Gok Has A Hard Time Raising This Bride's Self Esteem | Say Yes To The Dress Lancashire

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  • Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
  • Bride, Nikki, has tried on 15 dresses already and still can't find the one. She's liked the dresses on the hanger but just doesn't like the way they look on her.
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  • @ddey1890
    @ddey1890 4 роки тому +6231

    Gok is the only one who doesn't exploit its clients. He is not bothered about the profit but is concentrating on the bride
    He is such a sweetheart.

    • @suzannehribal4117
      @suzannehribal4117 4 роки тому +67

      He’s a true gem. I wish there was more from him!

    • @katsweeterly2039
      @katsweeterly2039 4 роки тому +60

      Absolutely, and the dresses are more beautiful than on any other syttd ♥ and most of the times even more affordable

    • @puddlemini
      @puddlemini 4 роки тому +13

      Its this excellence that makes him successful lbr. I feel like I could trust him to do whats best for me.

    • @ireneangelucci8984
      @ireneangelucci8984 3 роки тому +34

      I agree, he's the example of how a true sales assistant should be. Customer oriented, detached from the result, active listener. Lovely.

    • @monalisa7
      @monalisa7 3 роки тому +11

      Agree! But Franc from SYTTD Ireland is also the same. He doesn’t exploit and genuinely wants his brides to have the best bridal experience.

  • @zilkill09
    @zilkill09 3 роки тому +4443

    I used to think Randy was the best consultant, someone who was 100% born to do that job. Then I saw episodes with Gok. There really is no one else like him. He does deserve his own show.

    • @lostboy587
      @lostboy587 3 роки тому +34

      YES!!! I would binge show God’s show just like I’m binging SYTTDL. He’s my fav stylist by a mile

    • @arocks1234567
      @arocks1234567 3 роки тому +28

      Still like randy more, his warmth is beyond!
      And goks dresses are nice but i like randys more southern inspired more conservative dresses.
      I can also see gok doing the psychology thing a bit too much and not his job. Like even its spot on its too much and over stepping.

    • @indiecloud100
      @indiecloud100 3 роки тому +70

      @@arocks1234567 I think picking a dress for this event is such an emotional process, it's hard to pick one when you're psychologicaly distressed
      He's not a therapist that will fix it, but it's great that he eases them into a better mindset dress-wise 😊

    • @candace200
      @candace200 3 роки тому +44

      @@arocks1234567 Remember we are only seeing a small slice of a very long day. He's talked with them and the boutique is more intimate that the others. I don't feel it is over stepping to the brides he helps. He says just enough, we just see the condensed version.

    • @eggiboiroi
      @eggiboiroi 3 роки тому +19

      i honestly love them both equally, which is surprising! i’d also love to see them team up if they had a ldr situation with own bride in america and one in the uk

  • @JodiLeaSnakeQueen
    @JodiLeaSnakeQueen 4 роки тому +8367

    WHO THINKS GOK NEEDS HIS OWN SHOW 100%

    • @gemmabutler8724
      @gemmabutler8724 4 роки тому +74

      He's had several.

    • @JennyHoddy
      @JennyHoddy 4 роки тому +47

      Gok’s Frocks

    • @emjenkins464
      @emjenkins464 3 роки тому +125

      Not sure if you're from the UK, but throughout the 2000's and 2010's he's had several shows about confident dressing and finding clothing/a style that suits you. Honestly wedding dresses is the best end goal for his career path

    • @mohammadal-drees3106
      @mohammadal-drees3106 3 роки тому +44

      No, I like him show-hopping! If you follow his career, he‘s done different shows of different genres throughout his career. He adds his twist everywhere he goes. I love this about him.

    • @karolinapupi19977
      @karolinapupi19977 3 роки тому +10

      @@emjenkins464 yeah so many shoes! He even had one in Poland!!

  • @theindigopapillon3495
    @theindigopapillon3495 3 роки тому +2442

    I would say Gok missed his calling to be a therapist, but he absolutely has found his calling. The world needs more Goks

    • @bettinaallen5782
      @bettinaallen5782 3 роки тому +48

      I agree 1,000,000% but wouldn't say he missed it. He made himself more easily accessible to those who may need him but couldn't otherwise reach him or may be too afraid to seek out a therapist. Sometimes it's easier for someone to accept how beautiful they are with an image than it is to come to that realization with just conversation (compliments, therapy, etc.) alone. I believe that's what he does. He creates a picture while explaining their beauty so there is an actual image of the person as the star they truly are. What better way than with wedding dresses, since people place so much importance on them?
      When insecurities surface, he can freely combat them head-on with much needed rebuttals and actually say the words "you are beautiful" without being hit with a lawsuit or being cited as being unprofessional.

    • @999Ø-q6o
      @999Ø-q6o 3 роки тому +43

      having therapists disguised in other professions especially like this one is the biggest blessing i think everyone should try to learn or observe thing or two about human emotions to deal with their customers well

    • @jhsemoxitha3821
      @jhsemoxitha3821 3 роки тому

      Yes

    • @ad4029
      @ad4029 2 роки тому +4

      Brides need someone like him too though!

    • @Van-hb4gi
      @Van-hb4gi 2 роки тому +4

      I agree, but I'm so glad he has this platform to reach so many more people than he would.

  • @patatipatata4990
    @patatipatata4990 4 роки тому +7755

    I love how, even though her budget is 5k, Gok just tries to find the dress that he thinks best suits the bride (and those aren't even close to 5k), unlike *some* other consultants 😒

    • @alfiona7951
      @alfiona7951 4 роки тому +44

      Thank you!

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 4 роки тому +418

      Name him!! DAVID Emanuel

    • @lencibee15
      @lencibee15 4 роки тому +106

      Jemma J just reading his name I can hear him saying it 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣

    • @aparnatripathi6257
      @aparnatripathi6257 4 роки тому +52

      That's one of his best traits..N there are so many

    • @rachelciararose
      @rachelciararose 4 роки тому +3

      Valencia Harper hahahahaha

  • @FelisTerras
    @FelisTerras 3 роки тому +2121

    Who destroyed this gorgeous woman's self-esteem to this point? She could wear baggy pants and a comfy shirt and still stop rush-hour traffic! It so sad and maddening thinking of whatever she had to suffer through, to make her feel this insecure about herself. And hats off to Gok for boosting her confidence; he's a real gem.
    She looks great in everyting, but the last one just sent my jaw through the floor. Just..incredible. Absolutely incredible.

    • @danielleking262
      @danielleking262 3 роки тому +106

      I said out loud "OH, WOW" when I saw the last dress and even started tearing up when she finally opened her eyes to see it!!!

    • @Ko-et8vo
      @Ko-et8vo 3 роки тому +51

      idk if it was broken by anyone .. Imposter sydrome is a heavy burden and it seems a little like she has it.

    • @onlyelise
      @onlyelise 3 роки тому +4

      @@danielleking262 I swore out loud. LOL

    • @danielleking262
      @danielleking262 3 роки тому +4

      @@onlyelise but in a good way, right? lol

    • @danielleking262
      @danielleking262 3 роки тому +1

      @@onlyelise I'm curious what you shouted out exactly...... hahahaha

  • @limitless3765
    @limitless3765 4 роки тому +6697

    Something Ive noticed about Gok is that when he has a bride who's unsure of herself or insecure, he always goes with a new dress with the same level of enthusiasm as the first one. Rather than pushing on the bride that he's getting tired or they're running out of options, he gives the bride the chance to fall in love with a dress like it's the first one they've put on and I feel like that means so much

    • @youneedjinsus8656
      @youneedjinsus8656 4 роки тому +93

      Gok surely loves his job!

    • @anujasoni7874
      @anujasoni7874 4 роки тому +38

      You are absolutely correct 🙂

    • @farwafaraz22
      @farwafaraz22 4 роки тому +35

      Unlike David Emanuel

    • @8DIBa
      @8DIBa 4 роки тому +90

      Not to mention that his selection of gown are just, gorgeous.. 100% way better than the other say yes to the dress series..
      Also they have this way of fitting the gown to the bride perfectly even if its not the right size for her. Other sytd failed to do so, hence the bride cant see the whole picture of the gown on their body.

    • @Icebluegel11
      @Icebluegel11 4 роки тому +3

      Yes!!!

  • @jjue123
    @jjue123 4 роки тому +1236

    Gok should be paid more for this. he is not only giving the brides best wedding dresses, he is also boosting their morale. I just love to watch and listen to him. The world needs more Goks in it.

  • @monishaparikh7026
    @monishaparikh7026 4 роки тому +7231

    At this point gok should just create his own show

    • @SadieDLdn
      @SadieDLdn 4 роки тому +96

      He’s had so many of his own shows though. It’s nice to see him do something different.

    • @jamienaz1378
      @jamienaz1378 4 роки тому +92

      He had his own show, and the goal was also to make woman's get their self confidence back. I love watching him ❤️

    • @davi8647
      @davi8647 4 роки тому +11

      @@jamienaz1378 What's the name of the show he had?

    • @amyhagen94
      @amyhagen94 4 роки тому +30

      Davi “how to look good naked”

    • @davi8647
      @davi8647 4 роки тому +5

      @@amyhagen94 Thank you!!

  • @kathybell4719
    @kathybell4719 3 роки тому +360

    She was a victim of bullying. Obvious viciousness. She is stunning.

  • @belenjohnson637
    @belenjohnson637 4 роки тому +6971

    Anytime I see that it’s Gok I immediately click. He’s always so encouraging and uplifting towards the brides and picks amazing dresses.

  • @emiliamcmenamin9897
    @emiliamcmenamin9897 4 роки тому +309

    can we just appreciate how the dress looked absolutely stunning on her and was only $1,700 (way under her budget). they didn't try and put her in something that didn't flatter her and was way over her budget.

    • @mariesmith1616
      @mariesmith1616 Рік тому +1

      Yes big difference with the American show

    • @blizz2795
      @blizz2795 5 місяців тому

      @@mariesmith1616 THIS!!

  • @jessann5581
    @jessann5581 4 роки тому +3488

    Gok is who she needed for this experience. Anyone else wouldn’t have gotten threw to her like he did. Beautiful bride and a fantastic man can get her to love a dress.

    • @angrydonutface7420
      @angrydonutface7420 4 роки тому +30

      Agreed. I think most would have stopped at the safe dress.

    • @jessann5581
      @jessann5581 4 роки тому +17

      Angrydonutface they probably wouldn’t have even gotten to the safe dress. Would have tried to persuade her on one of the others just to get her out the shop. I’m speaking from experience on that one.

    • @asherduff8627
      @asherduff8627 4 роки тому +7

      Yes, he got through to her by throwing the best dress last.

  • @rastafahrer
    @rastafahrer 3 роки тому +262

    The title of Goks personal TV Show in the future:
    Oh my Gok!

  • @shieldmaiden.valkyrie
    @shieldmaiden.valkyrie 4 роки тому +2716

    Bride: "My budget is 5.000 pounds"
    SYTTD US: "let's start with this fabulous 28.000$ dress. It's nice".
    SYTTD UK: "let's start with this faaaaabulous 18.000 pounds dress. It's nice"
    Gok: "Honey, there's a 20 pounds dress. I bet you'll look STUNNING in it. You are gorgeous, never saw someone like you!"

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 4 роки тому +119

      that's not really fair, the US version tries really hard not to go over budget and even the UK version has gotten better about respecting budgets (at least when david's not there to ask about StReTcH 🙄). any bridal shop would be thrilled with a $5000 budget, that covers the vast majority of dresses.

    • @marleenrossatti9589
      @marleenrossatti9589 4 роки тому

      @@dietotaku ,

    • @syd7801
      @syd7801 4 роки тому +268

      At Kleinfeld, "five thousand" is the secret password that unlocks the door to the dungeon where Pnina is kept.

    • @theelolicious9302
      @theelolicious9302 4 роки тому +9

      omg this is the UK

    • @Esellajessica
      @Esellajessica 4 роки тому +66

      @@dietotaku I know David has alot of experience, but I feel like he's a little bit too full of himself to really consider the bride and her budget. Even when he goes to meet the bride, the air he gives off is like " ALL EYES on ME! I'm RUNNING the show now! Bring your pocketbooks because I'm NOT CHEAP! You will receive sub-par service, be happy I even gave you my time-REMEMBER, I did PRINCESS DIANA'S DRESS! Your welcome 😒😤!

  • @aakankshasarraju7452
    @aakankshasarraju7452 3 роки тому +301

    I actually gasped when I saw the last dress and I’ve never been so entranced by a wedding dress on a bride before, she is absolutely stunning.

  • @shaiknilu7035
    @shaiknilu7035 4 роки тому +2213

    Why don't other versions of SAY YES TO THE DRESS have as beautiful dresses as LANCASHIRE 🤷❤️❤️. Budget friendly and Classy!!

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 4 роки тому +31

      New shop, the other series are old and repeated

    • @thinkingbout
      @thinkingbout 4 роки тому +24

      @@jemmaj2919 But they are shopping for new sampledresses every year, so they could have a wider viarity of dresses in the other shops, too. I think one of the reasons may be the different cultural background, cause this is in GB and maybe through that more european while the others are more american? Also the demand for different type of dresses varies in different regions, so the shop owners buy dresses that they will probably sell in that region.

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 4 роки тому +13

      @@thinkingbout doesn't mean they have new recordings of these for us to see on youtube. Most ppl seem to love Randy's collections, these are newer recordings.

    • @thinkingbout
      @thinkingbout 4 роки тому +1

      @@jemmaj2919 Yes, you're right that could be an aspect, too!

    • @hallscroft
      @hallscroft 4 роки тому +1

      @@jemmaj2919 I don't think it's a new shop. It's Ava Rose Hamilton in Colne.

  • @nicolekarpov4037
    @nicolekarpov4037 3 роки тому +354

    Makes me wonder who treated her so badly that she lost her confidence:( she’s so beautiful and sweet

  • @xine91468
    @xine91468 4 роки тому +1821

    “Dr. Gok”.... psychologist. And best friend. And number one cheerleader.

  • @user-hp1yh1px6t
    @user-hp1yh1px6t 3 роки тому +275

    Gok doesn't just give you the dress you want, he gives you the dress you NEED

  • @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
    @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 4 роки тому +2653

    She says her budget is $5,000. Rather than try to gouge her like they do in Atlanta, UK and NYC, Auntie Gok has her try on dresses progressively less expensive and the final dress is well below 30% of her budget. THIS breeds trust!!!!!
    (Edit to add: When I say *"UK"* I'm speaking of *David* in "Say Yes to the Dress UK" (not Lancashire). No matter what budget the bride has, David *Always* picks dresses well above that.)

    • @ruthiglesias1563
      @ruthiglesias1563 4 роки тому +43

      It seems like the family and friends grab dresses with out checking prices in NYC and Atlanta. You can't blame the consultants for that.

    • @theelolicious9302
      @theelolicious9302 4 роки тому +46

      this is the UK.....

    • @mollytomlinson9431
      @mollytomlinson9431 4 роки тому +30

      This is the UK😂

    • @simatahery4523
      @simatahery4523 4 роки тому +10

      But this is the UK?

    • @sisib1389
      @sisib1389 4 роки тому +57

      @@theelolicious9302 There's another show called say yes to the dress UK this is say yes to the dress lancashire. He's not talking about it geographically

  • @crystalnavarro8006
    @crystalnavarro8006 3 роки тому +560

    I completely understand how she feels. I always feel like people are lying when they tell me I'm pretty or give me compliments. It's so hard to get past it.

    • @sailuna9195
      @sailuna9195 3 роки тому +32

      Everyone has beauty and I'm not saying we're all a 10 but we are beautiful, we have a very short life to live and we have to enjoy it and embrace our beauty, feeling beautiful is not arrogant, shallow or bad it's happiness, it's what encourage us to be healthy and treat other with kindness, so next time you get complement say thank you ❤️ cause you are beautiful

    • @JustD402
      @JustD402 3 роки тому +11

      your beautiful, you were born this way and you have human and realistic features. nobody is EVER going to
      look the same. you can do this, your gorgeous.

    • @mashakachan9213
      @mashakachan9213 3 роки тому +6

      You can do it ! Go girl! You can overcome it 🥰

    • @user-hx7mi7ml8u
      @user-hx7mi7ml8u 3 роки тому +1

      Why would people “lie” to you? How can you prove that people are just going around “lying” to others when they compliment them, what would be the purpose of that?

    • @crystalnavarro8006
      @crystalnavarro8006 3 роки тому +22

      @@user-hx7mi7ml8u when you've been mentally abused for most your life you find it hard to believe people when they say that

  • @lovepurple88
    @lovepurple88 4 роки тому +869

    I just hope the person who has made her feel like that about herself isn’t the person she is marrying.

    • @nellysmith6006
      @nellysmith6006 3 роки тому +29

      Was literally going to comment the same thing.

    • @veronicaleyba929
      @veronicaleyba929 2 роки тому +19

      I agree. She's really beautiful. Gok is fantastic.

    • @aileen694
      @aileen694 2 роки тому +17

      Love Purple88, Agreed! And this lovely woman could do with some proper therapy and the right antidepressant medication. Poor dear, to think she's starting off her marriage in this state of mind...

    • @barlowwe
      @barlowwe 2 роки тому +57

      Notice her mother isn’t part of her entourage.

    • @Du-Masses
      @Du-Masses 2 роки тому +28

      I know for a fact that women can do that to themselves with very little help because of impossible social standards…😭

  • @lisamarie7275
    @lisamarie7275 3 роки тому +359

    This lady is insane. EVERY single dress fits her body like a glove. Stunning. Totally jealous 😍

    • @danielleking262
      @danielleking262 3 роки тому +8

      Same!! I could not understand how she couldn't see how freakin' gorgeous she was! EVERY dress fit her like a model!!!

  • @kdragon713
    @kdragon713 4 роки тому +1684

    The store looks like a fairy tale. I love the unique dresses on the bride's.

  • @Stefaniaddison
    @Stefaniaddison 3 роки тому +138

    my heart hurt when she talked about how she was like "I want some of this gone, maybe get rid of this, if only I were like this....". She's beautiful.

  • @kdragon713
    @kdragon713 4 роки тому +1921

    I loved the last dress on her she was glowing. I'm glad she did not go for the safe one!

    • @wilmaknickersfit
      @wilmaknickersfit 4 роки тому +39

      She looked stunning in them all, but I drew breath with the 3rd dress.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 4 роки тому +30

      me too, i swear somehow he is hand-stitching these dresses from scratch for these brides because yet again he has found the PERFECT dress for this bride. every time gok puts that final dress on a bride, i gasp. he's just that good, it's amazing.

    • @bayunizar5295
      @bayunizar5295 4 роки тому +18

      And it just below 2000 euro. We cant find it in UK version

    • @JacobBlack2023
      @JacobBlack2023 3 роки тому +1

      what is the 3rd dresses name omg I love it so much!

  • @FashionMajor2012
    @FashionMajor2012 3 роки тому +128

    I swear Gok is a professional psychiatrist who specializes in helping brides feel as beautiful as they look. The shop is his office and dresses are his prescriptions.

  • @myrina6509
    @myrina6509 4 роки тому +1263

    MY JAW DROPPED WHEN I SAW HER IN THE LAST DRESS. BREATHTAKING.
    Ps: I wish insecure people could see how gorgeous they are and stop putting so much pressure on themselves about their looks.

    • @Ameechops
      @Ameechops 4 роки тому +23

      I literally said ‘oh my gosh!’ aloud! Which was a first for me. And I have watched endless hours of Say yes to the dress right from the first Kleinfeld episode. Usually when I see someone with a beautiful dress which they will eventually choose, I just smile and nod. But she looked drop dead gorgeous and Gok is truly the best there is. I won’t call him a consultant coz he is so much more than that! He must be such an amazing friend to have. Randy too! Both of them are simply n fabulously amazing!

    • @villanessa
      @villanessa 4 роки тому +3

      Me too

    • @samhex7312
      @samhex7312 4 роки тому +2

      Oop im insecure but that’s actually bc I’m ugly lol

    • @phoenixdavida8987
      @phoenixdavida8987 4 роки тому

      Agreed.

    • @kailyrose9127
      @kailyrose9127 4 роки тому

      I said WOWWWW

  • @lamar9331
    @lamar9331 3 роки тому +83

    I hope she's not being abused. She seems scared and intimidated.

  • @monikacrljen6827
    @monikacrljen6827 4 роки тому +1538

    My favourite thing about this comment section is that I haven't read one negative comment. And I'm loving it!

    • @Alexandra_Hill
      @Alexandra_Hill 4 роки тому +3

      me too!

    • @joyfuljaj
      @joyfuljaj 3 роки тому +9

      Gok brings out the good in all of us!

    • @jenniferbond7073
      @jenniferbond7073 3 роки тому +4

      Only about other locations specifically David. I don’t like him much, he always picks above budget and is very pretentious. Plus usually just brings the same 3 Dando dresses. Got is the opposite, like a trusted BFF!love him!

    • @monikacrljen6827
      @monikacrljen6827 3 роки тому

      Agreed

    • @monikacrljen6827
      @monikacrljen6827 3 роки тому +1

      @Elisabetta wasn't waiting for a negative comment. And the fact that you felt it was necessary to provide one speaks volumes about your character.
      Have a nice day.

  • @brittneylove95
    @brittneylove95 3 роки тому +124

    The big giggle when she’s finally found a dress she likes makes me so happy☺️

  • @TemplePriestess
    @TemplePriestess 4 роки тому +633

    7:25 “It’s weird how someone can get in your bones just after a few hours and really learn who you are and what you’re about.” She described Gok perfectly. That’s why he is so amazing in helping a bride find the perfect dress. He’s literally an angel. 😇

  • @anee7558
    @anee7558 3 роки тому +116

    i usually never cry for wedding dresses, especially when i don't even know the person and i'm not from a culture that has wedding dresses, but what i do know is how she feels when she thinks she isnt beautiful, and when she apologises for being hard work, and when she's insecure and pulls herself down. i do that every single day and it's so exhausting, so seeing someone so beautiful finally look at herself in a dress and be that happy really got the tears flowing. im so SO happy for her

    • @shershan254
      @shershan254 3 роки тому +3

      I'm sure you're amazing. Wish I knew you I'd definitely give you a hug and take you out for spa day.

    • @danielleking262
      @danielleking262 3 роки тому +2

      I started crying too at the last dress and so heartbreaking she could not see herself so beautiful with the others!!

  • @DeannaBrownlee
    @DeannaBrownlee 4 роки тому +456

    She honestly looked like a model in a bridal magazine in every single dress she had on! The poor girl has probably been through too much trauma. But I'm glad she found the dress that makes her feel every bit as lovely as she is.

  • @betweenus2821
    @betweenus2821 3 роки тому +159

    She looks INCREDIBLE in the dress Gok chose. I went “wow” in front of the screen

  • @tastymedleys
    @tastymedleys 4 роки тому +590

    The "plain" dress looked stunning on her already, but damn, the one Gok came up with looked like it was made for her, just sensational.

    • @HeronCoyote1234
      @HeronCoyote1234 3 роки тому +5

      That’s exactly what I was thinking. The third one was perfect. But then she tried on the fourth one. Oh my gawd wow!!!

  • @surlygale1082
    @surlygale1082 3 роки тому +83

    I'm just noticing how intently Gok watches the bride's face when she first looks in the mirror. He's simply lovely.

  • @Ellainthegarden
    @Ellainthegarden 4 роки тому +370

    Oh my gosh this shop is like an enchanted forest. All the dresses hanging up look like snow covered pine trees.

    • @georgielancaster1356
      @georgielancaster1356 2 роки тому

      That makes these girls all Nicholas Alkemade miracles.
      Have a google to read his story in WW2, but basically, his bomber was going down, he was 19, his parachute was damaged. He had to decide if he would go with the plane and blow up or jump, at 20,000 feet, and splat.
      He stepped out of the bomber, as he got closer to the ground, he passed out in terror. He didn't guide himself, he was unconscious.
      It was winter, he miraculously fell between two fir trees, spaced perfectly, apart. The branches were weighed down by snow, each cross of branches slowed him more
      A metre either way, might have cut him in half.
      He woke between the 2 trees, in a gully full of snow, convinced he was dead. His first thought was this must be heaven I have to be dead. But why is heaven so cold and wet?
      He spent the rest of the war as a POW. His grandson was a chef last time I heard.
      So the thought that those wedding dresses were like snow covered trees, made me think of that extraordinary WW2 story. In a way, those dresses pull off little miracles in Gok's hands...

  • @n_n3535
    @n_n3535 3 роки тому +51

    "It's weird how someone can get in your bones just after few hours" that literally what he does which is mind blowing about him I LOVE HIM

  • @Waggers789
    @Waggers789 4 роки тому +1050

    I can identify with her, I’m the same. If someone saying I look nice I don’t believe them. I know it’s something I need to change. Probably the reason I’m still single. But she looks stunning in that last dress.

    • @shorty2544
      @shorty2544 4 роки тому +31

      Same tho, we all need to work on ourselves

    • @sylvias1546
      @sylvias1546 4 роки тому +56

      Honey, try going to therapy, it helped me so much. You need to be freed from the voices in your head. ❤️

    • @seannarodriguez2226
      @seannarodriguez2226 4 роки тому +9

      I get it. That's me too

    • @sasha8641
      @sasha8641 4 роки тому +9

      I feel the same

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 4 роки тому +60

      I used to feel the same, one day I looked in the mirror for a long time, and thought why? Why do I feel that way? For how long do I want to feel and be like that? You only have one life. You can't spend it in doubt. Then I started to google for "what makes someone appealing when they aren't nice looking" and the answer was always "confidence"... Then I looked for "how to look confident" then I faked it until I made it!

  • @masuganut2082
    @masuganut2082 3 роки тому +87

    Gok just has an absolute talent
    Not just for picking dresses but he seems to just be able to understand these brides and help them on a deeper level
    He’s amazing
    Cinderella didn’t need a fairy godmother.... she needed Gok. Finding the perfect dress and gaining the confidence and self love needed for a happy life!

    • @lightofeyezz
      @lightofeyezz 3 роки тому +2

      What do you mean Gok is fairy godmotherr

  • @allthatvrjazz
    @allthatvrjazz 4 роки тому +853

    This girl is beautiful! Such a shame her own mind won't let her see that. If I had a body like her, my dress would prob be completely sheer XD

    • @YT4Me57
      @YT4Me57 4 роки тому +14

      LOL!

    • @bhagya1985
      @bhagya1985 4 роки тому +16

      hahaha made me laugh

    • @isabellarose6514
      @isabellarose6514 3 роки тому +1

      Ewww, how about your dad or brothers and uncles.🤢🤢

    • @enaj1632
      @enaj1632 3 роки тому +22

      @@isabellarose6514 take the joke woman

    • @isabellarose6514
      @isabellarose6514 3 роки тому +1

      @@enaj1632 take my joke Ena

  • @renecahoneyghan7713
    @renecahoneyghan7713 3 роки тому +71

    It pains my heart to see such a beautiful bride that is so hard to accept compliments 😔
    I hope 🤞🏾 she gets the confidence she needs and also keep it.

  • @ebenschoter
    @ebenschoter 4 роки тому +316

    she looks like the type of bride that doesn’t want to talks abt the fact that she’s self conscious and that’s why she’s quiet but she’s a beautiful bride 🥺✨

  • @MissMisnomer_
    @MissMisnomer_ 2 роки тому +32

    My jaw dropped when they revealed the last one, she looked absolutely STUNNING and Gok is a national treasure for understanding her so well and just CARING so much

  • @vickyarnuco3257
    @vickyarnuco3257 4 роки тому +359

    Gok is a fairy godmother irl. I mean, he genuinely cares for the bride and you know that it’s not just for show. I love Gok!!!!!

  • @iminspainwithoutthes6747
    @iminspainwithoutthes6747 3 роки тому +14

    The way she walked out on that last dress screamed so much self confidence. Like her entire aura screams, "Gosh I'm beautiful and I know it"

  • @laurachauvin2592
    @laurachauvin2592 4 роки тому +154

    I wish this woman much healing.

  • @marisa1637
    @marisa1637 4 роки тому +64

    2 things:
    1) Gok should be paid extra for his skills as a therapist
    2) Not only is she beautiful on the outside, you can really feel how beautiful her character is on the inside

  • @washurhands5079
    @washurhands5079 4 роки тому +179

    I have to start saving money so I can see Gok when my day comes to pick a wedding dress. I need his pep talks

    • @babawali3021
      @babawali3021 4 роки тому +11

      Go for it! Put that dream on page 1 of your bucket list (in the Top 10) and make it come true!

    • @washurhands5079
      @washurhands5079 4 роки тому +3

      Babawali thank you for the positivity! Wish you the best

  • @heidiquayle5054
    @heidiquayle5054 3 роки тому +6

    I'm crying because she is so so beautiful and it's so sad she doesn't see it . How lovely to see her truly smile. Gok always knows the perfect one! I just don't feel beautiful ever but I feel like he would know how to make anyone see their best features. He's such a sweet and insightful guy. Good on ya!

  • @seannarodriguez2226
    @seannarodriguez2226 4 роки тому +315

    Damn, as a girl in high school still, it was heartbreaking to see all of my issues that I have inside her. This actually made me see what's wrong with thinking that way. I hope she finally sees how beautiful she is, because I'm personally still working on it.

    • @babawali3021
      @babawali3021 4 роки тому +20

      Good for you for working on it. What a great way to gain positivity and self-confidence! 🥰🥰 Best wishes on your journey.

    • @lucinda2329
      @lucinda2329 4 роки тому +4

      ❤️ ~✿~❧~🌿~❧~✿~ ❤️

    • @georgina-a
      @georgina-a 3 роки тому +5

      I'm so sorry to read that you've been struggling with your self esteem. I'd heartily recommend that you look up Gok Wan's work, as I think it might really help you (he's written books, articles, and done a lot of TV work). He has spent years helping women to feel good about themselves and he did a TV series a while back called 'Gok’s Teens: The Naked Truth' that you might find particularly interesting, as it focused on teens with self esteem issues, with Gok helping them to see themselves differently.
      He is quoted as saying that "self confidence isn't waking up and loving everything about yourself - it's waking up and not hating any part of yourself". That's easier said than done as a teen, I know, but it's a very liberating mindset. I felt very similarly to how you describe at your age, but I promise you that it does get better. You get to a stage in your life where you stop caring about what other people think - because none of them are perfect, either - and focus more on what makes you happy and what is right. My biggest piece of advice to you, though, would be to never put up with other people's negativity. If someone plays on your insecurities or tries to bring you down then they don't have your best interests at heart, so they haven't earned the right to be part of your life. Refusing to accept negativity was a game-changer for me, and I hope it can be for you, too.
      Wishing you all the very best x

    • @donnamarievalentine1156
      @donnamarievalentine1156 3 роки тому +4

      @@georgina-a I was so uplifted by what you wrote! Thank you for sharing that for this young girl and for all of us!

    • @georgina-a
      @georgina-a 3 роки тому +2

      @@donnamarievalentine1156 Thank you for your kind words. I'm so pleased that I was able to help!
      Keep smiling x

  • @Quantum36911
    @Quantum36911 3 роки тому +8

    She is an absolute goddess! Low-self-esteem is a terrible thing... I hope she knows how special she is, on the inside as well, a lovely person. My jaw literally dropped for the last dress! Gok is a genius!

  • @tasleem5677
    @tasleem5677 4 роки тому +305

    David Emmanuel can learn from Gok. He is awful. Gok offers a very wide variety of beautiful wedding gowns with reasonable price. He is respectful of bride's budget.

    • @johnnabuzby6103
      @johnnabuzby6103 4 роки тому +22

      Not to mention that Auntie Gok isn't so haughty and full of himself like David Emanuel is. David Emanuel is my least favorite stylist/designer in the whole series of SYTTD.

    • @shalakaj523
      @shalakaj523 3 роки тому +2

      @@johnnabuzby6103 absolutely! and he looks to create drama instead of resolving the clients issues.

  • @freyakitty2824
    @freyakitty2824 3 роки тому +9

    Very rarely do I see a bride put on a dress that takes my breath away. This was one exception and had me tearing up. She looked amazing! The more I watch Gok, the more I love him. He gets his brides and it shows.

  • @rivertam7827
    @rivertam7827 4 роки тому +161

    Damn she has a perfect figure and looks stunning in all the dresses, but that last one is superb. Aunty Gok does it again.

  • @chenaraseepersad3482
    @chenaraseepersad3482 3 роки тому +14

    She’s so beautiful with so much sadness inside, I hope she can appreciate her beauty one day. The last dress I gasped it was absolutely stunnin’

  • @carm90
    @carm90 4 роки тому +129

    I love Gok. He always picks the best dresses for every bride and always considers their body type and budget.

  • @Kisozriel
    @Kisozriel 3 роки тому +14

    I absolutely love Gok, he makes every bride who lacks confidence feel themselves by the end of their time together and it warms my heart everytime.

  • @اللهمستركوعفوكوعافيتك

    I love how Gok helped her through the process, and made her feel good about herself, unlike other consultants I have seen so far, who like drown the bride and put pressure on her! He made a sale and helped a woman with her self-esteem.. mad respect for Gok ❤️

  • @ninas2279
    @ninas2279 3 роки тому +11

    I don’t ever really say wow or open my mouth with awe when I watch a lot of these shows but the last dress I actually said out loud a quiet “wow” to myself. Gok is a very special person. He’s so genuinely caring it’s so nice to watch him 🤍

  • @anjalidiwakar880
    @anjalidiwakar880 4 роки тому +125

    "When people give me compliments..i really cant take it on overboard"....so relatable

  • @AbigailRTeh
    @AbigailRTeh 3 роки тому +27

    The progression of the dresses -- too much, too much, too plain, just stunning. Made her see what she needed to see

  • @greenfoliage
    @greenfoliage 4 роки тому +341

    I see Gok, i click

  • @judithajoku8
    @judithajoku8 3 роки тому +5

    Love the way he said “ get that dress of “ and walked out .... in love with this man

  • @youneedjinsus8656
    @youneedjinsus8656 4 роки тому +67

    the moment they showed the bride in that final dress, I was like "oh Gok...🥺" This man is love 🥺♥️

  • @thandiwolfe813
    @thandiwolfe813 3 роки тому +14

    I love how Gok listens to what his clients want and works with their budget. He does everything he can to get the bride what she wants without breaking the bank. I don’t think I’ve heard him say a single negative thing about a bride’s choices or behaviour.

  • @mohammedashfaqamin
    @mohammedashfaqamin 4 роки тому +111

    I remember years ago in summer I went out and I have a scare on my leg from a accident...so I wore leg warmer (same color has my skirt n boobtube) I was paranoid all day...I felt silly legwarmer in hot summer,but I couldn't stand my scare to be shown....I was out and gok was in the same bar he actualy came over to me and said you look fabulous and loved what I was wearing .and those words lifted my spirits and I didnt care what people thought...fashion guru said I looked fab n I did....

    • @johnnabuzby6103
      @johnnabuzby6103 4 роки тому +6

      Scar*. The word you were using is scare, as in scared 😱 out of your wits.
      I'm so jealous that you got to meet Gok in person! You're so lucky! I love 💘 Auntie Gok and would love 💘 💗 to meet him. I could use some of his encouraging words and confidence boosting pep talks. He is the best!

    • @mohammedashfaqamin
      @mohammedashfaqamin 4 роки тому +5

      I think it was autocorrect that did that but thanks anyway

    • @johnnabuzby6103
      @johnnabuzby6103 4 роки тому +2

      @@mohammedashfaqamin You're welcome. I hate when autocorrect thinks it knows better than us.

    • @arvi8843
      @arvi8843 3 роки тому +4

      Lucky you! 🥰

  • @anwesha_bee
    @anwesha_bee 3 роки тому +7

    When she put on the gown that wasn’t shown to her, I cried. She looked breathtakingly gorgeous. I can feel her anxiousness- but the way she overcame it in that dress, it’s her confidence that she wore the best. It’s beautiful and what’s more beautiful is how Gok was so nice and supportive and helped her gain her confidence.

  • @sophitsa79
    @sophitsa79 4 роки тому +75

    This woman seems really lovely and a bit vulnerable. I hope her husband is as lovely and is supportive.
    I need more Gok in my life. I adore him.

    • @regularity2556
      @regularity2556 4 роки тому +3

      It's unlikely that he is.
      Vulnerable people often attract abusers and she seems like an abused woman

    • @sophitsa79
      @sophitsa79 4 роки тому +1

      @@regularity2556 yeah. I worried for her. I really hope she's very lucky in her marriage, and is well supported by friends and family.

    • @iqusamakun
      @iqusamakun 3 роки тому

      @@regularity2556 i was thinking the exact same thing i think her issue is the cause of her ex or current partner

  • @juanitam1643
    @juanitam1643 3 роки тому +6

    She is stunning in every dress she tried on but I absolutely love the one she ultimately chose. Gok and his consultants are so kind & patient & demonstrate so much compassion.
    Love him❤️

  • @zabindhanji
    @zabindhanji 4 роки тому +88

    Gok is magic. I absolutely LOVE the dress she finally chose. She looked gorgeous in all of them but the final dress was divine. I don't think I have ever seen anything like it (and I have watched this show for years). Like another person commented, he could have just let her have her 'safe' dress, but he didn't. He wanted her to look and feel like the best version of herself...and he succeeded. He has a gift from God. I also have to say the same for Randy. God bless them.

  • @sonjadonovan2016
    @sonjadonovan2016 3 роки тому +5

    This got me crying...I felt for her the entire time! I was brought up with my father always putting me down, never ever saying I was pretty, always criticizing...so I totally got her not seeing what everyone else saw, a beautiful and stunning woman, denying herself. When she saw herself in THE dress and realized her own beauty I was crying hard cause I was SO HAPPY for her. Gok is such am empath...he understands peoples' minds. Just amazing to watch each and every time...BRAVO GOK!!! 👏💕

  • @ayuuhhh
    @ayuuhhh 4 роки тому +115

    I just love Gok so much i wish i could give him the biggest hug ever

    • @hezelgee6012
      @hezelgee6012 4 роки тому +7

      There's something so genuine and special about him... He is really a super counsellor, who understands and connects with women's deepest insecurities and fears. Sales are never put above the feelings of the brides. Rather, the gorgeous gowns are simply a means to an end, which is the happy, confident brides. I think Gok is an Empath! 😘

  • @alymq
    @alymq 3 роки тому +5

    This is the cutest bride i've ever seen. I hope she's living happily now

  • @faithhope4088
    @faithhope4088 4 роки тому +77

    If you want to make an entrance at your wedding make sure you are getting your wedding gowns from Lancashire.. and cherry on top is GOK's wisdom of course...

  • @asiamiwillbe
    @asiamiwillbe 3 роки тому +5

    This isn't only a place to find wedding dresses it's also somewhere u find yourself. This is therapy....

  • @ningduanguangliur.panmei9317
    @ningduanguangliur.panmei9317 4 роки тому +184

    Gok 💓💓
    When people are not satisfied with themselves and started modifying their bodies, it is heart breaking. And the insecurities in her is overwhelming. Hope she is happy.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 4 роки тому +11

      honestly, i wish i could strip her down to what she looked like at 18 and build her up from there. the plastic surgery, the fake tan, the makeup, she doesn't need any of it.

    • @rhs2881
      @rhs2881 4 роки тому +2

      She's done herself up yo look like Angelina Jolie but I bet she was prettier to begin with.!

    • @johnnabuzby6103
      @johnnabuzby6103 4 роки тому

      @@rhs2881 I didn't see Angelina Jolie in her looks...

    • @johnnabuzby6103
      @johnnabuzby6103 4 роки тому +2

      @@dietotaku Those false eyelashes have gotta go.

  • @maxxitee4761
    @maxxitee4761 2 роки тому +3

    This is the first video that made me tear up , and I have seen many. I actually cried with her friends because I see their recognition of her struggles with her inner self. And to see her overjoyed was such a blessing

  • @YT4Me57
    @YT4Me57 4 роки тому +20

    Every dress she tried on fit her like 'butter'. She's got an incredible shape, her color compliments the white of the dresses, she has ALL the things. She just needed Gok!

  • @TheJudiBambiPurrsParadox
    @TheJudiBambiPurrsParadox 10 місяців тому +1

    *Gok is magic. He doesn't just see the figure and the desires....he sees the other person inside, and coaxes them out where they shine from inside and outside.*

  • @alfiona7951
    @alfiona7951 4 роки тому +94

    The fact that Gok just steals the show. He makes every bride feel so special. He gave her such a confidence boost. It's so sweet.

  • @catzenhouse
    @catzenhouse Рік тому +1

    This man has such a gift. Wonderful staff and establishment. Comforting, caring, supportive, and not over the top drama.

  • @caledoniabeautifuleden8584
    @caledoniabeautifuleden8584 4 роки тому +74

    Gok is wonderful, I loved his show years ago when he would take women with low self esteem, give them a makeover and eventually get them to pose for a glamorous photo shoot! Gok has a gift for seeing inside a woman, to her very sense of self, he can sense their insecurities and he is amazing at healing and rebuilding that woman from the inside out! Gok is an incredible human being and as wonderful as watching him on this show is, he really deserves his own show again, doing what he does best - helping women to love their bodies from the inside out!

  • @goldenchocolat
    @goldenchocolat 3 роки тому +4

    This was the most beautiful episode I watched of SYTTD - the bride is so beautiful and looked ABSOLUTELY stunning in every single dress! But on the last one I went „WOW“ in front of the screen… Gok picked very well.

  • @morganharmsen5158
    @morganharmsen5158 4 роки тому +32

    I literally gasped out loud when I saw her in that last dress; sooooo gorgeous on her!!

  • @emmab508
    @emmab508 3 роки тому +7

    Gok is amazing; I love that he focuses on making the bride feel absolutely comforted and beautiful

  • @trishapark6841
    @trishapark6841 4 роки тому +29

    She looks absolutely amazing in all of the dresses, but the last one is just breathtaking!! As usual, Auntie Gok has magical powers to connect to the brides! (And also I have noticed, Lancashire is the only place that customizes the fit of sample dresses during fittings and not just uses those clamps things at the back! That makes the dresses look so much more beautiful and tailor fit for each bride!)

  • @samaeldeul572
    @samaeldeul572 3 роки тому +13

    Gok is my absolute favourite in this show!!! He's amazing!

  • @ariebombariearupa1322
    @ariebombariearupa1322 4 роки тому +38

    You are your worst enemy. That’s deep. Thank you Gok 🙏🏾

  • @sincerelykayyy
    @sincerelykayyy 3 роки тому +15

    I just want to give her a hug! She’s such a beautiful young woman. But I definitely can relate to the mental framing she struggles with.

  • @chithra_lakshmi
    @chithra_lakshmi 4 роки тому +18

    Gok literally have the same type of dress in multiple forms.... with bling ,without bling or lace , u name it they have it😍😍😍

  • @leoness6925
    @leoness6925 3 роки тому +6

    Goks definitely my favorite... He's just amazing, the way he talks is full of empathy!
    His vibe is positively lovely

  • @diannebernau3293
    @diannebernau3293 4 роки тому +31

    What a beautiful girl and every dress looked stunning on her - that style really suited her body shape. It is a shame she is so self-conscious and lacking in confidence. She hit the jackpot having Gok as her consultant. He could charm a snail out of its shell!!! 💕🇦🇺

  • @dogmom2023
    @dogmom2023 2 роки тому +1

    Okay this one had me crying she is the most gorgeous bride I've ever seen in my life and Gok you are so awesome.

  • @gabykappscomposermariagabr749
    @gabykappscomposermariagabr749 4 роки тому +18

    The most beautiful wedding gowns at the best prices. Absolutely. And no forcing one designer over another. It's just what's best for the bride, and Gok is truly a jewel. Bravo SYTTD Lancashire. You've won the trophy for me.

  • @EVERGLOW828
    @EVERGLOW828 Місяць тому

    I can see how much Gok not only has such passion for his profession but the utmost joy of seeing someone glow. Like he can see the beauty within a person and bring it out. ❤

  • @fascienneskytten5497
    @fascienneskytten5497 4 роки тому +62

    this is the most quiet Say Yes to The Dress i've watched. love her

    • @danielleking262
      @danielleking262 3 роки тому +1

      ikr I was just thinking she is the most quiet timid bride I think I've ever seen on this show

  • @CoachAshley1983
    @CoachAshley1983 2 роки тому +1

    It goes to show that we ALL have body image & self-esteem issues. I would give anything to look like her, but after having been both heavy & skinny, I know we are always finding fault within ourselves. I'm so glad he took the time to understand her and she was able to find the most perfect dress. She is incredibly gorgeous!🤩