Don't Make These 12 First Date MISTAKES in the Philippines [WARNING]
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- Опубліковано 19 лис 2024
- 12 First Date Mistakes Foreigners Make in the PHILIPPINES 👉 Hit LIKE and SUBSCRIBE for GOOD LUCK in the Philippines 😉
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Advice from a guy who has been married to a Filipina for almost 20 years. First mistake guys make is falling in love with the first girl that gives them attention. Best way to succeed is to prequalify your potential date. Is she going to be an asset or a liability to you? With soooo many single Filipinas out there, why not focus on meeting the most qualified ie the best Phils has to offer? What is her future? Can she create her own future ie a nurse, call center girl, teacher etc or is her only sense of future is to meet a western guy with pension? Be smart, picky and patient when dealing with Filipinas. Set the bar high and you will do just fine.
Don’t try to get touchy nor physical too soon.But if you and her have talked for months before actually meeting in the Philippines,it will be less awkward.
Don't try to kiss her or hold her hand. That is her boyfriend's job.
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once she gets home from your date she will get plenty of kisses...while you are messaging her how great the date was...
That's funny. Jaded, but funny. Oh crap..... that means it's funny because it's true. Sh!t, that means it's probably going happen a lot. What do you do with your heart in the meantime? I'm doomed. Ahhh, who am I kidding I won't have any money or heart to worry about by the time this Western Women gets done with me in Divorce Court. Thanks for making me laugh.
Great List! #5 is a must but number #9 can vary from person to person. I think 3-4 hours max is a sweet spot, since that's dinner and a movie. Anything longer is a half a shift at work.
I think going to the cinema on the first date is a terrible idea
#10 Too funny not ordering rice. I can't eat rice everyday, once a week good enough for me
You buy rice for her. You don't have to order it for you.
That’s the most important thing to remember from this lesson… don’t be weird so we won’t go to hell.
Good list. I made the mistake of letting a friend come on one of my first dates. It was horrible. Don’t be the nice guy.
being weird? so i cant be myself?? 😂
So we as guys should respect her time by allowing her to constantly be late?!? That is some twisted logic right there LOL. Anyone who is late is *NOT* respecting the other person's time at all. Period. One time there may be a valid reason, but if he or she makes it a pattern it is a sure sign of selfishness
You're so cute. I have to smile when I see your picture.
Let her bring a friend or sister. You might like them better. 🤔
Pretty in pink.
The 3 filipinas I like:
Red flag with cute voice
Red flag with cute smile
Red flag with good humor
I can understand a girl bringing some along the first time she goes somewhere with a strange man.
Yes...the problem is a lot of Filipinas will take advantage of foreigners by inviting additional friends and family...so it's best to avoid this if possible, because it usually won't end after after the first date.
Be a gentleman, do not be WEIRD!
If you want her to be there at 8PM, tell her 7PM, or just tell her you will be picking her up at 8 PM?
If we are to meet at 8 then she should be there at 8. Major disrespect shown to not bother being on time. The first date sets the tone for the relationship. And if she wants to begin by showing she has no respect for you, then why continue? Walk it off. There are plenty of others that can tell time.
Good and informative
Great video
Your videos are always so good.
VERY informative and useful information. Thank you once again. (sister of Pea?)
If they gossip the foreigner can walk away.
There is no such thing as a Philippino time or any other time. 8.00 o'clock is exactly that. If you know you have an appointment at whatever time you prepare for it, traffic or what it be. To be waiting on a first date and hour plus is a joke
Totally agree. If a girl is an hour late for a date she clearly isn't that interested. 10 to 15 minutes late I can understand. An hour late is just BS.
what are the dating apps/sites people use in Philippines
So I would have a problem if she regularly showed up an hour late for a date. Because either it means someone who isn't mature and intelligent enough to set themselves up to be on time, or it means they don't care enough about me to make the effort to be on time. Nobody would allow themselves to be late for work every day at work and after all they manage to be on time, so why can't it be the same when dating?
If 8 o’clock is time of date she no show by 8:05 I’m gone, off to other girl one that don’t stand me up. Late is late it’s like not having proper communication. The relationship will not work…..
I feel like the theme of these videos are how the men need to change and we need to just put up with the women's shortcomings. "Guys! She's late. Deal with it." "She's in tampo. You need to fix it." Respect her by allowing her to be late? That don't make NO sense. If I say 8 is it OK if I show at 9???
That depends.... is she an 8 or a 9.... hahaha
You should better take a dog, if you want to act like the alfa male.
@@bruob that doesn't make any sense.
Be gentlemen guys, pay for everything on the first date, don't physically escalate and make sure she brings take away for her asawa. Got it.
You mean order enough food so she can feed her 3 children and trike driver bf.
"make sure she brings take away for her asawa."
and her jowa and her 5 kids..
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On the first date, all you need to wear is your underwear. 🤣🤣
Rice is life!!!!!
If she makes the move on you like wanting to kiss or even have sex on first meeting. I say run away as fast as you can. She is wanting to move it along to fast and will ask for money right away. I already dealt with this situation so I know what I am talking about. She asked for 6 thousand peso's right after the date to get her phone from the pawn shop. I said no since I felt like I was being set-up.
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If there is all this confirmation, there is no reason to be late
Don't be weird, guys. That is just stupid. However, I disagree with a mom or sister going on the date. If her mother or sister comes along and things go poorly with the girl you ask out, you might still have a shot with mom or sister. Sometimes the Filipina moms are hotter anyway and less crazy. 😱🤠 By the way, I absolutely LOVE Reine! She tells it like it is. The female Donald Trump of the Philippines. ❤❤
We keep hearing the same things over and over again from you, Reine. You really need to find new and different topics. It's getting boring watching you basically say the same things video after video. Daisy keeps things fresh and keeps changing things up.
8pm? You better make up for Filipino time. If you want to meet at 8pm, tell her 7pm. She might make it there on time.
Again, with the lack of hygiene. Can you suggest a law to your government that if you don't shower you are deported.
Prettiest eyes, most beautiful smile in the Phillipines 20x Pea ❤❤❤
Any country if the friend is not coming to the bed she is not coming to the date..
Good point. Who would expect a guy that bothered doing #5 to dine with 2 ladies and not think that would be the case.
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Don’t even need to watch the video. It’s probably stay clean, order rice, no corny jokes, etc. same as all the others.
If a person has a beard and the other person already knows it, don’t expect person to shave.
If she’s late to the first date, you be even later to the second one. If she gets upset then you know she’s playing games and it’s not just Philippines time. I mean this is assuming second date is viable.
I wanna know who is this girl. I would like to talk with her.
Tell her 8pm show up at 829pm
...with your ex 😂
I snore very loud at night. Would that be a problem for a Filipina?
I guess asking for a foot massage is out of the question on a first date
Sounds very westernized to me so nothing new!! Just don't be weird!!
Wtf? You guys haven't any clock on your phone in PH? 🤔 Date time and pick up she 8 pm means 8 pm, not 9 pm.. 😂 or let it be..😂 i can find some other girls...😂
#13 Forget to ask if she has any disabilities before you ask her out
I even had a videocall first, 'n she looked fine. Then when we met, she immidiately said, btw I'm handicapped, 'n she was, she had problems walking among other things cos of some disease she'd had in her early teens. 'N she had travelled for hours 'n wanted to stay for the night in my place.
Okaaay, let's have some coffee, hell, let's go to Jollibee too, 'n eat some, 'n then:
Sorry, I don't think this is gonna work, you know, is not you, is me ...
If a woman asked if she could bring somebody on the date I think I would cancel. I mean who does she want to spend time with?
Go stay at boarding houses ( the 30$ to 35 $ ones) change every month...
Go shopping at walmart..these girls are expensive on this channel.
#13 Sorry, not in the budget.
Confirm? When Americans make dates, we keep them. Do Filipinos flake out so often that they no longer trust anyone's word?
That’s a whole other video. But, yes…confirming things is very important in the Philippines.
This is too much to take in. I'll just pick up a bar girl for the day. I love bar girls. My kind of people.
I would allow 15 to 30 minutes for first date, after that I would consider the other person just being rude. Something that I would specify with person when I made the date.
How do I get a first date with the lovely Ms. Raine? I promise... I won't make any mistakes. Please let me know dear beautiful.
You already broke a rule: don't be weird
Very cute girl ❤❤❤