My Beef with DREAM Stans - Very Really Good
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- Опубліковано 1 сер 2024
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It's time to open up and talk about my brain fog, ipad baby tiktok, nft news, and dream stans
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0:00 intro
7:47 super bowl
11:50 im the CEO of constructive criticism
12:30 ipad baby tiktok
17:45 my NFT talked on news channels
30:28 Dream stan drama ends here
36:30 advice segment
#vrg #veryreallygod - Комедії
dream face revealing and having a mustache would be so funny after this
lmao
Episode 177 18:15 Kurtis says the n word
@@kaylanh Episode 177 18:15 Kurtis says the n word
@@alfredojascencio5374 no he didn't lol
@@alfredojascencio5374 he didnt tho
"i must not have it because surely i would know by now, i'm 27"
my mom got diagnosed with ADHD at 38 after having 5 out of the 6 of her kids. she never thought she had it until she had to do research to help me manage my adhd and autism, and she realized that she saw a lot of herself in the traits and characteristics and got assessed a year later. it's never too late to get assessed, and i know that's not what you were trying to say here, but i just wanted to share this because i think it's important that people know that not everyone is diagnosed as a kid. some people are diagnosed after living as an adult for 20+ years, after having kids, jobs, going to college, etc. and that's perfectly okay. i do agree that we shouldn't be diagnosing random people we don't know online, that's definitely weird. but if anyone reading this feels like they might have ADHD or autism and thinks they might benefit from having a diagnosis, get assessed if you can! seriously, it's life changing. anyways, that's all i had to say. have a nice day!
My dad had never considered he may have ADHD until I was diagnosed at 22. He was in his 60s. So many people don't get diagnosed until their kids get tested.
Same with my dad! He was diagnosed at age 42 with high functioning adhd, before that people just thought he had “high anxiety or ocd”. My cousin also got diagnosed with adhd but for him around age 8. You truly can get diagnosed with It at any point in life if you have it.
Edit: and I’m now 18 and getting tested for it bc I show a lot of the signs for it lol
Thank you for saying this. As a woman with ADHD I haven't been diagnosed yet (because I can sit still and dont have the hyperactivity or more male centric symptoms lol) but my brother and dad most likely have it because we are very alike. If I get diagnosed one day it gives me hope they might be inspired to learn more about themselves too.
I think the difference here is that our age group in particular has had such a thorough exposure to mental health education that even if something like ADHD had gone undiagnosed as a kid, by this point he'd have seen enough shit online to at least have a good idea one way or the other.
I was diagnosed with ADHD at 22 years old and one of the reasons I had never considered having it is because of all the stereotypes and how it's portrayed in the media
Kurtis Conner is a notable expert comic who connects with an all-over planet swarm with his remarkable diverting tendency. As well similar to a wisecracker Kurtis is a renowned web person.
I think we have Kurtis' new bio!
Also obsessed with biological mischief 🤪🤪
this is so biological mischief😍
I started reading this exactly at the part it started playing woah
Don’t forget he’s a famous singer and dancer! 🤣🤣🤣
Episode 177 18:15 Kurtis says the n word
I fucking love when Kurtis contemplates the biological mischief
We really need merch for that 😅🤣
It's a shock Kurtis lived through the Dream stans wrath lmao
Edit: clarifying this is a joke before a fight starts
Our mayor is strong, also he is literally THE INTERNET
They're always so mad and quick to get angry
@@debbydee6633 fr
@@_rottingfish How would dream stans even be able to fight back the power of THE INTERNET
Most of them were actually on his side 😭
The most toxic ppl unfortunately have the loudest voices
im so obsessed w the studio! you and Jenna did a real snazzy job
Jenna dream interior designer
A girlboss
Episode 177 18:15 Kurtis says the n word
@@debbydee6633 Episode 177 18:15 Kurtis says the n word
@@kingofthebis1068 Episode 177 18:15 Kurtis says the n word
OH MY GOSH thank you for talking about all those people on Tik Tok diagnosing people or themselves because of something they think is only associated with some disorder. “I can blink to a song- that’s my ADHD” or “I can tell whose footsteps belong to who when people walk around in my house at night and that means I have an anxiety disorder” like that’s something literally everyone can do- chill out
it drives me crazy
I have believed for a while that I have a specific mental illness but it's so hard to get appointments and my current mental state makes it so hard to get out and get help, I can't and won't talk about it because I don't want to if I'm not officially diagnosed. I know what it's like to be on the other end, hearing people milking mental illness for attention and shock value. But it's this oversaturation of misinformation and the recent 'trends' (for a lack of a better term) of mental illness in media that barely scratches the surface and glamourises the basic factors of mental illness, permitting people to do this. They just exploit the fact that society wants to cause people mental health issues but not help them in the after math, and then parading the easier to digest aspects on screen and in media. Sorry for rambling, but my point is I spend so much time questioning and hating myself for feeling like I'm making it all up, like it's all in my head, only for so many people online and irl to benefit off it. And I can't entirely hate them when they're also affected by the misinformation and misrepresentation of mental illness. Jeez I guess I needed to rant
I have a lot of mental health issues diagnosed by psychologists, including ADHD. It makes me so mad and sad when people make it up because my life is really hard because of my mental health, and it's such a slap in the face when people fake it for attention
Fr. Stop saying you're mentally ill/spreading misinformation when you haven't talked to a doctor or done research
@@riley5865 TIL, you can't be mentally ill if you're too poor to afford a diagnosis.
the people diagnosing strangers on tik tok remind me of the people back in the day on tumblr trying desperately to prove their favorite celebrity was gay, all while making them horrendously uncomfortable in the process.
Yeah I'm all for say characters are gay because of minimal representation but not cool with real peope at all. I used to be a phan and it made me wildly uncomfortable.
Say it with me, ✨ *forced representation isn't good representation* ✨
@@jetaimessul im assuming you also watched that one Encanto fandom video
its giving kpop stans
@@sp4c3y TRUE LMFAO they're so weird with shipping and trying to put 'headcanons' on their idols as if they were characters and not actual real people💀💀
31:59 No you are absolutely right Kurtis! The reason why some creators keep their faces hidden is entirely because of the unwarranted scrutiny of random assholes on the internet.
CorpseHusband has also spoken out about this weird fetishization he's received after gaining a following due to his deep voice, and how the pressure to be super attractive so he doesn't disappoint fans is what keeps him from revealing his face.
He's also said that it kinda pains him to only be known as the "deep voice guy" when he's said before that it is caused by severely painful acid reflux (GERD), which can lead to esophagus cancer (which is hard to catch early as well as fix).
It's sickening how obsessed "fans" are with a creator's looks instead of their content. It forces the stigma that you HAVE to be attractive in order to be famous or well-known.
I'm personally glad you called them out for that shit! You gained a lot of respect for that one!
Holy shit I actually feel bad for Corpse because of that. I watched him when he was doing creepypastas but haven’t watched him any time recently because I couldn’t stand his stans and I just don’t like among us. Knowing he has GERD like I do and that the pressure he must be facing on a constant basis triggers it sucks to hear. I’ve had my GERD triggered by stress and that shit beyond sucks. It’s so sad to see obsessive fans be the ones to hurt the one they idolize the most without even realizing it, then attacking and harassing anyone that calls them out instead of genuinely reflecting on themselves and their behavior.
I love how you worded this, I wish it could be plastered on the front page of everyone’s twitter
@@Polyeurythane You make a good point about stans refusing to reflect.
The reason why they don't sit back and think critically about their behavior is because most of them are young.
I was lucky to be a wise, self-aware kid (though it was caused by trauma so.. not that lucky ig?). Unfortunately, not every kid is gonna be as aware.
A lot of them turn to artists (whether it be art or music) or entertainers. Because they will find these creators during their puberty years, they tend to REALLY stick to that person, and in turn, idolize them.
To insult their behavior is to insult their creator, and vice versa.
It's hard being a kid. I can't blame them for feeling hurt.
But that's why we must be kind and educate them on why this behavior is wrong, instead of just "calling them out". Well, if that makes sense lol.
@@benistechsused3128 Thank you lol. I'm glad you appreciated my comment!
There was a picture of some random guy going around and people were saying it was corpse (when it wasn’t). His “fans” were making fun of a picture of him without knowing that it wasn’t actually him.
It's so odd to see people act like they are entitled to your appearance and expression
that "free kurtis NFT" video MUST BE generated by A.I. if not, it is the best parody i've seen in a while
omg thats what i thought too!
It did sound like it was created by feeding an A.I. program the Kurtis Conner wiki page and the transcript of his most recent videos. The weird trading card analogy must be in reference to a bit Kurtis did in the NFT Cringe video.
Haven’t watched it yet but I’m gonna give this one a very really good/10.
same
Lol that’s me
@@AxxLAfriku lmao this gotta be a joke
@@TheCoolFluffBerrry it is not a joke he is a true "ALPHA M*LE"
@@AxxLAfriku eww ur alpha betas are better
14:19 To be fair, I have a friend in their 30s who is only just now getting diagnosed with autism. I'm autistic (diagnosed at 15) and was able to see their symptoms from a mile away. Plenty of people go undiagnosed with ADHD and autism for their entire lives.
yeah, i had a friend who was 2 years younger than me and i had been diagnosed for a while (diagnosed at 13) and i could tell she had adhd, and then she got diagnosed too
Hearing Kurtis talk about how he’s also an iPad baby is comforting. I’m the literal same way and it’s so bad lmaooo
embarrassing to admit that openly on the internet
@@NachozMan i think it'd be better to admit it on the internet and not real life lol.
*plus if there's people like you, you can relate with them*
@@dev-olo I can relate, I am an iPad baby
I have ADHD, just started meds recently but “brain fog” was my daily life for 4 years before Dexedrine. It really sucks and I know how gross and awful it is :(. I’m sorry, Kurt, I hope you’re doing good and your week gets a little better (and also hoping you don’t have Covid).
How do you feel now with ADHD meds in terms of the brain fog?
@@taraaawhatt I actually have Covid right now so I’m experiencing some brain fog :(, but it’s basically completely gone away otherwise! I’m finally able to get work done, improve my diet and start exercising, focus more on my passions and it’s GREATLY improved my memory, connection, empathy, organization, communication and social skills, I’m like the mOST confident I’ve ever been. You never notice how bAD your brain fog is until it’s gone tbh.
Only downside is that there is a transitional period where I had some bad panic attacks as my brain started to get used to the changes but even through that time I said I’d take the panic attacks over constant numbness and brain fog any day.
I’m also on a very high dosage bc my ADHD was really bad so that may have been just a side effect.
@@rocks1012 wow! Sorry to hear you have Covid but its really exciting to hear that you've improved! Hoping that I can experience some of that relief sometime soon.
I have been on ADHD meds for 4 years and they helped me so much. I know exactly what you mean. They helped me so much with my aggression, focus and memory. Sending love my fellow ADHDer!❤
I’ve got EDS which also comes with brain fog and I know exactly how you feel. hope the meds are making it better for ya :)
“An upside down 40 year-old, that’s like an upright 80 year-old.” 😭
Kurtis Conner was an English mathematician, physicist, astronomer, alchemist, theologian, and author (described in his time as a "natural philosopher") widely recognised as one of the greatest mathematicians, King of England and King of Ireland, and King of Scotland as James VII from the death of his elder brother. He was a key figure in the philosophical revolution known as the Enlightenment. His book Philosophiæ Naturalis Principia Mathematica (Mathematical Principles of Natural Philosophy), first published in 1687, established classical mechanics. Newton also made seminal contributions to optics, and shares credit with German mathematician Gottfried Wilhelm Leibniz for developing infinitesimal calculus. He is know to be a wood the bar though is not that the knot could be one of the Similar people but He is just a different one and He’s and he 👋 like that one. #Jibberish
Idek what you said yet and I agree
Lmao same
Same omg
Correct
To be honest, it was incredibly relieving for me to hear Kurtis was getting brain fog as well. Not saying it’s good, but ever since quarantine I’ve started stuttering, slurring and mispronouncing words almost on the daily now. I thought it was just me but thanks for sharing about it Kurtis, hoping it’ll pass eventually. Proud citizen of Kurtistown!
same!
me too
same here i thought i was going crazy
I agree that people trying to diagnose you without knowing you sounds super annoying but your age really got nothing to do with getting diagnosed with ADHD, just saying this in case someone Kurtis' age or older has been meaning to talk to their doctor sees this. Yes, it is often diagnosed in childhood but masking or parents who don't want to bring their child to a doctor about this as well as many other (often unhealthy) coping mechanisms can lead to you not getting diagnosed. If anyone has a suspicion please don't feel like your age is an issue in getting diagnosed. (I mean there may be biased from some doctors but that doesn't mean you don't have it).
Sorry if the grammar/spelling is bad english is not my first language and I am very very tired.
I was diagnosed with ADD when i was in first or second grade but my mom didn't like the idea of putting me on medication so it was pretty much just forgotten about and went untreated. I imagine thats the case for many people.
I refuse to diagnose others, but I have ADHD and very much related to Kurtis' adventure to get to the studio and record this pod lmao
i have add, and me too
I heavily relate to it too and I have ADHD lol.
me too…. lmao
As soon as I saw the dream tweet I was like "yup next vrg episode is about this"
meeee too LMAO
Dream stans are some of the most frustrating people.
i’m pretty sure that’s just twitter in general. if you’re not following weirdos then your experience will be different. the fanbase is pretty chill and funny when you’re not interacting with the part that’s overly toxic
Wait till you hear Dream haters lmao
You haven't seen the deepest hell until now 😂
as a part of the fanbase i whole heartedly agree, though; most of. twitter fanbases are like that, so it isn't too suprising, i meet some super nice fans too; y'know, outside of twitter
yes some of us but please dont generalize us, thats even more frustrating /:
@@adharastar why are people fans of these youtubers? I don't get it
I feel that comment about not needing to see people’s really personal moments. I remember seeing a video of someone using a filter on a picture of their dead brother and then immmediate crying and hysterics. It’s so performative to me no matter how real the emotion behind it is. It’s like crying on cue.
Hey man if you're exhausted dont feel like you constantly need to meet deadlines, none of us mind if you need a break or a rest. If you need it, please take time for yourself 💗
I came to comment this!
vouch!!!!
brain fog is definitely a real thing lol. I have it because it's a side effect of a chronic illness I have (fibromyalgia)
howdy fibro friend :)
Same with Hashimoto’s, gotta love it lol
brain fog is the actual worst and it makes it so much harder when people don’t understand or take it seriously. i have chronic fatigue syndrome and it’s so hard to explain to people how difficult it is
I have it due to my POTS and post-concussion syndrome!
I have it to due to Behcets. It’s not fun :(
Well I'm 48, just found out about a year ago that I have ADHD, anxiety, hyper vigilance, and autism. I thought I was just weird and lazy or scattered my whole life lol. 🤷😆
29 w my own set of acronyms - is that lazy feeling a forever thing or is there a way to be a professional w these diagnoses and do a good job?
@@MR-xx3mc i feel like people are very anti-labels (as a reaction to many labels) but there’s actually a lot of help in knowing the reasons u do certain things, and working w ur issues/tendencies is way easier when u know the root cause. so no, i don’t think it’s a lifelong thing once u know ur “labels” n find the right tools and tips
I was 23 when I got my autism diagnosis... 👀 I agree that diagnosing strangers is weird though. Suggesting to a friend that they might have ADHD is one thing, but diagnosing a stranger is just plain rude.
(Self diagnosis is valid though because it often leads to professional diagnosis and access to accommodations. Lots of people with ADHD/autism end up diagnosed later in life because of stigma and stereotypes!)
YES
You can’t diagnose someone after seeing them just do one thing in a less than 60 second video - and it’s generally not great to do it at all lol
Self dx is also behind less of a paywall with fewer systemic barriers ✌️
That feeling when ur 20s autism diagnosis
I’ve always felt like I have adhd in the back of my mind, but because of imposter syndrome and living in a place where mental health is stigmatized, I dismissed my symptoms as nothing. Well turns out it’s not nothing when i started university, and I finally went to get a diagnosis when the pandemic hit because everything started falling apart for me. I wouldn’t even know what adhd is if no one in my group chat pointed it out for me.
I feel like I’m listening to my old uncle in his childhood house with furniture that was never changed, rambling for 45 minutes about whatever he wants. What I’m saying is amazing setup, 10/10
i think that's the thing with the whole de-stigmatizing mental illnesses-it's that some people are now weirdly OVERLY casual about it and we see this happening when people attempt to diagnose others off of what they see on the internet. like you said, these people are most likely non-professionals, but even if there was a psychiatrist in the comments, isn't it like not allowed to publicly diagnose people just like that without their consent?? it's things like this that reminds me that there's still a lot of work to do here
Yeah, it bugs me especially when people who don't have a particular mental illness make jokes about it like "oh that is so ADHD" or "that's so OCD" based on random small occurances/traits. Like yes, those traits might be associated with ADHD (like brain fog/forgetfullness) or OCD (like double checking stuff) but the actual mental illnesses are defined by the exaggeration, amplification, or abundance of those traits to the point of them making it hard for someone to live life "normally" (hence the word 'disorder') so joking (especially by someone without said mental illness) about small, generally insignificant traits associated with an illnes kind of just strengthen stereotypes and make them seem like something silly and quirky? Idk it is complicated cause it means there is more of a cultural understanding and awarenesses of the mental illnesses but that cultural understanding is flawed? So the more awareness has both good and bad to it.
Dream SMP stans act like there the bringers of justice to those who have done wrong but don’t care to research or even look at the bigger picture and just hate on somebody. They act like there the least toxic community welcome and open for all but one slip up and every one of them will be at your throat. it’s a pretty dangerous and mentally exhausting place for young teens to be in.
Yep, pretty much
And it sucks too because that kind of content naturally attracts young people, and growing up in that kind of community would be HORRIBLE.
@@justasmltwngir1732 it really is i almost fell into it
it was funny hearing kurtis talk about brain fog that he just learned about when it feels like you've never NOT had brain fog
For real. I have had chronic migraines since I was 9, and brain fog is a HUGE thing for me in my postdrome phase
Y’all rockin with the dual camera set up 🥵🥵
On the ADHD stuff and how you said you feel like you’d know now by your age, I didn’t find out I was autistic until I was 32. It didn’t even occur to me until my therapist brought it up. It’s never too late ✨
Kurtis my buddy didn’t figure out he had ADHD until he was 28.
Yea, but what he means is you can’t just say someone has a disorder because they do a thing, a very common action in fact
@@EvanAviator true
the new studio looks incredible but i really feel like the camera should be bit closer and aimed higher... right now there's so much dead space to the left, and kurt boy looks tiny in the corner of the video. loving the new vibe though! (for the main view i mean, the side camera shots are 10/10)
Just got diagnosed with ADHD and I’m 45. My whole life makes so much sense now
Your diverting tendency is definitely what got me to join the all-over planet Swarm!
🐝💪SWARM UP💪🐝
By the sounds of it, the nft breakdown video wasn't just poorly translated, but probably had the script generated by AI lmao
I laughed so hard at the NFT segment this episode. such a good time, thanks as always Kurt!
Everyone I saw on twitter(though I’m only on Dream Twitter tangentially) thought it was funny and weren’t mad; I’m glad you didn’t take it too harshly! Consider the beef squashed lol. Looking forward to your next upload !!
Hey Kurtis! Just wanted to say that this video popping up in my feed made my day. I appreciate all your hard work
“Kurtis’s free NFTs” is the funniest video I’ve ever heard 😭😭😭😭
Hey Kurtis! Love the podcast as usual. I've paused the vid for a bit but a lot of symptoms you've described like brain fog and needing something going in the background remind me of my adhd experiences. I didn't get diagnosed with ADHD til I was like 23 and it honestly blows my mind how everyone overlooked it over the years. People going around and diagnosing can be super annoying especially when it's unwarranted but I also understand it's like a cultural response to how neurodivergent people often go undiagnosed, especially marginalized folks. I think the key is that we should share resources that provide education and allow people to come to their own thoughts before consulting it with a medical professional.
I didn't get diagnosed with ADHD for a long time because I was scared to even bring it up my issues because of how often people throw around that everyone has ADHD. Even now that I'm diagnosed I won't discuss it
I was hoping someone would say this. Like you said, what he listed are common ADHD symptoms, and so are some other things he’s mentioned in videos before. I think it’s ok to say stuff like “hey, just letting you know I have this Thing, and your experiences remind me of my experiences. I’m not a professional but if you’re curious about it I’d suggest doing some research.” nothing forceful, because it’s not our place to diagnose people, but just letting them know in case learning they have something and finding resources for it could help them.
kurtis, dont worry about twitter people. there are people online committed to misinterpreting your words and twisting your words just to spread negativity. be mindful online, but have fun :)
And also 90% of dream fans are 12-15
@@hecknfrick4236 Dawg ur on everyone's comments dissing on Dream fans, replying to every single comment it's really not that big of a deal chill out...
@@hecknfrick4236 i think that a majority of his fan are older teens/young adults tbh
@@Miguel-zy5mr found the dream stan
@@phelisejoy7118 i dont think ive seen a single decent dream fan on twitter lmao theyre always out there attacking someone for something that doesnt matter lmao
kurtis deserves so much kindness! it's insane to me that people feel so entitled to comment on his appearance especially after he's been so outspoken abt how it makes him feel. he's the handsome king of tiktok anyway so 💅
“what’s up guys, welcome back to online therapy” - kurtis conner
Who needs therapy when you have the Very Really Good podcast?
this studio is so perfect for future collabs omg
Kurtis conner singing "thats what the point of the mask is" is something that i did not expect today lmao
So strange seeing that Kurtis isn't just a torso
Congrats on getting the booster, Kurtis! Hopefully things will be looking up for you in the near future B)
"I don't have ADHD, I think I would have known by now if I did"
That's what a lot of people think, but in reality lots of people (ESPECIALLY women and anyone who could be considered a minority) end up not being diagnosed till their late 20s or even 30s, 40s or later bc our health care system sucks and doctors + most people are only familiar with the stereotypes of ADHD. I've heard so many lived experiences of people getting diagnosed at 27 or 29...hell, I straight up wasn't diagnosed with ADHD until I was in college a little over a year ago.
I'm not saying diagnosing people online is right, don't get me wrong, but I wanted to shed light on that aspect of diagnoses & underdiagnoses of conditions like ADHD to bring light to why some people may have it and not be diagnosed. If you suspect you have it, it doesn't hurt to look it up and find ways to help yourself tbh.
I used to be a dream stan but now i only stan for our national kurtis town anthem
Hmm… looking at ur pfp I’d assume “used to” is not the case
@@kayleewilson12 LMFAOOOOOOAODIAOO
@@kayleewilson12 that’s a character of mine-
Can't wait for the "Kurtis Conner contemplating biological mischief" merch
kurtis!!! i love the new setup. i think that the reaction cam makes the podcast so much more personal. i usually listen to VRG to fall asleep but now i’m so tempted to watch the episodes so i don’t miss your visual reactions and the awesome appearance of the studio. so great how far you’ve come!!
watching this after dream did the face reveal and a shit ton of his fans left the fandom because of how he looks has me dying Kurtis was so right
Kurtis is such a beautiful boy. Whoever doesn't see this man is attractive needs to get their eyes checked, they probably need glasses
30:28 i completely agreed with everything u said about the dream stan thing. i am apart of the mcyt fandom and some people in the fandom really dont know how stupid they can be sometimes. some of them constantly say mean things about other people but when they get "attacked back" they make excuses or bully the person who said it to them aswell. im not saying everyone in the fandom is like this but i have seen quite a few people who do this type of thing. also ur moustache is great kurtis!!
It's really just a munch of 12-15 year olds dog piling on people for no reason. They don't even know the shit dreams done
dream is trash. stop watching mcyt and watch actual good content
@@thenextgeneration9030
Regardless of your opinion on Dream, I don't think it's fair to say that all MCYT isn't good content. It's really just a matter of opinion. There are some really good content creators out there, and a lot of people really enjoy watching their videos. I agree that the fandom kinda sucks, but the content creators themselves are pretty cool and talented.
speaking of dreams… i had a dream the other night that i performed a pitbull song at one of kurtis’ live shows but i knew none of the words and pitbull was in the crowd and was helping me with the lyrics and then afterwards backstage kurtis added me to his contacts as “girl that tried to sing a pitbull song”. I don’t know why i dreamt this i haven’t even been to one of his live shows or met pitbull 😭😭😭 i live in australia that’s basically impossible 😭😭😭😭
**on ADHD** "I think I would know by know, I'm 27." I actually laughed out loud 🤣
Diagnosing others based on one post (or at all on social media) is obviously weird asf. But I think some content can be helpful in seeking your own answers.
Me being diagnosed at 30 years old lol
Also, for some of us self diagnosing is the only thing we have. I'm not saying it's the best thing nor am I advising anyone to do it, but when you're desperate and with no options left, sometimes turning to googling things is what gives you peace of mind and at least explains a bit of what you're going through. People forget that professional help is very much a privilege and plenty of people don't have access to it.
@Fucking grass its not that uncommon a view, even among medical professionals. the older you get the harder it is to get a professional diagnosis because a lot of people believe it would be obvious in childhood and would have been picked up ages ago, especially if the person in question is functional in a neurotypical society
@@aranara_song yeah but dont say you have it if you havent been officially diagnosed. like *i* think i might have adhd, but i dont tell people that i have it because im not sure and i havent been diagnosed. It leads to a slippery slope of people claiming they have all sorts of things that theyve never been diagnosed on. people will point to common behaviours that 99% of humans experience and say "ah thats my adhd" like.... no it isnt lmao.
thank you so much for these. my ferret died 2 days ago and im feeling real shitty but you, danny and drew's videos make me feel better. i love the old ones and from you guys on tour. just thanks for being my favorite youtuber
i’m sorry for your loss, i hope things get better ❤️
the stock footage in the nft video is takin me out. The lady just slowly coloring in a pixelated pig made me laugh so hard
i love that ur canadian (specifically from ontario) bc i can understand all the references you make
ok bestie i just wanted to inform u on what dream has done cuz he's not a great person:
said the n slur
said the r slur
after he said the r slur he said it didnt matter and "its just a word"
Not defending dream, but can't he reclaim the r slur? If not sorry!
Imagine someone from 100 years ago hearing the sentence "I wanna squash the beef with the dream stans" and trying to figure out what it means
This is so funny because I only realized I had ADHD a few months ago through tik tok. I'm 24 and never thought it was even an option but I finally found what made my life so miserable and it feels so good to be able to finally do something about it that works. Diagnosing ppl isn't cool but I rlly can't be too mad about it lmao
Kurtis starting off this podcast just ranting really makes me feel like we’re buds lol. just catching up. He feels like a low maintenance friend I can just listen to and not really have to worry about conversations. Love the podcast
It’s cool to see your progress and how you have changed your format to fit your style. Thanks for the videos man
Kurtis, at the moment I am on my knees begging and typing with tears in my eyes, PLEASE upload your intro music to your channel or sumn somewhere, it's so good!!!
As a person with treated adult ADHD, yes. Folks who are in the know (Clinical Pathologists and what not) don't go around diagnosing people in social media comment sections. However, if you feel like you have trouble with "simple things that honestly shouldn't be that hard", it's worth getting checked out. By a professional, not by diagnosing yourself. :)
This is my favorite VRG EP, and it turns a year old in 11 days. Time flies. I remember watching it in my previous house before moving, in the TV, and cracking up at the AI narrator. Thank you for being such a great man Kurtis. I'm watching this in my new house, swinging on a hammock.
LOVE the new set up! :) you're so fun to watch I hope you have fun doing it as well :) always remember to do what you love ^u^
I accidentally woke my fiance up this morning with my laughter, listening to the nft news. He thought I was crying because I was shaking so bad trying to not burst out laughing. You know you've truly made it when some internet bot makes a semi-biographical stock photo video about you.
Kurtis I literally had a dream last night that my hair looked like yours and I was so happy
I really love your podcast so much!!!! It’s so entertaining and fun to listen to, and your voice is comforting ! Lots of love from Japan 🇯🇵💕
“Long distance relationships are really hard. What you should do is just move to where they live” 😂
as a "dream stan" myself, i assure you that MOST of the sensible dream fans thought the whole situation was funny and fully agreed with your tweet LMAO...
Yeah 😭 it mostly was fancams and people just adding to the ratio
Ew
honestly i wish he kept it up
@@snakebittenlips how?
@@snakebittenlips I’m not even a dream stan, but how is he racist?
so many of us agreed with what u said it was so funny i wish u kept the tweet up LMAO
32:37 The fact that you changed your words from fandom to standom shows at least to me that you're one of the good ones who knows the difference.
the only thing I want added to this podcast is like an extra guy laughing in the background that you can barely hear
i cant believe dream and "mcyt" are still relevant, its been like 2 years
right lmao 💀
i just finished a test i was really worried about, got an ice coffee, and now I get to respond to emails while listening to Kurtis. Life is good
I literally have no idea what this video is about but i'm excited
Omg I just got diagnosed with adhd at 27 😳 it took me living with a therapist to even consider it. and now that I am on meds, I no longer need my phone to do everything 😔 but yes I agree that the comments diagnosing strangers is tacky 🤧
MORE CAMERAS. Precisely what the new set up was missing. Love love love it. Roe Jogan is shaking in his boots.
I'm just gonna say this one yes it does 100% suck that people try to diagnose others without them asking for advice. Self dxing is valid drs aren't perfect. Also my dad got dxed with adhd at like 42 and I know other people who got dxed with adhd while in their 30's. I'm not saying you have adhd just that people can go a majority of their lives without knowing.
Going through a shitty breakup and I’ve been rewatching your videos for the past week. Only thing that makes me feel better so THANK YOU
Love the segment of you talking about how you need something going in the background while you're doing something cuz I am currently doing exercise while listening to this lol It's good background sound!
while needing nearly-constant stimulation (ex: phones/videos) is common for people with ADHD, it's also just a sign of boredom/cabin fever. it's not that rare especially in a pandemic
As someone who was a fan of you before dream this whole situation is absolutely bonkers. hoping dream has a mustache for the giggles
kurtis never remove your stache, it’s beautiful. honestly in my top 3 mustaches list. 👍💙💙
filming ur significant other in secret and posting it making fun of them behind their back 😳 is this straight culture
i mean this in the nicest way, but "i feel like i wouldve known by now" is something i said. I have now been diagnosed with both autism and adhd lmao. HOWEVER, tiktok IS full of people just randomly diagnosing strangers.
I really appreciated the part about diagnosing strangers on the internet, Miiasaurus made a video on this topic recently highlighting how some of these videos that tell you "you might have _____ if you do/experience life like this..." and yet these aren't completely constructive because it doesn't follow up with coping tools or how you can get support. I love that mental health and neurodiversity is becoming less of a Taboo to talk about, but let's make it more productive and help each other out some more 😱💞 especially on these platforms with young impressionable minds
I've been waiting for this episode!!!! IM SO EXITED :))
there is so little digital media that i habitually consume and enjoy and your videos are are among them. thank you for helping me pass the time. the new studio is a nice physical manifestation of the progression in your work. keep doing what you love kurt
Kurtis, you are my favorite singer/dancer of all time!! You are such an inspiration
Kurtis im 27 and was only diagnosed with ADHD two years ago and was just diagnosed with autism THIS YEAR. What I'm saying is you can never rule out undiagnosed stuff. That being said, tiktok gotta stop dianoging people.
funny how kurtis thinks we arent watching the podcast but only listening to It, i mean, what could we even do without his beautiful setting (and his handsome face duh)
Your shoes look like they’re from a sick victorian little boy that always says “yippee” and jumps.
I would buy