I am also diagnosed with depression last month hearing this kind of stories scares me it feels like many youngsters are fighting, I prey that everyone of us go past this time and see a better day Salute to this strong parents for helping others with the same problem may your soul rest in peace Kidus
God be with you. Please know that Jesus loves you and He died for you so you can have an ethernal life and abundent peace in this world. Please get closer to him and he will take all your burden and he will give you all the peace you need. Just seek him and invite him to your life. Please Please be willing to give him a place in your heart. I will pray for you.
Always take your medication as directed and never to stop unless instructed by your physician. We know certain medications help. We still don’t know the cause. The most likely explanation is chemical unbalance. Always remember, things aren’t as bad as they seem and that your well being is important to many people, even to me whom you never met. That you are not alone and this, too, shall pass.
It’s heart warming to see you work to ease the pain of others in spite of what has happened to you. God bless you and I wish there are more people like you out there.
Sorry for your loss. What a wonder famiiy ! Though depression is a combination of environmental and genetic/mental hormonal imbalance sometimes the mental hormonal issue so strong making it difficult to treat . It is also true sometimes treatment intally makes the symptoms worse including sucide. Condolences to the family..
RIP . I never understand suicide. Death is permanent. I dont want to die before my time. I want to stay alive so i can watch my favorite tv show when a new season comes out next year. It seems stupid but it is my wish to stay alive. I want to hear when Adele releases a new song. She helps me to stay alive. Simple things. I want to travel the world. If im dead i can’t do that. People need a reason to stay alive.
Good for you that you are so awesome.. No need to brag around. If you don't understand mental health just shut up and take your idiot self away. No body care how you are and why you want to live.
Omg really.. Are you a teenager? Is this a purpose of life or you don't have a goal in life??? find a meaningful way to become better......also adel should not be your roll model if you are Ethiopian... So many thing you can do to feel better from your pain but I am not going to stop you from what you doing tho...
I am sorry, I think you have undiagnosed depression yourself. What happens if the TV series is cancelled or ended? What happens if Adel stops singing? That shouldn't be your goal in life or a reason for living. It's actually sad.. I have depression too/mostly low mood but I was never ever suicidal... I'm just having difficulty finding my goal and have pation deficiency. I do think that when people end their life, it must be so bad for them to the point that they think they have no way out in this world. So I never ever understand that. There is always a way. There is always a better day. So i advise you kindly to review your life goals as you may find yourself depressed if you have not already. And just find another coping mechanism. Good luck
@@rahwa138 LoL Thank you for the quick misdiagnosis. Just because you are struggling doesn’t mean we all are. If my show ends , adios it has ended. Im not gonna kill myself over it. I move on to the next one. The same goes to Adele.i will move on to the next artist.The point of my life is not to be an idle / remain stuck in never ending loop.
Endet endemyanaded eko mesmat yetefelwgew neger sayesema seker! Betam yabesachal eko! This very common now in our people. When you listen you will get so much wisdom. Mastewal yesten lela men yebalal!🙏👊👍
May he rest in peace.May God comfort you................. As someone in the 20's and experienced a mental disorder at sometime in my life .i can say that 20's is an age where we may experience depression because of a lot of resons and ask a lot of questions in our life and when we want to get reasonable answers to the questions we will face .this questions can even be existential questions,religious questons ......and this are actually the major questions that should get answered in some way and the way we can know why we are created and how we should live ..... living in the Ethiopian community has more better access to get this knowledge and Ethiopians living abroad need to take their children to religious organizations to let them learn .Cause Even if we have everything this world can offer but there would be a sense of emptyness which not even psychiatry can answer or get solution to that.
I have experienced loss of my daughter in college, which they told me it is suicidal. Only God knows what happens. Which I am dealing each day with my loss which is difficult. What I want to say to you is be open to your family tell what you are feeling. When negative thoughts are coming, say no to those and think about your dad/mom, or other families who loves you. Nothing might not interest you, but you will be fine if you try to be patient. As you said, talk to religious people or groups. Remember there are people who loves you ❤
Egzabher yatsnanachehu. "Don't waste your pain." Tiru mikir yimeslegnal. Passing through pain wisely develops character leading to PURPOSE everyone of us have been created to do. Joseph story from the Bible is a good example.
You guys bless you have each other and friends and family I'm alone Except My God he keeps me shelled from all mental and all tenement just have your God okay I lost from 16-21 hard work and love the children I love more than in this world but I here I just say you okay consetreta the one you have on hands
When I see his graduation’s picture I can see his sad eyes instead happiness, It is so sickening to think as mother with so much fear what will happen to our young adult kids especially after the Covid the one working at home 😂 just pray God creat us for his purposes and they are not ours we don’t owns them they just growing through us. Almighty is with you❤❤❤❤
depression doesn't come overnight there will definitely be a history then a trigger.Habesha parents knowingly or unknowingly push kids through their desire be it career religion sexuality or even choosing a partner it has to be their way no wonder these kids are sick the community needs to wake up and address this issues openly I am sure these parents are good and they were trying their best for their kid am not judging but why was the kid still in school while he still was struggling for his mental health??? health comes first then school why didn't he stop school and be in close sight where he can be looked after and treated for his illness?? and the dad said he was ok 2 weeks ago mate do u know about mental illness you can be ok an hour ago still unalive urself after that mental health needs alot of awareness am surprised with this given his mother is a doctor even if she wasn't a psychologist nor psychiatrist that should have ring a bell you don't beat mental illness such as depression and anxiety with medicines only the key element is awareness and practising that awareness not only for the patient but also for the people surrounding the patient in this instance the parents and it takes time he told you 6months ago and you guys thought it must have disappeared no! it takes time perhaps years probably before he told you he held it inside for years too when he tells you is when you act quick you don't send him back to school you read you research and you take decision not leave it in his hands am not blaming but i am talking within my own experience
Too much judgment. They could have done anything and the out come could have been the same. Don't blame them please. They have been through alot. I am sure they have done all to there knowledge. Beyond and above probably? I am not sure by what you mean he should had not gone to school. Are you suggesting he should had been sitting around with no activity ? They said he has been seen by a doctor. They have been following his doctor recommendation obviously. Please be sensitive and respectful. I guess you are not a parent ...for you to pass all this judgment on them.
@@titibibi that wasn't a judgement I mentioned some cultural flaws living in a western society as well as issues of mental illness awareness which is always a sensitive issue to most Habesha people you prefer to live in denial than reality in your ignorant world depression is laziness that will fade away on its own in time and when someone tries to enlighten you you react some type of way but your adverse reaction can not be a solution the solution is open dialogue and acknowledging the real issue you guys always deflect from reality parenting blah blah no one talked about parenting here except you
@fetyamohamed7458 nothing to do with knowledge awarness is all it takes I mainly linked their case to our community most of the time in our community mental illness is highly underestimated that's the highlight of the comment don't activate your defence mode just for the sake of replying bring something to the table
@@Hayat79725You might have a point. Maybe he should have continued with counselling…as mental health takes long time to heal, Sometimes we think of accomplishment instead of well-being. But there is no guidelines for parenthood. We just have to do the best we can. And they did. May his Soul Rest In Peace. My Condolences to the family. One day at a time ….. A song by Lynda Randle. One day at a time, sweet Jesus Thats all I'm asking of You Just give me the strength to do everyday What I have to do Yesterday's gone, sweet Jesus And tomorrow may never be mine God help me today Show me the way One day at a time I'm only human I'm just a woman Help me believe in what I could be And all that I am Oh, show me the stairway That I have to climb Lord, for my sake, teach me to take One day at a time. God bless you.
ነፍሱን ይማር እፍ በጣም ጠንካራ ቤተሰብ ትልቅ መልክት ነው ያስተላለፋችሁት በርቱ እግዚያብሄር ያበርታቹ ያፅናችሁ
ነፍስ ይማር! ጠንካራ ቤተሰቦች ናቹ፣ ለብዙዎቻችን ብርታት ሆኗቹሃል ጽናታቹ ብዙዎችን ያበረታል። በርቱ፣ አግዚአብሔር በስራው ሁሉ ስለማይሳሳት፣ ብዙ Kidus legacy አፍርታቹሃል።
እጂግ አሳዛኝ ገነር ግን በጣም መካሪና አስተማሪነው።ሰይፉ ከቀልድ ባሻገር ያለህን ማንነት ተረድተናል።ወላጆቹን ግን ከዚህም በላይ ያበርታልን።
እኔን ባጣም ያሳዘነኘ ቅዱስ እጅግ ብሩህ አእምሮ ነበር ያለው። እናቱን ስለ እምነቷ የጠቃት ጥያቄ ለአብዛኛው ያአለም ህዝብ ያልተገለፅ ነው። ሁሉም በጭፍን ነው ከቤተሰቡ ስላገኘው ብቻ እምነቱን የሚከተለው። እንደዚህ ጥልቅ የማስተዋል ችለሎታ ያለው ልጅ ያችን ቀን ማለፍ ለምን ....................ብቻ ልቤን ነክቶታል!
Don’t ask why? Especially for religion because we can’t find answer to everything guys, be blind believer ❤
ወላጅ የሚፈተንበት ትልቅ መከራ ነው ግን እግዚአብሔር አዋቂ ነው ልጃችሁ ነብሱ በገነት ትረፍ 🙏🏾 ወላጆችም ቀሪ ዘመናችሁ መልካም ይሁን
ፈጣሪ ነብሱን ይማራት።በስሙ የጀመራቹህትን የበጎ ፈቃድ ፕሮጀክቶችም አምላክ እረድቷቹህ ያሰባቹሁበት ያድርስላቹህ። በእውነት ልጆች ላላቸው ብቻ ሳይሆን ለሁሉም የሚሆን ምክር ነው የሰጣቹህን።
I am also diagnosed with depression last month hearing this kind of stories scares me it feels like many youngsters are fighting, I prey that everyone of us go past this time and see a better day
Salute to this strong parents for helping others with the same problem may your soul rest in peace Kidus
May God bless you. Please talk to your friend and your family about it .
How about adult depression 🫥 I have lot its hard
God be with you. Please know that Jesus loves you and He died for you so you can have an ethernal life and abundent peace in this world. Please get closer to him and he will take all your burden and he will give you all the peace you need. Just seek him and invite him to your life. Please Please be willing to give him a place in your heart. I will pray for you.
Always take your medication as directed and never to stop unless instructed by your physician. We know certain medications help. We still don’t know the cause. The most likely explanation is chemical unbalance.
Always remember, things aren’t as bad as they seem and that your well being is important to many people, even to me whom you never met. That you are not alone and this, too, shall pass.
I am proud of my sister and brother for making this devastating loss meaningful. Very inspirational! Much respect and love!
Daniel Tesfaye
መልካም ቤተሰብ እግዚአብሔር ፈፅሞ ያፅናችው። ሀዘን ሁላችንም ቤት ገብታል። ከእናንተ ግን ብዙ ትምህርት ነው የወሰድኩት። የበጎነት ፅናት።
ለወላጅ ልጅን ማጣት ቀላል እንዳልሆነ ለመገመት የግድ ወላጅ መሆን አያስፈልግም:: ፈጣሪ ብርታቱን ይስጣችሁ! May his soul rest in eternal peace!
@@yilmakidane110በጣም ትክክል መውለድ ግዴታ አይደለም ሰው በሰውነቱ እራሱን ሆኖ መገኘት አለበት/ያልወለዱትን ጨቃኝ ማድረግ አሰፈላጊ አይደለም።ጽናቱን ይሰጣቹ ።
እጅግ በጣም፣ልብ፣ያደማል፣ነፍስ ይማር።
It’s heart warming to see you work to ease the pain of others in spite of what has happened to you. God bless you and I wish there are more people like you out there.
አሜሪካ ነው ያለሁት 2 ልጅ አለኝ እንዲ ስሰማ ሁሌም እፈራለው እግዚአብሔር ይጠብቀን እግዚአብሔር ያፅናቹ🙏🏽🙏🏽ምንም ይሁን ልጆቻችንን መረዳት መቻል አለብን እግዚአብሔር ይጠብቅልን
ልጆችሽን ወደሀይማኖት መውሰድ እና ስችዩ ስችዩ ፅበል መውሰድ
Eg,/r endsete meleso lerasu adera mesetete new bezeh zemen lelejochachien hulu neger kebade new
Tikikil bilachihuwal Amen Amen Amen
@@eatsaladwell1033 የሚገርምሽ ልጆችን መጫን ነው ብዙ መስዋት የሚያስከፍለው እና ሳናቀው ባህል እምነት እያልን ከእነሱ ጋር መግባባት አልቻልንም ሳናስበው እያጣናቸው ያለነው 1 መምረጥ ወይም እኩል ማስኬድ አቅቶን ነው ብቻ ፈጣሪ ይጠብቃቸው
አሜን!!
አግዚአብሔር ብርታት ጥንካሬን ይስጣችሁ።
የጀመራችሁትንም መልካም ስራ እግዚአብሔር ያሳካላችሁ።
ጽናቱ ይስጣችሑ የሁሉም ስደት ላይ ያለ ወላጅ ስጋት ነው ፈጣሪ ይርዳ
ጠንካራ ቤተሰብ ነው እግዚአብሔር ይርዳችሁ እንዲሁም ያፅናችሁ
እ/ር ጽናቱ ይስጣቹ በጣም ያማል ቅድሴ በገነት ያንረው 🇪🇷🇬🇧🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
በጣም ያሳዝናል ይህ ነገር በኛም ቤት ገጥሞናል ነገር በጣም ግራ ያጋባል እሄ ነው የሚባል ነገር የለም በጣም ጥናት የሚፈልግ ነገር ነው
የልጅ ሀዘን ከባድ ያፅናችሁ
የሚያበረታው እግዚአብሔር መንፈስቅዱስ ያበርታችሁ❤። እዚህ ሀገር ፈተና ሆኗል ይሄ ነገር 😢
እጅግ በጣም አስተማሪ ፕሮግራም ነው በመዝናኛ ነገሮች የተሸፈኑ ብዙ ችግሮችን አሉና ቆም ብለን ወደ ራሳችን እንመልከት።
እግዚአብሄር ያጽናችሁ 🙏🏽 የጀመራችሁትን መልካም ስራ እግዚአብሄር ያከናውንላችሁ::
የልጃችሁን የቅዱስን ነፍስ እግዚአብሔር በገነት ያኑረው እናንተንም ፈጣሪ ያበርታችሁ !!!
ስሙ እንዲጠራ እንዲታወስ ያደረጋችሁት ውጤቱ የተዋጣ እንዲሆን የሁላችንም ምኞት ነው ።
እግዚአብሄር ያፅናችሁ የልጅ ሀዘን ለቤተሠብከባድ ነው
ለኔ ነው ልበል በጣም ምወደው ወንድሜ በጣም ቤተሰቡን አፍቃሪ ሀገር አፍቃሪ ደካሞችን ሚረዳ እናት አባቱን ሚወድ በቅርብ አጣሁት😭😭😭😭ትልቅ ሀዘን ላይ ነን
እመብርሀን የልብሽን ሀዘን ታቅልልልሽ😢
@@ituneethiopia8427 amen 😭😭kbade nwe
እግዚአብሔር ያፅናናችሁ
Egziabher yathnachu
ጌታ እየሱስ እቅፍ ድግፍ ያድርጋቹ
ህይወትን የሚያጣፍጠው በችግር እና በመከራ ሲታለፍ ነው ስለዚህ ፅናቱን ይስጣችሁ my condolences to your family !
እግዚአብሔር ነፍሱን ይማረው እግዚአብሔር ነፍሱን አፀደ ገነት ያኑረው ።እግዚአብሔር ሰጠ እግዚአቦሔር ነሳ። ሌላ አለም ከዚህ የተሻለ አለም አለ ማንም ሰው ምድር ላይ ለዘለአለም አይኖርም
ሁሉም ሲደርስበት ነው የሚያውቀው: ከባድ ነው እኔም በቤተሰብ ደርሶብኛል እግዚአብሔር ያበርታችሁ
ነፍሱን ይማርልን። እስከመጨረሻው እግዚአብሔር አምላክ ፍጹም መፅናናትን ይስጣችሁ። በጣም አስተማሪዎች ናችሁ። እግዚአብሔር ይባርካችሁ።
Immense respect to a very strong and wise Mother !
ልክ ነሽ እህቴ ምንም አይረሳም ለስዐት ለደቂቃ ግን መኖር መብላት ሙጡጣት መልበሱ ግድ ነው ከልብ እይጡፉንም ሁሌ ከኛ ናቸው!!!
ጌታ ሰላበረታቹ ጌታ ይመሰገን መንፈሰ ቅዱሰ ያፅናናል ሰሙም አፅናኝ ነው እኔንም ያፅናናኝ መንፈሰ ቅዱሰ ነው 2015 በዚህ አይነት ኬዝ ሁለት ልጅ ነው ያጣሁት
እግዚአብሔር አምላክ የእዮብን ትእግስት ሁሉንም አጥቶ የሚያመሰገን የሱን ጽናት ይስጣችሁ በበረከት ይጎብኛችሁ
አላህ ጽናቱን ይስጣችሁ ልጅን ማጣት ከባድ ነው እንያ አባት ያሉት ትክክል ነው ለመጽናናትም የሚጠቅም ነገር ነው ከ ስድስቱ የእስልምና የእምነት መሰረቶች አንዱ በቀዱአ እና ቀደር ማመን ነው ይህም ማለት በህይወታችን ውስጥ የሚከሰቱ ጥሩም ይሁን መጥፎ ክስተቶች ገና እኛ በእናታችን ማህጸን የአራት ወር አካባቢ ጌታችን አላህ ቀድሞ የጻፋቸው ናቸው
እግዛብሄር ያጽናችሁ😢ይደግፉችሁ
እግዚአብሔር ያፅናችሁ ጠንካራ ቤተሰብ ናችሁ። ዝም ብዬ ግን ሳስበው ሁሉም ነገር የተሟላለትልጅ ነገን አይጓጓም ነገ ተምሬ ሰርቼ ለናቴ ይሄን አድርጌ ለአባቴ ይሄን ገዝቼለት አይልም ሁሉም ሟልቷላ ለምን እማራለሁ ተምሬስ ምን እሰራለሁ ለመኖር የሚያስፈልኝ ሁሉ በቤቴ አለኝ ብሎ ስልችት የሚላቸው ይመስለኛል።
.please read Jhon 5:28
እግዚአብሔር ያፅናችሁ ግብዞች እግዚአብሔር የሚወደውን ነው እየስራችሁ ያለው ነፍሱን በገነት ያኑረው
በጣም በጣም ያሳዝናል !! እግዚአብሔር ያፅናቹሁ !!
ነብስ ይማር እግዚአብሔር ያፅናናችሁ 🖤
Seifu I Am Appreciated For You Seifu You Are Wonderful
My prayers and condolences are with the family. MAY HE REST IN PEACE .
ለንሰሀ እና ለስጋው ደሙ ያብቃቹ: እግዚአብሔር ፅናቱን ይስጣቹ
ማረግ የምትችሉትን ሁሉ አርጋችኋል. But Kdus was too good for this world. ቅዱስ ከልዑል እግዚያብሄርጋ ነው
እሰይ. እኳን. ያፀናኸ. እግዚአብሔር. ደግሞ. ደጋግሞ. ያፅናችሁ. ❤❤❤
እግዛቤሔር ያበርታችሁ።
ሞት እራሱ ለምን አይገለነም ለምን እራሳችንን አጥፉ ይለናል? ምክንያቱም ይሄ ሞት እግዚአብሔር የላከው አይደለም ግን ሰይጣን እርኩስ ነዉና እሱ ቢገለን አንተ ገደልክ ሊባል ነው ስለዚህ የሰዉን ልጂ እራሱን በራሱ አጥፍቶ ሲኦል እንዲገባ ነው ሀሳቡ። ይሄ ሀሳብ ደሞ የሚመጣብን የእግዚአብሔር ቅዱስ መንፈስ ሲለየን ነው ስለዚህ ቀናችንን ዉሎአችንን ከእግዚአብሔር ጋ ካደረግን ጪንቀት ቦታ የለዉም። በተረፈ መምህር ተስፋየ አበራን አዳምጡ። የድንግል ልጂ ቅዱስ እግዚአብሔር ይቅረበን። እሱ አለሁ ይበለን። አሜን!
ወይኔ እንዴት ያሳዝናል😭 ይሄን የመሰለ ልጅ ኡፍፍፍ...
Both of you are strong rest in peace
I am sorry, It must be very hard to lose a child, your pain is ours, we feel you Kudus family, Ajokum Ajokum. Rest in peace Kudus.
May God give you the strength and courage to pull through this tragedy...May his young Soul rest in eternity.
ነፍስ ይማር
ዝም ብዬ ሳስበው አባት ሐዘን ጠንከር የምታደርግ ይመስለኛል የቤቱን ባላውቅም ጥሩ ሚስት አለችህ በተቻለህ መጠን ወጣ ደግሞ ዕያደረጋችሁ ያለው ነገር ትልቅ ነገር ነው ከዚህ በኋላ እሱን በማጣታችሁ ማዘን ሳይሆን በሱ ስም በምታደርጉት ነገር መደሰት ነው ይገባኛል ምክር ቀላል ነው ይህን እያፃፍኩ ከልጅህ ጋር የተነሰህውን ፎቶ ሳየው እንባዬ መጣ ግን ይበቃችሁል ከዚህ በላይ መዘን እግዚአብሔርንም ማስቀየም ነው ሀዘኑ በውስጣችን አለ አትበሉ በምታደርጉለት ነገር ተደሰቱ ።
መዳኒቱ እራሱ እራስን ማጥፋት ያበረታታል፣ ቤተ ክርስቲያን እና መንፈሳዊ ትምህርት የበለጠ ውጤት አለው።
ልጅ ማጣት ያውም በዚህ ሁኔታ አቀዋለው ከባድ ነው ፈጣር የውስጣችንን እመም ያቅልልን
May God Give U Comfort.
ልጆች እራሳቸው የመረጡትን የሙያ ዘርፍ እንዲማሩ እድሉን ስጧቸው ዶክተር ,እንጅነር ካልሆንክ እያሉ ማጨናነቅም
R I P ,very beautifull family be strong , God bless this family
መንፍሳዊ ህይወት ማስተማር አለብን ልጃችን አለበለዚያ አጋንት ማደሬያ እንወናለን ሊላ ምክንያት የለም
አንድ የዮኒቨርስቲ ተማሪ ዲፐሬሽን ካለበት መማር ይችላል?????????
የልጅ ሞት ከባድ ነው እግዚአብሔር ያፅናቹ
Sorry for your loss. What a wonder famiiy ! Though depression is a combination of environmental and genetic/mental hormonal imbalance sometimes the mental hormonal issue so strong making it difficult to treat . It is also true sometimes treatment intally makes the symptoms worse including sucide. Condolences to the family..
RIP . I never understand suicide. Death is permanent. I dont want to die before my time. I want to stay alive so i can watch my favorite tv show when a new season comes out next year. It seems stupid but it is my wish to stay alive. I want to hear when Adele releases a new song. She helps me to stay alive. Simple things. I want to travel the world. If im dead i can’t do that. People need a reason to stay alive.
Good for you that you are so awesome.. No need to brag around. If you don't understand mental health just shut up and take your idiot self away. No body care how you are and why you want to live.
Omg really.. Are you a teenager? Is this a purpose of life or you don't have a goal in life??? find a meaningful way to become better......also adel should not be your roll model if you are Ethiopian... So many thing you can do to feel better from your pain but I am not going to stop you from what you doing tho...
I am sorry, I think you have undiagnosed depression yourself. What happens if the TV series is cancelled or ended? What happens if Adel stops singing? That shouldn't be your goal in life or a reason for living. It's actually sad.. I have depression too/mostly low mood but I was never ever suicidal... I'm just having difficulty finding my goal and have pation deficiency. I do think that when people end their life, it must be so bad for them to the point that they think they have no way out in this world. So I never ever understand that. There is always a way. There is always a better day. So i advise you kindly to review your life goals as you may find yourself depressed if you have not already. And just find another coping mechanism. Good luck
@@rahwa138 LoL
Thank you for the quick misdiagnosis. Just because you are struggling doesn’t mean we all are. If my show ends , adios it has ended. Im not gonna kill myself over it. I move on to the next one. The same goes to Adele.i will move on to the next artist.The point of my life is not to be an idle / remain stuck in never ending loop.
@@ituneethiopia8427 lol ok doc.
እግዛብሄር ያፅናችሁ ህመሙን አቀዋለሁ
የህቴን ልጅ ያጣሁት በተመሳሳይ ሁኔታ ነው
ፍላጎትህ ሙሉ እንዲሆን ፈጣሪህን ጠይቅ ።
Very sad to hear such accidental death. You are a good example to others
Seifu sometimes you don’t have patience to listen your guest. The father wanted to say more but you cut him off a couple of times.
Endet endemyanaded eko mesmat yetefelwgew neger sayesema seker! Betam yabesachal eko! This very common now in our people. When you listen you will get so much wisdom. Mastewal yesten lela men yebalal!🙏👊👍
Uufff yene enat fetari betam yasaznal. Fetari yirdash.
May his soul Rest In Peace
Ewnet bezu welaj yemarbetal
May he rest in peace.May God comfort you................. As someone in the 20's and experienced a mental disorder at sometime in my life .i can say that 20's is an age where we may experience depression because of a lot of resons and ask a lot of questions in our life and when we want to get reasonable answers to the questions we will face .this questions can even be existential questions,religious questons ......and this are actually the major questions that should get answered in some way and the way we can know why we are created and how we should live ..... living in the Ethiopian community has more better access to get this knowledge and Ethiopians living abroad need to take their children to religious organizations to let them learn .Cause Even if we have everything this world can offer but there would be a sense of emptyness which not even psychiatry can answer or get solution to that.
I have experienced loss of my daughter in college, which they told me it is suicidal. Only God knows what happens. Which I am dealing each day with my loss which is difficult. What I want to say to you is be open to your family tell what you are feeling. When negative thoughts are coming, say no to those and think about your dad/mom, or other families who loves you. Nothing might not interest you, but you will be fine if you try to be patient. As you said, talk to religious people or groups. Remember there are people who loves you ❤
ሰብሀንአላህ ያሳዝናል
Thanks Ethiopia.
Egzabher yatsnanachehu. "Don't waste your pain." Tiru mikir yimeslegnal. Passing through pain wisely develops character leading to PURPOSE everyone of us have been created to do. Joseph story from the Bible is a good example.
Yasazenale allah lemalaw betasab metenanaten yestacho
May God comfort you.
የሀዘን ዳርቻ ያድርግላችሁ:: ሰይፉ ግን ምነው እንጦጦ ሄጄ ሲሉ አባትየው ቆረጥከው???
Geta hoye senatun yestachehu betam yasazenale
You guys bless you have each other and friends and family I'm alone Except My God he keeps me shelled from all mental and all tenement just have your God okay I lost from 16-21 hard work and love the children I love more than in this world but I here I just say you okay consetreta the one you have on hands
ግን ከአሜሪካ ትዳረ ዉስጥ የናንተ ትዳረ በረክቶላችሁአል
እረ አሜሪካ ዉስጥ ብዙ የተባረከ ትልቅ ቦታ የደረሱ ልጆች ያፈራ ትዳር ሞልቷል።
የነሱ ግዜ ጥሩ ነው የአሁኑ ጀነሬሽን ነው የተበላሸው ያለፉት 15 አመታት ራስወዳድ ቁሳቁስ አምላኪ ሆንን መሰለኝ
To Mather and father I feel your pain
እር ፅናቱን ይስጣቹ ውይ 😂 እር ሁሉንም ይሰውር ከልጅ ሀዘን
አጉል የሆኑ መጻህፍት ስለሚያነቡ ነው. በዛክፉ መንፈስ እየገባባቸው ነው. ከዚህ ነገር ልጆቻችን ይጠብቅልን. ነብሱን ይማር ቤተሰቡም ጥናቱን ይስጣቸው. እንደዚህ ዓይነት ችግር ሲገኝ ወደ ጸበል መውሰድ ነው.
Don’t judge ( endet endemijemrachew Bedenb ayitawekim )
Geta yidreslin😢😢😢 I’m very very very scared of this depression/ suicidal thoughts
That's not always true, there's a depression caused by chemicals in balance in the brain. There are also different types of depression.
much grace
ክርስቶስ ምድር ላይ እያለ የሞቱ ሰዎች ያስነሳ ነበር እንዲሁም ዳግም ሲመጣ በመቃብር ያሉ ሰዎች ከሞት እንደሚነሱ ያስተምር ነበር ለዛም ነው አልአዛር ከሞተ በሗላ እህቱ ማርታ እያለቀሰች ለኢየሱስ ስትነግረው ወንድምሽ ይነሳል ሲላት በመጨረሻው ቀን እንደሚነሳ አውቃለሁ ያለችው ኢየሱስ ግን ወዲያው እንደሚያስነሳው ነበር እየነገራት ያለው ስለዚህ የሞቱ ሰዎች ይነሳሉ ልጃችሁ ከሞት ሲነሳ ለማግኘት ከፈለጋችሁ ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ የሰጠውን የትንሳኤ ተስፋ ከማያስተምር ሀይማኖት ወጥታችሁ ልጃችሁ እንደነገራችሁ እውነተኛውን ሀይማኖት በራሳችሁ መርምራችሁ አግኙት ልጃችሁ እንደውም ዶ/ር ከተናገሩት ተነስቼ ብናገር ስለ ትክክለኛው እውነት የሰማው ነገር እንዳለ ይሰማኛል ስለዚህ እውነት ነው ሀይማኖት ከቤተሰብ አይወረስም እያንዳንዱ ሰው ቃሉን በደንብ ተምሮ መርምሮ የሚያገኘው ነው:: አትመራመሩ ሰባኪዎችን አትስሙ እያሉ ህዝቡን ተስፋ ቢስ ያደረጉት የሀይማኖት አስተማሪዎች በንፁሀን ደም ተጠያቂዎች ናቸው ማቲዎስ ምዕራፍ 23 እና ራዕይ ምዕራፍ 18ን ሙሉውን ምዕራፍ አንብቡት መፅሀፍ ቅዱስ የሚሰጠውን ተስፋ ለማወቅ ከዚህ በታች ያለውን ሀሳብ አንብቡት ኤርሚያስ.29:11 እኔ ለእናንተ የማስበው ጥፋትን ሳይሆን ህይወትን ነው ብሎናል አስደሳች ህይወት ይመጣል በቅርቡ አንብቡት
ሰው ሁሉ ሊሰማው የሚገባ የምስራች በቅርቡ መንግስትህ ትምጣ ብለን የምንፀልይለት ንጉሱ ክርስቶስ ብቻውን ምድርንም ሰማይንም ያስተዳድራል ዳንኤል.2:44, ሞት ይቀራል ራዕይ.21:3,4 በሽታ ይቀራል ኢሳያስ.33:24 የመኖሪያ ቤት ችግር ረሀብ እና ስራ አጥነት ፈፅሞ አይኖርም ኢሳያስ.65:21-25 የቤት እንስሳት እና የዱር አውሬዎች እንኳን በአንድነት ይኖራሉ ኢሳያስ.11:6-9 የሞቱ ወዳጅ ዘመዶቻችን ልክ እንደ አልአዛር ከመቃብር ይወጣሉ ዮሀንስ 5:28,29 ኢሳያስ.26:19 ዮሀንስ.11:44 ጦርነት አይኖርም መዝሙር (46):9 ይንን የመሰለውን አስደሳች ህይወት ለማግኘት መፅሀፍ ቅዱስን መማር ያስፈልጋል 1ጢሞቲዎስ 2:4 ኢሳያስ.48:17,18
ከኦርቶዶክስ እምነት በላይ ስለ ክርስቶስ ትንሳኤ የሚያስተምር የለም ትንሽ ቀዳዳ ስታገኙ ራሳችሁን ትክክለኛ አድርጋችሁ ትሰለፋላችሁ የነሱ ስህተት ስለሀይማኖት ልጁ ጥያቄ ሲያቀርብ በራሳቸው ከመመለስ ይልቅ ወደ ሀይማኖት አባቶች ወስደው ጥሩ ግንዛቤ እንዲይዝ ማድረግ ነበረባቸው ብዙ ገንዘብ አውጥተን ልጆቻችንን እናስተምራለን ምንም ሳንቲም የማናወጣበትን ሂወት የሆነውን ን ቃል ግን እንዲማሩ ግዜ አንሰጥም በአለም ውድድር ውስጥ ሆነን ዋናውን ነገር ጥለናል
When I see his graduation’s picture I can see his sad eyes instead happiness, It is so sickening to think as mother with so much fear what will happen to our young adult kids especially after the Covid the one working at home 😂 just pray God creat us for his purposes and they are not ours we don’t owns them they just growing through us. Almighty is with you❤❤❤❤
Egzhabhir nefshen begenet yanurlin enantem Egzhabhir yasenachu
Hezan macheme ayersame gen mebartate alebene
depression doesn't come overnight there will definitely be a history then a trigger.Habesha parents knowingly or unknowingly push kids through their desire be it career religion sexuality or even choosing a partner it has to be their way no wonder these kids are sick the community needs to wake up and address this issues openly I am sure these parents are good and they were trying their best for their kid am not judging but why was the kid still in school while he still was struggling for his mental health??? health comes first then school why didn't he stop school and be in close sight where he can be looked after and treated for his illness?? and the dad said he was ok 2 weeks ago mate do u know about mental illness you can be ok an hour ago still unalive urself after that mental health needs alot of awareness am surprised with this given his mother is a doctor even if she wasn't a psychologist nor psychiatrist that should have ring a bell you don't beat mental illness such as depression and anxiety with medicines only the key element is awareness and practising that awareness not only for the patient but also for the people surrounding the patient in this instance the parents and it takes time he told you 6months ago and you guys thought it must have disappeared no! it takes time perhaps years probably before he told you he held it inside for years too when he tells you is when you act quick you don't send him back to school you read you research and you take decision not leave it in his hands am not blaming but i am talking within my own experience
Sounds very judgmental. Having knowledge and be a real parent is different in all aspects.
Too much judgment. They could have done anything and the out come could have been the same. Don't blame them please. They have been through alot. I am sure they have done all to there knowledge. Beyond and above probably? I am not sure by what you mean he should had not gone to school. Are you suggesting he should had been sitting around with no activity ? They said he has been seen by a doctor. They have been following his doctor recommendation obviously. Please be sensitive and respectful. I guess you are not a parent ...for you to pass all this judgment on them.
@@titibibi that wasn't a judgement I mentioned some cultural flaws living in a western society as well as issues of mental illness awareness which is always a sensitive issue to most Habesha people you prefer to live in denial than reality in your ignorant world depression is laziness that will fade away on its own in time and when someone tries to enlighten you you react some type of way but your adverse reaction can not be a solution the solution is open dialogue and acknowledging the real issue you guys always deflect from reality parenting blah blah no one talked about parenting here except you
@fetyamohamed7458 nothing to do with knowledge awarness is all it takes I mainly linked their case to our community most of the time in our community mental illness is highly underestimated that's the highlight of the comment don't activate your defence mode just for the sake of replying bring something to the table
@@Hayat79725You might have a point.
Maybe he should have continued with counselling…as mental health takes long time to heal,
Sometimes we think of accomplishment instead of well-being.
But there is no guidelines for parenthood.
We just have to do the best we can.
And they did.
May his Soul Rest In Peace.
My Condolences to the family.
One day at a time …..
A song by Lynda Randle.
One day at a time, sweet Jesus
Thats all I'm asking of You
Just give me the strength to do everyday
What I have to do
Yesterday's gone, sweet Jesus
And tomorrow may never be mine
God help me today
Show me the way
One day at a time
I'm only human
I'm just a woman
Help me believe in what I could be
And all that I am
Oh, show me the stairway
That I have to climb
Lord, for my sake, teach me to take
One day at a time.
God bless you.
So sad
ነፍስ ይማር ግን የሚያሳዝነው አባትም እናትም ጭልጥ ብሎ የጠለቀ ሳይንስ አምላኪ ናቸው የመንፈሳዊነት እሩብ ፐርሰንት እንኳን እምነት የላቸውም ያንገት ማህተም እንኳ የሌላቸውና በስመ ኦርቶዶክስ ከመጠራት ውጭ ቁም ነገሩ ልጃቸው አይምሮውን ሙሉ በሙሉ ተቆጣጥሮት ወይም ወርሶት የነበረው የዲያቢሎስ እርኩስ መንፈስ ነበረ በተጨማሪም በፍልስፍና (philosofy) ሲያጠና ነበረ ከምርምር ወይም ከብዙ የጥርጥርና አስተሳሰቦችን ሞልቶት መኖርህ የለብህም በሚል የአይምሮ በዲያቢሎስ ግርዶሽ እጁን ይዞ አንገቱ ላይ ገመዱን አስገብቶ ያኔ ነፍሱ ስታጣጥር ዲያቢሎስ እየሳቀ የልጁን ነፍስ ወደሲዎል መንገድ መራት ይህ ነው ጥሬ ሐቁ። ። ።ከዚህ በተረፈ ወላጆቹም ቢደርሱለት ኖሮ ከፍ ሲል የአይምሮ ታማሚ መሐከል ከመክተት ዝቅ ሲል ሳይካትሪስት፣ሳይኮሎጂስት...ወዘተ ቅብጥርጥሮስ ውስጥ እየወሰዱ ኪኒን ከመጋት ውጪ ሌላ አይፈይዱም ነበረ ሚሲጢሩና መድሐኒቱ መሆን የነበረበት ያኔ እናትየውን በጥርጥር መንፈስ በጥያቄ ሲያጨናንቃቸው በነበረ ወቅት ነገሩን ነቅቶ "ከሰማይ በታች እንድንበት በተሰጠን የአምላኮች አምላክ፣ የጌቶች ጌታ፣ የነገስታት ንጉስ ፣ ሰማይና ምድርን በፈጠረ ከእናታችን ከእመቤታችን ከቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም በተወለደው በእየሱስ ክርስቶስ ስም ፀበል በማመን ቢያስጠምቁት አይምሮውን የወረሰውንና የመኖር ትርጉም ያሳጣውን የዲያቢሎስን እርኩስ መንፈስ ተገላግሎ ዛሬ በሒዎት ባገኘነው ነበረ። ዳሩ ግን ወላጆች ካልነቁ ልጆች ምን ያድርጉ በድጋሜ ነፍስ ይማር።
የወጣት ቅዱስ መሞት ልብ የሚሰብር ነው ወላጅዎቹ በምክናየት ላይ የተደገፈ ሃይማኖት ሳይሆን የውርስ ሃይማኖት መከተላቸው ለቅዱስ የነፍስ ጥያቄ መልስ ሊሰጡት ባለመቸላቸው ሊረዱት አልቻሉም አሁንም ቢሆን ሌሎች የዳፕሬሽን ተጠቂ የሆኑ ወጣቶችን ለማገዝ ሲነሱ የሚያምኑት ሃይማኖት ምክናየታዊ መሆኑን ለሌሎች ማስረዳት መቻል አለባቸው የቅዱስ ጥያቄ ወላጆቹንም ቶሎመፈትሄ ካልሰጡት ወደዲፕሬሽን የመምራት አቅም ይኖረዋል ነገር ግን መፀሃፍቅዱስ ብቻውን በቂ መልስ እንዳለው እና ከዲፕሬሽን የሚያላቅቅ እውቀትና መንፈስ እንዳለው ቢያውቁ ጥሩ ነው
የውርስ የሆነ ስለሆነ አደለም ስህተቱ የነሱ ስህተት ስለሀይማኖት ልጁ ጥያቄ ሲያቀርብ በራሳቸው ከመመለስ ይልቅ ወደ ሀይማኖት አባቶች ወስደው ጥሩ ግንዛቤ እንዲይዝ ማድረግ ነበረባቸው ብዙ ገንዘብ አውጥተን ልጆቻችንን እናስተምራለን ምንም ሳንቲም የማናወጣበትን ሂወት የሆነውን ን ቃል ግን እንዲማሩ ግዜ አንሰጥም በአለም ውድድር ውስጥ ሆነን ዋናውን ነገር ጥለናል ስለዚህ በስንዴ በእርዳታ ከመንገድ ተጎትተህ የገባህበት ሀይማኖት ሳይሆን ቤተሰብ አንተን ማህበረሰቡን ይዞ ያቆየበት እምነት በራሱ ምስክርነት ነው ግን ደሞ የዘመኑ ልጅ በሚገባው መንገድ ደሞ ማስተማር ጥያቄ ሲያነሱ በሀይማኖት አባቶች በኩል መልስ እንዲያገኙ ማድረግ ጥሩ ነው
@@enat-fr7tf በርግጥ ይህንቢያደርጉ ያንን ቢያደርጉ መልካም ነበረ ማለት ወላጆችን የጥፋተኝነት ስሜት እንዲሰማቸው ስለሚያደርግ አግባብ አደለም እኔ ኮሜንት ያረኩት ለወደፊት እንዲያስቡበት ብቻ ነው እንጂ ለመውቀስ አደለም ማንም ይሄ ይመጣል ብሎ ለመጠንቀቅ ከባድ ነው
እናቱ" አንቺግን ቅዱስ ቃሉ ምን እንደሚል እስቲ" አንብቢ ማቴ 22:9-10 ንጉስ ላዘጋጀው ሰርግ ተገቢ የሆኑትእነማን ናቸ?መንግዳር የቆሙ ድሆች እና አድራሻ ቢሶች አይደሉምን?ሙሽራውም ኢየሱስ መሆኑን እወቂ ታዳሚዎቹም እኛ በፀጋው አምነን የዳንነው አህዛቦች ነን ሌላው ማቴ25:31-46ም እንብቢ መፀደቅ የምትችይው ለተራቡ ስንዴና ዘይት እንዲሁም ለታረዙ ልብስ በማልበስ እንጂ በፀሎትና ስግደት አደለም
ኦርቶዶክስስ የተስፋፋችው ቃሉ እንደሚለው በማስተማ ይመስልሻል?ክርስትናን ቀድመው የተቀበሉ ገዢዎች/አፄዎቹ/በወረራ የያዙትን ህዝብ ቄሱ ከወታደር ጋር እየዘመተ ምርኮኛውን በሙሉ ያለፍቃዱ ወንዝ ይዞአቸው በመሄድ ከዚህ ወዲያ ሃይለገብሬል ከዚያ ወዲህ ወለተ ጎርጊስ በማለት የተጠመቀ ህዝብ አደለም እንዴ? እስቲ ከዘርሽ አንድ አምኖ የተጠመቀ ንገሪኝ ሁሉም ከወላጅ በውርስ ያገኘው እምነት ነው ቃሉ የሚለው ግን 40/80የተጠቀ ሳይሆን የመነየተጠመቀም ይድናል ነው የሚለው አንቺ በ80ቀንሽ አምነሽ ነው የተጠመቅሽው?ደግሞ ወደሃይማኖት አባት ቢወስዱት ነበረ ጥሩ ያልሽው አንቺ የምታምኚውን ማወቅ እንደማይገባሽ ማሰብሽ ይገርማል የቄሱ እውቀትና እምነት ለራሱነው እንጂ አንቺን አያድንሽም ደግሞስ የትኛው አባትነው ለፊሎዞፊ ተማሪ መልስ ሊሰጠው የሚችለው?ቢበዛ 3ጊዜ7ተጠመቅ ቢሉት ነው
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