Adjusting to Student Life After Balcony Accident at Student Concert

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  • @Leesion73
    @Leesion73 6 років тому +50

    Hey beautiful Bailley! My name is Lee, Im a C5-6 Quad using a manual chair in which I earned 2 degrees from a prominent US University, I've been injured 30 years, I'm years old 45 now, live alone in a house I renovated, I work as a licensed therapist with my own practice, you are doing SO well, please know you are doing it 'right', your mind and body will take you far, embrace your youth, protect your shoulders, congratulations on an incredible recovery, live well and be happy!

    • @endtimeawakening5557
      @endtimeawakening5557 3 роки тому +2

      Awesome advice Lee. I'm in my 20th year as a T6 level injury. You sound like a real go-getter! It does my heart good to see those that persevere and excell to amazing heights with so much acting against them. These are Truly strong people, such as yourself and young Bailley. Take care Lee, God bless you!!!

  • @agadorisabel
    @agadorisabel 6 років тому +23

    I think you will be a great occupational therapist and I’m so pleased that you are so supported by great people.

  • @AspieAnswers
    @AspieAnswers 6 років тому +6

    Bailey, you're an amazingly strong, young woman with a lot of potential. I can see that you'll go far and that you'll achieve everything with the right people and support you've got from others. All the best for your dream of being an occupational therapist and l pray that doors will open for you in this field.

  • @dancenutcracker7502
    @dancenutcracker7502 6 років тому +11

    I’m so sorry this happened to you Bailley! But you are so strong and handling it amazingly well!

  • @makalaka123
    @makalaka123 6 років тому +5

    BAILLEYS POSITIVE ATTITUDE IS SOOOO INSPIRING!!! bless her and her journey to recovery 💙

  • @Flint1545
    @Flint1545 6 років тому +21

    Holy smokes. Girl is strong! She’s almost able to pull herself up with her arms. Even bodybuilders struggle with that.

  • @susanrachel5583
    @susanrachel5583 5 років тому +2

    Such an amazing strong women and all the life accomplishments you have made and so much more in her future ! Wow that car lift is fantastic ..all the best Hailey !

  • @debraodonnell4253
    @debraodonnell4253 4 роки тому +3

    Keep strong sweet heart 💚 U will achieve everything U want U are so strong stay positive from Deb in Australia

  • @caelhik
    @caelhik 4 роки тому +1

    Kia Kaha, all I have to say, two humble words

  • @ambergreen6714
    @ambergreen6714 6 років тому +5

    See how the news is. This is why I don't video things like This or comment on horrible posts when ppl are commenting they don't think about the family or the person might read it. And how it's horrible for them. Thank you for sharing your story to us.

  • @laurienewman7180
    @laurienewman7180 6 років тому +3

    You are beautiful and an inspiration to everyone that hears your story .love your bike,super cool!❤️

  • @reemaxx2080
    @reemaxx2080 6 років тому +3

    You are brave and very beautiful
    Thank you for doing this 🌷

  • @debblackmore7460
    @debblackmore7460 2 роки тому

    Keep going doing amazing things stay strong stay safe takecare sending luck hugs love from headway Nottingham UK takecare xxx

  • @gourmet2276
    @gourmet2276 4 роки тому +2

    Bailey is so strong

  • @todydn
    @todydn 5 років тому +9

    I barely feel safe on my apartment balcony alone let alone with 20 other people the people on those balconies are to blame

    • @suecollado8696
      @suecollado8696 4 роки тому +1

      💓It’s the people that allowed that many people to go on those balconies who are to blame, it was an accident waiting to happen💓

    • @lorriefinley3129
      @lorriefinley3129 3 роки тому

      @ Sue Colloado #1. There was no one there to say anything about the deck capacity. #2. Looking back it would have behooved the Landlord to have a sign directly inside the door with the maximum deck capacity. #3. 20 year olds are known to ignore the rules. #4.There was several decks but only one fell. Was it a structural issue with that deck, did it have previous damage or was that deck more overloaded than the others? Is it possible to know?
      There are so many questions, no easy answers. But unfortunately, Bailey's logic is incorrect when she asks," If that many people can fit, then shouldn't it be OK?" The answer is, no, because 20 year olds aren't invincible.

  • @NA-lu4qk
    @NA-lu4qk 3 роки тому +1

    Wow I would love an update?
    Such a beautiful family 💜

  • @keztukariri
    @keztukariri Рік тому

    How did i not know about this! Youre amazing Bailey, hope everything's going great for you ❤❤❤

  • @itsmelive
    @itsmelive 3 роки тому +1

    So...The doctors didn't tell her what they clearly knew from the first scans??? Bailley, I think it's so cool you're going to be an OT!!!! (In my line of work I meet a lot of them.) Your unique perspective and passion for accessible and compassionate treatment is going to be such a blessing for any clients you work with.

    • @sopyleecrypt6899
      @sopyleecrypt6899 3 роки тому +1

      I got the impression they told her mum but not Bailey.

    • @lorriefinley3129
      @lorriefinley3129 3 роки тому +1

      @ Olivia Raney they may have but in her condition, it probably hadn't sunk in.

  • @SASLnk
    @SASLnk 4 роки тому +2

    Yeahhhhh! OTs for the win! Would like to see an update. Have you finished your studies? Which area of OT are you most interested in?
    All the best Bailley!

  • @margepaz
    @margepaz 5 років тому +12

    Weird the other decks stayed full. I would have been back off the deck immediately

    • @lorriefinley3129
      @lorriefinley3129 3 роки тому

      @ Marge Las like her mom said, "20 year olds think they are1invincible."

  • @endtimeawakening5557
    @endtimeawakening5557 3 роки тому

    Be strong young Bailley! Your Spirit is so beautiful and full of life. These bodies are breakable and temporal, but our Spirits are Eternal, never ending. The Awesome Creator that made us designed us just like Himself, Eternal. I can't explain why He put us in these physical fallible bodies but there are reasons for everything. The important thing is our Spiritual relationship with Him. Christ came to make a way for His Spirit to once again live within man/woman. I didn't discover this amazing Truth until later in life. The young people that discover this information will have an incredible life ahead of them. All the best to you Bailley, God bless you!!!

  • @eduardopadilla5505
    @eduardopadilla5505 6 років тому +6

    Great Bailley! go your way and dont stop no matter what!!

  • @annazaman9657
    @annazaman9657 6 років тому +9

    There were too many people on the balcony

    • @susanrachel5583
      @susanrachel5583 5 років тому +6

      anna zaman and still after it happened they were all the up there ..the police & fire department should of told them to get off immediately! Shocking 😳

    • @lorriefinley3129
      @lorriefinley3129 3 роки тому +1

      @ Susan Rachel Most likely the LEOs did but they had much more pressing things to do then haul them off. And as Bailey's mom said, "20 year olds think they are invincible."

    • @lorriefinley3129
      @lorriefinley3129 3 роки тому

      @anna zaman Yes, there were.

  • @LessThanThree76
    @LessThanThree76 5 років тому +2

    She got some serieous arm strenght. 😱👌

  • @reemaxx2080
    @reemaxx2080 6 років тому +4

    I like the way you dress !! So beautiful so elegant 👌🏻

  • @smiley78410
    @smiley78410 3 роки тому

    I am in a wheelchair if people say poor you or other things I said I'm thankful the hospital system (live in Australia)

  • @lorriefinley3129
    @lorriefinley3129 3 роки тому

    I liked the line " I'm just like you except I'm sitting."
    Yeah, Bailey, you're only Differently Abled! And everyone else is Temporarily Able Bodied.

  • @bridgetnewson-mcnally8240
    @bridgetnewson-mcnally8240 4 роки тому +2

    Wow so beautiful ❤ would love to know how she is going with her degree.

  • @annazaman9657
    @annazaman9657 6 років тому +4

    What is their accent? I cannot understand half what they're saying

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 років тому +4

      Ha! We Kiwi's get that a lot Anna but we can assure you it's English. New Zealand is way down the bottom corner of the globe but you're more than welcome to visit.

    • @LessThanThree76
      @LessThanThree76 5 років тому +1

      Try watching with subs. That sure helped me. // confused swede 😅👍

    • @lorriefinley3129
      @lorriefinley3129 3 роки тому

      @ Anna zaman Use Captioning if you have trouble.

  • @MilesCobbett
    @MilesCobbett 3 роки тому

    Your hank trike looks cool

  • @khaleesithebeardeddragonan261
    @khaleesithebeardeddragonan261 3 роки тому

    I knew it as soon as I saw them balcony just all the people on it I said one of them was going to fall and then it happens wow

  • @morgancalvi6675
    @morgancalvi6675 4 роки тому

    'Could it have been prevented'? That is kind of a moot point now, isn't it? Besides, there were WAY too many people on that balcony. Even if the building codes were up to snuff, you have to admit wood would not hold that amount of weight. I am a C4 incomplete...but you have to not blame certain things and just look at it realistically. Actually, Bailey, don't feel guilty...at least you were smart enough to be on the ground.

  • @bobshilling4476
    @bobshilling4476 3 роки тому +1

    Such a strong young lady the band should be ashamed of themselves for the safety measures that were not taken during that show , will never listen to that band again

    • @lorriefinley3129
      @lorriefinley3129 3 роки тому

      @ Bob Shilling the band has no say off the main area which this appeared to be.

  • @violettaplatar8341
    @violettaplatar8341 6 років тому +2

    Is the level of injury mentioned?

    • @rachaelkowald9409
      @rachaelkowald9409 6 років тому +1

      No it's not, but the physio mentions that she doesn't have any core muscles so maybe a thoracic break?

    • @violettaplatar8341
      @violettaplatar8341 6 років тому +2

      Thanks Rachel. She does actually have core muscle strength, it is a lower back injury. She is a wonderful person.

  • @ronshaw1955
    @ronshaw1955 6 років тому +3

    Sorry if this upsets people but this video made me very angry and I 'disliked' it. And it's not a serve at Bailey for the stupidity that led to the accident. But apart from the ACC logo at the very end of the video there was no mention of the hundreds of thousands of dollars spent by ACC on rehabilitation, house modifications at both her parent's house and at her flat, multiple wheelchairs for different purposes, a wheelchair bike, a modern fully adapted car etc. etc. No thanks for the ACC Case Manager(s) who made all of that happen. No mention that if the accident had happened anywhere else it would have required litigation to get a fraction of what was provided. I'm sure she'll make a great OT and it's a great career choice. But New Zealanders need to stop bagging ACC and start appreciating it.

    • @bettywith2girls
      @bettywith2girls 4 роки тому

      Wow. Sounds like she was taken care of well. I am from the U.S. and we would have had to sue the school to get enough money to live. That car that delivered her wheelchair from the trunk to the driver's seat was amazing! I'm glad she was taken care of by the ACC. God bless.

    • @baza0
      @baza0 3 роки тому +1

      The problem is, ACC legally discriminates against disabled people who don't have accidents.
      1960's thinking was that there are worthy/ deserving disabled and the unworthy/ undeserving disabled people.
      Most disabled people in NZ live in poverty and die long before they get the big increase in income that people over 65 get.
      What makes this woman more worthy of support?
      All disabled people should be supported.
      ACC are despicable people.