It’s all situational when I come to who’s walking in front. Walking into a restaurant women in front. Walking through a crowd men in front to clear space.
It’s really basic… your lady walks in front of you because from her posterior you’re in ideal position to protect… you can see what’s coming and whatever may come from behind has to get through you in order to get to her
This girl got mad at me for pulling my phone out to check who was calling right after she got done taking a picture of her food. Like what kind of gaslighting bullshit is that!? LMAO
I agree with Joe. I won't have my woman walk ahead of me and I won't have my woman walk behind me if she's not holding my hand because men will assume she's alone and try to holler. I hold hands and keep her on the side or behind.
My husband does the same as Ish explained HOWEVER he uses my waist to guide me. He also feels like I don’t navigate traffic well lol I’m okay with that.
We def letting the girl order first for her to ask “what you getting” “idk” “asks menu questions” then says “can you order first” & im def sitting where I’m facing the door that’s been a thing since my pops was like that & adopted the ideology. Bro that was def looking more like leading the blind or a special Ed child of urs had me dead thinking ab it actually being dudes main 😂
I think this conversation shows the importance of good role models. My father is an absolute gentleman to my mother but he learned from trial and error. My mother on the other hand formally learned etiquette, so she taught me the difference between forks, don't put you elbows on the table, always open the door for your date, sit facing the door. So, I think you learn these things if you are fortunate enough to grow up in a household where that is the norm. Some people have to learn out in the world. I think as long as you know a person is TRYING to be nice that matters more than knowing all the rules exactly.
ALSO TREAT THE WAITRESS/WAITER with respect. If something is wrong with the order kindly let them know. I'll straight pay for the meals and leave. That ish is mad embarrassing and disrespectful
1 of the things I hate the most is when a chick orders for home and not the date... Like everything you should order you had the intent on eating at the restaurant..."Like bish, if you wanted food for yo crib we could have gone to the grocery store"
In the song Ma ma ma by Joe Budden featuring 112, Joe said “…Let you walk in front while the other dudes hate.” I was 15 when I heard that line. I am now 35. 😂
It actually comes from the time when people used to throw shit and piss out the window because they didn't have indoor plumbing in the city. The man would be the one to get hit if walking on the outside. Imo, I'd rather get hit by a car.
If your girl is behind you it should be to shield her from the crowd and lead her through it and for those reasons you need to hold her hand. Your girl might be ahead of you if you’re both climbing up a flight of stairs, so that can protect her if she slips. Going down stairs, a woman would walk behind her man so that he can catch her if she falls. Men walk outside of the sidewalk closest to the street. ALWAYS make sure she’s good before walking away from the car, the table, the concert seats etc. You have a credit card, a key fob, and flat shoes. Done. We have half a haul of Sephora, stilettos, cellphone, selfie stick, tampons, a water bottle, lip balm and three different charging cords. It’s takes us a bit longer to get out of the vehicle and it’s nice when your man isn’t already in the seats eating the popcorn before you can get out of the car. Context is everything.
Facts. At home in public it's whatever and expected....I gotta multitask and I'm not trying to talk on the phone because that takes up a hand needed to multitask. When I'm on a date I'm intentionally blocking everything else out and literally saving that time and dedicating it to you so the phone isn't necessary then for that time I specifically set aside
@@will_9910 you don't have to say anything. It just answers your next time question lol. The answer is that there won't be a next time. It's completely fine if you're already bood up with her and y'all are out and about and just got hungry and wanted to stop and eat. Thats different than a dedicated date night from time x to time y. But if it's a first date we definitely aren't running errands together and being out and about prior to...and especially if I'm expected to be the one paying and planning it you better not be on your phone all damn night long lol. That's simple respect.
It can be out. You can check it, periodically. You are NOT going to have an entire extended conversation with someone else, especially without excusing yourself.
Melissa out here virtual signalling yet women are the one on their phone at restaurant and taking a dozen pictures of the food. Fuc is she talking about
I'm glad Joe mentioned the women aspect because that's the answer to Mel's question.. A LOT of these women ain't traditional and have no etiquette of their own so why are Men required to remain "traditional" and have etiquette? That shit goes both ways, but as Joe stated, Men show much more tradition and etiquette than women do these days and it's not even close 🤷🏾♂️
Chivalry and dating etiquette is dead now a days. Men and women don't know or are not use to the etiquette. Some women are not use to men opening doors for them.
@ZYaKnoe249 there's no benefit to it. It shows that a man is a gentlemen. You don't need to get something out of it by having proper manners or etiquette.
The well-done steak is def nerve-racking like learn how to eat lol. Who wants to watch you chew for an hour trying to break down that tough-ass well-done steak.
Certain things sound unnecessary imo. Is it that big of a deal if you sit down before your chick? And what are the chances she gets snatched because she's walking closer to the road? You're right beside her. "Let her order first", why does that matter?
Nah definitely let a woman walk in front of you on a date as you also open the door to let her walk in, outside of that walk in front of her when out in the streets so you become a shield or a navigator. And yes STEAK is not supposed to be well done, anyone thinking it needs to be never had medium rare, medium, or medium well as that is perfect to cut right through it like butter. Nobody wants you shaking the table like Flip was doing to his son in the car with his cereal bowl on his way to school lmfao 🤣
"You're like hurding cattle" ☠️ that walk was crazy
Looked like he was maneuvering a blind woman
It’s all situational when I come to who’s walking in front. Walking into a restaurant women in front. Walking through a crowd men in front to clear space.
Cave man Ish lol
Good point. I was about to disagree on the restaurant part but we open the door. So the woman ends up entering first
Raised right❤
That demonstration with Ish and Joe 🤨🤣🤣
He really walked Joe around the room 😂😂😂 like a gentleman tho
Lmao I honestly would’ve made Melissa stand up to demonstrate 😂
Right 😂
Man that shit just ticked me lol
😂😂
Wtf weirdo
that's what I really thought was about to happen until Joe stood up lmfaoooo
Always get a booth, then you don’t have to pull out the chair 🤣🤣🤣
No taking pics of the food, top tier etiquette 😂
Depends, ordinarily restaurant no, but some high end meals that look like art, on a special occasion I don’t mine.
Isshhh my guy, what kind of foolery is that ?!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
"You should've did it with Mel because you can't hold my hand" literally after just demonstrating and holding hands with Ish🤷♂️😂.
Ish holding Joe's hand for a demonstration...aye yo (in my Cam'ron voice) 😂
The demonstration 😂😂😂😂😂 was classic! 💀☠️
Having Mel bring the ball down court is much better then having her stand in the paint trying to get the rebound 👍🏾 well done.
Shorty stood by the door waiting for me to open. I was pressed for time so I drove off
It’s really basic… your lady walks in front of you because from her posterior you’re in ideal position to protect… you can see what’s coming and whatever may come from behind has to get through you in order to get to her
I agree with Joe, You have to lead the way!!
I feel like men generally uphold these ‘standards’ more than women tbh
This girl got mad at me for pulling my phone out to check who was calling right after she got done taking a picture of her food. Like what kind of gaslighting bullshit is that!? LMAO
😂😂😂 hell nah
First of all.... have Mel be the demonstrator. LMAO
I agree with Joe. I won't have my woman walk ahead of me and I won't have my woman walk behind me if she's not holding my hand because men will assume she's alone and try to holler. I hold hands and keep her on the side or behind.
I say keep her slightly behind you while holding her hand to lead the way
This show makes my day man 😂😂😂😂
😂 what da Fuk Ish doing ? I just died !
“You eat a puck” - Parks 😂😂😂😂😂 cooked that well done steak pun intended
2:02 that looked INSANE! 😂😂😂
I was not ready for Ish to walk Joe like that 😂
Ish using his girl as a meat shield is nuts 🤣🤣🤣
That sounds like the most basic etiquette ever. 😂
Word wtf
My husband does the same as Ish explained HOWEVER he uses my waist to guide me. He also feels like I don’t navigate traffic well lol
I’m okay with that.
Nah, I've had my lady walk in front of me at times.....it wasn't like that tho 🤣🤣
Lmfaooo this nigga playing Mario Kart with his girl through traffic 😭😭😭
Hahaha, that walk was crazy. I was laughing hard
Ish walked Joe like Royalty 🤴 😂
We def letting the girl order first for her to ask “what you getting” “idk” “asks menu questions” then says “can you order first”
& im def sitting where I’m facing the door that’s been a thing since my pops was like that & adopted the ideology.
Bro that was def looking more like leading the blind or a special Ed child of urs had me dead thinking ab it actually being dudes main 😂
I think this conversation shows the importance of good role models. My father is an absolute gentleman to my mother but he learned from trial and error. My mother on the other hand formally learned etiquette, so she taught me the difference between forks, don't put you elbows on the table, always open the door for your date, sit facing the door. So, I think you learn these things if you are fortunate enough to grow up in a household where that is the norm. Some people have to learn out in the world. I think as long as you know a person is TRYING to be nice that matters more than knowing all the rules exactly.
ALSO TREAT THE WAITRESS/WAITER with respect. If something is wrong with the order kindly let them know. I'll straight pay for the meals and leave. That ish is mad embarrassing and disrespectful
Ish backseat piloting took me tf out. I was kinda feeling what he was saying until I peeped the visual 🤣
This conversation shows who protects and who don't. Who pays attention and who don't.
Opening the door and letting my wife order first are big for me. Even if it’s a group I let the ladies order first.
I think letting her order first is unnecessary. Women are typically indecisive. If you know what you want, I see no problem ordering first.
2:01 RIGHT HERE 😂😂😂😂😂
Homie leading his girl singing bye bye bye 😂😂😂
HURDING CATTLE!!! LMFAO
1 of the things I hate the most is when a chick orders for home and not the date... Like everything you should order you had the intent on eating at the restaurant..."Like bish, if you wanted food for yo crib we could have gone to the grocery store"
Idk how much etiquette ur supposed to expect to find in the “dating streets”.
Medium rare is like the undecided option on a television show 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 nahh. That hand walking is crazy
In the song Ma ma ma by Joe Budden featuring 112, Joe said “…Let you walk in front while the other dudes hate.”
I was 15 when I heard that line. I am now 35. 😂
I love that song. I always forgot what it was called. Been looking for it for ages, thank you for mentioning it!
@@user-dv3kq3rm4h 💯💯💯💯
This made me cry lol
That boy ice is obsessed with them questions
I was waiting for Joe to say “show me” imma think of this every time I see a woman walking in front of her man 😂
Nah b never let her walk behind you
That whole side of the street shit always been dumb to me. It’s basically a nice way of being willing to die
It actually comes from the time when people used to throw shit and piss out the window because they didn't have indoor plumbing in the city. The man would be the one to get hit if walking on the outside. Imo, I'd rather get hit by a car.
All these standards are a nice way of being willing to die. Dying is the man's job, the "protecting" part
@@negusnutrino8863dude is goofy. Whats next I dont want to be the one to defend my family in a home invasion scenario, seems like a quick way to die
@@negusnutrino8863protection shouldn’t mean instant and knowing death. That’s backwards as fuck
@@isthatdave55you’re a simp. protecting my family vs getting hit by a car to protect a woman I’m courting isn’t the same thing
If your girl is behind you it should be to shield her from the crowd and lead her through it and for those reasons you need to hold her hand. Your girl might be ahead of you if you’re both climbing up a flight of stairs, so that can protect her if she slips. Going down stairs, a woman would walk behind her man so that he can catch her if she falls. Men walk outside of the sidewalk closest to the street.
ALWAYS make sure she’s good before walking away from the car, the table, the concert seats etc. You have a credit card, a key fob, and flat shoes. Done. We have half a haul of Sephora, stilettos, cellphone, selfie stick, tampons, a water bottle, lip balm and three different charging cords. It’s takes us a bit longer to get out of the vehicle and it’s nice when your man isn’t already in the seats eating the popcorn before you can get out of the car.
Context is everything.
Yup!...no well done Steaks!
If it's crowded. I'm leading the way and keeping a close eye on her. She can lead the way if it's not crowded.
6:18 facts Joe
I keep coming back to this just to see Ish guide Joe like he us accommodating the blind. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 The poor woman who gas to lay up with Ish.
If I bring someone out to dinner I better not see that cell phone out
Facts. At home in public it's whatever and expected....I gotta multitask and I'm not trying to talk on the phone because that takes up a hand needed to multitask. When I'm on a date I'm intentionally blocking everything else out and literally saving that time and dedicating it to you so the phone isn't necessary then for that time I specifically set aside
So what if said person brings it out? Do you say something? I just keep it at a simple rhetorical question for me.
@@will_9910I’ll say something for sure. No phones at the dinner table
@@will_9910 you don't have to say anything. It just answers your next time question lol. The answer is that there won't be a next time. It's completely fine if you're already bood up with her and y'all are out and about and just got hungry and wanted to stop and eat. Thats different than a dedicated date night from time x to time y. But if it's a first date we definitely aren't running errands together and being out and about prior to...and especially if I'm expected to be the one paying and planning it you better not be on your phone all damn night long lol. That's simple respect.
It can be out.
You can check it, periodically.
You are NOT going to have an entire extended conversation with someone else, especially without excusing yourself.
Not waiting to eat my food
thought that was Giannis talking lmaooooo
Ish is WILD for that shit 😂 treating his girl like a fuckin marionette 😂😂
Walk ahead of you, thats crazy
Thats the two and half men shirt
IF MALISSA FORD ONLY KNEW...... I WOULD BE HAPPY IF SHE MADE HOME COOKED POPCORN 🍿🍿
Never let her walk behind you! Never!
PSA: The red juice is not blood. It is water and a protein called myoglobin.
Certain places calls for a different approach.
Melissa out here virtual signalling yet women are the one on their phone at restaurant and taking a dozen pictures of the food. Fuc is she talking about
Yo I’m crying 😭
these things are so easy to do, its not even worth fighting over...just do it if it makes your girl feel nice. none of those things cost you a dime.
Hell naw Ish… Lol
I'm glad Joe mentioned the women aspect because that's the answer to Mel's question.. A LOT of these women ain't traditional and have no etiquette of their own so why are Men required to remain "traditional" and have etiquette? That shit goes both ways, but as Joe stated, Men show much more tradition and etiquette than women do these days and it's not even close 🤷🏾♂️
lmaooooooooo
Yeah this should be basic knowledge
Mel knew she should of stood up for the demonstration acting like her and ish got sexual tension
I know Exactly what ISH was demonstrating… 😊
lmaoo i had to like this after ish walked joe budden off screen lmao ... wow ish technically she is walking you lmao
Chivalry and dating etiquette is dead now a days. Men and women don't know or are not use to the etiquette. Some women are not use to men opening doors for them.
Men realize chivalry stopped being beneficial for them
@ZYaKnoe249 there's no benefit to it. It shows that a man is a gentlemen. You don't need to get something out of it by having proper manners or etiquette.
Foh Ish 😂😂😂😂
Man who gives af about who walks in front of who
girl should either be beside you
The well-done steak is def nerve-racking like learn how to eat lol.
Who wants to watch you chew for an hour trying to break down that tough-ass well-done steak.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Certain things sound unnecessary imo. Is it that big of a deal if you sit down before your chick? And what are the chances she gets snatched because she's walking closer to the road? You're right beside her. "Let her order first", why does that matter?
A well done steak is terrible lol cooking all the flavor out
The red in the steak isn’t blood, smh
Shhhh.... let them eat that hockey puck.
You gotta pay for the food and learn all this bullshit. Pass
Facts
In tight places, I m holding her hands, she behind me n I'm leading. Otherwise we next to each other
Look at me crazy idc I need my shit done or well done
Pause!😂
I bet Flip eat his steak with A-1 sauce too
What's wrong with A1 sauce the most popular steak sauce out?
if you eat great well seasoned steak you won't need it
@jussanerd or you might just want some sauce on it
What uf the girls is late to the date? Should you still wait
What a shame...this has ALWAYS been common sense to me... it's called being a GENTLEMAN WTF!?!?!
Good for you
That's not blood when the steak is red 💯💯💯
….it’s just etiquette lol. “This guy sounds like a loser”….he’s just promoting class amongst men. Take it or leave it but “loser” him 😂
Ish sounds crazy and if a female is on the show why not demonstrate with her
That was hilarious. Literally why she’s there
That's a workplace, cant be doing all that, plus they in relationships.
@@Executnr but you can role play with man? Nah
Yo wtf just happened😆
Phones face down is red flag to me
care to elaborate please?
@@ndr40 phone down shows your hiding something
@@Iamricojonesit can also mean I don't want the waiter dropping something on my screen lol. But I get you.
First time hearing this one
that sounds insecure as hell😂😂😂
Legally blind
I order for my wife
This sounds a lot more logical. You the man, you take lead
Nah definitely let a woman walk in front of you on a date as you also open the door to let her walk in, outside of that walk in front of her when out in the streets so you become a shield or a navigator. And yes STEAK is not supposed to be well done, anyone thinking it needs to be never had medium rare, medium, or medium well as that is perfect to cut right through it like butter. Nobody wants you shaking the table like Flip was doing to his son in the car with his cereal bowl on his way to school lmfao 🤣
What etiquette do women need to have....btw if you gonna order a well do e steak...order something different.