Our Honeymoon Experience + First Year Marriage Challenges | Chidera Peters

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  • @ihuomaanthony8800
    @ihuomaanthony8800 Рік тому +17

    If u can't forgive , dont even think of marriage cos u will constantly see annonying stuff from ur spouse.

  • @eniolaodunuga7747
    @eniolaodunuga7747 Рік тому +17

    Oh that forgiveness part! And patience…. The lord renews our subscription every morning 😂❤!

  • @aweleokafor209
    @aweleokafor209 Рік тому +16

    The fact that you can’t even remember the cause of the fight at the honeymoon right now shows how much we let unimportant issues that won’t even matter in the long run to affect important decisions.
    My husband and I had our worst fight/fights in the first year as well, but it actually made us stronger after everything because we got to understand ourselves more.

  • @blessingchika_
    @blessingchika_ Рік тому +3

    I love how your hubby calls you Dera, that's so sweet

  • @peaceikeh-madufor5877
    @peaceikeh-madufor5877 Рік тому +22

    Congratulations Chidera, it took me about 3years to get this point you have arrived at in year 1.. you guys are quite intentional about each other and I am really happy for you.. Happy one year anniversary

  • @OyepearlTV
    @OyepearlTV Рік тому +13

    As my pastor shared with us yesterday that we shouldn't take a permanent decision in a temporary situation. During heated misunderstandings, we should be careful about the decision we are about to take at that very moment.

  • @olayinkaadeleke1503
    @olayinkaadeleke1503 Рік тому +10

    My mum would say marriage is an institution that you receive the certificate before you even start the course.

  • @stephaniechidii
    @stephaniechidii Рік тому +6

    Forgiveness is a real deal in marriage ❤

  • @Angie_Linaa
    @Angie_Linaa Рік тому +5

    One year marriage anniversary in February,and you see that forgiveness ?God!!!!if you can’t forgive,you cannot marry

  • @auntyjayne
    @auntyjayne Рік тому +5

    I Iove jason Ghanaian accent! Great video Dera👍

  • @oluwaseunonijala
    @oluwaseunonijala Рік тому +4

    Good Video with alot of fundamental lessons.
    Whilst the coloration of these issues may vary from one couple/situation to another, the dynamics are basically the same across board.
    Truth is, Marriage is not always as glam as people envisage it, but with the elements of love/patience/kindness/tolerance/understanding et.al, coupled with RELENTLESS EFFORT, whatever challenges that exist can be effectively managed while marriage can surely work out for 2 people who have AGREED to be intentional about making things work-out.
    May God continue to bind your home with love and grant your union greater bliss in the years ahead.
    Cheers 🥂🥂🥂🥂

  • @oloridestiny3251
    @oloridestiny3251 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this, i believe we don't talk about this enough in society the first year is not as rosey as we have been told it would be. LOOOOl

  • @TheMoCrib
    @TheMoCrib Рік тому +3

    I keep coming back to watch this video and at this point I just had to comment because phew! I can relate so much that I wonder if we are married to the same person. First year of marriage here as well (anniversary last month) and it was harrrrrrd. See ehn, there’s a reason God did not build women to have as much physical strength because person for don kee person pikin. Do we love eachother? Absolutely! He’s the sweetest most playful person in the world but mennnn! brother be testing you on a steady! And that forgiveness ehn, no lies there, all those ‘I can’t take this from anybody yen yen yen’ talks when you were single, na lie! My dear you will take it, you will chew it, swallow it down and give honor and adoration to God, Amen? 😂😂. But in all Marriage is beautiful, the beautiful moments are always very beautiful. It’s worth the work. 😊

  • @onyi__
    @onyi__ Рік тому +2

    l’m just 18, and y’all have got me aspiring soooo hard for this marriage thing❤️😍

  • @greenbutterfly2421
    @greenbutterfly2421 Рік тому +3

    Ah this video should have been longer 😂, really enjoyed it. Keep the marriage series coming please. Love Mr Jason on here.

  • @_heph_zibah_
    @_heph_zibah_ Рік тому +2

    Anytime Chidera Peters pop up am liking before watching 😊.

  • @IFEOLUWA-IJEOMA
    @IFEOLUWA-IJEOMA Рік тому +1

    This was very fun to watch and very relatable as well. You both mentioned the very key things one need to know before and also into the marriage. Yes Love is beautiful, infact it’s more beautiful when you’re sure that you’re loved by your partner and that you also love your partner. But it comes with a lot of understanding, patience, communication and Forgiveness. It may take time but with the efforts you put into understanding each other, it would pay in due time as it would make your home very peaceful and also a guide to other. We do love you guys 🤍

  • @ifydime
    @ifydime Рік тому +11

    I couldn't take my eyes off how your hair matches your skin tone and looks so good on you.
    Meanwhile I enjoy watching your channel and you two 😁

  • @preciousokung1888
    @preciousokung1888 Рік тому +2

    It was such an interesting watch...been thinking of the next book to read 📚 after watching this it's really adding up that I need to get a book on forgiveness....thank you for filming this! I pray God guides you more one day at a time.

  • @annieudoh1745
    @annieudoh1745 Рік тому +1

    Wow......I love and respect you guys. God continue to bless and keep your home. Thank God for your husband's bold stop and positive mindset.

  • @nanleluke
    @nanleluke Рік тому +3

    Jason is so much softy ❤, Love you guys

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  Рік тому +1

      Aww thanks Nanle, so good to see you here!♥️♥️

  • @Edimoya
    @Edimoya Рік тому

    I'm not married yet, but I learnt a lot from this video, thanks for sharing with us, we want more of this episode

  • @samuelblessing5711
    @samuelblessing5711 Рік тому +1

    We need part two o😂
    This is great guys.
    God almighty will continue to guide your steps

  • @lotannaagbaegbu4238
    @lotannaagbaegbu4238 Рік тому +2

    Omg the part about mood swings!! Sometimes I have to sit down and ask myself why life is treating me this way 😅😅😅 can you make a video about that please

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Рік тому

      Read Ephesians 6:12. We are in a spiritual war and heavy attack from the devil.

  • @sharonomotayo3438
    @sharonomotayo3438 Рік тому +1

    I'm just watching this video and I really needed this at this time. I'm not married yet but what you guys said concerning lingering quarrels is so true and difference in love language.. one question I have is, after a fight, things can get so awkward even after apologising. Because settling it doesn't mean your emotions have calm down completely but there is that emotional awkwardness, like so am I supposed to just start laughing or am I saying the right thing, etc.

  • @GinaDanielTV
    @GinaDanielTV Рік тому +1

    So many lessons learnt in one year. That's awesome guys. Congratulations on one year💃💃🙏🏼🙏🏼😍😍 More Grace. The forgiveness part😂🤣🤣

  • @anitaibetei4899
    @anitaibetei4899 Рік тому +2

    My dear love you guys, been married for 6years and sincerely we also had horrible honeymoon and horrible days after wards infact one time my husband and I were practically roommates for months. Infact I didn't have a honeymoon.

  • @williamgamelisenaya793
    @williamgamelisenaya793 Рік тому +1

    Nuff respect Bro Jason
    Bless up 🙏🙏
    Watching from the land downunder Sydney NSW

  • @thejanelle7521
    @thejanelle7521 Рік тому +4

    It’s really the younger ones for me 😂 for your mind now you don turn expert😂😂😂 thanks for the tips ❤

  • @zainabowoyomi8299
    @zainabowoyomi8299 Рік тому

    I thoroughly enjoyed watching this. God bless your home. I love how intentional you both are

  • @njikenana3229
    @njikenana3229 Рік тому +4

    So sweet to listen to you guys

  • @clementinabusayo
    @clementinabusayo Рік тому +2

    I smiled, 🤩🤣 I learned & I ♥️ the truth of this video 📸

  • @FavourBabajamu
    @FavourBabajamu Рік тому +6

    You guys are adorable 😍. Your honeymoon story was hilarious though😂. Were you really going to pack out?

  • @titikshavlogsscotland235
    @titikshavlogsscotland235 Рік тому +3

    My dear 😂 ! Never sleep without cuddling after a fight …half the problems already gets solved then and there😂😂😂😂

  • @chymnaza
    @chymnaza Рік тому

    More like we are like Chidera!
    You don't just touch me! Likeeeeee!!!
    Cuddle? Noo wayyy!!
    The words of affirmation appeals to me..
    You keep glowing.
    Congratulations 👏

  • @Adaobi_Martins
    @Adaobi_Martins Рік тому

    It’s the honesty and sarcasm for me😂

  • @phyl_mo
    @phyl_mo Рік тому +1

    Well done to you both.. thank you for sharing 😊

  • @mathildaobi6620
    @mathildaobi6620 Рік тому

    so beautiful to watch, above all be intentional to make it work.

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for being so real with us🥰🥰love u guys 💕
    I'm learning too thank you 😊

  • @ifeadegbite_md4511
    @ifeadegbite_md4511 Рік тому +1

    It’s the caption for me 😲🤣. Love you Chidera 😍😍.

  • @freespirit3972
    @freespirit3972 Рік тому

    Awwwwk! You both are hilarious!
    Very cute and relatable content!
    Keep rocking your marriage, folks! All the best! ❤️❤️

  • @valeriehakutangwi
    @valeriehakutangwi Рік тому

    Forgiveness and patience I heard that 100% thank you sis😉🤩

  • @chisomuche6974
    @chisomuche6974 Рік тому

    I enjoyed watching this, learnt from it as well. More happiness in your marriage Chidera ❤️

  • @Brown6031
    @Brown6031 Рік тому +2

    I'll be back to watch but I got to say again Chidera, that hair suits you spool much

  • @nneomaudeaja4522
    @nneomaudeaja4522 Рік тому

    My dear I feel you 😂. Really enjoyed this video . Lots of things to learn

  • @0j0chenemi
    @0j0chenemi Рік тому

    Jason looks so cool, lol, it seems you caused the fight. currently in the Uk doing my msc too.

  • @uchendug
    @uchendug Рік тому

    Love this!!! Love your top too💝

  • @Brown6031
    @Brown6031 Рік тому +1

    You both are growing

  • @uskdivalious
    @uskdivalious Рік тому

    Happy Anniversary. Thanks for sharing.

  • @4evanigachukwu676
    @4evanigachukwu676 Рік тому

    Good one. Lovely couple ❤

  • @Hoppylizzy
    @Hoppylizzy Рік тому

    Many thanks for this video, I learnt alot

  • @unekwuojoibrahim3115
    @unekwuojoibrahim3115 Рік тому

    Learning so much.

  • @chrisycudjoe
    @chrisycudjoe Рік тому

    All points are valid👌

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 Рік тому

    We are going to make it work 🤭🤭🤭 awnnnn ☺️ Jason is sweet
    Thank God o, marriage takes two to work it out
    Marriage is made to work noted
    Congratulations 🎉 cheers to forever
    U guys are gonna work out,fights are inevitable but forever is d deal o
    Thank you for sharing 😊

  • @olayinkasalami3444
    @olayinkasalami3444 Рік тому

    we love you guys

  • @binwiemmanuella5362
    @binwiemmanuella5362 Рік тому

    I love you guys. Keep it up.

  • @Brown6031
    @Brown6031 Рік тому

    Yes Jason u said the right thing

  • @ikeakheofure4675
    @ikeakheofure4675 Рік тому

    Love it! So much

  • @herbee703
    @herbee703 Рік тому +5

    Please remember what that fight was all about so we can lezrn from it🤣

    • @tebalelomarobane8496
      @tebalelomarobane8496 Рік тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @tebalelomarobane8496
      @tebalelomarobane8496 Рік тому

      We were not talking to that honeymoon sef 🤣🤣🤣🤣,

    • @victoriawejinya9638
      @victoriawejinya9638 Рік тому

      Trust me they can't remember, it's my 10yrs and in December when we became 10yrs my husband and I and my friend who could remember that day brought it up. We laughed so hard. I pack oh, drove off like I was done but thank God

    • @kaylabrielle6968
      @kaylabrielle6968 Рік тому

      U r not nice i swear 😂 😂 😂 😂

    • @patrinaadama
      @patrinaadama Рік тому

      The very day we married that night I remove the ring and threw it away it wasn't a small fight😂😂😂 we ended up with a good sex and slept peacefully 😂😂😂😂

  • @Anex09
    @Anex09 Рік тому

    Wow🤣🤣day two🤣so funny, n thanks for sharing 🙏for some about entering the marriage market 😊 thank u

  • @tessyshotkitchen
    @tessyshotkitchen Рік тому

    Congratulations guys

  • @lotannaagbaegbu4238
    @lotannaagbaegbu4238 Рік тому

    😅😅 I cannot totally relate. I enjoyed this ❤❤

  • @delighteze5980
    @delighteze5980 Рік тому

    Interesting video 👍☺️, love it. Please feature Jason's twin in your next video ☺️.

  • @Brown6031
    @Brown6031 Рік тому

    God mercy kept you both

  • @uzoamakaenekwechi7834
    @uzoamakaenekwechi7834 7 місяців тому

    Nice one.

  • @iyescorner862
    @iyescorner862 Рік тому

    I love love love love you guys! ❤❤ and yes DON’T TOUCH ME 😭😭😭

  • @nanleluke
    @nanleluke Рік тому

    The forgiveness part 😢

  • @Brown6031
    @Brown6031 Рік тому +1

    Praise God

  • @Brown6031
    @Brown6031 Рік тому +1

    Hello Jason

  • @Roses_are_red614
    @Roses_are_red614 Рік тому +4

    Help me ask God for a husband too. Someone I'll call my own 🤲🏾

    • @namsyl2093
      @namsyl2093 Рік тому

      How old are you? Maybe you are too picky, like you are waiting for Prince Harry or the president's son?🥴🥴

  • @Brown6031
    @Brown6031 Рік тому

    Ok big sister Chedera

  • @adaobiobi4658
    @adaobiobi4658 Рік тому

    Marriage will train you

  • @Stellz01
    @Stellz01 Рік тому

    😂😂 I totally understand this

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 Рік тому +1

    Very eye opening video. No disrespect, but if you don't like touch...how do you have sex?

  • @Brown6031
    @Brown6031 Рік тому

    Really chedera

  • @jenniferoluebube17
    @jenniferoluebube17 Рік тому

    New subscriber

  • @Jaay2022
    @Jaay2022 Рік тому +1

    First here❤

  • @Fola.Hells28
    @Fola.Hells28 Рік тому +1

    Hey girl, where did you get your top from?

  • @ordorugonmagladon8728
    @ordorugonmagladon8728 Рік тому

    Bro no be you, e just dey occur 😂😂😂😂

  • @jenniferoluebube17
    @jenniferoluebube17 Рік тому

    Nice

  • @katehillier1027
    @katehillier1027 Рік тому

    UA-cam won’t let me say I am not interested in the latest social media wunderkind in the immigration ouvre.

  • @rachaeloladipo6125
    @rachaeloladipo6125 Рік тому +1

    🥰🥰🥰

  • @katehillier1027
    @katehillier1027 Рік тому

    Who are you??!

  • @nanleluke
    @nanleluke Рік тому

    Lol I can imagine 😂😂

  • @jordaanolawumi
    @jordaanolawumi Рік тому

    💖

  • @adeyinkasanni4488
    @adeyinkasanni4488 Рік тому

    WHAO!!! 👍👌👏❤️

  • @samueladjeiboateng4363
    @samueladjeiboateng4363 Рік тому

    Hi Chidera, can you please help me out with this question. I am a Ghanaian a registered and my fiancee is a Nigerian. When I am successful in securing a job in UK, can I apply for visa together with her in Ghana. Note, we are not married yet, we planned on getting married after the IELTS CBT process. Thanks

  • @Brown6031
    @Brown6031 Рік тому +2

    The devil is always a lier. C u both can't remember what exactly it was

  • @Brown6031
    @Brown6031 Рік тому

    🤣🙌🏿😂😂😂

  • @Brown6031
    @Brown6031 Рік тому +1

    Lolololol

  • @toyin2376
    @toyin2376 Рік тому

    who fights on honeymoon, are you guys serious ....