if you’re christian try to pray everyday, not just when something goes wrong. a quote i saw on pinterest said “if you woke up tomorrow with all the things you prayed for today, what would you have?”
create an alter ego. it sounds crazy but its helped me sm. give her a name, i named mine flora. how would she introduce herself, how does she dress, how does she act, how does she talk, what are her habits, write it all. then, in any situation you can ask yourself, "what would *insert alter ego name* do?" and follow up with it. trust me you WILL be your dream self if you can make an alter ego out of what you want to be. let me give an example. someone just gave me a really backhanded joke and im offended by the passive aggressiveness but dunno how to react. then i pause and ask myself, what would flora do? lets say flora would confront them. then i'd confront them. it'd feel rewarding because i just did something my dream self would do. or if i catch myself rotting and not getting any crap done, id ask myself "would flora be doing this?" if not, "what would flora be doing right now?" and follow up with it! when you have a clear dream self you can follow up better! this comment long as hell mb but i had to share cuz it helped me sm!
Yes! Let's get out of our own way and smash 2025 ✨️ The best thing I have done this year is to limit social media. Nowadays, I just stick to Pinterest and UA-cam for inspiration. The more time you spend away from insta or tik tok, the more you realise how unhealthy it is. I highly recommend 👌🏼
just subscribed. thank you. this year has been hard (juggling school, work, and a divorce) and recently my depression has been just too much to manage and overcome. i need to be better. i want to be. so just... thank you.
you got this girl!! like a sword has to be welded in fire to be durable, you need to suffer at some point in time to come out even stronger. you WILL overpower this situation; best believe, you'll be thriving.
Learning everything that can boost yourself and help you become better is a lifelong journey of growth. It’s about continuously seeking knowledge, refining your skills, and expanding your mindset ❤
thank you so much for this, i actual needed this so much. this year ive gotten in my own way too much but i have learned to try new things and just do stuff even if im scared. my new goal for 2025 is to stop getting in my own way.
the second I saw the notification I clicked on it love you so much Shelly you are so inspiring and always give the best big sister advice✨🫶🏻💅☺️😘❤️🤍🍒thank you gurly always feel the best when you post!!
Awww, this is awesome Shelly! I definitely want to focus on not taking everything so seriously this coming year. Also, playing Farmville is literally one of my favourite things to do!
Tysm for this video 💕 Minimising my beauty routine has saved me so much money!!! Beauty isn’t inherently bad but women are expected to do way more than men to look “presentable” and I think that’s so unfair
Once again such an amazing video!!! I really needed to hear this. Thank you so much for your STUNNING videos this year and I hope to see you again next year. Have a very Merry Christmas Shelly!! 🎄
Great advice! And can I reiterate, wear sunscreen every time you leave the house, in all seasons. Also, when you moisturise your face wipe the excess lotion on your elbows.
I have a REALLY important exam coming up in 2025 and I have decided i'll not waste 2025 2024 can be stated as the worst year for me cuz I was stressed throughout the year , was depressed countless number of time , had a lot of issues etc. There was not a single day in which I didn't cry....Bottling up emotions is tough and that's what I did every single time Today , 1;34 am 28/12/24, just a few days for a new year It won't be just a new year , It will be a new chapter of my life as my secondary school is practically over and I am moving to Senior Secondary , It will be a new me I promise. Let's make 2025 OUR year!!!!!!
@@Aiki_aesthetic nah nah aint no way, no one said that to you before, you seem sooo sweettt BRO TRUST ME YOU DESERVE THE BEST!!! oh also how did your exam go??
The thing you said by invest in yourself "you are the only you that you get", i think its a diffrent way of saging yolo. But yolo never really had an effekt on me but what you said did.❤
Great video Shelly! 🥰 My goal for 2025 is to limit online shopping - especially from overseas ‘cheap and nasty’ sites 😂 I can now add all your wonderful ideas as well 😃💖
Does anyone want to subscribe more than once. I know I do ✋. ily Shelly!!! You have made my whole life better and helped me out of so many slumps! I look forward to watching all your videos! I just think you are so inspiring and such a good role model. 🌸💕🌸 Thank you! LOVE YOU AGAIN
so glad you're here, hello!! unfortunately the health system failed all of us. it was recently brought to our attentions and IT MAKES SO MUCH SENSE as to why some weeks i'm okay and other weeks i'm way too exhausted
let's create a whole forum of tips so what habits / tips are you taking into 2025? 🍒❗️
edit: part two & three are now live!! go check it out
Definitely focus on your gut health! It's so important to maintain your health as much as possible!
@@saeshell make sure you practice positive affirmations every morning when you are getting ready! 🤍🫶🏻
if you’re christian try to pray everyday, not just when something goes wrong. a quote i saw on pinterest said “if you woke up tomorrow with all the things you prayed for today, what would you have?”
create an alter ego. it sounds crazy but its helped me sm. give her a name, i named mine flora. how would she introduce herself, how does she dress, how does she act, how does she talk, what are her habits, write it all. then, in any situation you can ask yourself, "what would *insert alter ego name* do?" and follow up with it. trust me you WILL be your dream self if you can make an alter ego out of what you want to be. let me give an example. someone just gave me a really backhanded joke and im offended by the passive aggressiveness but dunno how to react. then i pause and ask myself, what would flora do? lets say flora would confront them. then i'd confront them. it'd feel rewarding because i just did something my dream self would do. or if i catch myself rotting and not getting any crap done, id ask myself "would flora be doing this?" if not, "what would flora be doing right now?" and follow up with it! when you have a clear dream self you can follow up better! this comment long as hell mb but i had to share cuz it helped me sm!
Focusing on the good and what I can control and taking care of myself mentally and physically
u neeeeeeeeeeeed to make ur own podcast it would DEVOUR
Yesssss 🤍
THIS
2025 goal: make a podcast
@@saeshell Yipppeeeee
Yesssss
Oh I’m so ready for this vid. Let’s get even hotter next year girlies. Can’t wait for the rest of this series!
Yes! Let's get out of our own way and smash 2025 ✨️
The best thing I have done this year is to limit social media. Nowadays, I just stick to Pinterest and UA-cam for inspiration. The more time you spend away from insta or tik tok, the more you realise how unhealthy it is. I highly recommend 👌🏼
love this so much! 💌💌 limiting social media is a must for our sanity these days
just subscribed. thank you. this year has been hard (juggling school, work, and a divorce) and recently my depression has been just too much to manage and overcome. i need to be better. i want to be. so just... thank you.
sending you so much love during this season ❣️ you will overcome this!!
you got this girl!! like a sword has to be welded in fire to be durable, you need to suffer at some point in time to come out even stronger. you WILL overpower this situation; best believe, you'll be thriving.
so I'm actually OBSESSEDDDD with you now, listening to you is like listening to an older sister
Learning everything that can boost yourself and help you become better is a lifelong journey of growth. It’s about continuously seeking knowledge, refining your skills, and expanding your mindset ❤
12 habits, uploaded 12 days ago, it's 12 pm, and my little sister turns 12 in a few days. Is this a sign??!?!?
And I was your 12th like 😱
ILY girl!!! You need to become a famous star because you are so inspiring, and motivating to do lots of stuff!
@@laylaxluv trust me i'm waiting for the day i can send my followers $100 just for fun 🥲 one day!!!
@ oh haha! No matter what, you’ll never disappoint me or anyone else watching! You’re so beautiful and truly inspiring
thank you so much, I didn’t know how much I needed to hear that lol. Also you need a podcast it would be AMAZING❤❤
3 things that helped me and literally changed my life
1. I stopped wasting my times on phone
2. I read books on femilys
3. Prioritize movement
ty 💗
Absolutely needed to hear every single one of these! 🙈
GUYS WAKE UP THE QUEEN POSTED!! Also Shelly you dropped this 👑
oops let's me just- 👸🏼 there we go
@saeshell perfect
YESSS THIS IS A VERY NEEDED VIDEO 🙈🙈🙈
@@goofygirl1448 SO HAPPY U LOVE IT!!!
@saeshell Ofc I love it I love all of your videos 🤣
thank you so much for this, i actual needed this so much. this year ive gotten in my own way too much but i have learned to try new things and just do stuff even if im scared. my new goal for 2025 is to stop getting in my own way.
YOU GOT THIS, QUEEN 👑 so happy this video helped!!
Omg hi I love your videos ❤
I started my growth in 2024 but I still have a lot more to go in the new year
the second I saw the notification I clicked on it love you so much Shelly you are so inspiring and always give the best big sister advice✨🫶🏻💅☺️😘❤️🤍🍒thank you gurly always feel the best when you post!!
Literally
SOBBIN. you're so sweet, thankyou so much for this!!
comments like this keep me making videos for real
@ no problem shelly you literally help me so much love your vids🤍🤍🤍
Thanks
Something I’ve already tried is when I’m scrolling I’ll force myself to do something else (even if it’s just watching a longer video on UA-cam)
WAKE UP THE QUEEN POSTED (I’m also aussie)
Those earrings!!!!those tips!!those aesthetics!!Shelly you are an inspiration!💛💛
Awww, this is awesome Shelly! I definitely want to focus on not taking everything so seriously this coming year. Also, playing Farmville is literally one of my favourite things to do!
LOVE THIS!! good luck bestie
farmville is so fun, why is it lowkey embarrassing to admit omf
OMG 12MINUTES!I LOVE U SHELLY
LOVE U SM ❣️
@@saeshell thank you you are so incredibly inspiring
These habits are GOLD! Thanks for breaking it all down-it feels so doable now. Let’s crush 2025 together! 💪
YESSS, you got this! 🍒🍒
thank you for these helpful tips, they help me a lot for 2025! (and to finish the remainder of 2024) (btw: you're so pretty)
Tysm for this video 💕 Minimising my beauty routine has saved me so much money!!! Beauty isn’t inherently bad but women are expected to do way more than men to look “presentable” and I think that’s so unfair
totally agree! beauty standards for women is FFFFD in comparison
thank you so much, ive been so stuck and didn't know what to do. you gave me a lot of insperation, thank you.
I needed this pep talk thanks girl ❤
Once again such an amazing video!!! I really needed to hear this. Thank you so much for your STUNNING videos this year and I hope to see you again next year. Have a very Merry Christmas Shelly!! 🎄
Thank you so much, this means the world to me 💖 Merry Christmas to you too!
so ready for it ✨💕
love your content
and my advice is spend time outside and not on any devices
You are truly my absolute favourite youtuber 💖 😊
Yay! Thank you!
YAYYY THE QUEEN SHELLY HAS POSTED❤❤ this vid was sooo good Shelly! Luv u smmmm❤❤
ILYSM!!! thankyou always ❣️
Great advice!! Down to earth and achievable. Thank you!
TYY I NEEDED THIS
Wake up guys the queen has posted!!!!
Love your videos girly❤
Great advice! And can I reiterate, wear sunscreen every time you leave the house, in all seasons. Also, when you moisturise your face wipe the excess lotion on your elbows.
LOVE THIS!! sunscreen is so important for us, even on cloudy days
( the moisturizer tip is something i needed to hear yes omg )
I'm a new fans here.. Ur such a best influncer sweety💗🎀🌸
Great job young Lady! I am much older than you but agree with you 100%
Earlyy! Love ya Shelly! 💋💋
LOVE U!!!!
I love your energy and how clear you are. lovvee
this means the world to me, thankuu!! because i swear i just talk nonsense 100% of the time
I have a REALLY important exam coming up in 2025 and I have decided i'll not waste 2025
2024 can be stated as the worst year for me cuz I was stressed throughout the year , was depressed countless number of time , had a lot of issues etc.
There was not a single day in which I didn't cry....Bottling up emotions is tough and that's what I did every single time
Today , 1;34 am 28/12/24, just a few days for a new year
It won't be just a new year , It will be a new chapter of my life as my secondary school is practically over and I am moving to Senior Secondary , It will be a new me I promise.
Let's make 2025 OUR year!!!!!!
i hope you're doing okay right now ☹☹2025 WILL BE YOUR YEAR FORSUREEEE ALL THE BESTTT FOR YOUR EXAMMM!!!
@nityagupta3597 yess , I tried to be more productive today and I am absolutely loving it!!
And tysmmmm :)
Let's make this year absolute banger
@@Aiki_aesthetic OMGGG IM GENUINELY SOOO PROUD OF YOUUUU!!! YESSS THIS YEAR WOULD BE A BANGER FSSSS
@@nityagupta3597 aww tysm
@@Aiki_aesthetic nah nah aint no way, no one said that to you before, you seem sooo sweettt
BRO TRUST ME YOU DESERVE THE BEST!!!
oh also how did your exam go??
Great habits and inspiring advice thank you. Merry Christmas to you and all your followers!
The thing you said by invest in yourself "you are the only you that you get", i think its a diffrent way of saging yolo. But yolo never really had an effekt on me but what you said did.❤
EARLYYYY GIRLYYYYYYYY :)))
This video helped me so much thank you so much ❤
Under 3 hour gang luv ya shelly! xoxo (: 🌷
Thank you so much !!! I can actually relate your ideas to myself and reflect on myself 😊😊
Thanks i needed this!
I love your video so much, thank you!
About hobbies, i got inspired by my bsf who does crocheting and ive already learnt so much already but did have a few mistakes throughout😞
Thanks! ❤ I love this video
Great video Shelly! 🥰
My goal for 2025 is to limit online shopping - especially from overseas ‘cheap and nasty’ sites 😂
I can now add all your wonderful ideas as well 😃💖
OOP. i feel you with the online shopping, i too need to jump on this goal for 2025!!
YOU BETTER BE POSTING A CHRISTMAS HAUL
GIRLLL i won't be getting much for chrissy this year, it'll be like 2 minutes long 🥸
thank you so much!!!!! you really helped me
Omg i just subscribed after watching this vdo. It's so goooooooooood💗
Thankyou 💗 this video of yours actyal made me feel good about myself today!Gotta carry this energy
I'm so glad, you deserve to feel good today & everyday 💕
@saeshell omg!!!You replied me thankyou 💓😭
Slay I did all I fell so good
Hi Saeshell how are you happy Thursday afternoon and I just wanted to say you are amazing supporter happy vlogmas day
PLEASE start a podcast
Love this! (New sub)💖
AWWW SO GLAD YOU'RE HERE!! 🍒
@@saeshellME TOO❤🍒
AUSSIE QUEEN FOUND 🎀✋💅😭
omg hiiiii
Following!
So great🙏🏻
I also love walking. I can do it for hours ❤❤
nature & walking heals my soul fr
Your amazing for your age I'm 70 and I love watching you great vlog👍
You’re SO sweet, thank you!! 🥰
Does anyone want to subscribe more than once. I know I do ✋. ily Shelly!!! You have made my whole life better and helped me out of so many slumps! I look forward to watching all your videos! I just think you are so inspiring and such a good role model. 🌸💕🌸 Thank you! LOVE YOU AGAIN
You are SO sweet, you made my whole day! 💗💗💗
You look a lot like a character of "The Resident" series
metaphor queeeeen
imma put that on my resume 💅🏼
SHE HAS THE SAME MIC AS ME OMG-
TWINSSSS ❣️
Hiii
Hi!
HIII
have u made the other parts of the series if so what are they called
they're coming up within the next month so stay tuned!!
Under 2 hours
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This will help me so much thank yoy shelly 🤍 Can you make a summer outfit idea video ?? ❤❤❤
I hope y’all are having a wonderful day 🫶🏻
right back at you, you sweet soul ❣️
@ Aww thank you:)
I just found your account lol! Didn't even know about any other cycles rather than the menstrual🤣. Instant follow loved the vid!!🤍
so glad you're here, hello!!
unfortunately the health system failed all of us. it was recently brought to our attentions and IT MAKES SO MUCH SENSE as to why some weeks i'm okay and other weeks i'm way too exhausted