how to stop caring what others think (stop giving a f**k)

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  • @MindofMartel
    @MindofMartel  3 місяці тому +17

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    • @sametschki496
      @sametschki496 2 місяці тому

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      @MindofMartel  2 місяці тому +1

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    • @mattyblackberry3948
      @mattyblackberry3948 2 місяці тому

      @@sametschki496 remember no one cares ! And you’re born alone ! Don’t pay for this man too care

  • @BenBoydMindset
    @BenBoydMindset 3 місяці тому +388

    Jump straight in , you are never gonna be ‘qualified’ enough with the mentality of never starting 🔝

    • @targetegrat
      @targetegrat 2 місяці тому +11

      Exactly. You have to turn your 'one day' mentality into 'day one' mentality.

  • @PrieceEast
    @PrieceEast 3 місяці тому +166

    “ when I’m down I’m down by myself “ 💯

  • @ElriccTTV
    @ElriccTTV 2 місяці тому +81

    I recently met a woman and I’m not gonna lie before this year I was a total bum. I’m 25 (24 at the time we met) and after I met her something happened bro. It’s like she lit a spark in me. Now I’m working towards employment for the first time in my lazy life, going to the gym next week and I’m taking the spark that she lit and I’m making it into a fire. It feels AMAZING. I used to be afraid of alot of dumb shit but now?. Ain’t nothing stopping me. Nobody or nothing can stop my path to becoming a beast of a man.

    • @surshot56
      @surshot56 2 місяці тому +24

      I'm happy for you. I'm a bit older than you. I'm 34. I remember this EXACT experience you're having right now. I would only recommend that you continue to do you and improve your life EVEN IF she decides to leave. I love the fact that women have that ability (even children) to ignite a man and set his ass on fire so he can do great things, but consider this, what if those motivating factors cease to exist? Will you give up? Just something to think about. People in our lives (especially women) are temporary. If a temporary experience got you to feeling like this and then something bad happens then your self improvement journey will also be temporary.

    • @ElriccTTV
      @ElriccTTV 2 місяці тому +6

      @@surshot56 exactly cause even if me and her stay together if she god forbid dies then what will I do? I’ve been thinking about it a lot.

    • @bobhope626
      @bobhope626 2 місяці тому +3

      "working towards" "next week" NGMI

    • @ElriccTTV
      @ElriccTTV 2 місяці тому +5

      @@bobhope626 people like you are the reason people have worries about going to the gym. Instead of assuming Maybe ask why I’m doing it next week

    • @horizontoday7874
      @horizontoday7874 2 місяці тому +3

      Chiiiiiiiiile, I can’t lol

  • @Azoneworld1
    @Azoneworld1 2 місяці тому +31

    I really needed this, I’m at an age where life is kicking in and I keep jumping back and forth for my family’s opinions.

    • @Robbielazar
      @Robbielazar 2 місяці тому

      Life is short brother! Do your thing

    • @endlessdepths-hr6wx
      @endlessdepths-hr6wx 2 місяці тому

      Ngl this video truly resonated with me too, as I'm in a similar boat as you. But don't give up! You got this!

  • @tybeard8532
    @tybeard8532 2 місяці тому +6

    I lived in california for 4 years and im from missouri even my closest friends doubted my choice... im about to make another move here soon and my managers at my current job think im crazy and wont make it. Little do they know ive already been through this so its right on schedule i only look ahead. People will project their fears on you.

  • @eduardo_him46
    @eduardo_him46 3 місяці тому +154

    I'm not responsible for other people and their opinions. Those things are none of my business. That's a boundary self respecting people usually have.

    • @plhhw2758
      @plhhw2758 2 місяці тому +3

      "It's none of my business what you think of me".

  • @Bruno-gb1gi
    @Bruno-gb1gi 2 місяці тому +5

    Stopped giving a fuck and try to fit in for a long time already, what people thought about me in general, i just be myself and honestly was the best thing i did

  • @nxaricky8050
    @nxaricky8050 3 місяці тому +88

    Don’t even listen to your girl or woman, depending on what your heart or soul is saying .. Martel saying facts sometimes f your family, f your woman, your siblings the naysayers everyone .. if they rock with u they’ll understand where it’s all said and done

  • @status0
    @status0 2 місяці тому +28

    The key to life is BALANCE
    Equally give a fxk as much as you don't give a fxk

  • @moeenmohamed
    @moeenmohamed 2 місяці тому +4

    Going through a rough heart break rn and I'm just looking for guidance after just being on autopilot for a long time. I needed to hear this. Today was Monday August 5th 2024 and it was day 1. Workout Complete, Prayers Complete, Meditation Complete, Working on my finances for the day complete. LETS GET IT GUYS, SMALL WINS STACK UP!

    • @bt11
      @bt11 2 місяці тому

      You got this bruh!

  • @gnarlyboyjai
    @gnarlyboyjai 3 місяці тому +21

    love yo content bro, every single time I click on a video it helps me shape back tf up. God bless you brotha

    • @ViktorMudryiWise
      @ViktorMudryiWise 3 місяці тому

      You got this man.
      Remember the most important thing:
      Motivation is not real & never marry xD

  • @yungknees11
    @yungknees11 2 місяці тому +4

    Bro I needed this video. You kind of sound like Will Smith 😂

  • @alexgovorovski1412
    @alexgovorovski1412 2 місяці тому +9

    real shit, clean place homie

  • @azozkoora
    @azozkoora 2 місяці тому +3

    What my man said is pure facts guys 100% facts nothing is impossible and take care guys great video my bro first time i see your channel keep going 👊

  • @Lamplays-y1b
    @Lamplays-y1b 3 місяці тому +14

    Exactly my brother thanks, I thank the youtube algorithm for poping a martel video early this year in February.
    Much respect and love from Zambia, Africa 🌍🇿🇲 bro.
    Wishing you all the best in your future endeavors in Romania.

  • @MindfulZetta
    @MindfulZetta 2 місяці тому +2

    Man personal brand is the new real estate 💯

  • @MS-jy8nt
    @MS-jy8nt 3 місяці тому +4

    This is single-handedly the best video I could have come across for my life this year. Thank you bro. I’ve been having a hard time with justifying my decisions

    • @MS-jy8nt
      @MS-jy8nt 3 місяці тому

      And on top of everything, you came across like a big brother giving free advice-helpful and never condescending

  • @Daltonwhite29
    @Daltonwhite29 3 місяці тому +9

    Needed to hear this brother… thank you

  • @dmc77
    @dmc77 2 місяці тому +1

    Important message, bro, keep hustlin' in silence

  • @mike_datzmag1c21
    @mike_datzmag1c21 2 місяці тому +1

    I needed this Right Now…I’ve been dancing around the idea of doing a podcast but often times talked myself out of it..even with my filter on words I say I try not to offend ppl but it’s always ME that feels that way, meanwhile the next person will say what they want, do as they please….its time for Me to move forward unapologetically.

    • @kerry-j4m
      @kerry-j4m 2 місяці тому

      1c21,just do it,amigo,don't tell anyone just do it.This is what i did when i volunteered to go fight in Iraq ( on 4 deployments,I also did 2 tours back-to-back ) with the Texas Guard,I was in infantry units.I didn't tell anyone what i was doing,I just did it.On these 4 tours I arrested and detained countless Iraqee citizens and insurgents,I kicked in countless doors on raids on homes/apts,got into many fire-fights-some lasting 3/4 hrs,etc,etc,..when i went to Iraq,it was the most dangerous place on earth.Most times I went on more deployments than regular army soldiers.Remember that NIKE ad: Just do it.

  • @erenyeeagah204
    @erenyeeagah204 2 місяці тому +1

    Youre so right this is my biggest weakness by far

  • @realone1339
    @realone1339 2 місяці тому +1

    I’m a girl watching this and I apply all of this in my life, this video is for everyone tbh.. everyone needs to have this mindset 🙌🏽✨ Great upload.

  • @WolfAdonai100
    @WolfAdonai100 2 місяці тому +6

    My guy everything you said solidified the way my mentality has been for the last 4 months I'm not looking back at all I'm so focused I'm actually scared I owe this to myself no BS salute my brother

  • @kengensuru
    @kengensuru 2 місяці тому +3

    That algorithm knew exactly what I needed to hear this morning. Appreciate the lesson.

  • @Lloydibwoy
    @Lloydibwoy 3 місяці тому +3

    I stumbled across this post for reason...To renind me That's God which is one's self.i fall off now and again cause im human.Thankyou bro

  • @King_Jones_Junk_Removal
    @King_Jones_Junk_Removal 2 місяці тому +1

    Bro , thanks for dropping those gems. I am 36 Married with one child and this really motivated me. Now it’s time to official put on my cape and take away.

  • @salahuddinyusuff
    @salahuddinyusuff 2 місяці тому +1

    This was a good reminder brother! 💯

  • @7ackass
    @7ackass 2 місяці тому +1

    This msg is true. I am stuck running a family business with many tradeoffs cause in my life from taking other people's advice. I got on this journey just over 4 yrs ago and never turned back. This advice is also good for exploited heavy empathic narcissistic victims and people who are timid or have developed a broken decision-making function growing up. I fit a few statistics myself no lies but the progress has become my success. Great Video

  • @delanobeek
    @delanobeek 3 місяці тому +65

    Drake said “Don’t ask for permission ask for forgiveness” 🔥

    • @MindofMartel
      @MindofMartel  3 місяці тому +10

      Facts. All FACTS.

    • @frankeydaniels
      @frankeydaniels 3 місяці тому +13

      Drake is a soon to be bum all off the strenght of a man with 4 diss songs ending his whole career. And you're referencing him? LMFAO

    • @ezekieltech
      @ezekieltech 3 місяці тому +8

      @@frankeydaniels 🤣The delusion is strong with you huh

    • @law8903
      @law8903 3 місяці тому

      @@frankeydaniels you chronically online bro go outside and you’ll see drake music still gets played everywhere even in LA

    • @Redmoneyusa
      @Redmoneyusa 2 місяці тому

      Classic drizzy.

  • @Dudhddhrffr
    @Dudhddhrffr 2 місяці тому +2

    Don’t let them access you🔥

  • @1TPhotos
    @1TPhotos 2 місяці тому +1

    Great vid bro. We needed this

  • @thehealtrix
    @thehealtrix 2 місяці тому +3

    This is a brilliant perspective shift that I needed to hear‼️

  • @Kiid-Pharaoh
    @Kiid-Pharaoh 2 місяці тому +1

    Needed to hear this after a 2 year relationship being lied and cheated on, I was always the villain, but when I met god he knew something special was coming for me, amen. 🙏

  • @pHixiq
    @pHixiq 2 місяці тому +4

    Things my dad told me(and why fathers are so mf important):
    1. It’s always better to ask for forgiveness later
    2. Part of being a man is making the hard decisions even when people will disagree with you in that time. Because if you make the right one, they will love you. If you make the wrong one, they will hate you. Even if you were simply following what they wanted.
    So it’s better to do it yourself and be yourself

  • @ismailmarican8297
    @ismailmarican8297 2 місяці тому +5

    Fantastic brother, needed this. Liked

  • @serenitysanctuary2312
    @serenitysanctuary2312 2 місяці тому

    How do you only have 32k subscribers? Every young man should be listening to you. Glad I came across your channel

  • @vitte_stinson22
    @vitte_stinson22 2 місяці тому +1

    Immediately subscribed.

  • @GowithRoRo
    @GowithRoRo 2 місяці тому +2

    Instant follow. As a chick this is something l also needed to hear and can relate.

  • @dreddy_g
    @dreddy_g 3 місяці тому +86

    I have offended quite a few relatives (and so-called friends) who tried to **RUDELY** give me **UNSOLICITED** career advice because I would say "I want to get advice from someone a LOT more successful than me."
    EDIT: added a couple of words to give more context as to why my comment was made. 😊 Thank you.

    • @MindofMartel
      @MindofMartel  3 місяці тому +20

      That’s respectable and should be understood by them tbh

    • @nickjones5495
      @nickjones5495 2 місяці тому +2

      Please don't be giving advice yourself

    • @dreddy_g
      @dreddy_g 2 місяці тому +2

      @@nickjones5495 Oh believe me. I don't. Or were you telling that to Germaine? 😊

    • @Jupa
      @Jupa 2 місяці тому

      If they’re doing it to belittle you fair enough
      There’s always something to learn from people tho

    • @lawrencelord9777
      @lawrencelord9777 2 місяці тому +2

      In this life EVEN family cab be against you. Keep everything in life to yourself. Thank me later

  • @Quan293
    @Quan293 2 місяці тому

    Bro only thing I can is THANK YOU

  • @MrDizew
    @MrDizew 2 місяці тому

    Very strong video, brother...
    Lately I've been catching myself thinking ' Oh, what would X think", ' I might look X way to Y"... imagine how feminine this is... imagine a masculine man thinking bs like that... man up and own your world, the rest is bs...

  • @DanishBroly
    @DanishBroly 2 місяці тому +1

    I appreciate that message very wise words 💯💪

  • @Rafeza-xo5gc
    @Rafeza-xo5gc 2 місяці тому +2

    Amazing video bruh, this here is what i call a mindset transformation

  • @cg.paiva1
    @cg.paiva1 3 місяці тому +3

    Too happy this came on my timeline

  • @certifiedzos5639
    @certifiedzos5639 2 місяці тому

    Yes sir fuck em live you're life. Thank you bro I needed to hear this

  • @JSmithRecords
    @JSmithRecords 2 місяці тому +9

    Bro i needed this. I stopped doing tiktoks (even though I had some motion) because I got negative comments/didnt wanna upset people. Im getting back on it, fck em. If I have something to say, I'm saying it. You are completely correct that the truth is within you. Content, making music etc, I feel is my destiny because no other thing on earth gives me this feeling. And no matter how many times I give up, my heart screams at me everyday to start again. I literally cannot turn it off. It feels like a spiritual entity inside me keeps pointing me to this direction.

  • @ajtaperfade5343
    @ajtaperfade5343 2 місяці тому +1

    As I’m struggling with some life decisions this manifested at the right time. Appreciate the wisdom 💯🙏🏽

  • @Prawdziwerelacje30plus
    @Prawdziwerelacje30plus 2 місяці тому

    Respect from Poland. Great knowledge ❤

  • @Xarindell
    @Xarindell 2 місяці тому

    I'm so grateful for UA-cam recommending me this video. Subscribed to you now, keep going champ 💪❤

  • @achapifitness
    @achapifitness 2 місяці тому +2

    i needed thi sir🙏

  • @ldotty2579
    @ldotty2579 2 місяці тому

    Listening to this has given me that last push to follow my dreams may god bless you 🙏

  • @porueychen4710
    @porueychen4710 2 місяці тому

    Watch this everyday before starting a day

  • @mysteriousman3531
    @mysteriousman3531 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank u man, I really did need this.

  • @ryangtb5674
    @ryangtb5674 2 місяці тому

    This is such a W video I’m bouta takeoff in life now

  • @LightOurDirection
    @LightOurDirection 3 місяці тому +3

    facts! i finally started my youtube channel!

    • @MindofMartel
      @MindofMartel  3 місяці тому +1

      Good bro!! It's the start of a new beginning for sure!

    • @Sweetaschiliz
      @Sweetaschiliz 2 місяці тому

      Bro you joined yt 7 years Ago

  • @TFLN
    @TFLN 2 місяці тому

    So true!!

  • @omaralaoui2177
    @omaralaoui2177 2 місяці тому

    I needed this, that’s all I’m gonna say

  • @tedwilson1477
    @tedwilson1477 3 місяці тому +3

    Truth. Respect Brother 👊

  • @timoteo349
    @timoteo349 2 місяці тому +1

    I needed this

  • @who_is_dis
    @who_is_dis 3 місяці тому +3

    You're in Romania?? That's cool, Romania came up SO much it's mad.

  • @Chief_Chill
    @Chief_Chill 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm in the crib writing something while listening to this in the background and soaking in the wisdom, thank you for the insights on insight just one thing at jolted me. I think at all times we can seek the guidance of people who succeeded decades before us because the principles of success and prosperity whatever that looks like to whoever really don't change that much throughout time

  • @Nicoahumaran
    @Nicoahumaran Місяць тому

    thank u bro! nice words

  • @nezargatere4710
    @nezargatere4710 2 місяці тому

    I'm gonna keep replaying this

  • @basedzoe
    @basedzoe 2 місяці тому

    💯💯 if you care too much you will never follow your dreams

  • @NaomiYoutube
    @NaomiYoutube 2 місяці тому +1

    W jideon, you got beefy man

  • @Dance4lifeBR
    @Dance4lifeBR 2 місяці тому

    thank you my brother!

  • @Kmk-ky9le
    @Kmk-ky9le 3 місяці тому

    Glad to know I’m not the only one with the same mindset !

  • @SpiritualNaz
    @SpiritualNaz 3 місяці тому +1

    Stand for something or fall for anything.

  • @Rami_alsayegh
    @Rami_alsayegh 2 місяці тому

    So true

  • @anonSPY
    @anonSPY 2 місяці тому +1

    Needed this

  • @zb2747
    @zb2747 2 місяці тому +26

    It’s not about not giving a f***, it’s about directing your mental energy to things that matter. Not everything requires a response
    Take note of all things and most importantly take care of it. Do not take anything personal in this life. Besides, all things happen for you not to you
    The key to true manhood is understanding reality and being at peace with it. Do not conform STILL dream, build, work, and create. However, there are things you must realize and understand in this life. How does that happen? Only God can reveal that to you as you move along in your journey
    Get wisdom, and in all thy getting get understanding
    Stay on your purpose ALWAYS and put God first

    • @status0
      @status0 2 місяці тому +1

      It's about balance. Give a fxk and don't give a fxk. The key to life
      BALANCE

    • @BRBallin1
      @BRBallin1 2 місяці тому

      Redirecting energy somewhere else = not directing energy to that = not giving a f&;)$ about that thing

  • @adrianbenoitt
    @adrianbenoitt 2 місяці тому

    soon as you said everything is within i liked the vid cause i realized that this year

  • @ErrolMiller-ey3lb
    @ErrolMiller-ey3lb 2 місяці тому

    THANKS FOR SHARING

  • @Casual_Talk
    @Casual_Talk 3 місяці тому +2

    Excellent video bro. 👊 ✊️

  • @jordanerwin9672
    @jordanerwin9672 2 місяці тому

    preciate this bro, really needed it

  • @frejahmule619
    @frejahmule619 2 місяці тому

    Thank you man, i am really enlightened with your words.😇

  • @Notofthisworld-q5s
    @Notofthisworld-q5s 2 місяці тому

    AMEN!

  • @TroyGBrown
    @TroyGBrown 2 місяці тому

    Great analogy about the ship

  • @ILoveHand-ClappingASMR
    @ILoveHand-ClappingASMR 3 місяці тому +4

    Thanks bro'.

  • @tryhardsalami7675
    @tryhardsalami7675 2 місяці тому

    what a video. wow. thank you 🙌🏻

  • @magicfabe
    @magicfabe 2 місяці тому

    cool stuff man im here from the algorithm , good vibes and agree with the content

  • @leroy1222
    @leroy1222 2 місяці тому +4

    no way i thought this was Jidion i thought he locked in and got shreded.

  • @ambitionxander7394
    @ambitionxander7394 2 місяці тому

    Love the content bro, Inspirational!

  • @isolx3043
    @isolx3043 2 місяці тому

    Great physique and free game… liked and subscribed

  • @garethgabriel2062
    @garethgabriel2062 2 місяці тому

    Great video from 🇿🇦🙌

  • @Polyantra
    @Polyantra 2 місяці тому

    Needed to hear this

  • @Big23YT
    @Big23YT 2 місяці тому +1

    Brother👊🏽

  • @JohnmierUntal
    @JohnmierUntal 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks brotha

  • @gabriellcesario
    @gabriellcesario 2 місяці тому

    thanks algorithm

  • @sebproductions6673
    @sebproductions6673 2 місяці тому

    Ts clicked after hs for me too

  • @roshiiirohoe
    @roshiiirohoe 2 місяці тому

    im happy i kept listening lol cause in the beginning i was like i fw this but what about if you have a girlfriend or wife 😭

    • @MindofMartel
      @MindofMartel  2 місяці тому +1

      I’m dropping a video around this today

  • @Batmayne__
    @Batmayne__ 2 місяці тому +2

    This should be a people of the world typa vid. I be telling all genders this stuff bro.

  • @RenaA9
    @RenaA9 2 місяці тому

    Respect ✊

  • @BtbJeremiah
    @BtbJeremiah Місяць тому

    3:47 really resonated with me

  • @Michael-vb3gx
    @Michael-vb3gx 3 місяці тому +2

    Dude you are dope

  • @briancomforti3890
    @briancomforti3890 2 місяці тому +2

    Legit thought there was a 100% chance you had a British accent before I clicked this, I don’t know why. Just a feeling

  • @XXGABEX
    @XXGABEX 3 місяці тому

    Spitting straight facts especially when you brought up God 🙏 sometimes i be forgetting, but God sent this video my way.

  • @TaleClipz
    @TaleClipz 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Buff Will Smith

  • @ElleryRobertsJr
    @ElleryRobertsJr 2 місяці тому

    I hear you bro