to say, I have always enjoyed your music and from my heart, thank you for sharing your amazing talents! 😘
I adore this song, its helped me be strong against my abusive mother for ages now, and its is all too easy to believe (when its family its hard) that all her promise will actually make things change. it won't and I got out. and I have to saw the visual subtle references she used in her vid was incredible. The walking up an escalator but going no where the walls closing in. Changing the locks was a brave and strong thing to doo too, it would have been hard but it was what they had to do. And I really love the little boy calling the cops on that abusive father of his friend. I spent too many days of my childhood wishes someone would get me out of that situation I was fortunate I made it out alive but its no joke abuse of any kind from anyone. This is a really great song.
When the little boy gives her the hamster at the end, that is when the tears come.
Such a Powerful song!!!!!!!
Great song and video, thanks for sharing !!
My wife and I were lucky enough to have met Terri Clark back a few years ago.
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Just love this girlie 💗 she's one beautiful human being, her tracks go straight to my heart ❤ 🇬🇧😊
No one can tell a story like Terri can............
Great song, great message, beautiful lady. Love Terri
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Growing up, I always thought knew when to walk away. It took me being in intensive care 4 times before I said enough. My youngest was six months. He's almost 12.
Always love Terri Clark. I saw her in concert. She's awesome.
Love u Terri an this song is awesome.... We need more of you on country radio today.... Bring back real country... The Old Barn # 3 Yeeeeeehawwwww
I remember the first time I saw this video many years ago. As soon as I saw the little girl and hamster I started crying and it's still makes me cry LOL great singer. Great song. Great
Im thankful to have met this great country artist in Folsom California. She is definitely better in person than a studio artist.
a beautiful song by a beautiful singer with the angelic voice of an angel.
yea this is a good song and yes terri clark is a beautiful woman and I'd say my favorite vid of hers is when boy meets girl cause she looked good in them tight Jeans and I don't blame the guys for lookin cause she's hot
very nice good looking canadian lady.always has been my favorite female country singer
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She`s georgous!!! Greetings from Tyrol in Austria, EU!!!
WOW, I "know" her since 5 weeks and do by her CD on Amazon, the collection...
I LOOOOOVE her songs!!!
Thanks a lot - She should be more famous in EU!!!
I love listening to your music my favorite country singer. Keep being the beautiful talented lady God have blessed you.
I miss Terri... saw her live in 2001... good memories.
I can't wait to see her in Sept. with Lonestar. Saw her last year with Pam Tillis and Suzy Boggas.
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FUCK YEAH
Terri hit #12 in Billboard, 5-99. God bless ya, for postin' it. Thanx!
Awesome song and Terri Clark is hot in the clip
I watch this video all the time and it sends chills up my spine and makes me cry..
Her voice is wonderful
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Good ole Terri Clark.
omg i love she didn't have time its one of the best songs ever and i keep listening to it over and over again!!:D
This song is good enough to stand next to any Hall of Fame country song.
...Oh, let me say, my late mother protected all nedy humans and beasts. Including me, who required a much larger lunch allowance, every day during my freshman years as a football player....I ate 3 to 4 large lunches a day and was not a large boy, but very energetic...she was very forgiving and turned a blind eye...nuff said...GOD I DO miss and Love her.
oh, ok nice symbolism. thanks i've been racking my mind over that for several years now
So sad I'm crying
This song really reflects what abusers do to their victims. My ex-husband was abusive and he would boot me from the house if I did something that he didn't like. I would always go home to Delaware and he would always call me back to Alabama promising that he was going to change. The abuse got really bad in the fall of 2011. He stuck a gun to my head and pulled the trigger but the gun jammed.
I escaped in June of 2012, filed for divorce, and moved back to Delaware. I wasn't going to take the chance of him killing me. My divorce was finalized on July 30, 2012, and 7 weeks later I was Facebook official with my second husband.
My second husband and I were married in October of 2013 by the head chaplain at Dover Air Force Base. One year later we were in South Korea.
I am really glad that it didn't work out with my ex-husband because all the relationship would bring me was pain. I got tired of crying and here we are nearly 10 years later.
Thats a nice story.
Glad it worked out with a happy ending.
I can see why this song hits so close to home. Wish you the best.
I Love You with all my heart😘💜💙
And I want to spend the rest of my life with you Nichole Marie.. 💯😘💜💙
Why is this happing all over the world even parents and kids
Awesome
I'm a huge fan since I was a little boy..
This song to me is about emotional abuse. I’ve always associated this with my mother. She was a narcissist, but could be very loving but nothing was ever good enough. No matter how mistreated I was by her, she would eventually want to make things right, but her alcoholism never would let her, so here we are in a non speaking relationship for over 4 years now. So heartbreaking. I will always relate this song to us
MAn I love this woman! Miss her songs, Glad I stumbled upon her again!
such a beautiful woman and GREAT singer
Wow!
Teri ,,,, every time I hear you sing it puts a SMILE on my face great job my LADY 🌹💯🌹🌹💯🌹💯🌹💯🌹💯
I love this song...!
2012 and this songs still awesome!! :D
Wonderful song... Well done Bob Regan, Karen Staley and Terri. It sounds so great!!!... and it hasn't aged a bit ;-)!
ACC's #63 song of the '99 survey year. Terri hit #12 in Billboard.
I am and it's a great song
LOVE LOVE THIS VIDEO/SONG.
This song hit home back when it came out..
Good Luck ❤
this says how I feel about my older brother he always says hes going to change and get help but he never dose I love him but im just done I cant take it anymore and my neither can my heart .
Too bad.
Ah, that makes sense. Also, it must be heartbreaking.
SUCH A DEEP SONG AND VIDEO .
Love this
Talented, miss her!!
Love ya Terri
Lyrics:😥😍
You call and wake me up, the way you always do
Say you miss me and you're sorry, deja vu
You push the button in the heart you know so well
The wall starts coming down then I remind myself
Every time I think you might have changed
Put aside the anger and the blame
Make myself believe that there's a way to work it out
Every time you say let's try again
Begging me to let you back in
Everytime I do
Every time you lie
Every time I cry
If only promises could just erase the past
I could open up my heart enough to take you back
But we've been down that road
Time and time again
I've learned the hard way how the story always ends
Everytime I think you might have changed
Put aside the anger and the blame
Make myself believe that there's a way to work it out
Everytime you say let's try again
Begging me to let you back in
Everytime I do
Everytime you lie
Everytime I cry
Everytime I think you might have changed
Put aside the anger and the blame
Make myself believe that there's a way to work it out
Everytime you say let's try again
Begging me to let you back in
Everytime I do
Everytime you lie
Everytime I cry
Everytime I do
Everytime you lie
Everytime I cry
Wowza so really awesome you are
I MISS YOU TERRI PLEASE COME BACK AND SING
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I tell ya... at 0:40 in the song and she's leaning against the wall with those leather pants and little sweater on...She is one beautiful woman.....
I know what u mean man , she is very sexy , especially in the leather pants! A woman to me looks hot in leather pants!
Shania Twain wore leather pants quite a bit in her PRIME member ?
At 0:40 how do you know they are tight black leather pants?
Mijn lieve Walther van mij! Ik verander nooit van liefde! IK Lieg niet lieve schat van mij. Huil aub niet lieve schat! Ik ben zoo stapelverliefd op jou. I love you forever xxxx
I still think she is amazingly talented.
To the personwho says Terri is gay got news for you SHE ISNT!! Dont say thinfs like that she is very talented!!
This song holds so meny meanings for me
still miss you terri,we had alot of fun going out.i wish you all the best.
This song describes perfectly a relationship with a narcissist💯💔 Make a secret escape plan and leave them ASAP and trust almost no one⚠️⚠️⚠️
My life in a song.
thums up for watching this in 2011
I would not lock the door on my daughter. She will be my flesh and blood and I will die and try in order to make her better. Offsprings are never easy but they really need your help and guidance no matter how much they deny it. What the mum did in that video was wrong. I will actually force her to get help and THREATEN to kick her out. But even if she does move out, I will always protect her. This is a promise if I ever have kids.
Found another one!❤😂❤😂
Very Good.
Hey I love this song its awesome and cool
I love this song:)
This song had so much memory's and I really miss these memory's and then as soon as I headed I I was crying and yes every time I cry thinking about the memories
i so relate to this song :'(
any man who hits a woman, is not a man but a man trying to get out of a cowards body..negative responses will be ignored..
Garypmarquis what about when a woman hits a man are gonna be the same way or what
Set it to one side violence is a cowards way out and unworthy of all people. I am 78 and have never hit a women in my life but I just turn and walk away
Totally agree 💯🤘
Boobs ❤I sez
She is awesome