OVER-EXPOSURE: Is Lori Harvey LOSING her Feminine Mystique?
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*Mystery is dissolved the moment you become predictable. Love Lori but, I wish she would’ve dedicated a year to her brand after MBJ. The timing is giving contractional ❤*
@@reggaelove7223perhaps you are weaning yourself from celebrity worship and see through the glamour and hype.
Or she just can't keep a man
I also don't think she slept with all these men.@@Sweetheart0189
ALL these men sleeping with her then leave her to the next one. She's been reduced to an Amber Rose, talentless industry pass-around.
She's not sleeping with these men.@@lastsam9846
Too much Circulation , makes the price go down ! 48 laws of power
@@poelomokgotho8127That part!! ❤
@@unknown-fl2ug Taylor Swift is literally dating one of the most popular and prominent NFL Ball Players out right now who has loads of sponsorships and 8-9 figure deals happening as we speak, I think the MASSES will beg to differ on your definition of dating Down but I digress. Lol.
What does this mean? Like being too public?
@@CaressLorthaya - for example My favorite car is Lambo Veneno . Only 9 were made . It’s very hard to own one . Lori should stay being a Lambo Veneno but too much circulation will make her a Honda pretty soon ! ✨💫
@@jmo7676 Oooooohhh yeah I agree!! I don't even think she realizes but that what she gets🤷🏾♀️
“Dating for a real connection is a LOT HARDER when you are pretty!” VERY TRUE!
I don’t think this is winning anymore ,she needs to stop making it public,it’s time to leave people guessing.
how can she stay private as a public figure dating other public figures
@ajohonly3721 she leaves people guessing everytime she leaves the house, and ignores anyone who isn't in her life. That includes the press.
A social media breakup announcement when you’re not married and there’s no kids or shared business is ridiculous
A breakup announcement in its self is ridiculous. Social media has ruined a whole generation.
No it isn't. What's ridiculous is how invested in this young woman's life you losers are. Her posting on social media has no bearing on your life whatsoever. if you don't like what she posts, then stop paying attention to it.
“Pretty privilege is nothing without self esteem, standards and a plan.” Listen this is wisdom. Chloe you are so intelligent, well spoken and wise.
She just needs to stop publicly dating, date them all just quietly!
we rarely see jay and B out and about.... they are super private people. It can be done! @@CT-yz9nx
It seems she’s unable to do that. She is known for dating men and not from accomplishing her own goals. She is never in the news for her own good deeds. She has to have some man with a name by her side to make the news. That should tell us about her. It could also be a generational mindset as her mom moved the same way.
Lori is 26 and I agree with you when you said she never signed up to be black womens dating role model.The pick mes have higher standards for her than they have for themselves.🤣I think she’s just simply moving along before making dumb permanent decisions with the wrong person like Marriage or Children.
I hear you she should probably date and sleep with 100 men before she makes that dumb permanent decision.
Well, the pick mes are usually picked so they certainly know a thing or two about being feminine and desirable..
Whether you like it or not she's a role model to the black sisterhood. And from your comment I can sense she's your role model too.
She’s ran through sweetie
The quality of men willing to be with her will keep on decreasing everytime after failed relationships.
ALL these men sleeping with her then leave her to the next one. She's been reduced to an Amber Rose, talentless industry pass-around.
My grandmother told me “Never be the kind of woman that allows a lot of men to come in and out your life” #Wisdom
Seems like she’s the one leaving as everytime they are staying radio silent or saying it’s “mutual”
Your Grandmother is a very wise woman.
@@Sarah-kv3qs Still, regardless. Don’t deal with too many men is wisdom.
Dating too many men in entertainment. She needs to date some successful business types.
She doesn't need to do anything be live n be happy. You date business types
From what I see, men have no issue dating a woman many men find attractive, who has history. They feel like a winner having what many want. She'll be fine.
@@TRU3-LOV3Oh And your life is better than Jada Pinkett Smith and Lisa Raye? 😂🤣 You pickmes are hilarious. Decenter males and stop talking down on the next woman these niccas aint going to treat yal any better.
You really have no clue how men move😂😂😂😂😂. Trust me she will be fine pumping and dumping more men and "top quality" men will lineup to get their turn. The likes of Future and P Diddy have had their turns 😂😂😂😂😂😂. But lets see what happens ten years from now. We will compare how the men who were pumped and dumped are doing and compare them to how Lori is doing . Shall we??
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Beta men like Steve Harvey won't mind.
But for top quality men, she's reduced herself to a jump-off. Dudes will smash just to add a notch and then go get something that's not been ran through. Wait and see.
Nope
That's a woman's mentality. Men only want the beauty. The physical stuff in a situation like this.
She started off great
But as soon as she was linked to future she went downhill
A woman's roster, who has access to her time, is a reflection
And future was not it
@@sosaray7624that is def false info.. he did not propose to her
I disagree. It made her more desirable to men! That’s why she was able to bag xyz boyfriends after him!
And Diddy apparently
@@traceydumaseHe turned out to be a rumour
@@traceydumase 😩
Lori makes her relationships public to keep people interested in her. Though she has products that she sells and is at times fashionable. Lori is primarily talked about for her relationships & being Steve Harvey's daughter, she has no real image outside of these two things.
Turning 26 next week and I’m really leaning into my mystery and keeping things private.. love it here 💋
If you love it now just wait to you hit 30 it’s a breath of fresh air.☮️🧘🏽♀️
She is truly famous for who she dates more than her own brand and work. Maybe that's her talent.
but these people you just mentioned are known for their works as well (music/acting etc) i think that's what people want for Lori, they dont want her to be all known for who she dates but also her brands and talent etc.@@pronoms
Black (wayyyy less famous) Lori Harvey
Well she is a socialite
Dating in privacy is like gold, a treasure unseen yet deeply felt. Lori losing her edges and look stress in the face.
I just don’t think all of these scenarios are real. That’s why I’m not really invested. 😂 PR relationships aka Taylor as well
9:55 I totally agree!! Pretty privilege also comes with men only wanting you as arm candy and idolizing you but not genuinely caring about who you are and/or interests ect…
A lot of pretty women, focus on just being pretty. It can get in the way of exploring and learning more about a woman. Which doesn’t last with a man. Your mind is way more important than your face.
As Soon as Lori Harvey have her First Baby From Whoever.. they want Stay with her over Seven years.. if that long he Will be on to the next Lady that open her Leg's..She gets What She putting out back in Return..
Love you Chloe. Lori has never been a beacon of feminity for me ( maybe by what she wears) but the way she moves is odd. Its as if she doesnt have a purpose.
This.@@ciarajca25
Lori Harvey has SERIOUS ABANDONMENT ISSUES, childhood trauma!!! THERAPY NEEDED
In your 20s you are usually figuring yourself out
She's a model, and she also has her own business. That's her purpose. What's yours?
@@calmdownandgrowuplol4857 what was she casted for? Also, how is that business going since I haven't heard anything from that in a while? No one knows her for her business😅
Any woman who intentionally romantically associates with low value men will quickly lose their feminine mystique. I don't understand the hype over this woman or what she even stands for.
@@diopfifi4937damson isn’t African American men so just say what you really think Black men. Just admit you are self hating and view blackness as low status
@@framingfemininity34Good, she’s like the rest of American descendants of enslaves ppl. Black Americans are not indigenous black ppl. Stop with the racial talk
@@myramilton1833that’s the most important thing men look for! Lol
you outed yourself as soon as you said low value. stop that internet speak fr shits embarrassing
She’s very private, moves accordingly and usually date high quality men(besides future)
The things you tell people to argue with crack me up EVERY.TIME.
Lol😂
The same ppl who praise her today for “just casually dating” will be the same ones to bash her when she’s 30yr and slept with 30 or more men
I'm trying to figure out what she's doing that no other 20 something isn't doin? People are miserable.
I don't think Lori Harvey needs to be a role model to black women I think that black women need to be a role model to themselves. Lori Harvey is doing what women should do which is dating around and men do it all the time. I think some black women who are upset online are probably jealous about the fact that she has many options and these men aren't making her forever a girlfriend or a single mother. You're supposed to have many different partners when you're trying to find your husband why would she date one man and then become his wife that's not how it should go in my opinion.
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Well written
You don’t get feminine mystique from dating and sleeping around. only smart thing she did is not becoming a baby Moms. I never saw the feminine mystique to start with.
I love Lori! But i think it would benefit her to keep private her private life. Nothing needs to be announced every time something doesn’t work out. She can take her losses in private and they may not even be real losses for her!
That man has a very dark energy. Now she has that same dark energy. She looks drained and unhappy
Lori’s best attribute is that she doesn’t talk much.
A lot of people don't realize that she was not allowed to date until 18: when you have that experience, you have a lot of catching up/developing to do in your twenties.
I wasn't able to date until 19, and hit the ground running with old fashioned courting, without sleeping around and it was a good idea because I was learning what many others learn in high school.
PR stunts nothing more. She needs to keep her name in the news. This is the way for her.
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I believe she is…losing her “it girl” factor. If I was her I would have cashed out my jackpot with Michael B. Jordan. To me she isn’t exclusive with the men she dates….she gave Future the same opportunity as men who have much better character…..cheapens her IMO.
@@milliondollargurl5501 or it would have lasted
She is dating and it’s nothing wrong with that. But I would not publicly claim these men and allow every relationship that I’m in to be on my Instagram. Sharing private moments with the world with boyfriends screams immaturity. I feel she may regret it later on. Yes, it does take away from your value when you become predictable. Never confirm anything to the public on your dating life unless he put a ring on it. Otherwise you become another exploration.
@@user-ci2sy5jb2j Okay
Lori hasn't had any mystique since her association to rapper Future, she's common. Lori is a polished and a sophisticated Sexxy Red, and before you say she doesn't address anything, Lori is popular to Black folks, she is not mainstream media news. Even her brand deals have lost it's luster, she's pretty and that's pretty much it.
I love the term "spiritual hygiene". Honestly I feel that she is losing it a bit. I admired her although I am much older, however as she builds her portfolio of dating the admiration reduces. I don't think she needs to stop dating but I do think she should mute her social media. Maintain her mystery for sure. I don't know how much it cost to breach that NDA but one day someone will pull that card to make a point.
I think we overlook the fact that she may have daddy issues despite allll of the game her mom has instilled in her. No amount of advice and guidance can heal the wound of neglect
Dating for connections is a lot harder. This is when your pretty or not.
Lori is as cute as she wants to be BUT I'm sorry- she doesn't exude GROWN WOMEN energy/ $ex appeal. She gives pretty college girl vibez which is why I believe many grown women rarely reference her as any type of "goal." If they do, I personally don't hear or see it. She is cute and stylish; that's it.
Most grown women get cheated on for younger women though
@@sweetsiren8841 idk about that
She’s for hire, no mystique about it. All her relationships seemed transactional.
I admire Lori's brand and hustle, but yes her dating life has started to give her an unfavorable reputation. One of the keys things young women admired her for was her ability to move on to the next without any announcements. With her last two relationships, that hasn't been the case. It's definitely time for a feminine reset.
Thank you for speaking about dating being hard as “pretty women”. Like I always say beauty isn’t a privilege it’s a Pandora’s box.
I love Lori. However, I think she should take her silence to the next level and refrain from posting boyfriends on her social media until she has at least accepted a ring from one of them.
I agree that dating in silence is key, because even though she carries herself as such a lady and her relationships seem to be high quality, she’s still developing a reputation. Eventually, these men will see it as a competition and pursue her to prove a point; to conquer her, versus actually being interested in her as a person.
This!! Also the paparazzi pictures are usually staged for most celebs because they call them on themselves. Lori is one of them. I get the vibe of clout chasing from her dating life
Its how every relationship has to be a public one. Is she proving something to herself or us?
@@aselyne5631 she’s not my feminine goddess I clocked her BS years ago. Just a “pretty” empty vessel people with no sense of self live vicariously through.
I have a feeling that this young lady is being sent out and told to make the rounds in Hollywood by her mother. Her mother gives narcissistic vibes and Lori is obviously the "golden child" in this situation. The golden child can end up trapped with the narcissistic parent and can literally become a puppet. However this is dangerous for her emotional development and psychological development as a healthy woman and as a healthy human being in general.
Is it REALLY BOOSTING them though? When she left MBJ he was "depleted" for some time. @@pimpindymepiece
@@diopfifi4937sex is highly prioritized in Hollywood. It’s literally like currency to them
What about her daddy?
No man is going to want to marry Lori because they see a trail of public breakups and may not want to commit to her. She needs to hop off the public dating train and do so privately.
Theres just something about exclusivity. I do this by dating people who live far apart from each other that way youre new wherever you are. You date in small circles you run the risk of being considered a pass around and easy.
To answer the title...yes
I never believed this relationship was real however that's not the point.
Why is that, because she can't keep a man? Why is it so hard to believe that she just can't keep man,why does it have to be publicity stunt,it's not a flex to be an industry pass around
Spiritual hygiene 👊
To me her purpose was to always keep her name in the media. The only problem I have is girls are idolizing her for this and it’s not accurate; you don’t know what happens behind close doors. DATING is not posting the person on social media and deleting pics every time you break up, not kissing up on every guy you’re in a relationship with, not calling each guy you with your boyfriend. Dating is ONLY hangout and getting to know the individual, No sex or light kisses, like No man should ever have the privilege of saying I know her in and out, you’re not even on social media page UNTIL we’ve made it official and we’re both in this together. I think the biggest thing is you don’t if that’s the case she’s moving on or their dumping her. This doesn’t apply to everyday girls.
She’s has only been in these long term relationships though. Majority are exes not random men. Yet since she’s a celebrity it’s publicized. If women follow her they gotta use their privacy to their advantage
@@Sarah-kv3qs I’m just going to mention one couple love: Cassie and Diddy. As I mentioned, to me, it’s all about publicity. You don’t know what happens behind close doors; for all you know, this could be contracts signed. Hollywood is not a place for young girls to idolize. I really don’t care for what she does but the reason I commented on this post is for young girls to read or understand my message: All that glitters is not gold.
@@Sarah-kv3qs And I’m not sure if you’ve ever been in a relationship, but 1-year is not long term!
@@AshleyBeckford-on7ow When I say long term it is to say both parties are entering with the intention it’s going to be for a while or end in marriage(like with Michael) lol. No one should be idolized either way but they can take what applies to them as inspiration and keep it pushing
@@Sarah-kv3qs I'm just going to end it hear because I don't think you're getting the message: We can't idoloze or even use something as inspiration when you know nothing about it. It's like wanting to work for a company because the name sounds appealing, but have not done your research to know more in depth and what it stands for. And again, you don't know what the intentions was with Michael. I really don't think you understand hpw Hollywood works & I'm leaving it at that!
Interestingly, this is what Jamie Fox’s character did to Beyoncé’s character on Dream Girls. He married her and didn’t even want to have a baby with her because he only saw her as “his product” “the face” of his record company, and his meal ticket to success due to her beauty (not even her voice). Loved your points on beauty in essence, and be captivating. Great subject for another video!
"You can go argue with your bunions" lmao Chloe stay talkin shxx 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think Lori still a lot of feminine mystique, the max amount you can have as a celebrity honestly . Fame does not come with privacy, but she still has maintained a lot of privacy for some of her status, imo .
I never thought she even had it!!
I support her, and I have to admit, starting to think she's contracted out for a timeframe and that's it, once the contract is over, she moves on. Also, it's starting to look bad, tbh.
Mystique is definitely key when dating 🔑 I hope she’s also exploring her options ✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾
Lori stays being the prize. She's not dating for relevancy, she's not dating for a bag, she's not dating because she has to she's doing it because she wants to. Periodt
I’ve low key felt like Michael B Jordan used Lori Harvey to boost some positive point with sisters! He was captured on the beach with with friends, close to a white female and received backlash after Panther movie.
I love Lori, but she is becoming predictable. Her best move right now is to stay single a little while & focus on her brand. That’ll keep everyone on their toes because they’ll be waiting to see who’s next on the roster. Her next relationship should stay private as well. Keep them guessing & stay private!
Hi Chloe _ and Everyone 🖐🏽🤗
I worry so much about this new messaging of today’s women. If you think you are the prize girls, men think the same of themselves too! So you better bring ALOT! To the table not just your good looks
I always felt she should keep a lower dating profile. She had no problem going public especially with guys that had checkered history with women. Nothing wrong with having a highly active dating (not sleeping with) life, but leave and enter separate doors. I love how Taraji P. Henson, said she never publicly claims men she is not married to. We only found out about she and Lamar years later only because Lamar said something. Sadly, for us a reputation is never about who you are it's about who they think you are. Her name will always be tied to Future Diddy Trey Songs and it's not a good look and might discourage the real "decent" men from wanting to pursue her.
I'm sad that people react to Lori as if she's seeing 5 people at a time. On another note, she does need to take a chapter from the book of Issa on privacy. Hey Chloe_!!
Yes!!
Yes, it only takes 3 intentional conversations and 1 date to decide if a man is for you.
Im not even a public figure and I’m not going public with nobody but my HUSBAND. She’s beautiful and desirable so she don’t have to prove that someone would want to claim her… People get really curious when they see you’re attractive and can’t tell who you’re sleeping with. I think that strategy would help her brand more
Everybody is sick of seeing her pattern. So predictable
y'all are too invested. Lori is a public figure and has chosen to display her public life probably to stay relevant or for entertainment. Lori doesn't need any feminine mystique, she just doesn't care Imo.It's all entertainment to me honestly.
Chloe, I certainly feel she is losing her feminine mystique. No need to post or make every relationship IG-official. Simply move in silence and protect your privacy. She could also do well with a relationship break!
I still rock with Lori❤she probably needs a break though, hopefully her PR ppl will help with this😊..of course I didn't expect this to last long
I think they're PR moves to make her more relevant than she actually is. After all, she's "just" Steve Harvey's step-daughter.
Yes she is losing her feminine physique. She is not dating because dating doesn’t include sex. If she wasn’t intimate with any of these men then she would still be considered valuable but now she is not making herself look like the prize. She is making these men think I just want my turn but not I want a lifelong commitment with her.
She is sleeping with those men it is what it is
This 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 people keep saying dating and stop teaching out young girls this is what dating is because it’s not. And she always calls them her boyfriends has a whole bunch of pictures with them on social media and deletes them when she’s done. I always thought dating was getting to know a guy and no intimate relations.
How do yall know who she actually is sleeping with unless you invade her privacy or set up cameras and catch the sex acts? This always confused me.
@@Erica-cf1xb You’re right! That we don’t know. What we do know is what we see, and that’s kissed up on and booed up on whoever she claims to be in a relationship with and THAT’S NOT DATING! There’s no intimate relations when dating; maybe a hug or kiss on the cheek but that’s about it. And I’m sorry, as far as I’m concerned this isn’t even real so🤷🏾♀️
I miss when things were more of a mystery. Now everybody business is shoved in our faces. We don’t even go looking for it. It’s over saturated and we still don’t know what else she has to offer besides looks and dating.
You are so spot on! Just because the masses are enthralled in Lori's relationship, is not her fault. She's simply living her life and people getting mad at her relationships ending prematurely.Lori has to live her life, it's her's to live.
My last relationship was just 10 days because we want different things. Bm can't wait anything to drag us in every chance they get.
I have many high bc. female friends, they all married well. The ones that were crewed in the end were the loyal ones who had one or two men and married young.
I believe a lot of people are focusing on Lori's dating life because they're hoping she'll "fail" and become another cautionary tale like Keke Palmer or Halle Bailey. Sadly, a lot of people want that to happen and want to see her "punished" for having the audacity to be young, black, and beautiful and just date to see what she likes and doesn't like.
Troll
It’s called an NDA that’s why these men are not talking 😂
The PR relationships every year to keep her relevant is getting tired
You said a mouthful..especially the part about spiritual energy..she can get a man but is keeping one her goal? Women cannot move like men without repercussions
Chastity is a womans greatest weapon...
The media and people commenting about her falling right into what she's playing to stay relevant! If u think about it she's profiting off each break up! Stay woke💯🎯
For one..what does this woman do that anyone needs to look up to her for? And two..can we stop acting like Lori is what the average black woman looks like.. in other words why are black women so invested in her!?? She doesn’t represent you in any way!
To live through her..
I think my good sis has all the right ingredients to win but she has became too predictable.She needs to go super private and not talk about her values cause that’s giving the game too easy (like Chloe always says).She also needs to stop bringing these men around her family till they put a ring on it.
And Chloe thank you for addressing the ‘billionaire,Nigerian prince’ thing cause yes it takes more than beauty.
There some crazy people out here. Parents please be the role model for your children.
Lori is giving father issues. It's normal to date around to find your match, but getting into long-term relationships with numerous people, just to break up after a few years, signals something deeper. You don't need to be in a relationship with someone that long to know whether or not you have similar values (if you actually know what you want). She's giving someone who doesn't know what she want or commitment issues (ex: when things get serious...marriage talk, she run). If you know what you want & want to be single...you'd do that. If you only want friendship...you'd seek that. She has to be telling these men a different story, because she's entering full fledge relationships with some of them! Something deeper is going on! It was cute years ago, but it's showing her unresolved trauma now!
I really like she isn't doing anything wrong. People are being misogynistic.
I would suppose her mother is a sounding board and an influence in how she navigates her relationships. If you look on her mother’s pattern she dated quite a bit until she settled with Steve Harvey. I think Lori is probably doing the same. I also think she is being strategic and won’t settle down until she is in her 30s. Yes, people will continually ostracize her, partly because of jealousy but she is the one that opened the door for all of us to have an opinion. She is a socialite and an influencer, no foreseeable talent to promote such fanfare for her relationships. For example Halle and DDG, I can understand the commitment and the interest because she is a singer and a actress and has secured fans because of her work. All we know Lori for is she is a gorgeous girl who has a rich daddy and an influencer so I would then agree with your analysis Chole, that she needs to move more privately.
I love Lori. I admire her. How ever, she needs a break at the moment. She needs time to heal and purge…..
She needs time to herself.
The world doesn’t like women who explore their dating options. It’s nothing alarming and new. I am not bothered by who she is with but I think privacy would shield her from scrutiny.
Overexposure has degraded MANY people and will do the same for her.
Do we really think she cares about a man liking her for her. When she was publicly rubbing Diddy’s ear. No. She’s only interested money and clout. Her mother was married by her age. Her mothers luck will not be her luck.
Why are we on the same wavelength? I was just explaining this concept to someone. It is KEY!
I don’t think it’s Lori’s responsibility to be a role model for young black women. Is she an influential public figure? Yes. Is she aspirational? In some respects, hell yeah. But she’s human just like anyone else. Can nobody tell her how to live.
All bases were covered in this vlog. She needs to be careful what she lets out about her relationships from here on out. I would love to see her focus more on building her personal brand for a while and put less emphasis on who she is dating.
That's the balk of the fairytale that Hollyweird sells. The who matters so the flying monkeys assigned to the case can do their demon research and break into everything to see what cases they can create. What Kang can they send to jail.
If not being a baby moms and dating guys without getting pregnant is feminine mystique or the bar being high, it’s sad. This is how mature people are supposed to date. 🤷🏾♀️. It’s what I did. It’s what most people who plan their lives do
Cloe! Thank you so much for your amazing commentary. Lots of wisdom in it. Much love!
I thought about this a day before you posted this video, Chloe. Thank you for sharing💕.
As long as she's doing everything for herself and not a man. I never consider a man when I make decisions. Ever. There are none worthy.
Men already do the same anyone should make a decision on their own
I love the quality of your content. Thanks
Great video! I am glad you mentioned some pitfalls concerning “pretty privilege “- the first part is always attraction… but very pretty women seldom get and keep a husband because so much more go into a relationship. Pretty will definitely catch the male attention and always will but there has to be more going on in a relationship besides flesh.