He abandoned me at 5 months pregnant. 5 years ago he apologized and supports her.

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  • @tums2254
    @tums2254 3 місяці тому +32

    I am so glad it is working out for the benefit of your daughter.

    • @HelenaPaschal
      @HelenaPaschal  3 місяці тому +4

      Thank you! I wanted him to build a father-daughter relationship with her, and I've noticed a positive improvement in her confidence and self-esteem.

    • @_____snake
      @_____snake 3 місяці тому +1

      @@HelenaPaschalthat’s amazing!!

    • @sharita7270
      @sharita7270 3 місяці тому

      Daddy daughter relationships are vitally important!!! So glad you all are working at being the best you for her❤

    • @AudreyMEllis
      @AudreyMEllis 3 місяці тому

      Rare 😊

  • @veliciawilliams1018
    @veliciawilliams1018 3 місяці тому +1

    That is beautiful. You may not be married, but your daughter is still watching and learning from both of her parents. Effective co-parenting helps her so much. Well done .🎉🎉🎉

  • @marquettathomas7383
    @marquettathomas7383 2 місяці тому

    OMG this brings tears to my eyes literally!!!! Sssooooooo very happy for the three of you! Mainly the 2 of you. You deserve the help and she deserves to get to know her Dad! Not knowing or feeling abandoned by the other parent can really take a toll on a child! LOVE this!!! ❤

  • @kimwilliams2212
    @kimwilliams2212 3 місяці тому +13

    Glad to hear this 🎉🎉

  • @mekm2632
    @mekm2632 3 місяці тому +4

    Good job, Mom and Dad!

  • @dawnwalton1099
    @dawnwalton1099 3 місяці тому +1

    I am sooooo thankful that my children are now all grown and they can communicate with their father and I don’t have to. Our communication skills were horrible until my youngest son got sick. That’s when we pretended to tolerate being around one another. There were moments that we had to work together for his treatment and we did for his sake. But believe me it was a miracle that made us cooperate cordially through it all.

  • @YamairaCampos2018
    @YamairaCampos2018 3 місяці тому +4

    Unfortunately with my bouns babies mother not good 😐 still trying to work on it... it's great to hear good co parents letting the world know it can be done

    • @HelenaPaschal
      @HelenaPaschal  3 місяці тому +3

      I understand. It can be very challenging...it takes time, prayer, boundaries and a lot of communication. Sending positive thoughts your way.

  • @bellhollywood
    @bellhollywood 2 місяці тому

    I never had it like that. But its all good now. I had to deal with a lot of low sown dirty evil crap. I managed to stay out of jail. I have a solid bond with my child. And that child support check getting cut off in a few more months.😂 But my child knows all they have to do is pick up the phone of they need anything.

  • @AudreyMEllis
    @AudreyMEllis 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing 😊

  • @NeenaWynett
    @NeenaWynett 3 місяці тому +2

    How did you like Texas ? And would you move back one day?

    • @HelenaPaschal
      @HelenaPaschal  3 місяці тому +1

      I really enjoyed my time in Texas! The people were friendly, and there was always something interesting to do. As for moving back, I don't plan on it. I fostered relationships in Georgia over the course of 20 years, and it's hard to build that type of support system all over. It has nothing to do with Texas. It's worth going if you're debating on it.

    • @NeenaWynett
      @NeenaWynett 3 місяці тому

      @@HelenaPaschal Thank you!

  • @ComevlogwitTiffanyD
    @ComevlogwitTiffanyD 3 місяці тому

    Omg, I didnt know you moved back 😢

  • @itsemeinin
    @itsemeinin 3 місяці тому +3

    Clearly neither of you has a new spouse. That’s usually where the problem lies.

    • @HelenaPaschal
      @HelenaPaschal  3 місяці тому +6

      He is married. She wants him to be active in our daughter's life.

  • @FemLez
    @FemLez 3 місяці тому +3

    Are yall getting back together now that yall have involved?

    • @HelenaPaschal
      @HelenaPaschal  3 місяці тому +11

      Did you read the caption? No ma'am...he abandoned me at 5 months pregnant. It's all about raising our daughter.

    • @danieallen5609
      @danieallen5609 3 місяці тому

      ​@@HelenaPaschalSo I have a question that may seem dumb but if you don't trust him why would you send your daughter there 5 days a week?

    • @HelenaPaschal
      @HelenaPaschal  3 місяці тому +7

      @@danieallen5609 I trust him as her father. I don't trust being in a relationship with him again. Over the course of 5 years, he has been consistent, concerned and caring towards her. He also has a woman and daughter and they all get along.

    • @danieallen5609
      @danieallen5609 3 місяці тому +1

      @@HelenaPaschal Thank you for responding. Were you guys married?

    • @HelenaPaschal
      @HelenaPaschal  3 місяці тому +1

      @@danieallen5609 we were engaged. He married the woman he cheated on me with and abandoned me for. This was not an easy process so where we're at now as far as respect and communication is a miracle!

  • @CherishHeard
    @CherishHeard 3 місяці тому

    Why did he abandon you

    • @HelenaPaschal
      @HelenaPaschal  3 місяці тому +4

      There is never a good reason to abandon a pregnant woman. The realization overwhelmed him…he wasn’t ready to be a dad and left.