Aspyn Ovard on Her Divorce, Raising Kids on the Internet + More! - PRETTY BASIC - EP. 279

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  • @leelsbless
    @leelsbless 5 місяців тому +4115

    this is my superbowl

  • @itsdaphnevh
    @itsdaphnevh 4 місяці тому +240

    I feel like Aspyn has found a way of being a influencer and keep her privacy in a way nobody else has. She feels like she doesn’t have anyone to look up to but we look up to her. She is doing a great job

  • @emilyandnikki123
    @emilyandnikki123 5 місяців тому +1001

    I’m so happy with how respectful this episode was 😭I know she probably felt so good to share with two people who respect her so much!!

    • @Alyssaa948
      @Alyssaa948 4 місяці тому +10

      There was a reason this was the first time they could actually film a podcast together!!!

  • @dearcomrade2358
    @dearcomrade2358 4 місяці тому +194

    she hasn’t been single since she was 17 … that’s CRAZY. she was literally a child when she was last single and now she’s a grown woman with kids. she’s so strong and wise because i simply would not survive

  • @ccrystalchangg
    @ccrystalchangg 5 місяців тому +2406

    Would love to see Bethany mota on pretty basic next!

  • @heynowwhatchasay
    @heynowwhatchasay 5 місяців тому +2176

    the mormon wives sponsor is so iconic

  • @liralundquist9168
    @liralundquist9168 4 місяці тому +161

    I’m a career nanny and I LOVED Aspyn shining light on her village. Our invisible work is so often overlooked. Thank you!!!!!

  • @xiomara4362
    @xiomara4362 4 місяці тому +275

    I think Coco definitely taught Aspyn how to be a chill mom. I remember her wanting paw patrol everything instead of the super aesthetic outfits and Aspyn let her have at it. It’s so wonderful how children can really change you for the best if you let them 💕

  • @JuliaFase
    @JuliaFase 5 місяців тому +221

    I totally respect Aspyn for discussing her divorce with such grace and respect. Love this podcast episode

  • @susannemadonna
    @susannemadonna 5 місяців тому +749

    full circle moment from when she was moving to la with Claudia but moved back to Utah like 3 weeks later and now she’s bought a house in California!👏🏼 So happy to see her glowing and being happy!

    • @MellanieAniag
      @MellanieAniag 5 місяців тому +12

      Sulewski???

    • @ashley2310
      @ashley2310 5 місяців тому +2

      It just shows the growth she’s made as a individual, but it probably also help that’s she’s not created her own family with the girls and the rest of her family family and ambling starting to do their own things as well

    • @xp788
      @xp788 4 місяці тому +13

      claudia sulewski?

    • @brunasantos-tk3dd
      @brunasantos-tk3dd 4 місяці тому +3

      Wait who’s Claudia?

    • @jjbartula
      @jjbartula 4 місяці тому

      @@xp788yes

  • @KatelynMariee
    @KatelynMariee 5 місяців тому +186

    This is exactly what we want, all the OG beauty influencer podcasts! Please get each of the girls! You all were a part of so many of our childhoods.

  • @kaylabuasod
    @kaylabuasod 5 місяців тому +335

    This podcast episode changed my entire outlook on aspyn in a really positive way.

  • @swagmuffin2454
    @swagmuffin2454 5 місяців тому +565

    Aspyn has handled EVERY situation beautifully. She could have made sm bank and she chose not too bc she respects her children. Well done Aspyn, we love you ❤️☺️

  • @thaliap3125
    @thaliap3125 5 місяців тому +339

    I’ve been following Aspyn for about 12 years and this pod healed my inner child 🥲 hautebrillance, the big bear trip, fall diy collabs, it’s all so nostalgic!

  • @megananderson7481
    @megananderson7481 5 місяців тому +464

    the way remi and alisha fan girl over aspyn is so sweet 🥺🩷

  • @thaliap3125
    @thaliap3125 5 місяців тому +509

    Aspyn is truly the internets cool older sister ♥️♥️♥️

  • @lupeescobedo1339
    @lupeescobedo1339 5 місяців тому +143

    My middle school self is shook!!! I’m so happy that Aspen is back and thriving 🤩 thank u Alisha and Remiiii love yalll

  • @alexisbas10
    @alexisbas10 4 місяці тому +17

    I’ll never understand the hate for Aspyn. She’s so confident and sure of herself and people hate that! I love when a woman is unapologetically herself. I have trouble with that myself because of people constantly dimming my light but I love that she doesn’t let anyone tell her how to act or who to be

  • @talkingtoalison
    @talkingtoalison 4 місяці тому +38

    I remember when Aspyn moved back from LA and she posted a video saying that life is too short to be anything but happy. I feel like that’s how she really lived her life. And it’s worked out for her. She looks out for herself and those she cares about , focuses on what’s important

  • @LifeOfCandice
    @LifeOfCandice 5 місяців тому +33

    I’ve said it before but Aspyn if you are reading this you did such a wonderful job when you did share your kids. We never knew anything too personal. You never shared the hard moments or anything. I never felt like I knew too much.
    Edit: but I get what you mean! I understand the “regret” but please know you have done such a fantastic job.

  • @jessiedominguez6464
    @jessiedominguez6464 4 місяці тому +6

    I love Aspyn so much. She’s so classy, smart and beautiful. She’s alittle younger than me but I look up to her so much, she’s taught me alot about motherhood and life in general. She’s amazing ❤

  • @goldastodomingo98
    @goldastodomingo98 4 місяці тому +34

    when they said “royal crush” i had never forgotten such a code memory being obsessed with the show 😭😭

    • @Readingcornervibes
      @Readingcornervibes 2 місяці тому

      The same thing happened to me. I was such a Meg fan back in the day, I totally forgot that royal crush is how I found Aspyn!

  • @kylies2948
    @kylies2948 5 місяців тому +102

    I CLICKED SO FAST!!! Literally I have been watching ALL of you since I was 11!! I’m 25 now 😂Crazy seeeing everyone together!! ❤ seriously ICONIC

  • @mckennagibson
    @mckennagibson 5 місяців тому +1291

    i’m about to get high, eat chickflia, and watch this 😭😭😭 my life could not be better truly

    • @bellacampbell7645
      @bellacampbell7645 5 місяців тому +21

      This is goals

    • @Brittdurk
      @Brittdurk 5 місяців тому +8

      happy for u truly🥹

    • @IconVlog.
      @IconVlog. 5 місяців тому +8

      Currently hitting mine and eating chips 😂🤞🏾

    • @ashleyperkins6032
      @ashleyperkins6032 5 місяців тому +1

      Pausing the video now so I can do the same thing later. You've got the right idea!!!

    • @rIvashahh
      @rIvashahh 5 місяців тому

      ICOOOONIC.

  • @mariah7495
    @mariah7495 4 місяці тому +40

    Even if there is animosity between Parker and Aspyn she’s doing a damn good job keeping that off the internet and co parenting her beautiful babies with their dad. The kids physical and mental well being is really all that matters 🫶🏼

  • @breannaweber9118
    @breannaweber9118 4 місяці тому +6

    Loving the fact that these three women are all in different stages of life and speaking on all their experiences

  • @camryncarter7473
    @camryncarter7473 5 місяців тому +645

    Dont worry Aspyn, I laughed at your "no ones ever asked me" Kendall Jenner quote 😂😂

    • @Emily-rg8mv
      @Emily-rg8mv 5 місяців тому +1

      Same 😂😂

    • @Angie_runs
      @Angie_runs 4 місяці тому +5

      "I've never even been engaged!"

    • @abbydeleon9334
      @abbydeleon9334 4 місяці тому +1

      Lmao 😂😂😂 I died

  • @katiew8629
    @katiew8629 4 місяці тому +47

    loved this!! some video ideas for aspyn:
    - videos with avery/mom
    - travel tips (in general doesnt have to be w kids)
    - rating old outfits/eras of your life online (posts/aesthetics)
    - what you learned from luca & grae
    - product empties
    - home organizing tips
    - tips for time management or to-do lists
    - OG target hauls
    - talking more about boundaries
    - advice Q and As... could be like podcast style, wouldnt have to be deep/personal just what you'd do in the example scenario
    love all yall this was so fun and exciting for a new era!!!

  • @lepetitesirenegrotte9789
    @lepetitesirenegrotte9789 5 місяців тому +44

    Been around since Aspyn and Parker were just "friends" 💖 love seeing her thrive and happy how ever that may look for her! Also I totally agree with aspyn being iconic and have learned so much about boundaries and confidence from her throughout the years.

  • @emmag.12
    @emmag.12 4 місяці тому +5

    Aspyn I love you so much! You seem so much more yourself now! I got married at 18 & husband was 19 and immediately became a SAHM. I lost myself soooo much in motherhood & I can’t imagine navigating all of it with followers watching me. I’m 23 now and I just feel like you inspire me so much. I feel more like myself these days because my boys are getting older. I just have to tell you thank you for sharing the realness of juggling it all.

  • @shelbyim5vaughns
    @shelbyim5vaughns 4 місяці тому +116

    I died when Aspyn made the comment about people saying she is bossy 😂

  • @emilyloh
    @emilyloh 4 місяці тому +6

    the most iconic trio ever and the inner 13 year old me is screaming and loved watching u guys sm and it’s the best thing to see aspyn on pb, best guest to ever exist, i love u three, proud of u always 🧸💕

  • @meguibo
    @meguibo 5 місяців тому +339

    Not the first ad being Mormon Mons 💀💀💀🤣

    • @MaddieLucaMalan
      @MaddieLucaMalan 4 місяці тому

      Aspyn said shes excited for it too! but she was never mormon lol just grew up in a mormon zone

  • @TanjaMacyyy
    @TanjaMacyyy 5 місяців тому +390

    42:33 relationsship status❤

  • @libbywagner4675
    @libbywagner4675 5 місяців тому +13

    have loved aspyn since she was a teenager! loveee getting to see her in this long form & open up while still setting boundaries!

  • @journiepope
    @journiepope 5 місяців тому +99

    Just sat down to eat my lunch and was SCOURING your page to find the episode 😭😭😭 I am SO EXCITED for this 🤩🤩🤩

  • @sharonhughesjohnson119
    @sharonhughesjohnson119 5 місяців тому +64

    Thank god people are learning that not everything is meant to be shared on the internet.

  • @rebeccamcauley4547
    @rebeccamcauley4547 5 місяців тому +12

    It's amazing to have Aspyn on the podcast. She truly is sensational! What a woman to have came out of a marriage and have such a positive outlook on adjusting to single life. Love the dynamic you have when guests are on. Such naturals at holding conversation yet having a laugh as well. Cheers for improving my Wesnesday here in Yorkshire, England! 💜✨️🎧🎤

  • @kendrashae3614
    @kendrashae3614 5 місяців тому +7

    WE’VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ASPYN!!!!!!! Everyone say THANK YOU REMI AND ALISHA

  • @truelymai
    @truelymai 5 місяців тому +48

    Omg ASPYN you need to get with Amanda Steel !! She’s newly a single mom too and I feel like you 2 would vibes ❤

    • @kimdimalantaa
      @kimdimalantaa 4 місяці тому +1

      and this is how I find out?! just how many chapters did miss?

  • @ashleyperkins6032
    @ashleyperkins6032 5 місяців тому +133

    I'd sign up for an Aspyn boundary MasterClass

  • @irisproduces
    @irisproduces 4 місяці тому

    Something so relieving about this is all the honesty surrounding such a deep emotional topic - which is our lives and personal experiences idk thank u sm for sharing

  • @americanswagbaby
    @americanswagbaby 5 місяців тому +4

    This honestly was soooo good, I've been watching all of you guys for sooo long, it's heartwarming to see how far you've come. Aspyn you should really share the products you are using and all of that beauty stuff, you are glowing girl!

  • @KendraMishell
    @KendraMishell 5 місяців тому +10

    this episode didnt even feel one hour long, the conversation flowed so well, I could've listened to more lol, much love to aspen and her new era

  • @emmamarieb1998
    @emmamarieb1998 4 місяці тому +6

    I married my first boyfriend/high school sweetheart and got a divorce at 25. There are so many different emotions when you first admit you're single after such a weird circumstance.

  • @Themckennarose
    @Themckennarose 5 місяців тому +87

    I agree with everything omg. Aspyn has handled herself with so much grace.
    Also so funny but my little sister got a cat like five years ago and named her Aspyn because she loves her so much😂

  • @emilyalbert545
    @emilyalbert545 4 місяці тому +14

    I love aspyns outlook on being a mama and this was so calming

  • @Meleannieliz
    @Meleannieliz 5 місяців тому +86

    Jess and Gabe did amazing with their baby. How they still show videos with her but never her.

    • @marianocathh
      @marianocathh 4 місяці тому +2

      Omg I was just about to say this! Love them!

  • @sarahtappo
    @sarahtappo 5 місяців тому +25

    I’m turning 20 years old and it’s crazy to think I’ve watched all of you since I was like 10❤

  • @AlyssaAlichie14
    @AlyssaAlichie14 5 місяців тому +49

    NEVER CLICKED SO FAST PLEASE MY CHILDHOOD IS COMPLETE

  • @megandiblasi4431
    @megandiblasi4431 4 місяці тому +2

    Literally never loved her more! We have so many similarities and she’s sooooo relatable ❤ she truly taught me to NOT care about other peoples opinions. Love you aspyn 😊

  • @nicholaswilk8674
    @nicholaswilk8674 4 місяці тому +5

    The chit chat about the past was so nostalgic. Its crazy to think that its been 10+ years but feels like yesterday.

  • @Wiichh-w4f
    @Wiichh-w4f 5 місяців тому +165

    idk how close u are to her but it would be so iconic if u guys could have jenn im on pretty basic 😭😭😭

  • @grace4xo
    @grace4xo 11 днів тому

    Can we have another podcast with Aspyn if y'all repeat guests??? I've watched her for so long, I love how Type A she is because I'm so painfully Type B, and it's sooo cool to hear her talk in a podcast/interview setting/style! 🩷

  • @Readingcornervibes
    @Readingcornervibes 2 місяці тому

    The flashback to Royal Crush is crazy. That is how I first found Aspyn. Went to check when that was - 10 years ago! That means I have been watching Aspyn for 10 years. Crazy.

  • @notpaolapacheco
    @notpaolapacheco 5 місяців тому +9

    this is EVERYTHING i’ve been watching you all since like 5/6th grade and now i’m a freshman in college like I LOVEEE THIS

  • @joannabanana4321
    @joannabanana4321 4 місяці тому +2

    Aspyn is so eloquent and so lovely. She is also so wise! She's giving the best advice.

  • @Christina-Claire
    @Christina-Claire 5 місяців тому +17

    37:52 when I want to sleep but my brain all of a sudden has 10 new ideas

  • @edenlist3887
    @edenlist3887 5 місяців тому +19

    The trio we always knew we needed

  • @wendythebaker
    @wendythebaker 5 місяців тому +7

    So excited that this episode is finally out watching aspyn gush about her daughters was everything and it made me remember my kids as babies so precious.

  • @diannacastro9277
    @diannacastro9277 5 місяців тому +130

    It’s absolutely asinine that people on the internet who don’t know you feel entitled to know things just because you have an internet presence. You don’t owe anyone a shred of thought. What kind of fans says “well I’ve been a fan for long I want to know”.

    • @ΛηδαΑυγερινου-ι3χ
      @ΛηδαΑυγερινου-ι3χ 4 місяці тому +2

      Ikr? It’s absurd.

    • @chloearmenta
      @chloearmenta 4 місяці тому

      I think it’s creepy how people get

    • @TaylorJoHustles
      @TaylorJoHustles 4 місяці тому

      It’s that creepy parasocial relationship thing. It’s such a unique “niche” thing as she says. There isn’t enough research even on this topic to understand parasocial relationships because even though this was happening back in the 80s with celebrities, we now are getting access to like every aspect of influencers lives.
      It’s creepy!! I would never want to be famous online. Especially with kids. Aspyn is so classy and smart to leave her kids off the internet. One of every few mom UA-camrs I have respect for.

  • @Alyssaa948
    @Alyssaa948 4 місяці тому +2

    NO ASPYN!! IT WAS A DIFFERENT TIME!!! It was not your fault and don’t ever blame yourself for that. You are absolutely the most wonderful mother there is!!

  • @jayyykayyyful
    @jayyykayyyful 5 місяців тому +35

    Aspyn's boundries are my FAVORITE thing about her. omg I clicked this video so fast.

  • @CbBundles
    @CbBundles 4 місяці тому +20

    I'm glad that Parker too is now free to date and see what's out there, just like Aspyn.

  • @sonii27
    @sonii27 5 місяців тому +31

    Yay! three queens are in one room! Childhood back instantly

  • @Every.body.nutrition
    @Every.body.nutrition 4 місяці тому +3

    I love this. Maybe it’s just me but it looks like Aspyn is on the verge of tears the entire time.

  • @chanelpace2668
    @chanelpace2668 4 місяці тому +2

    I respect aspyn so much for hearing the criticism of family vloggers and making changes to her channel Ik that transition must’ve been hard. Wishing her healing in her new life chapter tho

  • @kglickyy
    @kglickyy 4 місяці тому +2

    Actually screamed when I saw this!!! Haven’t even listened yet but I have been WAITING to hear from her!

  • @greyskiesartify
    @greyskiesartify 4 місяці тому +4

    I really respect Aspyn for having such strong boundaries!

  • @edenlist3887
    @edenlist3887 5 місяців тому +48

    They’re getting the EXCLUSIVE!!!

  • @jesaann93
    @jesaann93 4 місяці тому +2

    I knew following Aspyn all those years ago was a good idea! 😭 I love her attitude towards everything soooo much!

  • @breannamknight
    @breannamknight 5 місяців тому +17

    this feels like when disney channel had crossovers 😭💕

  • @stephaniebodkin7714
    @stephaniebodkin7714 4 місяці тому

    Little does she realize she basically is the mentor for future influencers❤i think she is doing amazing considering everything she has had to go through and learn!

  • @thaliap3125
    @thaliap3125 5 місяців тому +41

    This podcast felt like 5 minutes 😫😫 I need more!!

  • @tashintomorrowland
    @tashintomorrowland 5 місяців тому +19

    I laughed out loud with the Mormon Wives ad read 😂

  • @lornatw
    @lornatw 4 місяці тому

    It’s really refreshing to see people like Aspyn and Molly Mae dealing with such changes with kids online this way. So graceful ❤

  • @femafull
    @femafull 4 місяці тому +2

    Alisha, Bethany Mota, Aspyn, Nicki and Gaby where like my friends when i was a pre teen

  • @sierraengel6948
    @sierraengel6948 5 місяців тому +19

    what we've alllll been waiting for!!!!!

  • @kelseythecreative
    @kelseythecreative 4 місяці тому

    I relate to Alisha and her moments so much. I see the anxiety and doubt that I see in myself. Thank you so much for keeping those in because it really makes me feel seen. Alisha we love you. Don't doubt yourself.

  • @caitlynknight485
    @caitlynknight485 4 місяці тому

    I truly admire Aspyn from the day I first watched her. She was so sweet and cute and she still is. My love for her and her videos has never changed. She is doing the right thing for her family of not posting her kids. Here’s a thing I love to post and my sister in law doesn’t want me to post her kids. But she gets jealous because I post about my nieces instead. I mean I get it it’s a privacy thing. But anyways I loved that the OG UA-camrs are coming back. I would love to see Bethany Mota on she’s an another UA-camr I grew up watching and wanna know what’s up with her she is a queen and a role model I love her. So please and thank you 😊.

  • @jesswinter
    @jesswinter 4 місяці тому

    I’ve been watching Aspyn for YEARS. I was in middle school when I started watching her and I have a master’s degree now lol. So happy to see her so happy!

  • @Welcome2w0nderlandx
    @Welcome2w0nderlandx 4 місяці тому +4

    This came out at the perfect time. I injured myself and am currently bedridden. Totally putting this on my TV and munching ouuuttttt

  • @salenaschwartz7386
    @salenaschwartz7386 4 місяці тому

    My 3 favorite people 🥹💗 So proud of Aspyn and happy for her!! Would love some house decor hauls or clothing try ons, q&a, what I eat in a day. Anything! Love her so much!

  • @marthadeandaa
    @marthadeandaa 4 місяці тому

    Aspyn has been my queen for over ten years now fr I LOVE HER

  • @missCrazyLaidy12
    @missCrazyLaidy12 4 місяці тому

    Okay the Big Bear tea shook me !! I remember watching all the videos and seeing all the posts about it. I need more info 😂

  • @Janiiii
    @Janiiii 5 місяців тому +9

    This is our sign to set our boundaries like Aspyn!!! ✨👏🏼😊

  • @ashlynnthomas1690
    @ashlynnthomas1690 4 місяці тому

    a self aware queen who wants to protect her daughters and be the best mom she can👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @sarahbuckman9860
    @sarahbuckman9860 4 місяці тому

    LOVED THIS EPISODE 🫶🏻 been watching yall forever

  • @Ari-355
    @Ari-355 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m so glad they finally did this collab ❤❤❤

  • @rickelspickles
    @rickelspickles 5 місяців тому +18

    1:12:07 I love this parenting style!!! I had issues with food because I was forced to do certain things

  • @mon_asmr
    @mon_asmr 5 місяців тому +4

    Loved this episode♥ a video idea for Aspyn that I can think of is to see her taking herself on little solo dates for herself even if they are little moments of her week when she plans easy activities for herself to enjoy (:

  • @kaitlynsmith6762
    @kaitlynsmith6762 4 місяці тому +1

    so iconic. I have been watching you all for like 10 years!!!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @jennaawesomeness172
    @jennaawesomeness172 4 місяці тому

    Just here to show my love and support for these girls! I look up to each and everyone of you ❤

  • @KaylaNatalie
    @KaylaNatalie 4 місяці тому

    I feel like I grew up with all 3 of you and now you’re all together again!

  • @dearcomrade2358
    @dearcomrade2358 4 місяці тому

    i used to think that aspyn was the most beautiful girl ever. she looks even more beautiful now! so rich with life and experiences and wisdom.

  • @kaylapittman
    @kaylapittman 5 місяців тому +7

    ive been waiting for this ep since they announced she was coming on!!! love aspyn

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok 4 місяці тому

    I am glad to see Aspyn back with the same youtubers she used to collab with, it's like we've come full circle. I hope she enjoys her single era ^-^

  • @mackenzieheine7729
    @mackenzieheine7729 5 місяців тому +26

    BEYOND EXCITED TO LISTEN!!!

  • @lu45728
    @lu45728 5 місяців тому +2

    I started watching aspyn when I was 14, now I’m almost 24!! Crazy

  • @juliadesiderio1734
    @juliadesiderio1734 4 місяці тому

    Aspyn should do like a series exploring her new area, nothing too close to her house ig but like going to the beaches or cafes or parks or shops near her, nothing that gives too much away but just like a “being a tourist in my own city” video/series