There is No Competition... She Said What She Said!

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  • Опубліковано 30 чер 2024
  • Because this Needs to Live Rent Free in Someone's Head!!! And add this : I can tell you, teach you about, talk you out and in practically Anything... Then teach you , tell you how to pray over yourself and others ..
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  • @karoltowns8384
    @karoltowns8384 18 днів тому +124

    My hat is off and I salute a fellow almost 60 year old Veteran with an advanced degree. We did good and we look even better! The game is over, we got the medal 🥇 and are at home sipping wine!🍷

    • @gracesofGod
      @gracesofGod 16 годин тому +1

      Thank you all for your service!💯❤️🔥

  • @filly3594
    @filly3594 7 днів тому +29

    I'm almost 70 and all I have to say to young women is enjoy your beauty while you still have it, act like a lady if you want to be treated like one, USE your common sense and intelligence in ALL THINGS (especially when choosing a man!), don't let your heart run your life, work hard and make your own money, and don't expect somebody to rescue you, you have to rescue yourself.

  • @CB-hn6ei
    @CB-hn6ei 19 днів тому +195

    That's right! Nobody is trying to compete with you we are trying to teach you the game.

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 16 днів тому

      Ya men loooove older woman with more trauma, a bunch of kids and debts. 🤮

    • @charlottehayward5943
      @charlottehayward5943 15 днів тому +13

      I'm 81 and we don't play games. Life is serious. Wake up
      This women is right.

    • @terrywade3696
      @terrywade3696 14 днів тому +2

      CB-hn6ei: it’s not a game! Real people don’t play games. Only shallow people play games! Winning at games just builds up a false ego! Skipping around the perimeters of life isn’t the same as living it! It’s time to grow up and get INVESTED in life if you ever want to learn or have anything of value. It’s not about scoring or getting points. It’s about growth! That’s what this woman is saying in the video.

    • @CB-hn6ei
      @CB-hn6ei 14 днів тому +3

      @@terrywade3696 It's just a figure of speech. You posted all of that for what? If you couldn't understand the post you could have asked. 😐

    • @magicworld3242
      @magicworld3242 8 днів тому +1

      That's a lie. Y'all old hags are bitter AF & don't want to see younger women happy. Misery loves company...

  • @looknbakatu
    @looknbakatu 19 днів тому +80

    that’s insecurity coming out of these young women mouths.

  • @JustRaine97
    @JustRaine97 19 днів тому +143

    No competition at all! Shout out to the seasoned women out here looking beautiful!!! Making it look easy and honey I'm taking notes!!! Absolutely LOVE this!❤

  • @MicheleHill-wv2wc
    @MicheleHill-wv2wc 20 днів тому +98

    Thank you sweetheart for telling these children what's going on. 😊

  • @dwandascott3947
    @dwandascott3947 19 днів тому +30

    Compete for what?🤷🏾‍♀️
    Jobs? Im HAPPILY retired Working for other ppl SUCKS
    Running a foot race? WHY RUN WHEN YOU CAN WALK OR DANCE OR SIT DOWN? 💃🏽🧑🏽‍🎨
    I know they dont mean compete for men. We know thats funny cause men dont care. Im 68 and they will never stop pushing up. Young men and old alike.
    I love to compete, but i only compete with ME. Seeing younger women doin the darn thing inspires ME to be a better ME.
    We who were trained to be soldiers in the US military only compete with ourselves to be the best Americans ever.
    We kicked the door open for younger women after those before us cracked it for us. Dont let the media pit us against each other. We each have our season. Watching young ppl turbo spin is very entertaining and fun from the sidelines. I rush to do, not one single thing. Youth is wasted on the young. 😂💃🏽🧑🏻‍🎨

  • @donatkinson1647
    @donatkinson1647 18 днів тому +55

    Life is a stern teacher; first you get the test THEN you get the lesson... IF you survive walk proud! Thank you for your service!!!!

  • @lkeke35
    @lkeke35 20 днів тому +90

    55 and a big AMEN! Despite all that life has thrown at me, I managed to survive to this age. The competition never occurred. I was out here living a life and wracking up those memories before they were even a twinkle in their momma's eye!

  • @pursedelighted
    @pursedelighted 16 днів тому +17

    SAY IT.i am 66 and we don't have time for that type of foolishness and we aren't making time for it either.younger women please grow up

  • @vaozha48
    @vaozha48 18 днів тому +64

    Love it! Thank you for your service to our country both by serving in the armed forces and educating these young women!

  • @raykusko9365
    @raykusko9365 19 днів тому +85

    This is what a real boss lady looks and sounds like. Listen and learn you youngsters.

    • @changeyourenergy708
      @changeyourenergy708 17 днів тому

      Not. She single because she's a "boss" woman. We are the men. We don't want a manly woman. When a woman says she's a boss woman, that only means she difficult. What man wants a difficult woman. You can tell how she talks that she thinks her shit don't stank.

  • @dorothyyoung8231
    @dorothyyoung8231 18 днів тому +46

    We need to stop competing with those who should be our allies.

    • @rieriec.36
      @rieriec.36 18 днів тому +2

      True.......* young girls be like that though

    • @judipierry549
      @judipierry549 18 днів тому +5

      @@rieriec.36well who taught them to be like that? Such a waste of their time and energy.

    • @honeywest39j95
      @honeywest39j95 5 днів тому +1

      @@rieriec.36it’s both…don’t do that. That’s the problem now. I’ve seen the disrespect of women from both sides…🙄

  • @HadassahHaman
    @HadassahHaman 13 днів тому +17

    THANK YOU!!!!!❤ I am her, she is me!
    Marriage, career, children, 6 years post-secondary education, multiple languages, gardener, chef, grandma, dog mom, baker, I clean my home and toilet daily, laundry regularly, self -care groom daily, never smoked a cigarette or marijuanaa day in my life, never done drugs, I'll be 55 next month and HAPPY, HAPPY, HAPPY!...
    Younger women just got here and have a LOT to learn. WE are a reflection of what they want to be, that's why they think it's a competition, they'retrying to keep up but can'tand never will. We're just living life gracefully and doing what needs to be done. We've already won! 🏆
    Bless you for spelling it out.❤

  • @pcdosgirl
    @pcdosgirl 18 днів тому +16

    Damn, she's the Gray GOAT.
    And she's right, mature women prefer mature men; in other words, we like a secure (mentally & emotionally) man who seeks out experienced, wise partners, a partner who is EQUAL to him. Definitely not interested in some dude who chases the babysitter.

  • @GODsGirl1468
    @GODsGirl1468 18 днів тому +27

    And She said What She Said.... BOMB 💣

  • @shelbyandmargaret
    @shelbyandmargaret 19 днів тому +44

    Thank you baby. It needed to be said. Thank you☺️

  • @Mimi-ht6xr
    @Mimi-ht6xr 18 днів тому +24

    As a married wife, loving mother, and beloved grandmother l see no need to compete. Take it one step at a time, mind your business, take care of your family, and honor your God ❤
    HOOAH from the daughter, wife, and mother of Black American Combat Veterans 🇺🇸
    THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE, ma’am.

  • @ladya1953
    @ladya1953 18 днів тому +12

    I *think* these young'uns are unaware they are trying to compete in the wrong arena. While they stand around admiring their own (one-dimensional) youth and perky ...things, WE are carefully gathering the experience and life experiences, education, accomplishments, wisdom, understanding and beauty that maturity brings.

  • @margueritepeaden3445
    @margueritepeaden3445 18 днів тому +23

    Most beautiful comeback I’ve ever seen. I salute you!

  • @therlowpopejr3540
    @therlowpopejr3540 19 днів тому +21

    TELL THEM SISTER, SURE YOUR RIGHT.

  • @zaidagrace2263
    @zaidagrace2263 19 днів тому +12

    I always trip when they think that. I’m like, “Who are you again?” I’m too busy living my life to even notice you.

  • @teresathreatts4266
    @teresathreatts4266 18 днів тому +9

    YOU BETTER TALK, SIS!!! 🤣🤣🤣 53 YEARS YOUNG AM I💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 I thank you for your military service...from a retired Army Veteran to my sister-in-arms! I 🫡 you‼️❤️🔥💯GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🏾

  • @lindalawson4296
    @lindalawson4296 19 днів тому +18

    Please tell the children. Thank you. And thank you for your service!

  • @morganwhite2176
    @morganwhite2176 11 днів тому +34

    There is NO competition between older and younger now. A lot of young ones are lost and have so many issues now. No way to compete with that.

  • @teamicahayah4860
    @teamicahayah4860 18 днів тому +11

    Now that is how you put the LA&W down.....

  • @robertkartechner5850
    @robertkartechner5850 19 днів тому +18

    There is absolutely NO competition what so ever. You got it going on my dear. You have the smarts, the world knowledge, the life skills and so much more. You also sound so confident and so well put together!!! Just amazing. A lot of women today need a man making unreasonable amounts of money because they need a maid to care of their life as they have little or no idea what to do.

    • @cynthiajcunningham3635
      @cynthiajcunningham3635 7 днів тому +1

      Thank you for your service! AND setting the record straight!!! There's no competition BECAUSE there is no race!!! It's been run, won and the prize given! FIRST THING, learn self respect AND dignity!!! SECOND THING, learn how to cook AND clean!!! Oh young Ladybug soooo much to learn!!!!

  • @modawg1111
    @modawg1111 8 днів тому +3

    Exactly. I’ve always said, if I didn’t have my husband of 38 yrs, Heaven forbid, I’d stay single & just enjoy our six children & their children. Been there, done that. 😉👍✊🤙

  • @tonyariggins6123
    @tonyariggins6123 17 днів тому +5

    Period!!!!!!! Don't come for us if you're not ready for War..

  • @deborahhoward7822
    @deborahhoward7822 18 днів тому +31

    😂 That's right. Everyone isn't interested in being a cougar. Preach!!!

    • @corimyers4985
      @corimyers4985 6 днів тому +3

      Omg the amount of times I have to say this to young men and women. Unless you are an exceptional young man, and that’s rare, you have nothing about you that I desire.

    • @FleurRebelle
      @FleurRebelle 5 днів тому +1

      And even if I am… I’m still not competing lol they be up in MY face

  • @mariez.9794
    @mariez.9794 18 днів тому +11

    This woman does not look 60!

  • @RV19871
    @RV19871 6 днів тому +3

    Total respect for older women that could be our mothers …. We don’t even .. unfortunately… arrive even to their little toe! What an example and a model they are ! ❤

  • @juliebryant6718
    @juliebryant6718 17 днів тому +4

    OMG its nice to hear from a strong Black woman ❤ you are my hero 😊

  • @geraldsemien275
    @geraldsemien275 19 днів тому +10

    Hey my Sister ❤you couldn't have said it any better. One veteran to another. Bless you my Sister 😊

  • @TheMentalLevelUpPodcast
    @TheMentalLevelUpPodcast 19 днів тому +12

    To me, few things are dumber than sh!tting on the people you will one day need unity with and advice from. Since I was a child, I thought "age-shaming" was something dumb people did, people who lacked common sense.
    One of the reasons why so many men see women as disposable jokes is because of the insecurities that women put on FULL DISPLAY when they compete over DUMB THINGS!
    Its 2024, and all an old, broke man has to do to get a hot young woman is to tell her that older women "can't compete with her".
    They LITERALLY just listen to what a young woman thinks she has and they use that to get, keep, mistreat, and discard her like the immature, insecure *joke* that she proved she was.
    Throwing other women under the bus is classic Pathetic Pickme behavior and karma loves to pick them, because they RARELY learn their lesson. smh

  • @phyllislowe3942
    @phyllislowe3942 20 днів тому +15

    Ok. Then!!@

  • @carolperdue7534
    @carolperdue7534 18 днів тому +5

    Yes ma'am! ❤

  • @Diva9000x
    @Diva9000x 19 днів тому +39

    Say it again for dem heauxz in the balcony!😊🙂😉

    • @jaxcoss5790
      @jaxcoss5790 11 днів тому +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @roses4me451
      @roses4me451 5 днів тому

      @@jaxcoss5790 Amen! Mature women got the real WAP: "Wealth, Assets, Prosperity".
      I told a young fool: "Baby, the next woman got the SAME thing you got under that skirt. What separates you from her? When you get your own: "Home, car, career, degree, MONEY, business, travel the world, life & health insurance, good credit, 3 credit cards in YOUR NAME only: "American Express, Visa, MasterCard", savings, checking, emergency fund accounts, investments, etc. then come back and talk.
      You better have your OWN, before you date or get married, because you cannot depend on a man to take care of you! When you get between 30-40 years old, 3 or more children; now he's gonna tell say: "You're too old", "Lose some weight", etc. When he leaves you for his young, 21 yr. old blonde secretary, don't say I didn't tell you. Being financially stable & having your own is your "Plan B." Remember: "A man is NOT a financial plan!!"

  • @user-jy2vd2em6v
    @user-jy2vd2em6v 18 днів тому +4

    Right on!!

  • @TC-cr2oy
    @TC-cr2oy 18 днів тому +30

    Why the heck is there any competition in the first place? We're all on the same team ladies.

  • @demimorest963
    @demimorest963 18 днів тому +26

    De-am. That was a clap back. Yes sister veteran!. We have degrees, children, life experience, and wisdom. Whoever she is, she felt that all the way down to her innocent ignorant little toes.

  • @janineswanigan2944
    @janineswanigan2944 18 днів тому +6

    Nuff said my sister!!!!!

  • @julieagarcia6259
    @julieagarcia6259 18 днів тому +4

    Woo! You are my hero!
    And thank you for your service.🇺🇸

  • @CallMeGailyn
    @CallMeGailyn 19 днів тому +9

    Exactly!

  • @peckgerman4747
    @peckgerman4747 17 днів тому +4

    MIC DROP ! wake up, youngsters!!

  • @susangribble6830
    @susangribble6830 16 днів тому +4

    GOD BLESS OUR MILITARY❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @anitaaveytia1392
    @anitaaveytia1392 19 днів тому +3

    👏👏👏👏👏👏 facts

  • @darcychurch9749
    @darcychurch9749 17 днів тому +3

    Damn!! I love her. Disabled USN here. Two degrees. Many countries. Still reading and learning. Turning 56 and loving every day.

  • @barbarabaldwin9036
    @barbarabaldwin9036 17 днів тому +5

    What you said.🎉❤🎉❤facts

  • @BrendaFoster-cl5vo
    @BrendaFoster-cl5vo 17 днів тому +3

    She said it gracefully,in a way, that you should understand, don't get eggs on your face.. beautiful beautiful said, thanks you..

  • @ororomunroe913
    @ororomunroe913 12 днів тому +3

    Speaking facts and educating this younger generation. Amen!!

  • @roderick617
    @roderick617 6 днів тому +2

    I just turned 50 last month and I absolutely LOVE it. There's nothing better than knowing you've earned the right to be who you are and where you are in life. There's nothing better than having control of your life, your peace and your finances.
    I wouldn't go back to my youth for anything. I'm my greatest competition. Envy is for the foolish and the weak.
    So many young women put their value in the wrong things and people instead of investing in themselves from the inside out. It takes a knowledge of who God is and who you are to navigate this world, or you'll forever be defined by this ever changing society that doesn't value you at all.
    I was told as a child, "Walk into a room with your ears open and your mouth closed." You can't hear a damn thing when you're running your mouth. Be quiet and listen sometimes. You miss so much when you're always wanting to be heard and never want to listen.
    Good luck young 'uns! You're going to need it.

  • @traceywithers7278
    @traceywithers7278 19 днів тому +5

    We’ll talk yo talk. About time someone said it

  • @chris19n
    @chris19n 6 днів тому +1

    Yassssss, 👏🏻👏🏻I love that. "There is no competition, we've already won!" 🥂

  • @amandazte1412
    @amandazte1412 17 днів тому +3

    i could not love this more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Amen to everything this amazing woman said xoxox

  • @amc1956uk
    @amc1956uk 5 днів тому +1

    And…we are self sufficient don’t depend on anyone.
    Bravo mama….retired veteran here also!!!!👏👏👏

  • @madashell2596
    @madashell2596 17 днів тому +3

    The smart play is for a woman like this. I'm 44 and would prefer this caliber of woman than a younger woman. Ma'am, where are you?

  • @Daniel-deMerrivale
    @Daniel-deMerrivale 15 днів тому +2

    What a great lady (stressing “lady” because when a woman is also a “lady” that makes us real men feel life is good)!

  • @margaretchubb8941
    @margaretchubb8941 7 днів тому +2

    I'm happy to be an older woman now. You younger ladies you get on with your lives and get things done.

  • @Junkbox90802
    @Junkbox90802 11 днів тому +1

    Just Surviving to 60 You've made it. Congrats Lady, You've earned it.

  • @yippee8570
    @yippee8570 7 днів тому +2

    Why would I need to compete with anyone? If there's one thing you learn as you grow older as a woman it's to just be yourself.

  • @user-xg1rp5oj8b
    @user-xg1rp5oj8b 17 днів тому +4

    Just like God . We've created our world, know the end from the beginning before you were born. The cake is made and the celebration is waiting for you to catch up

  • @FiciousCritik
    @FiciousCritik 15 днів тому +2

    Humility is a prime facet of wisdom ... braggart.

  • @sapphirelight748
    @sapphirelight748 8 днів тому +2

    Here's to hoping young women were appropriately inspired by this and taking notes, instead of being worried about a game no one is playing but them.

  • @joannedorsey1238
    @joannedorsey1238 16 днів тому +4

    That is the BEST clapback I have ever heard. Sock it to ‘em sista!

  • @dr.charissel.7132
    @dr.charissel.7132 9 днів тому +1

    Thank you for serving our country!
    Blessings🙏🏽🌹🌈💕💫

  • @caroleappling2007
    @caroleappling2007 6 днів тому +1

    If that wasn't a read, there has never been one.
    Congratulations on your accomplishments in life.

  • @Amanda-dx2bx
    @Amanda-dx2bx 18 днів тому +4

    Love what you said! 😊

  • @lorisharpe
    @lorisharpe 7 днів тому +1

    Thank you girl!!! That’s absolutely right! I have earned every gray hair at 65 and wear it proudly! When the younger ladies quit dying their hair to look like mine… then we will talk. Teachin them the game is right!

  • @kendramonroe5666
    @kendramonroe5666 17 днів тому +2

    And said!!! ♥️♥️loving auntie!!!

  • @CanadianSmoke
    @CanadianSmoke 10 днів тому +1

    The young woman was inadvertently revealing her insecurities and inadequacies... she'll eventually conquer them... it takes experience to gain strength and wisdom.
    Wisdom is not the amount of knowledge one acquires, but of which knowledge to acquire.

  • @MichaelJohnson-wk8tk
    @MichaelJohnson-wk8tk 15 днів тому +2

    Amen to that beautiful lady!

  • @monanolen4066
    @monanolen4066 18 днів тому +3

    😊 AMEN TO THAT SISTER

  • @glyles3747
    @glyles3747 17 днів тому +3

    I LOVE IT. THERE IS NO STRONGER TRUTH. 😊❤😅

  • @johncarlsen3467
    @johncarlsen3467 13 днів тому +2

    Hooah, you go girl! Thank you for your service!!!

  • @dianebryant4684
    @dianebryant4684 17 днів тому +3

    All I can say is…..SPEAK MY SISTA ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @baxbax8701
    @baxbax8701 6 днів тому +1

    Amen!! You are one beautiful being!

  • @dougmorton4947
    @dougmorton4947 3 дні тому +1

    I'm in love! Thank you so much for the WISDOM AND TRUTH!!

  • @rocknroller77
    @rocknroller77 6 днів тому +1

    Yes ma'am! As a fellow veteran, i appreciate you and the "break it down to parade rest." 😄
    As a fellow woman, i also salute you on your win at the game of life❤

  • @jwfisher08
    @jwfisher08 15 днів тому +3

    "and break it down to parade rest!" I was waiting for the knife hand.

  • @RGMDG
    @RGMDG 17 днів тому +2

    Thanks for your service and Tellin' it the way it is!! Love it!

  • @lexxamillion32
    @lexxamillion32 5 днів тому +1

    And she is gracefully beautiful....

  • @zoe2466
    @zoe2466 22 години тому

    Thank you for your service to our country! And you are so right! L a W! We should be helping each other and teaching, not competing. You are an amazing lady.

  • @tanisha7789
    @tanisha7789 17 днів тому +3

    I’m 42 ain’t no competition here baby been there done that

  • @metsl1870
    @metsl1870 18 днів тому +3

    Damn!!!!

  • @bnaicole32
    @bnaicole32 6 днів тому +1

    You can't compete where you can't compare!

  • @MC-blessed
    @MC-blessed 17 днів тому +2

    AMEN 🙌🏽

  • @gregoryzack5471
    @gregoryzack5471 18 днів тому +1

    Beautiful I love you say it to the young ladies in the back

  • @donnabremerman1423
    @donnabremerman1423 18 днів тому +2

    Well said!!

  • @MajorityIsIrrelevant
    @MajorityIsIrrelevant 16 днів тому +1

    Life and wisdom ❤. Thank you lovely lady

  • @Prismatic9008
    @Prismatic9008 2 дні тому

    Preach. We're trying to educate and save you from a lifetime of pain. That's called love and sisterhood

  • @oldamerican8070
    @oldamerican8070 17 днів тому +2

    She is a real woman

  • @anothag
    @anothag 18 днів тому +1

    I love her, she's amazing! Yes we already ran the race, and we are off the track. From a greatgrandmother.

  • @user-nb5sv7cr6g
    @user-nb5sv7cr6g 22 години тому

    Life is not about competition, it's about running your best race for Jesus😇🙏. Come judgment day I want my rewards to be stockpiled and when they are put through the fire I want them all to come out squeaky clean. Donate, give, volunteer and help your fellow man ( or woman). God bless you! I have subscribed because you have wisdom and keep it short, sweet and to the point!😻

  • @donnajarvis9542
    @donnajarvis9542 15 днів тому +2

    Lady, you tell those young women!

  • @CurtisWhitehead-wn5bs
    @CurtisWhitehead-wn5bs 18 днів тому +1

    Preeeeeeeach my Sista! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Love You!

  • @2_blAck
    @2_blAck 17 днів тому +2

    I love you Sis! You’re awesome😎💪🏽

  • @debbiemccoy8
    @debbiemccoy8 7 днів тому

    💯! She said WHAT SHE SAID!!!! 💕💕💕

  • @JeDindk
    @JeDindk 18 днів тому +1

    She is awesome! ❤

  • @Rickettsia505
    @Rickettsia505 17 днів тому +1

    Ran the race and paved the road!