I used to be like this too...until I learnt to make myself the priority - ie. pouring that precious time/money/energy into me, my personal growth and my goals!! And I treated dating as a curiousity about the man I'm on a date with...I removed dating from the pedestal completely.
As a man I tried to not focus on one woman. Then I met the woman I fell in love with. A bw. I met through a friend and we clicked and been together ever since. For several year's. Which made me choose this name for my account. Coz never know when what time is the love. Can happen anytime
1:10:47 ANWARRRRRR!!! You are preachinggggggg!! My last situation was that way and thankfully I got away from it before I got too caught up bc that man would’ve ruined me!
I died at, "I can tell you who's NOT attracted to lighter-skinned women, and that's white men." 25:01 I had a lighter-skinned friend who was indignant that my rich white colleague didn't want her when we ran into him at a lounge. She COULD NOT believe it: What did he say about me? He said you were short. She was SO mad 😂.
As a mixed woman who is black and brown, I was genuinely interested in the question that was geared towards lighter skin women and I understand your answer but I also think it seemed dismissive, with other questions you go into detail but with this you just flippantly said whites aren’t looking for you, black and brown are, likeee okay? Can you elaborate. I understand white men might not be it for light skins but the way you said it was rude compared to the way you said in a previous video that black men typically aren’t looking for darker skinned women. You also consistently have a theme of telling black women to not go for black men, and if that’s the case then wouldn’t you also give that same advice to lightskin black women? I feel it’s a theme in the black/brown community to discount or dismiss lighter skin women and mixed women because you think they have it easier, etc… but if you’re gonna market yourself as a dating coach for black and brown women then that should include the same attitude and help for all of them even lighter skin/mixed ones. That said I do appreciate your content just wanted to point that out. Perhaps you could market yourself as a dating coach for brownskin and darkskin women specifically to be more accurate.
From my experience… white men are definitely attracted to light skin women, but feel they are harder to get, because they have dark-skin men to compete with for their attention. If they could get women that look like Beyonce and Halle Berry they definitely would… I’m in the military and I hear this kind of talk all they time.
Love Anwar truly! But to those looking for something deeper about Limerance, or being sprung, understand it’s coming from a place of feeling abandoned. Usually limerance is not about the other person we have obsessive romantic feelings for; it’s about us wanting to feel desired. This can happen with friendships too. But know that limerance, although painful, can be a beautiful thing when you overcome it. Because on the other side of it is true self love/worth. It’s the accepting of yourself and knowing that not being desired by the other person has not impact on the quality of you. No one can determine that but self. It’s like looking at rejection as a blessing. It’s painful yes. But it’s really universe (or god if you’re religious)’s way of getting what’s not meant for you outta the way for better to come to you. And the strength we gain from not letting that rejection break us prepares us to accept what’s truly meant for us. Essentially, we level up when we overcome limerance 🙏🏾🫂✨
I would say they’re intimidated by your boundaries/self-worth and they know you can’t be manipulated thus leaving them in their feelings without a care in the world! Just my opinion! 😊
Coach Anwar!!! I'm in Denver! I need help. I would love to be present to support. I am a UA-cam only person. SOOOOOO PLEASE let us know in your lives. I will go to your website to see more information. OMG please let us know about Denver!💯
Anwar/ or the Ladies: What do you do when a guy on the dating apps asks to continue texting on social media? I remember Anwar said that it’s best to not give men your instagram, and I‘m also not very active on instagram. And I also remember that Anwar said to move the conversation to actual text messages soon, in case it started out on social media. But should I give my number to a man already, after texting on the app for a bit, if he asks for my socials? What should I do?
Let him know your not comfortable giving out your social media right now because you are still getting to know him. Also if you’re uneasy about giving your number because of safety get a Google voice number. Hope this helps!
49:38, not the light-skinned women getting sensitive about white men not wanting them. Like this man has time to humble somebody he doesn't know in the comments. He has talked about so many different specific things for someone to take one thing personally.
Anwar!!! When you tuck that hair behind those ears it SENDS me every time!! lol
TRANSFORM… this means mind, body, & soul. ✨ Be the woman you never thought you could be. This is our year! #wordof2025
I effin love you!!!! You make me laugh so much effortlessly.
I really can not stay serious watching Anwar, Squid Games 2, you're an Amazon package if you get flown out on vacation and not exclusive. 🤣
Amazon package killed me!! 🤣🤣🤣
My problem is hyper focusing on one man also 😢
This is my problem too. When I find a man I really like I hyper focus on that man
I used to be like this too...until I learnt to make myself the priority - ie. pouring that precious time/money/energy into me, my personal growth and my goals!! And I treated dating as a curiousity about the man I'm on a date with...I removed dating from the pedestal completely.
As a man I tried to not focus on one woman. Then I met the woman I fell in love with. A bw. I met through a friend and we clicked and been together ever since. For several year's. Which made me choose this name for my account. Coz never know when what time is the love. Can happen anytime
Peace, Boundaries, Clarity!!!
Anwar, I signed up for POF and received a messages in 4 minutes. The likes are pouring in. Thanks for the tea. Now to begin practicing.
Happy New Year Anwar🎉, I love your Lives so much, and your information is spot on
Hi Coach Anwar! Best wishes for 2025. Always a pleasure and so much fun listening to your advice 🌻 Greetings for Paris, France 🌻
“Balance” is my word of the year.
My word is JOY!! I just want to smile without worrying about wrinkles for once in my life!
1:10:47 ANWARRRRRR!!! You are preachinggggggg!! My last situation was that way and thankfully I got away from it before I got too caught up bc that man would’ve ruined me!
I'm starting my year with this live
Yup January 6..12 days of Christmas. Old school. 😊💚❤️
ANWAR, never fails to kill me with laughter 😂😂😂
I missed the live! Excited to hear this one
"What did We need from Our parents that may have been missing?" Acceptance, safety, and being heard/seen/spoken for in Truth.
I died at, "I can tell you who's NOT attracted to lighter-skinned women, and that's white men." 25:01
I had a lighter-skinned friend who was indignant that my rich white colleague didn't want her when we ran into him at a lounge. She COULD NOT believe it:
What did he say about me?
He said you were short.
She was SO mad 😂.
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao
Not squid game 2😂 i gotta catch these live😂
YASSSSS❤🎉🎉🎉🎉 love your channel
My dating journey is experiencing amazing conversations with amazing, thriving, and viable men.
🎉 HNY Anwar! Love Love Love as always!!!❤
Boundaries , healing, discipline 😊
I have two words: Surrender and Boundaries
Ciao is normal for German speakers. ( and all Italians of course)
Balance and Boundaries.
My word of the year is Balanced.
As a mixed woman who is black and brown, I was genuinely interested in the question that was geared towards lighter skin women and I understand your answer but I also think it seemed dismissive, with other questions you go into detail but with this you just flippantly said whites aren’t looking for you, black and brown are, likeee okay? Can you elaborate. I understand white men might not be it for light skins but the way you said it was rude compared to the way you said in a previous video that black men typically aren’t looking for darker skinned women. You also consistently have a theme of telling black women to not go for black men, and if that’s the case then wouldn’t you also give that same advice to lightskin black women?
I feel it’s a theme in the black/brown community to discount or dismiss lighter skin women and mixed women because you think they have it easier, etc… but if you’re gonna market yourself as a dating coach for black and brown women then that should include the same attitude and help for all of them even lighter skin/mixed ones. That said I do appreciate your content just wanted to point that out. Perhaps you could market yourself as a dating coach for brownskin and darkskin women specifically to be more accurate.
Lucify not nice! Better Help is available 24 hours each day.
From my experience… white men are definitely attracted to light skin women, but feel they are harder to get, because they have dark-skin men to compete with for their attention.
If they could get women that look like Beyonce and Halle Berry they definitely would… I’m in the military and I hear this kind of talk all they time.
50:44 mormon in salt lake city 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What time do you do your lives, I set notification on TikTok but I didn’t get anything😢
Love Anwar truly! But to those looking for something deeper about Limerance, or being sprung, understand it’s coming from a place of feeling abandoned. Usually limerance is not about the other person we have obsessive romantic feelings for; it’s about us wanting to feel desired. This can happen with friendships too. But know that limerance, although painful, can be a beautiful thing when you overcome it. Because on the other side of it is true self love/worth. It’s the accepting of yourself and knowing that not being desired by the other person has not impact on the quality of you. No one can determine that but self. It’s like looking at rejection as a blessing. It’s painful yes. But it’s really universe (or god if you’re religious)’s way of getting what’s not meant for you outta the way for better to come to you. And the strength we gain from not letting that rejection break us prepares us to accept what’s truly meant for us. Essentially, we level up when we overcome limerance 🙏🏾🫂✨
Okay Mother Anwar! Practiced in more ways than one 😂!! Do you suggest bumble for practice???
Merry Christmas 🎁 to US!!! 🎄🎁💎✨
Well that was a first. Coach “humbling” NOT. For me that’s more about something she might want to unpack. ❤
Anwar or anyone…..does anyone know what it means a man calls you “dangerous” and you’ve never done anything along those lines to them?
I would say they’re intimidated by your boundaries/self-worth and they know you can’t be manipulated thus leaving them in their feelings without a care in the world! Just my opinion! 😊
Just stay away from men like that. Their insecure and don't wanna open their hearts. Their scared to fall in love
They might be super attracted to you and feel like you would have a lot of power over him…that’s what I mean when I say that!
@@Summerhaven97 Yep. That is what I get from it too.
Coach Anwar!!! I'm in Denver! I need help. I would love to be present to support. I am a UA-cam only person. SOOOOOO PLEASE let us know in your lives. I will go to your website to see more information. OMG please let us know about Denver!💯
Happy New Year 2025🎉❤
Unapologetic ❤
What are some effective dating apps
Not Kombucha! 😂😂😂
Happy new year 🎉 Anwar
Abundance n discipline ❤
Abundant❤❤❤❤
Mine also. Abundant health, finances, peace, love...
Freedom
Gawd, just love you ❤️🫶🏾
39:00 talking to multiple men teaa ❤
43:25 types of men on the roster
I loved the unapologetic word for 2025
Anwar/ or the Ladies: What do you do when a guy on the dating apps asks to continue texting on social media? I remember Anwar said that it’s best to not give men your instagram, and I‘m also not very active on instagram. And I also remember that Anwar said to move the conversation to actual text messages soon, in case it started out on social media. But should I give my number to a man already, after texting on the app for a bit, if he asks for my socials? What should I do?
If you met him in real life would you give/exchange numbers?
Let him know your not comfortable giving out your social media right now because you are still getting to know him. Also if you’re uneasy about giving your number because of safety get a Google voice number. Hope this helps!
My word is authenticity
👃 rings Bye😂😂😂😂I ❤you and learning so much.😊
My word is UPGRADE!
ANWAR WE MISS YOU!!!
New is my word for 2025
My word for 2025 is boundaries❤
I need to learn how to flirt better!
Abundance
My phrase for 2025 is Dreams Come True. 🎉
Needed emotional safety and freedom to become my own person from my parents…did not receive
Men saying Ciao could be geographical, cultural and according to generation,meaning age group. Its a VERY International Thing!
LOL! But...don't all men in Italy say "Ciao"?
1:31:26 THIS!
Boundries
My word for 2025 is elevate!
My word for 2025 is
Fulfilled
49:38, not the light-skinned women getting sensitive about white men not wanting them. Like this man has time to humble somebody he doesn't know in the comments. He has talked about so many different specific things for someone to take one thing personally.
I have white men checking for me. And I am a light-skinned woman
I'm not brown skin some say I'm light skin and I have dreads
Period
My word for 2025 is potential
Right! Date for fun
Single moms need to get with single dads
Partnership
14:18
💛💛💛
How are you aging backwards lol
Strategy
1:11:25
1:16:14
I date everyone
Coupled
Renew
How do white men flirt with Black women???
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