My parents didn't celebrate mediocrity. If we got good grades, good, you are SUPPOSED to get good grades. If you get into college, good! They will only celebrate when you FINISH college.
I’m glad Tamera , said what she said bc it’s not a “White” thing all of the mothers in my BLACK family are very celebratory of everyone. It’s not a race thing at all.
Janaé B yeah but most black parents I know aren’t gonna lie and say you were amazing if you suck. All the ones I’ve met (including my dad) will straight up be like “dang. That was bad”
I over cheer for my kids, but it has some negative consequences. They want praise, rewards and compliments for everything now all of the time. So I'm finding a balance.
Yeah, sometimes its weird because Tamera states that she identifies as a black woman. And I feel like, from of the episodes I have seen, that Loni identifies her as a biracial woman. I accept Tamera as a black woman and she should too. I don't understand what the problem is.
My parents were like Mama Mai. I remember one time I got straight A's on my report card and I asked for a reward (Cause all my friends got a reward) and my dad told me "why should I reward you for something your suppose to do anyways." He wasn't trying to be shady or mean he just thought of it as a normal thing to do.
I totally respect your parents so that was me not all kids can make the grade not all kids are contestants so you need straight ato me that is something to celebrate
It’s not a white/black race thing, it’s a personality thing lol. Some people have outspoken personalities and others are more chill. How is a whole race gun be one personality?? 😂
Ok for all ya'll hefers down in the comment section, tamera was saying being celebratory or complementing your children's efforts is not just for caucasian parents, and her mom is in fact black and very celebratory. She wasn't claiming a side, she was just stating that it's possible to be cheerful from any culture. PHEW people r so dense.
Thank you Tamera for correcting those statements. Not all black mothers are the same. I, myself, compliment my children and give them words of encouragement and positivity energy!
Lmaooooo, sammmeee Jeannie. 😂😂. It may not be a race thing but I saw that first with white people too, not gonna lie. And my mother is Polynesian. I will literally NEVER forget the day I realized that other parents give their kids compliments. For mine, it’s just stuff that you’re SUPPOSED to do so we never got compliments. 😢 Lol. I was like damn, your parents just say nice things about you?!?... TO you!?!?... for NO reason??? I can’t relate. 😭😭
And there's tons of black moms who would be cheering and crying for their child's success. Why do people care to stereotype,, it's like they have to cause their brains can't think deeply enough when it comes to complex concepts I guess.
my mom did this for my school performances, graduation literally any of my accomplishments! I'm latina (central american) and I noticed a lot of my friends' mothers did the same thing too mainly POC. Jeannie said something about mama mai not telling her she's proud of her because mama mai claims "it will make her head big" but tbh I will not be doing that with my children, it's unhealthy to not show emotions all the time!
I'm Vietnamese and my parents were similar to Jeannie's. I would get straight A's and I barely got a reaction out of them. I remember having to ask for some kind of reward. Silly me for asking but I saw it on TV/movies and from other family and friends. I see now we are just raised differently and it's ok.
I really don’t think its a race thing. My mum is black, from Ghana (West Africa) and she really is my biggest fan. She’s the screaming by the side lines type of mum and i love her for it🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
As a tennis player - it is a very mental game so if you see your parents over react whether it’s good or not it will mess with ur head My mom has to wear sunglasses and have a indifferent face on
Phillips Watson I wouldn't say it's a foreign thing... it depends on the parents and what they feel is healthy... your child shouldn't feel happy for EVERY little thing ! Like taking out the trash ? " YAY TIMMY , YOU DID A CHORE " like that's something you're supposed to do
Myronn Coleman 😎 SWEETIE...IN GENERAL I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT TIMMY CHORES...😜LOL😜IT'S A FOREIGN THING... MOST AMERICANS IN GENERAL ARE MORE EXUBERANT!!!
Jeannie’s right..I felt the same watching tv and wished my parents reacted like that...and tamera’s reaction to Jeannie calling her white was weird..clearly it wasn’t meant in a bad way
Faith FO no everyone’s sick of Jeanie’s newfound racism when up until a year ago that white D kept her plenty happy. Stop making excuses, she’s been shown her true colors
@Faith FO No I completely agree with you, Jeanie was just talking about how Tam inspired her with how she praises her kids, and how she remembered seeing that white people used to also do the same... I don't think she was directing it at Tam because she's part white.. but more so like oh hey, there's that thing that you both do in common that I appreciate... just felt like Tam's response came out a lil negative, almost like she assumed Jeanie was directing that statement at her because she's part white.. when she's equally as black as she is white so...
Jeanie wasn’t calling anyone white. She’s saying we see it on TV that white parents cheer on their kids. As an Asian person myself we only saw it from tv shows where white parents would be that supportive of their kids and that’s something we’ve never really felt and wanted to be able to do for our kids. Geesh y’all taking it out of context!
Ladies, people don't act differently based on skin colour but culture, traditions, personality, morals and manners. Please learn that and stop with this "white people do x, black people do y".
Tamera guuuurrrrrl I am loving this hair !!!! 😍😍😍😍 YAAAAAASSSSS !!! I thought you were Tia back wen she was on the Game lol IM LOVING IT !!! LOVE U GUYS ‼️‼️💯😍❤️
I was celebrated for my accomplishments and for making good grades. I think it's okay to be told that you are doing a good job. It can make someone feel appreciated
I can't wait til my kids enter sports, I'm gonna be right next to the coach offering plays, holding signs, being straight loud and running up and down the field/court/track with my kids 🤣
I mean her mom has sat at like 2 million of her daughter's victories on the court! Give her a break! She ALWAYS shows up in support! She is an elder who has sacrificed her life and time to her children in support! Maybe she would rather get a massage or chilling at thr beach....but instead she's there in support!
I make that face when I tell my brother to not touch my snacks and he keeps pushing it I’ll give him a dollar to go get a Swiss roll but leave my cosmic brownies alone!!😂
My dad is the same way ... if I came home with a good grade or I have exciting news to say all he will reply with is “Ok that’s good “ with a straight face while my mom will get excited🤣🤣🙄 .. I swear Caribbean parents are hard to please 🤣🤣
I get what Jeannie meant. There are some parents that really do not over compliment and do not constantly feel the need to validate their kids. It's not a bad thing at all and it don't mean the parents love them or support them any less, they just do not feel like they gotta congratulate every little thing the kids do. Sometimes it does feel like "Why are we applauding fish for swimming?" You did exactly what I knew you would do, you won the match. I do not need to go on and on and on and on about you doing what was expected of you because I already knew you would get the job done. But then Serena lost in the quarter finals and I was soooooooo sad!!!
The words we say to our kids become the voices in their head. So give compliments and encouragement freely. Don't let them fight for our affections.. life is hard enough. Just my two cents.
Crazy how Jeannie said something that reflected mostly Asian culture but it became a debate about making it all about race, when it’s actually one of the main things that Asian kids grow up with. It’s not because she was shocked to see white people compliment their kids that everyone has to put all the POC in the same bag. But Tamera talking her black mom shows that she missed the point. There are a lot more shades than just black and white
Everyone’s different and at this point Serena has been the GOAT for years so it’s whatever. But for other people and their kids it’s important to cheer for your kids and compliment them not overly compliment but being stone faced and cold hearted can cause a kid to be the same way and become hard on themselves and become insecure
I'm that mom and others cheer for my kids and look at me like "did you see that?" Lol. My daughter is very emotional so she tells me not to say anything. My son paid me no mind so I stopped cheering years ago. I just fist bump on the way to the car.
Her mom is like wake me up when she loses 🤣
Lol her ass gonna die at that point
More like when she wins
Onur Bb lol🤣🤣🤣🤣
Serenas mom knows she's the GOAT that's why she's not surprised😂
I’ll never forget her unbothered look at the Aussie open 2007 final against Sharapova 🤣
That's what it is. She been seeing this. Plus she prolly looking like that because she tired of having to defend her daughters before the mass haters
" My MOMMA'S Black" Lol Tamera said that like ya'll betta recognize!
Tamera's looking like a snack. Actually feast. 😍💋
and she made a cute face at the end
My eyes are in love...absolutely beautiful. Just smh MYGOSH 😍😍😍😍
Hell yes
Everyone is looking on point!
Yee Haa
My parents didn't celebrate mediocrity. If we got good grades, good, you are SUPPOSED to get good grades. If you get into college, good! They will only celebrate when you FINISH college.
are you Nigerian or what.
Same! Except my parents didn’t even celebrate when I finished college. Asian parents don’t compliment or celebrate their children :(
@@funmilolaelusoji7898 first question that popped into my head 😂
Victoria Yeager lmao 😂 I am Canadian, we celebrate for everything 🤣🤣🤣🤣nobody care her
Victoria Yeager lol that’s my husband
I’m glad Tamera , said what she said bc it’s not a “White” thing all of the mothers in my BLACK family are very celebratory of everyone. It’s not a race thing at all.
Janaé B yeah but most black parents I know aren’t gonna lie and say you were amazing if you suck. All the ones I’ve met (including my dad) will straight up be like “dang. That was bad”
kory morris that’s nice or whatever. But that was not the context of this here situation.
I wonder what Loni was saying after that
Tam tam "I'm not white" lol "my mother is black" lol
2envy Shanice Lol!
I over cheer for my kids, but it has some negative consequences. They want praise, rewards and compliments for everything now all of the time. So I'm finding a balance.
I am loving Tamera's hair. I need a wig like that.
We need money like that, to afford the wig 😂😂
Tamera doesn't need any wig, her natural hair is nice as it is.
Tamera face at the end after loni said that lmao
She shoulda hit her with
"That wig you got on in all white doe.." Shut it down
What Loni said at the end tho? I'm still trying to figure out lol
Loni is always commenting on Tamera being half white.
Yeah, sometimes its weird because Tamera states that she identifies as a black woman. And I feel like, from of the episodes I have seen, that Loni identifies her as a biracial woman. I accept Tamera as a black woman and she should too. I don't understand what the problem is.
My parents were like Mama Mai. I remember one time I got straight A's on my report card and I asked for a reward (Cause all my friends got a reward) and my dad told me "why should I reward you for something your suppose to do anyways." He wasn't trying to be shady or mean he just thought of it as a normal thing to do.
I totally respect your parents so that was me not all kids can make the grade not all kids are contestants so you need straight ato me that is something to celebrate
It’s not a white/black race thing, it’s a personality thing lol. Some people have outspoken personalities and others are more chill. How is a whole race gun be one personality?? 😂
People always try to put everyone in the same category it's so annoying! People are individuals. 🙄🤷🏻♂️
Right?!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm black and I'm not that basketball mom screaming in the stands. Im also a librarian and introvert so..
Agree. Like how can 40+ countries have the same mentality just because they share the same skin color, it's ridiculous.
Thats Loni's resting *girl bye* face
Thats not Loni's listening face. Thats her I dont agree with Jeannie/Adrienne face.
Ok for all ya'll hefers down in the comment section, tamera was saying being celebratory or complementing your children's efforts is not just for caucasian parents, and her mom is in fact black and very celebratory. She wasn't claiming a side, she was just stating that it's possible to be cheerful from any culture. PHEW people r so dense.
Thank you Tamera for correcting those statements. Not all black mothers are the same. I, myself, compliment my children and give them words of encouragement and positivity energy!
Timmy has left Adrianne with a trauma 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmaooooo, sammmeee Jeannie. 😂😂. It may not be a race thing but I saw that first with white people too, not gonna lie. And my mother is Polynesian. I will literally NEVER forget the day I realized that other parents give their kids compliments. For mine, it’s just stuff that you’re SUPPOSED to do so we never got compliments. 😢 Lol. I was like damn, your parents just say nice things about you?!?... TO you!?!?... for NO reason??? I can’t relate. 😭😭
Why can’t loni get the kind of wigs that tam has on🤦🏾♀️
The wig is fine, it's the application. Why her stylist didn't pull out some baby hairs? Lol.
Baby hairs and some dark root realness lol
Loni doesn’t hve sister sister money 🤣🤣
Lol her makeup looks amazing but this wig ain't that bad
That sister sister coin
Who else gets happy when they land on a plane ? 🙋🏾♂️ Serena’s mom knows her daughter is the sh’t she’s not surprised
She knew she was gon win..
She tired of her wins like....yeah been there done that...know what? Lol
I think what Tamera meant was that her mother (who is black) is celebratory, and she doesn’t just get it from her white side. 😬
It's not really a black mom thing; I know mothers like her from different races and ethnicities.
And there's tons of black moms who would be cheering and crying for their child's success. Why do people care to stereotype,, it's like they have to cause their brains can't think deeply enough when it comes to complex concepts I guess.
cristina solano good for you
my mom did this for my school performances, graduation literally any of my accomplishments! I'm latina (central american) and I noticed a lot of my friends' mothers did the same thing too mainly POC. Jeannie said something about mama mai not telling her she's proud of her because mama mai claims "it will make her head big" but tbh I will not be doing that with my children, it's unhealthy to not show emotions all the time!
daniella x lol right, you need to show emotions
I'm Vietnamese and my parents were similar to Jeannie's. I would get straight A's and I barely got a reaction out of them. I remember having to ask for some kind of reward. Silly me for asking but I saw it on TV/movies and from other family and friends. I see now we are just raised differently and it's ok.
I really don’t think its a race thing. My mum is black, from Ghana (West Africa) and she really is my biggest fan. She’s the screaming by the side lines type of mum and i love her for it🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Kali S m’y Ghanaian sister right here
AYYEEEEE IM GHANAIAN TOO! Our African parents (especially our mothers) are real extra lol so that makes sense
Aayyyyy see my beautiful sisters♥️♥️☺️☺️
Saaame
As a tennis player - it is a very mental game so if you see your parents over react whether it’s good or not it will mess with ur head My mom has to wear sunglasses and have a indifferent face on
😱YES JEANNIE MOST FOREIGNERS SHOW NO EMOTIONS!!! SMDH
Phillips Watson I wouldn't say it's a foreign thing... it depends on the parents and what they feel is healthy... your child shouldn't feel happy for EVERY little thing ! Like taking out the trash ? " YAY TIMMY , YOU DID A CHORE " like that's something you're supposed to do
@@MajesticMyronn Looool even you're using "Timmy" as the example.
Dee Dee I sure did friend 😂😂😂
Myronn Coleman 😎
SWEETIE...IN GENERAL I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT TIMMY CHORES...😜LOL😜IT'S A FOREIGN THING...
MOST AMERICANS IN GENERAL ARE MORE EXUBERANT!!!
@@phillipswatson3452 totally agree , americans are so comfortable showing their emotions
Adriene’s hair is fly😍😍😍
I love when Jeannie does the accent, it's soo cool to me
Jeannie’s right..I felt the same watching tv and wished my parents reacted like that...and tamera’s reaction to Jeannie calling her white was weird..clearly it wasn’t meant in a bad way
Faith FO no everyone’s sick of Jeanie’s newfound racism when up until a year ago that white D kept her plenty happy. Stop making excuses, she’s been shown her true colors
I think tamera wanted to be clear her black mom complimented her.
@@chelseakevorkian4998 thank you! well said!
@Faith FO No I completely agree with you, Jeanie was just talking about how Tam inspired her with how she praises her kids, and how she remembered seeing that white people used to also do the same... I don't think she was directing it at Tam because she's part white.. but more so like oh hey, there's that thing that you both do in common that I appreciate... just felt like Tam's response came out a lil negative, almost like she assumed Jeanie was directing that statement at her because she's part white.. when she's equally as black as she is white so...
Jeanie wasn’t calling anyone white. She’s saying we see it on TV that white parents cheer on their kids. As an Asian person myself we only saw it from tv shows where white parents would be that supportive of their kids and that’s something we’ve never really felt and wanted to be able to do for our kids. Geesh y’all taking it out of context!
My mom was my #1 😍 she was always there for anything I did but she wasn't afraid to tell me if I needed to do better she was the best
Ladies, people don't act differently based on skin colour but culture, traditions, personality, morals and manners. Please learn that and stop with this "white people do x, black people do y".
Veronica Ivanova they're speaking from their experience , and I'm pretty sure Jeannie said " now grown , I know all white people dont do that "
Ms Mai looking so beautiful
Adrienne is so beautiful!
man I feel u jeannie. I went to a white school, and their parents always support them and I'm there lonely.
We don't need support, we are strong.
@@Abena_Goddess87 Not true. Were human and we do need support.
@@prueXo but plenty of us do it without support. A lot of us don't get support. So I don't get your point
@@Abena_Goddess87 My point is plain and simple. You can reread it if you wish.
@@prueXo no thanks, I wish you would stop talking to me. Enjoy the day you deserve
Tamera guuuurrrrrl I am loving this hair !!!! 😍😍😍😍 YAAAAAASSSSS !!! I thought you were Tia back wen she was on the Game lol IM LOVING IT !!! LOVE U GUYS ‼️‼️💯😍❤️
Jeannie is really funny😂😂
Tamaras makeup and hair looks amazing!!!
"You came outtah me, you already good"! Brilliant Mama Mai lolz
Tamara is glowing 😍
I Love Loni's laughter! :)
I was celebrated for my accomplishments and for making good grades. I think it's okay to be told that you are doing a good job. It can make someone feel appreciated
Omg Adrienne said what I was thinking about Timmy 😂😂😂
"you already good, you come out of me" 😂
I aspire to be THAT unbothered
I feel you Tam I’ve cried at every one of my daughters nativities she’s 8 now 🤣👍
I can't wait til my kids enter sports, I'm gonna be right next to the coach offering plays, holding signs, being straight loud and running up and down the field/court/track with my kids 🤣
LMAO I say "Timmy" too
They all look amazing
Omg TAMERA LOOKS GORGEOUS as alwayzz
3:54 loni says "stupid" 😂😂😂
I mean her mom has sat at like 2 million of her daughter's victories on the court! Give her a break! She ALWAYS shows up in support! She is an elder who has sacrificed her life and time to her children in support! Maybe she would rather get a massage or chilling at thr beach....but instead she's there in support!
*"Well done Timmy you tied your shoe laces!"*
Where do I get Tam's earrings?!?!
That close up on Loni’s part... whew
What does the red wristband/bracelet Tamera is wearing on her left wrist represent?
Jeannie is straight up glowing yo! Okurrrr heart break where? lol
Serena’s mom in that photo with Adrienne looks like Tamar lololol
Nic it’s Lyndrea, Serena’s sister, not her mom.
I make that face when I tell my brother to not touch my snacks and he keeps pushing it I’ll give him a dollar to go get a Swiss roll but leave my cosmic brownies alone!!😂
Yesss, I'm like Tamera too, I cheer for anything! LOL
Thanks Tam for correcting Jeannie. Celebrating is not a white thing, it's a personality thing.
Tamera "but I'm not white"...... last time I checked she was half white 🤦
anybody know where Jeannie got her turtleneck sweater? it is pretty and very wintery.
That’s my mood everyday 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love Tamera's look today. Earrings are so cute
What’s that dress tam wearing I need that dress😭😭❤️❤️
Omg Zen Zone 🤣😂 Adrienne
Adrienne is boricua af clapping when the plane lands 😂😂😂
Hahaha I can so relate to Jeannie 😂
She is a MOOD ✨
My dad is the same way ... if I came home with a good grade or I have exciting news to say all he will reply with is “Ok that’s good “ with a straight face while my mom will get excited🤣🤣🙄 .. I swear Caribbean parents are hard to please 🤣🤣
yup
I get what Jeannie meant. There are some parents that really do not over compliment and do not constantly feel the need to validate their kids. It's not a bad thing at all and it don't mean the parents love them or support them any less, they just do not feel like they gotta congratulate every little thing the kids do. Sometimes it does feel like "Why are we applauding fish for swimming?" You did exactly what I knew you would do, you won the match. I do not need to go on and on and on and on about you doing what was expected of you because I already knew you would get the job done.
But then Serena lost in the quarter finals and I was soooooooo sad!!!
Love Tam hair 🥰😍
The words we say to our kids become the voices in their head.
So give compliments and encouragement freely. Don't let them fight for our affections.. life is hard enough.
Just my two cents.
Hahaha jeannie you are the best 😂
Dear Loni, keep that makeup artist! Check you out girl!!!
I am here for tamaras sweater and boots 👢 yassssss!
Loni love reminds me so much of my mama❤️
them girls are glowing super! woooow!
It's like Jeanie finds everytime to talk about herself.😂😂
Adrienne is slaying yes girl get it
Jeannie finds a reason to talk about her mom everytime
That's Loni's listening face?.....sooooo.. What face was it when Tamar was talking about being called a Muppet??
"omg zen zone" 😂
ME TOOO jeannie when white kids complimented their kids i looked at them like they had 3 heads, unheard for me!
It's her dad that taught her how to play tennis😂
What are those red bracelets they wear?
Tamera looks cute today
Crazy how Jeannie said something that reflected mostly Asian culture but it became a debate about making it all about race, when it’s actually one of the main things that Asian kids grow up with. It’s not because she was shocked to see white people compliment their kids that everyone has to put all the POC in the same bag.
But Tamera talking her black mom shows that she missed the point. There are a lot more shades than just black and white
Loni whats up with the wig?
That's me when I'm watching my daughter in her classes.
Tamara though 😂
I Love you Loni😻
Tamera looks amazing! However, I'm kinda getting some Girl Melanie vibes. 😄😋🧡
My mom is the same way. I got accepted into a top university and mom my didn’t say anything but a simple Cold faced “good for your”
Everyone’s different and at this point Serena has been the GOAT for years so it’s whatever. But for other people and their kids it’s important to cheer for your kids and compliment them not overly compliment but being stone faced and cold hearted can cause a kid to be the same way and become hard on themselves and become insecure
I love Tamera's style!
I'm that mom and others cheer for my kids and look at me like "did you see that?" Lol. My daughter is very emotional so she tells me not to say anything. My son paid me no mind so I stopped cheering years ago. I just fist bump on the way to the car.
Yep i agree
Even freaking Anna Wintour jumped up 🤣🤣