I got married when I was 20. Now, I'm 23. And I totally understand that part where you now havr to look to your husband with respect, speak to him with respect. It's been a fun experience so far. God has been good. Totally loooveeedd this video.
I'm 3 weeks old married and i got married at 23. I can tell anyone for a fact that the butterfly won't be a 24/7 thing😂. Single people!!! Don't marry base off of the goody feeling. There's so much more than the butterflies
I like this comment. A lot of people can portray marriage as fairytale and bliss but this is reality. I know I can irritated quickly so sometimes I have to snap out of what I think marriage should be like.
This young lady speak like a very well grown woman. The maturity in the reasonings and the advices is top notch. Love that she kept in line with the Word of God and the expectations from God.
This is one of the realistic videos on marriage I've seen and no exaggeration from me. I've watched so many videos and people are vague and make marriage seem that there's not much work. I know there's beauty to it but I like how you addressed the REALITY of it. Thank you for this video.
I got married at 20 and I’m now about to be 25 in December. It has been a beautiful experience but also a lot of learning. I will just say seek the will of God in everything. There is nothing wrong with getting married in your 20s just like there’s nothing wrong with getting married in your 30s. It’s all about what God wants for you. ❤
I plan to get married early ,but at the same time I am in medical school ,3 years to go and I turned 20 this year 😂😂😂 I am not in a rush or anything Just a desire ,I am sure God plans are great even though I don’t know them yet
Lol I just got married two weeks and I am 21. In a similar situation as you, thank God I am not alone. Many people our age have been saying is too young and it won’t end well. I believe if it was not meant to be then it would last regardless of the age. I wish you all the best my friend 😊.
I learnt that you need to know yourself and you need to educate yourself on the subject (Mariage) read books go to seminars to learn more on marriage and all the stuff also it is not a fairytale you don't need to rush. I equally learnt that we are not always fully prepared to marry, marriage is a school we learn everyday and we grow everyday alongside thank you very much for sharing your experience we single ppl need more of this(transparency). Stay blessed TOA ❤️❤️
I got married and 22 also now I’m 25 and jts been a very beautiful journey. One thing I always tell people (my husband told me this few days into my marriage but I didn’t understand it early) is reduce your expectations. Sometimes all these expectations your have of marriage isn’t the reality, it takes time and efforts to build that ‘fairytale’ you want. So whenever things don’t go the way you expect you won’t be disappointed or start doubting if you married wrong😂. Welldone Tofunmi, this is a beautiful video! I learnt some things, God bless you💕
@@TheRealTabitha yessss!!!!!❤️ Very true! I fell for the lie that I started to think I married wrong😂 at some point, cause what I saw on social media was not matching my reality and I totally agree that it takes time to build that "fairytale". Truthfully, with patience and intentionality you and your spouse will begin to dwell with each other with better understanding which makes your marriage a bliss. I'm a testimony of this.
Would be interesting to hear your story/experience/perspective about dating at 12 years old, growth and maturity, and the role your relationship played in all
Maturity is a must in marriage, if one is not ready to grow.. DON'T MARRY! honestly... I've been growing, like forceful growth sef😂. And I'm just 3weeks in
😊 I also I’m young and married and I can attest to that speaking to your husband with respect and honor? Oh yes, it’s so profound and lastly please DO NOT do marriage with social media, it won’t help you, do marriage with God
Just a suggestion,you can put early 20s in the title instead of just 20s I am just suggesting Please cos I don’t want anyone to come and drag me now 😭🙏
Marrying early is not so much a flex, ladies know yourself first, know what you like about men, know your ticks and nuances, know what your purpose is about. When you've learned yourself, then get married at 28 upwards
To each their own, we move with the standards of God. Marriage is really not an age thing in my opinion it’s about when you know are ready to tend to that covenant that comes from God. Which is marriage, you can be 28 and be very farrrrr from knowing all those things and yet someone can be 21 and understand their purpose
@@caraepetuire Yes, I started dating when I was 12. I never stated I was Christian when I started dating, I gave my life to Christ while I was in my relationship. You can watch my other videos so you can get the full story.
I got married when I was 20. Now, I'm 23.
And I totally understand that part where you now havr to look to your husband with respect, speak to him with respect.
It's been a fun experience so far. God has been good.
Totally loooveeedd this video.
@@FaithAdesunloye thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️.
I'm 3 weeks old married and i got married at 23. I can tell anyone for a fact that the butterfly won't be a 24/7 thing😂. Single people!!! Don't marry base off of the goody feeling. There's so much more than the butterflies
I like this comment. A lot of people can portray marriage as fairytale and bliss but this is reality. I know I can irritated quickly so sometimes I have to snap out of what I think marriage should be like.
This young lady speak like a very well grown woman. The maturity in the reasonings and the advices is top notch. Love that she kept in line with the Word of God and the expectations from God.
This is one of the realistic videos on marriage I've seen and no exaggeration from me. I've watched so many videos and people are vague and make marriage seem that there's not much work. I know there's beauty to it but I like how you addressed the REALITY of it. Thank you for this video.
I got married at 20 and I’m now about to be 25 in December. It has been a beautiful experience but also a lot of learning. I will just say seek the will of God in everything. There is nothing wrong with getting married in your 20s just like there’s nothing wrong with getting married in your 30s. It’s all about what God wants for you. ❤
I plan to get married early ,but at the same time I am in medical school ,3 years to go and I turned 20 this year 😂😂😂
I am not in a rush or anything
Just a desire ,I am sure God plans are great even though I don’t know them yet
Lol I just got married two weeks and I am 21. In a similar situation as you, thank God I am not alone. Many people our age have been saying is too young and it won’t end well. I believe if it was not meant to be then it would last regardless of the age. I wish you all the best my friend 😊.
This was such a good video Tofunmi, there’s also a lot of growth within you and it’s very nice to see 🥺
@@adebankeog awwww, thank you my love ❤️❤️
I learnt that you need to know yourself and you need to educate yourself on the subject (Mariage) read books go to seminars to learn more on marriage and all the stuff also it is not a fairytale you don't need to rush. I equally learnt that we are not always fully prepared to marry, marriage is a school we learn everyday and we grow everyday alongside thank you very much for sharing your experience we single ppl need more of this(transparency). Stay blessed TOA ❤️❤️
I got married and 22 also now I’m 25 and jts been a very beautiful journey. One thing I always tell people (my husband told me this few days into my marriage but I didn’t understand it early) is reduce your expectations. Sometimes all these expectations your have of marriage isn’t the reality, it takes time and efforts to build that ‘fairytale’ you want. So whenever things don’t go the way you expect you won’t be disappointed or start doubting if you married wrong😂.
Welldone Tofunmi, this is a beautiful video! I learnt some things, God bless you💕
@@TheRealTabitha yessss!!!!!❤️ Very true!
I fell for the lie that I started to think I married wrong😂 at some point, cause what I saw on social media was not matching my reality and I totally agree that it takes time to build that "fairytale". Truthfully, with patience and intentionality you and your spouse will begin to dwell with each other with better understanding which makes your marriage a bliss. I'm a testimony of this.
Would be interesting to hear your story/experience/perspective about dating at 12 years old, growth and maturity, and the role your relationship played in all
@@ninavann3064 hey! I got featured on the for the girls channel by Tobi Naomi where I spoke about this so you can watch on there ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing Tofunmi 🙈 I’m 21 and I hope to get married early as well. I learned a lot 🙈thank youuuuu
We love to see you on our screens! ❤❤
@@hosannabivuvu5793 awww, thank you 😊
Babeee that thumbnail is giving BIG BUSINESS WOMAN 🤩🤩🤩
@@kenenimiwebuke9584 I know right 🥹🥹
Maturity is a must in marriage, if one is not ready to grow.. DON'T MARRY!
honestly... I've been growing, like forceful growth sef😂. And I'm just 3weeks in
😊 I also I’m young and married and I can attest to that speaking to your husband with respect and honor? Oh yes, it’s so profound and lastly please DO NOT do marriage with social media, it won’t help you, do marriage with God
@@maryamkazy2896 so so good ❤️❤️❤️
Only 2 minutes in and I know these are the answers I've been looking for ❤️. God bless you TOA
@@gloriaotchere awwww, amen ❤️❤️
I like that you are doing content creating your own way. Well done Tofunmi. Growth looks good on you.
@@shilohnow thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
This video is so Good❤️❤️❤️
Absolutely enjoyed watching this and thank you for taking time out to share with us❤️❤️❤️
Thank God for the beautiful growth in your lives🙏🏾
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Aw my toffs!🫂🩷💫thank you so much for sharing
your background 😍😍
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I ran here i love TOA ❤🎉
@@justtamy743 awww love you too ❤️
Hello Tofunmi, beautiful content and congratulations on your wedding.❤
Please if you don’t mind, what font did you use for your thumbnail?
Hey, thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️. It’s called articulat on Canva
This was a good one, single but taking down notes😅.
Thank you for this beautiful video TOA❤️ So insightful
@@petronellamuyenga5305 thank you 😊
Just a suggestion,you can put early 20s in the title instead of just 20s
I am just suggesting
Please cos I don’t want anyone to come and drag me now 😭🙏
@@olajumokepatunola4035 🤣🤣🤣🤣. I edited it though 🤣❤️
@ Alright ❤️❤️😂🙈
Congratulations dear hope marriage is treating you well
@@caraepetuire very well in fact ❤️
I learnt that it's not a fairytale and you should take time to know yourself before going in!
I love this video so much, thank you for sharing all this with us.
@@kenenimiwebuke9584 thank you babe ❤️❤️
“Throwaway that fairytale!” 😂 please don’t!!!
@@mojireallenajayi okay o 🤣🤣
This was so good❤😊
@@okekeprecious6205 thank you 😊
TOA for a reason! ❤❤
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Love the intro
@@myayomiposi thank you 😊
Iyawo u look gorgeous, i love dis. Much❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
TOAAAAAAAA, thank youuu 💗
@@BubeAdelaja thank God ❤️
One and only TOA❤❤
@@olajumokepatunola4035 ❤️❤️❤️
Enjoyed the video ❤
@@Bibzthebarb thank you 😊
This video is so good TOA.
Well done 🎉❤
@@veraobafemi1235 thank you so much 😊
An interesting topic😊
You're so beautiful ❤
@@estellenachela6592 thank you 😊
Hummmm... lesson learnt and duly noted
Omo Ambode!
Beautiful 👏🏿👏🏿
@@WENYA.D ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for sharing
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Marrying early is not so much a flex, ladies know yourself first, know what you like about men, know your ticks and nuances, know what your purpose is about. When you've learned yourself, then get married at 28 upwards
To each their own, we move with the standards of God. Marriage is really not an age thing in my opinion it’s about when you know are ready to tend to that covenant that comes from God. Which is marriage, you can be 28 and be very farrrrr from knowing all those things and yet someone can be 21 and understand their purpose
So you started dating at the age of 12years old hmmmmm Christians oooh
@@caraepetuire Yes, I started dating when I was 12. I never stated I was Christian when I started dating, I gave my life to Christ while I was in my relationship. You can watch my other videos so you can get the full story.
TOA!🤩🩷
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